A common mistake I see a lot of us make is mistaking stepping-stone relationships for cornerstone relationships.  This episode will show you how to recognize when you are in a stepping-stone relationship, the benefits, the dangers, and  everything in between! IG- @sheisjessicalaurent 

A common mistake I see a lot of us make is mistaking stepping-stone relationships for cornerstone relationships.  This episode will show you how to recognize when you are in a stepping-stone relationship, the benefits, the dangers, and  everything in between!  IG- @sheisjessicalaurent

  Stepping-Stone Relationships Vs Cornerstone Relationships 

Experiencing deep shameLiving from a place that is not authenticPlaying Small Prioritizing others over ourselvesSame old bs

<ul><li>Experiencing deep shame</li><li>Living from a place that is not authentic</li><li>Playing Small </li><li>Prioritizing others over ourselves</li><li>Same old bs</li></ul>

5 Things We Will Not Be Doing In 2022

Life is a ghetto adventure! 

Guys, I feel like I am getting closer and closer to finding my sweet spot of how to best serve the world!  

Guys, I feel like I am getting closer and closer to finding my sweet spot of how to best serve the world!

Bomb A$$ Mom

We see this all to often, the woman playing the role of the provider, protector, comforter, support system, strength , source of compassion and empath! When you play a role you are not built to play it takes away from the quality of the role you are truly created for! IG- @SheisjessicalaurentPrivate FB Group- The Thrive Tribe https://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997Shop- https://www. jessicalaurent.com/shop 

We see this all to often, the woman playing the role of the provider, protector, comforter, support system, strength , source of compassion and empath! When you play a role you are not built to play it takes away from the quality of the role you are truly created for!  IG- @Sheisjessicalaurent Private FB Group- The Thrive Tribe  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997</a> Shop- https://www. <a href="http://jessicalaurent.com/shop" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">jessicalaurent.com/shop</a>

When the woman has to paly both roles! 

Communication is Not Negotiable- Need I say more? 

Communication is Not Negotiable- Need I say more?

Communication is Not Negotiable! 

The Jessica Laurent Shop is now open!www.jessicalaurent.com/shopJoin The Thrive Tribe  FB Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997

The Jessica Laurent Shop is now open! <a href="http://www.jessicalaurent.com/shop" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.jessicalaurent.com/shop</a> Join The Thrive Tribe  FB Group <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997</a>

Relationship Expectations 

From Abused Teen to President of Missouri’s most sought after education non-profit, Ashley Lawson has truly defied the odds and rose to the top. As a mom of five, she knows the importance of healing those past wounds so she can show up as her best self for the boys!  Please support Missouri Prosper www.missouriprospe.orgFB: Missouri Prosper 

From Abused Teen to President of Missouri’s most sought after education non-profit, Ashley Lawson has truly defied the odds and rose to the top. As a mom of five, she knows the importance of healing those past wounds so she can show up as her best self for the boys!  Please support Missouri Prosper <a href="http://www.missouriprospe.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.missouriprospe.org</a>FB: Missouri Prosper

Telling Your Story- Ashley Lawson 

What happens when you grow faster than your partner? How do you have that conversation? Or do you?  This is a hard thing to address. In this episode we explore this idea and talk about some personal struggle I've been facing in this arena.Don't forget to join the private Facebook community- The Thrive Tribehttps://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997Stay in touch Jess@jessicalaurent.com

What happens when you grow faster than your partner? How do you have that conversation? Or do you?  This is a hard thing to address. In this episode we explore this idea and talk about some personal struggle I've been facing in this arena. Don't forget to join the private Facebook community- The Thrive Tribe <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/415211079999997</a> Stay in touch  Jess@jessicalaurent.com

Growing Pains 

t’s human nature to seek contact and relationships, to seek love, support, and comfort in others. In fact, according to social psychologist Roy Baumeister, the ‘need to belong’ is one of the main forces that drives individuals.From an evolutionary perspective, cultivating strong relationships and maintaining them has both survival and reproductive advantages. After all, most of us do ‘need to belong’ and do want closeness and intimacy in our lives.Yet, love and relationships are rarely as perfect and problem-free as we would like them to be.Learn more at https://www.attachmentproject.com/Follow me on IG: @Sheisjessicalaurent 

t’s human nature to seek contact and relationships, to seek love, support, and comfort in others. In fact, according to social psychologist <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roy_Baumeister" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Roy Baumeister</a>, the ‘need to belong’ is one of the main forces that drives individuals.From an evolutionary perspective, cultivating strong relationships and maintaining them has both survival and reproductive advantages. After all, most of us do ‘need to belong’ and do want closeness and intimacy in our lives.Yet, love and relationships are rarely as perfect and problem-free as we would like them to be. Learn more at <a href="https://www.attachmentproject.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.attachmentproject.com/</a> Follow me on IG: @Sheisjessicalaurent

Attachment Styles 

Formally "Dating After Abuse" -Relationships takes work! Healing After Abuse and or Trauma, also takes work! Trying to do both as the same dam* time....an entirely different beast! This show sheds light on some of the struggles we face as we try to balance our lives, love ourselves, love our partners and create something better!  My Frist relationship at 15 was an abusive one, and that was in addition to other forms of childhood abuse and trauma I'd experienced!  I've spent the last 10 years putting my pieces back together and creating a life I never thought possible and loving myself in a way only I can! I want you to know you are not broken, you are not worthless and most importantly, you are not alone!

