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Amanda Jean delights in wrestling manuscripts for her day job, worships at the altar of tropes, and has never met a villain or sexy alien she doesn’t like. Austin Chant writes books about gay magic and toxic masculinity, likes his queer stories with a slice of anguish, and kinda wants to be a pirate. Together, they discuss queer romance fiction and the broader world of queer media.

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Amanda Jean delights in wrestling manuscripts for her day job, worships at the altar of tropes, and has never met a villain or sexy alien she doesn’t like. Austin Chant writes books about gay magic and toxic masculinity, likes his queer stories with a slice of anguish, and kinda wants to be a pirate. Together, they discuss queer romance fiction and the broader world of queer media.

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10/10 would hang out with Austin and Amanda

Fun and informative

By M973583 - Oct 17 2017
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Funny and charming co-hosts with great banter share lots of quality queer romance knowledge.

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17 Ratings
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Yes

By acidork - Apr 16 2018
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10/10 would hang out with Austin and Amanda

Fun and informative

By M973583 - Oct 17 2017
Read more
Funny and charming co-hosts with great banter share lots of quality queer romance knowledge.
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The Hopeless Romantic

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Amanda Jean delights in wrestling manuscripts for her day job, worships at the altar of tropes, and has never met a villain or sexy alien she doesn’t like. Austin Chant writes books about gay magic and toxic masculinity, likes his queer stories with a slice of anguish, and kinda wants to be a pirate. Together, they discuss queer romance fiction and the broader world of queer media.

Rank #1: Episode 38: Problematic Gay Stuff

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Content warnings: This episode references potentially triggering topics, including abusive relationships, gaslighting, murder, cannibalism, sexual assault, violence, incest, Real Person Fan Fiction, and age differences--a lot of triggers that constitute "dark" or "problematic" fiction. While we don't dwell on many of these subjects, they are referenced, and people may want to protect themselves accordingly. Also, there are mild spoilers for Hannibal and other pieces of media referenced.

Don't miss the very important announcement about the future of THR and our other podcast ventures! We have exciting news to share and want feedback from our listeners to give you the best experience possible.

This episode, we head over to the Dark Side of queer publishing and fan fiction (and give you several more TED Talks). Austin and Amanda think that the widespread use of content and trigger warnings in fandom and queer fiction give readers the ability to curate their own experience and examine their reactions to fiction in ways that mainstream media doesn't typically allow for. Amanda talks about her own journey through dark media and how she's drawn and redrawn her own lines, and Austin does the same. Ultimately, both hosts believe there is no consensus as to what constitutes "good" fiction versus "problematic" fiction, that policing other people's engagement with media is impossible and reductive, and that humans are complicated and messy by nature.

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Episode notes:

Killing Eve (TV show)

KJ Charles - The Henchmen of Zenda

Anthony Hope - The Prisoner of Zenda

Aliette de Bodard - The Citadel of Weeping Pearls (Xuya Universe)

Margaret Killjoy - The Lamb Will Slaughter the Lion

Kelly Robson - A Human Stain

The Clarkesworld Podcast

Rich Larson - Carouseling

Rich Larson - God Decay

The Verge: Listen to one of the best short science fiction podcasts right now

Robyn Bennis - The Guns Above: A Signal Airship Novel

Heather Rose Jones - Daughter of Mystery

The Exorcist (TV show)

My Favorite Murder (Podcast)

Poppy Z. Brite - Exquisite Corpse

CS Pacat - The Captive Prince Series

Kurt/Blaine (Glee TV show)

Madeline Miller - The Song of Achilles

Hannibal/Will [Hannigram] (Hannibal TV show)

Brokeback Mountain (Film)

Boys Don't Cry (Film)

Kylo Ren/Hux [Kylux] (Star Wars films)

Clint/Coulson (MCU films)

Goodreads: Popular M/M dark books (couldn't find an F/F equivalent--let me know if you do!)

May 29 2018
1 hour 17 mins
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Rank #2: Episode 20: The Captivating Pacat

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Content warnings: The Captive Prince series contains dark subject matter, including sexual and physical abuse, so please proceed with caution as we briefly discuss some of those elements.

The Captive Prince started life as a free online serial and became a best seller. Author C.S. Pacat talks process, plotting, her influences as a young queer person, what the 80s covers of the books would look like, Amanda's thing for icy blonds, and the delight that is Yuri on Ice in THR's longest episode to date. (We all had a lot to say about who we romanced in Dragon Age.)

Stay tuned for the bonus content after the credits!

Follow C.S. Pacat on Twitter

C.S. Pacat's website

Click here to support THR on Patreon!

