What they said was kinda mean, but that’s just how they are… SIKE! They’re a**holes. Today’s episode is talking about negging, and people who use flaw finding and flaw exploiting as a conversational device. This addresses a range of people, i.e; those who you just met, long term relationships, friendships, and co workers. Why you should shut that sh*t down, and let it burnnnnnn (the connection that is). Because you shouldn't have to gaslight yourself another second longer. It's not normal, cute, or funny and I'm done pretending like it is!

What they said was kinda mean, but that’s just how they are… SIKE! They’re a**holes. Today’s episode is talking about negging, and people who use flaw finding and flaw exploiting as a conversational device. This addresses a range of people, i.e; those who you just met, long term relationships, friendships, and co workers. Why you should shut that sh*t down, and let it burnnnnnn (the connection that is). Because you shouldn't have to gaslight yourself another second longer. It's not normal, cute, or funny and I'm done pretending like it is!

Cut throat attitude towards disrespectful people (negging and flaw exploiters)

Ok, literally *everyone* says this. But seriously, a large part of moving on is acceptance, and today’s episode is a walk down the brutal streets of acceptance lane. Why leaving someone alone who doesn’t want you in their life is the nicest thing you can do for them, and why you can’t love another person into loving you back.

Ok, literally *everyone* says this. But seriously, a large part of moving on is acceptance, and today’s episode is a walk down the brutal streets of acceptance lane. Why leaving someone alone who doesn’t want you in their life is the nicest thing you can do for them, and why you can’t love another person into loving you back.

If you love them let them go (real talk)

It’s a trying *ss time to be a positive person. Is this what living through history feels like? Today we’re talking about spiraling into a doom mindset and being a doomer. Making doom your identity and the center of all your conversations (without dismissing the times).

It’s a trying *ss time to be a positive person. Is this what living through history feels like? Today we’re talking about spiraling into a doom mindset and being a doomer. Making doom your identity and the center of all your conversations (without dismissing the times).

Being a Doomer (why you should stop)

Today's episode is answering FAQ and is a pre-episode as an intro to season 2 of the Fleekazoid podcast. We discuss where I've been, where I'd like to go, and give an update on my personal life (trigger warning: scorpio mention jump scare alert). The purpose is to set the mood for what's to come and to provide background context and personal notes behind the episodes and my content.

Today's episode is answering FAQ and is a pre-episode as an intro to season 2 of the Fleekazoid podcast. We discuss where I've been, where I'd like to go, and give an update on my personal life (trigger warning: scorpio mention jump scare alert). The purpose is to set the mood for what's to come and to provide background context and personal notes behind the episodes and my content.

Girl where have you been? A personal upload

This episode discusses scams, red flags, and things to look for when dating beneficially and sugaring. These are things that cross over into vanilla dating and can be helpful in scenario's outside of just regular sugaring. 

This episode discusses scams, red flags, and things to look for when dating beneficially and sugaring. These are things that cross over into vanilla dating and can be helpful in scenario's outside of just regular sugaring.

Safety in sugaring - scams, red flags, what to look out for.

So you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are stuck in this pattern, and we talk about how to break it and come to your senses (with love and compassion!).

So you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are stuck in this pattern, and we talk about how to break it and come to your senses (with love and compassion!).

Blocking and unblocking: Breaking the cycle

Today's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in your world without a man in it. Why you CAN have all these things, and how waiting for man to fulfill that role can be codependent and toxic to your sense of self and progress.

Today's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in your world without a man in it. Why you CAN have all these things, and how waiting for man to fulfill that role can be codependent and toxic to your sense of self and progress.

No man = No value? Why this isn't true.

Debating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregulation ft. the felon) and a second story time that inspired this episode specifically. This is meant to motivate you to stop holding out false hope that THAT man will ever change (spoiler alert - he wont) and to slam that door on his face once and for all.

Debating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregulation ft. the felon) and a second story time that inspired this episode specifically. This is meant to motivate you to stop holding out false hope that THAT man will ever change (spoiler alert - he wont) and to slam that door on his face once and for all.

Block him and never look back

The word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We also discuss how these various embodiments of a dusty can affect your life, and what you should watch out for if you are dealing with this type of individual. We also discuss why it is so much more than a man who is just broke or 50/50 minded, and how your life path can be forever altered by one.

