Jade Kaper

Learn about Jade's most recent discoveries, experiments, musings and such at Jade and Kidder Kaper's new blog Kaperlife.com 

Learn about Jade's most recent discoveries, experiments, musings and such at <a href="http://www.kaperlife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jade and Kidder Kaper's new blog Kaperlife.com </a>

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THIS IS A PREVIEW SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEW FEED AT http://feeds.feedburner.com/SexIsFunPodcastAs Laura Rad and Gay Rick take over as hosts, they discuss with Coochie what the name "Sex is Fun!" means to them. The gang talks about some of the limits of the name and why being sex-positive is important. Is the gang about to get too nerdy and alienate folks? They wrap things up by talking about goals for the show moving forward.THIS IS A PREVIEW SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEW FEED AT http://feeds.feedburner.com/SexIsFunPodcast

<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/SexIsFunPodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">THIS IS A PREVIEW SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEW FEED AT http://feeds.feedburner.com/SexIsFunPodcast</a> As Laura Rad and Gay Rick take over as hosts, they discuss with Coochie what the name "Sex is Fun!" means to them. The gang talks about some of the limits of the name and why being sex-positive is important. Is the gang about to get too nerdy and alienate folks? They wrap things up by talking about goals for the show moving forward. <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/SexIsFunPodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">THIS IS A PREVIEW SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEW FEED AT http://feeds.feedburner.com/SexIsFunPodcast</a>

SiF #297 - Why Sex is Fun PREVIEW

Kidder Kaper says goodbye to the Sex is Fun Podcast by sharing memories about the most amazing sex party ever. Pansexuality is not a big deal. Now that Kidder is off the show he can now view and talk about Laura Rad in sexually inappropriate ways. Coochie has learned to talk dirty and to massage a prostate incredibly well. Coochie gives Kidder an orgasm and the ejaculate was nowhere to be found. Subscribe to the New Sex is Fun Podcast!!

Kidder Kaper says goodbye to the Sex is Fun Podcast by sharing memories about the most amazing sex party ever. Pansexuality is not a big deal. Now that Kidder is off the show he can now view and talk about Laura Rad in sexually inappropriate ways. Coochie has learned to talk dirty and to massage a prostate incredibly well. Coochie gives Kidder an orgasm and the ejaculate was nowhere to be found. <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/SexIsFunPodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Subscribe to the New Sex is Fun Podcast!!</a>

SiF #296 Kidder's Farewell Part 2

Kidder Kaper says goodbye and the team finds out why. How long has Sex is Fun existed and when was the first broadcast?Is Kidder leaving for personal reasons?Is Kidder more or less angry at the world than when he began?What's going on with the teen sex education series at www.newsexed.comAre Jade and Kidder Kaper going to become bloggers at www.KaperLife.comWhat is going to happen to Sex is Fun now?Gay Rick and Laura Rad are taking over the show and they have big fan base to serve.Kidder Kaper's goal with Sex is Fun was to teach the world to be unafraid of sex. He leaves the show knowing that he has. 

Kidder Kaper says goodbye and the team finds out why. How long has Sex is Fun existed and when was the first broadcast? Is Kidder leaving for personal reasons? Is Kidder more or less angry at the world than when he began? What's going on with the <a href="http://www.newsexed.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">teen sex education series at www.newsexed.com</a> Are Jade and Kidder Kaper going to become bloggers at <a href="http://www.kaperlife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.KaperLife.com</a> What is going to happen to Sex is Fun now? Gay Rick and Laura Rad are taking over the show and they have big fan base to serve. Kidder Kaper's goal with Sex is Fun was to teach the world to be unafraid of sex. He leaves the show knowing that he has.

SiF #295 Kidder's Farewell 

Susie Bright

Who's one of the most influential surviving pro-sex generals from the "feminist sex wars?"Susie Bright lives a life that is less than ordinary and here is her memoir that spells it out, Big Sex Little Death. Her Audible radio show, In Bed with Susie Bright, has been going strong for over 11 years.Susie and Laura Rad discuss being pro-sex parents. Why are sexperts the only people who get asked, "do you ever get sick of talking about sex?"

