Broadway superstar Zurin Villanueva (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical)  joins Nicole for a discussion about the awkwardness of working together with a past hookup, safety precautions when dating abroad, and the best grocery store to find a good man. Plus, don't miss Zurin's recounting of a date gone awry when her phone rang, and on the other end? Her date's ex. Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Broadway superstar <a href="https://www.instagram.com/zurinspired/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Zurin Villanueva</a> (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical)  joins Nicole for a discussion about the awkwardness of working together with a past hookup, safety precautions when dating abroad, and the best grocery store to find a good man. Plus, don't miss Zurin's recounting of a date gone awry when her phone rang, and on the other end? Her date's ex. Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Romancing Overseas (w/ Zurin Villanueva)

Jay Jurden

The hilarious comedian Jay Jurden joins Nicole to talk about his secret relationship with a frat boy, working at Abercrombie &amp; Fitch during its peak era, the best app for threeways, and what goes on at a gay orgy. Plus, Nicole gets hit on by a 911 responder. Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

The hilarious comedian <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jayjurden/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jay Jurden</a> joins Nicole to talk about his secret relationship with a frat boy, working at Abercrombie &amp; Fitch during its peak era, the best app for threeways, and what goes on at a gay orgy. Plus, Nicole gets hit on by a 911 responder. Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Gay Orgies (w/ Jay Jurden)

Gigi Goode

Drag queen Gigi Goode (Drag Race S12) joins Nicole for a supersized live episode of the podcast! They talk about her trans journey during the pandemic, how the type of people who are attracted to her has changed since transitioning, making friends through Tinder, and shares her experience being in a long term relationship with a partner who's asexual. She also tells just so many, bad, no awful, date stories.  Plus, an audience Q&amp;A: Do queens get cozy on the set of Drag Race? Is it possible to date someone you're not attracted to? What's the best one-liner for a dating app? Dive in to find out!Recorded live at The Elysian 4/5/2023. Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Drag queen <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thegigigoode/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gigi Goode</a> (Drag Race S12) joins Nicole for a supersized live episode of the podcast! They talk about her trans journey during the pandemic, how the type of people who are attracted to her has changed since transitioning, making friends through Tinder, and shares her experience being in a long term relationship with a partner who's asexual. She also tells just so many, bad, no awful, date stories.  Plus, an audience Q&amp;A: Do queens get cozy on the set of Drag Race? Is it possible to date someone you're not attracted to? What's the best one-liner for a dating app? Dive in to find out!Recorded live at The Elysian 4/5/2023. Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Dating an Asexual (w/ Gigi Goode)

Drag queen Robin Fierce (Drag Race S15) LIP-SYNCS TO THIS VERY PODCAST! She talks about remixing Nicole's comedy in her drag performance, opens up about her relationship with Drag Race contestant Amethyst, shares the new subtle way to look for a sugar daddy on dating apps,  and speaks out on how people are using Grindr for their own personal meet &amp; greets.  Robin gives us a exclusive look at her Snatch Game audition as Nicole Byer (and why it didn't help her book the show). Plus, the haunting tale of a Grindr date with a catfish.  For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag Nicole wants to hear from you! Need dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Drag queen <a href="https://www.instagram.com/therobinfierce/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Robin Fierce</a> (Drag Race S15) <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cu-HqVtvcX1/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">LIP-SYNCS TO THIS VERY PODCAST!</a> She talks about remixing Nicole's comedy in her drag performance, opens up about her relationship with Drag Race contestant Amethyst, shares the new subtle way to look for a sugar daddy on dating apps,  and speaks out on how people are using Grindr for their own personal meet &amp; greets.  Robin gives us a exclusive look at her Snatch Game audition as Nicole Byer (and why it didn't help her book the show). Plus, the haunting tale of a Grindr date with a catfish.  For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: <a href="https://bit.ly/wwydmdrag" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">bit.ly/wwydmdrag</a> Nicole wants to hear from you! Need dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Mutual Ghosting (w/ Robin Fierce)

