IT’S BRITNEY, BITCH! I’m sorry, let me fix that… IT’S THE ‘SORTING IT OUT PODCAST’, FRIENDS!... BITCH!No, of course we don’t condone the ‘B’ word in the derogatory sense. But we also don’t condone leaving the airwaves so empty for such a long time. So Just like Britney, the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is back, betterer than everer, and kicking the content up another level and into the next gear… 7th gear.And what can you expect from the new and improved season 2? All the fun that made last season, plus more. Episode #33 finds the crew returning to get serious about cultural appropriation and ask some not so easy questions after a run in with some rainbow coloured sombreros. What cultural boundaries are we crossing in our day to day lives? Are there grey areas when it comes to ‘cultural-permission’ or are all things defined in the absolute? I’ll be honest, this one gets heated.    Now more than ever, the 'SIOP' is playing for answers, and trying to change and inform ourselves to be more considerate human beings is the name of the game. 

IT’S BRITNEY, BITCH! I’m sorry, let me fix that… IT’S THE ‘SORTING IT OUT PODCAST’, FRIENDS!... BITCH!No, of course we don’t condone the ‘B’ word in the derogatory sense. But we also don’t condone leaving the airwaves so empty for such a long time. So Just like Britney, the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is back, betterer than everer, and kicking the content up another level and into the next gear… 7th gear.And what can you expect from the new and improved season 2? All the fun that made last season, plus more. Episode #33 finds the crew returning to get serious about cultural appropriation and ask some not so easy questions after a run in with some rainbow coloured sombreros. What cultural boundaries are we crossing in our day to day lives? Are there grey areas when it comes to ‘cultural-permission’ or are all things defined in the absolute? I’ll be honest, this one gets heated.    Now more than ever, the 'SIOP' is playing for answers, and trying to change and inform ourselves to be more considerate human beings is the name of the game.

Episode #33 - Tiny Houses and a Mexican Restaurant

If an Australian terrorist killing innocent women, men, and children at prayer isn’t a sobering enough moment; enter the goose-stepping Fraser Anning to deliver some words of… anti-wisdom? Pro white supremacism? Dip-shittery?    Though, there is some solos in knowing that for every Fraser Anning a boy with an egg isn’t far behind. So, whip out that crusty old frying pan, warm up that whisking wrist and starts’a cracking, because the ‘Sorting It Out’ Podcast is talking infamous shell slingers, and we’re not leaving without omelettes.  All egg puns aside (and believe me, they will be many) this weeks episode asks just what ‘Egg Boy’ is doing for the conversation surrounding white supremacy and anti-Muslim rhetoric? Are his exploits taking the issue to a wider audience? Will chicken period projectiles help to change perspectives in the years to come? Honestly, I really hope so.Yet, the ‘SIOP’ crew isn’t eggsaggerating by saying, “there’s no eggsact way of knowing these things”. We’re not here to eggsacerbate problems either. But, if a sentiment of fun seems a little too soon, all we can say is that we love you New Zealand. To all our Muslim brothers and sisters, we love you and we are with you. Those gone are not forgotten. 

If an Australian terrorist killing innocent women, men, and children at prayer isn’t a sobering enough moment; enter the goose-stepping Fraser Anning to deliver some words of… anti-wisdom? Pro white supremacism? Dip-shittery?    Though, there is some solos in knowing that for every Fraser Anning a boy with an egg isn’t far behind. So, whip out that crusty old frying pan, warm up that whisking wrist and starts’a cracking, because the ‘Sorting It Out’ Podcast is talking infamous shell slingers, and we’re not leaving without omelettes.  All egg puns aside (and believe me, they will be many) this weeks episode asks just what ‘Egg Boy’ is doing for the conversation surrounding white supremacy and anti-Muslim rhetoric? Are his exploits taking the issue to a wider audience? Will chicken period projectiles help to change perspectives in the years to come? Honestly, I really hope so.Yet, the ‘SIOP’ crew isn’t eggsaggerating by saying, “there’s no eggsact way of knowing these things”. We’re not here to eggsacerbate problems either. But, if a sentiment of fun seems a little too soon, all we can say is that we love you New Zealand. To all our Muslim brothers and sisters, we love you and we are with you. Those gone are not forgotten.

Episode #32 - EGG BOY

Defining and discussing pros and cons of romantic Relationships this week as we are back from our week off and ready to tackle episode 31

Defining and discussing pros and cons of romantic Relationships this week as we are back from our week off and ready to tackle episode 31

Episode #31 - Talking Amorous Entanglements

It’s time to break that hiatus and cover all your social media platforms, because the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is live again to tackle controversial content. With recent backlash against Australian musical outfit Sticky Fingers, this weeks instalment forces a clinical discussion of law and morality.  Is it possible to separate creators from their transgressions and controversies? Are some artists overlooked or given clemency for mistakes they’ve made? If so, why? Before answering, and at the advice of our legal team, we’ve been directed to not say anything without council present. With that in mind, sitting in on episode #30 is the always and ever so brilliant Bianca, a good friend of the podcast and seasoned paralegal. The ‘SIOP’ would also like to address speculation that has risen over the past month and formally apologise. The quantity and ferocity of farting that occurred in previous recordings, from one or several of its hosts, was inappropriate and moreover, tremendously stinky. In all seriousness though, from moments of flatulence to the kind of allegations made against the likes of artists such as Chris Brown, Kevin Spacey and Michael Jackson, let’s get honest; how do we celebrate content while simultaneously valuing what is consider wrong and right? All questions aside, what’s certain is that in a world where people abuse power and position, the act of not forgetting and maintaining accountability is forever up for discussion. So, let’s talk!

It’s time to break that hiatus and cover all your social media platforms, because the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is live again to tackle controversial content. With recent backlash against Australian musical outfit Sticky Fingers, this weeks instalment forces a clinical discussion of law and morality.  Is it possible to separate creators from their transgressions and controversies? Are some artists overlooked or given clemency for mistakes they’ve made? If so, why? Before answering, and at the advice of our legal team, we’ve been directed to not say anything without council present. With that in mind, sitting in on episode #30 is the always and ever so brilliant Bianca, a good friend of the podcast and seasoned paralegal. The ‘SIOP’ would also like to address speculation that has risen over the past month and formally apologise. The quantity and ferocity of farting that occurred in previous recordings, from one or several of its hosts, was inappropriate and moreover, tremendously stinky. In all seriousness though, from moments of flatulence to the kind of allegations made against the likes of artists such as Chris Brown, Kevin Spacey and Michael Jackson, let’s get honest; how do we celebrate content while simultaneously valuing what is consider wrong and right? All questions aside, what’s certain is that in a world where people abuse power and position, the act of not forgetting and maintaining accountability is forever up for discussion. So, let’s talk!

