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Lifestyle Arts Podcast with Stephen Nash | Dating Advice, Lifestyle Design & Self Improvement for Men

A dating podcast for the man who is done with games, and who seeks effective and powerful solutions to his dating challenges. We also focus on lifestyle design and self improvement, as improving ones success with women is directly tied to how you spend your time, your purpose and beliefs, and internal self image. Podcast episodes are hosted by author and NYC/San Diego-based dating coach Stephen Nash and includes interviews with leading edge experts in the fields of lifestyle design, dating, relationships and personal evolution. (Note: This used to be the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast)

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LSA 041: Michaela Boehm Interview – David Deida, Purpose, Masculinity & the Wimpy Male

The wimpy, spineless man - where does this come from & what is the solution? How does your purpose in life affect attraction in women? What is true freedom for men, and how do you attain this? I explore these ideas, plus much, much more in this provocative interview with Michaela Boehm. Michaela is a spiritual teacher based in Ojai, CA who focuses primarily on helping men and women come to the truth about themselves and allowing this to profoundly (and positively) influence their relationships. Much of her work with men delves deeply into the topics of masculinity, purpose, and attaining real, masculine power in the world. This interview was a big treat for me and I am 100% sure you will learn a lot from this one. Enjoy! The post LSA 041: Michaela Boehm Interview – David Deida, Purpose, Masculinity & the Wimpy Male appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 20mins

16 Oct 2015

Rank #1

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LSA 009: The Paul Janka Interview

I thoroughly enjoyed this chat, mostly because Paul's life and my own track so similarly: ~ We hit Pick-Up hard and found massive success with it ~ We then met someone we really liked and transitioned into a long-term relationship ~ He's engaged and I'm married... So, what's it like looking back on a successful dating life now being in a lasting, happy relationship? The post LSA 009: The Paul Janka Interview appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 7mins

20 Jun 2014

Rank #2

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LSA 027: Dating Over 40, 5 Tips (+ a VERY Stern Warning) for Men

Dating over 40 might be the toughest time in life for men to find a long-term relationship & this is for very specific reasons. Stephen Nash explains why this is, and nails down 5 specific things for me to focus on to find success + the true "golden rule" that every mature man must follow in the dating game. Also in this episode are some scary tales of what women in their mid to upper 30's have done to try to get pregnant. This is a must listen for guys over 40, seeking a lasting relationship. The post LSA 027: Dating Over 40, 5 Tips (+ a VERY Stern Warning) for Men appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

51mins

10 Jul 2015

Rank #3

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LSA 015: The Attraction Factors

A new paradigm - the attraction factors. In this podcast, Stephen breaks down all the "factors" that go into a woman feeling enduring, sincere and intense attraction for a man. And then, which of these are the most important for maximum leverage when transforming ones dating and relationship success. The post LSA 015: The Attraction Factors appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

55mins

29 Oct 2014

Rank #4

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LSA 011: The Adam Lyons Interview

This podcast features the incomparable Adam Lyons, aka AFC Adam, who is easily the most positive and upbeat guy I've ever spoken with. Incredibly, our conversation happened as he was heading to the doctor with his now pregnant girlfriend - so there was a bit of excitement on the other end of the line. Anyway, enjoy this one man - it's terrific, massive value given from Adam (ie - why you should throw a speed-dating event), and tons to learn by osmosis via his energy and attitude. The post LSA 011: The Adam Lyons Interview appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 5mins

31 Jul 2014

Rank #5

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LSA 033: The Ultimate Weapon of “Attraction”

Attraction...a topic so profoundly misunderstood that it has men resorting to foolish gimmicks and disturbing techniques designed to gain the interest of a woman. These artificial "cosmetics" of attraction might lead to an instant of interest but contain a devastating downside. Understanding the true nature of attraction is what leads to enduring, powerful & loving relationships between men and women. In this episode of the LSA Podcast, I share with you my view of this authentic "nature" of attraction and provide clear guidelines and actions to take on a regular basis to encourage these truly attractive qualities to grow & evolve within you. There are no magic bullets, but this is probably as close to one as you will ever get. The post LSA 033: The Ultimate Weapon of “Attraction” appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

40mins

21 Aug 2015

Rank #6

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LSA 018: How to Approach a Woman – Go Direct

Ever see a beautiful girl and want to approach her but aren't really clear on what to say? AND, do you dig serious adrenaline rushes? Then my direct approach is the technique for you. Simple, elegant and clear - it's the ultimate "carpe diem". The post LSA 018: How to Approach a Woman – Go Direct appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

