Leigh Cowart

Hurts So Good author Leigh Cowart joined me for a conversation about pervertibles, aka making kink tools out of what you've got on hand! We also talked about the ever-moving goal posts of masochism and how to make your journey sustainable, joyful, and ever-more perverse. Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only recorded convo with Mr. Dune.  Get Leigh's book here! Follow Leigh anywhere by searching @voraciousbrain To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Hurts So Good author Leigh Cowart joined me for a conversation about pervertibles, aka making kink tools out of what you've got on hand! We also talked about the ever-moving goal posts of masochism and how to make your journey sustainable, joyful, and ever-more perverse. <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> at $11/month to get the complete interview <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-leigh-87513266" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-my-dom-77520299" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">only recorded convo</a> with Mr. Dune.  Get Leigh's book <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/14567/9781541798045" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>! Follow Leigh anywhere by searching @voraciousbrain To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Moving The Masochistic Goal Posts with Leigh Cowart

A new kinkster asks Lina about the “empty headed feeling” that follows her scenes, and Lina explains how subby headspace can be anti-capitalist… and good for you! Hurts So Good by Leigh Cowart | Conquer Me by Kacie Cunningham | Do Nothing by Celeste Headlee  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

A new kinkster asks Lina about the “empty headed feeling” that follows her scenes, and Lina explains how subby headspace can be anti-capitalist… and good for you! <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/14567/9781541798038" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hurts So Good by Leigh Cowart</a> | <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/14567/9781890159764" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Conquer Me by Kacie Cunningham</a> | <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/14567/9781984824752" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Do Nothing by Celeste Headlee</a> To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Smooth Brain As Resistance

Have you noticed online is just getting worse and worse? This week, kink celebrity and YouTuber Evie Lupine joins me to talk about how kinky people have seen this coming for miles, and what internet censorship means for newbies searching for their identities in the online kink world. Get the full version of this episode on Patreon or  Substack. Get more info about the upcoming Deep Dive with Leigh Cowart on 8/2 at 5 PT here.   Leigh previously visited us to discuss their book Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain On Purpose. Get my first interview with Leigh here. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Have you noticed online is just getting worse and worse? This week, kink celebrity and YouTuber <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/evielupine" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Evie Lupine</a> joins me to talk about how kinky people have seen this coming for miles, and what internet censorship means for newbies searching for their identities in the online kink world. Get the full version of this episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-kink-86660986" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> or <a href="https://askasub.substack.com/p/985d637d-0671-4aeb-a63a-1047038daaa5" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Substack</a>. Get more info about the upcoming Deep Dive with Leigh Cowart on 8/2 at 5 PT <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/8-2-deep-dive-86756599" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>.   Leigh previously visited us to discuss their book <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/14567/9781541798038" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain On Purpose</a>. Get my first interview with Leigh <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/69147471" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Internet Censorship with Evie Lupine

Sometimes parting is just too much sorrow! This week Lina equips a listener with a strategy for lessening the blow of transitioning back into vanilla life without your Dom, and ask the question… maybe it’s love? Get my first interview with Leigh:  teaser |  full version To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Sometimes parting is just too much sorrow! This week Lina equips a listener with a strategy for lessening the blow of transitioning back into vanilla life without your Dom, and ask the question… maybe it’s love? Get my first interview with Leigh: <a href="https://askasub.substack.com/p/deep-dive-leigh-cowart-wrote-the-d73#details" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> teaser</a> | <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-all-of-69147471?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> full version</a> To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

The Drop-Proof D/s Goodbye

Lina interviews a listener who got in touch to share the story of her custody battle with her sex-negative ex-husband, and the unexpected win that arrived at the end of her story. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! You’ll also gain access to our Deep Dive with Evie Lupine on 7/20! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Lina interviews a listener who got in touch to share the story of her custody battle with her sex-negative ex-husband, and the unexpected win that arrived at the end of her story. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month! You’ll also gain access to our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/7-20-deep-dive-85694846" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Deep Dive with Evie Lupine on 7/20</a>! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Kinky Divorced Moms Deserve A Win