Episode #30 - Separating Content from Controversy

Chris Grills Caine with questions submitted by our listeners on Instagram. Made enjoyable with the presence of alcohol. Enjoy

Chris Grills Caine with questions submitted by our listeners on Instagram. Made enjoyable with the presence of alcohol. Enjoy

Episode #29 - Entering the Mind of Caine Trindall

Fresh off an incredible bouldering experience, Jacob leads the boys through some guided counselling where they delve into their deepest fears.Getting to the root of your anxieties can be tough, but it is crucial in being able to work through them. Too often are we looking for distractions or coping mechanisms when what we really need is a deeper dive into why we would be afraid of certain things.Because let's face it... if it won't hurt you. It is nothing to be afraid of.Let's buckle in because Caine is about to quit his job and launch into some new territory and tap into his music potential. New songs? Recording? Gigs? Collaborations?!?THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT FOR ALL US HERE ON THE SORTING IT OUT PODCAST. AND FOR YOU OUR BELOVED FRIENDS.

Fresh off an incredible bouldering experience, Jacob leads the boys through some guided counselling where they delve into their deepest fears. Getting to the root of your anxieties can be tough, but it is crucial in being able to work through them. Too often are we looking for distractions or coping mechanisms when what we really need is a deeper dive into why we would be afraid of certain things. Because let's face it... if it won't hurt you. It is nothing to be afraid of. Let's buckle in because Caine is about to quit his job and launch into some new territory and tap into his music potential. New songs? Recording? Gigs? Collaborations?!? THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT FOR ALL US HERE ON THE SORTING IT OUT PODCAST. AND FOR YOU OUR BELOVED FRIENDS.

Episode #28 - Conquering The Fear of Death

Podcast 27 hey... how about that ride in... We have Sorted Out nearly every issue in the world. And this podcast is no exception.Kicking it off with some analysis of The Simpsons the boys begin a complex breakdown of what is happening within TV cartoon media... aka talk shit about the Simpsons.Chris also evaluates his decision to hike the HIGHEST FREESTANDING MOUNTAIN IN THE WORLD. Him and his father are taking on one hell of a challenge as they plan to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro this year, will they be prepared, will they get altitude sickness, will they provide Chris with vegetarian options and most importantly has his past hiking experience prepared him for this monstrous task.Spoiler alert... he reckons he will be alright.

Podcast 27 hey... how about that ride in... We have Sorted Out nearly every issue in the world. And this podcast is no exception. Kicking it off with some analysis of The Simpsons the boys begin a complex breakdown of what is happening within TV cartoon media... aka talk shit about the Simpsons. Chris also evaluates his decision to hike the HIGHEST FREESTANDING MOUNTAIN IN THE WORLD. Him and his father are taking on one hell of a challenge as they plan to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro this year, will they be prepared, will they get altitude sickness, will they provide Chris with vegetarian options and most importantly has his past hiking experience prepared him for this monstrous task. Spoiler alert... he reckons he will be alright.

Episode #27 - Chris's Father Son Mountaineering Mission

Are you ok? You look ill! Did you sleep well? Have you forgotten to put make-up on? Or maybe, just maybe, someone else’s appearance is nobody’s business but their own. So why ask? Why care? More importantly, what’s with the 3rd degree? Lay off the questions, geez.  This week’s episode washes clean the layers of eye shadow, bronzer and foundation in attempt to understand the many uses of cosmetics. For Caine and Tom, the concept couldn’t be more of a mystery. In order to really bring out our minds-eyes, Gemma and Brenna (Two amazing and hardworking humans) are gracing the microphones; sharing insight and their own experiences with make-up socially and professionally.   And like I said before, hey, people’s outward aesthetic is none of my business. But there no doubt exists a pressure on people (women especially) to conceal themselves and meet “standards”; expectations plastered on billboards, shouted from every movie and magazine that has an audience. Truly, the whole thing feels icky; a nasty and malicious attack on our insecurities and vulnerabilities as people; people just trying to be accepted. So as corny as this sounds, the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is here to remind not only ourselves but everyone that we are all beautiful, make-up or none. And that sometimes, asking important questions and caring about the answers involves everyone. 

Are you ok? You look ill! Did you sleep well? Have you forgotten to put make-up on? Or maybe, just maybe, someone else’s appearance is nobody’s business but their own. So why ask? Why care? More importantly, what’s with the 3rd degree? Lay off the questions, geez.  This week’s episode washes clean the layers of eye shadow, bronzer and foundation in attempt to understand the many uses of cosmetics. For Caine and Tom, the concept couldn’t be more of a mystery. In order to really bring out our minds-eyes, Gemma and Brenna (Two amazing and hardworking humans) are gracing the microphones; sharing insight and their own experiences with make-up socially and professionally.   And like I said before, hey, people’s outward aesthetic is none of my business. But there no doubt exists a pressure on people (women especially) to conceal themselves and meet “standards”; expectations plastered on billboards, shouted from every movie and magazine that has an audience. Truly, the whole thing feels icky; a nasty and malicious attack on our insecurities and vulnerabilities as people; people just trying to be accepted. So as corny as this sounds, the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is here to remind not only ourselves but everyone that we are all beautiful, make-up or none. And that sometimes, asking important questions and caring about the answers involves everyone.

Episode #26 - Wearing Make-up?

All about Memes and stuff get stuck in. How about that world record egg though

All about Memes and stuff get stuck in. How about that world record egg though

Episode #25 - What Do You Meme?

(WARNING: Contains ‘The O.C.’ spoilers…)  ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ here we come, right back where we started from, sorting oouuuuuutttttttt… That’s right all you beautiful SIOP listeners, I finally get to insert O.C. references throughout an episode bio. ‘Why’s that’, I hear you ask? Well just like Ryan Atwood fresh out of the pool house in the streets of Newport (probs burning down houses am I right?), this weeks latest adventure has seen our loveable hosts glimpse all the flash and fancy living in the Mornington Peninsula.    To be completely honest though, Tom was filming a music video and we only really happened to see some people wearing expensive white clothes and hanging out at a beachside pub after a pollo tournament. But come on, how freaking O.C. is that right?!  Not to be confused though, this weeks instalment is less about trust funds and more about the natural richness in the world around us. From secluded beaches to once in a life time sunsets, episode #24 is an ode to our latest adventure along the Victorian coastline.  So why not tune in, forget about the cotillion and bring along a new friend… maybe someone that our parents don’t approve of, who will inevitably shake up this town forever and it’ll last four seasons with a finale season that isn’t very good, probably because Seth (Cohen!) doesn’t really want to play his character anymore, he’s just comic relief anyways, and OMG Marissa Died in a car accident because that STUPID ASSHOLE SURFER WAS….. Sorry folks…. I’m being such a Summer right now. 

(WARNING: Contains ‘The O.C.’ spoilers…)  ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ here we come, right back where we started from, sorting oouuuuuutttttttt… That’s right all you beautiful SIOP listeners, I finally get to insert O.C. references throughout an episode bio. ‘Why’s that’, I hear you ask? Well just like Ryan Atwood fresh out of the pool house in the streets of Newport (probs burning down houses am I right?), this weeks latest adventure has seen our loveable hosts glimpse all the flash and fancy living in the Mornington Peninsula.    To be completely honest though, Tom was filming a music video and we only really happened to see some people wearing expensive white clothes and hanging out at a beachside pub after a pollo tournament. But come on, how freaking O.C. is that right?!  Not to be confused though, this weeks instalment is less about trust funds and more about the natural richness in the world around us. From secluded beaches to once in a life time sunsets, episode #24 is an ode to our latest adventure along the Victorian coastline.  So why not tune in, forget about the cotillion and bring along a new friend… maybe someone that our parents don’t approve of, who will inevitably shake up this town forever and it’ll last four seasons with a finale season that isn’t very good, probably because Seth (Cohen!) doesn’t really want to play his character anymore, he’s just comic relief anyways, and OMG Marissa Died in a car accident because that STUPID ASSHOLE SURFER WAS….. Sorry folks…. I’m being such a Summer right now.

