Stu talks about why everyone can benefit from the principles of recovery. For our Marriages, there are 4 big principles (+1 more) that can help change the dynamic in your marriage: Surrendering To God Sharing Your Brokenness Honestly Making Restitution for the Hurts You Have Caused Getting the Guidance of God And a Bonus: Serving others What do you think? Have you tried any of these in your marriage? 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: @stugray (or send a direct message)   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Stu talks about why everyone can benefit from the principles of recovery. For our Marriages, there are 4 big principles (+1 more) that can help change the dynamic in your marriage: Surrendering To God Sharing Your Brokenness Honestly Making Restitution for the Hurts You Have Caused Getting the Guidance of God And a Bonus: Serving others What do you think? Have you tried any of these in your marriage? 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a> (or <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">send a direct message</a>) +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Recover your Marriage - 4 Principles That Can Stupendify Your Relationship

On this episode of the Stupendous Marriage Podcast, Stu Shares part of his conversation with Chris Taylor and J, Parker on the Knowing Her Sexually Podcast. Listen to the whole conversation here. 🔥Find J. Parker at Hot Holy &amp; Humorous 🍯Find Chris Taylor at Honeycomb &amp; Spice 👸For Christian Wives: Sex Chat for Christian Wives Podcast   We'd Love to Hear from You... 🐥Send us a message on Twitter: @stugray (or send a direct message)   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

On this episode of the Stupendous Marriage Podcast, Stu Shares part of his conversation with Chris Taylor and J, Parker on the Knowing Her Sexually Podcast. Listen to the <a href="https://khsministry.com/2023/06/22/episode-72-stu-gray/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">whole conversation here.</a> 🔥Find J. Parker at <a href="https://hotholyhumorous.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Hot Holy &amp; Humorous</a> 🍯Find Chris Taylor at <a href="https://honeycombspice.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Honeycomb &amp; Spice</a> 👸For Christian Wives: <a href="https://forchristianwives.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Sex Chat for Christian Wives Podcast</a> We'd Love to Hear from You... 🐥Send us a message on Twitter: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a> (or <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">send a direct message</a>) +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Men and Women are Different - and that's Stupendous!

On this Stupendous Marriage Podcast A Listener writes that she and her husband are 'Talking past each other'...   What would you say to her?   Do you have a question about marriage? 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: @stugray (or send a direct message)   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

On this Stupendous Marriage Podcast A Listener writes that she and her husband are 'Talking past each other'... What would you say to her? Do you have a question about marriage? 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a> (or <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">send a direct message</a>) +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

We are Talking Past Each other in our Marriage

On This Episode Stu and Lisa answer a question from someone who isn't married yet!  Also: check out the Knowing Her Sexually Podcast (Stu was on a current episode!) (Here is the show in Apple Podcasts)   We'd love to hear from you! The best way to contact us right now is 🐥Send us a message on Twitter! @stugray (or send a direct message)   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

On This Episode Stu and Lisa answer a question from someone who isn't married yet!  Also: check out the <a href="https://khsministry.com/2023/06/22/episode-72-stu-gray/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Knowing Her Sexually Podcast</a> (Stu was on a current episode!) (<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/knowing-her-sexually/id1503997077" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Here is the show in Apple Podcasts)</a> We'd love to hear from you! The best way to contact us right now is 🐥Send us a message on Twitter! <a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a> (or <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">send a direct message</a>) +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Preparing for the Marriage Not just the Wedding Day is Stupendous

Today Stu and Lisa Talk about a message from Rebecca who shares about her new marriage and how her husband and she enjoy being "Students" of one another...! Are You a Good STUDENT of your Spouse? And What are you TEACHING your spouse?  (because - if there is a STUDENT...there is a TEACHER) +++ 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: @stugray (or send a direct message)   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Today Stu and Lisa Talk about a message from Rebecca who shares about her new marriage and how her husband and she enjoy being "Students" of one another...! Are You a Good STUDENT of your Spouse? And What are you TEACHING your spouse?  (because - if there is a STUDENT...there is a TEACHER) +++ 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a> (or <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">send a direct message</a>) +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Being a Student of Your Spouse is Stupendous

Stu and Lisa are Chatting about an Article from Julie Siebert at IntimacyinMarriage.com Julie's article "Sex at the Inlaws? Is this a Good Idea?" What say You? 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: @stugray (or send a direct message)   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Stu and Lisa are Chatting about an Article from Julie Siebert at <a href="http://IntimacyinMarriage.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">IntimacyinMarriage.com</a> Julie's article "<a href="https://intimacyinmarriage.com/2011/11/15/sex-at-the-in-laws-is-this-a-good-idea/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Sex at the Inlaws? Is this a Good Idea?</a>" What say You? 🐥Send us a message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a> (or <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">send a direct message</a>) +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Is Nookie at the InLaws Stupendous (or Weird)?

