It's the end of the year. In a rare moment, Mistress Alisa decides to become a bit more personal about her own journey, in an attempt to help listeners embrace life, as opposed to being stuck in the past. One of the biggest struggles for sex addicts is running from the things that haunt them. Mistress Alisa talks about making choices that present more opportunities to live life to the fullest and that increases one's chances of finding true fulfillment.

S02E17: They Died For Nothing

Mistress Alisa talks to sex addicts about the difference between wanting change in their lives and wanting to actually do the work to affect change in their lives. This is more real talk for those who are on the journey to sex addiction recovery. If you feel stuck on your journey, then this might be just the message that you need to hear.

S02E16: You Have To Want To Change

Mistress Alisa challenges a deceptive mindset that prevents many men from embracing a healthy way of life that could ultimately lead to better relationships and significantly better sex lives. Listen up, guys!If you find yourself constantly in trouble, constantly behaving in an inappropriate manner (and trying to cover those things up), constantly doing things that have an immediate payoff, but that do not offer much fulfillment in the long-run, this episode is for you.

Mistress Alisa challenges a deceptive mindset that prevents many men from embracing a healthy way of life that could ultimately lead to better relationships and significantly better sex lives. Listen up, guys! If you find yourself constantly in trouble, constantly behaving in an inappropriate manner (and trying to cover those things up), constantly doing things that have an immediate payoff, but that do not offer much fulfillment in the long-run, this episode is for you.

S02E15: It Just Happened

NOTE: This episode is not for the faint of heart. Mistress Alisa digs deep and issues a heart-felt warning to those who make light of sex addiction. After years of having clients and potential clients play games with their lives, Mistress Alisa has decided to shine a light on the issue, in hopes that this important message will help someone who needs to hear it. Again, the overall tone of this episode is considerably heavier than what most listeners may be accustomed to.

S02E14: Sex Addiction Is Not A Game

Mistress gives the listener deeper insights into the inner workings of a true Domme. This segment will help other Dommes to understand their own true potential within the context of D/s, while simultaneously a helping submissive men to better understand their own value as the goodboy who serves. No games. No gimmicks. Just pure heart and soul.

S02E13: A Domme's Love Letter To Her Goodboy

In part two of this 2-part series, Mistress Alisa builds on part one and moves forward with teaching men how to take the next step in achieving a more gratifying sex life with their partners. This segment contains graphic adult content and is not appropriate for those under the age of 21.

S02E12: Cure For A Boring Sex Life (Pt. 2)

In part one of this 2-part series, Mistress Alisa teaches men how to understand the needs of their female partners. The overall goal is to help men have better sex lives with their partners. However, the way to that goal is through connecting on a deeper level with one's female partner, first.

S02E11: Cure For A Boring Sex Life (Pt. 1)

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Mistress Alisa gives an overview of what it looks like for a submissive man to follow a Dominant Female, in a healthy, loving, and productive relationship.

S02E10: Follow Her Lead

Mistress Alisa revisits a familiar topic and helps listeners to push ahead with clarity and focus. She speaks directly into the life of the listener on sensitive topics and helps them to identify areas in their lives that may be holding them back. If you are tired of being stuck, and you are ready for change, this podcast is for you!

S02E09: Living Your Best Life Possible

Mistress Alisa addresses the ramifications of men embracing "the victim card" in order to avoid accepting responsibility for their own actions. She talks about what playing the victim card looks like and how doing so can negatively impact one's life and relationships.

S02E08: Men Who Play The Victim Card

My name is Alisa. I am a life coach and alternative counselor. I help men to learn to recover from sex addiction and to live their best lives possible. Over the past decade, I have worked with thousands of clients from various countries and from different walks of life. Admittedly, my methodologies are unconventional. However, they are also extremely effectively.

Not going too subscribe  to her podcast beacuse it is too naughty!

Heart & Soul

Have you ever thought about what constitutes a submissive male? Mistress Alisa reviews a couple of profiles of online submissive males. She points out the good and the bad of each profile, and gives Her opinion on why each selected individual is or is not a true submissive male (sub). Mistress Alisa also helps subs to understand what they may be doing incorrectly in their profiles and what may be preventing them from successfully connecting with true Dommes. Pay close attention and change your BDSM experience.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

Have you ever thought about what constitutes a submissive male? Mistress Alisa reviews a couple of profiles of online submissive males. She points out the good and the bad of each profile, and gives Her opinion on why each selected individual is or is not a true submissive male (sub). Mistress Alisa also helps subs to understand what they may be doing incorrectly in their profiles and what may be preventing them from successfully connecting with true Dommes. Pay close attention and change your BDSM experience. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E25: Sub or Not? (#1)

