Sherrine Hayward's guest appearances

Sherrine Hayward

Extraordinary Moms Podcast

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Rachel Nielson

Shannon Tripp

Saundra Dalton-Smith

Monica Swanson

Ceri Payne

Natalie Hixson

Whitney Archibald

Miranda Anderson

Jammie Baker

Chanelle Neilson

Niki Olsen

Georgia Anderson

Ralphie Jacobs

Jamie Ivey

Sarah MacKenzie

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This is one of our all time favorite episodes!  If you want to feel hopeful and amazed listen in to this episode.  Sherrine is the mother of six whose oldest son, Dayton, is non-verbal and has severe disabilities. We covered many topics that can help YOU and YOUR FAMILY: how it feels to have a child with disabilities the benefits of inclusion for kids with disabilities how to teach our kids to be loving and kind to those not like them how to help the caregivers of kids with disabilities Sherrine’s decision to have five more kids after Dayton how humor helps with trials, and how trials shape our lives  

This is one of our all time favorite episodes!  If you want to feel hopeful and amazed listen in to this episode.  Sherrine is the mother of six whose oldest son, Dayton, is non-verbal and has severe disabilities. We covered many topics that can help YOU and YOUR FAMILY: how it feels to have a child with disabilities the benefits of inclusion for kids with disabilities how to teach our kids to be loving and kind to those not like them how to help the caregivers of kids with disabilities Sherrine’s decision to have five more kids after Dayton how humor helps with trials, and how trials shape our lives

Ep.  95. “I’m not anything special”: Why the world needs EVERY mom and EVERY child – Guest Sherrine Hayward. 

I just got home from traveling to hear my nephew speak in church.  He is embarking on an 18 month service mission for his church and was asked to speak before he begins.  As I was about to listen to this 18 year old boy speak, I expected the depth of...well, an 18 year old boy;  a little life experience, definite bravado, some joking with a touch of God-loving faith mixed in...he was about to dedicate a chunk of his life to serving God, after all.   What I got was something very different and very special.   He didn’t sound like an 18 year old.  He sounded MUCH wiser. The reason behind this is because of what has happened in this boy’s life.  At the age of 12 he was in a terrible bicycle accident which led to a compound fracture in his leg.  Medical mistakes led to compartment syndrome which means that the tissue and muscle in his leg were cut off from blood supply and began to die.  He nearly lost his leg during this ordeal. Twenty two surgeries and six years later he still has his leg, but is in constant pain each and every day.  As he stood and spoke about service and love he spoke with wisdom far beyond his years. I commented to my brother that it’s sadly ironic that we do EVERYTHING within our power to avoid trials like this for ourselves and our children, even though going through these trials are the very thing that makes us more than we ever could have been otherwise. With that in mind, this week’s episode is probably my favorite that we have aired so far!  Our guest, Sherrine Hayward, is incredible in a way that you just can’t be if you have not walked through trials that shape you into something more refined and more wise than you ever could have been without them.   To introduce this amazing lady to you, I want to include an excerpt of a letter Sherrine sent to us describing herself and her son Dayton: “I am the mother of six children.  The oldest is Dayton, and you may recognize him from the Mormon Message, Dayton's Legs.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwwxBjpvDVQ I have five other children younger than him.  My children range in ages from 21 to 4 years old.  We have always included Dayton in life. Dayton is nonverbal and I care for all of his physical needs.  But he communicates with eye blinks. And, we do everything together as a family. He hunts with his dad and runs with me.  I race with him and he and I completed an IronMan with my friend. It was an incredible experience. SO hard and not something I ever thought I could do.   Now I am not anything special.  Believe me.  But I believe in full inclusion in every way.  ALL people deserve to be given life. One of my best friends told me once that the only requirement a person needs to have to be fully included is to breathe.  I believe this with all of my heart. I think many moms of kids with disabilities are afraid to reach out. They are afraid to include their kids in life. It is hard.  But it is so beautiful and they wish for it. It is possible to include these children. Belief in them is all they need and that the world needs.” I was so touched by Sherrine’s story and her interview is the perfect lead-in to Christmas.   If you want to feel love, encouragement, and wisdom then listen to this interview.   If you want to teach your kids how to love those with challenges, then listen to her wonderful advice. If you want to know how to be kinder and more loving….more Christian, then listen to this interview.   The thing that stuck out most to me from Sherrine’s letter that I shared above, was the phrase “Now, I am not anything special.”   ???? How often do we see ourselves as “not anything special” when we are, in fact, a ray of light in a world full of darkness?  To all the moms out there who are “not anything special”, you are doing so much better than you think.   You have sacrificed to be a parent and that alone is a selfless, serious business.   Just because life is not easy and just because we are walking hard paths does not mean that we are doing it wrong.  In fact, it probably means that we are doing it right and being stretched into something amazing. As Sherrine said “I would never wish a child with disabilities on my enemy, but I would wish it upon my friend.  It is such a blessing!” I want to thank Sherrine for sharing Dayton with us, and for reminding us that hard does not equal bad.  Holland is beautiful!*   *See our website www.familylookingup.com for more resources including the poem *"Welcome to Holland"

