Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there.And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty behavior to get what he deserves, how to recognize when tops are reacting well to your bratty behavior and when to turn the brat on and off.All this and some updates on some more spanking events coming up in our community.CanSpanks: Sept. 4-10, 2023. https://www.canspanks.com/foxhavenBad Ass Weekend: Oct 11-15, 2023. Bawevent.com.OTK LA: Next party, August 11, 2023. OTKLA.comHot Seat Retreat, March 13-17, 2024. Hotseatps.comMusic: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there. And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty behavior to get what he deserves, how to recognize when tops are reacting well to your bratty behavior and when to turn the brat on and off. All this and some updates on some more spanking events coming up in our community. CanSpanks: Sept. 4-10, 2023. <a href="https://www.canspanks.com/foxhaven" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.canspanks.com/foxhaven</a> Bad Ass Weekend: Oct 11-15, 2023. <a href="http://Bawevent.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Bawevent.com</a>. OTK LA: Next party, August 11, 2023. <a href="http://OTKLA.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">OTKLA.com</a> Hot Seat Retreat, March 13-17, 2024. <a href="http://Hotseatps.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hotseatps.com</a> Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of <a href="http://epidemicsound.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">epidemicsound.com</a>

Episode 49: The Ethical Brat

For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community identify as a switch, but we haven’t yet had an episode focusing specifically on what it’s like.We discuss both our real-life experiences trying to navigate our alternating modes of play as well as how the desire to both give and receive affects our fantasies and how we pursue them.Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community identify as a switch, but we haven’t yet had an episode focusing specifically on what it’s like. We discuss both our real-life experiences trying to navigate our alternating modes of play as well as how the desire to both give and receive affects our fantasies and how we pursue them. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of <a href="http://epidemicsound.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">epidemicsound.com</a>

Episode 48: Hit the Switch

It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs.Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a chance to stay at the resort. We also have rate agreements with two overflow motels. And we're making everything a little bit easier by allowing you to pre-pay registration.Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to go over some of the basics.Please visit the site here and subscribe to our newsletter so you don't miss any developments: https://www.hotseatps.com/And Hot Seat Retreat's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs. Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a chance to stay at the resort. We also have rate agreements with two overflow motels. And we're making everything a little bit easier by allowing you to pre-pay registration. Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to go over some of the basics. Please visit the site here and subscribe to our newsletter so you don't miss any developments: <a href="https://www.hotseatps.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.hotseatps.com/</a> And Hot Seat Retreat's Twitter feed is here: <a href="https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat</a>

Hot Seat Retreat 2023 Approaches (March 16-19)

Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno games and wrestling matches. An amazing time was had by all. The Sweet can be followed on Twitter @sweet_as_aheart: https://twitter.com/sweet_as_aheartThere’s still time to register for the L.A. Leather Getaway! https://www.clawinfo.org/And be sure to register for our Hot Seat Retreat newsletter for information about registration opening soon. Hotseatps.com.Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno games and wrestling matches. An amazing time was had by all. The Sweet can be followed on Twitter @sweet_as_aheart: <a href="https://twitter.com/sweet_as_aheart" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/sweet_as_aheart</a> There’s still time to register for the L.A. Leather Getaway! <a href="https://www.clawinfo.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.clawinfo.org/</a> And be sure to register for our Hot Seat Retreat newsletter for information about registration opening soon. <a href="http://Hotseatps.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hotseatps.com</a>. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of <a href="http://epidemicsound.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">epidemicsound.com</a>

Episode 47: Bad Ass Weekend 2022 Trip Report

The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway.The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered for the L.A. Leather Getaway. It's $20 for those who just want to come to the party. Scott provides all the details.For information about the L.A. Leather Getaway and for registration and room rates, visit: https://www.clawinfo.org/. Hope to see you all at the party

The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway. The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered for the L.A. Leather Getaway. It's $20 for those who just want to come to the party. Scott provides all the details. For information about the L.A. Leather Getaway and for registration and room rates, visit: <a href="https://www.clawinfo.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.clawinfo.org/</a>. Hope to see you all at the party

Special: Bad Boys Spanking Party in L.A. 2022

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate.If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate. If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6 Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of <a href="http://epidemicsound.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">epidemicsound.com</a>

Episode 46: Who Tells Your (Spankin’) Story?