Who's one of the most influential surviving pro-sex generals from the "feminist sex wars?" Susie Bright lives a life that is less than ordinary and here is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Big-Sex-Little-Death-Memoir/dp/1580052649/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1316490066&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">her memoir that spells it out, Big Sex Little Death.</a> Her <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewAudiobook?id=293978832&amp;s=143441" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audible radio show, In Bed with Susie Bright</a>, has been going strong for over 11 years. Susie and Laura Rad discuss being pro-sex parents. Why are sexperts the only people who get asked, "do you ever get sick of talking about sex?"

SiF #294 Big Sex Little Death: A Memoir - An interview with Susie Bright

After some lengthy discussion about Hermione Jean Granger's breasts, we launch into Coochie's Sexy Tarot readingWhat do we learn about Coochie?Currently she's in a precarious position with a penis touching her clitoris. A lot of risk abounds Coochie's sexual practices right now. In her immediate future, she'll be encountering a lot of hesitancy and restraint revolving a booby-grabbing orgy. The magician appears and that means that her bum has been getting a lot of play and anal sex is an overwhelming part of her intimacy.Coochie is all about getting off for anyone for any reason. There are rings on the fingers of a lot of these cards, will marriage play a role in Coochie's future?

After some lengthy discussion about Hermione Jean Granger's breasts, we launch into Coochie's Sexy Tarot reading What do we learn about Coochie? Currently she's in a precarious position with a penis touching her clitoris. A lot of risk abounds Coochie's sexual practices right now. In her immediate future, she'll be encountering a lot of hesitancy and restraint revolving a booby-grabbing orgy. The magician appears and that means that her bum has been getting a lot of play and anal sex is an overwhelming part of her intimacy. Coochie is all about getting off for anyone for any reason. There are rings on the fingers of a lot of these cards, will marriage play a role in Coochie's future?

Sif #293 Tarot Card Reading for Coochie!!

Lorax is gonna lay back and be selfish while she's being served by many sexual beings. Lorax's recent past includes a lecherous emperor. Lorax is grounded in feminine energy and is surrounded in boobies. Lorax's possible paths all include a lot of bending over and taking it from behind. Lorax asked the cards how she could get her hubby to share some of  his dirty desires with her. The cards say that he likes female ejaculation.

Lorax is gonna lay back and be selfish while she's being served by many sexual beings. Lorax's recent past includes a lecherous emperor. Lorax is grounded in feminine energy and is surrounded in boobies. Lorax's possible paths all include a lot of bending over and taking it from behind. Lorax asked the cards how she could get her hubby to share some of  his dirty desires with her. The cards say that he likes female ejaculation.

Sif #292 Tarot Card Reading for Lorax

Kidder Kaper

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We  interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world  three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in  three years.What was Kidder's biggest worry about doing the show when he first began?Where is the show going?Kidder discusses entering autumn and his darkest phase of the year and reality that continuing to attempt changing the world is going to continue making some people upset.Why has Sex is Fun maintained the leading position in the podcast ranks even though established names in sex education have shown up in the podcast medium?How did you choose your co-hosts and how do each of them contribute to the show?Kidder talks about how working on the show has affected his relationship with his wife.Kidder talks about his fleeting contentment with all of his accomplishments.Kidder Kaper is great friends with some of the staff on the show outside of work, except for Laura Rad, with whom he maintains a purely professional relationship. Kidder remembers a time when he thinks he may have offended Laura Rad.Kidder talks about his ultimate super-human power if he could have any super power.Which Star Wars Movie was the very best?Laura Rad asks out of nowhere, "Are you happy?"Has Kidder Kaper picked up any new fetishes after being on the show?Is Kidder a sex snob?Kidder hates stupid people.Kidder is Samurai, Jade is Geisha.If Kidder could have a completely different career, what would it be?What's up with Bathtalk?Do you believe in life after death?What would cause you change your belief in God?

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years. What was Kidder's biggest worry about doing the show when he first began? Where is the show going? Kidder discusses entering autumn and his darkest phase of the year and reality that continuing to attempt changing the world is going to continue making some people upset. Why has Sex is Fun maintained the leading position in the podcast ranks even though established names in sex education have shown up in the podcast medium? How did you choose your co-hosts and how do each of them contribute to the show? Kidder talks about how working on the show has affected his relationship with his wife. Kidder talks about his fleeting contentment with all of his accomplishments. Kidder Kaper is great friends with some of the staff on the show outside of work, except for Laura Rad, with whom he maintains a purely professional relationship. Kidder remembers a time when he thinks he may have offended Laura Rad. Kidder talks about his ultimate super-human power if he could have any super power. Which Star Wars Movie was the very best? Laura Rad asks out of nowhere, "Are you happy?" Has Kidder Kaper picked up any new fetishes after being on the show? Is Kidder a sex snob? Kidder hates stupid people. Kidder is Samurai, Jade is Geisha. If Kidder could have a completely different career, what would it be? What's up with <a href="http://www.bathtalkweekly.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Bathtalk?</a> Do you believe in life after death? What would cause you change your belief in God?

