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Ryan Shirley

Human Up

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Nathaniel Drew

Renan Ozturk

Jack Coyne

Alex Castro

Kendra Lee

Abby Stoddard

Rachel Alexandria

Bradley King

Joanne Victoria

Chris Hall

Johnny Harris

Brett Conti

Miguel Meola

Timmy Ham

OwlTail

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#53 - Ryan Shirley

Ryan Shirley - Kraig Adams Podcast

Emotional intelligence doesn’t come natural for many people, no matter the circumstances, but it’s especially missing in a lot of men. I’ve noticed this especially true for myself, where I was unwilling to be uncomfortable feeling my emotions. It made me feel weak, or childish, or “feminine.” But why is something as natural as our emotions something we try to hide? I talk to a good friend, Ryan Shirley, co-founder of Pursuit and Tie, about how important of a role EQ plays in business/client service, marriage, and friendships, as well as what it means for men to manage our emotions. *Due to previous audio setup, there will be occasional background noise in the recording. ------------------------------------- Timestamps: [7:50] Does a person's value solely come from the ability to product outcomes? [9:49] Men don't prioritize emotional growth [12:38] Men's balance with power [13:43] Yes, you can have too much EQ [9:38] But lack of EQ creates stale relationships [17:05] What we practice grows stronger [19:04] Competition is great to push us forward, but hurts us when we compare self-worth [20:2] EQ is the muscle needed to work better with others [21:24] Ryan's advice on resume building [25:23] EQ is important to make relationships work [36:16] Men's struggle to swallow pride to fight for relationships [39:36] The Mt Rushmore of Emotionally Intelligent people ------------------------------------- Resources: Resume consulting: http://pursuitandtie.com. ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Resiliency exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe. Schedule a free coaching call with me to work on your emotional intelligence: http://victorung.com. Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup. Clap for me on my blog on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.  https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

Emotional intelligence doesn’t come natural for many people, no matter the circumstances, but it’s especially missing in a lot of men. I’ve noticed this especially true for myself, where I was unwilling to be uncomfortable feeling my emotions. It made me feel weak, or childish, or “feminine.” But why is something as natural as our emotions something we try to hide? I talk to a good friend, Ryan Shirley, co-founder of Pursuit and Tie, about how important of a role EQ plays in business/client service, marriage, and friendships, as well as what it means for men to manage our emotions. *Due to previous audio setup, there will be occasional background noise in the recording. ------------------------------------- Timestamps: [7:50] Does a person's value solely come from the ability to product outcomes? [9:49] Men don't prioritize emotional growth [12:38] Men's balance with power [13:43] Yes, you can have too much EQ [9:38] But lack of EQ creates stale relationships [17:05] What we practice grows stronger [19:04] Competition is great to push us forward, but hurts us when we compare self-worth [20:2] EQ is the muscle needed to work better with others [21:24] Ryan's advice on resume building [25:23] EQ is important to make relationships work [36:16] Men's struggle to swallow pride to fight for relationships [39:36] The Mt Rushmore of Emotionally Intelligent people ------------------------------------- Resources: Resume consulting: <a href="http://pursuitandtie.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://pursuitandtie.com</a>. ------------------------------------- Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Resiliency exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at <a href="http://victorung.com/subscribe" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://victorung.com/subscribe</a>. Schedule a free coaching call with me to work on your emotional intelligence: <a href="http://victorung.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://victorung.com</a>. Become a Patron to support this content: <a href="http://patreon.com/humanup" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://patreon.com/humanup</a>. Clap for me on my blog on Medium: <a href="http://medium.com/@victorung" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://medium.com/@victorung</a>.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. <a href="https://anchor.fm/s/31bb658/podcast/sponsor/acugkf/url/https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Fapp" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://anchor.fm/app</a> --- Send in a voice message: <a href="https://anchor.fm/victorung/message" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://anchor.fm/victorung/message</a>

What Emotional Intelligence Means for Men, Business, and Relationships (with Ryan Shirley)