As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox.Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings_Safer_Sex-508.pdf

As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox. Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings_Safer_Sex-508.pdf" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings_Safer_Sex-508.pdf</a>

Special: Monkeypox and You

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene.Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it’s important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but the types of play. A person with a rigid spanking fantasy may have a difficult time adjusting to a more flexible player and vice-versa. Scott is joined by Jaden from Whappz to discuss and advise.Don’t forget, Bad Ass Weekend is coming up in October: Bawevent.com.And mark your schedules for Hot Seat Retreat next March 16-19, 2023: hotseatps.com.Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene. Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it’s important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but the types of play. A person with a rigid spanking fantasy may have a difficult time adjusting to a more flexible player and vice-versa. Scott is joined by Jaden from Whappz to discuss and advise. Don’t forget, Bad Ass Weekend is coming up in October: <a href="http://Bawevent.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Bawevent.com</a>. And mark your schedules for Hot Seat Retreat next March 16-19, 2023: <a href="http://hotseatps.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">hotseatps.com</a>. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of <a href="http://epidemicsound.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">epidemicsound.com</a>

Episode 45: Rigid Vs. Flexible

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all.In other news, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes now has a Discord server. If you want to join, message Scott on the Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes) or look up Scott on Whappz (RedSpankScott) and send him a message.Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all. In other news, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes now has a Discord server. If you want to join, message Scott on the Twitter feed (<a href="https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes</a>) or look up Scott on Whappz (RedSpankScott) and send him a message. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of <a href="http://epidemicsound.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">epidemicsound.com</a>

Episode 44: Hot Seat Redux

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company.Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man’s Hand Films produced. We talk about how they started the archive, the work involved, why it’s important, and commissioning new art from erotic artists online. And we also reminisce about the days of Man’s Hand videos and some of our favorite old movies of theirs.Check out Mike and Phil’s archive here: www.gayspankart.com.Mike's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/spank_gayMusic: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company. Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man’s Hand Films produced. We talk about how they started the archive, the work involved, why it’s important, and commissioning new art from erotic artists online. And we also reminisce about the days of Man’s Hand videos and some of our favorite old movies of theirs. Check out Mike and Phil’s archive here: <a href="http://www.gayspankart.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.gayspankart.com</a>. Mike's Twitter feed is here: <a href="https://twitter.com/spank_gay" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/spank_gay</a> Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of <a href="http://epidemicsound.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">epidemicsound.com</a>

Episode 43: Preserving Spank History

A podcast by Scott (RedSpankScott) and guests on spanking kink involving dudes.This podcast contains discussions that involve adult and sexually explicit matters.

A podcast by Scott (RedSpankScott) and guests on spanking kink involving dudes. This podcast contains discussions that involve adult and sexually explicit matters.

Dudes Spankin' Dudes

A very special guest joins Scott for Episode 19: Hunky porn star (PornHub's 2018 Top Bear Performer), and rugby jock Colby Jansen. Scott has been spanked by Colby twice now (and apparently there' s more to come). In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Colby talks about how he got into the porn scene, how he discovered he was into spanking and BDSM, his escort work, and some etiquette if you're looking to find an escort to help you fulfill your spanking fantasies.In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking," Colby and Scott talk about how we all can push the major porn studios like Kink.com to maybe show a bit more spanking in their videos and the right way to give them feedback.Want to see more of Colby? Check out his fan site here: https://onlyfans.com/colbyjansenxxxAlso, in other news, Scott is going to be attending Bad Ass Weekend in October in Augusta, Georgia. Several other of his podcast regulars will also be in attendance. There's still time to register. Information on the event here: http://bawevent.com/

