Is it true that women are from Venus and men are from Mars? Are men and women more alike or more different? Why do we seem to have totally different ways of communicating with one another, and how can we work together to build happier and healthier relationships?Dr. Ricky Arenson is a dual-trained Endocrinologist and Geriatrician who lives in Perth, Western Australia, with his wife of twenty years and their four children. As the head of a major hospital, working with patients who have reached 100 years of age, Ricky asked them what the secret to their longevity was… surprisingly it wasn’t eating acai berries and doing yoga… it was having long-term positive relationships.His outrageously funny yet serious book ‘Women Are Superior to Men’ explores why so many couples have the same arguments about how often to have sex, how men don’t notice or pick up the mess they leave lying around, and how men communicate in grunts or jokes when their wives are looking for a serious conversation. It’s an easy guide to creating and maintaining a magical relationship filled with love, joy, and better (and more frequent) sex.Ricky has helped over 30,000 patients, holds numerous medical awards, and was awarded a lifetime Outstanding Service Award by Royal Perth Hospital. He has also founded several businesses, owns a private medical practice, and is a stand-up comedian.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Is it true that women are from Venus and men are from Mars? Are men and women more alike or more different? Why do we seem to have totally different ways of communicating with one another, and how can we work together to build happier and healthier relationships?<a href="https://drrickyarenson.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Ricky Arenson</a> is a dual-trained Endocrinologist and Geriatrician who lives in Perth, Western Australia, with his wife of twenty years and their four children. As the head of a major hospital, working with patients who have reached 100 years of age, Ricky asked them what the secret to their longevity was… surprisingly it wasn’t eating acai berries and doing yoga… it was having long-term positive relationships.His outrageously funny yet serious book ‘<a href="https://drrickyarenson.com/book/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Women Are Superior to Men</a>’ explores why so many couples have the same arguments about how often to have sex, how men don’t notice or pick up the mess they leave lying around, and how men communicate in grunts or jokes when their wives are looking for a serious conversation. It’s an easy guide to creating and maintaining a magical relationship filled with love, joy, and better (and more frequent) sex.Ricky has helped over 30,000 patients, holds numerous medical awards, and was awarded a lifetime Outstanding Service Award by Royal Perth Hospital. He has also founded several businesses, owns a private medical practice, and is a stand-up comedian. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or by using code <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">DREMILY</a> at check out. If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HALFOFF</a> for 50% off.

Battle of the Sexes

Have you recently ended a relationship and feel lost on how to begin anew? Have you ever wondered why you seem to be attracting people who frankly, aren’t compatible or healthy for you? Does “the one” really exist, and if so, how the heck are we supposed to find them? My guest, Allison Jayne Ewing is a licensed psychotherapist and EFT practitioner. Surprised to find herself divorced at midlife, Allison realized none of the fairytales she read growing up said what happened when you did NOT live happily ever after.Dazed and confused by her sudden single status, she embarked on the dreaded task of having to date again.Allison noticed she wasn't alone. Many of her single friends were struggling with dating, and meeting shitty guys while desperately searching for ‘the one’.But, there was a turning point for her, which we are going to chat about today.As a psychotherapist and an EFT practitioner for 25 years, Allison decided to focus on helping other women find healthy available single men who will love and adore them. She has worked with hundreds of women to clear their unconscious blocks and manifest the life of their dreams.Her book "Find Love Again", is a guide to igniting your inner goddess and finding the man of your dreams.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Have you recently ended a relationship and feel lost on how to begin anew? Have you ever wondered why you seem to be attracting people who frankly, aren’t compatible or healthy for you? Does “the one” really exist, and if so, how the heck are we supposed to find them? My guest, <a href="http://instagram.com/allison_jayne_goddess" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Allison Jayne Ewing</a> is a licensed psychotherapist and EFT practitioner. Surprised to find herself divorced at midlife, Allison realized none of the fairytales she read growing up said what happened when you did NOT live happily ever after.Dazed and confused by her sudden single status, she embarked on the dreaded task of having to date again.Allison noticed she wasn't alone. Many of her single friends were struggling with dating, and meeting shitty guys while desperately searching for ‘the one’.But, there was a turning point for her, which we are going to chat about today.As a psychotherapist and an EFT practitioner for 25 years, Allison decided to focus on helping other women find healthy available single men who will love and adore them. She has worked with hundreds of women to clear their unconscious blocks and manifest the life of their dreams.Her book "<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Find-Love-Again-Learn-Goddess/dp/B0BFW6C5LF/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25H23DBITDYKR&amp;keywords=find+love+again+allison&amp;qid=1686286452&amp;sprefix=find+love+again+allison%2Caps%2C168&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Find Love Again</a>", is a guide to igniting your inner goddess and finding the man of your dreams. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="http://BetterHelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or by using code DREMILY at check out. If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, Anatomy of Desire: 5 Secrets to Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

