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Tina Schermer Sellers, "Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free Confident Kids & Heal Your Shame Too!" (2021)

New Books in Sex, Sexuality, and Sex Work

Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free Confident Kids & Heal Your Shame Too! (2021) is the 21st-century book parents have been asking for! It highlights the trickiest parts of each age (birth to 18) that tend to trigger shame and guides them on how-to provide emotionally for their children while helping them understand the shame that is emerging for them. Shame is what makes us reactive as parents. It is the hardest part of parenting. It is from our own places of shame that we over-react, repeating patterns from our parents that we might otherwise have resisted, and finding ourselves stuck, not knowing what to do. This book has your back! It allows you to feel prepared for each stage of your child’s emotional and sexual development before you get there, and it gives you everything you need before you are caught off guard, including sex ed when that time comes for your child. Now you can enjoy yourself, enjoy your child, heal your shame, and change the legacy. What a powerful gift to give yourself, your child, and your whole family!Dr. Tina is also the founder and medical director of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy which provides training and supervision for therapists, medical providers and clergy in sexual health and confronting sexual bias. Frequently featured on podcasts, TV, documentaries, articles and radio, including Spirituality & Health magazine, Tina travels the country as a keynote speaker for organizations, parents and professionals helping them become competent teaching shame-free relational and sexual health. She can be reached at TinaSchermerSellers.com, and followed on Instagram @DrTinaShameless.Meg Gambino is an artist and activist currently working as the Director of Outreach for an addiction recovery center. Her life mission is to creatively empower others by modeling reconciliation between communities of people and people on the margins. Find her work at reconfigureart.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

48mins

17 Sep 2021

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Tina Schermer Sellers, "Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free Confident Kids & Heal Your Shame Too!" (2021)

New Books in Psychology

Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free Confident Kids & Heal Your Shame Too! (2021) is the 21st-century book parents have been asking for! It highlights the trickiest parts of each age (birth to 18) that tend to trigger shame and guides them on how-to provide emotionally for their children while helping them understand the shame that is emerging for them. Shame is what makes us reactive as parents. It is the hardest part of parenting. It is from our own places of shame that we over-react, repeating patterns from our parents that we might otherwise have resisted, and finding ourselves stuck, not knowing what to do. This book has your back! It allows you to feel prepared for each stage of your child’s emotional and sexual development before you get there, and it gives you everything you need before you are caught off guard, including sex ed when that time comes for your child. Now you can enjoy yourself, enjoy your child, heal your shame, and change the legacy. What a powerful gift to give yourself, your child, and your whole family!Dr. Tina is also the founder and medical director of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy which provides training and supervision for therapists, medical providers and clergy in sexual health and confronting sexual bias. Frequently featured on podcasts, TV, documentaries, articles and radio, including Spirituality & Health magazine, Tina travels the country as a keynote speaker for organizations, parents and professionals helping them become competent teaching shame-free relational and sexual health. She can be reached at TinaSchermerSellers.com, and followed on Instagram @DrTinaShameless.Meg Gambino is an artist and activist currently working as the Director of Outreach for an addiction recovery center. Her life mission is to creatively empower others by modeling reconciliation between communities of people and people on the margins. Find her work at reconfigureart.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology

48mins

17 Sep 2021

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#155: Purity Culture, PTSD, and Parenting w/ Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers

A Tiny Revolution

Dr. Tina is an author, psychotherapist, professor, speaker, and bad ass who has been talking about the damage of purity culture since 2006. her newest book, Shameless Parenting, tackles how to raise your kids without the shame you had growing up, and how to heal your own along the way.Find her on her website and follow on Instagram. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

50mins

14 Sep 2021

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EP236 - How to Respond When Your Kids Start Masturbating with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers

Sexology

Welcome to episode 236 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss her new book, Shameless Parenting, look at the issue of sexual shame, and give recommendations on how to talk to your kids about sex.    Dr. Tina is a vibrant thought leader around issues of sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Her life’s work is centered around rooting out the causes of sexual shame and providing tools that disarm and demystify all the negative messages that we receive in American culture and so often in religious circles. She regularly speaks at events, conferences, intimacy retreats, churches, and universities around the country.  Dr. Tina is a sex therapist, former professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Seattle Pacific University, founder of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, AASECT-certified supervisor, mother, wife, and author. She is currently doing work on her next book, which is intended to help parents raise their children free of sexual shame and appropriately teach them about healthy sexuality over each stage of their development.  In this episode, you will hear:  Why Dr. Tina wrote her new book, Shameless Parenting Where does our sexual shame come from?   How our sexuality is fluid and changes over time   Learning the best ways to talk to your kids about sex   How if don’t talk to them about sex, they will pick up other values and info about sex from online, social media, etc.   What age is appropriate for kids to start being curious about sex?   The difference between self-soothing and masturbating   Teaching the values of privacy around sex to our kids   Recommendations on how to talk to your kids about sex   Find Dr. Tina Online   https://www.tinaschermersellers.com Talking to Your Child About Sex: A Checklist for Parents  https://oasis2care.com/checklist-for-parents/ Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  

31mins

29 Jun 2021

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Episode 136: Shameless (Sex) Parenting with Tina Schermer Sellers

Faith and Feminism

So many of us were raised in purity culture and taught that sex and sexuality are shameful. As some of us begin to become parents, we are wondering how exactly to navigate this area of life with our children. Dr. Sellers shares with us about her new book "Shameless Parenting" and how we can reparent ourselves, and our children, to have a healthy sexual ethic.