SiF #291 We interview Kidder Kaper from Sex is Fun!

Laura Rad

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We  interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world  three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in  three years.Laura Rad dusts off the memory of her first time on the show.What was Laura's most difficult creative disagreement she's had with Kidder?Where does Laura see the show going in the future? Where does she want the show to go?What's Laura learning at skool? What's she gonna be when she grows up? Where does one go to skool to have a career in sexual health?Laura discovered that the universe is kicking her ass into where she's supposed to be.When Laura graduates and becomes a professional sexual health expert, will she keep her public persona?Laura Rad discusses humility, books, and worrying about sharing intimate details about her sex life. But she does want her husband to dress up in costume.How does Laura intend to teach her kids about sex?Have you ever given any advice that turned out to be bad advice?Does your husband resent that you spend so much time working on Sex is Fun?What is your relationship with other SiF members outside of SiF?Has being on SiF changed your relationship with your other friends?Have you ever been treated like a famous person for being on SiF?What is your religious identity?

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years. Laura Rad dusts off the memory of her first time on the show. What was Laura's most difficult creative disagreement she's had with Kidder? Where does Laura see the show going in the future? Where does she want the show to go? What's Laura learning at skool? What's she gonna be when she grows up? Where does one go to skool to have a career in sexual health? Laura discovered that the universe is kicking her ass into where she's supposed to be. When Laura graduates and becomes a professional sexual health expert, will she keep her public persona? Laura Rad discusses humility, books, and worrying about sharing intimate details about her sex life. But she does want her husband to dress up in costume. How does Laura intend to teach her kids about sex? Have you ever given any advice that turned out to be bad advice? Does your husband resent that you spend so much time working on Sex is Fun? What is your relationship with other SiF members outside of SiF? Has being on SiF changed your relationship with your other friends? Have you ever been treated like a famous person for being on SiF? What is your religious identity?

SiF #290 We interview Laura Rad from Sex is Fun!

Gay Rick

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years.Gay Rick recalls his first episode as a guest on the show and being asked to join the staff. Do you get a lot of feedback from our listeners?How has being on the show changed your view on sex? Still vulva-phobic?Gay Rick asks, "What would Kidder Kaper do?" while at a gay bathhouse. WWKD?Gay Rick comes out as a crazy-hippy and talks about the spiritual side of his sexuality. He looked into witchcraft but it didn't stick. Rick is an empath.Have you or would you ever kill someone? What puts you in a dark place and causes you to Hulk-OUT?Do you want a puppy?Rick tells us how to rid yourself of self-hate and love yourself.Does Rick like the taste of cum after having an orgasm?Everyone on Sex is Fun wants to see Gay Rick have sex with another man, except for Laura Rad, who just wants to be friends.

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years. Gay Rick recalls his first episode as a guest on the show and being asked to join the staff. Do you get a lot of feedback from our listeners? How has being on the show changed your view on sex? Still vulva-phobic? Gay Rick asks, "What would Kidder Kaper do?" while at a gay bathhouse. WWKD? Gay Rick comes out as a crazy-hippy and talks about the spiritual side of his sexuality. He looked into witchcraft but it didn't stick. Rick is an empath. Have you or would you ever kill someone? What puts you in a dark place and causes you to Hulk-OUT? Do you want a puppy? Rick tells us how to rid yourself of self-hate and love yourself. Does Rick like the taste of cum after having an orgasm? Everyone on Sex is Fun wants to see Gay Rick have sex with another man, except for Laura Rad, who just wants to be friends.

SiF #289 We interview Gay Rick from Sex is Fun!

Dedicated to the rational discussion of human sexuality from the approach of fun, enjoyment and pleasure. Each episode features a different topic that will discuss how to maximize sexual enjoyment while avoiding all the dangers of sex. Sex is Fun features author of Sex is Fun! Creative Ideas for Exciting Sex and head game designer for Great Sex Games, Kidder Kaper, sex educator, Laura Rad, HiV and AIDS educator Gay Rick, and the sound engineer, Coochie.

