This episode introduces the purpose of the podcast- answering the question, "What do church leaders do when they find themselves struggling with a variety of issues and feel they have nowhere to turn?"  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#

This episode introduces the purpose of the podcast- answering the question, "What do church leaders do when they find themselves struggling with a variety of issues and feel they have nowhere to turn?"  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a>

Intro to the Podcast

In this episode we interview Aaron Etheridge, campus pastor at Ethos Church in Nashville, and director of training with Onward Church Planting. We hear the story of Aaron and Paul’s church planting experience in Vancouver, Canada &amp; the aftereffects of closing this church. Aaron shares about his struggle with the stigma of “failed church planter” and how God has brought him into a place of truth and healing. Aaron’s story can help leaders mourn the losses they’ve experienced while rooting their identity in God’s truth instead of expectations around ministry success. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: - Weezer, Numbers: Numbers - YouTube  (sorry Aaron) - Freedom Prayer: Home - Freedom Prayer - Ethos Church (Nashville): Home | Ethos Church - Onward Church Planting: Onward Church Planting – A Global Family of Church Planters - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook (Online groups for leaders to process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#

In this episode we interview Aaron Etheridge, campus pastor at Ethos Church in Nashville, and director of training with Onward Church Planting. We hear the story of Aaron and Paul’s church planting experience in Vancouver, Canada &amp; the aftereffects of closing this church. Aaron shares about his struggle with the stigma of “failed church planter” and how God has brought him into a place of truth and healing. Aaron’s story can help leaders mourn the losses they’ve experienced while rooting their identity in God’s truth instead of expectations around ministry success. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: - Weezer, Numbers: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-tmVPainJM&amp;list=PLfiMjLyNWxeaBK1Tzk5hDEBrw6uNSuALQ&amp;index=4" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Numbers - YouTube</a>  (sorry Aaron) - Freedom Prayer: <a href="https://freedomprayer.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Home - Freedom Prayer</a> - Ethos Church (Nashville): <a href="http://www.ethoschurch.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Home | Ethos Church</a> - Onward Church Planting: <a href="https://onwardchurchplanting.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Onward Church Planting – A Global Family of Church Planters</a> - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> (Online groups for leaders to process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a>

Failing at Church Planting

Anxiety is a common experience to all of us and has been elevated in the lives of so many due to the pandemic. In this podcast Paul interviews Kevin about his journey with anxiety and how it has impacted him throughout his life. Kevin shares personal stories while integrating his professional experience that has come through study and wrestling with the darker places anxiety has taken him. Kevin's story is intended to shed light on the suffering anxiety can cause and how the road to managing it is paved through connection and vulnerability. Leaders who find themselves struggling with anxiety will be able to identify with Kevin's story and will find some practical help in finding healthy ways of coping and healing.  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook (Online groups for leaders to process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - Freedom Prayer: Home - Freedom Prayer How He Loves Us- Kim Walker- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JoC1ec-lYps

Anxiety is a common experience to all of us and has been elevated in the lives of so many due to the pandemic. In this podcast Paul interviews Kevin about his journey with anxiety and how it has impacted him throughout his life. Kevin shares personal stories while integrating his professional experience that has come through study and wrestling with the darker places anxiety has taken him. Kevin's story is intended to shed light on the suffering anxiety can cause and how the road to managing it is paved through connection and vulnerability. Leaders who find themselves struggling with anxiety will be able to identify with Kevin's story and will find some practical help in finding healthy ways of coping and healing.  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> (Online groups for leaders to process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">- Freedom Prayer: </a><a href="https://freedomprayer.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Home - Freedom Prayer</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JoC1ec-lYps" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">How He Loves Us- Kim Walker- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JoC1ec-lYps</a>

The Dark Side of Anxiety

In this episode Kevin and Paul discuss the importance of remaining present in relationships, the role distractions play in replacing connection with disconnection, and why we are so susceptible to living distracted lives.    Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: - Ephesians 4 Study Guide First read Ephesians 3:16-21 - note that the basis for chapter 4 is a deep knowledge of the love of Christ. As you read through Ephesians 4:1-24, consider this: We are hurt because of people, but God uses people to heal us. How have you found this to be true? Notice in 4:7, 4:11-12, and 4:16, how the unity of the Body is found in a diversity of gifts. Consider how each person has need of other people who use their gifts to build up the Body. Ask yourself, "how has God limited me so that I have need of Himself and others?" The goal of the gifts in chapter 4 is maturity and fullness in Christ. As you read through the chapter, what does maturity look like to you? - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook (Online groups for participants to process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) - Contemplative Prayer Initiative through the Siburt Institute: Contemplative Ministers' Initiative | Siburt Institute for Church Ministry

In this episode Kevin and Paul discuss the importance of remaining present in relationships, the role distractions play in replacing connection with disconnection, and why we are so susceptible to living distracted lives.  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: - Ephesians 4 Study Guide <ol><li>First read Ephesians 3:16-21 - note that the basis for chapter 4 is a deep knowledge of the love of Christ.</li> <li>As you read through Ephesians 4:1-24, consider this: We are hurt because of people, but God uses people to heal us. How have you found this to be true?</li> <li>Notice in 4:7, 4:11-12, and 4:16, how the unity of the Body is found in a diversity of gifts. Consider how each person has need of other people who use their gifts to build up the Body. Ask yourself, "how has God limited me so that I have need of Himself and others?"</li> <li>The goal of the gifts in chapter 4 is maturity and fullness in Christ. As you read through the chapter, what does maturity look like to you?</li> </ol>- WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> (Online groups for participants to process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> - Contemplative Prayer Initiative through the Siburt Institute: <a href="https://www.siburtinstitute.org/cmi/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Contemplative Ministers' Initiative | Siburt Institute for Church Ministry</a>