So I left and said I'd be right back but as you can see, right back was several months long. Things took off and I am just now finding my balance! 

So I left and said I'd be right back but as you can see, right back was several months long. Things took off and I am just now finding my balance!

Welcome Back! Let me catch you up! 

See you in July &amp; Stay tuned for the new Podcast The Wrong Side of The  Blacks 

See you in July &amp; Stay tuned for the new Podcast The Wrong Side of The  Blacks

Announcement 

Today we talk about making our way back to being women. Tapping into that innate feminine energy to become irresistible. 

Today we talk about making our way back to being women. Tapping into that innate feminine energy to become irresistible.

Episode 10- Attracting with Femininity  

On this Episode I answer a few questions from the Tonight's Conversations Card game created by Ace Metaphor.  This deck is so much fun!Check  him out on Instagram @acemetaphor@tonightsconversationcardsAs always you can find me on Instagram @sheisjessicalaurent

On this Episode I answer a few questions from the Tonight's Conversations Card game created by Ace Metaphor.  This deck is so much fun! Check  him out on Instagram  @acemetaphor @tonightsconversationcards As always you can find me on Instagram  @sheisjessicalaurent

Episode 9- Answering questions from the "Tonight's Conversations Card" deck. 

Dating can be ghetto, getting back out there after abuse can be even more ghetto! I can't lie though, I had the time of my life and I am a huge advocate of using dating as a part of your healing! Eats all the food, order all the find wines, meet all the men lol! Take your time and above all, have fun! 

Dating can be ghetto, getting back out there after abuse can be even more ghetto!  I can't lie though, I had the time of my life and I am a huge advocate of using dating as a part of your healing!  Eats all the food, order all the find wines, meet all the men lol! Take your time and above all, have fun!

Episode 8- Getting Back Out There

This episode explores some of the toxic phrases that are used way to often in conversations between mothers and daughters. We get into the habit of parenting our daughters the way our mothers parented us, then expecting different results. Awareness is everything! This episodes helps us become aware of the negative effects of the words we use when speaking to our daughters!  

This episode explores some of the toxic phrases that are used way to often in conversations between mothers and daughters.  We get into the habit of parenting our daughters the way our mothers parented us, then expecting different results.  Awareness is everything! This episodes helps us become aware of the negative effects of the words we use when speaking to our daughters!

Episode 7- 5 Things We Should Stop Saying To Our Daughters  

In this episode we talk Self- Love! Women who haven’t experienced abuse or trauma in their lives have a hard time loving themselves thanks to the world's unrealistic standards. Now take that struggle and multiply it! That sums up the post abuse struggle but the you under all those scars, is Dope AF.  Resources mentioned in the episode:Personality Test- www.16personalities.com Enneagram Testhttps://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/testHuman Design https://www.myhumandesign.com/ Post one of  your results on your IG Story and tag @sheisjessicalaurent 

In this episode we talk Self- Love! Women who haven’t experienced abuse or trauma in their lives have a hard time loving themselves thanks to the world's unrealistic standards. Now take that struggle and multiply it! That sums up the post abuse struggle but the you under all those scars, is Dope AF.  Resources mentioned in the episode:Personality Test- <a href="http://www.16personalities.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.16personalities.com</a> Enneagram Test<a href="https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test</a> Human Design <a href="https://www.myhumandesign.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.myhumandesign.com/</a> Post one of  your results on your IG Story and tag @sheisjessicalaurent

Episode 6- Self- Love

This episode is for the moms who haven’t actually left. You are at that point of certainty! Now is not the time to retreat! Remember mama, your little girl is watching! 

This episode is for the moms who haven’t actually left. You are at that point of certainty! Now is not the time to retreat! Remember mama, your little girl is watching!

Episode 5-Deciding to Leave

In this episode we discuss how vital it is for moms with daughters to not only be intentional about healing but also do it in a way that sets an amazing example for your daughter. They are watching our every move and taking notes on how you deal with the things life throws at you! 

In this episode we discuss how vital it is for moms with daughters to not only be intentional about healing but also do it in a way that sets an amazing example for your daughter. They are watching our every move and taking notes on how you deal with the things life throws at you!

Episode 4- Healing for your Daughter

In this episode we dig into how we can better meet the 6 basic human needs holistically &amp; independently.  So many times we go into a relationship and end up feeling more like a liability for the other person rather than a sexy ass addition.  There is nothing more effective for confidence building than self-regulations and self mastery. A woman who can balance these things and ask very little of her partner becomes an indescribably attractive asset! 

In this episode we dig into how we can better meet the 6 basic human needs holistically &amp; independently.  So many times we go into a relationship and end up feeling more like a liability for the other person rather than a sexy ass addition.  There is nothing more effective for confidence building than self-regulations and self mastery. A woman who can balance these things and ask very little of her partner becomes an indescribably attractive asset!

Episode 3- We are All Needy 

Thriving In Relationships After Abuse 

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