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Taking you on a kinky tour of Melbourne

Rank #1: Our Kink is Resisting Censorship: FOSTA/SESTA – Podcast 27

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You may have heard about the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) and the Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) – legislation recently signed into law by the US Congress. What you may not have heard, is that this wet blanket approach to meant to stop sex trafficking will in effect do much more harm that good.

This week Miss Jane and MisKnickers chat with lawyer Kathryn Adams (aka KateOnTheGo) and pro-kinkster, sex worker, and all round amazing human being Gala Vanting to try and make sense of these confusing and dangerous new laws – laws that potentially affect us all.

Whether you work in the sex industry, indulge in its many pleasures, or simply appreciate it exists, or if you’re someone who just enjoys basic internet freedoms, this is an episode NOT TO MISS.

Grab your beverage of choice, your brain, and a comfy spot – critical thinking is required!

More information on people and resources mentioned within the podcast:

Our guests, Gala Vanting and KateOnTheGo are both extremely well read, and as eloquent on this topic as their personal perspectives and experiences allow. Both are also happy to talk more… As of the podcast air date, Kate is about to give birth (Happy thoughts!!!) and Gala is struggling for professional survival. If you’re not able to book a session with her, Gala will gladly accept sponsorship via PayPal – fundsensatefilms@gmail.com – but bank transfer, cash, or online gift cards are also welcome. #HireAHo

For the best general information we’ve been able to find, check out Survivors Against SESTA. This US-based site is a great place to refine your general knowledge on SESTA, find support and education resources, tech advice, and self-care tips for workers, wherever you are in the world.

Looking for places to list? Contact us! We list ANY sex-positive kink-friendly business!

Some other options to consider…

Brand new and SWer owned and run… Crockor has gone slightly gangbusters on the classifieds over the last couple of weeks. But to make this venture really work, they need non-kink and non-sex related listings to get moving up the Google rankings. Next time you want to list on Facebook or GumTree, why not give Crockor a try?

Sex Work Australia also take listings and have links to a range of other adult directories on their site.

RhED also has a range of information, and space for brothels, fetish and sex workers to advertise.

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Apr 19 2018

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Rank #2: Our Kink is Masturbation – Podcast 28

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Yes, May is Masturbation month, so there’s no better time to shine a light on what can be some pretty adventurous sexy times, be it alone or with a partner. This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane try not to make too many bad puns as we discuss the benefits and drawbacks of the One-Handed Devil Dance…

For more information to enjoy in your own time:
MisKnickers Guide To Buying Beginner Sex Toys
MisKnickers Guide For Happy Handjobs
MisKnickers  Guide To Pussy Play For Couples

And for more information on the Adult Match Maker ‘Under the Covers’ survey, and the results re-masturbation, take a look at this great piece from Dr Michelle Mars:
Masturbation Under the Covers: Fap Vs Fiddle

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May 08 2018

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Rank #3: Our Kink is Cumming to Your Senses – Podcast 25

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This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane plan to talk some Senses into you. All of them in fact. How to take advantage of them, manipulate them, deprive your partner of them. How to get started and what you can use at home to do so.
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Mar 15 2018

41mins

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Rank #4: Our Kink is Busting Myths – Podcast 29

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In this episode MisKnickers and Miss Jane will enter your earholes once again, this time to blow up some BDSM bullshit… Join them as they don the Mythbuster Moustache and light the dynamite on some of our favourites myths, exploring both what they are, and where they come from. Have a giggle, an eyeroll, and a ‘pffft’ with us as we examine the idea that all kinksters are crazy, and ponder upon the ‘weakness’ often thought to make up submission. And as promised, there’s some links below to keep you busy with some more facts and figures.

Enjoy! <3

Reference Links:

BDSM and Mental Health

Submission

Domination

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May 31 2018

47mins

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Rank #5: Our Kink is Queer Flirting – Podcast 30

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This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane visited Counsellor, Sex Therapist, Educator, Author, Workshop Facilitator, and wearer of one thousand hats, Jeremy Shub.

They could have talked for days about every topic under the Sun, but specifically they wanted to talk with Jeremy about his upcoming Queer Flirting workshop. Starting with the basics of what actually constitutes flirting, how it differs between people and cultures, and moving to the unique challenges for Queer identifying people, how the principles of consent impact our flirting, navigating the vast range of different attractions and desires and more, including Jeremy’s upcoming book, Sex Positive Now.

Learn more about Jeremy, his work, and his services here.

Check out the Queer Flirting workshop here.