A very special guest joins Scott for Episode 19: Hunky porn star (PornHub's 2018 Top Bear Performer), and rugby jock Colby Jansen. Scott has been spanked by Colby twice now (and apparently there' s more to come). In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Colby talks about how he got into the porn scene, how he discovered he was into spanking and BDSM, his escort work, and some etiquette if you're looking to find an escort to help you fulfill your spanking fantasies. In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking," Colby and Scott talk about how we all can push the major porn studios like <a href="http://Kink.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kink.com</a> to maybe show a bit more spanking in their videos and the right way to give them feedback. Want to see more of Colby? Check out his fan site here: <a href="https://onlyfans.com/colbyjansenxxx" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://onlyfans.com/colbyjansenxxx</a> Also, in other news, Scott is going to be attending Bad Ass Weekend in October in Augusta, Georgia. Several other of his podcast regulars will also be in attendance. There's still time to register. Information on the event here: <a href="http://bawevent.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bawevent.com/</a>

Episode 19: Porn Star Colby Jansen Spanks and Tells

Brian and Scott are back to the normal format for this latest podcast. We answer a few listener questions and then we've got:1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes." Is spanking part of your sexuality, or is it most of your sexuality? Scott and Brian talk about the spectrum of where spanking fits into various dudes' lives. Also, special quiz about what percentage of dudes fantasize about spankings. See if you can guess the numbers.2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking." Scott and Brian are huge fans of spanking artwork and cartoons. Brian goes over the better-known names in the spanking art world and talks about how the Internet allows spanking art to reach more people.3. "Spankify Everything." Wrestling is a little bit spanky, but it can be a whole lot spankier. Yes, that's a word. Scott just made it up.

Brian and Scott are back to the normal format for this latest podcast. We answer a few listener questions and then we've got: 1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes." Is spanking part of your sexuality, or is it most of your sexuality? Scott and Brian talk about the spectrum of where spanking fits into various dudes' lives. Also, special quiz about what percentage of dudes fantasize about spankings. See if you can guess the numbers. 2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking." Scott and Brian are huge fans of spanking artwork and cartoons. Brian goes over the better-known names in the spanking art world and talks about how the Internet allows spanking art to reach more people. 3. "Spankify Everything." Wrestling is a little bit spanky, but it can be a whole lot spankier. Yes, that's a word. Scott just made it up.

Episode 4: The Many Shades of Red on the Spanking Spectrum

Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat.In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat.In the Fantasy Life of Spanking we talk about fantasies about real life "accountability" spankings and punishments. How do you know you really want to be spanked for real-life reasons and how is it different from just wanting to get spanked. Mike explains.Oh, and speaking of real-life spanking accountability, check out the Dudes Spankin's Dudes Twitter feed and weigh in on how much Scott should have to paddle himself for his terrible, terrible quarantine Mohawk: https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes

Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking we talk about fantasies about real life "accountability" spankings and punishments. How do you know you really want to be spanked for real-life reasons and how is it different from just wanting to get spanked. Mike explains. Oh, and speaking of real-life spanking accountability, check out the Dudes Spankin's Dudes Twitter feed and weigh in on how much Scott should have to paddle himself for his terrible, terrible quarantine Mohawk: <a href="https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes</a>

Episode 31: Self-Discipline in a Time of Coronavirus

Scott is joined for the latest episode by J.R., whom listeners know better as Bossman. Yes, the guy who beats Scott's butt on the regular stops by for a chat. And maybe a threat or two.In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes section, J.R. talks about his membership in Avatar, an L.A. club that teaches men how to engage in safe BDSM play, including spanking. We discuss how the Internet and the rise of millennials own interpretation of leather and BDSM culture has changed the way we look at the scene and how these organizations are adapting.Avatar's Facebook page can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/AvatarclubLA/In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Scott and J.R. respond to some messages to a young newbie top in the spanking scene who is afraid to actually get involved because he's worried about his heavily sadistic fantasies. We talk about how it's actually pretty normal to have extreme and even nonconsensual fantasies. What matters is how you adapt those fantasies into safe and consensual play with partners.And as a bonus, Scott found a straight dude into spanking dudes to come on a future podcast. Send questions Scott's way!