Episode #24 - Getting Out and About

“Sorting It Out” is a conversation between four hopeless millennial housemates discussing everything from societal issues to their own first world problems and domestic debarkles.The podcast is a medium for the boys to critique and give insight into eachothers lives and reflect upon their beliefs and actions in an attempt to become decent humans.Whether it be knick-knacks, paddy whacks or giving a dog a bone, these young men are definitely rolling home every friday to start the process of beer assisted self reflection again.The boys are masters in the art of constructive roasting and have a knack for spouting useless anecdotes and questionable analogies. Tune in each week for a some guaranteed laughs and something new to think about.

2018 IS OVER MOTHERF@#KEEEERRRRSSS!!! A WHAT WHAAAAAAA!!! With all the excitement of the coming year the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is claiming prime position for the fireworks and getting sufficiently drunk to help bring you in to 2019.  Ep. #23 sees a lightshow of nostalgia and all the highs and lows of the last 12 months. With so much reflection, we can’t help but then look forwards and think biggerer… and betterer. But should we be careful about the promises we make to ourselves? Why are resolutions restricted to a certain moment in our revolution around a burning star? Who knows? As always answers are no guarantee, but with everything from epiphanies on the Murray river to accidental exposure while hitch-hiking, hilarity and some weird ass stories are a shoo-in.     So, bring your bonbons and a show some love to all the folks who’ve made 2018 as spectacular as it was. Because when the clock finally ticks down to 0, midnight kiss or not, the SIOP crew will be close by to give you a big old hug and say thanks, we love you and… Happy new year! 

2018 IS OVER MOTHERF@#KEEEERRRRSSS!!! A WHAT WHAAAAAAA!!! With all the excitement of the coming year the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is claiming prime position for the fireworks and getting sufficiently drunk to help bring you in to 2019.  Ep. #23 sees a lightshow of nostalgia and all the highs and lows of the last 12 months. With so much reflection, we can’t help but then look forwards and think biggerer… and betterer. But should we be careful about the promises we make to ourselves? Why are resolutions restricted to a certain moment in our revolution around a burning star? Who knows? As always answers are no guarantee, but with everything from epiphanies on the Murray river to accidental exposure while hitch-hiking, hilarity and some weird ass stories are a shoo-in.     So, bring your bonbons and a show some love to all the folks who’ve made 2018 as spectacular as it was. Because when the clock finally ticks down to 0, midnight kiss or not, the SIOP crew will be close by to give you a big old hug and say thanks, we love you and… Happy new year!

Episode #23 - New Year Same Shit

As humans… we do some questionable stuff that leaves us thinking why did we do that?Like why did Jacob spend hundreds of hours playing the same game over and over?Why does your dog poop in your bed and tear up your cushions?These are the sorts of questions that led our friend Dennis Wormald into studying behaviour, combined with an interest in animals, Dennis is now a veterinarian with an honours degree in neuroscience and PhD in canine anxiety.He has a lot to say about behaviour not only in dogs but also humans. We get our nerd on in this episode and discuss gaming addiction, dog behaviour some science talk. As well as discuss Dr. Dennis's new website Abadog, which generates incredibly individualized, comprehensive and effective behaviour modification plans for dogs with behavioural issues. Abadog has the potential to reshape the world of dog training and help manage psychological issues in dogs and help them and their owners live better lives.This conversation was incredibly interesting and we went a little over our regular hour time limit… so buckle up and enjoy this convo as we sort out all sorts of behaviour and talk about everyones favourite topic… doggos.

As humans… we do some questionable stuff that leaves us thinking why did we do that? Like why did Jacob spend hundreds of hours playing the same game over and over? Why does your dog poop in your bed and tear up your cushions? These are the sorts of questions that led our friend Dennis Wormald into studying behaviour, combined with an interest in animals, Dennis is now a veterinarian with an honours degree in neuroscience and PhD in canine anxiety. He has a lot to say about behaviour not only in dogs but also humans. We get our nerd on in this episode and discuss gaming addiction, dog behaviour some science talk. As well as discuss Dr. Dennis's new website Abadog, which generates incredibly individualized, comprehensive and effective behaviour modification plans for dogs with behavioural issues. Abadog has the potential to reshape the world of dog training and help manage psychological issues in dogs and help them and their owners live better lives. This conversation was incredibly interesting and we went a little over our regular hour time limit… so buckle up and enjoy this convo as we sort out all sorts of behaviour and talk about everyones favourite topic… doggos.

Episode #22 - Gaming Addiction & Animal Behaviour Ft Dr. Dennis Wormald

“‘Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the houseNot a creature was stirring, not even a mouse…”  Except, of course, for your four favourite Sortingitoutians! HAPPY HOLIDAYS! MERRY CHRISTMAS! WELL WISHES FOR WHATEVER YOU CELEBRATE! With episode #21 comes our first and ever so exciting Christmas special. As sure as the jolly old red man probably has diabetes, the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is taking flight via reindeer to deliver good times (express delivery). Make no mistake, Chris, Tom, Jacob and Caine are certainly in the mood for a little holiday spirit. From Friendsmas to our favourite family traditions, the crew get amongst the cheer and all kinds of cheesy. Is the silly season all it’s nut-crackered up to be though? Is gift giving and receiving even necessary? Why is the message and act of coming together in love relegated to only a few weeks of the year? Let those carols ring and the truth be sung.But hey, if by the shimmer of that overpriced tree, we tear away the ribbons and wrappings to find a lump of coal, don’t even worry about it. Because here at the SIOP we’re all one big family; having you around to share and bask in the love is all we really need. As far as what I ‘want’ for Christmas goes… just ask Mariah Carey.      

“‘Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the houseNot a creature was stirring, not even a mouse…”  Except, of course, for your four favourite Sortingitoutians! HAPPY HOLIDAYS! MERRY CHRISTMAS! WELL WISHES FOR WHATEVER YOU CELEBRATE! With episode #21 comes our first and ever so exciting Christmas special. As sure as the jolly old red man probably has diabetes, the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is taking flight via reindeer to deliver good times (express delivery). Make no mistake, Chris, Tom, Jacob and Caine are certainly in the mood for a little holiday spirit. From Friendsmas to our favourite family traditions, the crew get amongst the cheer and all kinds of cheesy. Is the silly season all it’s nut-crackered up to be though? Is gift giving and receiving even necessary? Why is the message and act of coming together in love relegated to only a few weeks of the year? Let those carols ring and the truth be sung.But hey, if by the shimmer of that overpriced tree, we tear away the ribbons and wrappings to find a lump of coal, don’t even worry about it. Because here at the SIOP we’re all one big family; having you around to share and bask in the love is all we really need. As far as what I ‘want’ for Christmas goes… just ask Mariah Carey.

Episode #21 - Santa Isn't Real?