Jun 14 2018

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Rank #6: Our Kink is Sexological Bodywork – Podcast 26

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Somewhere near, and at times bridging the boundaries between sex therapy, coaching, kinesiology, and tantra, is Sexological Bodywork. MisKnickers and Miss Jane took some time out to talk with Louis Luckhurst of Intentional Touch to learn more about exactly what sexological bodywork is, and to to hear Louis’ professional and personal story.

Louis helps clients learn about and understand their bodies, and to strengthen their connection to sexual and sensual self. Louis also works with people who have experienced trauma, and with people who have experienced a disconnection from their sexual experiences, and hopes to use her work to benefit survivors of genital mutilation and others in need of healing.

Learn more about Louis’ practice at intentionaltouch.net

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Apr 05 2018

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Rank #7: Our Kink is Pet Play – Podcast 24

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In this podcast MisKnickers and Mistress Jane are joined by kittens, Lola and KittenRose to further explore this soft and fluffy form of play, and examine some of the stigma surrounding it. Riding the momentum from their appearance on Triple J's The Hook Up , the team discuss the realities of delving into this form of play. We explore what draws people to Petplay (as Owner/Handlers AND pets!) and offer some tips on how to start, where to make connections, and finding events that are friendly to Petplayers. Added to this, we look at some of the feedback from the Triple J audience and have just a bit of fun with it.

And don't forget The Guild of Claws and Hooves Munch is on March 3rd, 6pm til late, The Scratching Parlour is open March 17th from 6-10pm, and March 18th is the Fundraiser extravaganza for girl ang. Tickets $15.00 ($10.00 for Our Kink Subscribers - see your email for the code).
IMPORTANT NOTE: As much as we've had our issues with the feedback from The J's audience, it's important we state it's with their audience only. The production team we worked with for The Hook Up were fantastic - engaged, curious, supportive, and happy to work within our comfort zones. We have the utmost respect for the way they treated us, and for the finished product. We also appreciate the moderation that went into social media.

We thank them for the opportunity to contribute, and for their permission to use the video here.
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Mar 01 2018

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Rank #8: Our Kink is Leather – Podcast 23

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This week, MisKnickers traveled to the fair city of Castlemaine to sit down with Angela Saide (aka girl ang) to discuss leather. Angela discusses her experience working with leather and her involvement with the Leather Community.

Our Kink is also supporting Angela in her bid to claim the International Ms Leather (IMsL) title in California this year, and MisKnickers talked with her about what's involved in running for the title, how her campaign is progressing, who is supporting her, and her excitement at the chance to win an international title and, in the process, give something back to the Victorian Leather Community.

Learn more about IMsL and IMsBB (International Ms Bootblack) here

Find Angela on:
Twitter
Facebook
Instagram
And check out Little Miss Leather on Facebook
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Feb 15 2018

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Rank #9: Our Kink is Getting Back to Basics – Podcast 22

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MisKnickers and Mistress Jane address some of the questions you might have if you're exploring a newly awakened interest in kink. Starting with the big "Where do I even start?" conundrum, they move on to avenues for education, events for beginners, tips on how to play safe, and red flags to look out for in the kink world. Chances are, if you're beginning your journey into kink, the Our Kinksters are addressing issues and concepts that you're beginning to experience.

Some resources for beginning your kink journey, as mentioned in the podcast:
Podcasts
Kink Clinic
Dan Savage's Savage Lovecast
Sunny Megatron's American Sex Podcast

Events
Provocation
Playroom
SnakePit
Arkie's Munch

Websites
Adult Matchmaker (AMM)
Dominant Guide
Submissive Guide
Fetlife
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Feb 01 2018

41mins

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Rank #10: Our Kink is Body-Safe Sex Toys!!! – Podcast 21

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MisKnickers and Mistress Jane receive a visit from JD from Downunder Toys to talk about JD's history as a Melbourne toymaker, how the process of making sex toys works, the politics of pleasure, and about her latest creation, AVA.
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Jan 18 2018

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Rank #11: Our Kink is Ethical Porn – Podcast 20

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In this episode, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane sit down with multi-award winning Australian explicit filmmaker Anna Brownfield to talk about what goes into making ethical pornography, the impact of the internet and tube sites on the industry and those who work in it, the future of sex online, and craft.

Anna, the creative force behind Poison Apple Productions outlines the difference between making "The Band" in a predominantly DVD age, and "The Bedroom", a film largely marketed to the online world. She also discusses how she entered the world of explicit filmmaking, the challenges presented by some archaic laws, and how she tailors her guidelines for people who want to work with her in order to achieve the highest level of informed consent.