Lisa Looks at Genesis 3:16 from the Bible. Here is the verse that she mentioned: Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy,     and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband,     but he will rule over you.  What did God Say to Eve after that whole Eating the Fruit thing?  What are the ramifications of the "Curse" God gave to husbands AND Wives?    Does that resonate with you as a wife? 🐥Send us a tweet or message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: @stugray (or send a direct message)   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Lisa Looks at Genesis 3:16 from the Bible. Here is the verse that she mentioned: Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy,     and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband,     but he will rule over you. <ul> <li>What did God Say to Eve after that whole Eating the Fruit thing? </li> <li>What are the ramifications of the "Curse" God gave to husbands AND Wives?</li> </ul> Does that resonate with you as a wife? 🐥Send us a tweet or message on Twitter - We Love hearing from you: <a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a> (or <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">send a direct message</a>) +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Not Controlling Your Husband is Stupendous

What are the 5 Love Languages and how can you use them to love your spouse well? Here are the 5 Love Languages: Time Touch Gifts Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Take the Love Languages Test by clicking here 🐥⤵️ Send Stu a Tweet and let him know (@stugray)!!   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

What are the 5 Love Languages and how can you use them to love your spouse well? Here are the 5 Love Languages: Time Touch Gifts Words of Affirmation Acts of Service <a href="https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take the Love Languages Test by clicking here</a> 🐥⤵️ <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Send Stu a Tweet</a> and let him know (<a href="https://www.twitter.com/stugray" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a>)!! +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Learning Your Spouses Love Language is Stupdendous

Do you have a great friendship with your spouse?  What would that even look like? Here are a couple ideas for you to develop your intimacy and your friendship:  Find or develop Shared interests Make LAughter a priority in your relationhsip Support your spouses dreams Make Listening to your spouse a 'full body sport' Find Posckets of time to spend together Don't keep secrets Figure out the Big 3 of Sex: Frequency, Duration, and What You Like/Dislike  What would you add to this list? 🐥⤵️ Send Stu a Tweet and let him know!!   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Do you have a great friendship with your spouse?  What would that even look like? Here are a couple ideas for you to develop your intimacy and your friendship: <ol> <li>Find or develop Shared interests</li> <li>Make LAughter a priority in your relationhsip</li> <li>Support your spouses dreams</li> <li>Make Listening to your spouse a 'full body sport'</li> <li>Find Posckets of time to spend together</li> <li>Don't keep secrets</li> <li>Figure out the Big 3 of Sex: Frequency, Duration, and What You Like/Dislike</li> </ol> What would you add to this list? 🐥⤵️ <a href="https://twitter.com/stugray" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Send Stu a Tweet</a> and let him know!! +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

A Stupendous Marriage is a Relationship of Intimate Friends

Stu gives you 10 ways to shake it up in your marriage 🕺🏼 Which one are you going to try out with your spouse?  Kick the TV out of the Bedroom (Bedrooms are for 2 things!) Have Date Lunches (Not Dinners) Put the kids to bed! (They don't need to stay up so late) Take up a hobby together (It'll keep you connected) Dance at Restaurants (Make people look at you funny) Be tourists in your city (Every city has something cool to explore) Go to the playground and swing! (Be playful!) Tell them ONE thing you love about them (They have one thing - right?) Turn off the phones, computers and tablets (connect with them not a device) Play games together (playfulness is a theme!)  🐥⤵️ Send Stu a Tweet and let him know!!   +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

Stu gives you 10 ways to shake it up in your marriage 🕺🏼 Which one are you going to try out with your spouse? <ol> <li>Kick the TV out of the Bedroom (Bedrooms are for 2 things!)</li> <li>Have Date Lunches (Not Dinners)</li> <li>Put the kids to bed! (They don't need to stay up so late)</li> <li>Take up a hobby together (It'll keep you connected)</li> <li>Dance at Restaurants (Make people look at you funny)</li> <li>Be tourists in your city (Every city has something cool to explore)</li> <li>Go to the playground and swing! (Be playful!)</li> <li>Tell them ONE thing you love about them (They have one thing - right?)</li> <li>Turn off the phones, computers and tablets (connect with them not a device)</li> <li>Play games together (playfulness is a theme!)</li> </ol> 🐥⤵️ <a href="https://twitter.com/stugray" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Send Stu a Tweet</a> and let him know!! +++ Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): <a href="https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://uppbeat.io/t/soundroll/when-my-ukulele-plays</a> License code: 3ZQD5ZKNSVI2OOYH

10 Ways to Stupendously Shake It Up in Your Marriage

Stu and Lisa Gray answer marriage and relationship questions from a Christian perspective! It's about inspiring and encouraging you to have a Stupendous Marriage and Family.

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Stu and Lisa Gray answer marriage and relationship questions from a Christian perspective! It's about inspiring and encouraging you to have a Stupendous Marriage and Family.