Lost in Distraction

In the context of faith and church, especially for those who teach and preach about faith, it can be isolating when we doubt. In this episode, Paul shares his story of doubt, both in coming to faith and then as a leader in the church. In the times of change we're living in, many of us are experiencing varying degrees of doubt. Kevin and Paul offer encouragement that there can be hope and peace in the midst of doubt - through connection. *In our suggested resources at the end of the podcast we failed to discuss how various forms of prayer can be helpful ways to process doubt. Kevin and Paul have both found that approaching the Lord and asking for help has actually led to breakthrough in their areas of struggle, including doubt.  We encourage those who doubt to seek out experiential forms of prayer. Spiritual directors can be helpful guides, particularly for contemplative prayer.  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: - Jill Dasher's website &amp; book Shallow: Jill-Dasher (jilldasher.com) - John Mark Comer's website &amp; book The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: John Mark Comer - Spiritual direction: www.roadsteadproject.com, eleven:28 Ministries | Restoring Church Leaders (eleven28.org) (Eleven28 is particularly geared toward Christian leaders). - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook (Online groups that help participants process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling &amp; resource page: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)

In the context of faith and church, especially for those who teach and preach about faith, it can be isolating when we doubt. In this episode, Paul shares his story of doubt, both in coming to faith and then as a leader in the church. In the times of change we're living in, many of us are experiencing varying degrees of doubt. Kevin and Paul offer encouragement that there can be hope and peace in the midst of doubt - through connection. *In our suggested resources at the end of the podcast we failed to discuss how various forms of prayer can be helpful ways to process doubt. Kevin and Paul have both found that approaching the Lord and asking for help has actually led to breakthrough in their areas of struggle, including doubt.  We encourage those who doubt to seek out experiential forms of prayer. Spiritual directors can be helpful guides, particularly for contemplative prayer.  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: - Jill Dasher's website &amp; book Shallow: <a href="https://jilldasher.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jill-Dasher (jilldasher.com)</a> - John Mark Comer's website &amp; book The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: <a href="https://johnmarkcomer.com/#home" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">John Mark Comer</a> - Spiritual direction: <a href="https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.roadsteadproject.com%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR27Qs5-Wt3p5x2bYoACgcKEdVznS75brZ_IGlFKVfBwPaBSkm0gsFsF0Pw&amp;h=AT0eTlkFRWPurKljd5i0-8-K_FSKMtupNc4plrbD4pvF5wPvSi2ndVthSmJWnSu6iX591-z4vTO84TjxWr8k7xdQdxJWlv_DeH2J1xC-br1ROwluNdrK8fKIwBpUfWjCWXKS&amp;__tn__=-UK-R&amp;c%5B0%5D=AT0ywNzgH9oHVqh-I_8P2sJuW7SvTOKIS4jGQrR0KNrWCp8d31YQc0p2s5o90KiFgSgx3X6opZUwfW4-rkHl_dHOuiJ67xuPG8lFflidKHjjB2aqAK2fTFbnsL-qexpujZ_cGvdMKWPIZTCFbt2FI7ato5dSwAWcvsoUap7JMHf001c" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.roadsteadproject.com</a>, <a href="https://www.eleven28.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">eleven:28 Ministries | Restoring Church Leaders (eleven28.org)</a> (Eleven28 is particularly geared toward Christian leaders). - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> (Online groups that help participants process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling &amp; resource page: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a>

The Burden of Doubt

Sexual addiction is an uncomfortable topic for most people. But in the church it is especially tempting to hide sexual struggles - particularly for those in leadership. There's been plenty in the news of the failings of Christian leaders around sex. Why is this such a problem and what can we do to become healthier people and leaders? In this episode, Kevin and Paul interview Scott Spicer, a leader who's been on a long journey from hiding to connection &amp; redemptive work around sexual addiction. Scott's story can inspire hope for those who feel trapped in the shadows of whatever they are struggling with.  *For those struggling with sexual addiction, or if you're looking for help for someone who is, we recommend contacting Pure Desire Ministries (www.puredesire.org). Pure Desire is an organization with resources for individuals and families impacted by sexual addiction, including professional counseling, groups, books, and a podcast. If you're looking for a group experience to begin the recovery journey, see: Groups – Pure Desire Ministries. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook (Online groups that help participants process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling &amp; resource page: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)

Sexual addiction is an uncomfortable topic for most people. But in the church it is especially tempting to hide sexual struggles - particularly for those in leadership. There's been plenty in the news of the failings of Christian leaders around sex. Why is this such a problem and what can we do to become healthier people and leaders?   In this episode, Kevin and Paul interview Scott Spicer, a leader who's been on a long journey from hiding to connection &amp; redemptive work around sexual addiction. Scott's story can inspire hope for those who feel trapped in the shadows of whatever they are struggling with.    *For those struggling with sexual addiction, or if you're looking for help for someone who is, we recommend contacting Pure Desire Ministries (<a href="http://www.puredesire.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.puredesire.org</a>). Pure Desire is an organization with resources for individuals and families impacted by sexual addiction, including professional counseling, groups, books, and a podcast. If you're looking for a group experience to begin the recovery journey, see: <a href="https://puredesire.org/groups/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Groups – Pure Desire Ministries</a>.  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> (Online groups that help participants process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling &amp; resource page: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a>

Out of the Shadows

"If people knew the real me, would they still accept me?" In this episode, Kevin and Paul interview writerJill Dasher and get the inside scoop on her new book Shallow. For anyone who's ever struggled with keeping up images, pleasing people, or perfectionism - Jill's story is one you'll relate to. We delve into why this tends to happen if you grew up in church, and the challenges with breaking through the walls we build up to being truly known. We think you'll be encouraged and inspired by Jill's story! Jill's book is available at her website: Jill-Dasher (jilldasher.com)as well as at https://www.amazon.com/Shallow/dp/1737421909/ Also find her at www.instagram.com/jilldasher, and Facebook: Jill Dasher | Facebook Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com.  Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook (Online groups that help participants process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling &amp; resource page: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)

"If people knew the real me, would they still accept me?" In this episode, Kevin and Paul interview writerJill Dasher and get the inside scoop on her new book Shallow. For anyone who's ever struggled with keeping up images, pleasing people, or perfectionism - Jill's story is one you'll relate to. We delve into why this tends to happen if you grew up in church, and the challenges with breaking through the walls we build up to being truly known. We think you'll be encouraged and inspired by Jill's story!   Jill's book is available at her website: <a href="https://jilldasher.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jill-Dasher (jilldasher.com)</a> as well as at <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Shallow/dp/1737421909/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.com/Shallow/dp/1737421909/</a>   Also find her at <a href="http://www.instagram.com/jilldasher" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.instagram.com/jilldasher</a>, and Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/jil.dasher" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jill Dasher | Facebook</a>   Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> (Online groups that help participants process their experiences in a safe and healing environment). - Dr. Shelby's counseling &amp; resource page: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a>

What if You Knew the Real Me?

