Today is the Season 10 Finale! And, we’re getting through as many of your questions as possible. All bets are off. There are no filters. Here we go!

Today is the Season 10 Finale! And, we’re getting through as many of your questions as possible. All bets are off. There are no filters. Here we go!

Rapid Fire…Your Questions Answered!

This is definitely one of those episodes where the point is that we all know we’re not alone! Dating in church can be just plain weird sometimes. There are so many pitfalls and awkward situations that are uniquely Christian. Today, we’re diving into all the weirdness, and while we may not actually solve anything, we will definitely all leave feeling decidedly less alone.

This is definitely one of those episodes where the point is that we all know we’re not alone! Dating in church can be just plain weird sometimes. There are so many pitfalls and awkward situations that are uniquely Christian. Today, we’re diving into all the weirdness, and while we may not actually solve anything, we will definitely all leave feeling decidedly less alone.

Dating in Church… the Good, the Bad, and the Weird

This episode has been in the works for a few seasons now! We wanted to give it the preparation and thought it deserved… so, now, we’re jumping in and tackling this topic with the book of Proverbs as our jumping off point. We’re looking at the Proverbs 31 woman and then the Proverbs 1-30 man too!

This episode has been in the works for a few seasons now! We wanted to give it the preparation and thought it deserved… so, now, we’re jumping in and tackling this topic with the book of Proverbs as our jumping off point. We’re looking at the Proverbs 31 woman and then the Proverbs 1-30 man too!

Biblical Manhood and Womanhood… Through the Lens of Proverbs

Whether you’re the one being set up, or the one doing the setting up… we’ve been on both sides of this delicate topic and we’re talking about the whole process from start to finish from both sides!

Whether you’re the one being set up, or the one doing the setting up… we’ve been on both sides of this delicate topic and we’re talking about the whole process from start to finish from both sides!

The Art of the Set-Up

Do you ever look back and wish you had been able to tell the younger version of yourself that everything would be ok? Or, maybe you want to tell yourself to snap out of it and get your act together? Here’s what we would have told ourselves if we had that chance!

Do you ever look back and wish you had been able to tell the younger version of yourself that everything would be ok? Or, maybe you want to tell yourself to snap out of it and get your act together? Here’s what we would have told ourselves if we had that chance!

Letters to My Younger Self on Dating

Dalton has been a bit under the weather and we haven’t been able to record this week. We’ll be back next week with our next new episode, but until then, here’s one of your favorites for you to listen to again!  Oh, those early, awkward, unsure dates.... they're the worst, right? Please tell me I'm not the only one?! One thing that has made all the difference for me is know what to expect going into them. What to expect of the guy AND the date. Today, Dalton and I are talking about what are reasonable and unreasonable expectations to have going into those first few dates with someone new.

Dalton has been a bit under the weather and we haven’t been able to record this week. We’ll be back next week with our next new episode, but until then, here’s one of your favorites for you to listen to again!  Oh, those early, awkward, unsure dates.... they're the worst, right? Please tell me I'm not the only one?! One thing that has made all the difference for me is know what to expect going into them. What to expect of the guy AND the date. Today, Dalton and I are talking about what are reasonable and unreasonable expectations to have going into those first few dates with someone new.

LFTM Revisited: Early Date Expectations

We talk (and complain) a lot about how dating is a complicated and convoluted process and that you don’t want to complicate it more. But, we don’t really talk all that much about how to actually simplify the process. So, let’s do that today!

We talk (and complain) a lot about how dating is a complicated and convoluted process and that you don’t want to complicate it more. But, we don’t really talk all that much about how to actually simplify the process. So, let’s do that today!

How to Simplify Dating

Do you ever feel like there’s something missing in your life and if you could just have that one thing, then your life would be better? Complete, even? It’s so easy to push aside the satisfaction and contentment we should look for from Christ and put “things” into that place instead. Sometimes it seems like God doesn’t even understand what it is that you’re walking through. We get it. We’ve been there. We are there. This week’s episode is a little more raw, we’re talking the walls down and speaking from the heart today.

