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Torrid Souls

We are Tori and Soul, a passionately married same-sex female bisexual couple. We've been together for over a decade yet just recently married. Join us as we explore the sexually social and adventurous swinging lifestyle as lovers, and navigate it as parents as well. This podcast is for couples who are deeply in love with each other and want to explore how ethical non-monogamy can enhance their relationship. Regardless of whether you're curiously considering it or completely comfortable, listen in and enjoy how what we do, whether mind-blowing or minor mishap, has still served us well, made us better people, and a couple that's even better together. Hey! It's either a good time or it's a good story. And if done just right, it's both! Join us and be inspired to open up even more to your own torrid soul.

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Bi Is The New Black - TS16

Here it is!... the everything you didn't know you wanted to know about being bisexual in the lifestyle. Find out what it's really like from the perspective of a bi guy, a bi gal and as a bi couple. Join us for our first-ever interview as we meet up with the intelligent and eloquent Jamal, from The Everything Sexy Show and The 2nd Cuming Show. Jamal is a rarity - an openly bisexual man in the lifestyle. He talks with us about what's so amazing about being a bi guy, as well as his challenges. We talk DP, DVP, consent, and what else to do when you can't get it up. Also, find out just what a bi gal would possibly have as a fantasy. Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls     Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin

1hr 36mins

19 Aug 2019

Rank #1

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VIN2020 Tell Me What You Want. What You Really, Really Want - TS21

Our listeners already know that we are pretty clear about finding (and getting) what we want in the lifestyle so join us for this episode, recorded in front of a live audience at Valentine's in Niagara. Have even better sex. Get what you really, really want. Yes!.. Yes!.. Yes! Come and get it - the answer is in this episode. Getting what you want is based on your wiring, and in this episode you'll not only discover what your pattern is (with a quick and easy quiz), you'll also learn how to feed that pattern (and your partner's too).  Wait! there's more.  Good news... once you know what you want, you can get it!  Check us out this VIN2020 episode and learn how to get what you really, really want.  Come get yourself some muy sexy results.   Resources from this episode: Take the online Erotic Blueprint Quiz: TorridSouls.com/blueprint Meet our Cannabis Sensuality Coach, Carli-Jo and sign up for her free mini-course about how to thrive in isolation with your partner: TorridSouls.com/coach   Our new segment is called Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, and this episode features a book called "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking"  We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   This episode is a recording we did at Valentine's in Niagara 2020.  2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida.  This event, that was supposed to happen already, has been postponed due to COVID.  It has been rescheduled for Oct 9-12, 2020.  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation?  Consider using our links.  It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services TorridSouls.com/recommend

1hr 10mins

25 May 2020

Rank #2

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Lead Us To Temptation - TS20

It's our 1st anniversary episode. The 1st anniversary of our podcast, and our 1st wedding anniversary too!  In this episode we're at Temptation Cancun Resort: the one-of-a-kind playground for grown-ups - one of our favourite places to play.  We're booked into the resort for 10 nights, and we spend 3, of the last 4 nights, with the same guy! It's a first for us.  Let's call it a spontaneous repeat-worthy experience.  Yes, he was that good!  So it's the morning after session #3.  We're fuck-drunk and still in bed!  A perfect time to record... right?... Yes!  So we did. This is a feel-good-filled-with-an-insanely-sexy-amount-of-fun episode. Listen in as we tell you all about our spicy and adventurous Temptation Experience!   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Valentine's will be here before you know it, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 7-9, 2019  TorridSouls.com/vin  Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya!   Like Podcasters?  Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza.  There are a whole bunch of us getting together with our fabulous listeners in Miami May 15-18, 2020 to take over a hotel and as Sapphic Swingers like to say "to Fuck Shit Up"  TorridSouls.com/PCAP    Register for Naughty in N'awlins July 8-12, 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin   Swim the day (who are we kidding -- float and drink) and dance the night away with us at Temptation Cancun Oct 9-19, 2019  TorridSouls.com/temptation   Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss   Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon   or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services TorridSouls.com/recommend

59mins

23 Dec 2019

Rank #3

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Cougars & Cubs: Sexually Confident Women Who F*** Younger Men - TS14

Some consider "cougar" a derogatory term.  It's ageist. It's sexist and there's just something slightly tacky about it that many women don't want that label attached to them. Typically, a cougar is defined as an older woman who is primarily attracted to, and may have a sexual relationship with, significantly younger men. In general, the woman is 35 years or older, the man is more than eight years her junior. Cougars were most often described as "desperate", "aggressive" and/or "predators". Well all this uneasiness is shifting. Some younger men get a sexual high from a hottie who is independent, experienced, sexually confident, knows herself and what she likes. Some women are interested in the excitement, energy and enthusiasm of a younger guy who is playful and adventurous and can go all night long.  In this episode we challenge ourselves (and the social norms about age and sexuality) as we embrace the new empowered flavour of this term. And since we do play with younger men, we decided to try something new - attending an organized event that specifically pays tribute to the beauty and sex appeal of women, and the younger men who enjoy this dynamic.  Join us as we join in the Cougars & Cubs Event, a special edition of Oasis Agualounge's under 35 Sass After Class themed Monday nights.   WARNING: Avoid operating machinery while listening to this episode. There is a potential safety hazard due to excessive laughter.   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