The importance of "letting go" cannot be underestimated - both in life and in BDSM. Mistress Alisa explains what it means to let go, and for the first time She publicly recounts a precautionary tale of what happened when She was in a relationship with a wolf in sub's clothing. She explains how in letting go, She was able to find Her truth and move deeper into Her own destiny - which just happened to include creating her own brand of BDSM. Mistress Alisa warns that if you are so preoccupied with running and/or holding onto things from the past that you are not able to live your truth, and you are absolutely creating problems and not solutions for yourself. This will be an important message for those who find themselves stuck. If you would like to move forward, once and for all, then learning to let go is paramount.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

The importance of "letting go" cannot be underestimated - both in life and in BDSM. Mistress Alisa explains what it means to let go, and for the first time She publicly recounts a precautionary tale of what happened when She was in a relationship with a wolf in sub's clothing. She explains how in letting go, She was able to find Her truth and move deeper into Her own destiny - which just happened to include creating her own brand of BDSM. Mistress Alisa warns that if you are so preoccupied with running and/or holding onto things from the past that you are not able to live your truth, and you are absolutely creating problems and not solutions for yourself. This will be an important message for those who find themselves stuck. If you would like to move forward, once and for all, then learning to let go is paramount. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E31: Freedom In Letting Go

In her very first "story time segment," Mistress Alisa shares details of how one of her clients threw away months of hard work, all because he assigned too high of a value to a blowjob. Learning to create a safe place in which you and your partner are able to flourish together is tricky enough as it is. But when one's sexual mindset has been conditioned by years and years of extreme kink, desensitization to the needs of one's partner is bound to become a real issue. Here is "Steve's" story.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

In her very first "story time segment," Mistress Alisa shares details of how one of her clients threw away months of hard work, all because he assigned too high of a value to a blowjob. Learning to create a safe place in which you and your partner are able to flourish together is tricky enough as it is. But when one's sexual mindset has been conditioned by years and years of extreme kink, desensitization to the needs of one's partner is bound to become a real issue. Here is "Steve's" story. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E12: The Price of a Blowjob

There are so many definitions of what a Dominatrix is and is not. Mistress Alisa challenges the status quo and introduces personal insights into what a healthy version of a Domme looks like. Mistress Alisa has made a name for herself in BDSM as a Dominatrix who helps Her clients to peace in the lifestyle. Her clients embrace and live their personal truths. Being a Dominatrix does not give one a license to be an immoral person. Being a Dominatrix is an honor and it requires a great deal of responsibility.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

There are so many definitions of what a Dominatrix is and is not. Mistress Alisa challenges the status quo and introduces personal insights into what a healthy version of a Domme looks like. Mistress Alisa has made a name for herself in BDSM as a Dominatrix who helps Her clients to peace in the lifestyle. Her clients embrace and live their personal truths. Being a Dominatrix does not give one a license to be an immoral person. Being a Dominatrix is an honor and it requires a great deal of responsibility. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E32: What Is A Dominatrix?

SamS has been on a year-long BDSM journey with Mistress Alisa - a journey in which She is the Dominant female who directs his path and one in which he is the submissive male who learns to submit. He opens up about the ups and downs of his relationship with Her during that time. Sam speaks frankly about his feelings and the lessons that he has learned. He also shares some of the mistakes that he has made along the way. This is a very open conversation about matters of a sexual nature and will not be appropriate for those who are opposed to such topics. (Note: Sam's voice has been distorted in order to maintain his anonymity.)For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

SamS has been on a year-long BDSM journey with Mistress Alisa - a journey in which She is the Dominant female who directs his path and one in which he is the submissive male who learns to submit. He opens up about the ups and downs of his relationship with Her during that time. Sam speaks frankly about his feelings and the lessons that he has learned. He also shares some of the mistakes that he has made along the way. This is a very open conversation about matters of a sexual nature and will not be appropriate for those who are opposed to such topics. (Note: Sam's voice has been distorted in order to maintain his anonymity.) For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E11: Confessions of a Submissive Man - SamS #1

Men cheat for many reasons. Actually, both men and women cheat for many reasons. However, Mistress Alisa's speciality is in working with men. And, in this program, she takes a direct approacch to addressing many of the issues that men face while trying to heal broken relationships, due to infidelity.The steps provided in this segment are sure to yield results for those who follow the advice. Though the work will not be easy, it will absolutely be worth the effort for most men who chose to follow these steps. Let the work begin!For more information: www.AlisaCoaches.com

Men cheat for many reasons. Actually, both men and women cheat for many reasons. However, Mistress Alisa's speciality is in working with men. And, in this program, she takes a direct approacch to addressing many of the issues that men face while trying to heal broken relationships, due to infidelity. The steps provided in this segment are sure to yield results for those who follow the advice. Though the work will not be easy, it will absolutely be worth the effort for most men who chose to follow these steps. Let the work begin! For more information: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E41: Mending A Relationship After Infidelity