In this episode we get a different perspective on the church planting story from episode 2. Jessica Thompson, now a ministry leader at Duncan Pentecostal Church, shares her story of connecting with this unique form of Christian community at an important point in her life. She shares about her struggle to find church, and how God birthed in her a passion to find and build meaningful community.  For anyone who's felt disconnected from church, particularly during Covid, this one is for you! Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official Mentions &amp; Resources: If you need a safe place for healing and connection, check out: - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this episode we get a different perspective on the church planting story from episode 2. Jessica Thompson, now a ministry leader at <a href="https://www.duncanchurch.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Duncan Pentecostal Church</a>, shares her story of connecting with this unique form of Christian community at an important point in her life. She shares about her struggle to find church, and how God birthed in her a passion to find and build meaningful community.  For anyone who's felt disconnected from church, particularly during Covid, this one is for you! Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: If you need a safe place for healing and connection, check out: - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Searching for Community

In this episode we interview Kevin Vance, a church planter in Regina, SK, Canada. During a tumultuous time in a former job as college president, Kevin fell into a season of depression. Kevin shares here about the internal struggles he wrestled with and the relationships that put him on the road to healing. We also discuss the conflict that sometimes occurs in the church around seeking help for mental health issues.  If you're struggling with depression, know that you are not alone. See the suggested reading below. We encourage you to reach out to trusted friends and family, to seek counseling, and other forms of connection. Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official To find out more about Kevin Vance's church in Regina: Gentle Road Church of Christ | Facebook Mentions &amp; Resources: Book Recommendation for depression: - Unmasking Male Depression by Archibald Hart - Adrenaline and Stress by Archibald Hart - Lost Connections by Johann Hari  - The Mindful Way Through Depression by Williams, Teasdale, Segal, and Kabat-Zinn If you need a safe place for healing and connection, check out: - WellSpring Process Groups: WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this episode we interview Kevin Vance, a church planter in Regina, SK, Canada. During a tumultuous time in a former job as college president, Kevin fell into a season of depression. Kevin shares here about the internal struggles he wrestled with and the relationships that put him on the road to healing. We also discuss the conflict that sometimes occurs in the church around seeking help for mental health issues.  If you're struggling with depression, know that you are not alone. See the suggested reading below. We encourage you to reach out to trusted friends and family, to seek counseling, and other forms of connection. Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> To find out more about Kevin Vance's church in Regina: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/GentleRoadChurchOfChrist" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gentle Road Church of Christ | Facebook</a> Mentions &amp; Resources: Book Recommendation for depression: - Unmasking Male Depression by Archibald Hart - Adrenaline and Stress by Archibald Hart - Lost Connections by Johann Hari  - The Mindful Way Through Depression by Williams, Teasdale, Segal, and Kabat-Zinn If you need a safe place for healing and connection, check out: - WellSpring Process Groups: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

The Depressed Leader

In this first episode of Season 2, Kevin and Paul introduce the expanded focus of the podcast. They then interview Josh Ross, minister at Sycamore View Church of Christ in Memphis, TN. Josh shares his story of grieving his sister's death, and what he's learned about living with grief over the past decade. We discuss the importance of letting ourselves grieve, as well as how to walk with others in their grief. To delve further into this topic, see Josh's book list below. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources - Josh Ross has several books associated with grief available at Amazon.com Amazon.com: Josh Ross: Books, Biography, Blog, Audiobooks, Kindle - Josh's book co-written with his mom: Scarred Hope: A Mother and Son Learn to Carry Grief and Live with Joy - Kindle edition by Ross, Beverly, Ross, Josh. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. - Ear Crystals that cause Vertigo: Mayo Clinic Q and A: Dizziness Caused by Inner Ear Crystals – Mayo Clinic News Network - Cat Milk: Amazon.com : Whiskas Catmilk for Cats and Kittens - 6.75 fl oz. - 3ct : Pet Supplies - Keeping a Squirrel as a Pet: Can You Keep A Squirrel As A Pet What You Need to Consider (squirrelenthusiast.com) For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this first episode of Season 2, Kevin and Paul introduce the expanded focus of the podcast. They then interview Josh Ross, minister at Sycamore View Church of Christ in Memphis, TN. Josh shares his story of grieving his sister's death, and what he's learned about living with grief over the past decade. We discuss the importance of letting ourselves grieve, as well as how to walk with others in their grief. To delve further into this topic, see Josh's book list below. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources - Josh Ross has several books associated with grief available at <a href="http://Amazon.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Josh-Ross/e/B00DXEJN5I?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_2&amp;qid=1635539738&amp;sr=8-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Amazon.com: Josh Ross: Books, Biography, Blog, Audiobooks, Kindle</a> - Josh's book co-written with his mom: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08GPHGWLP/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Scarred Hope: A Mother and Son Learn to Carry Grief and Live with Joy - Kindle edition by Ross, Beverly, Ross, Josh. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.</a> - Ear Crystals that cause Vertigo: <a href="https://newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org/discussion/mayo-clinic-q-and-a-bppv-dizziness-caused-by-inner-ear-crystals/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Mayo Clinic Q and A: Dizziness Caused by Inner Ear Crystals – Mayo Clinic News Network</a> - Cat Milk: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Whiskas-Catmilk-Cats-Kittens-6-75/dp/B00HVL9M7S/ref=sr_1_4?crid=1UWYC9LOQCUHR&amp;dchild=1&amp;keywords=cat+milk&amp;qid=1635542482&amp;qsid=143-0889367-8039368&amp;sprefix=cat+milk%2Caps%2C165&amp;sr=8-4&amp;sres=B00Q6OH0S4%2CB00HVL9M7S%2CB07DFQFLJL%2CB00LTFUWMQ%2CB073RRB92R%2CB00OLSARSW%2CB005OYJHJW%2CB004AR33JY%2CB08PMNVNHM%2CB002FL4LP2%2CB00063KNDK%2CB07NXN39B4%2CB086SXY9TJ%2CB01FLNWPBC%2CB08SFB38SR%2CB00JJY5332%2CB01LB9RM4K%2CB071CLC8BC%2CB01CEURBVE%2CB0002ASS0M&amp;srpt=PET_FOOD" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Amazon.com : Whiskas Catmilk for Cats and Kittens - 6.75 fl oz. - 3ct : Pet Supplies</a> - Keeping a Squirrel as a Pet: <a href="https://squirrelenthusiast.com/can-you-keep-a-squirrel-as-a-pet/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Can You Keep A Squirrel As A Pet What You Need to Consider (squirrelenthusiast.com)</a> For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Good Grief