What would you do? Who would you be? Where would you go? More importantly WHAT THE FUCK CHRIS, YOU KNOCKED OVER OUR FAVOURITE POT! I tell you what, if my lottery ticket was a winner, I’d be straight to Bunnings, buying some glue and fixing that shattered ceramic right up. Jokes, I’d buy a new Chris so he wouldn’t break shit anymore. I’m kidding of course. But when you win millions of dollars and become so filthy rich, you can make any kind of joke you want, right? Amongst the excitement of triple j’s golden ticket competition, episode #20 sees the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ dreamers (minus Tom) contemplating just what they would do if any of the crew won a competition so life changing.  From replacing the lead singer of Catfish and the Bottlemen to financing possibly the worst festival in history, it’s time to think big and bold. So let’s peer into the imaginations of our three host’s heads and see just how wild and whacky things get. Will it be weird? Yes. Will we ever win the lottery? Not a chance.  But we all can dream. And dreaming is half the fun.   

What would you do? Who would you be? Where would you go? More importantly WHAT THE FUCK CHRIS, YOU KNOCKED OVER OUR FAVOURITE POT! I tell you what, if my lottery ticket was a winner, I’d be straight to Bunnings, buying some glue and fixing that shattered ceramic right up. Jokes, I’d buy a new Chris so he wouldn’t break shit anymore. I’m kidding of course. But when you win millions of dollars and become so filthy rich, you can make any kind of joke you want, right? Amongst the excitement of triple j’s golden ticket competition, episode #20 sees the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ dreamers (minus Tom) contemplating just what they would do if any of the crew won a competition so life changing.  From replacing the lead singer of Catfish and the Bottlemen to financing possibly the worst festival in history, it’s time to think big and bold. So let’s peer into the imaginations of our three host’s heads and see just how wild and whacky things get. Will it be weird? Yes. Will we ever win the lottery? Not a chance.  But we all can dream. And dreaming is half the fun.

Episode #20 - Winning a Billion Dollars!!!

Have you ever seen ‘The Wedding Singer’, starring Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler? I used to watch that shit all the time as a kid. I mean, that soundtrack, right!? Not to mention it was classic Sandler, not shitty outdated Sandler (things really went south in the years following). I’ve only now realised how meta the 98 comedy flick was; a romantic film about weddings. A romanticising of the romantic. But what kind of effect does idealising tropes and statistically unsustainable institutions have on us? Honestly, when will it ever be appropriate for us to serenade someone on a plane after we’ve known them for less than a couple months? More importantly, when am I ever going to go halvsies in a $65,000 wedding ceremony (the Australian average cost for such an event)? However, it seems on some level we all crave the Hollywood fairy tale ending. This week finds the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ crew pulling back the veil and shoving it’s investigative tongue into the mouth of everlasting love.Will Tom, Chris, Jacob and Caine ever get married? What’s the point? Are the big gestures and sunset horse rides of our favourite movies healthy things to aspire for? It's time for talk and to let the bad puns fly.If anyone happens to throw a bouquet though, best clear the exits, because that wedding stuff’s for life and it’s not for everyone. There is one thing that remains certain; here at the SIOP, we only want to…. "Make you smile, whenever you’re sadCarry you around when your arthritis is bad, ohAll I wanna doIs grow old with you"  … Xoxox, the SIOP.   

Have you ever seen ‘The Wedding Singer’, starring Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler? I used to watch that shit all the time as a kid. I mean, that soundtrack, right!? Not to mention it was classic Sandler, not shitty outdated Sandler (things really went south in the years following). I’ve only now realised how meta the 98 comedy flick was; a romantic film about weddings. A romanticising of the romantic. But what kind of effect does idealising tropes and statistically unsustainable institutions have on us? Honestly, when will it ever be appropriate for us to serenade someone on a plane after we’ve known them for less than a couple months? More importantly, when am I ever going to go halvsies in a $65,000 wedding ceremony (the Australian average cost for such an event)? However, it seems on some level we all crave the Hollywood fairy tale ending. This week finds the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ crew pulling back the veil and shoving it’s investigative tongue into the mouth of everlasting love. Will Tom, Chris, Jacob and Caine ever get married? What’s the point? Are the big gestures and sunset horse rides of our favourite movies healthy things to aspire for? It's time for talk and to let the bad puns fly. If anyone happens to throw a bouquet though, best clear the exits, because that wedding stuff’s for life and it’s not for everyone. There is one thing that remains certain; here at the SIOP, we only want to…. "Make you smile, whenever you’re sadCarry you around when your arthritis is bad, ohAll I wanna doIs grow old with you" … Xoxox, the SIOP.

Episode #19 - Who's Getting Married!?!?

There are three things in this world that insight an equal sense of structural confidence: 1. The Hindenburg.2. One of Caine’s stories about truck driving. 3. Chris’s Car.That’s right all you beautiful Sorting It Outians, the guys are heading home for Christmas! And none other than our very own Chris Brain has graciously offered the gang a lift back to the blue state in his trusty (rusty) 89 Toyota Corolla. Except, Tom, Jacob and Caine aren’t so sure that the ol skeleton on wheels will deliver them to Kiama in one piece, or even in pieces.So buckle up and cling to that ratty foam seat, because episode #19 is kicking into fifth gear (but also, keeping a close eye on the oil levels and revs) to bring you some challenging discussion, with a little bit of playful ribbing on the side which, really, feels only necessary. With the holiday season upon us, family gatherings shouldn’t go without a good roasting. And just like any family roast, awkward table talk will be the main course, from Shawn Mendes sexuality to Yarra river tetanus shots, it’s gonna be tasty.So, here at the Sorting It Out Podcast, with spirited hearts we welcome in the holiday season and set the GPS for 'Home'. But also, if you don’t hear from us in a few episodes time it’s because we’re stranded somewhere between Melbourne and Wollongong, fast running out of food and water, SEND HELP PLEASE, WE’RE DRINKING OUR OWN URINE!!!

There are three things in this world that insight an equal sense of structural confidence:  1. The Hindenburg.2. One of Caine’s stories about truck driving. 3. Chris’s Car. That’s right all you beautiful Sorting It Outians, the guys are heading home for Christmas! And none other than our very own Chris Brain has graciously offered the gang a lift back to the blue state in his trusty (rusty) 89 Toyota Corolla. Except, Tom, Jacob and Caine aren’t so sure that the ol skeleton on wheels will deliver them to Kiama in one piece, or even in pieces. So buckle up and cling to that ratty foam seat, because episode #19 is kicking into fifth gear (but also, keeping a close eye on the oil levels and revs) to bring you some challenging discussion, with a little bit of playful ribbing on the side which, really, feels only necessary.  With the holiday season upon us, family gatherings shouldn’t go without a good roasting. And just like any family roast, awkward table talk will be the main course, from Shawn Mendes sexuality to Yarra river tetanus shots, it’s gonna be tasty. So, here at the Sorting It Out Podcast, with spirited hearts we welcome in the holiday season and set the GPS for 'Home'. But also, if you don’t hear from us in a few episodes time it’s because we’re stranded somewhere between Melbourne and Wollongong, fast running out of food and water, SEND HELP PLEASE, WE’RE DRINKING OUR OWN URINE!!!