What goes on in the mind of a submissive male? Mistress Alisa is the "submissive whisperer" and She can crack the code. In this podcast, She points out 5 struggles that submissive men face in the lifestyle and in life, in general. She gives tips for working through these challenges and for coming out on the other side of them. This podcast is also great for women who may see that their male partners are struggling, but they do not seem to be able to put their finger on what the problem could be. This is a must-listen for submissive men in the lifestyle, as well as for women with less alpha partners.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

What goes on in the mind of a submissive male? Mistress Alisa is the "submissive whisperer" and She can crack the code. In this podcast, She points out 5 struggles that submissive men face in the lifestyle and in life, in general. She gives tips for working through these challenges and for coming out on the other side of them. This podcast is also great for women who may see that their male partners are struggling, but they do not seem to be able to put their finger on what the problem could be. This is a must-listen for submissive men in the lifestyle, as well as for women with less alpha partners. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E40: 5 Struggles of a Submissive Male

Knowing who you are, what you want, and what you need will help guide you to one of the best gifts of all – being able to love oneself. Learning to love yourself will help create a healthy space for you to abide in, it also helps you to be able to love another with integrity.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

Knowing who you are, what you want, and what you need will help guide you to one of the best gifts of all – being able to love oneself. Learning to love yourself will help create a healthy space for you to abide in, it also helps you to be able to love another with integrity. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E03: Loving Yourself

Do you know how to choose a good Dominatrix to serve? Mistress Alisa reviews a couple of profiles of online Dominatrices. She points out the good and the bad of each profile, and gives Her opinion on why each selected Domme is or is not a true Dominatrix. Mistress Alisa also helps subs to understand what to look for when they are looking for a true Domme to serve. Pay close attention and change your BDSM experience.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

Do you know how to choose a good Dominatrix to serve? Mistress Alisa reviews a couple of profiles of online Dominatrices. She points out the good and the bad of each profile, and gives Her opinion on why each selected Domme is or is not a true Dominatrix. Mistress Alisa also helps subs to understand what to look for when they are looking for a true Domme to serve. Pay close attention and change your BDSM experience. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E23: Domme or Not? (#1)

Mistress Alisa receives several messages of inquiry from men who identify as Dominant. In this segment, she explains why she has, thus far, refused to work with such individuals. This is the story of Mistress Alisa and the "dominant" male who inspired this segment. It is also an invitation for any truly Dominant males in the lifestyle to reach out to Mistress Alisa. She would love to hear from you!For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

Mistress Alisa receives several messages of inquiry from men who identify as Dominant. In this segment, she explains why she has, thus far, refused to work with such individuals. This is the story of Mistress Alisa and the "dominant" male who inspired this segment. It is also an invitation for any truly Dominant males in the lifestyle to reach out to Mistress Alisa. She would love to hear from you! For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E36: Mistress and the "dominant" Male

BrianR has been in submissive training with Mistress Alisa for just a little bit under a month. However, his progress has been impressive. So impressive, in fact, that Mistress Alisa decided to have him on the show to share intimate details about his journey, thus far. During this interview, Brian has been teased and denied, on and off, over the course of the past seven days. Mid-way through the interview, Brian was also subjected to another tease and denial session (off the air), before being required to complete the interview. Listen and be amused with this little submissive. You will see evidence of how well he has been trained in just a matter of weeks. (Note: Brian's voice has been altered in order to maintain his anonymity.)For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

BrianR has been in submissive training with Mistress Alisa for just a little bit under a month. However, his progress has been impressive. So impressive, in fact, that Mistress Alisa decided to have him on the show to share intimate details about his journey, thus far. During this interview, Brian has been teased and denied, on and off, over the course of the past seven days. Mid-way through the interview, Brian was also subjected to another tease and denial session (off the air), before being required to complete the interview. Listen and be amused with this little submissive. You will see evidence of how well he has been trained in just a matter of weeks. (Note: Brian's voice has been altered in order to maintain his anonymity.) For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E14: Confessions of a Submissive Man - BrianR #1

FrankS joins Mistress Alisa in an open talk about the implications of depression on sexual addiction. Tune in to hear this true submissive speak about finding himself obsessed with kink, and the methods that he is using to walk into a healthier space. Mentally, emotionally, physically, and sexually, he is healing and he has some insights to share that will absolutely help others on their journey. If you are struggling with sex, , or masturbation addiction, this is an interview that you need to hear.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

FrankS joins Mistress Alisa in an open talk about the implications of depression on sexual addiction. Tune in to hear this true submissive speak about finding himself obsessed with kink, and the methods that he is using to walk into a healthier space. Mentally, emotionally, physically, and sexually, he is healing and he has some insights to share that will absolutely help others on their journey. If you are struggling with sex, , or masturbation addiction, this is an interview that you need to hear. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E17: Confessions of a Submissive Man - FrankS #1

How do you get to the point of living the life you want to live? It doesn't happen by mistake. Some people stumble into success, but no one ever finds themselves living an amazing life simply by chance. In order to get to the point that you are living your best life possible, you have to wake up. You must realize that some of the choices that you have been making aren't working for you. Then, you have to be willing to actually do something about your situation.