1hr 7mins

21 Jun 2021

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FAMILY: Shameless Parenting with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers

The Studleys

Our guest today, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, joins to talk through her new book Shameless Parenting: Everything You Need to Raise Shame-free, Confident Kids and Heal Your Shame Too! Listen to the end for a teaser announcement for an upcoming Anatomy event! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Order Dr. Tina Schermer Seller's new book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Shameless-Parenting-Everything-Shame-free-Confident-ebook/dp/B08ZQBL2ND

49mins

20 May 2021

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Breaking the Religious Ties Between Sex and Shame (with Dr Tina Schermer Sellers)

The Kate and Colby Show

Many of us were raised where all things sex was either ignored/repressed on one end, or made the center of the universe (in a bad way) on the other. This created so much Shame. Dr Tina Schermer Sellers is here to help.OTHER EPISODES YOU MIGHT ENJOYSexual Shame-Free Faith, with God is Grey: https://youtu.be/H7VxiQ0J0qYWe Are Made to Feel Good, with Coach Yeamah: https://youtu.be/5Yc43o_pdsYPermission for a Righteous Ruckus, with Kevin Garcia and Rev Sarah Heath: https://youtu.be/83iaJpN_yyQ———ABOUT OUR GUESTDr Tina Schermer Sellers, a licensed therapist with years of work in the field of shame and sex, believes we truly can raise shame-free, confident kids... all while healing our shame, too.She's the author of two books,"Sex, God, and the Conservative Church"https://amzn.to/2SitDS1"Shameless Parenting"https://amzn.to/2TgGF31———OTHER SEGMENTS IN THIS EPISODEViewer Check-in: What’s one of the first sex scenes you remember seeing in a movie?Co-Host Check-in: Kate and Colby take a few minutes to check with each other#progressivechristianity #postevangelical———ABOUT THE KATE & COLBY SHOWOur mission is Holistic Care for the Soul.As post-Evangelicals, and self-identifying Progressive Christians (or at least, most days), we offer unique insights into the world of relationships, spiritual practices, parenting, and more.We met when we were in Junior High, got married in 2003, and soon grew our family to four kids.Living in San Diego, we also co-Pastor the church we started in 2014, Sojourn Grace Collective: https://www.sojourngrace.comThe Kate & Colby Show was a podcast first (and still is!), and is also now a LIVE Show that streams on Wednesdays at 7pm pacific.———THREE WAYS TO SUPPORT THE SHOW1) FinanciallyExpress your gratitude and help with the costs of producing and growing the Show with one-time gifts or monthly backing: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kateandcolby2) SociallySubscribe to our channel here on YoutubeLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kateandcolbyFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kateandcolbyGet our Newsletter: https://www.thekateandcolbyshow.com3) ReviewinglyListen, Rate and Review our Podcast.- iTunes: https://apple.co/2VfFgb3- Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2Vh4jdH- Stitcher: https://bit.ly/2VeotoT- Podbean: https://bit.ly/3fZ4yCj

1hr 35mins

19 May 2021

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110 - Dr Tina Schermer Sellers - Shameless Parenting

The Phil Drysdale Show

Dr Tina Schermer Sellers is a sex therapist and family therapist. She has worked extensively with those emerging from purity culture to find a healthy embodied approach to sex and freedom from the shame their faith has built around sex.You can find out more about Tina at https://www.tinaschermersellers.comYou can follow her at:https://www.instagram.com/drtinashamelessAnd keep an eye out for her upcoming book "Shameless Parenting"Support my work and join our private online community: ╰►Via my site: https://www.phildrysdale.com/partner ╰►Via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/phildrysdale╰►Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/phildrysdale╰►Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/phildrysdale╰►Find others deconstructing locally: https://www.thedeconstructionnetwork.com╰►More about me: https://www.phildrysdale.com

1hr 45mins

25 Mar 2021

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52: Parenting and Re-parenting Without Sexual Shame with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers

Where Do We Go From Here

It's not ONE sex talk, it's one hundred one-minute conversations about sexuality, intimacy, and body curiosity. Ever wondered how to parent your kids in a way that celebrates their sexuality instead of fearing it? THIS is the one you've been waiting for as we welcome Dr. Tina to our show. She brings a wealth of wisdom and practical advice drawing from over 30 years of experience in sexual health, therapy, and education. Not a parent? Maybe you've been wondering how to reparent yourself from the years you spent in Purity Culture - this conversation is for you too. Learn how to have compassion for your younger self and walk forward embracing the gift of your body, your curiosity, and your sexuality.  Show notes here (loads of great info from Dr. Tina and more) To hear our full, uncut interview with Dr. Tina partner with us for $3/month - you'll get access to our full library of uncut interviews and more. Tina Schermer Sellers, PhD, LMFT, CSTS is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, writer, researcher, supervisor, and public figure whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, medicine, parenting, and social justice. Dr. Sellers' book Sex, God, & the Conservative Church – Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy has had a global impact exposing the damage of sexual shame. Now she speaks throughout the world on how to heal, and how to raise shame-free relationally confident children. Connect with her on Instagram @drtinashameless Write us a review: Apple Podcasts

52mins

13 Jan 2021

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Join Us on a Path Towards Shameless Sex with Tina Schermer Sellers, PhD | S2:E1

Dear Sex

Wendy kicks off Season 2 with author and professor Tina Schermer Sellers, PhD, as they discuss the historical implications of sexuality and its relation to the merging of church and state in the United States. Tina's expertise is evident in her acclaimed book Sex, God, and the Conservative Church - Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy. Listen as she and Wendy debunk the cultural conditioning on sexual shame and offer resources for starting a healing process.

42mins

13 Nov 2020

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