Do you ever feel like there’s something missing in your life and if you could just have that one thing, then your life would be better? Complete, even? It’s so easy to push aside the satisfaction and contentment we should look for from Christ and put “things” into that place instead. Sometimes it seems like God doesn’t even understand what it is that you’re walking through. We get it. We’ve been there. We are there. This week’s episode is a little more raw, we’re talking the walls down and speaking from the heart today.

If I Just Had ______________, My Life Would Be Better

That is the question... Today we’re looking at lots of different scenarios along a dating timeline and discussing whether or not it’s a good idea to pray with your significant other and for your significant other in those scenarios. This is a really sensitive topic and we’re trying to do it justice, while still being clear and offering a Biblical perspective.

That is the question... Today we’re looking at lots of different scenarios along a dating timeline and discussing whether or not it’s a good idea to pray with your significant other and for your significant other in those scenarios. This is a really sensitive topic and we’re trying to do it justice, while still being clear and offering a Biblical perspective.

To Pray or Not to Pray

Why is it that everyone wants clarity in dating and at the same time everyone also feels like clarity is greatly lacking in dating? If everyone wants clarity, and yet no-one’s getting clarity, we have a problem on our hands, right? This week, we’re taking a look at why clarity is so important, what some of the major hindrances to it in dating, and what to do about it!

Why is it that everyone wants clarity in dating and at the same time everyone also feels like clarity is greatly lacking in dating? If everyone wants clarity, and yet no-one’s getting clarity, we have a problem on our hands, right? This week, we’re taking a look at why clarity is so important, what some of the major hindrances to it in dating, and what to do about it!

Why Is Clarity a Four-Letter Word in Dating?

The Christian’s Guide To Modern Dating.

I discovered this podcast a few weeks ago and I am obsessed with it!  These godly ladies are an absolute joy to listen to and keep me laughing the whole time. I have learned so much and I feel like I’m just sitting on the couch chatting with my best friends. I have never felt less alone in my season of singleness because of these 2.

My New Besties

I’m still on season one. I just love these two Ladies and I dont even know them. You can just hear the love they have for Christ and the love they have for others who are in this waiting period of being single and christian. Their knowledge and thoughts and opinions have really helped me realize and re-affirm that I am on the right track in my singleness. I have learned a lot from them as well. Their encouragement keeps me centered in Christ and has helped me stay hopeful for the future. Great job you two!

So great!

Looking For The Middle: The Christian’s Guide to Modern Dating

Hey Everyone! We are really excited *shocker* to be in Duluth, GA this Friday for a roundtable discussion about dating in the 21st century as a Christian. If you're local, feel free to join us! You can email us for the details. 

Hey Everyone! We are really excited *shocker* to be in Duluth, GA this Friday for a roundtable discussion about dating in the 21st century as a Christian. If you're local, feel free to join us! You can email us for the details.

Roundtable Discussion on Modern Christian Dating &amp; Relationships 

In today's episode, we've got a list for you going into 10 ways to tell if the guy you're dating, or thinking about dating, is a keeper. Everything from does he make you laugh to does he point you to Jesus... 

In today's episode, we've got a list for you going into 10 ways to tell if the guy you're dating, or thinking about dating, is a keeper. Everything from does he make you laugh to does he point you to Jesus...

How to Know if He's a Keeper

Ok here it is... the sex talk. You've asked and now we're answering! We are asked on a regular basis how far is too far to go with my boyfriend? What standards or boundaries should we have? What's ok and what isn't? We know there is a lot of confusion out there because there are soooo many different opinions and views on this. We try to take this question and add some clarity and encouragement to an issue that can be frustrating and confusing.

Ok here it is... the sex talk. You've asked and now we're answering! We are asked on a regular basis how far is too far to go with my boyfriend? What standards or boundaries should we have? What's ok and what isn't? We know there is a lot of confusion out there because there are soooo many different opinions and views on this. We try to take this question and add some clarity and encouragement to an issue that can be frustrating and confusing.

How Far is Too Far?

We have had so many great conversations since our Men Tell All series finished up and we thought we'd share some of our takeaways with you guys too! Happy New Year - Enjoy! 