I just got home from traveling to hear my nephew speak in church.  He is embarking on an 18 month service mission for his church and was asked to speak before he begins.  As I was about to listen to this 18 year old boy speak, I expected the depth of...well, an 18 year old boy;  a little life experience, definite bravado, some joking with a touch of God-loving faith mixed in...he was about to dedicate a chunk of his life to serving God, after all.   What I got was something very different and very special.   He didn’t sound like an 18 year old.  He sounded MUCH wiser. The reason behind this is because of what has happened in this boy’s life.  At the age of 12 he was in a terrible bicycle accident which led to a compound fracture in his leg.  Medical mistakes led to compartment syndrome which means that the tissue and muscle in his leg were cut off from blood supply and began to die.  He nearly lost his leg during this ordeal. Twenty two surgeries and six years later he still has his leg, but is in constant pain each and every day.  As he stood and spoke about service and love he spoke with wisdom far beyond his years. I commented to my brother that it’s sadly ironic that we do EVERYTHING within our power to avoid trials like this for ourselves and our children, even though going through these trials are the very thing that makes us more than we ever could have been otherwise. With that in mind, this week’s episode is probably my favorite that we have aired so far!  Our guest, Sherrine Hayward, is incredible in a way that you just can’t be if you have not walked through trials that shape you into something more refined and more wise than you ever could have been without them.   To introduce this amazing lady to you, I want to include an excerpt of a letter Sherrine sent to us describing herself and her son Dayton: “I am the mother of six children.  The oldest is Dayton, and you may recognize him from the Mormon Message, Dayton's Legs.   <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwwxBjpvDVQ" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwwxBjpvDVQ</a> I have five other children younger than him.  My children range in ages from 21 to 4 years old.  We have always included Dayton in life. Dayton is nonverbal and I care for all of his physical needs.  But he communicates with eye blinks. And, we do everything together as a family. He hunts with his dad and runs with me.  I race with him and he and I completed an IronMan with my friend. It was an incredible experience. SO hard and not something I ever thought I could do.   Now I am not anything special.  Believe me.  But I believe in full inclusion in every way.  ALL people deserve to be given life. One of my best friends told me once that the only requirement a person needs to have to be fully included is to breathe.  I believe this with all of my heart. I think many moms of kids with disabilities are afraid to reach out. They are afraid to include their kids in life. It is hard.  But it is so beautiful and they wish for it. It is possible to include these children. Belief in them is all they need and that the world needs.” I was so touched by Sherrine’s story and her interview is the perfect lead-in to Christmas.   If you want to feel love, encouragement, and wisdom then listen to this interview.   If you want to teach your kids how to love those with challenges, then listen to her wonderful advice. If you want to know how to be kinder and more loving….more Christian, then listen to this interview.   The thing that stuck out most to me from Sherrine’s letter that I shared above, was the phrase “Now, I am not anything special.”   ???? How often do we see ourselves as “not anything special” when we are, in fact, a ray of light in a world full of darkness?  To all the moms out there who are “not anything special”, you are doing so much better than you think.   You have sacrificed to be a parent and that alone is a selfless, serious business.   Just because life is not easy and just because we are walking hard paths does not mean that we are doing it wrong.  In fact, it probably means that we are doing it right and being stretched into something amazing. As Sherrine said “I would never wish a child with disabilities on my enemy, but I would wish it upon my friend.  It is such a blessing!” I want to thank Sherrine for sharing Dayton with us, and for reminding us that hard does not equal bad.  Holland is beautiful!* *See our website <a href="http://www.familylooking" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.familylookingup.com</a> for more resources including the poem *"Welcome to Holland"

