#87 - At our colette lifestyle clubs, we're starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term "swinger" and that encompassed practically all of us. However, these days it's a whole lot different with many new terms as this beautiful relationship model is continuously evolving. So which "label" are you? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#87 - At our colette lifestyle clubs, we're starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term "swinger" and that encompassed practically all of us. However, these days it's a whole lot different with many new terms as this beautiful relationship model is continuously evolving. So which "label" are you? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Diversity of labels in open lifestyle

#86 - John &amp; Jackie discuss various aspects of ethical non-monogamy, including different forms and labels. We also dive into the importance of creating a relationship model that works for you, and the undercurrent of consensual non-monogamy growing among younger people. Don’t miss as they share experiences from promoting swinger clubs to open-minded individuals and discuss the topic of threesomes. This is an important chat about communication and creating judgement-free zones in relationships that reminds us that successful open relationships involve both autonomy and partnership. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#86 - John &amp; Jackie discuss various aspects of ethical non-monogamy, including different forms and labels. We also dive into the importance of creating a relationship model that works for you, and the undercurrent of consensual non-monogamy growing among younger people. Don’t miss as they share experiences from promoting swinger clubs to open-minded individuals and discuss the topic of threesomes. This is an important chat about communication and creating judgement-free zones in relationships that reminds us that successful open relationships involve both autonomy and partnership. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Exploring ENM and relationship models

#85 - Shame and how it can hold us back from fully experiencing and enjoying the lifestyle...We do coaching with couples and a lot of the women openly share how shame hits them hard and becomes quite debilitating in the lifestyle journey. We want to express ourselves and feel authentic to who we are, but we can easily encounter that old tape replaying in our head about how we're supposed to behave based on our childhood upbringing, background, and religion - and that's when shame likes to rears its ugly head. So what do you do about it? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#85 - Shame and how it can hold us back from fully experiencing and enjoying the lifestyle...We do coaching with couples and a lot of the women openly share how shame hits them hard and becomes quite debilitating in the lifestyle journey. We want to express ourselves and feel authentic to who we are, but we can easily encounter that old tape replaying in our head about how we're supposed to behave based on our childhood upbringing, background, and religion - and that's when shame likes to rears its ugly head. So what do you do about it? To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

ENM and dealing with shame

#84 - In this episode, we explore the fascinating world of ethical non-monogamy and its impact on relationships. Our guest, a filmmaker working on the documentary "Open: A Journey Through Love," shares their personal journey and the importance of authenticity in relationships. They reveal their autism diagnosis and how it influences their filters and social expectations. Join us as we delve into the challenges, growth, and transformative power of ethical non-monogamy, and learn about the upcoming documentary project that aims to de-stigmatize this lifestyle. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#84 - In this episode, we explore the fascinating world of ethical non-monogamy and its impact on relationships. Our guest, a filmmaker working on the documentary "Open: A Journey Through Love," shares their personal journey and the importance of authenticity in relationships. They reveal their autism diagnosis and how it influences their filters and social expectations. Join us as we delve into the challenges, growth, and transformative power of ethical non-monogamy, and learn about the upcoming documentary project that aims to de-stigmatize this lifestyle. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Breaking the Stigma of Non-Monogamy With Roderick Stevens

#83 - Being in an open relationship can be difficult. You've got time management, societal repercussions if others find out, dealing with stereotypes, finding other open-minded couples, trying new things out of your comfort zone, and more. The list just goes on... But that's not to say don't check out swinging because we believe it's well worth. Just some challenges to be aware of as you go along this journey and that's what we talk about today in the episode. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#83 - Being in an open relationship can be difficult. You've got time management, societal repercussions if others find out, dealing with stereotypes, finding other open-minded couples, trying new things out of your comfort zone, and more. The list just goes on... But that's not to say don't check out swinging because we believe it's well worth. Just some challenges to be aware of as you go along this journey and that's what we talk about today in the episode. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Difficulties in Swinging Relationships