Drag queen Bosco (Drag Race S14) joins Nicole to discuss their long-term relationship with a fan, recounts her most enchanting full-day date, and tells how to spot chasers vs. genuine men. She shares how catfishing on Craigslist for attention ignited her trans journey, plus spills the tea on the severe highs, lows, and trauma shooting Drag Race.  For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Drag queen <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hereisbosco/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Bosco</a> (Drag Race S14) joins Nicole to discuss their long-term relationship with a fan, recounts her most enchanting full-day date, and tells how to spot chasers vs. genuine men. She shares how catfishing on Craigslist for attention ignited her trans journey, plus spills the tea on the severe highs, lows, and trauma shooting Drag Race.  For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: <a href="https://bit.ly/wwydmdrag" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">bit.ly/wwydmdrag</a> Nicole wants to hear from you! Need some dating or relationship advice from Nicole and her guest? Submit your question to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it answered on an upcoming special mailbag episode. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Catfishing Men on Craigslist (w/ Bosco)

Matteo Lane

Comedian and friend Matteo Lane returns to the podcast! They reminisce about his love life since his last episode, getting kicked off Grindr and Tinder for "catfishing" as himself, and why men are intimidated by successful women. Nicole wins the orgasm contest at the Thunder from Down Under Vegas show. Matteo hooks up with a dancer from Magic Mike. Plus, a whole lot more.  Watch Matteo Lane's new special, Hair Plugs &amp; Heartache, free on YouTube. Have a question for Nicole? Submit it to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com to have it answered on a upcoming special. Follow Nicole Byer: Now on tour! Get tickets at linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken.Twitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Comedian and friend <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matteolane/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Matteo Lane</a> returns to the podcast! They reminisce about his love life since his last episode, getting kicked off Grindr and Tinder for "catfishing" as himself, and why men are intimidated by successful women. Nicole wins the orgasm contest at the Thunder from Down Under Vegas show. Matteo hooks up with a dancer from Magic Mike. Plus, a whole lot more.  Watch Matteo Lane's new special, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K2rxborNVsc" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hair Plugs &amp; Heartache</a>, free on YouTube. Have a question for Nicole? Submit it to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com to have it answered on a upcoming special. Follow Nicole Byer: Now on tour! Get tickets at <a href="linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken.</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Nicole Wins an Orgasm Contest (w/ Matteo Lane)

Jermaine Fowler

Comedian &amp; actor Jermaine Fowler (The Blackening) joins Nicole to reminisce on their time working on Guy/Girl Code, his joy of being a unexpected father, and discusses what makes a great dick pic. Nicole is now horny for them, but before you go sliding one into her DMs, she shares her criteria on how to take a tasteful pic. See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at nicolebyerwastaken.com. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Comedian &amp; actor <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jermainefowler/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jermaine Fowler</a> (The Blackening) joins Nicole to reminisce on their time working on Guy/Girl Code, his joy of being a unexpected father, and discusses what makes a great dick pic. Nicole is now horny for them, but before you go sliding one into her DMs, she shares her criteria on how to take a tasteful pic. See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com.</a> Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Tasteful Dick Pics (w/ Jermaine Fowler)

Jay Pharoah

Comedian Jay Pharoah (Saturday Night Live) dives into how a messy breakup ended up saving his SNL career, and the bizarre role Donald Trump played in his escape from a toxic relationship. Jay shares the impressions he's been asked to do during sex, and how developing self-confidence saved him from a bad situation. Plus, what's it like to have your photos used by a catfish? See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at nicolebyerwastaken.com. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Comedian <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaypharoah/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jay Pharoah</a> (Saturday Night Live) dives into how a messy breakup ended up saving his SNL career, and the bizarre role Donald Trump played in his escape from a toxic relationship. Jay shares the impressions he's been asked to do during sex, and how developing self-confidence saved him from a bad situation. Plus, what's it like to have your photos used by a catfish? See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com.</a> Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Finding Your Confidence (w/ Jay Pharoah)

Melvin Gregg

Comedian and actor Melvin Gregg (Vine, American Vandal, The Blackening) opens up about his unique romantic path, where pretending to be a couple turned into the real deal. He takes us on a trip down memory lane, tracing his roots from being a Vine sensation to earning the badge of an early verified Tinder user. Plus, he shares his pro tips on sealing the deal at the end of any date or encounter.  See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at nicolebyerwastaken.com. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Comedian and actor <a href="https://www.instagram.com/melvingregg/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Melvin Gregg</a> (Vine, American Vandal, The Blackening) opens up about his unique romantic path, where pretending to be a couple turned into the real deal. He takes us on a trip down memory lane, tracing his roots from being a Vine sensation to earning the badge of an early verified Tinder user. Plus, he shares his pro tips on sealing the deal at the end of any date or encounter.  See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com.</a> Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Fake It Til You Make It (w/ Melvin Gregg)