How to Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns and Manifest the Right One

Have you ever wondered how to flirt? What kind of flirting is most likely to lead to a hook-up versus a date versus a rejection? How can you be sure that the way you flirt doesn’t come across as creepy or is viewed as harassment, especially in the post #MeToo era? That was the question from a recent Love and Libido Subscriber. As I was preparing my response, I came across the research of Dr. Jeffrey Hall who has studied you guessed it…. flirting. I decided to reach out to him to answer this important question because I think it’s so poignant. Dr. Hall discovered there are five distinct styles of flirting and each one sends a unique message. We are going to talk all about that and more on today’s episode.Jeffrey A. Hall is a Professor of Communication Studies, Associate Chair, and Director of the Relationships and Technology Lab at The University of Kansas. He was awarded the Early Career Award from the Interpersonal Communication Division of the National Communication Association in 2015. He’s done extensive research on flirting and communication through technology. His award-winning book Relating Through Technology was published by Cambridge University Press in 2020. He has written for the Wall Street Journal and has been interviewed by the New York Times,NPR, Washington Post, Financial Times, and more. and has appeared on the Steve Harvey Show and It’s Personal with Amy Hoggart.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Have you ever wondered how to flirt? What kind of flirting is most likely to lead to a hook-up versus a date versus a rejection? How can you be sure that the way you flirt doesn’t come across as creepy or is viewed as harassment, especially in the post #MeToo era? That was the question from a recent Love and Libido Subscriber. As I was preparing my response, I came across the research of Dr. Jeffrey Hall who has studied you guessed it…. flirting. I decided to reach out to him to answer this important question because I think it’s so poignant. Dr. Hall discovered there are five distinct styles of flirting and each one sends a unique message. We are going to talk all about that and more on today’s episode.Jeffrey A. Hall is a Professor of Communication Studies, Associate Chair, and Director of the Relationships and Technology Lab at The University of Kansas. He was awarded the Early Career Award from the Interpersonal Communication Division of the National Communication Association in 2015. He’s done extensive research on flirting and communication through technology. His award-winning book Relating Through Technology was published by Cambridge University Press in 2020. He has written for the Wall Street Journal and has been interviewed by the New York Times,NPR, Washington Post, Financial Times, and more. and has appeared on the Steve Harvey Show and It’s Personal with Amy Hoggart. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="http://betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or by using code <a href="http://betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">DREMILY</a> at check out.If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="http://www.loveandlibido.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="http://www.emilyjamea.com/workshop" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Flirting 101

Do you or your partner suffer from erectile dysfunction? Are you considering treatment options like testosterone or injects? Maybe you’re struggling with premature or delayed ejaculation and want to know what might help. That’s the topic of today’s episode. I am so thrilled to welcome back renowned urologist, Dr. Jonathan Clavell.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Do you or your partner suffer from erectile dysfunction? Are you considering treatment options like testosterone or injects? Maybe you’re struggling with premature or delayed ejaculation and want to know what might help. That’s the topic of today’s episode. I am so thrilled to welcome back renowned urologist, <a href="https://houstonmenshealth.com/about-us/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Jonathan Clavell.</a>If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy</a>. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HALFOFF</a> for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