Feb 14 2017
1 hour 49 mins
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Rank #3: Episode 12: There Goes My Anti-Hero

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Villains, antagonists, and anti-heroes are the topic of the day. Austin and Amanda critically run through a roster of their favorite queer or queer-coded villains in media. Cartoonish homophobia and transphobia, coded Disney villains, the lack of female villains, how queer villains are seen as especially evil for their sexuality, redemption stories, how a main character can be the antagonist of their own story, and bisexual murder pits are all discussed.

Amanda has a revelation about how straight people consume media while discussing Lex from Smallville, Austin recounts the suffering he endured while watching Downton Abbey for Thomas Barrow, and the two roll around in their general love of villainy.

Finally, Amanda's running a collection call with LT3 all about enemies to lovers! Get your villain on:

Please review the submission guidelines thoroughly.)

My Dearest Enemy - Less Than Three Press collection call

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Apr 28 2016
1 hour 13 mins
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Rank #4: Episode 34: Manic Pixie Scottish Banana

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At the top of the episode, Austin and Amanda briefly address the ongoing revelations of misconduct and abuse within queer publishing. We stand with authors.

Austin and Amanda go digging for comedy gold in ancient Harlequin blurbs, then get serious and talk about how damn hard beginnings can be. Amanda talks about what she typically finds missing in beginnings as an acquisitions editor. The hosts take a moment to address the diversity in romance publishing statistics released by The Ripped Bodice and chat current reads and Disneyland pipe dreams. Finally, it's Amanda's turn to have too many emotions over a D&D podcast.

Support THR on Patreon!

Riptide Publishing: Statement on Santino Hassell

Riptide Publishing: Statement on Sarah Lyons

The Ripped Bodice: The State of Racial Diversity in Romance Publishing Report

Austin's Patreon

Kai Ashante Wilson - A Taste of Honey and Sorcerer of the Wildeeps

Kij Johnson - The Dream-Quest of Vellitt Boe

Helping Writers Become Authors: Story Structure Database

The Adventure Zone Podcast

Mar 13 2018
1 hour 11 mins
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Rank #5: Episode 26: Gay Elves and Sexy Lizard People

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Fantasy and speculative fiction is the topic of the day! Austin and Amanda throw around some loose definitions, give examples of their favorite queer fantasy (send Amanda more gaslamp manuscripts!). and writing fantasy with romance in it vs writing romance in a fantasy setting. They answer some questions from Twitter and wonder why people bother to transplant real-life oppression into fantastical settings.

Austin and Amanda are big nerds who cry at Lord of the Rings, call out Mass Effect Andromeda, and demand more gay elves.

Click here to support THR on Patreon!

Authors and books mentioned in the episode, as well as some others to check out:

Astrid Amara

Sam Argent - Sebastian (Family of Lies)

KJ Charles - A Charm of Magpies

Cassandra Clare - Infernal Devices

Storm Constantine

Kirby Crow - Scarlet and the White Wolf

Megan Derr

Lynn Flewelling - The Nightrunner Series

Rachel Haimowitz - Song of the Fallen series

Jesse Hajicek - The God Eaters

Ginn Hale (includes Lord of the White Hell, Wicked Gentlemen, and the Rifter series)

Jordan L Hawke - Whyborne & Griffin

TJ Klune

Ellen Kushner (includes Swordspoint and Tremontaine, which also features Racheline Maltese and Malinda Lo)

Malinda Lo

C.S. Pacat - Captive Prince trilogy

C.M. Spivey - From Under the Mountain

Chuck Tingle

There's also some Goodreads lists like this one, fantasy with gay MCs.

Jun 27 2017
58 mins
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Rank #6: Episode 22: Kill Your (Peter) Darlings

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Co-host Austin Chant's novel Peter Darling was released in February, and Amanda and Austin break down the editing process over many months and three recording sessions. Hear them stress over deadlines, complain about talking whales and Hook's outfits, give props to the Captive Prince trilogy for various inspiration, discuss the versions of the book that weren't, and totally contradict themselves from session to session!

The episode is an in-depth look at what it takes to bring a novel from first draft to publication. It does contain spoilers for the book.

Purchase Peter Darling at Less Than Three Press (along with the rest of the books in the My Dearest Enemy collection, which Amanda edited)

Books Austin and Amanda read:

The Captive Prince trilogy by C.S. Pacat

Wanted, A Gentleman by KJ Charles

Downtime by Tamara Allen

Documenting Light by E. E. Ottoman

The Summer Palace by C.S. Pacat

Show Yourself to Me: Queer Kink Erotica by Xan West

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Mar 21 2017
1 hour 40 mins
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Rank #7: Episode 31: A Peach by Any Other Name

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Content warning: part of this episode discusses a fictional relationship between a 17-year-old and a 24-year-old.