Stupendous Marriage Podcast

ASK YOUR QUESTION ABOUT MARRIAGE: 1.615.592.1060 Expectations vs. Reality in Marriage Episode 156 this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: *The Battle of "Fine" Do you have this battle in your marriage too? *Subscribe to our free email updates: Stupendous Marriage. com Listener Question: My husband and I have been married for a few years now and we have a toddler. I've found myself struggling with frustration and discontentment as a stay-at-home mom. Before we got married, I'm sure I pictured myself as this ideal Christian wife and mom, being involved at church together as a family, decorating my Pinterest-perfect home, etc. In reality, my husband's present work schedule doesn't allow us to do ministry as a family, we are living in a small apartment that doesn't feel like home, and plans for the future are still up in the air. This isn't where I want our family to be, and I've started to take my frustration out on my husband. God has really been convicting me about my spirit, and I want to be  a happier more content wife and mom. I'd like your practical advice on how to reconcile expectation vs. reality. Resources:  We talked about expectations in previous shows:  Managing Expectations in Your Marriage, Unmet Expectations  Expectations meeting Reality series from Focus on the Family  Support Stupendous Marriage!  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS!   Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher   Show art: Photo Circle about rings from Pixabay Additional Music from Audiohero.com

ASK YOUR QUESTION ABOUT MARRIAGE: <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Expectations vs. Reality in Marriage Episode 156 this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: *The Battle of "Fine" Do you have this battle in your marriage too? *Subscribe to our free email updates: <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage. com</a> Listener Question: My husband and I have been married for a few years now and we have a toddler. I've found myself struggling with frustration and discontentment as a stay-at-home mom. Before we got married, I'm sure I pictured myself as this ideal Christian wife and mom, being involved at church together as a family, decorating my Pinterest-perfect home, etc. In reality, my husband's present work schedule doesn't allow us to do ministry as a family, we are living in a small apartment that doesn't feel like home, and plans for the future are still up in the air. This isn't where I want our family to be, and I've started to take my frustration out on my husband. God has really been convicting me about my spirit, and I want to be  a happier more content wife and mom. I'd like your practical advice on how to reconcile expectation vs. reality. Resources: <ul> <li>We talked about expectations in previous shows: <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/114-managing-expectations-spouse" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Managing Expectations in Your Marriage</a>, <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/136-unmet-expectations" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Unmet Expectations</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/the-early-years/when-expectations-meet-reality/when-expectations-meet-reality" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Expectations meeting Reality</a> series from Focus on the Family</li> </ul> Support Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Show art: Photo <a href="https://pixabay.com/en/circle-about-rings-colorful-209415/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Circle about rings</a> from <a href="https://pixabay.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Pixabay</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Expectations Versus Reality 

On the Show Today: Her husband is emotionally unavailable, and she feels trapped after starting a family at a young age. Stu and Lisa answer some of her questions.   Email Highlights for today: My husband and I are 26 years old. We have been together for 9 years (married for 5). I was raised in a single mom household with a strict mother who worked 3 jobs so I stood home and babysat my sister (4 years younger than me.) I was never allowed to have friends over or hang out with friends...My mother did everything she could to make sure we were cared for but because she worked so hard I didn’t have much of a personal life. My husband was the opposite. He was from a married parent home, dad worked mom stood home. They gave him all the freedom in the world to do as he pleased but they are a very reserved family. No emotions, no affection...I feel like personally, I felt trapped. I went from not being able to do anything as a teenager to being tied down by the family life with kids and a husband. I felt, and sometimes still feel like, I was never able to find myself and who I am as a person which is why I started to grow in my faith and take the journey with the Lord...But my husband is the “problem” he is an AMAZINNGGGG husband!! He helps out more than I could imagine at home. He does dishes, does laundry, sweeps, mops, makes beds, works 40 hours a week, cooks meals when I don’t have the strength, takes the kids to and forth but he lacks emotionally. I am a stay at home mom. When I bring up my feelings to other women, especially my own mom, she claims I am being a “brat” or a “baby” and whining about nothing, he is great and it's me who has the problem. I have now learned to keep my mouth shut but it is affecting our marriage...my husband is an amazing provider and partner in our home but he lacks in affection, attention and following the lord. Stu and Lisa, please help me. I feel like I have exhausted every angle from praying for us both, sending him little articles or highlights of the articles (neither which he will read), dropping hints, approaching conversations the right way, using I statements vs making it about him, I praise him, I encourage him, I lift him up but I see none of that in return. I overfill his love tank and my children’s while mine is running on empty.   Links Acts 2:8 Galatians 6:9  Matthew 13:1-23    Emotionally Distant Husbands:  Does your husband Stink at Romance? Mine Too!  Fighting for your marriage when your spouse is emotionally distantLake Tahoe Couples Getaway! ($100 off with our Affiliate Link!)     TEXT US YOUR question!!!! 1.615.592.1060 Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage!  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe:  iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