#82 - We continue on from the previous episode to explore the world of polyamory with a focus on the significance of authentic communication and personal growth within polyamorous relationships. Our guests, Kenya and Carl from Progressive Love Academy, share their experiences and insights, highlighting the foundational aspects of polyamory and the transformative power it holds. They discuss the importance of self-reflection, empathy, and utilizing relationships as tools for personal development. Additionally, they delve into the challenges faced and the deepening of love that occurs through open communication and mutual growth. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#82 - We continue on from the previous episode to explore the world of polyamory with a focus on the significance of authentic communication and personal growth within polyamorous relationships. Our guests, Kenya and Carl from Progressive Love Academy, share their experiences and insights, highlighting the foundational aspects of polyamory and the transformative power it holds. They discuss the importance of self-reflection, empathy, and utilizing relationships as tools for personal development. Additionally, they delve into the challenges faced and the deepening of love that occurs through open communication and mutual growth. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Exploring Progressive Love: A Liberating Journey of Open Relationships

#81 - Our special guests, Kenya and Carl of Progressive Love Academy, are here to discuss their experiences in open relationships and polyamory - the importance of effective communication, personal growth, and taking accountability within relationships with a firsthand account of their journey, from their decision to open their relationship to the development of tools and protocols that have strengthened their bond over the years. We talk about navigating jealousy, addressing societal misconceptions, and finding empowerment in embracing multiple partners. They share valuable insights into building a solid foundation for open relationships and emphasize the significance of understanding one's own desires and needs. Gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics of open relationships, the challenges faced, and the rewards that come with personal growth and exploration in today's episode. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#81 - Our special guests, Kenya and Carl of Progressive Love Academy, are here to discuss their experiences in open relationships and polyamory - the importance of effective communication, personal growth, and taking accountability within relationships with a firsthand account of their journey, from their decision to open their relationship to the development of tools and protocols that have strengthened their bond over the years. We talk about navigating jealousy, addressing societal misconceptions, and finding empowerment in embracing multiple partners. They share valuable insights into building a solid foundation for open relationships and emphasize the significance of understanding one's own desires and needs. Gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics of open relationships, the challenges faced, and the rewards that come with personal growth and exploration in today's episode. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Save Your Relationship with Polyamory

#80 - As swingers, we can be judged by other people about our lifestyle choices. We certainly have received a good amount of backlash in news articles written about us and our relationship model. Yes it's important we develop thick skin to be able to handle it, but it can be difficult sometimes due to our human desire to belong to a group and the challenges we face when we step outside of societal norms. So why do people judge so negatively and what do we do about it? Especially as it can impact our ability to be open and honest with others about our lifestyle. To learn more about the lifestyle and open relationships, visit https://openlove101.com

#80 - As swingers, we can be judged by other people about our lifestyle choices. We certainly have received a good amount of backlash in news articles written about us and our relationship model. Yes it's important we develop thick skin to be able to handle it, but it can be difficult sometimes due to our human desire to belong to a group and the challenges we face when we step outside of societal norms. So why do people judge so negatively and what do we do about it? Especially as it can impact our ability to be open and honest with others about our lifestyle. To learn more about the lifestyle and open relationships, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Being Judged as a Swinger

#79 - John and Jackie discuss the importance of communication in playing with another couple. Especially when it comes to setting boundaries and discussing preferences. Now compare that to a playing solo scenario where you have less people to be aware of and can just focus on one person, along with other things you need to know when doing this in an open relationship. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#79 - John and Jackie discuss the importance of communication in playing with another couple. Especially when it comes to setting boundaries and discussing preferences. Now compare that to a playing solo scenario where you have less people to be aware of and can just focus on one person, along with other things you need to know when doing this in an open relationship. To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Difference between playing SOLO vs as a COUPLE

#78 - Today we answer three rapid fire questions: 1) Would you consider posing nude? 2) Where can I meet other couples? 3) My partner doesn't want to play in the lifestyle. What do I do? Fun question, serious question, and serious serious question! To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#78 - Today we answer three rapid fire questions: 1) Would you consider posing nude? 2) Where can I meet other couples? 3) My partner doesn't want to play in the lifestyle. What do I do? Fun question, serious question, and serious serious question! To learn more about open relationships and the swinger lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Partner not interested in the lifestyle?

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

#77 - Has a partner ever cheated on you? Or been dishonest and not trustworthy about other people they're seeing? "Well, how about we have an open relationship because that'll solve things!" But will it really? Today we discuss if a swinger lifestyle can save a relationship! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#77 - Has a partner ever cheated on you? Or been dishonest and not trustworthy about other people they're seeing? "Well, how about we have an open relationship because that'll solve things!" But will it really? Today we discuss if a swinger lifestyle can save a relationship! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Can Joining The Swingers Lifestyle Save A Relationship?