Conversations and interviews that seek to move followers of Jesus, and specifically Christian leaders, from a place of isolation with their struggles to connection and healing. You are not alone.

In this episode, Kevin challenges us to go deeper in our desire to connect with others. We're only able to be truly known when we let others into the depths of what we feel and believe about our identity. Kevin describes how it takes hard work &amp; God's grace to uncover the stories we tell ourselves about who we are. In sharing these deep places with trusted others, we are not only known but also refined by the truth they give us.  If you need help taking the steps Kevin is suggesting, please contact us using the email below. Also contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this episode, Kevin challenges us to go deeper in our desire to connect with others. We're only able to be truly known when we let others into the depths of what we feel and believe about our identity. Kevin describes how it takes hard work &amp; God's grace to uncover the stories we tell ourselves about who we are. In sharing these deep places with trusted others, we are not only known but also refined by the truth they give us.  If you need help taking the steps Kevin is suggesting, please contact us using the email below. Also contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources For counseling needs &amp; training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

The Stories We Tell Ourselves

In this episode, we interview Randa Lamb and hear her story of experiencing trauma at the hands of a church's leadership. We discuss the damage that can happen when trust is broken in a spiritual community. Randa describes what healing &amp; connection have looked like for her since this happened, including her struggle to trust church &amp; the question of where God is in it all. Our hope is that Randa's story helps those who've experienced church-related trauma. (See below for several resources that may help in processing trauma.) Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources On Trauma &amp; Church Trauma (note: we have not read all of these resources): My Grandmother's Hands: a book about recovering from racial trauma. Sacred Wounds: A Path to Healing from Spiritual Trauma: includes healing exercises. Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church The Body Keeps the Score: how trauma impacts the mind and body. Escaping the Maze of Spiritual Abuse: Creating Healthy Christian Cultures: for Christian leaders to consider. - If you've experienced church trauma, consider seeking out a trauma-informed counselor or spiritual director.  RIP Professor Quirrell:  Yoga: - Trauma-sensitive Yoga? - The benefits of Hot Yoga - Frozen Yoga or Snowga For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this episode, we interview Randa Lamb and hear her story of experiencing trauma at the hands of a church's leadership. We discuss the damage that can happen when trust is broken in a spiritual community. Randa describes what healing &amp; connection have looked like for her since this happened, including her struggle to trust church &amp; the question of where God is in it all. Our hope is that Randa's story helps those who've experienced church-related trauma. (See below for several resources that may help in processing trauma.) Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources On Trauma &amp; Church Trauma (note: we have not read all of these resources): <a href="https://www.amazon.com/My-Grandmothers-Hands-Racialized-Pathway/dp/1942094477/ref=sr_1_1?crid=7ZWZTPARF9KG&amp;keywords=my+grandmother%27s+hands&amp;qid=1638810853&amp;sprefix=my+grandmother%27s%2Caps%2C169&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">My Grandmother's Hands</a>: a book about recovering from racial trauma. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Wounds-Healing-Spiritual-Trauma/dp/0827235372/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=sacred+wounds&amp;qid=1638811045&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Sacred Wounds: A Path to Healing from Spiritual Trauma</a>: includes healing exercises. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Redeeming-Power-Understanding-Authority-Church/dp/1587434385/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=redeeming+power&amp;qid=1638811196&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church</a> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=The+body+keeps+the+score&amp;qid=1638813395&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Body Keeps the Score</a>: how trauma impacts the mind and body. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Escaping-Maze-Spiritual-Abuse-Christian/dp/028108131X/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Escaping the Maze of Spiritual Abuse: Creating Healthy Christian Cultures</a>: for Christian leaders to consider. - If you've experienced church trauma, consider seeking out a trauma-informed counselor or spiritual director.  RIP Professor Quirrell: Yoga: - <a href="https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/benefits-of-yoga-for-trauma-treatment-mind-body-wellness-0816175" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Trauma-sensitive Yoga?</a> - <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/hot-yoga-benefits" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The benefits of Hot Yoga</a> - <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2015/03/05/style/frozen-yoga-its-snowga.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Frozen Yoga or Snowga</a> For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Church Trauma, Squirrels and Hot Yoga

One of the more difficult aspects of moving from isolation to connection can be the necessity of having some hard conversations. In this episode, we hear Hannah McMullen's story of growing up black in a predominantly white setting. She explains how it became difficult for her to have conversations about race, and how this kept her separated from others knowing her more fully. She shares stories of hurt and healing, and how a difficult conversation led to breakthrough. Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources ~John Townsend: How to Have that Difficult Conversation For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

One of the more difficult aspects of moving from isolation to connection can be the necessity of having some hard conversations. In this episode, we hear Hannah McMullen's story of growing up black in a predominantly white setting. She explains how it became difficult for her to have conversations about race, and how this kept her separated from others knowing her more fully. She shares stories of hurt and healing, and how a difficult conversation led to breakthrough. Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources ~<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Have-That-Difficult-Conversation-Communication/dp/0310342562/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1639960623&amp;sr=1-9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">John Townsend: How to Have that Difficult Conversation</a> For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Talking about Race and Other Hard Conversations