On the Show Today: Her husband is emotionally unavailable, and she feels trapped after starting a family at a young age. Stu and Lisa answer some of her questions. Email Highlights for today: My husband and I are 26 years old. We have been together for 9 years (married for 5). I was raised in a single mom household with a strict mother who worked 3 jobs so I stood home and babysat my sister (4 years younger than me.) I was never allowed to have friends over or hang out with friends...My mother did everything she could to make sure we were cared for but because she worked so hard I didn’t have much of a personal life. My husband was the opposite. He was from a married parent home, dad worked mom stood home. They gave him all the freedom in the world to do as he pleased but they are a very reserved family. No emotions, no affection...I feel like personally, I felt trapped. I went from not being able to do anything as a teenager to being tied down by the family life with kids and a husband. I felt, and sometimes still feel like, I was never able to find myself and who I am as a person which is why I started to grow in my faith and take the journey with the Lord...But my husband is the “problem” he is an AMAZINNGGGG husband!! He helps out more than I could imagine at home. He does dishes, does laundry, sweeps, mops, makes beds, works 40 hours a week, cooks meals when I don’t have the strength, takes the kids to and forth but he lacks emotionally. I am a stay at home mom. When I bring up my feelings to other women, especially my own mom, she claims I am being a “brat” or a “baby” and whining about nothing, he is great and it's me who has the problem. I have now learned to keep my mouth shut but it is affecting our marriage...my husband is an amazing provider and partner in our home but he lacks in affection, attention and following the lord. Stu and Lisa, please help me. I feel like I have exhausted every angle from praying for us both, sending him little articles or highlights of the articles (neither which he will read), dropping hints, approaching conversations the right way, using I statements vs making it about him, I praise him, I encourage him, I lift him up but I see none of that in return. I overfill his love tank and my children’s while mine is running on empty. Links <a href="https://www.blueletterbible.org/net/act/1/8/s_1019008" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Acts 2:8</a> <a href="https://biblehub.com/galatians/6-9.htm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Galatians 6:9</a> <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+13%3A1-23&amp;version=TPT" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Matthew 13:1-23</a>   Emotionally Distant Husbands: <a href="https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/10/does-your-husband-stink-at-romance-mine-too/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Does your husband Stink at Romance? Mine Too!</a> <a href="https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/communication-and-conflict/fight-for-your-marriage-when-your-spouse-is-emotionally-distant" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Fighting for your marriage when your spouse is emotionally distant</a><a href="http://www.tahoecouplesgetaway.com/stupendous" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Lake Tahoe Couples Getaway!</a> ($100 off with our Affiliate Link!)   TEXT US YOUR question!!!! <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

My Husband is Emotionally Lacking

My wife doesn't trust me after my behavior this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today:    Adulting can be tough.   Looking for a new car (car is dying), new microwave (microwave is dead), and new lights in our home.   Could be worse, but we are a little overwhelmed  Email for today: I just stumbled on your podcast - I believe it's a sign.   My wife and I have been together for 7 and a half years. - married for 2 and a half. We have two children together but - also have children from previous relationships.      In the beginning, we had an amazing relationship, -  after our first daughter together was born, an ex of mine got in contact with me and I felt like I was keeping it professional. she would take it too far talking about intimate times we had. I responded to one or two of those and then realized it was a horrible thing to do and cut off contact completely. My wife found these messages and that's where our whole relationship took a turn for the worse. Since then she has had trust issues - We hit church hard, became believers and would be in and out of the word. When things were good we weren't in the word as much when things were bad we got back in the word. No consistency.      I recently had a one night stand that I regret - I had to tell her about it and it broke her heart. I have a lot of work to do to be me. And I'm doing it. She is in and out. One minute wants nothing to do with me, the next we are back together. It's confusing. I know she cares but, she says she wants to see what else is out there (she's afraid our relationship was toxic for so long that things will never change).     I understand her, but I believe there's nothing that's happened that God can't heal. II want to find a way to show her this without being suffocating at the same time. I love her, I'm working on finding out the truth about why I did what I did. In the meantime I sadly feel I'm the only one putting forth the effort like she's already given up. Thank you TEXT US YOUR question!!!! 1.615.592.1060 Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage!    (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show!   Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!   Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly.   Tell your Married Friends about the show!   Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe:  iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