The Truth about Testosterone

Have you ever wondered how often most people have sex per month? What about how to start a threesome? Well, we are going to tackle that and more in today’s Q&amp;A episode. You guys submit such great questions, and I want to thank you so much for being so vulnerable. It’s not always easy to put this stuff out there. We’ve got a nice variety today. In addition to the “how often should I be having sex question” and “how to start a threesome question,” I’m also going to answer one new father’s question about how to support his wife in rediscovering her libido since having a baby 6 months ago.16:41 Question 2 - What is a healthy number of times to have sex per month? 26:06 Question 3 - What is the best way to start a threesome?If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Have you ever wondered how often most people have sex per month? What about how to start a threesome? Well, we are going to tackle that and more in today’s Q&amp;A episode. You guys submit such great questions, and I want to thank you so much for being so vulnerable. It’s not always easy to put this stuff out there. We’ve got a nice variety today. In addition to the “how often should I be having sex question” and “how to start a threesome question,” I’m also going to answer one new father’s question about how to support his wife in rediscovering her libido since having a baby 6 months ago.16:41 Question 2 - What is a healthy number of times to have sex per month? 26:06 Question 3 - What is the best way to start a threesome? If you like what you hear, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Q&A Quickie: How Often Should You Have Sex Per Week?

People are so focused on increasing their desire for sex that they forget one simple fact… you’re only going to desire sex if you’re having good sex! So what can we do to improve sexual satisfaction? Today I’m joined by a sexpert who conducted a huge research study that examines just that. We are going to chat about what she discovered to be the most important predictors of sexual satisfaction. Get your pen and paper ready, because you’re going to want to take notes! Dr. Tara is a sex and relationship expert, award-winning researcher, and professor of sexual communication. She has her Ph.D. in human communication and received her tenure at the age of 33, now working as a professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton.Additionally, she is a sexual communication and relationship coach at LuvBites and host of the Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast, which focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration.Her expertise has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and Insider, among others. Her 2019 TEDx Talk entitled Become Sexually Powerful highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predictors of sexual satisfaction, and her journey from an anxious immigrant from Thailand to a confident sexpert. I am so thrilled to have her on the show today!If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

People are so focused on increasing their desire for sex that they forget one simple fact… you’re only going to desire sex if you’re having good sex! So what can we do to improve sexual satisfaction? Today I’m joined by a sexpert who conducted a huge research study that examines just that. We are going to chat about what she discovered to be the most important predictors of sexual satisfaction. Get your pen and paper ready, because you’re going to want to take notes! <a href="https://www.luvbites.co" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Tara</a> is a sex and relationship expert, award-winning researcher, and professor of sexual communication. She has her Ph.D. in human communication and received her tenure at the age of 33, now working as a professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton.Additionally, she is a sexual communication and relationship coach at LuvBites and host of the <a href="https://www.luvbites.co/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Luvbites by Dr. Tara</a> podcast, which focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration.Her expertise has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and Insider, among others. Her 2019 TEDx Talk entitled Become Sexually Powerful highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predictors of sexual satisfaction, and her journey from an anxious immigrant from Thailand to a confident sexpert. I am so thrilled to have her on the show today! If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy</a>. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HALFOFF</a> for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

How to Boost Your Sexual Confidence and Enhance Pleasure

I am happy to report that Q&amp;A episodes are back! It’s been a while since I’ve recorded one, but you guys have been sending in such great questions I just had to get some of them answered and we’ve got some good ones today. I am going to help a guy who is feeling stuck about how to help his wife enjoy sex more, then I have two more questions about desire but on opposite ends. One person worries they don’t desire sex enough while the other worries he desires sex too much. So, without further ado, let’s dive in!If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

I am happy to report that Q&amp;A episodes are back! It’s been a while since I’ve recorded one, but you guys have been sending in such great questions I just had to get some of them answered and we’ve got some good ones today. I am going to help a guy who is feeling stuck about how to help his wife enjoy sex more, then I have two more questions about desire but on opposite ends. One person worries they don’t desire sex enough while the other worries he desires sex too much. So, without further ado, let’s dive in! If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">a five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy</a>. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HALFOFF</a> for 50% off.