THR returns with a semi-revamped format! Austin and Amanda talk about the future of the show, delve into some of the realities of freelancing from their own experiences, and spend the last two-thirds of the episode talking about Call Me By Your Name and their wildly disparate reactions to it. (Warning for book and movie spoilers. There's a head's up in the episode when we get to spoiler territory as well.)

Stay tuned after the credits for the oft-mentioned recording of the hosts and friends watching CMBYN's most infamous scene.

Support THR on Patreon!

Episode notes:

Call Me by Your Name - Andre Aciman

Call Me By Your Name audiobook narrated by Armie Hammer

Call Me By Your Name soundtrack

Brokeback Mountain

Moonlight

Carol

Love, Simon

The Shape of Water

Get Out

Sufjan Stevens

Jan 30 2018
1 hour 15 mins
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Rank #8: Episode 9: Boy Meets Earl

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Content warning: There is a mention of an ethnic slur in the episode, as well as some discussion of historical racism (including slavery).

KJ Charles joins THR for episode eight, "Boy Meets Earl". Author of historical fiction and historical fantasy, and an editor, KJ describes her methods of research, discloses fun facts about Victorian and Edwardian body modification, and discusses not wanting to belabor period-accurate racism, sexism, homophobia, and anti-Semitism.

The group talks about why sidelining queer romance and other so-called 'niche' romance categories is unacceptable—and makes poor money sense on the part of publishers and distributors.

Also, Amanda asks pervy-minded questions about the Society of Gentlemen series and reads aloud embarrassing texts about her and Daria's excitement for the upcoming conclusion to the trilogy.

KJ Charles' website

KJ Charles on twitter: @kj_charles

The Hopeless Romantic is on Patreon!

Retweet to enter to win Rag and Bone!##

RT for a chance to win an ebook copy of KJ Charles' newest, "Rag and Bone"! @kj_charles @theHRpodcast

— Hopeless Romantic (@theHRpodcast) March 8, 2016
Mar 08 2016
1 hour 3 mins
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Rank #9: Episode 35: The State of Things

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Content warning: This episode references sexual abuse and harassment, and generally a lot of toxic behavior and boundary crossing. None of it is explicitly discussed, but please take care of yourself if you might be triggered.

Austin and Amanda get serious and address racism, gatekeeping, abuse, amateurism, and other broken elements in queer publishing. Another major problem discussed is how a lack of boundaries can lead to those in the industry with power (authors, publishers, editors, etc.) transgressing against those with less power. There's some call-outs for publishers to pay fair wages to editors (including sensitivity editors) and some advice for authors to be wary of predatory contract clauses and author mills.

Support THR on Patreon!

Rebekah Weatherspoon's Tweet re: a racist editorial director

Xen x Cole McCade: On Sarah Lyons and Why I Ended My Relationship With Riptide Publishing

Riptide Publishing: Our Statement on Sarah Lyons

Writer Beware

Absolute Write Water Cooler

Mar 27 2018
1 hour 3 mins
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Rank #10: Episode 18: You Only Liver Once

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Content warning: Austin and Amanda are tipsy/drunk in this episode. They also discuss the TV shows Hannibal and Attack on Titan briefly, which feature morbid subject matter. (Amanda's generally a creep, too.)

It's THR's one-year anniversary! In celebration, Austin and Amanda got drunk and talked about abandoned projects, tried and failed to plot a project, and discussed how Korean dramas are basically just serial romance novels. Lots of inappropriateness was had.

Click here to support THR on Patreon. (We posted bloopers from this ep as well!)

Nov 22 2016
1 hour 10 mins
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Rank #11: Episode 23: Amnesia and Peril and Cowboys, Oh My

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Content warning: There are a few mentions of racism and a mention of rape in this episode.

THR talks tropes! From their favorites (ask about Austin's love for cowboys and Amanda's for arranged marriage) to their least favorites, when a trope can be neutral, and when it can be potentially harmful. They also cover some tropes that intersect with or differ from those in fan fiction.

Also, for some reason Austin attempts to say some stuff in German. Tune in to find out how that goes.