Episode # 18 - The Car from Hell?

Tune into some fun banter this week as the boys talk about drug at music festivals, pubes circumcision and more

Tune into some fun banter this week as the boys talk about drug at music festivals, pubes circumcision and more

Episode #17 - Drugs at Festivals 

This week, the passing of the late great Stan Lee has left the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ team somewhat reflective. What is the future of our ever growing project? Does great podcast come with great responsibility?     With the death of a hero comes the rebirth of a vision. A grand vision. One unburdened by the shackles of former selves and tired ideals. A beautiful place where we can all gather together to share stories; our hopes and fears; our qualms and our triumphs…Jks, we just want a format change so we can talk a little bit more shit. Here at the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ we have a love for our listeners as well as an appreciation for open discussion. And we want to keep that dialogue and audience connection healthy and reciprocal. Episode #16 trials the idea of introducing reoccurring segments and explores how the SIOP crew hopes to keep the process of creating content enjoyable. So if you were looking for a hard biting deep dive into the most pressing social issue of the week, then maybe this latest installment isn’t for you.But, if you’re after a few minutes in the day to take solace in the company of friends and some stories, whether warming or whimsical, then I’d say we’re all in luck.And though it may seem like we’re letting loose the reins and perhaps taking it too easy this week, in truth, we’re only trying to be the best of ourselves; an ability that we all share and that can turn the ordinary into something extraordinary, maybe even marvellous.So in that spirit and to episodes to come, we say, “Excelsior!”And rest in peace Mr Stan Lee, a visionary and a marvel to many. 

This week, the passing of the late great Stan Lee has left the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ team somewhat reflective. What is the future of our ever growing project? Does great podcast come with great responsibility?      With the death of a hero comes the rebirth of a vision. A grand vision. One unburdened by the shackles of former selves and tired ideals. A beautiful place where we can all gather together to share stories; our hopes and fears; our qualms and our triumphs… Jks, we just want a format change so we can talk a little bit more shit. Here at the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ we have a love for our listeners as well as an appreciation for open discussion. And we want to keep that dialogue and audience connection healthy and reciprocal. Episode #16 trials the idea of introducing reoccurring segments and explores how the SIOP crew hopes to keep the process of creating content enjoyable. So if you were looking for a hard biting deep dive into the most pressing social issue of the week, then maybe this latest installment isn’t for you. But, if you’re after a few minutes in the day to take solace in the company of friends and some stories, whether warming or whimsical, then I’d say we’re all in luck. And though it may seem like we’re letting loose the reins and perhaps taking it too easy this week, in truth, we’re only trying to be the best of ourselves; an ability that we all share and that can turn the ordinary into something extraordinary, maybe even marvellous. So in that spirit and to episodes to come, we say, “Excelsior!” And rest in peace Mr Stan Lee, a visionary and a marvel to many.

Episode #16 - The Death Of A Celebrity

We all do dumb shit from time to time… Jacob coming fresh off an afternoon of doing dumb shit and then ironically receiving Paul Kelly tickets in the mail (Hit song by the name of Dumb Things) decided that it would be a good idea for the boys to share some of the stupidest things they have done.From innocent childhood incidents to indolence whilst travelling abroad Caine, Chris and Jacob reveal a few of their biggest “lol wtf was i thinking” moments. But also about how they may have learned from them, from understanding that their emotions can override their rational brains to realising that dogs can poo in the garden but humans should probably still use the bathroom.Have a listen, a laugh and let the boys know if you can top their list of the stupidest things they have ever done.

We all do dumb shit from time to time… Jacob coming fresh off an afternoon of doing dumb shit and then ironically receiving Paul Kelly tickets in the mail (Hit song by the name of Dumb Things) decided that it would be a good idea for the boys to share some of the stupidest things they have done. From innocent childhood incidents to indolence whilst travelling abroad Caine, Chris and Jacob reveal a few of their biggest “lol wtf was i thinking” moments. But also about how they may have learned from them, from understanding that their emotions can override their rational brains to realising that dogs can poo in the garden but humans should probably still use the bathroom. Have a listen, a laugh and let the boys know if you can top their list of the stupidest things they have ever done.

Episode #15 - The Dumbest Things We've Done

Nfm muhfnm…Mhmf fmuhmu muf mmnm… Hmnm um nuhmunuh mfm nfm muh…My apologies but through the bushy whiskers of the ‘Sorting It Out Crew’s upper lip, from time to time words can get pretty muffled and muddled. That’s right fam, Movember is upon us. Which means it’s time to support men’s health issues and raise funds and awareness of mental illness, suicide as well as testicular and prostate cancer. With the state of men’s health in crisis, episode #14 discusses the importance of donating time and a little loose change to a worthy cause, and just how four millennial males plan on doing so. Spoiler alert: for Jacob and Chris it involves sporting some horribly dirty moustaches (I know; poor form, Caine and Tom). But hey, we’re all here to spread the word of bettering health for all those around us.  So, if you happen to enjoy the fun of a couple patchy moes, a few amusing videos and perhaps a cheeky butt tattoo (all of which are a part of the SIOP efforts for the month), well why not have a listen and join in the good will? Donate! Grow some facial hair! Or just have an important conversation about health and the habits we can all use to reach those good, sustainable health goals.Also, check out the Movember website and look up the profiles of your SIOP favs, Jacob and Chris, and while you’re at it, show and share that support. And as always, to all our listeners, from the bottom of our hearts…Mhfnm uhmf fuhmnhuh…Eh, you get the idea 😉  https://moteam.co/sorting-it-out?mc=1

Nfm muhfnm…Mhmf fmuhmu muf mmnm… Hmnm um nuhmunuh mfm nfm muh…My apologies but through the bushy whiskers of the ‘Sorting It Out Crew’s upper lip, from time to time words can get pretty muffled and muddled. That’s right fam, Movember is upon us. Which means it’s time to support men’s health issues and raise funds and awareness of mental illness, suicide as well as testicular and prostate cancer. With the state of men’s health in crisis, episode #14 discusses the importance of donating time and a little loose change to a worthy cause, and just how four millennial males plan on doing so. Spoiler alert: for Jacob and Chris it involves sporting some horribly dirty moustaches (I know; poor form, Caine and Tom). But hey, we’re all here to spread the word of bettering health for all those around us.  So, if you happen to enjoy the fun of a couple patchy moes, a few amusing videos and perhaps a cheeky butt tattoo (all of which are a part of the SIOP efforts for the month), well why not have a listen and join in the good will? Donate! Grow some facial hair! Or just have an important conversation about health and the habits we can all use to reach those good, sustainable health goals.Also, check out the Movember website and look up the profiles of your SIOP favs, Jacob and Chris, and while you’re at it, show and share that support. And as always, to all our listeners, from the bottom of our hearts…Mhfnm uhmf fuhmnhuh…Eh, you get the idea 😉  <a href="https://moteam.co/sorting-it-out?mc=1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://moteam.co/sorting-it-out?mc=1</a>

Episode #14 - Movember

Sorting It Out

Lock the doors, get comfortable and you do you (in more ways than one) because it’s the ‘Time Of The Season’ and a little self-love is the talk of the town.Everyone in their own way does it, yet nobody talks about it; why is the topic considered so faux pas? Masturbation... masturbation, folks. We should be able to discuss all aspects of human sexuality in a positive, funny and lighthearted way. This week the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ strips bare and explores the use of erotica, imagination and pornography in self-stimulation; fleshing out their own sexuality through masturbation to trends in porn. The crew share it all.Yet, just how healthy are the mediums we use to achieve physical release? Are we over using the romanticised and graphicly saturated? Let’s talk.We can’t guarantee there’ll be no giggling, sexual innuendo or childish jokes, after all, the hosts are only human, but what we can guarantee is a brief browse into the ever so tantalising topic of sexual stimulants (and will be sure to delete our search history when we’re done).  And if you’re looking online for some juicy gossip, this weeks episode is certainly for you. If you’re online for other reasons, well then hey, good for you; chances are you’re not the only one.