#76 - We explore the world of consensual non-monogamy and share our personal experiences and insights on exploring relationships outside of the traditional monogamous structure. From navigating emotional attachment to finding support and community in non-monogamous clubs, we provide a perspective on what it means to practice consensual non-monogamy. We also dive into the growing popularity of this relationship model among younger generations and the importance of maintaining open communication and growth in any relationship. Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on consensual non-monogamy and its place in modern society. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#76 - We explore the world of consensual non-monogamy and share our personal experiences and insights on exploring relationships outside of the traditional monogamous structure. From navigating emotional attachment to finding support and community in non-monogamous clubs, we provide a perspective on what it means to practice consensual non-monogamy. We also dive into the growing popularity of this relationship model among younger generations and the importance of maintaining open communication and growth in any relationship. Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on consensual non-monogamy and its place in modern society. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy and Relationship Models

#75 - I'm sure you're aware that harboring resentment can tear your relationship apart and do devastating damage. This is not just for romantic relationships, but any relationship. But how do you let it go? Why is it so difficult to talk about it (in a loving way) that doesn't punish your partner and make it harder? Let's talk about that today! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#75 - I'm sure you're aware that harboring resentment can tear your relationship apart and do devastating damage. This is not just for romantic relationships, but any relationship. But how do you let it go? Why is it so difficult to talk about it (in a loving way) that doesn't punish your partner and make it harder? Let's talk about that today! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Resentment and Damage It Causes

#74 - 'It brings us closer': Married couple, 52, claim SWINGING keeps them young (and insist their children are 'happy for them'). That was the title of an article written by Daily Mail on our open marriage. And to this day, there are 402 comments on that article. Some positive and encouraging comments from open-minded people and other comments...not so much :) Today we discuss some of this feedback! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#74 - 'It brings us closer': Married couple, 52, claim SWINGING keeps them young (and insist their children are 'happy for them'). That was the title of an article written by Daily Mail on our open marriage. And to this day, there are 402 comments on that article. Some positive and encouraging comments from open-minded people and other comments...not so much :) Today we discuss some of this feedback! To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Negative Views on Swinging

#73 - Liz and Miguel, who have been in the lifestyle since 2005, share their experiences and how they navigated family situations. Hear how they got their start in the lifestyle and gain some key knowledge about posting pictures online. We'll explore the importance of open communication and how honesty and privacy are key when discussing sexual preferences within a family. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#73 - Liz and Miguel, who have been in the lifestyle since 2005, share their experiences and how they navigated family situations. Hear how they got their start in the lifestyle and gain some key knowledge about posting pictures online. We'll explore the importance of open communication and how honesty and privacy are key when discussing sexual preferences within a family. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

What to Tell Your Children about Your Lifestyle With Liz and Miguel

#72 - One of the things we've discovered is that we enjoy going on separate dates with other people. While this might sound strange and ironic to some, but it has been a way to strengthen our bond and deepen our trust in each other. At first, the idea of going on separate dates was daunting. We worried about all the things that could go wrong. What if one of us falls in love with someone else? What if my partner doesn't like the person I'm dating? What if jealousy creeps in and ruins everything? Knowing this, what should talk about and make a priority in order to make this dating separately thing work for us? To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#72 - One of the things we've discovered is that we enjoy going on separate dates with other people. While this might sound strange and ironic to some, but it has been a way to strengthen our bond and deepen our trust in each other. At first, the idea of going on separate dates was daunting. We worried about all the things that could go wrong. What if one of us falls in love with someone else? What if my partner doesn't like the person I'm dating? What if jealousy creeps in and ruins everything? Knowing this, what should talk about and make a priority in order to make this dating separately thing work for us? To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Trust and Acknowledgement and Dating Separately