The road to connection involves finding the truth about who each of us are. There are all sorts of tools out there that help identify our personalities, but how can these be useful in the sanctifying work of God in our lives? In this episode, Kevin and Paul interview Dr. Shannon Raikes and Enneagram Coach, Stacie Joiner, to learn from their experience working with the Enneagram and inner healing prayer. We hope you feel invited into greater self-exploration, which we believe will give you more grace with yourself and others. Ultimately, as we listen to the Lord about who we are, we move from isolation to greater connection.  Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - Your Enneagram Coach | Free Enneagram Test, Courses, &amp; Coaching - For a gospel centered presentation of the types.  - The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery: Cron, Ian Morgan, Stabile, Suzanne: 9780830846191: Amazon.com: Books - An introduction to the Enneagram. - The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World: Comer, John Mark, Ortberg, John: 9780525653097: Amazon.com: Books - Pursuing emotional &amp; spiritual health in a world that doesn't want you to practice being present. - I Will Give You Rest, by Edward Kurath - A guide to inner healing. I Will Give You Rest Devotional Version - Kindle edition by Kurath, Edward, Carter, Jamie. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. - The BēMA podcast season 1 with Marty Solomon (he teaches why Shabbat is so important to God and for our sanctification).  - For enneagram typing: https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/ (goes deeper into subtypes) &amp; https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ (a detailed description of each type)For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

The road to connection involves finding the truth about who each of us are. There are all sorts of tools out there that help identify our personalities, but how can these be useful in the sanctifying work of God in our lives? In this episode, Kevin and Paul interview Dr. Shannon Raikes and Enneagram Coach, Stacie Joiner, to learn from their experience working with the Enneagram and inner healing prayer. We hope you feel invited into greater self-exploration, which we believe will give you more grace with yourself and others. Ultimately, as we listen to the Lord about who we are, we move from isolation to greater connection.  Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - <a href="https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Your Enneagram Coach | Free Enneagram Test, Courses, &amp; Coaching</a> - For a gospel centered presentation of the types.  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Road-Back-You-Enneagram-Self-Discovery/dp/0830846190/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3V9V9HY3F1ZFU&amp;keywords=The+Road+back+to+you&amp;qid=1643425516&amp;sprefix=the+road+back+to+you%2Caps%2C241&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">- The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery: Cron, Ian Morgan, Stabile, Suzanne: 9780830846191: Amazon.com: Books </a>- An introduction to the Enneagram. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Ruthless-Elimination-Hurry-Emotionally-Spiritually/dp/0525653090/ref=sr_1_1?crid=THREIWO06UYI&amp;keywords=the+ruthless+elimination+of+hurry&amp;qid=1643426007&amp;sprefix=The+Ruthl%2Caps%2C128&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">- The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World: Comer, John Mark, Ortberg, John: 9780525653097: Amazon.com: Books </a>- Pursuing emotional &amp; spiritual health in a world that doesn't want you to practice being present. - I Will Give You Rest, by Edward Kurath - A guide to inner healing. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Will-Give-Rest-Devotional-Version-ebook/dp/B009V7I780/ref=sr_1_2?crid=38ETIFZ9JOGA7&amp;keywords=i+will+give+you+rest&amp;qid=1643425315&amp;sprefix=i+will+give+you+rest%2Caps%2C89&amp;sr=8-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">I Will Give You Rest Devotional Version - Kindle edition by Kurath, Edward, Carter, Jamie. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.</a> - The BēMA podcast season 1 with Marty Solomon (he teaches why Shabbat is so important to God and for our sanctification).  - For enneagram typing: <a href="https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/ </a>(goes deeper into subtypes) &amp; <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ </a>(a detailed description of each type)For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Finding Ourselves to Find Others: The Enneagram Part 1

The road to connection involves finding the truth about who each of us are. There are all sorts of tools out there that help identify our personalities, but how can these be useful in the sanctifying work of God in our lives? In this episode, Kevin and Paul continue their interview with Dr. Shannon Raikes and Enneagram Coach, Stacie Joiner, to learn from their experience working with the Enneagram and inner healing prayer. We hope you feel invited into greater self-exploration, which we believe will give you more grace with yourself and others. Ultimately, as we listen to the Lord about who we are, we move from isolation to greater connection.  To connect with Stacie Joiner on the Enneagram: find her on Instagram: - https://www.instagram.com/enneahealing/ To connect with Dr. Shannon Raikes, email her at: shananafl@gmail.com Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - Your Enneagram Coach | Free Enneagram Test, Courses, &amp; Coaching - For a gospel centered presentation of the types.  - The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery: Cron, Ian Morgan, Stabile, Suzanne: 9780830846191: Amazon.com: Books - An introduction to the Enneagram. - The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World: Comer, John Mark, Ortberg, John: 9780525653097: Amazon.com: Books - Pursuing emotional &amp; spiritual health in a world that doesn't want you to practice being present. - I Will Give You Rest, by Edward Kurath - A guide to inner healing. I Will Give You Rest Devotional Version - Kindle edition by Kurath, Edward, Carter, Jamie. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. - The BēMA podcast season 1 with Marty Solomon (he teaches why Shabbat is so important to God and for our sanctification).  - For enneagram typing: https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/ (goes deeper into subtypes) &amp; https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ (a detailed description of each type)For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