A sub calls in wondering how to maintain a 24/7 spark when sometimes all you wanna do is curl up on the couch and cuddle. Spoiler alert: kink and the couch may not be as at odds with each other as we think. For more 24/7 info check out my online course Conscious Kink that will walk you through building a dynamic of your very own! Don’t miss our Deep Dive with Evie Lupine on 7/20! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go here for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

A sub calls in wondering how to maintain a 24/7 spark when sometimes all you wanna do is curl up on the couch and cuddle. Spoiler alert: kink and the couch may not be as at odds with each other as we think. For more 24/7 info check out my online course <a href="http://www.askasub.com/conscious-kink" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Conscious Kink</a> that will walk you through building a dynamic of your very own! Don’t miss our <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/7-20-deep-dive-85694846" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Deep Dive with Evie Lupine on 7/20</a>! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Kinky Cohabitation

Trying to keep your kink gendy-neutch? Means of address can go a long way in creating that euphoric safe space for you. This week we’re bringing you some Pride aftercare in the form of means of address inspiration. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go here for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Trying to keep your kink gendy-neutch? Means of address can go a long way in creating that euphoric safe space for you. This week we’re bringing you some Pride aftercare in the form of means of address inspiration. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Gender Neutral Means Of Address

Lina comforts a listener who’s seeking insight into the parallels between bi+ and non-monogamous identities. Lina also takes a second to address the difference between “unicorn hunters” and bi+ people looking to have a nice time. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Lina comforts a listener who’s seeking insight into the parallels between bi+ and non-monogamous identities. Lina also takes a second to address the difference between “unicorn hunters” and bi+ people looking to have a nice time. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Don’t Fear The Fluidity

Zachary Zane

Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto stopped by to talk about bisexual sluttiness, rejecting bi assimilationism, and his hairy butthole. We had a ton of fun breaking down bi stereotypes and bringing some bi chaos to pride month. Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Zachary Zane, author of <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/14567/9781419764714" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto</a> stopped by to talk about bisexual sluttiness, rejecting bi assimilationism, and his hairy butthole. We had a ton of fun breaking down bi stereotypes and bringing some bi chaos to pride month. <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> at $11/month to get the complete interview <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/radical-bisexual-84477646" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-my-dom-77520299" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">only public recorded convo</a> with Mr. Dune.  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Radical Bisexual Permission with Zachary Zane

Sometimes it can be hard for us bi girls to name what we want and go after it, and this week Lina is unpacking all the varying forces that go into this common quandary.  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Subscribe to the subby substack here. Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Sometimes it can be hard for us bi girls to name what we want and go after it, and this week Lina is unpacking all the varying forces that go into this common quandary.  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Bi Girl Desire

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

A bi-for-bi open marriage, crossdressing, and a series of passionate artistic love affairs — no, it’s not 2023, it’s 1923! On this month’s pride minisode I’m bringing you the story of bisexual it girl Vita Sackville-West, and the letters that made her a queer icon. The Fabulous Forgotten Life Of Vita Sackville-West Our next Deep Dive with bisexual author Zachary Zane is on 6/7 at 5 pacific. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go here for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

A bi-for-bi open marriage, crossdressing, and a series of passionate artistic love affairs — no, it’s not 2023, it’s 1923! On this month’s pride minisode I’m bringing you the story of bisexual it girl Vita Sackville-West, and the letters that made her a queer icon. <a href="https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2020/03/31/the-fabulous-forgotten-life-of-vita-sackville-west/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">The Fabulous Forgotten Life Of Vita Sackville-West</a> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/june-deep-dive-83383476" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Our next Deep Dive with bisexual author Zachary Zane</a> is on 6/7 at 5 pacific. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month! Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Bisexual It Girl Vita Sackville-West

