Rank #1: Kinky Lovers and Humiliation Play
partners, and then a letter from a woman who is struggling with her
feelings about humiliation in BDSM porn and erotica, and who is
wondering if being African-American is part of that.
Take-home quote: "It's only porn if you make money from it. If you're not going to make any money from it, it's not porn, it's erotica."
(Ten minutes, definitely not work safe.)
Rank #2: Twisted Monk Talks About Responding To Recent Fetlife Controversy
Mistress Matisse listens and talks with Twisted Monk, as he discusses the problems of women on Fetlife being targeted for data-scraping and reposting by online harassers, and possible responses that users can make to that. This is a serious topic, and it is intended to spark more conversations. For example: how can we create more safety for people online? And how do we respond to businesses who claim to be part of the BDSM community, but aren't responsive to the needs of that community?About 16 minute
Rank #3: Can The Mistress Get Fucked?
Rank #4: Altoids and Listerine Breath Strips
BDSM techniques, in today’s new podcast: Monk and I talk about putting Altoids mints and Listerine Breath Strips in female pink parts. Naturally, I talk some about boy bits as well. Plus, why you’ll want some milk on hand for this type of play. About nine minutes, not work safe!
Rank #5: Sex Work Questions and Answers
Rank #6: BDSM: Dealing With Family When You're Kinky
of dealing with parents who get nosy about their adult-children's sex
life. Or: What To Do When Your Parents Find Out You're Kinky - And They
Rank #7: Show Them How You Like It!
a reader's letter about dominance/sadism vs. masochism/submission. What do
those words mean? Aligning your tastes with your partners… Then we give some
sources of "educational porn", and answer a reader who asks: my lover
liked kinky sex with her ex, but not with me – what to do?
(About fifteen minutes.)
Rank #8: He Said/She Said
Twisted Monk and I read a letter from someone who wants her boyfriend to have a two-man threesome with her. He refuses to do so, she wants advice on how to change his mind.
We talk about how we get a lot of letters from listeners/readers who ask: how do I get my partner to do X? It's a tough thing to give advice on. We propose that if you want good advice on that sort of subject, we need to hear both sides of the story!
Rank #9: How To Start A Kink Business
about the joys of creating a business selling kinky products.
Rank #10: The New Young Dominants
In this episode, Monk and I briefly discuss how the Zombie Apocalypse would affect my diet Mountain Dew consumption. A letter from a dominant woman who feels nervous about her scenes. Key point: she’s eighteen years old. How should a young kinky person build confidence?
And I also have to blow a kiss to Monk, because this is the Official Weeklong Celebration of His Birth! No mere birthDAY for Monk, no no! He has a week! (Perhaps longer, if the bourbon and cute girls hold out.) So Happy BirthWeek to you, sweetheart!
Rank #11: Sex Negative Sex Workers, and Fisting
Rank #12: For The Boys: Cinderella Rope Tops and Male Escorts
Rank #13: Polyamory and Jealousy
Rank #14: Threeways, Slaves, and Polyamory Veto
Another podcast, and another riff from Monk about how I’m playing with my nipple. Even though I’m not.
Then letters: a letter from a listener asking about jealousy and a three-way. Threesomes are fraught with peril, in my opinion. The best threesome experiences I have had were in situations where no one was in a couple. Three single people, in other words. An established couple plus one? That’s a very tricky situation. Monk and I step through some of the ways it could happen.
Next, a question from a BDSM person who’s wondering about how to answer a friend’s question, “Am I cut out to be a slave?”
The last letters asks, “Is it fair for a people in a polyamory group to veto the partners of other partners?” Monk and I both have some opinions about the term “veto” and making rules that create the illusion of control over other people.
About twenty minutes.
Rank #15: Escorts and Strippers: The Sharks and The Jets?
Monk and I have a brief discussion about our ability to fight off an attack by maniacal clowns. Then we answer a letter from a woman who wants to be a sex worker, and who made the mistake of asking strippers for advice about being an escort. So, thoughts about sex work hierarchies, and how sex work businesses are like Fight Club. Hope it’s educational…