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Sex is Fun Podcast

What kind of people make amateur porn? Apparently it is people like Kidder, Jade, and The Lorax Girl because they made one and in their opinion it is way more fun to watch than any of the pro stuff. How'd this all come about? It started with Jade finding her sexy-self and sending a little movie of her orgasm to a couple of friends. Then came the big idea of making an actual porn with a cheezy story, props, costumes, and a two very sexy women. Kidder has absolutely NO desire to see himself acting in a porno. Thinks to keep in mind if you should try to make your own porn:• Natural lighting is your friend• Modern prosumer gear is better in auto-mode than most shooters are in manual modes• If you don't have a boom mic operator, hang a shotgun from a light or ceiling fan• Allow the talent to spend the first 15 minutes doing whatever they want without any direction• Think about the target audience and take requests for what they want to see in the movie• Utilize programs that hide files on your system from your kids and co-workersAfter the discussion about the porno, Kidder tells a story about being dominated by Jade.

What kind of people make amateur porn? Apparently it is people like Kidder, Jade, and The Lorax Girl because they made one and in their opinion it is way more fun to watch than any of the pro stuff. How'd this all come about? It started with Jade finding her sexy-self and sending a little movie of her orgasm to a couple of friends. Then came the big idea of making an actual porn with a cheezy story, props, costumes, and a two very sexy women. Kidder has absolutely NO desire to see himself acting in a porno. Thinks to keep in mind if you should try to make your own porn: • Natural lighting is your friend • Modern prosumer gear is better in auto-mode than most shooters are in manual modes • If you don't have a boom mic operator, hang a shotgun from a light or ceiling fan • Allow the talent to spend the first 15 minutes doing whatever they want without any direction • Think about the target audience and take requests for what they want to see in the movie • Utilize programs that hide files on your system from your kids and co-workers After the discussion about the porno, Kidder tells a story about being dominated by Jade.

SiF #283 Homemade Sex is Fun Porn

 Voicemail show: As a "gift" to our listeners, we've decided to dedicate an entire show to nothing but answering your questions. We start off with some REAL audio erotica. A Facebook friend wants to find a boyfriend to have sex with. Gay Rick tells us about Grinder, an iPhone app that helps you find hookups wherever you are. Kidder, Coochie, and Lorax give their best safety tips for not getting slaughtered over a sex hookup. Gay Rick and Laura Rad argue that showing your friends who you are with is often difficult and prescribe a different approach.Another caller who plays with his butt and enjoys it, can't seem to relax enough to pleasure his partners penis with out a profuse portion of pain. A caller from Kentucky tells us how much she hates our show. We return in kind by telling her what we think of Kentucky. A caller tells us about their college orientation where they learned that premarital sex was a terrible thing and that homosexual acts are a form of insanity. A caller's "sister" keeps breaking her sex toys and needs a recommendation for a tougher model. Another caller's wife wants him have sex with other women and wants to know if "cuckolding" is the proper term to use when the woman gets excited for her partner to sleep around. 

Voicemail show: As a "gift" to our listeners, we've decided to dedicate an entire show to nothing but answering your questions. We start off with some REAL audio erotica. A Facebook friend wants to find a boyfriend to have sex with. Gay Rick tells us about Grinder, an iPhone app that helps you find hookups wherever you are. Kidder, Coochie, and Lorax give their best safety tips for not getting slaughtered over a sex hookup. Gay Rick and Laura Rad argue that showing your friends who you are with is often difficult and prescribe a different approach.Another caller who plays with his butt and enjoys it, can't seem to relax enough to pleasure his partners penis with out a profuse portion of pain. A caller from Kentucky tells us how much she hates our show. We return in kind by telling her what we think of Kentucky. A caller tells us about their college orientation where they learned that premarital sex was a terrible thing and that homosexual acts are a form of insanity. A caller's "sister" keeps breaking her sex toys and needs a recommendation for a tougher model. Another caller's wife wants him have sex with other women and wants to know if "cuckolding" is the proper term to use when the woman gets excited for her partner to sleep around.

SiF # 204 - Get Your Sex Questions Answered

Lorax and Coochie read some naughty stories for your enjoyment. Kidder gives all the fecalphiliacs what they've been waiting for.