My wife doesn't trust me after my behavior this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: <ul> <li> </li> <li>Adulting can be tough.</li> <li> </li> <li>Looking for a new car (car is dying), new microwave (microwave is dead), and new lights in our home.</li> <li> </li> <li>Could be worse, but we are a little overwhelmed</li> </ul> Email for today: I just stumbled on your podcast - I believe it's a sign.   My wife and I have been together for 7 and a half years. - married for 2 and a half. We have two children together but - also have children from previous relationships.      In the beginning, we had an amazing relationship, -  after our first daughter together was born, an ex of mine got in contact with me and I felt like I was keeping it professional. she would take it too far talking about intimate times we had. I responded to one or two of those and then realized it was a horrible thing to do and cut off contact completely. My wife found these messages and that's where our whole relationship took a turn for the worse. Since then she has had trust issues - We hit church hard, became believers and would be in and out of the word. When things were good we weren't in the word as much when things were bad we got back in the word. No consistency.      I recently had a one night stand that I regret - I had to tell her about it and it broke her heart. I have a lot of work to do to be me. And I'm doing it. She is in and out. One minute wants nothing to do with me, the next we are back together. It's confusing. I know she cares but, she says she wants to see what else is out there (she's afraid our relationship was toxic for so long that things will never change).     I understand her, but I believe there's nothing that's happened that God can't heal. II want to find a way to show her this without being suffocating at the same time. I love her, I'm working on finding out the truth about why I did what I did. In the meantime I sadly feel I'm the only one putting forth the effort like she's already given up. Thank you TEXT US YOUR question!!!! <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li> </li> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li> </li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li> </li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li> </li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li> </li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

My Wife Doesn't Trust After My Behaviors

Marriage camp session 16!!! How do wives receive love? Husbands doing the dishes!!! LOL How do husbands receive love? Wives doing the husbands!! LOL. Just joking! KINDA. We receive love in different ways... Husbands need to remember to love their wives outside the bedroom, and wives remember to love your husbands in the bedroom. **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: Click here to send yours Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

Marriage camp session 16!!! How do wives receive love? Husbands doing the dishes!!! LOL How do husbands receive love? Wives doing the husbands!! LOL. Just joking! KINDA. We receive love in different ways... Husbands need to remember to love their wives outside the bedroom, and wives remember to love your husbands in the bedroom. **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/contact-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Click here to send yours</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

How Husbands and Wives Receive Love

ASK YOUR QUESTION ABOUT MARRIAGE: 1.615.592.1060 Her husband is disengaged and she's tired of trying to interest him this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today:  We love hearing from listeners! Lisa's Jeep Wrangler Doterra Essential Oils (Deep Blue!)  Listener Question: At night when he gets home, he goes right to the couch after we eat dinner. It doesn't matter if there is a game on or not, he finds something to watch and disengages from life for the evening. We have stopped having sex because I am tired of trying to interest him in me anymore. I feel like I could parade in front of him naked and he would ask me to get him a snack from the kitchen. What do I do ? - Feeling Disconnected Resources: Making Love Last Forever - Gary Smalley (affiliate Link) Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage!  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

ASK YOUR QUESTION ABOUT MARRIAGE: <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Her husband is disengaged and she's tired of trying to interest him this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: <ul> <li><a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/contact" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">We love hearing from listeners!</a></li> <li><a href="https://goo.gl/kmmXuf" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Lisa's Jeep Wrangler</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/thegrayteam" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Doterra Essential Oils</a> (Deep Blue!)</li> </ul> Listener Question: At night when he gets home, he goes right to the couch after we eat dinner. It doesn't matter if there is a game on or not, he finds something to watch and disengages from life for the evening. We have stopped having sex because I am tired of trying to interest him in me anymore. I feel like I could parade in front of him naked and he would ask me to get him a snack from the kitchen. What do I do ? - Feeling Disconnected Resources: <a href="https://amzn.to/2yGhLwG" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Making Love Last Forever</a> - Gary Smalley (affiliate Link) Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Naked with Snacks

 ASK YOUR QUESTION ABOUT MARRIAGE: 1.615.592.1060 Being a Student of your spouse this post contains affiliate links   On the Show Today:   *Labor Day week in the States, so this show highlights a conversation from Stu and Lisa about being a student of your spouse    *They also answer a question from a listener about being a student of your spouse Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage!   (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook    THANKS!   Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher   Additional Music from Audiohero.com

ASK YOUR QUESTION ABOUT MARRIAGE: <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Being a Student of your spouse this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: *Labor Day week in the States, so this show highlights a conversation from Stu and Lisa about being a student of your spouse  *They also answer a question from a listener about being a student of your spouse Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Being a Student of Your Spouse 

Is It My Job to Make My Spouse Better? Talking accountability today on the Stupendous Marriage Podcast....      Do you have a question about your marriage? Send us a message on Twitter: @stugray    🔥Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes   Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Additional Music from Audiohero.com

Is It My Job to Make My Spouse Better? Talking accountability today on the Stupendous Marriage Podcast....   <ul> <li> </li> <li>Do you have a question about your marriage? Send us a message on Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/messages" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@stugray</a></li> <li> </li> </ul> 🔥Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes</a></li> </ul> <ul> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Stupendous Marriage Question: Is It My Job to Make My Spouse Better?