Ep. 59. "I'm not anything special": Why the world needs EVERY mom and EVERY child - Guest Sherrine Hayward. 

Today’s interview is incredible, featuring my new friend Sherrine Hayward. Although she is most often known as “Dayton’s Mom”, she is a mom of six and today’s she’s sharing her motherhood journey, about what it’s been like to raise a child with severe special needs and to include him in every aspect of their family. Her perspective and wisdom are remarkable and it was a true pleasure to talk to Sherrine.   Show Notes: Check out the video featuring Dayton: “Dayton’s Legs“ Friend Dayton on Facebook! Sponsored by:  StoryWorth StoryWorth is an incredible company who focuses on helping you document family history and stories. You can buy a subscription for yourself (or this makes a GREAT gift!) and you will receive weekly prompts to questions. Over the year, the responses are compiled into a beautiful book that can be enjoyed for years to come. Especially around the holidays, give the gift of family! And you can receive $20 off when you use this link!  Whether you are looking to print a new family photo for your wall or give a meaningful holiday gift, Canvas People prints are your go-to resource for well-made, vibrant canvas prints. If you use my code: ExtraMom, you can get a FREE 11×14 print. You have nothing to lose! Thank you, Canvas People for sponsoring the podcast. Connect with Jessica: Instagram//Facebook//Email: jessica@extraordinarymomspodcast.com

Today’s interview is incredible, featuring my new friend Sherrine Hayward. Although she is most often known as “Dayton’s Mom”, she is a mom of six and today’s she’s sharing her motherhood journey, about what it’s been like to raise a child with severe special needs and to include him in every aspect of their family. Her perspective and wisdom are remarkable and it was a true pleasure to talk to Sherrine. <a href="https://extraordinarymomspodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/IMG_0126.jpg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"></a> <a href="https://extraordinarymomspodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Easter-Sunday.jpg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"></a> Show Notes: Check out the video featuring Dayton: “<a href="https://www.lds.org/youth/video/daytons-legs?lang=eng" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dayton’s Legs</a>“ Friend Dayton on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100009691059114" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a>! Sponsored by: <a href="https://extraordinarymomspodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/books.jpg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"></a> <a href="http://storyworth.com/emp" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">StoryWorth</a> <a href="http://storyworth.com/emp" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">StoryWorth </a>is an incredible company who focuses on helping you document family history and stories. You can buy a subscription for yourself (or this makes a GREAT gift!) and you will receive weekly prompts to questions. Over the year, the responses are compiled into a beautiful book that can be enjoyed for years to come. Especially around the holidays, give the gift of family! And you can receive $20 off when you use this <a href="http://storyworth.com/emp" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">link</a>! <a href="https://extraordinarymomspodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/logo-cp.png" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"></a> Whether you are looking to print a new family photo for your wall or give a meaningful holiday gift, <a href="http://www.canvaspeople.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Canvas People</a> prints are your go-to resource for well-made, vibrant canvas prints. If you use my code: ExtraMom, you can get a FREE 11×14 print. You have nothing to lose! Thank you, Canvas People for sponsoring the podcast. Connect with Jessica: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/jessicadahlquist3/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>//<a href="http://www.facebook.com/extraordinarymomspodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a>//Email: <a href="mailto:jessica@extraordinarymomspodcast.com">jessica@extraordinarymomspodcast.com</a>