Lorax and Coochie read some naughty stories for your enjoyment. Kidder gives all the fecalphiliacs what they've been waiting for.

SiF #250 - Erotica #4

On tonight's episode we come back to the long promised Cosmo Sex Tips! Learn if the beaded necklace makes a good sex toy. What about nylons? Will you learn a new position or make shift sex toy for the next time you and your partner need a quick fix?Laura Rad finds the positives of all the tips, while Kidder Kaper's cynicism shines bright.While Cosmo may not have the best tips, Sex is Fun will set you up with some great ideas for the next time you want to surprise your partner.

On tonight's episode we come back to the long promised Cosmo Sex Tips! Learn if the beaded necklace makes a good sex toy. What about nylons? Will you learn a new position or make shift sex toy for the next time you and your partner need a quick fix? Laura Rad finds the positives of all the tips, while Kidder Kaper's cynicism shines bright. While Cosmo may not have the best tips, Sex is Fun will set you up with some great ideas for the next time you want to surprise your partner.

SiF #280 Cosmo Sex Tips

Tonight we Kidder reads an erotic story that he wrote for Jade and Gay Rick reads a steamy tale from his favorite erotic author. 

Tonight we Kidder reads an erotic story that he wrote for Jade and Gay Rick reads a steamy tale from his favorite erotic author.

SiF #249 - Erotica #3

Laura Rad wants to talk about vagina, so we do. She's noticed some changes to her vagina since she gave birth and is worried that it may not return to its former glory. Voicemails in this episode: • Response to the worry of a Muslim nation, the answer is Turkey! • Kidder's anxiety drives him to do good and important work.• Make the teen sex ed series of comics because the world NEEDS it! • A poly-lesbian-bisexual-genderfluid couple that has not had sex yet is going to use the Sex is Fun book as a springboard to kick off their relationship, after they get back together. • Gratuitous backslapping for the show. 

Laura Rad wants to talk about vagina, so we do. She's noticed some changes to her vagina since she gave birth and is worried that it may not return to its former glory.  Voicemails in this episode: • Response to the worry of a Muslim nation, the answer is Turkey! • Kidder's anxiety drives him to do good and important work. • Make the teen sex ed series of comics because the world NEEDS it! • A poly-lesbian-bisexual-genderfluid couple that has not had sex yet is going to use the Sex is Fun book as a springboard to kick off their relationship, after they get back together. • Gratuitous backslapping for the show.

SiF # 254 - Vagina

Today we take a call from a listener who has contracted herpes and wants  to know if she'll ever have a fulfilling sex life again. Our next  caller is happily married but is crushing big-time on another married  woman and wants to know how she should go about breaching the topic of  getting it on with her crush. The game Dick and Virginia was custom made  to help people have these conversations, but GreatSexGames.com can't  even give them away. The final caller really loves prostate milking but  unfortunately his wife is getting sore fingers and wants to know if  there are toys that could help them get the job done. The Sex is Fun! book is now available everywhere fine books are sold.

Today we take a call from a listener who has contracted herpes and wants to know if she'll ever have a fulfilling sex life again. Our next caller is happily married but is crushing big-time on another married woman and wants to know how she should go about breaching the topic of getting it on with her crush. The game Dick and Virginia was custom made to help people have these conversations, but <a href="http://GreatSexGames.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">GreatSexGames.com</a> can't even give them away. The final caller really loves prostate milking but unfortunately his wife is getting sore fingers and wants to know if there are toys that could help them get the job done. The <a href="http://www.sexisfun.net/book.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Sex is Fun! book</a> is now available everywhere fine books are sold.

SiF #229 - Married Bisexual Action, Prostate Milking, Herpes

Download SiF #263 - Mormon Porn??Max works for a company that produces gay porn staring Mormons for Mormons. In this most interesting show we learn all about the complete and utter insanity that is the Mormon faith, including magic underwear. Mormons aren't known for being gay-friendly, in fact they are quite often the most politically active opposition for gay rights that currently exist in America. They've taken control of the BoyScouts and have integrated themselves into a massive number of very profitable businesses. It is very likely that you are unknowingly funding their sex-negative, anti-homosexual dirty politics by simply buying the products that you use every single day. So www.mormonboyz.com exists to help gay Mormon men escape the insanity by providing a revenue stream for them so that they have some support as their church and family disown them from the world that they were born into.