The road to connection involves finding the truth about who each of us are. There are all sorts of tools out there that help identify our personalities, but how can these be useful in the sanctifying work of God in our lives? In this episode, Kevin and Paul continue their interview with Dr. Shannon Raikes and Enneagram Coach, Stacie Joiner, to learn from their experience working with the Enneagram and inner healing prayer. We hope you feel invited into greater self-exploration, which we believe will give you more grace with yourself and others. Ultimately, as we listen to the Lord about who we are, we move from isolation to greater connection.  To connect with Stacie Joiner on the Enneagram: find her on Instagram: - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/enneahealing/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/enneahealing/</a> To connect with Dr. Shannon Raikes, email her at: shananafl@gmail.com Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - <a href="https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Your Enneagram Coach | Free Enneagram Test, Courses, &amp; Coaching</a> - For a gospel centered presentation of the types.  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Road-Back-You-Enneagram-Self-Discovery/dp/0830846190/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3V9V9HY3F1ZFU&amp;keywords=The+Road+back+to+you&amp;qid=1643425516&amp;sprefix=the+road+back+to+you%2Caps%2C241&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">- The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery: Cron, Ian Morgan, Stabile, Suzanne: 9780830846191: Amazon.com: Books </a>- An introduction to the Enneagram. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Ruthless-Elimination-Hurry-Emotionally-Spiritually/dp/0525653090/ref=sr_1_1?crid=THREIWO06UYI&amp;keywords=the+ruthless+elimination+of+hurry&amp;qid=1643426007&amp;sprefix=The+Ruthl%2Caps%2C128&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">- The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World: Comer, John Mark, Ortberg, John: 9780525653097: Amazon.com: Books </a>- Pursuing emotional &amp; spiritual health in a world that doesn't want you to practice being present. - I Will Give You Rest, by Edward Kurath - A guide to inner healing. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Will-Give-Rest-Devotional-Version-ebook/dp/B009V7I780/ref=sr_1_2?crid=38ETIFZ9JOGA7&amp;keywords=i+will+give+you+rest&amp;qid=1643425315&amp;sprefix=i+will+give+you+rest%2Caps%2C89&amp;sr=8-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">I Will Give You Rest Devotional Version - Kindle edition by Kurath, Edward, Carter, Jamie. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.</a> - The BēMA podcast season 1 with Marty Solomon (he teaches why Shabbat is so important to God and for our sanctification).  - For enneagram typing: <a href="https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/ </a>(goes deeper into subtypes) &amp; <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ </a>(a detailed description of each type)For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Finding Ourselves to Find Others: The Enneagram Part Deux

There are two parts to this episode. Part 1 is a discussion between Kevin and Paul about the common sensation of feeling disconnected from God. They discuss how shame is a major factor in this feeling. They also talk about how a sacramental view of the world can help us be more attuned to God's presence. If you're interested in delving further into this topic, please contact Kevin and Paul at the email address below. In Part 2, Kevin and Paul interview Cheyenne Medders, who creates the music for this podcast. Cheyenne talks about the process of making music, and ways in which music has connected him with God and other people. Check out Cheyenne's music here: Cheyenne Medders Outlet Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - Hunting Magic Eels by Richard Beck: Hunting Magic Eels: Recovering an Enchanted Faith in a Skeptical Age: Beck, Richard: 9781506464657: Amazon.com: Books This is a helpful book in exploring how our attention and our theology effect the way we connect with and see God in the world. It's also a great book if you've found yourself deconstructing the faith of your youth. - The Bible Project:  What the Bible’s Authors Took for Granted – Paradigm E10 Podcast | BibleProject™ Not only is this podcast incredibly helpful in general, but this particular episode helps us understand how the Biblical authors had a sacramental view of reality. - Shine by Daniel Lanois: Daniel Lanois - Shine - YouTube Check it out!For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

There are two parts to this episode. Part 1 is a discussion between Kevin and Paul about the common sensation of feeling disconnected from God. They discuss how shame is a major factor in this feeling. They also talk about how a sacramental view of the world can help us be more attuned to God's presence. If you're interested in delving further into this topic, please contact Kevin and Paul at the email address below. In Part 2, Kevin and Paul interview Cheyenne Medders, who creates the music for this podcast. Cheyenne talks about the process of making music, and ways in which music has connected him with God and other people. Check out Cheyenne's music here: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6eYimWD77oHxylTKoGCjxz" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Outlet</a> Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - Hunting Magic Eels by Richard Beck: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hunting-Magic-Eels-Recovering-Enchanted/dp/1506464653/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hunting Magic Eels: Recovering an Enchanted Faith in a Skeptical Age: Beck, Richard: 9781506464657: Amazon.com: Books</a> This is a helpful book in exploring how our attention and our theology effect the way we connect with and see God in the world. It's also a great book if you've found yourself deconstructing the faith of your youth. - The Bible Project: <a href="https://bibleproject.com/podcast/what-bibles-authors-took-granted/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">What the Bible’s Authors Took for Granted – Paradigm E10 Podcast | BibleProject™</a> Not only is this podcast incredibly helpful in general, but this particular episode helps us understand how the Biblical authors had a sacramental view of reality. - Shine by Daniel Lanois: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3MA_7GUoyQ" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Daniel Lanois - Shine - YouTube</a> Check it out!For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

God in Thin Spaces

In this episode, Kevin and Paul continue their conversation about barriers to our connection with God. They discuss common approaches to God that they believe are inadequate in and of themselves. Use the email address below to contact us with any questions, comments, or requests for episode topics to cover. *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: EEM | Eastern European Mission Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - Hunting Magic Eels by Richard Beck: Hunting Magic Eels: Recovering an Enchanted Faith in a Skeptical Age: Beck, Richard: 9781506464657: Amazon.com: Books This is a helpful book in exploring how our attention and our theology effect the way we connect with and see God in the world. It's also a great book if you've found yourself deconstructing the faith of your youth. - The Bible Project:  What the Bible’s Authors Took for Granted – Paradigm E10 Podcast | BibleProject™ Not only is this podcast incredibly helpful in general, but this particular episode helps us understand how the Biblical authors had a sacramental view of reality. - Take a listen to Draw Near &amp; Pieces by Bethel Music as you consider your approach to God:  Draw Near (LIVE) - Jeremy Riddle | The Loft Sessions - YouTube Pieces (Official Lyric Video) - Steffany Gretzinger | Have It All - YouTube Check it out!For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this episode, Kevin and Paul continue their conversation about barriers to our connection with God. They discuss common approaches to God that they believe are inadequate in and of themselves. Use the email address below to contact us with any questions, comments, or requests for episode topics to cover. *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through <a href="https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid</a> goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: <a href="https://www.eem.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">EEM | Eastern European Mission</a> Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - Hunting Magic Eels by Richard Beck: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hunting-Magic-Eels-Recovering-Enchanted/dp/1506464653/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hunting Magic Eels: Recovering an Enchanted Faith in a Skeptical Age: Beck, Richard: 9781506464657: Amazon.com: Books</a> This is a helpful book in exploring how our attention and our theology effect the way we connect with and see God in the world. It's also a great book if you've found yourself deconstructing the faith of your youth. - The Bible Project: <a href="https://bibleproject.com/podcast/what-bibles-authors-took-granted/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">What the Bible’s Authors Took for Granted – Paradigm E10 Podcast | BibleProject™</a> Not only is this podcast incredibly helpful in general, but this particular episode helps us understand how the Biblical authors had a sacramental view of reality. - Take a listen to Draw Near &amp; Pieces by Bethel Music as you consider your approach to God:  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qpn_qsjPCrY" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Draw Near (LIVE) - Jeremy Riddle | The Loft Sessions - YouTube</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fI9aqfmVmPc" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Pieces (Official Lyric Video) - Steffany Gretzinger | Have It All - YouTube</a> Check it out!For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Tuning in to God

