Juliana Wexler's guest appearances

Juliana Wexler

Hello Universe

The Grief Coach

Triggered to Life

Julie Ryan

Jonathon Aslay

Kylie McBeath

Liz Eddy

Mark Groves

Shira Gill

Adam MacLean

Stephanie Rogers

Adam Klein

Jenn Welch

Katrina Ubell

Meg Wolff

Emma Payne

Amy Klein

Joshua Black

OwlTail

Meghan Riordan Jarvis

In the latest episode of the Dating After Loss Crossover series co-hosted by @brookeljames and @meghan.riordan.jarvis we talk about what it's like to rebuild after divorce with @julianawex. We discuss that grief over the loss of a relationship, while not the same as loss of a loved one, does result in some overlapping feelings and that we as a society lack the language to speak about the losses differently. We talk about how to claim your grief narrative, how shame and regret can be involved in grief, and how Juliana learned how to be her own anchor.  myparama.com griefismysidehustle.com thegriefcoach.co

In the latest episode of the Dating After Loss Crossover series co-hosted by <a href="//instagram.com/brookeljames" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@brookeljames</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/meghan.riordan.jarvis/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@meghan.riordan.jarvis</a> we talk about what it's like to rebuild after divorce with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/julianawex/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@julianawex</a>. We discuss that grief over the loss of a relationship, while not the same as loss of a loved one, does result in some overlapping feelings and that we as a society lack the language to speak about the losses differently. We talk about how to claim your grief narrative, how shame and regret can be involved in grief, and how Juliana learned how to be her own anchor.  <a href="https://www.myparama.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">myparama.com</a> <a href="//griefismysidehustle.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">griefismysidehustle.com</a> <a href="https://www.thegriefcoach.co/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">thegriefcoach.co</a>

65. Dating After Loss: Rebuilding After Divorce with Parama Founder Juliana Wexler; co-hosted by Trauma Therapist Meghan Riordan Jarvis

Juliana is back on TTL to talk about letting go of what our lives looked like pre-pandemic and readjusting to a changed world with a deeper understanding of ourselves from a lot of alone time. Juliana was raised in San Diego by two psychologists who parented largely by trying to understand her every move. Never quite resonating with the laid-back Californian surfer culture, she headed out east to the University of Michigan. Always fascinated by how systems work, she folded a pre-med education into her own customized major that evaluated the disparities and inequities in the U.S. healthcare system. Professionally, her 20s took her to Manhattan, where she worked her way up and out of various healthcare startups. Personally, her 20s were a time of trying to fit into a mold of a person that she desperately wanted to be. However, at 30, she realized all the ways the people and systems around her, paired with her own limiting beliefs, kept her small and confined. This was when she finally began to recognize her own intuition and started following that little voice that had been ignored for too long. Suddenly divorced at 30, she found herself deeply questioning every aspect of her life. It was through the dismantling of all aspects of the life she had previously built that she began the process of coming home to herself. She is the founder of Parama, where she guides individuals and companies in compassionate navigation of transitions, difficult conversations, and negotiations. She helps foster improved communication and the building of reciprocal relationships with her “Conscious Confrontation” method. In this show, we talk about:  Outsourcing your power versus trusting yourself Discerning the feeling of intuition versus fear in the body Identifying the behaviors that dull your intuition Abstaining from vices leading to feeling more emotions Pathologizing emotions and overidentifying with our diagnoses Getting to know a new spectrum of emotions in the absence of antidepressants Reframing deep feeling as superpower instead of a weakness Anxious attachment being akin to having a fast metabolism for love Getting stuck in fight-or-flight when the stress response is not complete Cultivating a relationship with the multiple parts of yourself Addressing burnout that presents at a young age Getting curious about the link between trauma and health issues Creating a safe container for unpacking trauma Seeing the world through our own projections Developing self-worth to stop relying on external validations Coming out of a quarantine cocoon as a sensitive person Learning to just be in the world versus having to do

Juliana is back on TTL to talk about letting go of what our lives looked like pre-pandemic and readjusting to a changed world with a deeper understanding of ourselves from a lot of alone time. Juliana was raised in San Diego by two psychologists who parented largely by trying to understand her every move. Never quite resonating with the laid-back Californian surfer culture, she headed out east to the University of Michigan. Always fascinated by how systems work, she folded a pre-med education into her own customized major that evaluated the disparities and inequities in the U.S. healthcare system. Professionally, her 20s took her to Manhattan, where she worked her way up and out of various healthcare startups. Personally, her 20s were a time of trying to fit into a mold of a person that she desperately wanted to be. However, at 30, she realized all the ways the people and systems around her, paired with her own limiting beliefs, kept her small and confined. This was when she finally began to recognize her own intuition and started following that little voice that had been ignored for too long. Suddenly divorced at 30, she found herself deeply questioning every aspect of her life. It was through the dismantling of all aspects of the life she had previously built that she began the process of coming home to herself. She is the founder of Parama, where she guides individuals and companies in compassionate navigation of transitions, difficult conversations, and negotiations. She helps foster improved communication and the building of reciprocal relationships with her “Conscious Confrontation” method. In this show, we talk about: <ul> <li>Outsourcing your power versus trusting yourself</li> <li>Discerning the feeling of intuition versus fear in the body</li> <li>Identifying the behaviors that dull your intuition</li> <li>Abstaining from vices leading to feeling more emotions</li> <li>Pathologizing emotions and overidentifying with our diagnoses</li> <li>Getting to know a new spectrum of emotions in the absence of antidepressants</li> <li>Reframing deep feeling as superpower instead of a weakness</li> <li>Anxious attachment being akin to having a fast metabolism for love</li> <li>Getting stuck in fight-or-flight when the stress response is not complete</li> <li>Cultivating a relationship with the multiple parts of yourself</li> <li>Addressing burnout that presents at a young age</li> <li>Getting curious about the link between trauma and health issues</li> <li>Creating a safe container for unpacking trauma</li> <li>Seeing the world through our own projections</li> <li>Developing self-worth to stop relying on external validations</li> <li>Coming out of a quarantine cocoon as a sensitive person</li> <li>Learning to just be in the world versus having to do</li></ul>

Getting to Know All The Parts of Yourself with Juliana Wexler

In this episode we talk about: •the shadow side of love •how telling your story is healing •the prevalence of affairs vs. the shock of infidelity •the physiological effects of affairs •observing yourself becoming someone who cheats •business trips as a breeding ground for affairs •power dynamics of dating your boss •the unraveling of the affair •cheating to leave vs. cheating to stay •the effects of lying in a marriage •when your mother-in-law retaliates •getting a call from your lover’s wife •the crashing of a startup &amp; entangled affairs •grieving the loss of an affair •an affair restoring your faith in love •meeting your shadow can transcend your pain

In this episode we talk about: •the shadow side of love •how telling your story is healing •the prevalence of affairs vs. the shock of infidelity •the physiological effects of affairs •observing yourself becoming someone who cheats •business trips as a breeding ground for affairs •power dynamics of dating your boss •the unraveling of the affair •cheating to leave vs. cheating to stay •the effects of lying in a marriage •when your mother-in-law retaliates •getting a call from your lover’s wife •the crashing of a startup &amp; entangled affairs •grieving the loss of an affair •an affair restoring your faith in love •meeting your shadow can transcend your pain

The Unraveling of An Affair with Juliana Wexler