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Terrible Dudes of OkCupid

We're women in our thirties. We live in Ohio. We're on OkCupid. And we're sharing all that emotional labor we spend unpacking the toxic masculinity in all those profiles with you, dear listener!

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In the final episode of Season 1, Levi & Jeanne go through some profiles that have been waiting in their 'maybe'* folder (*as in 'maybe for the podcast', not 'maybe to date') for some months now: there's the 'horny guy - not here to make friends and text forever,' the dogwhistling racist dude, Patrick - who's very put upon and pretty fucked up, and even a potential Dog match for Ginger!Mock Ad Music - Nathaniel Wyvern- Distant Stars- The Free Music ArchiveTheme song - Rondo alla Turca - W.A. Mozart, performed by Jeanne Write to us! Terribledudesofokcupid@gmail.comAnd follow us on Instagram! @terribledudesofokcupidWe're still scared of Twitter but it might come to that one day.


2 Sep 2019

Rank #1

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The Omega Female

The Bar of Terribleness was set EXTREMELY HIGH in episode 3 with FullyAlive, and, dear listener, you might have - reasonably - thought that he'd set and un-toppable standard. But that might just be because you haven't heard from KanIDrive yet... We think he's certainly a contender, but you'll have to make up your own mind...

1hr 24mins

23 Jul 2019

Rank #2

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"Welcome to the Drama-Free Zone."

"I found the worst person on OkCupid," Levi texted Jeanne last week. Could it be true? Well, yes. Yes it was. And man, is his type of toxic masculinity WORDY. Judge for yourself, dear listener, in this special episode in which we go through one single profile.Plus: Paige shares stories from Seattle, and Jeanne ponders on her worst message of the week.

1hr 3mins

23 Jun 2019

Rank #3

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In our second episode, Michael needs you to choose between your tits and your brain. Ryan wants you to paddle. Chris proposes a contractual arrangement. Bob mansplains colorblindness.TW/CW- rape culture discourse at 8:00/8:30, mention of me too movement/rape at 24:30-26:00.Probably not kid-friendly unless you're an extremely forward-thinking parent.


10 Jun 2019

Rank #4

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Episode 1: : "Grow up and get over it, buttercup."

In this first episode, Levi and Jeanne discuss Jeff's opening rant about no-sense-of-humor women who JUST DON'T GET HIS MEME, a very eclectic combination of unyielding political beliefs, and a list of unconditional demands regarding the SINGLE EXACT VALID WAY to perform femininity. Levi reads out the worst message she's received this week, and we imagine how it all could lead to a moving wedding toast.Email us at terribledudesofokcupid@gmail.com with your best of the worst of toxic masculinity from your online dating adventures!


29 May 2019

Rank #5