Lock the doors, get comfortable and you do you (in more ways than one) because it’s the ‘Time Of The Season’ and a little self-love is the talk of the town. Everyone in their own way does it, yet nobody talks about it; why is the topic considered so faux pas? Masturbation... masturbation, folks. We should be able to discuss all aspects of human sexuality in a positive, funny and lighthearted way. This week the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ strips bare and explores the use of erotica, imagination and pornography in self-stimulation; fleshing out their own sexuality through masturbation to trends in porn. The crew share it all. Yet, just how healthy are the mediums we use to achieve physical release? Are we over using the romanticised and graphicly saturated? Let’s talk. We can’t guarantee there’ll be no giggling, sexual innuendo or childish jokes, after all, the hosts are only human, but what we can guarantee is a brief browse into the ever so tantalising topic of sexual stimulants (and will be sure to delete our search history when we’re done). And if you’re looking online for some juicy gossip, this weeks episode is certainly for you. If you’re online for other reasons, well then hey, good for you; chances are you’re not the only one.

Episode #8 - Porn & Masturbation

This week, the Sorting It Out boys get soppy (real soppy), as they discuss the ins and outs of friendships and share the profound appreciation they have for each other and the close friends and family in their lives.When comparing what we value (e.g. family, friends and relationships), to what we spend our time on (e.g. smart phone apps, work and watching tv), there is a clear disparity in our actions vs. our ideals. For some of us, the time we spend with once close friends and family from back home becomes less and less. We rely more and more on social media to answer the, ‘What have you been up to? How have you been?’ And we continue to lose the ability to connect with our loved ones.I think we will all find value in allocating mere fragments of our days to connecting with the people we cherish. This podcast will have you thinking about all those special people you have in your life and will hopefully spark that phone call you have been putting off for too long.Some personal stories are shared and plenty of laughs are had on this weeks episode, but the core of it comes down to those cheesy, cringey but important things we call love and friendship.

This week, the Sorting It Out boys get soppy (real soppy), as they discuss the ins and outs of friendships and share the profound appreciation they have for each other and the close friends and family in their lives. When comparing what we value (e.g. family, friends and relationships), to what we spend our time on (e.g. smart phone apps, work and watching tv), there is a clear disparity in our actions vs. our ideals. For some of us, the time we spend with once close friends and family from back home becomes less and less. We rely more and more on social media to answer the, ‘What have you been up to? How have you been?’ And we continue to lose the ability to connect with our loved ones. I think we will all find value in allocating mere fragments of our days to connecting with the people we cherish. This podcast will have you thinking about all those special people you have in your life and will hopefully spark that phone call you have been putting off for too long. Some personal stories are shared and plenty of laughs are had on this weeks episode, but the core of it comes down to those cheesy, cringey but important things we call love and friendship.

Episode #3 - The Importance of Friendship

Grab those headphones, pull out that old mixtape and dust off that instrument that hasn’t had play since way back when, because we’re getting the band back together… so to speak… or sing?Whether or not you’re fronting a band or playing your favourite tunes at the back of the bus, we all take part in the power of music. Without realising, we find musical outlets so essential to who we are; those large scale festivals are just as important to musical diets as regular radio spots or streaming apps. This weeks episode of the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ stage dives into how music influences our lives, who our favourite artists are and why creating our own playlists means so much.From run-ins with influential artists on the 11 tram to embarrassing ‘So Fresh’ CD’s, Chris, Caine and Tom strike the surface of the ever beating drum; the bass notes of our day to day.But hey, if we break key or strike the wrong tone, who cares? We’re all just in search of a little rhythm. One thing’s certain though, this rendition of the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is sure to be a banger.

Grab those headphones, pull out that old mixtape and dust off that instrument that hasn’t had play since way back when, because we’re getting the band back together… so to speak… or sing? Whether or not you’re fronting a band or playing your favourite tunes at the back of the bus, we all take part in the power of music. Without realising, we find musical outlets so essential to who we are; those large scale festivals are just as important to musical diets as regular radio spots or streaming apps. This weeks episode of the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ stage dives into how music influences our lives, who our favourite artists are and why creating our own playlists means so much. From run-ins with influential artists on the 11 tram to embarrassing ‘So Fresh’ CD’s, Chris, Caine and Tom strike the surface of the ever beating drum; the bass notes of our day to day. But hey, if we break key or strike the wrong tone, who cares? We’re all just in search of a little rhythm. One thing’s certain though, this rendition of the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ is sure to be a banger.

Episode #6 - The Power of Music

It’s time to crack open a bottle of self-reflection and ask the big question… ‘what impact is alcohol consumption having on our lives?’.This week the boys dive into all things grog and drinking culture in Australia and abroad, ironically whilst having a couple themselves.Tom, Chris, Caine and Jacob share their own experiences with intoxication, the stigma of beverage preference, and how we all make choices around alcohol; to be designated driver; to not have that extra shot or to simply let loose; and to what end? So get comfy and pour yourself a tall glass of whatever it is you’re comfortable with consuming, whether water or wine, because here at the Sorting It Out Podcast, we’re all about good times and what makes us all better, healthier humans.

It’s time to crack open a bottle of self-reflection and ask the big question… ‘what impact is alcohol consumption having on our lives?’. This week the boys dive into all things grog and drinking culture in Australia and abroad, ironically whilst having a couple themselves. Tom, Chris, Caine and Jacob share their own experiences with intoxication, the stigma of beverage preference, and how we all make choices around alcohol; to be designated driver; to not have that extra shot or to simply let loose; and to what end? So get comfy and pour yourself a tall glass of whatever it is you’re comfortable with consuming, whether water or wine, because here at the Sorting It Out Podcast, we’re all about good times and what makes us all better, healthier humans.

Episode #4 - All Things Drinking

I know, it’s been a long week. Like border hopping travellers with worlds on our backs, we all just need a haven to reinvigorate our weary souls, feel the welcome of a kind stranger and the warmth of a homely space. Well drop that bag and walk no further. Step on in. Because the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ Hostel has vacancies AND free breakfast from 6-11am. But that’s far from all. Because this weeks episode is lucky enough to be blessed with the angelic presence and voice of Ashleigh Fisher (OMG our first guest!). A long time friend and contributor of the podcast, as well as an experienced traveller and hostel employee, Ash is the perfect person to help us explore the ins and outs; the pros and cons of accommodation on the road.Also, we just really want to catch up, see how she’s doing and reminisce about old times. It only felt like yesterday the SIOP crew were meeting Ash for the first time in a Peruvian oasis. But There’s been a lot of 50 people dorm rooms, late night bed-bunk canoodling and pancake mixes in between. So stay a while, maybe you’ll hear a few funny stories about some of the hostels we’ve encountered. Who knows? When the road calls again and you’ve packed that travel bag to the brim with all that there is to take with you…Maybe it won’t feel so heavy. 