Scott is joined for the latest episode by J.R., whom listeners know better as Bossman. Yes, the guy who beats Scott's butt on the regular stops by for a chat. And maybe a threat or two. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes section, J.R. talks about his membership in Avatar, an L.A. club that teaches men how to engage in safe BDSM play, including spanking. We discuss how the Internet and the rise of millennials own interpretation of leather and BDSM culture has changed the way we look at the scene and how these organizations are adapting. Avatar's Facebook page can be found here: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/AvatarclubLA/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/AvatarclubLA/</a> In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Scott and J.R. respond to some messages to a young newbie top in the spanking scene who is afraid to actually get involved because he's worried about his heavily sadistic fantasies. We talk about how it's actually pretty normal to have extreme and even nonconsensual fantasies. What matters is how you adapt those fantasies into safe and consensual play with partners. And as a bonus, Scott found a straight dude into spanking dudes to come on a future podcast. Send questions Scott's way!

Episode 24: Sadistic Can Be Sexy

Brian is back for the latest podcast, yay! In this episode, Scott and Brian discuss:- Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Brian and Scott talk about making online profiles for hookup sites to indicate your interest in spanking, and debate the best ways to communicate your interests. The two big sites they're referring to are www.spankthishookups.com and recon.com.- The Fantasy Life of Spanking: It's story time! Scott and Brian first met through a shared interest in spanking erotic fiction. We talk about malespank.net, a major home for stories about dudes spanking dudes and Brian's book publishing.- Spankify Everything: This was supposed to be a wide-ranging discussion of spanking fantasies and superheroes, but Scott went on and on and on and on about Colossus of the X-Men, who was responsible back in the day for Scott's sexual (and spanko) awakening.

Brian is back for the latest podcast, yay! In this episode, Scott and Brian discuss: - Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Brian and Scott talk about making online profiles for hookup sites to indicate your interest in spanking, and debate the best ways to communicate your interests. The two big sites they're referring to are <a href="http://www.spankthishookups.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.spankthishookups.com</a> and <a href="http://recon.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">recon.com</a>. - The Fantasy Life of Spanking: It's story time! Scott and Brian first met through a shared interest in spanking erotic fiction. We talk about <a href="http://malespank.net" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">malespank.net</a>, a major home for stories about dudes spanking dudes and Brian's book publishing. - Spankify Everything: This was supposed to be a wide-ranging discussion of spanking fantasies and superheroes, but Scott went on and on and on and on about Colossus of the X-Men, who was responsible back in the day for Scott's sexual (and spanko) awakening.

Episode 6: Get Your Ass Out There! With An Online Profile, We Mean.

Scott has been asked repeatedly since starting the Dudes Spankin' Dudes podcast to discuss real world domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy fantasies. Unfortunately, these are areas in the spanking scene that Scott really doesn't participate in.So our guest for this episode of the podcast is Jake of the blog "Cornertime Confidential." Jake is in a relationship that involves domestic discipline spankings for actual real world reasons, and he's also very much part of the Daddy/Boy relationship dynamic scene.This podcast episode is all about the basics of both domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy roleplay. If you're interested in reading more, check out Jake's Cornertime Confidential blog:www.cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com www.cornertimeconfidential.wordpress.com

Scott has been asked repeatedly since starting the Dudes Spankin' Dudes podcast to discuss real world domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy fantasies. Unfortunately, these are areas in the spanking scene that Scott really doesn't participate in. So our guest for this episode of the podcast is Jake of the blog "Cornertime Confidential." Jake is in a relationship that involves domestic discipline spankings for actual real world reasons, and he's also very much part of the Daddy/Boy relationship dynamic scene. This podcast episode is all about the basics of both domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy roleplay. If you're interested in reading more, check out Jake's Cornertime Confidential blog: <a href="http://www.cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com</a> <a href="http://www.cornertimeconfidential.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.cornertimeconfidential.wordpress.com</a>

Episode 11: Cornertime Confidant

Remember how Scott and Brian promised in the first podcast that they wouldn't be totally self-absorbed every single episode? Yeah ... well ...But they have good reason! On Labor Day weekend, Scott attended the Moonburn Spanking Party in Los Angeles, and some very unexpected things happened (like Scott getting his ass paddled hard). Brian also had a lot of spanking fun with a guest down in Austin at the exact same time. So we go over our experiences.But there is more! Scott goes over the details on what spanking parties are like and why you should go to them and answers some questions about what goes on there.Also, we mention some other spanking parties happening elsewhere and the upcoming Bad Ass Weekend in Georgia.