Q&A Quickie: Can You Desire Sex Too Much or Too Little?

If you are a penis owner or a partner of a penis owner, you need to listen to today’s episode. Erectile dysfunction can affect even the most confident men. Unfortunately, the penis does not have an on/off switch. Anything from stress, health issues, relationship conflict, or having too much to drink can cause problems. Chances are, most of my male listeners have been there at some point in their lives. But what do you do when the anxiety becomes so great that your erectile function totally goes out the window? If therapy doesn’t help, what medical interventions are available? Could a penile implant be right for you? That’s the topic of today’s episode.Today, I am joined by Dr. Jonathan Clavell, a board-certified urologist practicing in downtown Houston. He is fellowship-trained in sexual medicine and an Adjunct Assistant Professor in Surgery for the University of Texas in Houston – Division of Urology. You can learn more about him by visiting his website or Instagram.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or using code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

If you are a penis owner or a partner of a penis owner, you need to listen to today’s episode. Erectile dysfunction can affect even the most confident men. Unfortunately, the penis does not have an on/off switch. Anything from stress, health issues, relationship conflict, or having too much to drink can cause problems. Chances are, most of my male listeners have been there at some point in their lives. But what do you do when the anxiety becomes so great that your erectile function totally goes out the window? If therapy doesn’t help, what medical interventions are available? Could a penile implant be right for you? That’s the topic of today’s episode. Today, I am joined by <a href="https://houstonmenshealth.com/about-us/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Jonathan Clavell</a>, a board-certified urologist practicing in <a href="https://houstonmenshealth.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">downtown Houston</a>. He is fellowship-trained in sexual medicine and an Adjunct Assistant Professor in Surgery for the University of Texas in Houston – Division of Urology. You can learn more about him by visiting his <a href="https://houstonmenshealth.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">website</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/clavelluro/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>. Today’s episode is sponsored by <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">BetterHelp</a>, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or using code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Exciting Treatment Options for Erectile Dysfunction

We have two excellent questions to discuss on today’s episode. The first comes from a stroke survivor who is feeling frustrated and sad that her partner is uninterested in sex since her stroke despite her incredible recovery. I love this question because there are so many great lessons on adaptability that I’m going to be chatting about. Whether you have a chronic illness or not, adaptability is one of the most important sexual skills, so stay tuned. Then we’ll turn our attention to a woman who finds it impossible to reach climax when she has sex with her boyfriend. Listen to hear what’s going on and my advice on what she should do.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

We have two excellent questions to discuss on today’s episode. The first comes from a stroke survivor who is feeling frustrated and sad that her partner is uninterested in sex since her stroke despite her incredible recovery. I love this question because there are so many great lessons on adaptability that I’m going to be chatting about. Whether you have a chronic illness or not, adaptability is one of the most important sexual skills, so stay tuned. Then we’ll turn our attention to a woman who finds it impossible to reach climax when she has sex with her boyfriend. Listen to hear what’s going on and my advice on what she should do. Thank you to <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">BetterHelp</a>, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or by using code <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">DREMILY</a> at check out. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">a five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy</a>. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HALFOFF</a> for 50% off.

Q&A Quickie: Love without Lust

We have two great questions we're going to tackle in today's episode. The first is a recorded submission from a woman who's feeling a little uninspired and bored in her relationship. She thinks her boyfriend is a wonderful person but is struggling because he no longer motivates or excites her. Our second question comes from someone who is struggling to match her partner's high libido. Desire discrepancy issues are so common, and I'm going to chat all about it on today's show.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at www.loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

We have two great questions we're going to tackle in today's episode. The first is a recorded submission from a woman who's feeling a little uninspired and bored in her relationship. She thinks her boyfriend is a wonderful person but is struggling because he no longer motivates or excites her. Our second question comes from someone who is struggling to match her partner's high libido. Desire discrepancy issues are so common, and I'm going to chat all about it on today's show. Thank you to <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">BetterHelp</a>, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="http://www.betterhelp.com/dremily" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or by using code DREMILY at check out. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">a five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option to have your voice professionally disguised with our fancy editing software, so no worries if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off.