16mins

20 Feb 2015

Rank #7

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LSA 014: The Mark Manson Interview

Here's a life for you: Struggle with women, then apply yourself and get really, really good at it; Begin teaching others how to get good at it, and build a nice business around helping others; Become location independent, traveling the world, and expanding your mind in the process; Meet a great woman to share it all with, building a life together that is expanded by the presence of the other. The post LSA 014: The Mark Manson Interview appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 10mins

4 Sep 2014

Rank #8

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LSA 020: The 11 “80/20” Actions That Drive Your Dating Success

The 11 most important actions you can take to improve your success with women and dating. If, like most men, you're busy with life, work and fun, doing what is proven to work and eliminating everything else is not only important, it's a lifesaver. The 80/20 principle states that 80% of our results in life come from 20% of our actions. In dating, what is that crucial 20%? Which skills and actions are worth the time, and which are a huge waste? I cover the 11 specific things to do including the only technique you will ever need to meet new women, 4 killer online dating tips, how to leverage your social circle and more. I also discuss exactly you should stop doing right now (like anything related to 'pick-up' for example), saving you massive amounts of time and energy so that you can improve your success with women, build confidence and self-esteem, and meet the right women for you in the most efficient and effective way possible. The post LSA 020: The 11 “80/20” Actions That Drive Your Dating Success appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

54mins

21 May 2015

Rank #9

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LSA 024: 6 Lifestyle Fundamentals for Attracting Women

Lifestyle is the "missing link" in the dating game for men. The choices I make about my time, activities, priorities and social connections inform inner aspects such as confidence and self-esteem, while also helping me form a healthy, thriving social circle. When I strive to improve with women and dating, I will be challenged. Focusing on lifestyle, therefore, allows me to grow as a man, meet new and interesting people and help me cultivate a healthy, positive attitude towards life and others. No dating gimmick or social technique can impact my dating, social and romantic life as focusing on building a healthy, dynamic and attractive lifestyle. In this episode of the Lifestyle Arts Podcast, Stephen Nash breaks down the 6 fundamentals for men to follow in building an attractive lifestyle and improving their dating lives. The post LSA 024: 6 Lifestyle Fundamentals for Attracting Women appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

45mins

19 Jun 2015

Rank #10

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LSA 029: A Simple Plan for Meeting New Women

You are currently 3 simple steps away from meeting and securing a date with any new woman you see. What are these steps and how does one execute an approach in an elegant, mature way? In this week's podcast, Stephen reveals his model which doesn't require guys to learn endless scripts or lines to execute. It also won't protect you from feeling fear or nerves either. Learn why nerves are so crucial, and how showing them a little is GOOD when meeting a woman for the first time. Too often, we overthink and over analyze the important things in life - all in a way to protect and defend us from fear and failure. Listen in as Stephen reveals this simple plan, and begin using it today to meet new women in your life. Also, pay attention to the other info shared as additional resources to help you meet more women. The post LSA 029: A Simple Plan for Meeting New Women appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

44mins

24 Jul 2015

Rank #11

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LSA 040: Nick Sparks Interview – In Your Face & “As You Are”

Nick Sparks needed a break. After 8 years of coaching and training men to be amazing with women, he vanished. His much anticipated return comes full circle on this episode of the Lifestyle Arts podcast. We discuss everything from grass-fed meat and beards to maintaining sexual polarity with women, approaching them powerfully (no routines, no gimmicks), feeling sexual, building an empowering lifestyle and how to walk away from "her" with grace and power. We also discuss his remarkable new book, "As You Are" which lays out his deep and powerful philosophy soup-to-nuts and is certain to be soon acknowledged as one of the finer dating books on the market. Enjoy! The post LSA 040: Nick Sparks Interview – In Your Face & “As You Are” appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 34mins

9 Oct 2015

Rank #12

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LSA 030: Christian Hudson, The Social Man

Christian Hudson has been in the dating advice for men community for over 10 years. In that time he has gone from beginner to expert, from a guy eager to learn to a man willing to share his wisdom. In this chat, we discuss: the traits every guy should develop to become fully expressed, what to cover on a first date, how adventure and attraction intersect, how the dating scene has evolved from 'pick-up' gimmicks to true & enduring masculine development. Also, we talk about books, lots and lots of books... The post LSA 030: Christian Hudson, The Social Man appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 12mins

31 Jul 2015

Rank #13

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LSA 023: Dating in NYC, Challenges & Solutions