I know, it’s been a long week. Like border hopping travellers with worlds on our backs, we all just need a haven to reinvigorate our weary souls, feel the welcome of a kind stranger and the warmth of a homely space. Well drop that bag and walk no further. Step on in. Because the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ Hostel has vacancies AND free breakfast from 6-11am.  But that’s far from all. Because this weeks episode is lucky enough to be blessed with the angelic presence and voice of Ashleigh Fisher (OMG our first guest!). A long time friend and contributor of the podcast, as well as an experienced traveller and hostel employee, Ash is the perfect person to help us explore the ins and outs; the pros and cons of accommodation on the road. Also, we just really want to catch up, see how she’s doing and reminisce about old times. It only felt like yesterday the SIOP crew were meeting Ash for the first time in a Peruvian oasis. But There’s been a lot of 50 people dorm rooms, late night bed-bunk canoodling and pancake mixes in between.  So stay a while, maybe you’ll hear a few funny stories about some of the hostels we’ve encountered. Who knows? When the road calls again and you’ve packed that travel bag to the brim with all that there is to take with you… Maybe it won’t feel so heavy.

Episode #13 - Hostel Life

Stop crying! Eat some concrete! What are you? A girl or something? It’s time to ‘man up’!... or woman up… or human up?... ehh…?? Look, we don’t really no all the answers, but we know as much that using gender norms to demean or put down others doesn’t feel right, and it isn’t. People should have the freedom to act and feel however they want and be able to identify with either or no gender. But from Barbie’s for girls and blue for boys, just how much of what we enable or embody perpetuates harmful or negative gender stereotypes? I guess it’s time here at the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ to gossip like boys, or talk sports like girls (or whatever gender challenging phrase feels necessary) and question our own masculinity or femininity no matter how fragile they may be. From teenagers pretending to be 26 year old black belts to Disney addiction, Chris, Tom, Jacob and Caine all question just what it is to be manly and feminine, or just human. And maybe that’s the point.So whether boy, girl or anywhere in between, it’s a whole new podcast, and whole new world... 

Stop crying! Eat some concrete! What are you? A girl or something? It’s time to ‘man up’!... or woman up… or human up?... ehh…??  Look, we don’t really no all the answers, but we know as much that using gender norms to demean or put down others doesn’t feel right, and it isn’t. People should have the freedom to act and feel however they want and be able to identify with either or no gender. But from Barbie’s for girls and blue for boys, just how much of what we enable or embody perpetuates harmful or negative gender stereotypes?  I guess it’s time here at the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ to gossip like boys, or talk sports like girls (or whatever gender challenging phrase feels necessary) and question our own masculinity or femininity no matter how fragile they may be.  From teenagers pretending to be 26 year old black belts to Disney addiction, Chris, Tom, Jacob and Caine all question just what it is to be manly and feminine, or just human. And maybe that’s the point. So whether boy, girl or anywhere in between, it’s a whole new podcast, and whole new world...

Episode # 11 - Our Fragile Masculinity 

“Hey! Teachers! Leave them kids alone!”, or maybe just find a way of educating kids outside of metaphorically turning them into materials for the building of supports and structures (Props to the immortal Pink Floyd).Honestly though, amongst the exams, useless curriculum unrelated to real life and the expectation of further higher education, where can teachers ever make the time to sit down and ask individuals, seriously,… what is fulfilling to you? Where are the ‘Life Admin: 101’s? The ‘How to Accept Others and Manage Emotions: 202’s? And ‘Not Being An Asshole: 303’s? Episode #10 finds the ‘Sorting It Out’ crew tearing down the brick wall and exploring their own career paths, passions and sense of fulfillment and just how they came to be.Will they find their experiences and self-realisations flourished outside of a seemingly restrictive and outdated schooling system? Are we not properly enabling and equipping the children of tomorrow? Well to that we say… put your hand up if you wish to speak! Sit up straight! Stop laughing! “No dark sarcasm in the classroom!” Or maybe just tell us to go to hell. Because we what we need is education, “we don’t need no thought control.”Support lines from from previous week: Beyond Blue - 1300 22 4636Suicide Call Back Service - 1300 659 467Lifeline - 13 11 14Family Drug Support - 1300 368 186Kids Helpline - 1800 55 1800MensLine Australia - 1300 78 99 78

“Hey! Teachers! Leave them kids alone!”, or maybe just find a way of educating kids outside of metaphorically turning them into materials for the building of supports and structures (Props to the immortal Pink Floyd).Honestly though, amongst the exams, useless curriculum unrelated to real life and the expectation of further higher education, where can teachers ever make the time to sit down and ask individuals, seriously,… what is fulfilling to you? Where are the ‘Life Admin: 101’s? The ‘How to Accept Others and Manage Emotions: 202’s? And ‘Not Being An Asshole: 303’s? Episode #10 finds the ‘Sorting It Out’ crew tearing down the brick wall and exploring their own career paths, passions and sense of fulfillment and just how they came to be.Will they find their experiences and self-realisations flourished outside of a seemingly restrictive and outdated schooling system? Are we not properly enabling and equipping the children of tomorrow? Well to that we say… put your hand up if you wish to speak! Sit up straight! Stop laughing! “No dark sarcasm in the classroom!” Or maybe just tell us to go to hell. Because we what we need is education, “we don’t need no thought control.” Support lines from from previous week:  Beyond Blue - 1300 22 4636Suicide Call Back Service - 1300 659 467Lifeline - 13 11 14Family Drug Support - 1300 368 186Kids Helpline - 1800 55 1800MensLine Australia - 1300 78 99 78

Episode #10 - High School & Beyond

We need time to be honest with ourselves. Because no matter what the situation, the reality is that not every moment in life can be a happy one. But that’s ok.This week, the podcast finds itself in Dharawal country, far from Melbourne, on the South Coast of NSW. Returning home in this case comes with mixed emotions however, and the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ draws a deep breath of self-reflection and asks… R U OK?From the burdens of stressful careers to facing the loss of loved ones, Tom and Caine discuss the turmoil in their lives over the last few months. Unfortunately, Jacob and Chris are absent on the mics this week, but never absent from heart or mind. We mean that. Look, honestly, things have been rough; things might not be ok, but that’s only right now. Because sooner or later it will be. And the place to be either there or not is here; with the folks that care.Love,The ‘Sorting It Out Podcast.

