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Mistress Matisse's Podcast

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Mistress Matisse, Seattle sex columnist and professional dominatrix talks about BDSM, polyamory, sex work, and her life as a sexual outlaw. Adults only!

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Mistress Matisse, Seattle sex columnist and professional dominatrix talks about BDSM, polyamory, sex work, and her life as a sexual outlaw. Adults only!

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31 Ratings
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iTunes Ratings

31 Ratings
Average Ratings
23
3
4
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0
Cover image of Mistress Matisse's Podcast

Mistress Matisse's Podcast

Updated 8 months ago

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Mistress Matisse, Seattle sex columnist and professional dominatrix talks about BDSM, polyamory, sex work, and her life as a sexual outlaw. Adults only!

Rank #1: A Good Spanking

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Mistress Matisse and Monk of Twisted Monk discuss impact on the ass - how to give it, how to get it, and dealing with the aftermath...

Feb 20 2008
10 mins
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Rank #2: Kinky Lovers and Humiliation Play

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In this podcast, Monk and I read and answer a letter about how to meet kinky romantic partners, and then a letter from a woman who is struggling with her feelings about humiliation in BDSM porn and erotica, and who is wondering if being African-American is part of that. Take-home quote: "It's only porn if you make money from it. If you're not going to make any money from it, it's not porn, it's erotica." (Ten minutes, definitely not work safe.)

Dec 14 2009
9 mins
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Rank #3: Can The Mistress Get F****d?

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Monk and I read some letters, riff about kink words we hate (like, subbie) and then talk about switching, and how women can get f****d while staying in the dominant role. We use the word "f**k" a lot, although Monk talks dirty in romance novel-speak, as well. (This podcast inspired a column for next week's Stranger, too.)

Jan 08 2009
11 mins
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Rank #4: The New Young Dominants

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In this episode, Monk and I briefly discuss how the Zombie Apocalypse would affect my diet Mountain Dew consumption. A letter from a dominant woman who feels nervous about her scenes. Key point: she’s eighteen years old. How should a young kinky person build confidence?   And I also have to blow a kiss to Monk, because this is the Official Weeklong Celebration of His Birth! No mere birthDAY for Monk, no no! He has a week! (Perhaps longer, if the bourbon and cute girls hold out.) So Happy BirthWeek to you, sweetheart!  

Aug 11 2010
7 mins
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Rank #5: Threeways, Slaves, and Polyamory Veto

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Another podcast, and another riff from Monk about how I’m playing with my nipple. Even though I’m not.    Then letters: a letter from a listener asking about jealousy and a three-way. Threesomes are fraught with peril, in my opinion. The best threesome experiences I have had were in situations where no one was in a couple. Three single people, in other words. An established couple plus one? That’s a very tricky situation. Monk and I step through some of the ways it could happen.   Next, a question from a BDSM person who’s wondering about how to answer a friend’s question, “Am I cut out to be a slave?”   The last letters asks, “Is it fair for a people in a polyamory group to veto the partners of other partners?” Monk and I both have some opinions about the term “veto” and making rules that create the illusion of control over other people.   About twenty minutes.  

Mar 03 2010
19 mins
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Rank #6: Staplers and Canes and Dildos, Oh My!

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Monk and I talk about bdsm toys we love.

Jun 21 2009
15 mins
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Rank #7: Fast and Dirty Bondage

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Oct 01 2009
16 mins
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Rank #8: For The Boys: Cinderella Rope Tops and Male Escorts

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Monk and I answer letters about male rope tops getting overwhelmed by girls who want to ride the bondage-go-round, and then talk about a letter from a woman who says she wants to hire a male escort.

Apr 14 2009
12 mins
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Rank #9: Baby Steps In Polyamory

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In this podcast, Monk and I riff about phallic microphones and then read and discuss a letter from a reader pondering how to begin a polyamorous relationship. How do you treat the other significant others?

Jul 19 2010
9 mins
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Rank #10: Polyamory and Jealousy

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Monk and I answer a reader's letter about dealing with her jealousy in a polyamorous relationship. About 15 minutes.

Mar 20 2009
13 mins
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