Back by popular demand... The road to connection involves finding the truth about who each of us is. There are all sorts of tools out there that help identify our personalities, but how can these be useful in the sanctifying work of God in our lives? In this episode, Paul resumes the conversation with Dr. Shannon Raikes and Enneagram Coach, Stacie Joiner, to learn from their experience working with the Enneagram and inner healing prayer. We hope you feel invited into greater self-exploration, which we believe will give you more grace with yourself and others. Ultimately, as we listen to the Lord about who we are, we move from isolation to greater connection.  To connect with Stacie Joiner on the Enneagram: find her on Instagram: - https://www.instagram.com/enneahealing/ To connect with Dr. Shannon Raikes, email her at: shananafl@gmail.com Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Check out our Facebook page! Created for Connection | Facebook *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: EEM | Eastern European Mission This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - The Lord of the Rings characters by Enneagram # - The Steps to Freedom in Christ by Neil T. Anderson - Your Enneagram Coach | Free Enneagram Test, Courses, &amp; Coaching - For a gospel centered presentation of the types.  - The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World: Comer, John Mark, Ortberg, John: 9780525653097: Amazon.com: Books - Pursuing emotional &amp; spiritual health in a world that doesn't want you to practice being present. - I Will Give You Rest, by Edward Kurath - A guide to inner healing. I Will Give You Rest Devotional Version - Kindle edition by Kurath, Edward, Carter, Jamie. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. - The BēMA podcast season 1 with Marty Solomon (he teaches why Shabbat is so important to God and for our sanctification).  - For enneagram typing: https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/ (goes deeper into subtypes) &amp; https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ (a detailed description of each type)For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

Back by popular demand... The road to connection involves finding the truth about who each of us is. There are all sorts of tools out there that help identify our personalities, but how can these be useful in the sanctifying work of God in our lives? In this episode, Paul resumes the conversation with Dr. Shannon Raikes and Enneagram Coach, Stacie Joiner, to learn from their experience working with the Enneagram and inner healing prayer. We hope you feel invited into greater self-exploration, which we believe will give you more grace with yourself and others. Ultimately, as we listen to the Lord about who we are, we move from isolation to greater connection.  To connect with Stacie Joiner on the Enneagram: find her on Instagram: - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/enneahealing/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/enneahealing/</a> To connect with Dr. Shannon Raikes, email her at: shananafl@gmail.com Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Check out our Facebook page! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/cforconnection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Created for Connection | Facebook</a> *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through <a href="https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid</a> goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: <a href="https://www.eem.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">EEM | Eastern European Mission</a> This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources - <a href="https://ashleyghughey.wordpress.com/2021/02/15/members-of-the-fellowship-of-the-ring-by-enneagram-type/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Lord of the Rings characters by Enneagram #</a> - <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0764219421/ref=cm_sw_r_em_api_i_2S0C43WMT910T90YP1MJ" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Steps to Freedom in Christ by Neil T. Anderson</a> - <a href="https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Your Enneagram Coach | Free Enneagram Test, Courses, &amp; Coaching</a> - For a gospel centered presentation of the types.  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Ruthless-Elimination-Hurry-Emotionally-Spiritually/dp/0525653090/ref=sr_1_1?crid=THREIWO06UYI&amp;keywords=the+ruthless+elimination+of+hurry&amp;qid=1643426007&amp;sprefix=The+Ruthl%2Caps%2C128&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">- The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World: Comer, John Mark, Ortberg, John: 9780525653097: Amazon.com: Books </a>- Pursuing emotional &amp; spiritual health in a world that doesn't want you to practice being present. - I Will Give You Rest, by Edward Kurath - A guide to inner healing. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Will-Give-Rest-Devotional-Version-ebook/dp/B009V7I780/ref=sr_1_2?crid=38ETIFZ9JOGA7&amp;keywords=i+will+give+you+rest&amp;qid=1643425315&amp;sprefix=i+will+give+you+rest%2Caps%2C89&amp;sr=8-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">I Will Give You Rest Devotional Version - Kindle edition by Kurath, Edward, Carter, Jamie. Religion &amp; Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.</a> - The BēMA podcast season 1 with Marty Solomon (he teaches why Shabbat is so important to God and for our sanctification).  - For enneagram typing: <a href="https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://integrative9.com/Enneagram/ </a>(goes deeper into subtypes) &amp; <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ </a>(a detailed description of each type)For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Finding Ourselves to Find Others: The Enneagram Part III