Actress and activist TS Madison (judge on RuPaul's Drag Race) is here for a heartfelt chat on her journey from being a viral TikTok sensation to a vocal advocate for trans rights, and all of the unseen struggles she faced in navigating systemic biases. She discusses doing sex work for survival, shares real examples of the transphobic harassment she receives to this day, and her relentless efforts to forge a better future. This episode is a raw exploration into the battles and victories that come with being Black, trans, and unapologetically visible.Content Warning: This episode contains audio clips featuring transphobic harassment which may be disturbing for some listeners.  See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at nicolebyerwastaken.com. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerMerch: podswag.com/datemeNicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Actress and activist <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tsmadison/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TS Madison</a> (judge on RuPaul's Drag Race) is here for a heartfelt chat on her journey from being a viral TikTok sensation to a vocal advocate for trans rights, and all of the unseen struggles she faced in navigating systemic biases. She discusses doing sex work for survival, shares real examples of the transphobic harassment she receives to this day, and her relentless efforts to forge a better future. This episode is a raw exploration into the battles and victories that come with being Black, trans, and unapologetically visible.Content Warning: This episode contains audio clips featuring transphobic harassment which may be disturbing for some listeners.  See Nicole Byer live on tour! Get tickets at <a href="https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com.</a> Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Merch: <a href="http://www.podswag.com/dateme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">podswag.com/dateme</a>Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Transcending Norms (w/ TS Madison)

Dating can be a hot mess, from being ghosted by your crush to realizing that you've been catfished by a Tinder match. Why Won't You Date Me? is here to help.Join Nicole Byer, the perpetual singleton, as she invites fellow comedians, friends, and ex-flings to talk romance and share their wildest dating tales, from cringeworthy first dates to jaw-dropping hookup stories. Nothing is off-limits.

Every episode is a treat for my ears!!  I love Nicole!!

Wonderful and funny!

This podcast is one of the lights of my last two months. God bless you!!

Love Nicole!

Dating can be a hot mess, from being ghosted by your crush to realizing that you've been catfished by a Tinder match. Why Won't You Date Me? is here to help. Join Nicole Byer, the perpetual singleton, as she invites fellow comedians, friends, and ex-flings to talk romance and share their wildest dating tales, from cringeworthy first dates to jaw-dropping hookup stories. Nothing is off-limits.

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Langan Kingsley

Langan Kingsley (Corporate) joins Nicole to discuss masturbating in public, stalking exes on Instagram, and what Nicole really wants in a man. You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy Be sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

Langan Kingsley (Corporate) joins Nicole to discuss masturbating in public, stalking exes on Instagram, and what Nicole really wants in a man. You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a> Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

What a Time to be Alive (w/ Langan Kingsley)

Tiffany Haddish

Actress and comedian Tiffany Haddish (Girls Trip, Night School) first clears the air regarding her Clubhouse bullying allegations. Then, she talks about how dating has changed since Girls Trip, how men try to manage her, the story of a sneaking ex-boyfriend, and of her first orgasm at the movies. Plus, Tiffany offers tips on: approaching men after the pandemy, how to increase your credit score, and why you should ask men about theirs.  February 12th - See a LIVE virtual episode of Why Won't You Date Me? featuring Heidi N Closet! Tickets: onlocationlive.com/nicolebyer This Black History Month, research anti-racism resources and donate to Black Lives Matter  at blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

Actress and comedian <a href="https://twitter.com/TiffanyHaddish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Tiffany Haddish</a> (Girls Trip, Night School) first clears the air regarding her Clubhouse bullying allegations. Then, she talks about how dating has changed since Girls Trip, how men try to manage her, the story of a sneaking ex-boyfriend, and of her first orgasm at the movies. Plus, Tiffany offers tips on: approaching men after the pandemy, how to increase your credit score, and why you should ask men about theirs. February 12th - See a LIVE virtual episode of Why Won't You Date Me? featuring <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heidincloset/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Heidi N Closet</a>! Tickets: <a href="https://onlocationlive.com/nicolebyer" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">onlocationlive.com/nicolebyer</a> This Black History Month, research anti-racism resources and donate to Black Lives Matter at <a href="https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">blacklivesmatters.carrd.co</a>. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Ask Him About His Credit Score (w/ Tiffany Haddish)