TEXT US YOUR MARRIAGE QUESTIONS: 1.615.592.1060 We are stressed out in our marriage! Is there any hope? this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today:  Moms/Wives need more Sleep  No Listener Question this week: TEXT THEM TO US!!!! 1.615.592.1060 Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage!  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

TEXT US YOUR MARRIAGE QUESTIONS: <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> We are stressed out in our marriage! Is there any hope? this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: <ul> <li>Moms/Wives need more Sleep</li> </ul> No Listener Question this week: TEXT THEM TO US!!!! <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

We are Stressed Out in our Marriage

On the show today:  End of the School year is here The Holderness FAmily - Mayvember Video What do you do if your Marriage Isn't Fun Anymore? The Magic Ratio in Marriage - 5:1, positive to negative interactions (John Gottman)  Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

On the show today: <ul> <li>End of the School year is here</li> <li>The Holderness FAmily - <a href="https://youtu.be/K5ceQJLRp6w" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Mayvember Video</a></li> <li>What do you do if your Marriage Isn't Fun Anymore?</li> <li>The Magic Ratio in Marriage - 5:1, positive to negative interactions (John Gottman)</li> </ul> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Our Marriage Isn't Fun Anymore

On the Show Today: They Want to make Marriage a Priority even though Life is busy Download the Show Email: Hi Lisa and Stu! I just recently found your podcast and love it! Thank you so much for encouraging other married couples and providing guidance in marriage! My question: My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years, have a 5yr old and 1-month-old baby. We both work full time outside the home, both have long commutes (approx 3-4 hours a day) so needless to say we are definitely tired! We go thru dry spells when it comes to intimacy like won't have sex for a couple of months and hardly ever go out on date nights. We don't really have any family who can watch our kids and we can't really afford to pay a babysitter. How can I let my husband know that intimacy is important in a marriage? Also, how can we make marriage a priority when we have so much going on that we barely have time for ourselves? Thank you! Answers to the question: *A Fun way to show your spouse you want to connect physically with them (s-e-x) *How to team up with your friends to make date nights happen *What happens when you acknowledge your problems *4 ways to stay connected to your spouse when you are busy *Do you know how your spouse feels? Why Keeping up to date is important *1 drastic thing you can do to change the speed and intensity of your life and marriage   TEXT US YOUR question!!!! 1.615.592.1060 Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage!  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe:  iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

On the Show Today: They Want to make Marriage a Priority even though Life is busy <a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/stupendous/Making_Marriage_A_Priority_While_Busy.mp3" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Download the Show</a> Email: Hi Lisa and Stu! I just recently found your podcast and love it! Thank you so much for encouraging other married couples and providing guidance in marriage! My question: My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years, have a 5yr old and 1-month-old baby. We both work full time outside the home, both have long commutes (approx 3-4 hours a day) so needless to say we are definitely tired! We go thru dry spells when it comes to intimacy like won't have sex for a couple of months and hardly ever go out on date nights. We don't really have any family who can watch our kids and we can't really afford to pay a babysitter. How can I let my husband know that intimacy is important in a marriage? Also, how can we make marriage a priority when we have so much going on that we barely have time for ourselves? Thank you! Answers to the question: *A Fun way to show your spouse you want to connect physically with them (s-e-x) *How to team up with your friends to make date nights happen *What happens when you acknowledge your problems *4 ways to stay connected to your spouse when you are busy *Do you know how your spouse feels? Why Keeping up to date is important *1 drastic thing you can do to change the speed and intensity of your life and marriage TEXT US YOUR question!!!! <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Making Marriage a Priority in Busy Times

Things we talked about: Why Working On Yourself Changes Things What Did Jesus Say about Your Stuff versus Someone Elses? Who are you, and who is your spouse? Do You know who your spouse is? Do You take responsibility in/for your marriage? Do you "Own Your Crap"? How do you deal with Offense? What are the 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse, and why they are bad for your marriage... *** John Schindler's Book How to Live 365 Days a Year (Affiliate Link) John Gottman Book for more on the 4 Horsemen

Things we talked about: Why Working On Yourself Changes Things What Did Jesus Say about Your Stuff versus Someone Elses? Who are you, and who is your spouse? Do You know who your spouse is? Do You take responsibility in/for your marriage? Do you "Own Your Crap"? How do you deal with Offense? What are the 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse, and why they are bad for your marriage... *** John Schindler's Book <a href="https://amzn.to/2FiqI1I" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">How to Live 365 Days a Year (Affiliate Link)</a> John Gottman <a href="https://amzn.to/2TM7nQc" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Book for more on the 4 Horsemen</a>

Work On Yourself: Stupendous Steps

His wife is the Worst! Episode 151 this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: Stu and Lisa talk about Swimming pools and Lightning. Lightning and Thunder. Thu-thu-thunder. Feel the Thunder. Lightning and Thunder. Question: Her Husband's Best Friend's Wife just isn't easy to get along with, but she doesn't want to upset her husband. They Say "His Wife is the Worst!" What should she do? Resources:  Resolving conflict over spouse's friends - Focus on the Family  I don't like my spouses friends!- Crosswalk Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books! (affiliate link) New Number to Leave your Questions: 1-615.592.1060 Love the show? Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. THANKS! Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher