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Apr 04 2017
1 hour 15 mins
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Rank #12: Episode 11: Disability Representation

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Tracy Timmons-Gray, the director of Gay Romance Northwest conference, joins THR to discuss characters with disabilities in queer romance. The gang shares recs, talks about tropes, including the love interest grappling with the reveal of their partner's disability, the narrow span of disabilities portrayed, the sanctification of disabled people, and how often disabled fiction is inspiration porn. The conversation tackles sex scenes, A/B/O, disabled characters in fandom, and resources for writing disabled characters.

Amanda, Tracy, and Austin try their best to be positive despite being Cranky Fans. Also, Tracy details GRNW's inception and history and how the conference will change going forward. (Fun fact, GRNW is how Amanda and Austin met!) Tracy and Amanda talk about the upcoming GRNW conference and the charity anthology "Magic & Mayhem."

(Pssst, put GRNW 2016 on your calendars! 9/24/16 at the Seattle Public Library! It's freeeee.)

Follow GRNW on twitter: @gayrom_nw

Book recs mentioned in the episode:

Gives Light by Rose Christo

Think of England by KJ Charles

Mnevermind by Jordan Castillo Price

The Adrien English Mysteries by Josh Lanyon

Speechless by Kim Fielding

Brute by Kim Fielding

Winter's Bees by E.E. Ottoman

Dead Ringer by Heidi Belleau and Sam Schooler

Glitterland by Alexis Hall

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Apr 11 2016
1 hour 22 mins
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Rank #13: Episode 13: Heidi Below the Covers

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Content warning: This episode of THR contains frank discussion of sexual assault, sexual violence, and similarly dark, potentially triggering subject matter.

Heidi Belleau joins the show and Gets Very Real with THR about her history of writing grimdark fiction and the growing pains of leaving some of that behind. She talks about the perils of using the same penname for drastically different works (romcoms and dark fiction like The Flesh Cartel), what her personal limits are, bringing humor into darker material--and when it's best to pull back.

Heidi compares the process of growing as an author, in public, to the reality of contemporary teenagers growing up on tumblr. (Anyone with a defunct Livejournal and a long fandom history can probably relate.) Most authors can probably relate to the quandary of growing as an artist in such a public sphere.

The important and validating realization for Heidi, and maybe for other authors who feel pigeonholed into a darker genre, has been that she can write lighter stories and people will also appreciate them.

Follow Heidi on twitter! @HeidiBelleau

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May 20 2016
1 hour 24 mins
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Rank #14: Episode 36: Chekhov's War

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Content warning: We discuss (though not in any detail) Amanda's current ear infection and a staph ear infection Austin had a few years back, as well as general health/medical stuff. Skip to 9:38 if this is a potential trigger or squick for you. There are also some spoilers for The Ring/Ringu and the video game Until Dawn.

(First off, apologies for Austin sounding like he recorded in a toilet. Podcasts are hard.)

This episode focuses on craft, specifically on how Amanda and Austin wrangle their stories and write what they want to write—which involves tuning out the voice in their heads that tells them to make only Serious Fiction. But first, they chat recent life and medical shenanigans, Austin talks comics, Amanda gives fic recs and quizzes Austin on his rudimentary Star Trek knowledge, and there's a discussion of horror tropes and how to subvert them a la The Ring/Ringu.

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Everybody's Gone to the Rapture

Strange Horizons

Alternating Current: On Being LGBT+ in Rural Areas and LGBT+ in the Deep South anthology calls

Beyond comics anthologies

Noora Heikkilä - Letters for Lucardo

Space Battle Lunchtime vol. 1

The Adventure Zone: Here There be Gerblins Graphic Novel

yeaka - Inside the River

whochick - Leave No Soul Behind

Marcel Proust - Swann's Way

Chuck Palahniuk - Fight Club

astolat - Peacemaker

wordplay - The Luckiest

Root/Shaw

Vonda N. McIntyre - The Entropy Effect

K.W. Jeter - The Mandalorian Armor: Star Wars Legends

The Ring/Ringu

Until Dawn

Apr 10 2018
1 hour 14 mins
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Rank #15: Episode 24: Hopeless After Dark #1

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Content warning: this episode (briefly) mentions fisting and choking, calls certain Overwatch characters Daddy, and generally features a lot of irreverent filth.

Welcome to Hopeless After Dark, a new subset of THR that isn't exclusively dedicated to queer romance. We reached out to Twitter to ask some of our listeners what they'd like to hear us talk about, and we tackled Overwatch and Austin's burgeoning obsessions, AUs of Peter Darling and the origins of Coffee Boy, and finally failed to create a Captive Prince coffee shop AU.

We hope you enjoy our strange venture. If not, the next episode of THR will be back on brand.

May 01 2017
38 mins
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