A Dom calls in wondering how to navigate his sub’s dynamic with another Dom, and Lina talks about primary partner veto, as well as the ins and outs of navigating side-by-side dynamics. (Our deepest apologies for the title of this episode, we couldn’t help ourselves) To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

A Dom calls in wondering how to navigate his sub’s dynamic with another Dom, and Lina talks about primary partner veto, as well as the ins and outs of navigating side-by-side dynamics. (Our deepest apologies for the title of this episode, we couldn’t help ourselves) To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

2 Doms 1 Sub

Hear all about the varied kink lives of our ask a sub community! From single folks to people married with kids, kink is a living, breathing practice that meets us where we are and infuses our lives with choice, meaning, and joy.  Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview  here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.  Get our next Deep Dive with Zachary Zane on 6/7 at 5 pacific.  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Hear all about the varied kink lives of our ask a sub community! From single folks to people married with kids, kink is a living, breathing practice that meets us where we are and infuses our lives with choice, meaning, and joy.  <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> at $11/month to get the complete interview <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-all-us-83222305?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a>, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-my-dom-77520299" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">only public recorded convo</a> with Mr. Dune.  Get our next Deep Dive with Zachary Zane on 6/7 at 5 pacific.  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

All About Us with the Ask A Sub Community

This week we’re naming and confronting the pessimism that makes us think all potential sex partners are trash, then discussing what good, real Doms are actually like! They’re out there! Upcoming Deep Dive: Real Stories From The Kink World on 5/17 at 5 pacific Mindful Masculinity Deep Dive The Bisexual Ghost |  Wife Swapping with Christopher Walken To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

This week we’re naming and confronting the pessimism that makes us think all potential sex partners are trash, then discussing what good, real Doms are actually like! They’re out there! <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-coming-82708887" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Upcoming Deep Dive: Real Stories From The Kink World on 5/17 at 5 pacific</a> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-72468088" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Mindful Masculinity Deep Dive</a> <a href="https://askasub.substack.com/p/the-bisexual-ghost" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Bisexual Ghost</a> | <a href="https://askasub.substack.com/p/wife-swapping-with-christopher-walken" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Wife Swapping with Christopher Walken</a> To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Good Doms Are Out There

Today we’re reclaiming our erotic power and studying a holy trinity of queer feminist writers: Adrienne Rich, Audre Lorde, and Gloria Anzaldúa.  Join our free &amp; public community discussion here. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Read The Bisexual Ghost. Get instructions for submitting YOUR STORY to our community-sourced May Deep Dive here. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Today we’re reclaiming our erotic power and studying a holy trinity of queer feminist writers: Adrienne Rich, Audre Lorde, and Gloria Anzaldúa.  Join our free &amp; public community discussion <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Read <a href="https://askasub.substack.com/p/the-bisexual-ghost" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Bisexual Ghost</a>. Get instructions for submitting YOUR STORY to our community-sourced May Deep Dive <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/tell-me-about-81370166" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

The Sexual Is Political

A new sub wants to know how to manage jealousy when you're monogamous and your partner isn't. Aka, where is your place in the kink community if not at the so-called "cool kid's table?" Well, it's right here next to me. Get instructions for submitting YOUR STORY to our community-sourced May Deep Dive here. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

A new sub wants to know how to manage jealousy when you're monogamous and your partner isn't. Aka, where is your place in the kink community if not at the so-called "cool kid's table?" Well, it's right here next to me. Get instructions for submitting YOUR STORY to our community-sourced May Deep Dive <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/tell-me-about-81370166" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

The Polyamory Cool Kids Table

Luna Matatas

Join me and Luna Matatas for a discussion all about cultivating body confidence in a messed up world!  Get the rest of my interview with Luna  here.  Find Luna online here. Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Join me and Luna Matatas for a discussion all about cultivating body confidence in a messed up world!  Get the rest of my interview with Luna <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-making-81663489?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a>.  Find Luna online <a href="https://lunamatatas.com/en-us" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> at $11/month to get the complete interview <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-safe-80115990" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-my-dom-77520299" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">only public recorded convo</a> with Mr. Dune.  To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