S02E04: The Life You Want To Live #2

This segment addresses the ways in which dominant women can learn to bring out the best in their submissive men. When a balance is reached in the relationship, it becomes extremely gratifying and fulfilling.

S02E07: Bringing Out The Best In Your Sub

MarkX has been a BDSM Counseling client of Mistress Alisa's for close to a year and a half. Mistress Alisa and Mark begin this interview in the middle of a "heated" discussion in which Mark's ability to trust and to truly submit are called into question. Moving forward in the interview, Mark discusses the issues that he experienced with addiction and depression which lead him to contact Mistress Alisa, initially. This is a candid dialogue about the issues that commonly face sex, , and masturbation addicts. Listen to this interviewee tell his story of doing the emotional work necessary to regain control of his life. You will be inspired.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

MarkX has been a BDSM Counseling client of Mistress Alisa's for close to a year and a half. Mistress Alisa and Mark begin this interview in the middle of a "heated" discussion in which Mark's ability to trust and to truly submit are called into question. Moving forward in the interview, Mark discusses the issues that he experienced with addiction and depression which lead him to contact Mistress Alisa, initially. This is a candid dialogue about the issues that commonly face sex, , and masturbation addicts. Listen to this interviewee tell his story of doing the emotional work necessary to regain control of his life. You will be inspired. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E16: Confessions of a Submissive Man - MarkX #1

Young men are being attracted to the lure of addiction at younger and younger ages these days. The impact that can have on a 20-year-old is massive. By the time the young man understands that he is addicted, every aspect of his life has been impacted by his obsession with p--o--r--nography. Mistress Alisa weighs-in on the issue.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

Young men are being attracted to the lure of addiction at younger and younger ages these days. The impact that can have on a 20-year-old is massive. By the time the young man understands that he is addicted, every aspect of his life has been impacted by his obsession with p--o--r--nography. Mistress Alisa weighs-in on the issue. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E39: Porn And The 20-Something-Year-Old

Mistress Alisa explores the differences between submission and co-dependency. It is not uncommon in the BDSM lifestyle to run across individuals who try to sell co-dependency as submission. It is a problematic practice, at least. And, in most extreme cases, it can actually be dangerous. In this episode of Heart and Soul, she offers sound advice to, both, submissives and Dominants about the perils of co-dependency within the context of BDSM.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

Mistress Alisa explores the differences between submission and co-dependency. It is not uncommon in the BDSM lifestyle to run across individuals who try to sell co-dependency as submission. It is a problematic practice, at least. And, in most extreme cases, it can actually be dangerous. In this episode of Heart and Soul, she offers sound advice to, both, submissives and Dominants about the perils of co-dependency within the context of BDSM. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S01E09: Submissive Or Co-dependent

Addiction, in any form, is a parasite. The thing to remember about a parasite is that it is never finished with its host. Ever. As long as that host is able to sustain life for itself, while also sustaining life for the parasite, the parasite will continue using the host. The parasite’s work is only done when the host is dead. It is only at that time that the parasite stops its destructive work.The good news is that it is possible to break free from sexual addiction. The breakthrough for my clients always happens when they are focused on being committed to their journey. It is in the journey that the healing takes place. It is in the journey that wholeness replaces brokenness, and the addict becomes victorious.For more information, visit: http://www.AlisaCoaches.com

Addiction, in any form, is a parasite. The thing to remember about a parasite is that it is never finished with its host. Ever. As long as that host is able to sustain life for itself, while also sustaining life for the parasite, the parasite will continue using the host. The parasite’s work is only done when the host is dead. It is only at that time that the parasite stops its destructive work. The good news is that it is possible to break free from sexual addiction. The breakthrough for my clients always happens when they are focused on being committed to their journey. It is in the journey that the healing takes place. It is in the journey that wholeness replaces brokenness, and the addict becomes victorious. For more information, visit: <a href="http://www.AlisaCoaches.com" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.AlisaCoaches.com</a>

S02E02: The Alpha Male and His Addiction

In one of the sex addiction support groups that I belong to, a man posted, seeking support and accountability for the situation that he found himself. He had been struggling with an addiction of a sexual nature, which had played a role in the demise of his first marriage, and which was playing a role in creating problems in his second marriage. It became a relatively popular post, especially since there were so many that could relate to the details of his story. Having helped my clients to work through similar issues, I shared some general advice with him.

S02E06: Troubles In My Second Marriage

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