His wife is the Worst! Episode 151 this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: Stu and Lisa talk about Swimming pools and Lightning. Lightning and Thunder. Thu-thu-thunder. Feel the Thunder. Lightning and Thunder. Question: Her Husband's Best Friend's Wife just isn't easy to get along with, but she doesn't want to upset her husband. They Say "His Wife is the Worst!" What should she do? Resources: <a href="https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/communication-and-conflict/qa-resolving-conflict/resolving-conflict-over-spouses-friends" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Resolving conflict over spouse's friends</a> - Focus on the Family <a href="https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/doctor-david/i-don%E2%80%99t-like-my-spouse%E2%80%99s-friends-11596400.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> I don't like my spouses friends!</a>- Crosswalk Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books!</a> (affiliate link) New Number to Leave your Questions: <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1-615.592.1060</a> Love the show? <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a> Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>. THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a>

His Wife is the Worst! 

Episode 200!!!! Thanks for being part of the Stupendous Marriage community!!!! Marriage camp continues on for summer... Facing problems together - instead of hiding them or ignoring them is not always easy - but in the long run its better for your marriage. **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: Click here to send yours Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

Episode 200!!!! Thanks for being part of the Stupendous Marriage community!!!! Marriage camp continues on for summer... Facing problems together - instead of hiding them or ignoring them is not always easy - but in the long run its better for your marriage. **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/contact-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Click here to send yours</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Facing Problems Together

Marriage camp session 12!!! Words are powerful things. Are you building up or tearing down? What words do you use to describe your spouse to others - and what are you telling YOURSELF about your spouse? Also... using I,Me language in stead of "YOU"... helps in difficult situations **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy   Send your marriage question for a future show: Click here to send yours Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

Marriage camp session 12!!! Words are powerful things. Are you building up or tearing down? What words do you use to describe your spouse to others - and what are you telling YOURSELF about your spouse? Also... using I,Me language in stead of "YOU"... helps in difficult situations **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/contact-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Click here to send yours</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Watch Your Words!

Different Backgrounds and Lifestyles On the Show Today: Stu and Lisa are BACK with another Stupendous Marriage Show Episode. Lots has happened in.... 2.5 years. YIKES! Question: How do you handle the needs of two people with entirely different backgrounds and lifestyles?  What is the balance between me compromising my own desires to meet hers while also maintaining a sense of self?    Marrying someone from another culture?  - Marriage Missions  Confronting Codependency in your Marriage - Crosswalk Love the show? Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! THANKS! Extra Music from Menage Quad via an Attribution-noderivatives4.0 International License Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher

Different Backgrounds and Lifestyles On the Show Today: Stu and Lisa are BACK with another Stupendous Marriage Show Episode. Lots has happened in.... 2.5 years. YIKES! Question: How do you handle the needs of two people with entirely different backgrounds and lifestyles?  What is the balance between me compromising my own desires to meet hers while also maintaining a sense of self?   <a href="https://marriagemissions.com/thinking-of-marrying-someone-from-another-culture/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Marrying someone from another culture?  </a>- Marriage Missions <a href="https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/confronting-codependency-in-your-marriage-11580615.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Confronting Codependency in your Marriage</a> - Crosswalk Love the show? <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a> THANKS! Extra Music from <a href="http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Mnage_Quad/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Menage Quad</a> via an <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/4.0/legalcode" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Attribution-noderivatives4.0 International License</a> Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a>

Different Backgrounds and Lifestyles 

Marriage Camp Continues!! You always have a choice as to what you focus on in your relationship. What you focus on grows in your mind (especially the negative stuff) so intentionally choose positive things about your spouse to focus on! **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: Click here to send yours Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

Marriage Camp Continues!! You always have a choice as to what you focus on in your relationship. What you focus on grows in your mind (especially the negative stuff) so intentionally choose positive things about your spouse to focus on! **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/contact-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Click here to send yours</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

What you Focus on Grows

Marriage camp session 13!!! How do you manage your expectations with your spouse? Thats what we are talking about in this marriage camp session. A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers - Ruth Bell Graham **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy   Send your marriage question for a future show: Click here to send yours Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

Marriage camp session 13!!! How do you manage your expectations with your spouse? Thats what we are talking about in this marriage camp session. A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers - Ruth Bell Graham **During the summer months, we are giving you short tips, tricks, and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy Send your marriage question for a future show: <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/contact-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Click here to send yours</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Manage your Expectations

