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Mistress Matisse's Podcast

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Mistress Matisse, Seattle sex columnist and professional dominatrix talks about BDSM, polyamory, sex work, and her life as a sexual outlaw. Adults only!

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Mistress Matisse, Seattle sex columnist and professional dominatrix talks about BDSM, polyamory, sex work, and her life as a sexual outlaw. Adults only!

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Where did ya go?

By Freakorthidox - Aug 08 2011
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Hmmm

The best

By Sir drek - May 18 2010
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Simply can't wai until the next one comes out! 6 stars out of 5!

iTunes Ratings

31 Ratings
Average Ratings
23
3
4
1
0

Where did ya go?

By Freakorthidox - Aug 08 2011
Read more
Hmmm

The best

By Sir drek - May 18 2010
Read more
Simply can't wai until the next one comes out! 6 stars out of 5!
Cover image of Mistress Matisse's Podcast

Mistress Matisse's Podcast

Updated 12 days ago

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Mistress Matisse, Seattle sex columnist and professional dominatrix talks about BDSM, polyamory, sex work, and her life as a sexual outlaw. Adults only!

Rank #1: Kinky Lovers and Humiliation Play

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In this podcast, Monk and I read and answer a letter about how to meet kinky romantic
partners, and then a letter from a woman who is struggling with her
feelings about humiliation in BDSM porn and erotica, and who is
wondering if being African-American is part of that.

Take-home quote: "It's only porn if you make money from it. If you're not going to make any money from it, it's not porn, it's erotica."

(Ten minutes, definitely not work safe.)
Dec 14 2009
9 mins
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Rank #2: Twisted Monk Talks About Responding To Recent Fetlife Controversy

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Twisted Monk Talks About Responding To Recent Fetlife Controversy

Mistress Matisse listens and talks with Twisted Monk, as he discusses the problems of women on Fetlife being targeted for data-scraping and reposting by online harassers, and possible responses that users can make to that. This is a serious topic, and it is intended to spark more conversations. For example: how can we create more safety for people online? And how do we respond to businesses who claim to be part of the BDSM community, but aren't responsive to the needs of that community?About 16 minute

Apr 14 2015
15 mins
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Rank #3: Can The Mistress Get Fucked?

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Monk and I read some letters, riff about kink words we hate (like, subbie) and then talk about switching, and how women can get fucked while staying in the dominant role. We use the word "fuck" a lot, although Monk talks dirty in romance novel-speak, as well. (This podcast inspired a column for next week's Stranger, too.)
Jan 08 2009
11 mins
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Rank #4: Altoids and Listerine Breath Strips

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BDSM techniques, in today’s new podcast: Monk and I talk about putting Altoids mints and Listerine Breath Strips in female pink parts. Naturally, I talk some about boy bits as well. Plus, why you’ll want some milk on hand for this type of play. About nine minutes, not work safe!

Sep 13 2010
8 mins
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Rank #5: Sex Work Questions and Answers

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Monk and I answer reader questions about life as a sex worker... Emotional self-care for sex workers, and legal brothel questions. About 13 minutes.
Oct 05 2008
13 mins
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Rank #6: BDSM: Dealing With Family When You're Kinky

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In this podcast, Monk and I talk about the very sticky issue
of dealing with parents who get nosy about their adult-children's sex
life. Or: What To Do When Your Parents Find Out You're Kinky - And They
Aren't Happy.
Jun 01 2009
10 mins
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Rank #7: Show Them How You Like It!

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Monk and I riff about The Venture Brothers, and then answer
a reader's letter about dominance/sadism vs. masochism/submission. What do
those words mean? Aligning your tastes with your partners… Then we give some
sources of "educational porn", and answer a reader who asks: my lover
liked kinky sex with her ex, but not with me – what to do?

(About fifteen minutes.)