Q&A Quickie: My Boring Relationship

Dr. Emily Jamea, a leading expert on sex and relationships, takes listeners on a journey into the complexities of love, libido, and everything in between. Her podcast educates and inspires through interviews with other experts both in the United States and around the world.

If you’re like most folks you want it all. But it can be challenging to balance your personal ambition with your family all while maintaining a juicy sex life. Today’s guest, Dr. Joli Hamilton has the answers. Drawing from her entrepreneurial spirit and experience raising seven kids while maintaining a passionate relationship, Joli talks about how to design your relationship. We chat about what it means to truly anchor – to your partner, to your family, and to your intimate time together. “When you see the connection you foster with your partner as an investment you’re making for your children, it’s easy,” Joli says.Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.  And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

If you’re like most folks you want it all. But it can be challenging to balance your personal ambition with your family all while maintaining a juicy sex life. Today’s guest, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Joli Hamilton</a> has the answers. Drawing from her entrepreneurial spirit and experience raising seven kids while maintaining a passionate relationship, Joli talks about how to design your relationship. We chat about what it means to truly anchor – to your partner, to your family, and to your intimate time together. “When you see the connection you foster with your partner as an investment you’re making for your children, it’s easy,” Joli says. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=10239b74e953f13865efae971739f0&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or by using code DREMILY at check out.If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="http://loveandlibido.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.  And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="http://www.emilyjamea.com/workshop" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Relationship, Career, Kids…and Hot Sex? How?!

Jealousy…think your immune to it? Guess again. I treat couples who are jealous of their partner’s relationship with the kids, with the dog, and with their career. It’s an emotion that we can identify in babies as young as 6 months, but we don’t talk about it enough. What is jealousy versus envy? How we can foster a healthier relationship with jealousy so that we can use it to learn about ourselves and develop a stronger connection with our partners? Jealousy expert, Dr. Joli Hamilton, who gave a TED talk all about jealousy, is going to help us make sense of this very complex emotion. Joli is also a research psychologist, professor of human sexuality, and a sex &amp; relationship coach. Let’s dive in.This episode is sponsored by FirmTech. If you're a penis owner, then you need to know about FirmTech. FirmTech has rings designed to increase sexual stamina and give you stronger, longer-lasting erections. Their high-tech ring gives you the added benefit of providing health data based on the quality of your erections. We have devices to measure the quality of our sleep and how many calories we burn, so why shouldn't we have a med-tech device to measure the health of our erections? Well, now we do. Visit myfirmtech.com and use code IKNOWEMILY for 20% off your purchase. Thanks to FirmTech for sponsoring this episode. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily or by using code DREMILY at check out. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Jealousy…think your immune to it? Guess again. I treat couples who are jealous of their partner’s relationship with the kids, with the dog, and with their career. It’s an emotion that we can identify in babies as young as 6 months, but we don’t talk about it enough. What is jealousy versus envy? How we can foster a healthier relationship with jealousy so that we can use it to learn about ourselves and develop a stronger connection with our partners? Jealousy expert, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Joli Hamilton</a>, who gave a TED talk all about jealousy, is going to help us make sense of this very complex emotion. <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Joli</a> is also a research psychologist, professor of human sexuality, and a sex &amp; relationship coach. Let’s dive in. This episode is sponsored by <a href="https://myfirmtech.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">FirmTech</a>. If you're a penis owner, then you need to know about <a href="https://myfirmtech.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">FirmTech</a>. <a href="https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">FirmTech</a> has rings designed to increase sexual stamina and give you stronger, longer-lasting erections. Their high-tech ring gives you the added benefit of providing health data based on the quality of your erections. We have devices to measure the quality of our sleep and how many calories we burn, so why shouldn't we have a med-tech device to measure the health of our erections? Well, now we do. Visit <a href="https://myfirmtech.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">myfirmtech.com</a> and use code IKNOWEMILY for 20% off your purchase. Thanks to FirmTech for sponsoring this episode. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="http://loveandlibido.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="http://loveandlibido.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. Thank you to BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions, for sponsoring the show. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=10239b74e953f13865efae971739f0&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a> or by using code DREMILY at check out. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="http://www.emilyjamea.com/workshop" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Coping with Relationship Jealousy