The word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We also discuss how these various embodiments of a dusty can affect your life, and what you should watch out for if you are dealing with this type of individual. We also discuss why it is so much more than a man who is just broke or 50/50 minded, and how your life path can be forever altered by one.

Defining "dusty": What even is a dusty?

Today's episode discusses emotional unavailability in dating! How it can be socially ingrained, and why it's not your job to make a man who's emotionally unavailable, to available.

Today's episode discusses emotional unavailability in dating! How it can be socially ingrained, and why it's not your job to make a man who's emotionally unavailable, to available.

Emotionally unavailable men

Topics on life, dating, scams, created by Fleeksie, inspired by current events, your questions and requests on Fleeksies social media accounts.

In todays episode, we discuss why you should operate ruthlessly in favor of yourself and make it everyone else's problem! How this mindset plays into dating, self validation, and sense of self worth. We also discuss being judged, how you will never be able to avoid it, and why trying to mitigate and minimize judgement from outsiders is a band aid on an issue that will never go away.

In todays episode, we discuss why you should operate ruthlessly in favor of yourself and make it everyone else's problem! How this mindset plays into dating, self validation, and sense of self worth. We also discuss being judged, how you will never be able to avoid it, and why trying to mitigate and minimize judgement from outsiders is a band aid on an issue that will never go away.

Confidence: why you should be feral and ruthless

Today's episode addresses the highly sought out question of "Where did you get so much confidence?". We discuss misconceptions of confidence and self esteem, knowing who you are, defining yourself, and addressing the topic of putting yourself online on a social media platform when you have people in your sphere who might judge you for it. We discuss why those people are wrong and stupid, and why you should cut them all off! This episode also shares a small story time of fleeksie's upbringing as a child, and how parents who coddle you from negativity and bullies are not a factor of your present self esteem.

Today's episode addresses the highly sought out question of "Where did you get so much confidence?". We discuss misconceptions of confidence and self esteem, knowing who you are, defining yourself, and addressing the topic of putting yourself online on a social media platform when you have people in your sphere who might judge you for it. We discuss why those people are wrong and stupid, and why you should cut them all off! This episode also shares a small story time of fleeksie's upbringing as a child, and how parents who coddle you from negativity and bullies are not a factor of your present self esteem.

 Confidence: where does yours come from?

Has a man ever seemed like they were doing something kind, thoughtful, and  in your favor, only for you to find out it was an action that secretly benefited him? Or worse, was being done to facilitate a false sense of trust, closeness, or to make himself seem more likable than he actually is? Today's episode details a list of actions men engage in that have secret hidden intentions that are gross, lame, or outright manipulative. Throughout each point, the questions are asked: why do they do this? How to spot it, and how to avoid it.

Has a man ever seemed like they were doing something kind, thoughtful, and  in your favor, only for you to find out it was an action that secretly benefited him? Or worse, was being done to facilitate a false sense of trust, closeness, or to make himself seem more likable than he actually is? Today's episode details a list of actions men engage in that have secret hidden intentions that are gross, lame, or outright manipulative. Throughout each point, the questions are asked: why do they do this? How to spot it, and how to avoid it.

Can men ever do anything with good intentions?

Ever wondered if the man you're entertaining on a dating app is a dusty minded man who's entitled, before deciding to meet him? Today's episode looks at tell tale signs and nuances that give away when a man is approaching you with a self serving attitude, who could potentially be a thirsty MF who will try your life (online and in person). This episode is inspired by and recounts a story time with an entitled dusty fleeksie met up with, a week before this podcast was recorded, and another entitled dusty she almost met up with. The mutual behaviors they both displayed, the red flags she ignored, and how you can avoid these types of individuals by spotting the signs of their character and nature early on. 

Ever wondered if the man you're entertaining on a dating app is a dusty minded man who's entitled, before deciding to meet him? Today's episode looks at tell tale signs and nuances that give away when a man is approaching you with a self serving attitude, who could potentially be a thirsty MF who will try your life (online and in person). This episode is inspired by and recounts a story time with an entitled dusty fleeksie met up with, a week before this podcast was recorded, and another entitled dusty she almost met up with. The mutual behaviors they both displayed, the red flags she ignored, and how you can avoid these types of individuals by spotting the signs of their character and nature early on.