Kevin T. Porter

Podcast pro Kevin Porter (Host of Inside Voices, Good Christian Fun, and Gilmore Guys podcast) helps Nicole set some 2020 dating goals - starting with deleting her Raya app. They also identify her negative loops to break, and have an education rundown on managing the iPhone's hidden app subscriptions. Plus, Nicole realizes she has no straight guy friends.Want to learn more about Nicole's podcasting process? Check out her interview on Inside Voices.Rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

Podcast pro Kevin Porter (Host of <a href="https://rss.art19.com/inside-voices" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Inside Voices</a>, <a href="https://rss.art19.com/good-christian-fun" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Good Christian Fun</a>, and <a href="https://rss.art19.com/gilmore-guys" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gilmore Guys</a> podcast) helps Nicole set some 2020 dating goals - starting with deleting her Raya app. They also identify her negative loops to break, and have an education rundown on managing the iPhone's hidden app subscriptions. Plus, Nicole realizes she has no straight guy friends.Want to learn more about Nicole's podcasting process? Check out her interview on <a href="https://art19.com/shows/inside-voices/episodes/6150bb96-cd56-4de0-95d4-e8dff21fe255" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Inside Voices</a>.Rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a> and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a>

Setting 2020 Resolutions (w/ Kevin T. Porter)

Paul F. Tompkins

"I was at a point where I was like... I never sorta played the field and had fun. I'm gonna do that now."Paul F. Tompkins (Between Two Ferns: The Movie, Threedom podcast) discusses how he met his wife, having fun in his thirties, and if you should break up over the phone. Plus, Nicole had sex and is very excited to share all about it.You can play along and see Nicole's dating app profiles and photos on her Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649

"I was at a point where I was like... I never sorta played the field and had fun. I'm gonna do that now."<a href="https://twitter.com/PFTompkins" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Paul F. Tompkins</a> (Between Two Ferns: The Movie, <a href="http://www.stitcherpremium.com/THREEDOM" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Threedom</a> podcast) discusses how he met his wife, having fun in his thirties, and if you should break up over the phone. Plus, Nicole had sex and is very excited to share all about it.You can play along and see Nicole's dating app profiles and photos on her Facebook at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a>Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649</a>

Breaking Up (w/ Paul F. Tompkins)

Jameela Jamil

Jameela Jamil (The Good Place) chats about how she got cast in The Good Place, the rejection she got as a child, and shares her most horrifying Tinder date.Check out Jameela's "I Weigh" Instagram, a movement for us to feel valuable and see how amazing we are, beyond the flesh on our bones.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

Jameela Jamil (The Good Place) chats about how she got cast in The Good Place, the rejection she got as a child, and shares her most horrifying Tinder date.Check out Jameela's <a href="https://www.instagram.com/i_weigh/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">"I Weigh" Instagram</a>, a movement for us to feel valuable and see how amazing we are, beyond the flesh on our bones.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a>Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Booty Call Horror Story (w/ Jameela Jamil)

Damona Hoffman

Dating coach Damona Hoffman (A&amp;E Network's #BlackLove, A Question of Love) is here to dish some professional advice. She shares tips for video-dating, setting up your dating app profile, how to stay sane with your partner in lockdown, and so much more! Plus, a conversation on racial bias in dating, navigating interracial relationships, and the struggle of in-person communication. Check out Damona's dating podcast: Dates &amp; Mates Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Dating coach <a href="https://damonahoffman.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Damona Hoffman</a> (A&amp;E Network's #BlackLove, A Question of Love) is here to dish some professional advice. She shares tips for video-dating, setting up your dating app profile, how to stay sane with your partner in lockdown, and so much more! Plus, a conversation on racial bias in dating, navigating interracial relationships, and the struggle of in-person communication. Check out Damona's dating podcast: <a href="https://damonahoffman.com/dates-mates-podcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dates &amp; Mates</a> Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out <a href="https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">blacklivesmatters.carrd.co</a>. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a> Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a> Order Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Advice from a Dating Coach (w/ Damona Hoffman)