Remember how Scott and Brian promised in the first podcast that they wouldn't be totally self-absorbed every single episode? Yeah ... well ... But they have good reason! On Labor Day weekend, Scott attended the Moonburn Spanking Party in Los Angeles, and some very unexpected things happened (like Scott getting his ass paddled hard). Brian also had a lot of spanking fun with a guest down in Austin at the exact same time. So we go over our experiences. But there is more! Scott goes over the details on what spanking parties are like and why you should go to them and answers some questions about what goes on there. Also, we mention some other spanking parties happening elsewhere and the upcoming Bad Ass Weekend in Georgia.

Episode 3: The Moonburn Party Awakens Scott's Hibernating Bottom

Paddle

Brian has needed to take a step backward with the podcast, but he's not gone, we promise. Scott and Brian's buddy Jason joins the discussion for this podcast.1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes": What is it about a dude with a paddle anyway? Scott and Jason talk about the origins and masculine traits of one of the more popular punishment implements with dudes and things to think about when swinging them.2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking": This episode Scott goes on waaaaay toooo long about why individual spanking fantasies matter and how the "narratives" we make up for ourselves about spanking are important to making our kink or fetish part of a real-world satisfying sexual experience.3. "Spankify Everything": Of course we would end up eventually talking about video game dudes. So many spankable butts in video games. So many!

Brian has needed to take a step backward with the podcast, but he's not gone, we promise. Scott and Brian's buddy Jason joins the discussion for this podcast. 1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes": What is it about a dude with a paddle anyway? Scott and Jason talk about the origins and masculine traits of one of the more popular punishment implements with dudes and things to think about when swinging them. 2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking": This episode Scott goes on waaaaay toooo long about why individual spanking fantasies matter and how the "narratives" we make up for ourselves about spanking are important to making our kink or fetish part of a real-world satisfying sexual experience. 3. "Spankify Everything": Of course we would end up eventually talking about video game dudes. So many spankable butts in video games. So many!

Episode 5: What Is It About a Dude With a Paddle?

Degeneracy Dumbly

Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January.Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT community look bad. Scott, Jaden, and Kevin discuss the problems with his opinion piece, which you can read here: https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/dcs-degenerate-leather-weekend-annihilates-gay-progressIn the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Kevin and Jaden discuss what it's like to start filming your own amateur porn. If you're interested, there's a lot of fun to be had.And Hot Seat Retreat is just a month away! There's still time to register here: https://www.hotseatps.com/

Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January. Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT community look bad. Scott, Jaden, and Kevin discuss the problems with his opinion piece, which you can read here: <a href="https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/dcs-degenerate-leather-weekend-annihilates-gay-progress" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/dcs-degenerate-leather-weekend-annihilates-gay-progress</a> In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Kevin and Jaden discuss what it's like to start filming your own amateur porn. If you're interested, there's a lot of fun to be had. And Hot Seat Retreat is just a month away! There's still time to register here: <a href="https://www.hotseatps.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.hotseatps.com/</a>

Episode 28: Defining Degeneracy Dumbly

It's our last podcast episode before Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs in March. Jaden joins yet again with friend Anthony.In our "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes" segment, Anthony talks about his first experiences attending fetish events. He went to Bad Ass Weekend for the first time last October and Mid-Atlantic Leather for the first time in February. With Hot Seat Retreat just around the corner, we discuss a number of tips to make your first time at a big fetish event more successful.In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, Anthony and Scott share a love of fantasies and stories that revolve around the use of spanking machines. We talk about what turns us on about the sadism of automated punishment. And maybe it doesn't have to be just a fantasy?