Sep 22 2008
15 mins
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Rank #8: He Said/She Said

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Twisted Monk and I read a letter from someone who wants her boyfriend to have a two-man threesome with her. He refuses to do so, she wants advice on how to change his mind.

We talk about how we get a lot of letters from listeners/readers who ask: how do I get my partner to do X? It's a tough thing to give advice on. We propose that if you want good advice on that sort of subject, we need to hear both sides of the story!

Feb 26 2011
9 mins
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Rank #9: How To Start A Kink Business

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In this podcast, we read some follow-up letters about kinky relationships, and then Monk rants
about the joys of creating a business selling kinky products.
Jun 12 2009
15 mins
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Rank #10: The New Young Dominants

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In this episode, Monk and I briefly discuss how the Zombie Apocalypse would affect my diet Mountain Dew consumption. A letter from a dominant woman who feels nervous about her scenes. Key point: she’s eighteen years old. How should a young kinky person build confidence?

And I also have to blow a kiss to Monk, because this is the Official Weeklong Celebration of His Birth! No mere birthDAY for Monk, no no! He has a week! (Perhaps longer, if the bourbon and cute girls hold out.) So Happy BirthWeek to you, sweetheart!

Aug 11 2010
7 mins
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Rank #11: Sex Negative Sex Workers, and Fisting

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I wasn’t going to upload this last podcast. But Monk says I’m being silly. And lord knows, I need the blog-content, I've been way too busy to write much lately.So, I am ignoring a voice in the back of my head that says it’s slightly undignified. Unladylike, in fact.Yes, I know – I don’t feel the slightest qualm about posting photos of myself sticking needles in people. That's perfectly dignified. It's kinky, but it's not undignified.But I do feel that it is slightly undignified to post slightly-tipsy rants about one of my pet topics: Crazy People And Sex Work.Just to be clear – thank you, President Obama – I am not disclaiming the basic opinions I express here. I just wish I had voiced them a trifle less profanely and a trifle less… stridently. Whoops.There's also a whole side conversation about fisting, in which I make an ill-advised personal disclosure.Thus, I bring to a close the era of cocktails while podcasting. Enjoy us in all our ranty glory, the next round will be far more calm, sober and public-radio-esque. (Well, I will be, at least. I cannot speak for Monk.)
Oct 14 2009
11 mins
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Rank #12: For The Boys: Cinderella Rope Tops and Male Escorts

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Monk and I answer letters about male rope tops getting overwhelmed by girls who want to ride the bondage-go-round, and then talk about a letter from a woman who says she wants to hire a male escort.
Apr 14 2009
12 mins
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Rank #13: Polyamory and Jealousy

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Monk and I answer a reader's letter about dealing with her jealousy in a polyamorous relationship. About 15 minutes.
Mar 20 2009
13 mins
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Rank #14: Threeways, Slaves, and Polyamory Veto

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Another podcast, and another riff from Monk about how I’m playing with my nipple. Even though I’m not.

 Then letters: a letter from a listener asking about jealousy and a three-way. Threesomes are fraught with peril, in my opinion. The best threesome experiences I have had were in situations where no one was in a couple. Three single people, in other words. An established couple plus one? That’s a very tricky situation. Monk and I step through some of the ways it could happen.

Next, a question from a BDSM person who’s wondering about how to answer a friend’s question, “Am I cut out to be a slave?”

The last letters asks, “Is it fair for a people in a polyamory group to veto the partners of other partners?” Monk and I both have some opinions about the term “veto” and making rules that create the illusion of control over other people.

About twenty minutes.

Mar 03 2010
19 mins
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Rank #15: Escorts and Strippers: The Sharks and The Jets?

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Monk and I have a brief discussion about our ability to fight off an attack by maniacal clowns. Then we answer a letter from a woman who wants to be a sex worker, and who made the mistake of asking strippers for advice about being an escort. So, thoughts about sex work hierarchies, and how sex work businesses are like Fight Club. Hope it’s educational…

Aug 18 2010
9 mins
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