<a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/sexisfun/SiF_263_-_Mormon_Pornography.mp3" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Download SiF #263 - Mormon Porn??</a>Max works for a company that produces gay porn staring Mormons for Mormons. In this most interesting show we learn all about the complete and utter insanity that is the Mormon faith, including magic underwear. Mormons aren't known for being gay-friendly, in fact they are quite often the most politically active opposition for gay rights that currently exist in America. They've taken control of the BoyScouts and have integrated themselves into a massive number of very profitable businesses. It is very likely that you are unknowingly funding their sex-negative, anti-homosexual dirty politics by simply buying the products that you use every single day.  So <a href="http://www.mormonboyz.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.mormonboyz.com</a> exists to help gay Mormon men escape the insanity by providing a revenue stream for them so that they have some support as their church and family disown them from the world that they were born into.

SiF #263 - Mormon Porn

SiF gets a letter from a listener who's recently experienced her first group sex play and learned later that her husband snuck in a little PiV action while she was rounding up a double-ended dildo in the other room. She had a great time but is hurt by the fact that he broke the rules. She writes,Hey Kidder -- My husband and I had two very hot and  sexy single friends over last night. We all ended up naked in the  kitchen and fooling around...and that leads me to my question. I'll  break it down like this: The good news is that I finally got some girl  on girl action. It was awesome! I got to play with boobies, finger her  and eat box! :) I thought the whole thing went swimmingly well until my  husband told me The Bad News: my he had some P.I.V. action with the  other girl, which happened on the staircase while going to get a toy. I  was not there. It was minimal, in and out 2 times before they recovered  their senses and stopped. We were all pretty tipsy, and we didn't  discuss boundaries before our impromptu sexytime. That may make me a  very irresponsible SIF listener, but be that as it is...I feel SO  betrayed and hurt. Alan KNOWS my boundaries with PIV and also with this  particular woman. We've spent 9 years rebuilding the trust he broke when  he cheated on me before we were married. I also feel like he ruined a  perfectly INCREDIBLE, hot sexy encounter with our two friends. As you  know, I've never done that before, it was a huge and much anticipated  experience for me, and I think it rocked except for my seriously hurt  feelings and his whackadooooo bullshit PIV action. :( Anyway, I'm pretty  confused and I'm trying to be cool about it. He knows how I feel. Thanks for listening, any advice from you, Jade, or anyone else would be helpful and welcome.ps--Salt  on the wound: I surprised him and got an iud for xmas so we could be  fluid bonded, and now I want him to get screened for STIs, because the  PIV was not protected. I'm so bummed. What is the incubation period?pps--It's nice to hear you dropping the F-bomb again :)  

SiF gets a letter from a listener who's recently experienced her first group sex play and learned later that her husband snuck in a little PiV action while she was rounding up a double-ended dildo in the other room. She had a great time but is hurt by the fact that he broke the rules. She writes, Hey Kidder -- My husband and I had two very hot and sexy single friends over last night. We all ended up naked in the kitchen and fooling around...and that leads me to my question. I'll break it down like this: The good news is that I finally got some girl on girl action. It was awesome! I got to play with boobies, finger her and eat box! :) I thought the whole thing went swimmingly well until my husband told me The Bad News: my he had some P.I.V. action with the other girl, which happened on the staircase while going to get a toy. I was not there. It was minimal, in and out 2 times before they recovered their senses and stopped. We were all pretty tipsy, and we didn't discuss boundaries before our impromptu sexytime. That may make me a very irresponsible SIF listener, but be that as it is...I feel SO betrayed and hurt. Alan KNOWS my boundaries with PIV and also with this particular woman. We've spent 9 years rebuilding the trust he broke when he cheated on me before we were married. I also feel like he ruined a perfectly INCREDIBLE, hot sexy encounter with our two friends. As you know, I've never done that before, it was a huge and much anticipated experience for me, and I think it rocked except for my seriously hurt feelings and his whackadooooo bullshit PIV action. :( Anyway, I'm pretty confused and I'm trying to be cool about it. He knows how I feel. Thanks for listening, any advice from you, Jade, or anyone else would be helpful and welcome. ps--Salt on the wound: I surprised him and got an iud for xmas so we could be fluid bonded, and now I want him to get screened for STIs, because the PIV was not protected. I'm so bummed. What is the incubation period? pps--It's nice to hear you dropping the F-bomb again :)

SiF #261 - When Good Orgies Go Bad

What is the difference between a D/s relationship and an abusive  relationship? According to our guest Dylan, a senior moderator of  Minnesota Kinky Youth (MinKY), if it is consensual and it makes you  aroused then it may fit under the classification of a D/s relationship. Discover more on this episode of Sex is Fun.  If you have questions and for more information email Dylan. 