We have had so many great conversations since our Men Tell All series finished up and we thought we'd share some of our takeaways with you guys too! Happy New Year - Enjoy!

Bonus: Men Tell All Reflections

This week's episode is not what we had originally planned... we've been getting so many questions about flirting lately though that we bumped our original episode into next season and we're talking about flirting right here and now. This is a combination of answering your questions CouchCast style and then a regular episode all in one. Enjoy! :)

This week's episode is not what we had originally planned... we've been getting so many questions about flirting lately though that we bumped our original episode into next season and we're talking about flirting right here and now. This is a combination of answering your questions CouchCast style and then a regular episode all in one. Enjoy! :)

Foundations of Flirting

It's the season 2 season finale! We're taking it full circle today and getting back to a big reason why we started this podcast in the first place... We explain exactly why we're looking for the middle! 

It's the season 2 season finale! We're taking it full circle today and getting back to a big reason why we started this podcast in the first place... We explain exactly why we're looking for the middle!

If You've Kissed Dating Goodbye, How to Say Hello Again

Really when it comes down to it, there's no magic formula for this, but there are some things you can do to improve your odds of getting the guy you're interested in, or any guy for that matter, to ask you out. That is what we're talking about today...some practical (and not so practical) things you can do to make yourself more "ask out-able" (cuz that's a thing, right??) 

Really when it comes down to it, there's no magic formula for this, but there are some things you can do to improve your odds of getting the guy you're interested in, or any guy for that matter, to ask you out. That is what we're talking about today...some practical (and not so practical) things you can do to make yourself more "ask out-able" (cuz that's a thing, right??)

How to Get Asked Out... Or at Least Improve Your Odds! 

You all know we like to make lists around here. We're just list people, I guess you could say. We've talked a lot about the lists we make about what we're looking for in a future spouse, but today we're putting a different spin on it. Are there things that may be preferences for some people, but are non-negotiables for you? How do you decide what those are? That's the question we're answering in today's episode.

You all know we like to make lists around here. We're just list people, I guess you could say. We've talked a lot about the lists we make about what we're looking for in a future spouse, but today we're putting a different spin on it. Are there things that may be preferences for some people, but are non-negotiables for you? How do you decide what those are? That's the question we're answering in today's episode.

Non-Negotiables vs. Preferences... Where to Draw the Line?

Hey Guys! Hope you're staying home and staying safe! We're praying for you. Until we can get back to recording regularly, enjoy this popular episode from season 2 :)   In today's episode, we've got a list for you going into 10 ways to tell if the guy you're dating, or thinking about dating, is a keeper. Everything from does he make you laugh to does he point you to Jesus... 

Hey Guys! Hope you're staying home and staying safe! We're praying for you. Until we can get back to recording regularly, enjoy this popular episode from season 2 :) In today's episode, we've got a list for you going into 10 ways to tell if the guy you're dating, or thinking about dating, is a keeper. Everything from does he make you laugh to does he point you to Jesus...

How to Know if He's a Keeper - Re-Release!

Oh those dreaded expectations... they always seem to get in the way don't they! In today's episode we're talking about why and how to manage your expectations in a relationship. We're talking about what is reasonable to expect and what isn't.

Oh those dreaded expectations... they always seem to get in the way don't they! In today's episode we're talking about why and how to manage your expectations in a relationship. We're talking about what is reasonable to expect and what isn't.

Managing Expectations

This was a great question from a listener! We all hear people say that you should pray for your future spouse, but what exactly to pray isn't always easy to figure out... In this episode, we talk about some of the things that we both pray about for our future husbands.

This was a great question from a listener! We all hear people say that you should pray for your future spouse, but what exactly to pray isn't always easy to figure out... In this episode, we talk about some of the things that we both pray about for our future husbands.

CouchCast: How to Pray for Your Future Husband

Ever been on a first date and wondered if it was going well? Or, have you wondered how to make sure the guy you were with knew you were having a good time without having to outright say it? We've got you covered! We're going over 7 signs of a good first date today (and a few signs of a not so good first date thrown in for good measure)! Join us!