Are you one of the millions who feel like you’re blinding navigating the dating world? Whether you’re swiping through profiles on an app or scanning the room at a bar, there are some tried and true dating principles that can help. Today’s guest, Dr. Susan Campbell, has written several books on this topic and has personal experience as someone who’s stepped back into the dating world a few times throughout her life. Today she’s going to explain how her “get real” approach to dating can help you stay confident and more easily connect with potential partners. I had her on the show before to chat about the five relationship stages and loved our conversation so much that I had to invite her back on.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Are you one of the millions who feel like you’re blinding navigating the dating world? Whether you’re swiping through profiles on an app or scanning the room at a bar, there are some tried and true dating principles that can help. Today’s guest, <a href="https://susancampbell.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Susan Campbell</a>, has written several books on this topic and has personal experience as someone who’s stepped back into the dating world a few times throughout her life. Today she’s going to explain how her “get real” approach to dating can help you stay confident and more easily connect with potential partners. I had her on the show before to chat about the five relationship stages and loved our conversation so much that I had to invite her back on. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Get Real Approach to Dating

Have you ever wondered if you might be in a relationship with a narcissist? Narcissism comes in many forms. Some obvious, others....not so obvious. Being in a relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies can be emotionally draining and deplete your self-esteem, but hope is available. Today, I chat with relationship expert Joe Kort on how to recognize the signs and develop an exit strategy if that’s what you think you need. We also chat about what it means to come from a narcissistic family and shed light on lesser-known components of narcissism such as “narcissistic injuries” and “narcissistic defenses.”If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Have you ever wondered if you might be in a relationship with a narcissist? Narcissism comes in many forms. Some obvious, others....not so obvious. Being in a relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies can be emotionally draining and deplete your self-esteem, but hope is available. Today, I chat with relationship expert <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Joe Kort</a> on how to recognize the signs and develop an exit strategy if that’s what you think you need. We also chat about what it means to come from a narcissistic family and shed light on lesser-known components of narcissism such as “narcissistic injuries” and “narcissistic defenses.”If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Narcissism and Your Relationships

If you’re in a long-term relationship, chances are you can look back and identify when the relationship shifted from the bliss of the honeymoon phase to the reality of the everyday life together. You can probably think of times when you’ve really struggled to balance each other’s needs versus times when you dreamt of shared future goals. Did you know there are actually 5 distinct stages in every relationship and that couples can cycle in and out of each stage multiple times? Knowing what stage you’re in can help avoid breakups and more easily navigate typical relationship challenges. That’s what I’m discussing with my guest today, Dr. Susan Campbell.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily. Or you can use code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

If you’re in a long-term relationship, chances are you can look back and identify when the relationship shifted from the bliss of the honeymoon phase to the reality of the everyday life together. You can probably think of times when you’ve really struggled to balance each other’s needs versus times when you dreamt of shared future goals. Did you know there are actually 5 distinct stages in every relationship and that couples can cycle in and out of each stage multiple times? Knowing what stage you’re in can help avoid breakups and more easily navigate typical relationship challenges. That’s what I’m discussing with my guest today, <a href="https://susancampbell.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Susan Campbell</a>. Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=1029c98a218ddc9481849d47507288&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a>. Or you can use code DREMILY at checkout. If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