What is the difference between a D/s relationship and an abusive relationship? According to our guest Dylan, a senior moderator of Minnesota Kinky Youth (MinKY), if it is consensual and it makes you aroused then it may fit under the classification of a D/s relationship. Discover more on this episode of Sex is Fun. If you have questions and for more information <a href="mailto:dylan@minnesotakinkyyouth.org">email Dylan</a>.

SiF #216 - Dominant/submissive Relationships

Sex educator, author, blogger, podcaster, and game designer, Kidder Kaper, releases his 12th sex game and this time he's pushed the production quality to the max with his first fully illustrated, mass-produced game.

Sex educator, author, blogger, podcaster, and game designer, <a href="mailto:kidder@sexisfun.net">Kidder Kaper</a>, releases his 12th sex game and this time he's pushed the production quality to the max with his first fully illustrated, mass-produced <a href="http://www.greatsexgames.com/unpredictable.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">game.</a>

SiF #221 - Making Sex Spontaneous and Unpredictable

Nina Hartley

On today's episode we interview Nina Hartley.Nina Hartley is a porn star, porn director, sex educator, feminist, author, and all around entertaining person to talk with.How is she able to perform and get motivated to work?What is in the sex for her?

On today's episode we interview <a href="http://www.nina.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Nina Hartley.</a> Nina Hartley is a porn star, porn director, sex educator, feminist, author, and all around entertaining person to talk with. How is she able to perform and get motivated to work? What is in the sex for her?

SiF #271 Interview with Nina Hartley

Kidder, Lorax, Cooper and Marylin sit down at Desire and give first impressions on the resort.You'll learn about guy on guy action, how emotions can become super intense, and how everyone's relationships are growing and changing.Learn more about Life on the SwingsetJoin Smitten Kitten and Ana Voog on March 11th! Selections from Ana Voog's webcam on display.

Kidder, Lorax, Cooper and Marylin sit down at Desire and give first impressions on the resort. You'll learn about guy on guy action, how emotions can become super intense, and how everyone's relationships are growing and changing. Learn more about <a href="http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Life on the Swingset</a> Join <a href="http://blog.smittenkittenonline.com/events/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Smitten Kitten and Ana Voog</a> on March 11th! Selections from Ana Voog's webcam on display.

SiF #266 Sex on the Swingset is Fun! - First Impressions from Desire!

Today we take a call from a woman who got into a spot of trouble after a  family member finds her naughty pictures on Craigslist.   Laura Rad reviews the Nipple to Clit Clamp Set. A caller wants to know if she should get her clit pierced.     Call into the show! 206-350-8823

Today we take a call from a woman who got into a spot of trouble after a family member finds her naughty pictures on Craigslist. Laura Rad reviews the <a href="http://www.extremerestraints.com/nipple-toys_60/nipple-to-clit-tweezer-clamp-set_1101.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Nipple to Clit Clamp Set</a>. A caller wants to know if she should get her clit pierced.   Call into the show! 206-350-8823

SiF #219 - Clitoral Piercings, Getting Caught in Naughty Pictures & Clit to Nipple Clamp Review

Sex is Fun's best advice for having a great date night that brings couples closer together and seriously increases sexual intimacy.Call us! 206-350-8823

Sex is Fun's best advice for having a great date night that brings couples closer together and seriously increases sexual intimacy.Call us! 206-350-8823