Dating in NYC can be super tough - WHY? Is there a solution to becoming more successful with women & dating here without resorting to lame pick-up tactics? Indeed there is. Episode #23 of the Lifestyle Arts podcast features Stephen Nash discussing the singular issue leading to the growing challenges in meeting and dating women in NYC, LA and other major, urban areas. He also discusses the solution, which essentially simulates what has ALWAYS worked to help bring men and women together - the growth of an expansive, supporting and thriving community. The post LSA 023: Dating in NYC, Challenges & Solutions appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

56mins

13 Jun 2015

Rank #14

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LSA 002: How to Attract a Woman Using the “90% Game”

The 90% "Game" explained - how your mission, lifestyle and social circle are the keys to crushing it with women, particularly if you want a girlfriend. I explain exactly how to develop this so that you never HAVE to approach a woman again (if you want...) The post LSA 002: How to Attract a Woman Using the “90% Game” appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

40mins

30 Apr 2014

Rank #15

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LSA 025: Susan Winter – Social Futurist, PUA Foil, Author, Dinner Guest, Babe & Friend

Susan Winter has sought out "the worst men in the world", gamed PUAs (and more than lived to tell about it) and has actively explored all models of relationships for over a decade. This week's Lifestyle Arts Podcast features Stephen Nash's conversation with this amazing coach, author, babe and "social futurist" and she's got a lot to say. Hear about her adventures with "PUAs", the best date she's ever had, monogamy, older women/younger men, male/female dynamics, the challenges both sexes face in large urban areas and so much more. Get ready, get set for the incomparable Susan Winter. The post LSA 025: Susan Winter – Social Futurist, PUA Foil, Author, Dinner Guest, Babe & Friend appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 27mins

26 Jun 2015

Rank #16

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LSA 042: Mike Hrostoski Interview – Doing What Scares You

"Do what scares you", "If you can’t you must", "Fail fast and fail often", "What one man can do any man can do". These are just a few of the powerful soundbites I was able to type during my interview with Mike Hrostoski. In this interview, you are going to hear about his breathtaking path to success, his remarkable turning point which simultaneously blended both heartbreak and inspiration and his remarkable new "school" designed to help other men achieve more power, love and freedom in life. The post LSA 042: Mike Hrostoski Interview – Doing What Scares You appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 28mins

23 Oct 2015

Rank #17

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LSA 031: Mission Critical – Focus on Your Dating Life!

The wrong relationship...no one wants it, and yet so many people find themselves IN it...far too often. Focusing on improving your success with women and dating might be the most important thing you do - ever. Plus, improvement in this area yields massive returns in other life areas as well. In this podcast, I cover all of these facets plus reveal the worst kept secret in the world about relationships: that all of them are difficult (sometimes), which is why it's imperative you end up with the right woman for you. The post LSA 031: Mission Critical – Focus on Your Dating Life! appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

28mins

7 Aug 2015

Rank #18

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LSA 035: Fashion Advice for Men Primer

Fashion & style can be baffling to many men. Most are so confused that they simply don't apply any original thought to their appearance, thus unconsciously creating a look which works against them rather than for. In this podcast, I aim to eliminate any and all confusion by listing the specific "must haves" for your wardrobe, what to stop doing and wearing today, I share core principles to follow for creating an empowering look and discuss how and why your look influences those around you, particularly women, on an unconscious level. Your "look" might not be the most crucial thing to handle when improving your success with women and dating, but finding one that works FOR you rather than against is easy and is something every guy owes it to himself to focus on. The post LSA 035: Fashion Advice for Men Primer appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

41mins

4 Sep 2015

Rank #19

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LSA 037: Scot McKay Interview – Lions, Women, Marriage & Living Large

Scot McKay is a classic Texan. He loves women and music, drives a truck and has zero tolerance for BS. He's also one of the finest dating coaches in the world, and it's clear that his clients LOVE him. My favorite part of this interview was when Scot decided to take a "special" chance with a woman he was on a date with some years back. This risk made for a rather interesting evening AND showed him - very clearly - what women truly want from a man (and how what we're often taught from an early age is worthless). It changed his life and he's now happily married, travels the world and loves helping guys learn the truth about women and dating. This interview is one of the easiest I've ever done. Scot knows his stuff, and is eager to share...all I had to do was ask the right questions. You're about to learn a lot about women, dating, what things you should focus on to improve and what is total nonsense and an utter waste of time. The post LSA 037: Scot McKay Interview – Lions, Women, Marriage & Living Large appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.

1hr 13mins

18 Sep 2015

Rank #20