Also, there are lists!
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Dec 21 2017

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Rank #12: Our Kink is Parenting – Podcast 19

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This week the Our Kink mummas Mis Knickers and Mistress Jane talk all things parenting with one of our favourite guests - the delightful and sadomasochistic Jilf, who is joined by one of their spawn, Jellybean, to talk all things “Parenting” within a number of alternative lifestyles.

We know this one will resonate with many of our community and we would love to hear from you if you have any tips or tricks for how to balance your identity as a parent and your identity as a kinkster.

Meanwhile, sit back at home or wherever you enjoy your podcasts from, and take a listen to our take on how to make it all balance and work for everyone. And while you're at it, find out how Archer Magazine is approaching its Family Issue (on sale December 11th), which aligns quite nicely with our Parenting episode!
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Dec 07 2017

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Rank #13: Our Kink is Objectification: Podcast 15

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In the latest instalment of the Our Kink Podcast, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane dive into the world of objectification, which is many different things to many different people. They discuss the different forms objectification can take, the differing drives (both from the top and bottom perspectives), and they sit down with robodoll, a creation of Kink Technologies. Robodoll explains their creation, operation, and motivation, and helps the Our Kink team understand more about objectification, and why it's such a prominent feature in a lot of BDSM play.
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Oct 26 2017

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Rank #14: Our Kink is Panel Discussions: Frisky Business Part Two Podcast 14

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On Wednesday, September 20th, Our Kink in partnership with Oz Kink Fest and Mistress Electra Amore, and sponsored by Lucrezia and De Sade, hosted a gathering of nine Pro-BDSM, Fetish, and Kink Workers for a panel discussion.

Part One of the discussion, which you can find here, focused on the panelists' introduction to the world of pro-kink, work/life balance, the pros and cons of stage names vs real names, and some travel tips for kinksters.

In part two, the participants discuss their training and experiences, technology and the evolution of the industry, advice for newcomers, and they also look at some of the improvements they have witnessed, or been a part of, in their work. This includes some rare insights into the history of professional BDSM and kink work in Australia. The discussion was informative, passionate, funny at times, and engaging throughout.

We would like to offer a heartfelt thank you to everyone who participated in this first Our Kink public event, from the panelists themselves to our enthusiastic audience members, to everyone who played a role in setting up, hosting, and running the event. We hope you all enjoyed yourselves as much as we did - and for those of you who couldn't be there, we are proud to be able to let you experience the discussion through these podcasts.

Our very eclectic line-up includes professionals from a range of backgrounds, styles, and generations, including:

Mistress Electra Amore
Sai Jaiden Lilith
Mz Asha Luna
Ignixia (USA)
Mistress Tokyo (SYD)
Jane Untamed
Marina Lee
Charlotte Sway
Apprentice Leighton
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Oct 09 2017

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Rank #15: Our Kink is Panel Discussions: Frisky Business Part One Podcast 13

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On Wednesday, September 20th, Our Kink in partnership with Oz Kink Fest and Mistress Electra Amore, and sponsored by Lucrezia and De Sade, hosted a gathering of nine Pro-BDSM, Fetish, and Kink Workers to discuss their their experiences in the industry.

This forum Q & A, planned to be the first of many, is aimed at bringing healthy discussion to the table in an offline environment. In a world dominated by online communication and social media, we feel that one way to promote accountability in the kink community is to encourage face to face discussion, where the anonymity of the internet is stripped away.

In what’s been a traditionally underground industry, recent technology, pop-culture, and psychiatry have created some massive changes for the whole BDSM/Kink Community. In this fascinating Panel Q&A and Forum Event we opened the door and invited you in to join an exploration into the pro-BDSM, fetish and kink world, and discuss how these changes affect those who have careers within it.

We were pleasantly surprised and very pleased to be able to present a booked out event and those who attended were treated to an entertaining and engaging evening from our illustrious panel of pro-kink/BDSM experts as we look at some of their history and experiences in the industry, explored developments such as the evolution of pro-kink training and the lessons learned over time, discussed the impact of the internet, and much, much more.

Our very eclectic line-up includes professionals from a range of backgrounds, styles, and generations, including:

Mistress Electra Amore
Sai Jaiden Lilith
Mz Asha Luna
Ignixia (USA)
Mistress Tokyo (SYD)
Jane Untamed
Marina Lee
Charlotte Sway
Apprentice Leighton
This special edition podcast presents the first part of that panel discussion, in which the participants talk about their introductions to the industry, their work/life balance, stage names vs real names, and what it’s like to go through airport security as a professional kink worker. We hope you enjoy part one of Frisky Business: Working in Kink.
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Oct 05 2017

58mins

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