SiF #220 - How to have a Fantastic Date

Listen to the Enhanced Podcast now!Sex is Fun hosts a trip for 30 couples to the clothing optional, sex inspired resort and spa, Desire in Cancun Mexico.  Interesting Events in this show:• Guy on guy blow-job in hot tub• Lorax hosts a 12 person orgy in the great outdoors• Kidder learns to manage his yucky feelings and knows how to communicate them so that Jade can help him get back to feeling special.• Lorax is the cruise director.• Jade finds a man (Dr. Hoot) that she's very attracted to and realizes that her attraction to him and the connection she's made with him is making her feel a new desire to go further than they ever have before• Kidder and Jade begin communicating in a whole new way and it is good• Kidder and Jade plan a full swap which half becomes a reality• Kidder, Jade, Lorax and Jade have a slumber party• Lorax and Kidder Kaper engage in an epic make-out session that ends 5 years of pent up sexual tension• Kidder, Jade, Lorax, FKS, Dr. Hoot and, Mrs. Hoot have a Sixum• Reclamation sex is good• Lorax and FKS hook up with a hot British couple that rock and can rock all night long• Lorax notices that FKS is being distant and realizes that perhaps her hickey collection is making him uncomfortable• FKS is working on his communication skills, Kidder is trying to be a bit more like FKSListen to the Enhanced Podcast now!

<a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/sexisfun/267DesireTrip.m4a" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Listen to the Enhanced Podcast now!</a> Sex is Fun hosts a trip for 30 couples to the clothing optional, sex inspired resort and spa, <a href="http://desire.originalresorts.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Desire in Cancun Mexico. </a> Interesting Events in this show:• Guy on guy blow-job in hot tub• Lorax hosts a 12 person orgy in the great outdoors• Kidder learns to manage his yucky feelings and knows how to communicate them so that Jade can help him get back to feeling special.• Lorax is the cruise director.• Jade finds a man (Dr. Hoot) that she's very attracted to and realizes that her attraction to him and the connection she's made with him is making her feel a new desire to go further than they ever have before• Kidder and Jade begin communicating in a whole new way and it is good• Kidder and Jade plan a full swap which half becomes a reality• Kidder, Jade, Lorax and Jade have a slumber party• Lorax and Kidder Kaper engage in an epic make-out session that ends 5 years of pent up sexual tension• Kidder, Jade, Lorax, FKS, Dr. Hoot and, Mrs. Hoot have a Sixum• Reclamation sex is good• Lorax and FKS hook up with a hot British couple that rock and can rock all night long• Lorax notices that FKS is being distant and realizes that perhaps her hickey collection is making him uncomfortable• FKS is working on his communication skills, Kidder is trying to be a bit more like FKS <a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/sexisfun/267DesireTrip.m4a" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Listen to the Enhanced Podcast now!</a>

SiF #267 Desire Trip Report

In today's episode Kidder and Lorax discuss a party that went bad.Learn what not to do when you have a mixed party, how to set rules and keep your vanillas friends from feeling uncomfortable and vice versa.

In today's episode Kidder and Lorax discuss a party that went bad. Learn what not to do when you have a mixed party, how to set rules and keep your vanillas friends from feeling uncomfortable and vice versa.

SiF #270  Mixing Vanilla and Non-Vanillas

Kidder drinks absinth and plays Wii Resort Sports until 4 AM. Viagra delays ejaculations. Kidder reviews Obsello Absinth. Coochie warns that you shouldn't drink and make bad decisions. Kidder hopes for viagra in tea. Laura Rad ponders the sex life of Mr. Rogers. Eventually the team gets to the point of the show and talk about their favorite erogenous zones. Kidder realizes that his favorites spots are also the most vulnerable ones. Laura Rad loves a sweaty armpit. We are a touch deprived society. Give up the myth that there is ONE place on your partner's body that if touched, will drive them crazy. Take your time and don't have an objective when finding and stimulating erogenous zones. Don't you just HATE it when a partner almost touches your favorite erogenous zone but then moves on before actually touching it. 

Kidder drinks absinth and plays Wii Resort Sports until 4 AM. Viagra delays ejaculations. Kidder reviews Obsello Absinth. Coochie warns that you shouldn't drink and make bad decisions. Kidder hopes for viagra in tea. Laura Rad ponders the sex life of Mr. Rogers. Eventually the team gets to the point of the show and talk about their favorite erogenous zones. Kidder realizes that his favorites spots are also the most vulnerable ones. Laura Rad loves a sweaty armpit. We are a touch deprived society. Give up the myth that there is ONE place on your partner's body that if touched, will drive them crazy. Take your time and don't have an objective when finding and stimulating erogenous zones. Don't you just HATE it when a partner almost touches your favorite erogenous zone but then moves on before actually touching it.

SiF #211 - Erogenous Zones in a Touch Deprived Society

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