43mins

7 Jul 2019

Rank #4

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Batman and Some Sexy Firsts at O Zone - TS18

Toronto, with its 5 lifestyle clubs in the area, is the sex club capital of North America.  In this episode we chose The O Zone as the place to be. The perfect place to go to dance the night away or be sexy (or both). On this night we explore a few "firsts".  It was our debut of taking a date to a club - checking in as a trio - and tune in for a few other more intimate, sexy firsts.   We take you for a tour through our favourite Toronto area nightclub-style lifestyle club, and share our adventures with our repeat-worthy playfriend, Batman! Buckle up, as we share more sexy details than you have normally found in our episodes.  Our discussion that stems from this experience is all about asking for what you want ... 'cause, you just might get it!   To learn more about each club in Toronto, check out the blog post by our very good friends at The Monogamish Marriage   Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls     Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.   Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin

47mins

8 Nov 2019

Rank #5

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It's Raining Men, Hallelujah! - TS3

Just to recap about us, we recently got married, and during the many months of wedding prep we were so exhausted, and with not a lot of time to be sexy. We flippantly said, that once we could, we would go on a RAMPAGE! Well truer words have never been spoken. We arrived a week early for Naughty in N'awlins and had the, ummm, PLEASURE of sharing the French Quarter and the infamous Bourbon Street with the men of the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity. Who knew that our travels would have fortuitously rained down 25,000 beautiful, fun and educated men for us, for the week before NIN. Hallelujah! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

50mins

11 Dec 2018

Rank #6

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A Hard Man is Good to Find - TS9

What's next in the adventures of Tori and Soul? Another booty call attempt, that's what! In our last episode, we had our first-ever booty call and it was a success (albeit with someone we already know). Well, in this episode, since we have another (rare) completely free day to ourselves, and without any "repeat-worthy" play friends available, we go one step further. This time we put out a request on our local LS website (Cafe Desire). Listen in as we open the responses, and react to what we find when people, who are completely new to us, respond thinking they are perfect to hook-up with. Some responses make us laugh out loud. Hint: Just having a penis is NOT enough. Then, at the end of this episode, Tori loses all rationale and discretion when Soul "brings" a hottie into the car with them. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls Mentioned in this episode: Lifestyle Dating Sites SDC, SLS, Kasidie, Cafe Desire, Nerds Who Swing podcast. See our Show Notes Page for links to all resources and music mentioned in this podcast. TorridSouls.com/9

46mins

20 Feb 2019

Rank #7

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2018's Hottest Adventures. Naughty19 Here We Come! - TS6

HAPPY NEW YEAR! Join us as we recap our most favourite sexy times of 2018 and tell you all about the naughtiness that we'll be up to in 2019. In this episode we turn on the party lights, have a few drinks (and probably way too many alcohol-soaked cherries) and include some of our hottest pre Torrid Souls adventures. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

55mins

8 Jan 2019

Rank #8

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Booty Call Therapy - TS8

More in-the-moment epiphanies and ah-ha moments. In this episode, it's, literally, the morning after our first-ever booty call! We are still in bed and the pillow talk gets cerebral. And once again, we get pleasantly surprised by what gems we discover about ourselves, our brains, our programming, the LGBT community and a whole bunch of other crazy profound shit. Yes, it's another "you-just-gotta-listen" kind of episode. Soul decides to try being a voyeur and then after playfully pinning their mighty playfriend down, she gets called "aggressive". Uh oh!... Or is it an Oh, yeah? Find out how it turns out! Just when we think we're all that, as a couple, we get to a whole new kind of leveling-up. Join us and discover your own torrid soul. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

59mins

10 Feb 2019

Rank #9

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Losing All Discretion - TS17

Your discovery of the lifestyle likely happened at the intersection of someone in the relationship being curious enough, and brave enough to bring up the topic of exploring sexuality in a new way. They now feel comfortable enough to share their desires. The tricky part is that as individuals, we will also have a list of desires that are as unique as we are. And, if the adage, "opposites attract", is true in your relationships, how easily does this further complicate things? You love your partner, so how do you navigate their interests when what they want may not be of interest to you? How do you support your partner with something that is on the top of their list when it isn't even on your list? In this episode Tori & Soul are having another CarTalk. This time it's about promiscuity and drinking and fantasies, and having your partner support it all. Here goes another emotional discussion, when one person is, clearly, more highly charged, and the other is more rational. We wanted to share this discussion so that others could hear a demonstration of how partners can support one another, in their lifestyle journey, as they open up and uncovering what truly pleases them. Listen and discover how to embrace the understanding that, "what one person does, really has nothing to do the the other person" - which is the opposite of what many people are taught to believe about relationships. Supporting your partner (while having established agreements about behaviours in place) is more likely to bring you closer to each other, rather than weakening your connection - the opposite to what people often fear. Come discover your own torrid soul with us.  We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments.  Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls    Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us!  TorridSouls.com/nin

39mins

15 Sep 2019

Rank #10