Nichole Perkins

Writer and podcaster Nichole Perkins (Thirst Aid Kit) joins Nicole to discuss setting boundaries in your casual relationships, dealing with thirsty groupies, and, can you get COVID from your pussy? Plus Nicole writes a letter to her dream man, and is shopping for a $600 sex machine. Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Writer and podcaster <a href="https://www.nicholeperkins.com/bio" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Nichole Perkins</a> (<a href="https://slate.com/podcasts/thirst-aid-kit" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Thirst Aid Kit</a>) joins Nicole to discuss setting boundaries in your casual relationships, dealing with thirsty groupies, and, can you get COVID from your pussy? Plus Nicole writes a letter to her dream man, and is shopping for a $600 sex machine. Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out <a href="https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">blacklivesmatters.carrd.co</a>. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a> Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a> Order Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

We're Thirsty (w/ Nichole Perkins)

Nicole met Skyler through Tinder, and they turned out to be eskimo sisters. Things got weird in their relationship real fast when Nicole began dating her ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend - without him knowing. Nicole questions Skyler on why she swiped right on her, why they continued dating despite Nicole's smoking, and asks if she would've still dated her if she hadn't known her work.Skyler gives Nicole the cold hard truth why they stopped dating.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

Nicole met Skyler through Tinder, and they turned out to be eskimo sisters. Things got weird in their relationship real fast when Nicole began dating her ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend - without him knowing. Nicole questions Skyler on why she swiped right on her, why they continued dating despite Nicole's smoking, and asks if she would've still dated her if she hadn't known her work.Skyler gives Nicole the cold hard truth why they stopped dating.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a>Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Eskimo Sisters (w/ Skyler Hurt)

Conan O'Brien

Conan O'Brien is here to help solve the root problems behind Nicole's singledom. They also discuss his sexually repressed Catholic upbringing, what it's like to have Big Dick Energy, and his plans for his 20th wedding anniversary.  Nicole demands to marry into the O'Brien family, explains to Conan how some of her vibrators work, and describes how she's now using a Theragun to masturbate. Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

<a href="https://twitter.com/ConanOBrien" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Conan O'Brien</a> is here to help solve the root problems behind Nicole's singledom. They also discuss his sexually repressed Catholic upbringing, what it's like to have Big Dick Energy, and his plans for his 20th wedding anniversary. Nicole demands to marry into the O'Brien family, explains to Conan how some of her vibrators work, and describes how she's now using a Theragun to masturbate. Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out <a href="https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">blacklivesmatters.carrd.co</a>. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Big Dick Energy (w/ Conan O'Brien)

"Please acknowledge your pain."Echo Kellum (Arrow, Rick &amp; Morty) discusses overcoming life's pain after emotional trauma, controlling negative feelings, and his experience practicing abstinence as a Jehovah's Witness.They also discuss dream wedding locations, funerals, porn, and Nicole has a breakthrough- she's figured out what she's looking for in a partner.Check out Echo's SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/user-440510135You can play along and see Nicole's dating app profiles and photos on her Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649

"Please acknowledge your pain."<a href="https://twitter.com/EchoK" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Echo Kellum</a> (Arrow, Rick &amp; Morty) discusses overcoming life's pain after emotional trauma, controlling negative feelings, and his experience practicing abstinence as a Jehovah's Witness.They also discuss dream wedding locations, funerals, porn, and Nicole has a breakthrough- she's figured out what she's looking for in a partner.Check out Echo's SoundCloud: <a href="https://soundcloud.com/user-440510135" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://soundcloud.com/user-440510135</a>You can play along and see Nicole's dating app profiles and photos on her Facebook at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a>Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649</a>

Overcoming Emotional Setbacks (w/ Echo Kellum)

Punam Patel

"Would I rather live a shorter life where I'm happier, than a long one where I have to work so hard to be healthy? More often than not I choose shorter." Things get serious in this episode. Punam Patel (I Feel Bad, Alone Together) joins Nicole to discuss dating as an "aggressive" woman, living as a diabetic, and whether or not they believe in assisted suicide. They also provide plenty of tips for organizing your trust, and taxes! You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy Be sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

"Would I rather live a shorter life where I'm happier, than a long one where I have to work so hard to be healthy? More often than not I choose shorter." Things get serious in this episode. <a href="https://twitter.com/bigpunam?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Punam Patel</a> (I Feel Bad, Alone Together) joins Nicole to discuss dating as an "aggressive" woman, living as a diabetic, and whether or not they believe in assisted suicide. They also provide plenty of tips for organizing your trust, and taxes! You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a> Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Death & Taxes (w/ Punam Patel)