Ever been on a first date and wondered if it was going well? Or, have you wondered how to make sure the guy you were with knew you were having a good time without having to outright say it? We've got you covered! We're going over 7 signs of a good first date today (and a few signs of a not so good first date thrown in for good measure)! Join us!

7 Signs You're On a Good First Date

You only get one chance at a good first impression! Join us today as we help you figure out how to ace that good first impression... 

You only get one chance at a good first impression! Join us today as we help you figure out how to ace that good first impression...

First Date Do's and Dont's

The two of us have been having a lot of conversations lately about dating, singleness, patience, giving grace, practicing what you preach, and resting in God's timing. We just wanted to share with you what's been on our hearts and hopefully encourage you too! 

The two of us have been having a lot of conversations lately about dating, singleness, patience, giving grace, practicing what you preach, and resting in God's timing. We just wanted to share with you what's been on our hearts and hopefully encourage you too!

An Honest Conversation About Dating and Singleness

We're discussing different flirting styles, how to tell when a guy is flirting with you, some things to avoid when flirting with him, and more!

We're discussing different flirting styles, how to tell when a guy is flirting with you, some things to avoid when flirting with him, and more!

CouchCast: Flirting 101

3 Down, 2 to go... Keep the questions coming! We're talking today about how to tell the difference between nerves and red flags in a new relationship and also what pursuit really looks like to a Christian woman. 

3 Down, 2 to go... Keep the questions coming! We're talking today about how to tell the difference between nerves and red flags in a new relationship and also what pursuit really looks like to a Christian woman.

Summer Series - Q&A #3

Welcome to season 4!! We're so excited to be here and can't wait for everything we have in store for you guys this season! Today, we are talking about the true point of dating and setting the stage for a 5 part series to kick off the season looking at some different themes in Christian dating that should be your focus. Marriage, Sanctification, Fun, Investigation, and Selflessness. Here is the link to our February picks of the month from Christian Book: http://www.lookingforthemiddle.com/picksofthemotnth.html

Welcome to season 4!! We're so excited to be here and can't wait for everything we have in store for you guys this season! Today, we are talking about the true point of dating and setting the stage for a 5 part series to kick off the season looking at some different themes in Christian dating that should be your focus. Marriage, Sanctification, Fun, Investigation, and Selflessness. Here is the link to our February picks of the month from Christian Book: <a href="http://www.lookingforthemiddle.com/picksofthemotnth.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.lookingforthemiddle.com/picksofthemotnth.html</a>

What's the Point of Dating Anyway? ...but Really.

Getting ready for a 1st date starts way before you actually get asked out! In this episode, we're talking about what you can do to put yourself in a good position to make the best first impression possible. We're talking about being approachable, confident, dressing for your body type and more!

Getting ready for a 1st date starts way before you actually get asked out! In this episode, we're talking about what you can do to put yourself in a good position to make the best first impression possible. We're talking about being approachable, confident, dressing for your body type and more!

Putting Your Best Foot Forward

In today's episode we're talking about things we both look out for on 1st dates as possible red flags... we talk about some pre and post date red flags too as well as a few 'yellow' flags too. 

In today's episode we're talking about things we both look out for on 1st dates as possible red flags... we talk about some pre and post date red flags too as well as a few 'yellow' flags too.

CouchCast: 1st Date Red Flags

Season 2 is here! And just in time for Valentine's Day! In this episode, we're swooning... uh... I mean discussing our favorite RomCom couples and what we love about them. There's nothing wrong with admiring good character in someone from a movie, but you've got to use some discretion and realize that movies just aren't real. So, manage your expectations accordingly!

Season 2 is here! And just in time for Valentine's Day! In this episode, we're swooning... uh... I mean discussing our favorite RomCom couples and what we love about them. There's nothing wrong with admiring good character in someone from a movie, but you've got to use some discretion and realize that movies just aren't real. So, manage your expectations accordingly!

Why Can't My Life Be a Romantic Comedy?

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The best podcast episodes about true crime. For any thrill seeking podcast listeners who just can't get enough of the captivating stories of murderers and criminals. This topic has all the best episodes from many different true crime podcasts.  Add episodes you're interested into your queue below!