#71 - Join Alexandra Stockwell, a physician and intimacy marriage expert, and Jackie Melfi, an author, coach, and operator of clubs related to the swingers lifestyle, for a thought-provoking conversation about the role of communication in both monogamous and open relationships. They delve into the importance of a strong emotional connection between partners before exploring an open lifestyle, and emphasize that it should not be an alternative to working on the relationship. Throughout the conversation, the speakers address the misconceptions and stigmas surrounding open relationships, often due to media focus on the sexual aspects. They advocate for seeing open relationships as a spectrum rather than a binary choice, highlighting the importance of conversation, vulnerability, and transparency between partners. Stockwell and Melfi share their perspective on how a healthy open relationship can be rooted in a strong monogamous partnership, with the openness adding an extra dimension. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#71 - Join Alexandra Stockwell, a physician and intimacy marriage expert, and Jackie Melfi, an author, coach, and operator of clubs related to the swingers lifestyle, for a thought-provoking conversation about the role of communication in both monogamous and open relationships. They delve into the importance of a strong emotional connection between partners before exploring an open lifestyle, and emphasize that it should not be an alternative to working on the relationship. Throughout the conversation, the speakers address the misconceptions and stigmas surrounding open relationships, often due to media focus on the sexual aspects. They advocate for seeing open relationships as a spectrum rather than a binary choice, highlighting the importance of conversation, vulnerability, and transparency between partners. Stockwell and Melfi share their perspective on how a healthy open relationship can be rooted in a strong monogamous partnership, with the openness adding an extra dimension. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Opening Up: Conversations on Trust, Vulnerability, and Modern Relationships

#70 - John and Jackie discuss the importance of honesty in their relationship and how it has allowed them to explore their sexuality with each other and with other people. They also touch on the trust and transparency that comes with this lifestyle and the power of revealing one's fears and secrets to a partner. By being honest with themselves and each other, John and Jackie have found a strong bond that allows them to practice swinging with confidence and openness. Tune in to this episode and join the conversation on the importance of honesty and transparency in relationships. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#70 - John and Jackie discuss the importance of honesty in their relationship and how it has allowed them to explore their sexuality with each other and with other people. They also touch on the trust and transparency that comes with this lifestyle and the power of revealing one's fears and secrets to a partner. By being honest with themselves and each other, John and Jackie have found a strong bond that allows them to practice swinging with confidence and openness. Tune in to this episode and join the conversation on the importance of honesty and transparency in relationships. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

 Freedom and Honestly in Our Non Monogamous Marriage

#69 -  Soft swap is a form of being a swinger that is considered a baby step when entering the lifestyle, so it's a great way for couples to get started. It can also be a great experience for strictly monogamous couples who want to experience the lifestyle without the pressure to do something they are not ready for. But once you're ready to dive into the deeper end, hard swap takes things to the next level. Bridging that gap is easier said than done because  being  in the lifestyle can be anxiety-inducing, so it's essential to go at your own pace with the proper boundaries and communication. Today we talk about all those good things when it comes to soft swap and hard swap. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#69 - Soft swap is a form of being a swinger that is considered a baby step when entering the lifestyle, so it's a great way for couples to get started. It can also be a great experience for strictly monogamous couples who want to experience the lifestyle without the pressure to do something they are not ready for. But once you're ready to dive into the deeper end, hard swap takes things to the next level. Bridging that gap is easier said than done because being in the lifestyle can be anxiety-inducing, so it's essential to go at your own pace with the proper boundaries and communication. Today we talk about all those good things when it comes to soft swap and hard swap. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Exploring Soft Swap and Hard Swap Boundaries

#68 - Today we dive deep into the life lessons we learned as a result of being in an open relationship: 1) Confronting issues like jealousy and fear instead of avoiding them. 2) Being willing to communicate openly and honestly with their partner. 3) Challenging traditional societal norms and beliefs about sex and relationships. 4) Being open to forming friendships with people of the opposite sex. 5) Learning to be confident in themselves and their sexuality. 6) Embracing the freedom to try new things and be open-minded. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit https://openlove101.com

#68 - Today we dive deep into the life lessons we learned as a result of being in an open relationship: 1) Confronting issues like jealousy and fear instead of avoiding them. 2) Being willing to communicate openly and honestly with their partner. 3) Challenging traditional societal norms and beliefs about sex and relationships. 4) Being open to forming friendships with people of the opposite sex. 5) Learning to be confident in themselves and their sexuality. 6) Embracing the freedom to try new things and be open-minded. To learn more about open relationships and the lifestyle, visit <a href="https://openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://openlove101.com</a>

Key Life Lessons We Learned From Our Swinging Relationship

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog <a href="http://Openlove101.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Openlove101.com</a>. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

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