It's our last podcast episode before Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs in March. Jaden joins yet again with friend Anthony. In our "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes" segment, Anthony talks about his first experiences attending fetish events. He went to Bad Ass Weekend for the first time last October and Mid-Atlantic Leather for the first time in February. With Hot Seat Retreat just around the corner, we discuss a number of tips to make your first time at a big fetish event more successful. In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, Anthony and Scott share a love of fantasies and stories that revolve around the use of spanking machines. We talk about what turns us on about the sadism of automated punishment. And maybe it doesn't have to be just a fantasy?

Episode 29: Tips for Spanking Trips

Scott is back in Episode 8 with his buddy, Sid. Sid is a heavy-duty spanking bottom, and he and Scott share a spanking top in common, so this episode is focused all about being a bottom.Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: How to build up that butt! If you're new to spanking you may be disappointed to discover you can't take all the punishment you fantasize about. Sid and Scott talk about ways you physically and psychologically grow into being able to take harder and harder spankings.The Fantasy Life of Spanking: You don't have to be a kid to be a brat! Sid and Scott discuss the fantasy of the "brat," the disobedient bottom who gets himself into trouble. Yes, the brat can be roleplay, but it's also a kind of mindset and it's actually very helpful in pushing real spanking scenes on and reinforcing the bottom's relationship to the top. Also, we mention a couple of upcoming spanking camps!Info on Camp Red Tails (July 13 to 18) can be found here: https://manshandfilms.com/camp-red-tails/Info on Bad Ass Weekend (Oct. 19 to 22) can be found here: www.bawevent.com

Scott is back in Episode 8 with his buddy, Sid. Sid is a heavy-duty spanking bottom, and he and Scott share a spanking top in common, so this episode is focused all about being a bottom. Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: How to build up that butt! If you're new to spanking you may be disappointed to discover you can't take all the punishment you fantasize about. Sid and Scott talk about ways you physically and psychologically grow into being able to take harder and harder spankings. The Fantasy Life of Spanking: You don't have to be a kid to be a brat! Sid and Scott discuss the fantasy of the "brat," the disobedient bottom who gets himself into trouble. Yes, the brat can be roleplay, but it's also a kind of mindset and it's actually very helpful in pushing real spanking scenes on and reinforcing the bottom's relationship to the top. Also, we mention a couple of upcoming spanking camps! Info on Camp Red Tails (July 13 to 18) can be found here: <a href="https://manshandfilms.com/camp-red-tails/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://manshandfilms.com/camp-red-tails/</a> Info on Bad Ass Weekend (Oct. 19 to 22) can be found here: <a href="http://www.bawevent.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.bawevent.com</a>

Episode 8: Brats Get What They Deserve, and So Can You!

For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approaching hetero dudes, and what fantasies straight dudes do and do not have.More about the Threshold Society here: https://threshold.org/

For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approaching hetero dudes, and what fantasies straight dudes do and do not have. More about the Threshold Society here: <a href="https://threshold.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://threshold.org/</a>

Episode 25: Straight Dudes Spankin' Other Dudes!

Sidney's back to join Scott to talk about some more heavy-duty bottom stuff. Also, porn star Colby Jansen showed up at the Moonburn Party and it took Scott all of 60 seconds to go flying over his knee for a spanking. So now he and Sidney have that in common. There was also an accidental death in the BDSM community in Los Angeles, and Scott and Sidney go over what happened. It's an important subject for anybody who is using spanking as a springboard into other parts of S&amp;M play.For the rest of the podcast:In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Scott and Sidney talk about double-teaming--when a single bottom submits to two spanking tops. Scott has done it a bunch as a top (and as of a week ago, once as a bottom). Sidney has done it a bunch as a bottom. We discuss what you should think about before submitting to an intense experience.In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" we discuss leather and leather daddy fantasies. Leather, of course, plays a huge role in the gay BDSM scene. It's less prominent in the spanking scene, but if you do have leather fantasies, we discuss how you might approach some leathermen to ask them to beat your ass.And we answer a question from a podcast listener who is concerned about coming across like a jerk if he doesn't want to play with somebody at a party or event.