Body Love & Healing Your Gaze with Luna Matatas

A sub wants to know how to communicate their changing needs in a longterm relationship, and Lina equips them with proactive, active, and reactive tools for sharing feedback and keeping the D/s container safe (but also spicy). To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Get my Conscious Kink course here. Learn how to submit your story for the next Deep Dive here. Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

A sub wants to know how to communicate their changing needs in a longterm relationship, and Lina equips them with proactive, active, and reactive tools for sharing feedback and keeping the D/s container safe (but also spicy). To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Get my <a href="http://www.askasub.com/conscious-kink" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Conscious Kink course here</a>. Learn how to submit your story for the next Deep Dive <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/tell-me-about-81370166" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. Miss the Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

We Are Always Evolving (And So Are Our Needs)

A tour through the literary origins of masochism, as well as some modern mythbusting for the masochistically inclined. Get my full interview with Leigh Cowart, author of Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain On Purpose, here. Join our Deep Dive interview with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink on 4/11 at 5 pacific / 8 eastern. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Instagram Friday Q&amp;As? They live on here &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

A tour through the literary origins of masochism, as well as some modern mythbusting for the masochistically inclined. <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/deep-dive-all-of-69147471" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Get my full interview with Leigh Cowart, author of Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain On Purpose, here</a>. <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/luna-matatas-on-80732945" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join our Deep Dive interview</a> with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink on 4/11 at 5 pacific / 8 eastern. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon</a> starting at $5/month!  Miss the Instagram Friday Q&amp;As? They live on <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> &amp; are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to <a href="mailto:podcast@askasub.com">podcast@askasub.com</a> Go <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for information on how to record a voice memo   <a href="http://askasub.substack.com%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Subscribe to the subby substack</a> <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

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Today we’re tackling the question of how to share kink resources with vanilla people you encounter in your dating travels, strategies for protecting your energy as you do so, and how to hold out hope that you're going to convert seemingly vanilla folks into new kinksters. How To Turn Your Vanilla Partner Into Your Dom | My free writing on kink| Book recs | Thich Nhat Hanh in context Join our Deep Dive interview with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink To support the pod and engage in our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Free &amp; Public Friday Q&amp;As here Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com How To Record A Voice Memo Subscribe to the subby substack &amp; read  More on my breakup with Instagram Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

Today we’re tackling the question of how to share kink resources with vanilla people you encounter in your dating travels, strategies for protecting your energy as you do so, and how to hold out hope that you're going to convert seemingly vanilla folks into new kinksters. <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/advice-turning-53423563" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">How To Turn Your Vanilla Partner Into Your Dom</a> | <a href="https://www.askasub.com/publications" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">My free writing on kink</a>| <a href="https://bookshop.org/shop/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Book recs</a> | <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/14567/9781564557988" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Thich Nhat Hanh in context</a> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/posts/luna-matatas-on-80732945" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Join our Deep Dive interview</a> with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink To support the pod and engage in our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, <a href="http://www.patreon.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Join Patreon starting at $5/month</a>!  <a href="https://discord.gg/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Free &amp; Public Friday Q&amp;As here</a> Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com <a href="http://www.askasub.com/podcast" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">How To Record A Voice Memo</a> Subscribe to the <a href="https://askasub.substack.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">subby substack</a> &amp; read <a href="https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> More on my breakup with Instagram</a> <a href="http://www.twitter.com/askasub" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@Lina.Dune</a> | <a href="http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@askasub2.0</a> CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by <a href="https://www.kayleighdenner.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Kayleigh Denner</a> Music by <a href="http://danmolad.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Dan Molad</a>

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