Her Husband is Lusting! Episode 152 this post contains affiliate links   On the Show Today: *Stu and Lisa chat about their puppies - Sweets and Spencer. *Spencer is a beagle mix with a crazy howl that drives Stu crazy. *Kinda like those things you fall in love with your spouse, but then drive you crazy *"You TAKE offense, it is never given" - Alex and Henry Seeley Question: Her Husband is lusting after other women. Is she overreacting or asking too many questions? Should she let him tell her without having to ask him? How much detail is too much for her to ask her husband about his lusting? Resources: Celebrate Recovery Locations around the US Samson Society Man Alive  12 Ways to Help Overcome Lust - Sheila Wray Gregoire ASK YOUR QUESTION: 1.615.592.1060 Support Stupendous Marriage!    (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly.       Tell your Married Friends about the show!  THANKS! Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher

Her Husband is Lusting! Episode 152 this post contains affiliate links <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/SMSICON152.png" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> </a> On the Show Today: *Stu and Lisa chat about their puppies - Sweets and Spencer. *Spencer is a beagle mix with a crazy howl that drives Stu crazy. *Kinda like those things you fall in love with your spouse, but then drive you crazy *"You TAKE offense, it is never given" - <a href="http://thebelonging.co" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Alex and Henry Seeley</a> Question: Her Husband is lusting after other women. Is she overreacting or asking too many questions? Should she let him tell her without having to ask him? How much detail is too much for her to ask her husband about his lusting? Resources: <a href="https://locator.crgroups.info/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Celebrate Recovery Locations</a> around the US <a href="https://samsonsociety.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Samson Society</a> <a href="http://www.imanalive.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Man Alive</a> <a href="https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2017/06/overcome-lustful-thoughts/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> 12 Ways to Help Overcome Lust</a> - Sheila Wray Gregoire ASK YOUR QUESTION: <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Support Stupendous Marriage! <ul> <li> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="http://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> </ul> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="http://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a>

Her Husband is Lusting

What we talked about on this show: *Going to see KISS in Nashville *Leaving a legacy in your marriage *What do you do if you don't "feel it" anymore in your marriage? *What one of Stu's bosses used to say about love that made him laugh *Is there such a thing as Love at First Site - and does it make a difference? Malachi 4:6 "His preaching will turn the hearts of fathers to their children, and the hearts of children to their fathers. Otherwise, I will come and strike the land with a curse." Jeremiah 31:3 "...I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness." TEXT US YOUR question!!!! 1.615.592.1060 Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show! Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: iTunes| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

What we talked about on this show: *Going to see KISS in Nashville *Leaving a legacy in your marriage *What do you do if you don't "feel it" anymore in your marriage? *What one of Stu's bosses used to say about love that made him laugh *Is there such a thing as Love at First Site - and does it make a difference? Malachi 4:6 "His preaching will turn the hearts of fathers to their children, and the hearts of children to their fathers. Otherwise, I will come and strike the land with a curse." Jeremiah 31:3 "...I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness." TEXT US YOUR question!!!! <a href="tel:16155921060" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">1.615.592.1060</a> Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show!</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

I Married Him But I'm Not Feeling it

Front

Stupendous Marriage Show Goes to Marriage Camp! Stu and Lisa talk about being a united front in your marriage... During the next several weeks, we are going to give you short tips, tricks and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy (We wish we could send you badges, but you are going to have to make your own!! CRAFTS!!!)   We are talking about Staying connected as a couple during the summer months. Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS  (affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for Marriage Books To help support the show Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes! Hop on our email list to get marriage encouragement in your email weekly. Tell your Married Friends about the show! Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook  THANKS! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts| RSS|Google|Stitcher Additional Music from Audiohero.com

Stupendous Marriage Show Goes to Marriage Camp! Stu and Lisa talk about being a united front in your marriage... During the next several weeks, we are going to give you short tips, tricks and tools to a healthy marriage for summertime. You can work on your "Badges" in these Categories: * Parenting * Communication * Teamwork * Mindset * Sexy (We wish we could send you badges, but you are going to have to make your own!! CRAFTS!!!)   We are talking about Staying connected as a couple during the summer months. Show your Support for Stupendous Marriage! <a href="https://bit.ly/2InYF43" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">NEW STUPENDOUS MARRIAGE SHIRTS</a> <ul> <li>(affiliate link) Check out our new Amazon Influencer Page for <a href="https://stupendousmarriage.com/marriagebooks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Marriage Books</a> To help support the show</li> <li><a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take a minute to comment and Rate us on iTunes!</a></li> <li>Hop on our email list to get <a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">marriage encouragement in your email weekly</a>.</li> <li>Tell your Married Friends about the show!</li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/StupendousMarriageShow/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stupendous Marriage Show on Facebook</a></li> </ul> THANKS! Subscribe: <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stupendous-marriage-show/id444886510" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>| <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/stupendousmarriagepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">RSS</a>|<a href="https://www.stupendousmarriage.com/google" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google</a>|<a href="https://app.stitcher.com/browse/feed/18492/details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a> Additional Music from <a href="http://audiohero.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiohero.com</a>

Be a United Front! [Marriage Camp]

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