The Couple’s Journey: 5 Relationship Stages

Have you ever been having a perfectly enjoyable sexual experience only to find yourself uncontrollably sobbing afterward? There are lots of reasons why someone might cry after sex, but most of the time, it’s because of something called post-coital dysphoria. And it’s more common than you might think. Studies have found that nearly half of all women experience this at some point in their lives. We’ll talk all about this condition and I’ll also give tips on how to handle it if this happens to your partner during sex.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily. Or you can use code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Have you ever been having a perfectly enjoyable sexual experience only to find yourself uncontrollably sobbing afterward? There are lots of reasons why someone might cry after sex, but most of the time, it’s because of something called post-coital dysphoria. And it’s more common than you might think. Studies have found that nearly half of all women experience this at some point in their lives. We’ll talk all about this condition and I’ll also give tips on how to handle it if this happens to your partner during sex.Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=102b33e0f9b2244416f2401bfbb03d&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a>. Or you can use code DREMILY at checkout.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">a five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q & A: I cry after sex!

If you’re a regular listener of the podcast, you probably know the difference between gender identity (whether you identify as male, female, or nonbinary) and sexual orientation (straight, gay, or somewhere in between). But how much do you know about erotic orientation? Simply put, erotic orientation describes the kinds of things that turn us on. Interestingly, however, erotic orientation doesn’t always line up with commonly held assumptions about gender identity and sexual orientation. For instance, some straight men enjoy sex with other men. Some lesbian women get turned on by heterosexual porn. Confused? Don’t worry. Today’s guest, Dr. Joe Kort, is here to break it all down. An expert on gender identity, sexual orientation, and erotic orientation, he’ll help make sense of the complexities of sexual behavior. Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

If you’re a regular listener of the podcast, you probably know the difference between gender identity (whether you identify as male, female, or nonbinary) and sexual orientation (straight, gay, or somewhere in between). But how much do you know about erotic orientation? Simply put, erotic orientation describes the kinds of things that turn us on. Interestingly, however, erotic orientation doesn’t always line up with commonly held assumptions about gender identity and sexual orientation. For instance, some straight men enjoy sex with other men. Some lesbian women get turned on by heterosexual porn. Confused? Don’t worry. Today’s guest,<a href="https://www.instagram.com/drjoekort/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Dr. Joe Kort</a>, is here to break it all down. An expert on gender identity, sexual orientation, and erotic orientation, he’ll help make sense of the complexities of sexual behavior. Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=102919a6a2c9805f3b1eb6316af198&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a>.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations. And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Erotic Orientation

I am so excited about today’s episode because it is our first ever live Q&amp;A! I finally had a subscriber brave enough to schedule some time with me so that we could dive more deeply into her concern. Her longtime boyfriend has a sexual fantasy that is making them question if their relationship is really on solid ground. The worst part is, that she feels partly responsible for the fantasy he’s stuck on. Have you ever questioned the meaning of your sexual fantasies? Has your partner ever reacted negatively when you expressed a fantasy or desire? Then you need to tune into today’s episode! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud and want to tell us who you are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

I am so excited about today’s episode because it is our first ever live Q&amp;A! I finally had a subscriber brave enough to schedule some time with me so that we could dive more deeply into her concern. Her longtime boyfriend has a sexual fantasy that is making them question if their relationship is really on solid ground. The worst part is, that she feels partly responsible for the fantasy he’s stuck on. Have you ever questioned the meaning of your sexual fantasies? Has your partner ever reacted negatively when you expressed a fantasy or desire? Then you need to tune into today’s episode! Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=102919a6a2c9805f3b1eb6316af198&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a>.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud and want to tell us who you are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">a five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Q&A: Does His Fantasy Mean He Doesn’t Love Me?