We need time to be honest with ourselves. Because no matter what the situation, the reality is that not every moment in life can be a happy one. But that’s ok. This week, the podcast finds itself in Dharawal country, far from Melbourne, on the South Coast of NSW. Returning home in this case comes with mixed emotions however, and the ‘Sorting It Out Podcast’ draws a deep breath of self-reflection and asks… R U OK? From the burdens of stressful careers to facing the loss of loved ones, Tom and Caine discuss the turmoil in their lives over the last few months. Unfortunately, Jacob and Chris are absent on the mics this week, but never absent from heart or mind. We mean that. Look, honestly, things have been rough; things might not be ok, but that’s only right now. Because sooner or later it will be. And the place to be either there or not is here; with the folks that care. Love, The ‘Sorting It Out Podcast.

Episode # 9 - R U OK?

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On this episode of the Knowledge Project Podcast, I chat with Patrick Collison, co-founder and CEO of the leading online payment processing company, Stripe. If you’ve purchased anything online recently, there’s a good chance that Stripe facilitated the transaction. What is now an organization with over a thousand employees and handling tens of billions of dollars of online purchases every year, began as a small side experiment while Patrick and his brother John were going to college.   During our conversation, Patrick shares the details of their unlikely journey and some of the hard-earned wisdom he picked up along the way. I hope you have something handy to write with because the nuggets per minute in this episode are off the charts. Patrick was so open and generous with his responses that I’m really excited for you to hear what he has to say. Here are just a few of the things we cover:  The biggest (and most valuable) mistakes Patrick made in the early days of Stripe and how they helped him get better The characteristics that Patrick looks for in a new hire to fit and contribute to the Stripe company culture What compelled he and his brother to move forward with the early concept of Stripe, even though on paper it was doomed to fail from the start The gaps Patrick saw in the market that dozens of other processing companies were missing — and how he capitalized on them The lessons Patrick learned from scaling Stripe from two employees (he and his brother) to nearly 1,000 today How he evaluates the upsides and potential dangers of speculative positions within the company How his Irish upbringing influenced his ability to argue and disagree without taking offense (and how we can all be a little more “Irish”) The power of finding the right peer group in your social and professional circles and how impactful and influential it can be in determining where you end up. The 4 ways Patrick has modified his decision making process over the last 5 years and how it’s helped him develop as a person and as a business leader (this part alone is worth the listen) Patrick’s unique approach to books and how he chooses what he’s going to spend his time reading  ...life in Silicon Valley, Baumol’s cost disease, and so, so much more. Patrick truly is one of the warmest, humblest and down to earth people I’ve had the pleasure to speak with and I thoroughly enjoyed our conversation together. I hope you will too! GO PREMIUM: Support the podcast, get ad-free episodes, transcripts, and so much more: https://fs.blog/knowledge-project-premium/

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On this episode of the Knowledge Project Podcast, I chat with Patrick Collison, co-founder and CEO of the leading online payment processing company, <a href="https://stripe.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stripe.</a> If you’ve purchased anything online recently, there’s a good chance that Stripe facilitated the transaction. What is now an organization with over a thousand employees and handling tens of billions of dollars of online purchases every year, began as a small side experiment while Patrick and his brother John were going to college.   During our conversation, Patrick shares the details of their unlikely journey and some of the hard-earned wisdom he picked up along the way. I hope you have something handy to write with because the nuggets per minute in this episode are off the charts. Patrick was so open and generous with his responses that I’m really excited for you to hear what he has to say. Here are just a few of the things we cover: <ul> <li>The biggest (and most valuable) mistakes Patrick made in the early days of Stripe and how they helped him get better</li> <li>The characteristics that Patrick looks for in a new hire to fit and contribute to the Stripe company culture</li> <li>What compelled he and his brother to move forward with the early concept of Stripe, even though on paper it was doomed to fail from the start</li> <li>The gaps Patrick saw in the market that dozens of other processing companies were missing — and how he capitalized on them</li> <li>The lessons Patrick learned from scaling Stripe from two employees (he and his brother) to nearly 1,000 today</li> <li>How he evaluates the upsides and potential dangers of speculative positions within the company</li> <li>How his Irish upbringing influenced his ability to argue and disagree without taking offense (and how we can all be a little more “Irish”)</li> <li>The power of finding the right peer group in your social and professional circles and how impactful and influential it can be in determining where you end up.</li> <li>The 4 ways Patrick has modified his decision making process over the last 5 years and how it’s helped him develop as a person and as a business leader (this part alone is worth the listen)</li> <li>Patrick’s unique approach to books and how he chooses what he’s going to spend his time reading</li> </ul> ...life in Silicon Valley, Baumol’s cost disease, and so, so much more. Patrick truly is one of the warmest, humblest and down to earth people I’ve had the pleasure to speak with and I thoroughly enjoyed our conversation together. I hope you will too! GO PREMIUM: Support the podcast, get ad-free episodes, transcripts, and so much more: https://fs.blog/knowledge-project-premium/

#32 Patrick Collison: Earning Your Stripes

If you want your company to truly scale, you first have to do things that don't scale. Handcraft the core experience. Get your hands dirty. Serve your customers one-by-one. And don't stop until you know exactly what they want. That's what Brian Chesky did. As CEO of Airbnb, Brian’s early work was more akin to a traveling salesman. He takes us back to his lean years – when he went door-to-door, meeting Airbnb hosts in person – and shares the imaginative route to crafting what he calls an "11-star experience.”Read Paul Graham: "In order to scale, you have to do things that don't scale."Read a transcript of this interview at: https://mastersofscale.com/brian-chesky-handcrafted/Subscribe to the Masters of Scale weekly newsletter at http://eepurl.com/dlirtX

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If you want your company to truly scale, you first have to do things that don't scale. Handcraft the core experience. Get your hands dirty. Serve your customers one-by-one. And don't stop until you know exactly what they want. That's what Brian Chesky did. As CEO of Airbnb, Brian’s early work was more akin to a traveling salesman. He takes us back to his lean years – when he went door-to-door, meeting Airbnb hosts in person – and shares the imaginative route to crafting what he calls an "11-star experience.”Read Paul Graham: "In order to scale, you have to do <a href="http://paulgraham.com/ds.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">things that don't scale</a>."Read a transcript of this interview at: <a href="https://mastersofscale.com/brian-chesky-handcrafted/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://mastersofscale.com/brian-chesky-handcrafted/</a>Subscribe to the Masters of Scale weekly newsletter at <a href="http://eepurl.com/dlirtX" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://eepurl.com/dlirtX</a>

1. Airbnb's Brian Chesky in Handcrafted

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"We are a lot harder to read than we think" At work, studies show that others have a better perceptions of our strengths and weaknesses than we do. I've come to believe that I must validate how others view me, I cannot assume my understanding is correct without validation. This episode is fascinating, learn how to have a more accurate view of how others see you.

"The short answer is: people don't see us the way we see ourselves."

Heidi Grant Halvorson, author of "No One Understands You and What to Do About It," explains the science of perception.

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Understand How People See You

"Agility = the opposite of rigidity". "The ability to change your mind is a superpower." When someone gives you feedback, try not to think 'is this true or not?' Try to think 'what can I learn from this?' Sometimes you learn you don't agree but you have a good reason why. "The good learn from everyone and everything. The average from themselves. The stupid already know everything." Socrates.

"Enrollment agility = what to do with our thoughts and emotions internally that

Susan David, author of "Emotional Agility" and psychologist at Harvard Medical School, on learning to unhook from strong feelings.

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