Sidney's back to join Scott to talk about some more heavy-duty bottom stuff. Also, porn star Colby Jansen showed up at the Moonburn Party and it took Scott all of 60 seconds to go flying over his knee for a spanking. So now he and Sidney have that in common. There was also an accidental death in the BDSM community in Los Angeles, and Scott and Sidney go over what happened. It's an important subject for anybody who is using spanking as a springboard into other parts of S&amp;M play. For the rest of the podcast: In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Scott and Sidney talk about double-teaming--when a single bottom submits to two spanking tops. Scott has done it a bunch as a top (and as of a week ago, once as a bottom). Sidney has done it a bunch as a bottom. We discuss what you should think about before submitting to an intense experience. In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" we discuss leather and leather daddy fantasies. Leather, of course, plays a huge role in the gay BDSM scene. It's less prominent in the spanking scene, but if you do have leather fantasies, we discuss how you might approach some leathermen to ask them to beat your ass. And we answer a question from a podcast listener who is concerned about coming across like a jerk if he doesn't want to play with somebody at a party or event.

Episode 18: Double Trouble

Jaden is back to let us all know that his spanking app Whappz is now available for Android devices, yay! And Scott updates on what's going on with the L.A. Moonburn parties.In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden talks about the work that  goes into hosting private spanking parties, and what you'll want to keep in mind if you're thinking of having some of your own.In the Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, we talk about the spanking erotical legacy of Cliff's Spanking Central site, which has ceased production of new movies but is still around and you can still join and download past videos here: http://spankingcentral.com/And we take a question from a listener wondering how much he should "act" like he's struggling as a bottom, even when he's not.

Jaden is back to let us all know that his spanking app Whappz is now available for Android devices, yay! And Scott updates on what's going on with the L.A. Moonburn parties. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden talks about the work that goes into hosting private spanking parties, and what you'll want to keep in mind if you're thinking of having some of your own. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, we talk about the spanking erotical legacy of Cliff's Spanking Central site, which has ceased production of new movies but is still around and you can still join and download past videos here: <a href="http://spankingcentral.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://spankingcentral.com/</a> And we take a question from a listener wondering how much he should "act" like he's struggling as a bottom, even when he's not.

Episode 22: It's My Party and Everybody Can Cry if They Want To

Jaden from Whappz is back joining Scott for an episode that has some fun news from Jaden (Whappz coming to Android; fun at Mid-Atlantic Leather) and some bad news from Scott (Moonburn loses its home; Tumblr kicks out porn).Before getting to the main event, Scott explains the sudden and surprising closure of Threshold, the BDSM club in North Hollywood where the monthly Moonburn spanking party takes place. Moonburn organizers are busy looking for a new location, so stay tuned.In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden reports from Washington, D.C., where he attended the annual Mid-Atlantic Leather (MAL) convention and had lots of fun spanking and being spanked. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, we talk about how Tumblr made the rather radical decision to dump all adult content from the site (essentially committing suicide) and where people are going as an alternative (check out bdsmlr.com). All this and a question from a listener about how to introduce a partner who isn't into spanking but is willing to give it a try.

Jaden from Whappz is back joining Scott for an episode that has some fun news from Jaden (Whappz coming to Android; fun at Mid-Atlantic Leather) and some bad news from Scott (Moonburn loses its home; Tumblr kicks out porn). Before getting to the main event, Scott explains the sudden and surprising closure of Threshold, the BDSM club in North Hollywood where the monthly Moonburn spanking party takes place. Moonburn organizers are busy looking for a new location, so stay tuned. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden reports from Washington, D.C., where he attended the annual Mid-Atlantic Leather (MAL) convention and had lots of fun spanking and being spanked. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, we talk about how Tumblr made the rather radical decision to dump all adult content from the site (essentially committing suicide) and where people are going as an alternative (check out <a href="http://bdsmlr.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">bdsmlr.com</a>). All this and a question from a listener about how to introduce a partner who isn't into spanking but is willing to give it a try.

Episode 21: MAL Is Awesome, But Moonburn Is In Trouble

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