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16 of The Best Podcast Episodes for Scot McKay. A collection of podcasts episodes with or about Scot McKay, often where they are interviewed.

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16 of The Best Podcast Episodes for Scot McKay. A collection of podcasts episodes with or about Scot McKay, often where they are interviewed.

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Ep.013: Deserving Blissful Relationship with Scot McKay

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Finding the right partner and having a great relationship seems like a big mountain to climb. Especially for women in midlife, who have been through their own share of bad dates or relationships, who now approach dating with caution and reserve and who are not settling for anything but the best.

We talked about finding the right partner and what do men and women really look for. And also about keeping the spark alive in the relationship and how to grow together. Scot created a mantra "Deserve what you want." to emphasize the importance of being the kind of person who will attract the right match. He also says relationships shouldn't be hard work

Jul 23 2020 · 39mins
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41. Scot McKay on Masculinity and Dating

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Scot McKay reveals what true masculinity really is and what men are missing today...
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Jun 10 2020 · 49mins
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Mountain Top Podcast With Scot McKay

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I had the pleasure of being a guest on the Mountain Top Podcast with Scot McKay.  We dove in deep into the Hero’s Journey and all things Joseph Campbell and other fun topics.

May 18 2020 · 44mins
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Scot McKay — Strategies to Develop Your Masculinity

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Scot McKay, the host of the Mountain Top podcast, joins Mark Sing to discuss how to develop your masculinity ... how to build a lasting relationship with a high-quality woman... and what it REALLY means to be a man. 

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Nov 23 2019 · 45mins
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Interview With Scot McKay: What Do Men Really Want?

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What do men really want? Are they only looking for physical attractiveness and sexual chemistry, or something more meaningful? On this week's show, Kim interviews dating and relationship coach Scot McKay, founder of X & Y Communications with his wife Emily. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, Scot hosts the popular podcast Moutain Top and he has been invited to speak at high profile conferences and over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Forbes, Lifetime, Men’s Health and The Wall Street Journal.    Although the title of this episode is focused on what men are looking for, this podcast is for BOTH genders.  This funny and energetic conversation starts with giving you some real insights into how to attract a real "quality man.”  Kim and Scot also riff back and forth on how men and women tend to misinterpret the intentions of the opposite sex. Plus, listen in for some useful tips about how to perfect your online dating profile. Scot shares some stories from when he was still dating to demonstrate some strategies around how men can take the lead on a date without the fear of their actions being misinterpreted as creepy or pushy. Especially in the era of #MeToo where both women and men are more aware than ever of how they come off to one another, this conversation will help you ease some tension for both genders!    If you want to learn how to look your best on your online dating profile sign up for Kim’s new 90-Minute Dating Profile Makeover here:   Kim is also going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the next Flirt Academy Workshop in San Francisco July 25!  Get your tickets as there are a few slots left
Jul 24 2019 · 45mins
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How To Survive The War On Men And Overcome The Belief Of Toxic Masculinity – Scot McKay (Ep. 214)

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Scot McKay, dating and relationship expert, bestselling author, and podcast host, joins our show in this special episode of the Elite Man Podcast! In today’s episode Scot talks about the war on men that’s been waged over the past few years and how good, virtuous men can still come out on top without changing who they are. He goes over terms like “toxic masculinity”, whether it really exists, and how to traverse through life, especially if you’re dating in a climate where men are being scrutinized at every turn. Scot shares his best advice for the 21st century elite man and delivers a powerful message in this one. If you’re wondering how to not only survive but thrive in a rapidly-changing world in which it seems like men are being attacked with unrelenting vigor, check this episode out now!

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In our episode we go over:

  • Scot’s take on the phrase toxic masculinity
  • The weaponization of terms like “toxic masculinity”
  • The consequences of going overboard with political correctness and the castigation of men
  • Why women being feminine is not a bad thing
  • The masculinization of women over the last several years
  • Why I don’t agree with the mainstream media’s definition of toxic masculinity and why I think it does far more bad than good
  • The conflation of different aspects of manhood and manliness with toxic masculinity
  • Men behaving badly vs. men being toxic
  • How to navigate the dating arena when it comes to masculinity and sexuality
  • Why women don’t really know what they want in men
  • Why men don’t know how to act around women and why most men are getting confused here
  • The fact that politics have become a religion in the last decade or so
  • Ignoring those who don’t add to your life
  • Being a strong, dominant man, and being unapologetic about it
  • Scot’s best advice for going on dates in our current political climate and our current state of masculine warfare
  • Balancing femininity with masculinity
  • Standing up for masculinity the right way
  • Having the ability to protect your family and the women in your life
  • Having dominance in the bedroom

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Mar 12 2019 · 1hr
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Ep. 90 How to succeed as a remote relationship coach with Scot McKay

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This week I speak with Scot McKay who along with his wife Emily are professional dating and relationship coach, adventure travelers, conference speakers, media personalities and podcast hosts.

Scott and Emily are able to travel the world without selling everything to become nomadic. Instead, they started several businesses and create income while enjoying a life of adventure, discarding the myth that you can no longer have adventures when you have a family.

Listen on to find out how to become a remote relationship coach and succeed after you hit rock bottom. 


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Feb 25 2019 · 32mins
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#267 Scot McKay: Deserve What You Want

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Dating coach Scot McKay joins Guy's Guy Radio on the first Sunday edition of the podcast to discuss how embracing masculinity, confidence, and leadership skills can help men attract the highest quality partners.

Have a question for Robert or Scot? Call in to the show at (347)-945-5834.

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Mar 19 2018 · 1hr 3mins
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Scot McKay | Experiencing Extreme Adventures with the Whole Family

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"If we get together and we help build each other's 'star power', everybody wins." - Scot McKay
Today's guest on the Art of Adventure podcast is known as the number one dating coach in America, an entrepreneur, and champion BMX racer.

Scot McKay has taken his family all over the world, including traveling with his kids, to over a hundred countries. He brings his kids to different places to introduce them to their culture, their food, and even their political diversity. He believes that he has to show to them that these places are safe and not like how they are negatively portrayed by media.

He has a knack for adventure, and that his family has caught up with him. In fact, his five-year-old daughter is already at expert level in BMX racing! He wanted to introduce their children to a life of adventure very early. He thinks that adventure can evolve over time but it never gets out of your system.

In this very interesting episode, Scot shares his story as a dating coach, and his venture into this career, along with his wife, Emily. He also shares how he decides on what to let his kids do, and how much risk he is willing to let them take on. He also shares how he became a top podcaster in the world and didn't even know it!

What you will learn on this episode:

Scot's business
How he built his business on outsourcing
How to repurpose content
What his team looks like
How he has grown and promoted his work over the years
Values and beliefs on how you can put people at ease
Concept of “co-opetition”
Deciding on what's risky or not for your kids

“When something grabs you... I don't think it really ever gets out of your blood.” - Scot McKay

“Adventure can evolve over time.” - Scot McKay

"You have to find your like-minded people" - Scot McKay

"It's important to show your personal side to people." - Scot McKay

"You can't burn the candle on both sides." - Scot McKay

"Never underestimate the value of providing good content." - Scot McKay

"I'm very good at repurposing." - Scot McKay

"I irregularly produce just about everything, I am not on a hard schedule." - Scot McKay
"Compassion is masculine." - Scot McKay
Continue the Adventure (Resources from this episode):

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Deserve What You Want
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Dec 03 2017 · 1hr 13mins
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How To Get The Relationship You Want With Scot McKay

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In this episode, Scot McKay, Founder of X & Y Communications, talks about how to get the relationship you want.

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Jul 18 2017 · 36mins