If you’re like most folks, you’ve probably heard of tantric sex. And while you might be curious about it, you probably can’t imagine ever practicing it with your partner. I mean who has time for that, right…? Think again, my friend. My guest today is going to shed some light on how the everyday couple can incorporate tantric principles into their sex life in a way that deepens intimacy, expands meaning, and enhances emotional and physical pleasure. Good intention, and open heart, and strategic breathing are really all you need to practice tantric sex. Listen today, you’ll thank me later. Dr. Sally Valentine is a psychotherapist, sex therapist supervisor, who is certified in sex therapy, hypnotherapy, EMDR, and Imago relationship therapy. She has been practicing for over 20 years in Boca Raton, FL. Dr. Valentine creatively teaches Tantra to her clients, couples, and colleagues to enhance their connection, self-awareness, intimacy, sexual competency and to overcome sexual wounds. Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

If you’re like most folks, you’ve probably heard of tantric sex. And while you might be curious about it, you probably can’t imagine ever practicing it with your partner. I mean who has time for that, right…? Think again, my friend. My guest today is going to shed some light on how the everyday couple can incorporate tantric principles into their sex life in a way that deepens intimacy, expands meaning, and enhances emotional and physical pleasure. Good intention, and open heart, and strategic breathing are really all you need to practice tantric sex. Listen today, you’ll thank me later. <a href="https://www.drsallyvalentine.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Sally Valentine</a> is a psychotherapist, sex therapist supervisor, who is certified in sex therapy, hypnotherapy, EMDR, and Imago relationship therapy. She has been practicing for over 20 years in Boca Raton, FL. Dr. Valentine creatively teaches Tantra to her clients, couples, and colleagues to enhance their connection, self-awareness, intimacy, sexual competency and to overcome sexual wounds. Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=102919a6a2c9805f3b1eb6316af198&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a>.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dremilyjamea/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

Tantra for the Everyday Lover

We have so many great questions to dive into today! I answer one man’s question about how to improve ejaculatory control (0:57), another man’s question is about whether he should tell his wife that he’s interested in having sex with other men (13:03), and another listener’s question about what it means that his partner never initiates sex (18:14). Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting www.betterhelp.com/dremily.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at loveandlibido.com. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit loveandlibido.com to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow &amp; subscribe so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a five-star review. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit www.emilyjamea.com/workshop for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

We have so many great questions to dive into today! I answer one man’s question about how to improve ejaculatory control (0:57), another man’s question is about whether he should tell his wife that he’s interested in having sex with other men (13:03), and another listener’s question about what it means that his partner never initiates sex (18:14). Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, an online therapy platform that has already helped millions. Get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/get-started/?go=true&amp;transaction_id=102fa9878b6feadd85e40cf7011c5e&amp;utm_source=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=123&amp;utm_medium=Mac+OS+X&amp;utm_content=&amp;utm_term=dremily&amp;not_found=1&amp;gor=start" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.betterhelp.com/dremily</a>.If you have a question or a story you would like to share, you can submit it at <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a>. You can either email in your story or you can record your submission, whatever is easier for you. We always give you the option for us to disguise your voice with our fancy editing software, so no worries there if you would like to remain anonymous. Or if you’re loud and proud, and you want to tell us who are as you share your question, that is fine too. We are also collecting story submissions as well. Visit <a href="https://loveandlibido.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">loveandlibido.com</a> to see what our focus is this month. You can follow me across all the social media channels <a href="https://linktr.ee/DrEmilyJamea" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dremilyjamea</a>. That’s usually the best place to see what information we are looking for as it relates to topics we are discussing on the show.If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">follow &amp; subscribe</a> so that you’ll be notified when a new episode is released. If you like what you're hearing, don't forget to leave me a<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-libido/id1572696112" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> five-star review</a>. Your positive feedback helps me grow so that we can continue having these engaging, informative, and fun conversations.And don't forget to check out my online workshop, The Five Sex Languages: Secrets to Long-Lasting Intimacy. Visit <a href="https://emilyjamea.com/workshop-details/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.emilyjamea.com/workshop</a> for your free sample. Subscribers can use code HALFOFF for 50% off the full price of the workshops.

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