Fran Gillespie

Fran Gillespie (SNL, Love, The Good Place) joins Nicole to discuss why it's harder for women to openly discuss sex than men. Nicole describes her Raya application process and shares her latest unsuccessful Bumble messages.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

Fran Gillespie (SNL, Love, The Good Place) joins Nicole to discuss why it's harder for women to openly discuss sex than men. Nicole describes her Raya application process and shares her latest unsuccessful Bumble messages.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a>Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Nicole's Opening Bumble Messages (w/ Fran Gillespie)

BenDeLaCreme (RuPaul's Drag Race, RPDR All Stars) chats about how he deals with other people's traumas, getting gaslight by their therapist, and whats it's like to move in with a new boyfriend right before the pandemic. Plus, he explains his initial excitement to attain Race Chasers, and what made him so angry before his proposal.For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3fg8EpuFollow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964Pre-order Nicole's new book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

<a href="https://twitter.com/bendelacreme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">BenDeLaCreme</a> (RuPaul's Drag Race, RPDR All Stars) chats about how he deals with other people's traumas, getting gaslight by their therapist, and whats it's like to move in with a new boyfriend right before the pandemic. Plus, he explains his initial excitement to attain Race Chasers, and what made him so angry before his proposal.For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: <a href="https://spoti.fi/3fg8Epu" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://spoti.fi/3fg8Epu</a>Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a>Pre-order Nicole's new book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Don't Comment on my Body (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

Sasheer Zamata

Nicole's dear friend Sasheer Zamata (SNL) joins her to rate her Tinder bio, perform a live-reading of her Tinder conversations and Nicole shares the time the pussy pic she sent to a guy was deemed "too far!!". Also they didn't hook up... JUST A LIL FYI FOR YA!You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at:https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

Nicole's dear friend Sasheer Zamata (SNL) joins her to rate her Tinder bio, perform a live-reading of her Tinder conversations and Nicole shares the time the pussy pic she sent to a guy was deemed "too far!!". Also they didn't hook up... JUST A LIL FYI FOR YA!You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a>Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Nicole's Pussy Pic That Went Too Far (w/ Sasheer Zamata)

Janelle James

Janelle James (stand-up, writer for Black Mondays) joins Nicole to discuss the difference between East coast and West coast men, when to let a guy see you without makeup, and the best time to find single men at Target.Plus, Nicole shares her experience co-hosting the gay porn awards.Need more Nicole Byer? Check out her new podcast - Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus will be watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time. Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode.Rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

<a href="https://twitter.com/janellejcomic" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Janelle James</a> (stand-up, writer for Black Mondays) joins Nicole to discuss the difference between East coast and West coast men, when to let a guy see you without makeup, and the best time to find single men at Target.Plus, Nicole shares her experience co-hosting the gay porn awards.Need more Nicole Byer? Check out her new podcast - <a href="https://art19.com/shows/newcomers-star-wars" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Newcomers</a>! Her and Lauren Lapkus will be watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time. <a href="https://art19.com/shows/newcomers-star-wars" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode</a>.Rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a> and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a>

Seeking Single Men at Target (w/ Janelle James)

Grace Helbig

Mamrie Hart

"Guys go on Raya just to see how famous of a person they can match with."Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart (This Might Get Weird podcast) discuss their go-to lies to get out of bad dates, share their awful dating experiences, and go through Nicole's Raya profile. Nicole's not feeling so horny and is worried there may be something wrong with her. She also shares an insane meet-cute she had with a very drunk man.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

"Guys go on Raya just to see how famous of a person they can match with."Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart (<a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/this-might-get-weird/id1438878323?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">This Might Get Weird</a> podcast) discuss their go-to lies to get out of bad dates, share their awful dating experiences, and go through Nicole's Raya profile. Nicole's not feeling so horny and is worried there may be something wrong with her. She also shares an insane meet-cute she had with a very drunk man.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy/photos/?tab=album&amp;album_id=1356776111100280" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedy</a>Be sure to rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a>. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>

Date Exit Strategy (w/ Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart)