In this episode, we interview Jill Shelby, NextGen minister at The Hills Church. Jill shares her story of going to the mission field and returning to the States, and how God has been graciously removing idols from her life along the way. Jill invites us into the process of letting go of our idols to find a better Love. She also describes how our approach to life in God is more about a receptive posture, rather than a new set of practices. When we let God tear down our idols and we open our hands to receive from Him, remarkable things will happen! Check out book recommendations from Jill in our Resources section. Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Check out our Facebook page! Created for Connection | Facebook *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: EEM | Eastern European Mission This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources (You can find all of the following book recommendation from Jill at www.amazon.com) -The Grace Outpouring by Roy Godwin-The Life Jesus Made Possible by Bill Randall-A Guide for Listening and Inner-Healing Prayer by Rusty Rustenbach-Children, Can You Hear Me? by Brad Jersak-Can You Hear Me? by Brad Jersak-Falling for God: Saying Yes to His Extravagant Proposal by Gary Moon-Discipleship Begins with Beholding by Samuel Whitefield-Marching off the Map: Inspire Students to Navigate a Brand New World by Tim Elmore For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this episode, we interview Jill Shelby, NextGen minister at The Hills Church. Jill shares her story of going to the mission field and returning to the States, and how God has been graciously removing idols from her life along the way. Jill invites us into the process of letting go of our idols to find a better Love. She also describes how our approach to life in God is more about a receptive posture, rather than a new set of practices. When we let God tear down our idols and we open our hands to receive from Him, remarkable things will happen! Check out book recommendations from Jill in our Resources section. Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Check out our Facebook page! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/cforconnection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Created for Connection | Facebook</a> *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through <a href="https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid</a> goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: <a href="https://www.eem.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">EEM | Eastern European Mission</a> This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources (You can find all of the following book recommendation from Jill at <a href="https://www.amazon.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.amazon.com</a>) -The Grace Outpouring by Roy Godwin -The Life Jesus Made Possible by Bill Randall -A Guide for Listening and Inner-Healing Prayer by Rusty Rustenbach -Children, Can You Hear Me? by Brad Jersak -Can You Hear Me? by Brad Jersak -Falling for God: Saying Yes to His Extravagant Proposal by Gary Moon -Discipleship Begins with Beholding by Samuel Whitefield -Marching off the Map: Inspire Students to Navigate a Brand New World by Tim Elmore   For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

Crumbling Idols and Receiving God’s Presence

In this episode, we interview Dr. Trent Langhofer. Trent is a professor, counseling clinical director, and pastor in Colorado Springs, CO. Trent shares his powerful story of drug addiction and being found by God, and how this has shaped his life ever since. We discuss helpful ways to connect with those stuck in addiction and about steps to take when we feel trapped ourselves. Trent describes the two transformational forces of love and pain, as well as steps we can take when stuck in comfort and mediocrity. Check out Trent's book recommendations under Resources below. Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: cforconnection@gmail.com. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Check out our Facebook page! Created for Connection | Facebook *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: EEM | Eastern European Mission This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. WellSpring Interest Form WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook   Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: Cheyenne Medders Official   Mentions &amp; Resources Resources (You can find all of the following book recommendation from Trent at www.amazon.com) -The Body Keeps the Score, by Bessel van der Kolk (how trauma manifests in the body)-Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body and Brain, by Dan Siegel &amp; Marion Solomon-In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, by Gabor Mate (understanding addiction)-Man's Search for Meaning, by Victor Frankl (classic on finding meaning through suffering)-The Ragamuffin Gospel, by Brennan Manning (God's grace for the beat down and burnt out) For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com) - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling# - The Townsend Institute: Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com) To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info) To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - Alpha Course

In this episode, we interview Dr. Trent Langhofer. Trent is a professor, counseling clinical director, and pastor in Colorado Springs, CO. Trent shares his powerful story of drug addiction and being found by God, and how this has shaped his life ever since. We discuss helpful ways to connect with those stuck in addiction and about steps to take when we feel trapped ourselves. Trent describes the two transformational forces of love and pain, as well as steps we can take when stuck in comfort and mediocrity. Check out Trent's book recommendations under Resources below. Please contact Kevin and Paul with questions, comments or topic requests for the podcast: <a href="mailto:cforconnection@gmail.com">cforconnection@gmail.com</a>. If you have a story of isolation and connection with God or church, we'd love to hear it. Check out our Facebook page! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/cforconnection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Created for Connection | Facebook</a> *The war in Ukraine has created significant needs for millions of people. We want to offer this opportunity to support a trustworthy organization where all the funds go directly to aid. Eastern European Missions has been involved in Ukraine and the rest of eastern Europe for decades. Supported leaders from Kyiv have fled the country and are now positioned in Vienna, Austria. They are dispersing funds directly to people in need and ministries meeting the immediate needs of people. All funds donated through <a href="https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://EEM.org/Ukraineaid</a> goes directly to specific needs either in Ukraine or in the refugee communities. We encourage you to check it out and generously donate as you're able.  EEM has supplied Bibles translated into local languages for decades. They report there being so many requests for Bibles among the Ukrainian refugees that supplies are running out. Check out EEM's website and consider supporting this organizations work supplying Bibles throughout eastern Europe: <a href="https://www.eem.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">EEM | Eastern European Mission</a> This episode is sponsored by WellSpring Process Groups. If you'd like space to journey with a supportive group who will help you process whatever you're facing in life, sign up today for a process group with WellSpring. Paul and his associates facilitate these 12-week, online support groups that are based on biblical principles &amp; the research of Christian psychologist, John Townsend. Use the link below to contact WellSpring today. <a href="https://forms.gle/GiZxoKtHR62F2vt5A" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring Interest Form</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/WellSpringProcessGroups" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">WellSpring: Process Groups | Facebook</a> Podcast Music written and produced by Cheyenne Medders: <a href="http://cheyennemedders.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cheyenne Medders Official</a> Mentions &amp; Resources Resources (You can find all of the following book recommendation from Trent at <a href="https://www.amazon.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.amazon.com</a>) -The Body Keeps the Score, by Bessel van der Kolk (how trauma manifests in the body) -Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body and Brain, by Dan Siegel &amp; Marion Solomon -In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, by Gabor Mate (understanding addiction) -Man's Search for Meaning, by Victor Frankl (classic on finding meaning through suffering) -The Ragamuffin Gospel, by Brennan Manning (God's grace for the beat down and burnt out)   For Counseling Needs &amp; Training: - Dr. Shelby's counseling: <a href="https://www.renewmystory.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Renew Christian Counseling (renewmystory.com)</a> - Harding University Professional Counseling Program: <a href="https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.harding.edu/academics/colleges-departments/education/graduate-programs/mental-health-wellness-programs/clinical-mental-health-counseling#</a> - The Townsend Institute: <a href="https://drtownsend.com/townsend-institute/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Townsend Institute - Dr. John Townsend (drtownsend.com)</a> To find community in whatever you're struggling with: - Celebrate Recovery (find a group): <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locator Map (crgroups.info)</a> To explore Christian faith or to learn how you or your church can better share faith: - <a href="https://alpha.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alpha Course</a>

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