TransPanTastic: Transgender parenting, work, marriage, transition, and life!

George's cousin came to visit, and we talked them into sitting down with us by a microphone for our first guest episode.... Read more

For genderqueer individuals like Jess, the "typical trans narrative" often doesn't fit, and neither do the "standard" un... Read more

When an old (pre-transition) picture of George resurfaces at work, what will his new intern think? Will she even notice?... Read more

Continuing last week's survey, we finish the "when" and "what" questions, and move into the "first time" and "either/or"... Read more

The school year is winding down, and the kids are getting antsy to be done with responsibilities. But home still has res... Read more

Why do some people "make such a big deal" of gender? When is it okay to make gender a "big deal"? When ought it be just ... Read more

Dysphoria sucks. As a genderqueer person, some of our culture's homophobic and transphobic framing of fluidity has seepe... Read more

We occasionally have questions from you, our friends, pop up in our various inboxes. We generally answer promptly, but p... Read more

The process of caring for a relative in hospice is never easy. The process of managing care duties and communicating wit... Read more

Blended families and blended visitation schedules mix with work and school schedules, and it often doesn't quite fit int... Read more

At release time, we are probably christmassing with the kids, so our holiday update will come next week. The gym has hot... Read more

So we started out with intent to make a "Six Months on T" update, but we got distracted talking about Child #1's recent ... Read more

Parenting is often something of a roller-coaster. And special needs kids may sometimes seem to make things worse, but th... Read more

After four months on testosterone, George's body has begun to change. From voice to body hair to skin texture, he's much... Read more

We have had some really strangely gendered interactions lately, and the only explanation we can come up with is that the... Read more

We knew that George's ex was going to start trouble again. Just like she will again after that, and again after that, in... Read more

Our kids' lives are hard. Admittedly they don't have to deal with a lot of problems that children in poverty or trauma s... Read more

George has been changing. That was kinda the idea of this whole adventure. The word "transition" indicates change. This ... Read more

George has a date for top surgery... next week! We could've announced that sooner, but we didn't want to jinx it. Or spo... Read more

Now that the question of which bathroom to use is fairly settled for George, he's started researching various Stand-To-P... Read more