"I was just looking for butthole. And then wrapped around the butthole was a really nice, young, Jewish man."Bob the Drag Queen (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S8) chats about systematic racism, his two partners, and the confusing social construct of dating, and so much more. Plus, Bob shares some wildly embarrassing hookup stories involving race chasers, and offers Nicole a very interesting dating proposition.For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3fg8EpuSupport Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

"I was just looking for butthole. And then wrapped around the butthole was a really nice, young, Jewish man."<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bobthedragqueen" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Bob the Drag Queen</a> (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S8) chats about systematic racism, his two partners, and the confusing social construct of dating, and so much more. Plus, Bob shares some wildly embarrassing hookup stories involving race chasers, and offers Nicole a very interesting dating proposition.For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: <a href="https://spoti.fi/3fg8Epu" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://spoti.fi/3fg8Epu</a>Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: <a href="https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/</a>Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a>Order Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a> Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via <a href="https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer/5a592688b73aeb30532c6b2c" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gumball.fm</a>

Black History Year (w/ Bob the Drag Queen)

Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman

'Do you want to be an active ally, or do you just want to say that out loud?'Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman (Judge/host on Canada's Drag Race, Unreal) joins Nicole to unpack racial traumas from childhood, discuss the systematic racism in society, and rise in performative allies instead of active ones. After the break, Nicole shares her experience finding love at a Lassens.Be an active ally. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.Follow Nicole Byer:Twitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via Gumball.fm

'Do you want to be an active ally, or do you just want to say that out loud?'<a href="https://www.instagram.com/jeffreybchapman" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman</a> (Judge/host on Canada's Drag Race, Unreal) joins Nicole to unpack racial traumas from childhood, discuss the systematic racism in society, and rise in performative allies instead of active ones. After the break, Nicole shares her experience finding love at a Lassens.Be an active ally. For a list of resources and ways to help, check out <a href="https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">blacklivesmatters.carrd.co</a>.Follow Nicole Byer:Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a>Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a>Order Nicole's book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a> Advertise on Why Won’t You Date Me via <a href="https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer/5a592688b73aeb30532c6b2c" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gumball.fm</a>

Performative Allies (w/ Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman)

Comedian Tawny Newsome (Space Force) chats with Nicole about learning how to do your own hair in quarantine, their crazy fashion phases, and the current state of "Zoom dating" along with the crazy logistics behind it. For more Nicole Byer, check out her new podcast - Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time. Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. Rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Comedian <a href="https://twitter.com/TrondyNewman" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Tawny Newsome</a> (Space Force) chats with Nicole about learning how to do your own hair in quarantine, their crazy fashion phases, and the current state of "Zoom dating" along with the crazy logistics behind it. For more Nicole Byer, check out her new podcast - <a href="https://art19.com/shows/newcomers-star-wars" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Newcomers</a>! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time. <a href="https://art19.com/shows/newcomers-star-wars" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode</a>. Rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a> and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a> Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a> Pre-order Nicole's new book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Doing Your Own Hair (w/ Tawny Newsome)

Giulia Rozzi

Oh boy, this episode is a juicy one. Comedian/actress Giulia Rozzi (Girl Code) speaks to Nicole about the struggles of being pregnant in quarantine, if she has any worries about raising a bi-racial child, and learning to not feel guilty about your privilege. Plus, Giulia teaches Nicole the best way to reach out to an old fling, and how to remain friends with an ex-husband. For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast - Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time. Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. Rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter: @nicolebyer Instagram: @nicolebyer Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

Oh boy, this episode is a juicy one. Comedian/actress <a href="https://twitter.com/GiuliaRozzi" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Giulia Rozzi</a> (Girl Code) speaks to Nicole about the struggles of being pregnant in quarantine, if she has any worries about raising a bi-racial child, and learning to not feel guilty about your privilege. Plus, Giulia teaches Nicole the best way to reach out to an old fling, and how to remain friends with an ex-husband. For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast - <a href="https://art19.com/shows/newcomers-star-wars" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Newcomers</a>! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time. <a href="https://art19.com/shows/newcomers-star-wars" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode</a>. Rate <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/why-wont-you-date-me/id1314759544?mt=2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts</a> and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: <a href="https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy</a> Buy Merch: <a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964</a> Pre-order Nicole's new book: <a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746</a>

Fast n' Friendly Divorce (w/ Giulia Rozzi)

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