Entitled Trifling Dusties

Today's episode takes a look at what it means to be "love drunk", or rather, the psychological terms for it, being limerent or even emotionally dysregulated. Defining both, how to manage if you deal with these things, and how these aspects of ourselves play into post vaccination desperation. Then, a personal story time of Fleeksie's experience dating a felon in her own post vaccination desperation episode (for comedic relief and a lesson in dating).

Today's episode takes a look at what it means to be "love drunk", or rather, the psychological terms for it, being limerent or even emotionally dysregulated. Defining both, how to manage if you deal with these things, and how these aspects of ourselves play into post vaccination desperation. Then, a personal story time of Fleeksie's experience dating a felon in her own post vaccination desperation episode (for comedic relief and a lesson in dating).

Limerence, Emotional Dysregulation, Post Vaccination Desperation & Fleeksie's Love after Lockup Experience

Todays podcast is about the dusties of 2021. This episode is inspired and based on a very recent story time of a 25 year old, 5'7, self proclaimed money having man, who feigned to be things such as a "provider and protector" to speed run getting me (fleeksie) into the sheets, days before this was recorded. This is also an educational break down of the 2021 dusties who are learning tactics from red pill spaces that encourage conning, lying, conspicuous spending, and pretending to be something they are not to have access to women romantically and physically.

Todays podcast is about the dusties of 2021. This episode is inspired and based on a very recent story time of a 25 year old, 5'7, self proclaimed money having man, who feigned to be things such as a "provider and protector" to speed run getting me (fleeksie) into the sheets, days before this was recorded. This is also an educational break down of the 2021 dusties who are learning tactics from red pill spaces that encourage conning, lying, conspicuous spending, and pretending to be something they are not to have access to women romantically and physically.

2021 Ninja Dusties - avoiding covert manipulators

Today's podcast is for the women who are new to having standards. A non sugar themed episode! The themes are centered on scouting out incompetence, behaviors of men who are of dusty-mindset, and on knowing when you are dealing with someone who is not genuinely interested in you. The goal is to empower and normalize dating as a woman for your own benefit and betterment, and to do so with Machiavellian like ruthlessness. To listen to the uncensored version of this podcast, go to the official fleekazoid youtube channel.

Today's podcast is for the women who are new to having standards. A non sugar themed episode! The themes are centered on scouting out incompetence, behaviors of men who are of dusty-mindset, and on knowing when you are dealing with someone who is not genuinely interested in you. The goal is to empower and normalize dating as a woman for your own benefit and betterment, and to do so with Machiavellian like ruthlessness. To listen to the uncensored version of this podcast, go to the official fleekazoid youtube channel.

Starting at zero: 16 mindsets and standards to avoid dusty's in dating.

This podcast episode focuses on friendships. Discussing why those we admire, call our friends, family, and coworkers do not distance themselves from those who are deemed bad by others or by ourselves.

This podcast episode focuses on friendships. Discussing why those we admire, call our friends, family, and coworkers do not distance themselves from those who are deemed bad by others or by ourselves.

Why your friends have bad friends

This podcast discusses the allegations made towards Michaela within the sugar community. This attempts to have a fair, balanced, and direct conversation about the events that have transpired. Please do not send any hate to the creator being discussed. This upload is for entertainment and all allegations (as of the date of this upload) are just that, allegations.  Since the original upload of this video (2/28/2021) Michaela is on bail and no longer in jail (5/1/2021).    original youtube video upload -   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYvybVrCoQY&amp;ab_channel=fleeksie

This podcast discusses the allegations made towards Michaela within the sugar community. This attempts to have a fair, balanced, and direct conversation about the events that have transpired. Please do not send any hate to the creator being discussed. This upload is for entertainment and all allegations (as of the date of this upload) are just that, allegations.  Since the original upload of this video (2/28/2021) Michaela is on bail and no longer in jail (5/1/2021).   original youtube video upload -   <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYvybVrCoQY&amp;ab_channel=fleeksie" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYvybVrCoQY&amp;ab_channel=fleeksie</a>

Michaela Pinks arrest: the allegations and thoughts within the community

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