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Get What You Want with Shirley

We all want something. What is it that you want? How do you get it?Relationship expert, Shirley Baldwin Owens, brings her own expertise as well as the expertise of her amazing guests, to help you figure out what is it you want, and most importantly, how to get it! If you are wanting more out of yourself, your relationships, or your life, listen as they share their inspirational stories, insights, and advice on how you can create whatever it is that you want!

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004: Where you are is perfect with Justin Schenk

“It doesn't matter where we are today. What matters is the decisions we make right now to make a better tomorrow.” –Justin Schenk We often get caught up in others successes and end up forgetting who we are and what we set out to become. Sometimes we think that because others are successful at being themselves, we should mimic that. True success comes from us being our best selves. Today’s episode is the story of a man whose definition of success may not be what you have in mind but certainly, what you want to have. Justin and Shirley talk about how important failure and being YOU, is to building success. It’s a conversation you won’t soon forget!   Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights: 01:59 Something Fun to Do Turns Into A Big Journey 09:11 Don’t Apologize For Who You Are 13:34 You Already Have It, You Just Don’t Realize It 20:56 Self-Serving and Unconditional Giving 26:00 3 Success Creators 31:49 The Why’s in a Positive Light 35:04 How to Truly Impact Other People 36:01 You Are Where You’re Supposed to Be

38mins

19 Nov 2019

Rank #1

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003: Reflection- Make Today The Day to Change Your Life - re convo with Bryan Falchuk

“We can create whatever it is that we want. And one way that we can do it is to stop thinking about what it is we don't want and start thinking about what it is we want.” –Shirley Baldwin Owens We can create the life we want, but it’s going to be hard, right? Not necessarily. Last time, we heard how Bryan Falchuk was able to turn his life around, not with a big leap all at once, but with small steps each day. Taking one step today, will help you to start moving towards getting what you want. Stop thinking about what it is you don't want and start thinking about what it is you do want. There’s a big difference between these - each one is headed in the opposite direction. Change your perspective and you change your reality!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights:  00:46 Which Mindset will you choose?  01:31 How to be a Creator of What You Want 02:07 Listen to Your Thoughts

3mins

19 Nov 2019

Rank #2

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005: Reflection - Where you are is perfect - re convo with Justin Schenck

“Wherever you are right now is perfect. There's nothing wrong with it. It's perfect.” –Shirley Owens Often, when we look back, we look back with regrets. That’s what makes the idea of a time machine so appealing to us. We want to change the past and make things right. What if we could realize that where we’ve been and where we are, is perfect?  Our past is there for a purpose…to create our future.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights: 00:48 Would You Change the Past? 01:37 What Made You Who You Are 02:10 You Are in the Perfect Place

3mins

19 Nov 2019

Rank #3

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014: Live Your Life From A Place of Freedom and Authority with Michael Neeley

“It's really important for us to look at what it is that we do believe and then work at dismantling those so that we free ourselves up to accomplish what we really want to.” -Michael Neeley Shirley and Michael go deep in this conversation about removing mental blocks, being awake, creating a community, and ultimately saving humanity. This episode is not for the weak. It’s for those who are ready to step into their authority and actually make a difference in their own lives and in the world. Don’t miss this!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website   Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights: 01:18 The Medieval Knight Gives Up the Sword Fight  04:21 Why People Don’t Find the Answers 08:00 How to Create What You Want  NOW 18:19 Turn-off the Autopilot 27:52 Levels of Relationships  30:51 The HIVE 34:26 How Important Your Authority Is  39:25 Okay With Being Bored 

43mins

24 Dec 2019

Rank #4

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032: Get What You Want by Preventing Your Bad Moments From Turning Into Bad Days with Michael O’Brien

“With more intentionality, with more being, it can be better than just good enough.” - Michael O’Brien Do you ever feel that everything seems to be going wrong? It’s starts with one bad moment and then more bad moments until you’ve had an entire bad day? Some call it getting up on the wrong side of the bed. Did you know that you have the power to have it stop at the one bad moment? Shirley and Michael O’Brien share how we can stop bad moments from turning into bad days. Tune in and learn how you can create what you want out of your bad moments.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights: 03:17 Turning Something Horrific to Something Amazing 09:53 How to Shift Your Mindset 18:52 Separation Between The Doing And The Being 26:50 As A Peloton Coach 33:19 Give Time For Yourself

36mins

25 Feb 2020

Rank #5

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030: Get What You Want By Making Conscious Choices with Mary Shores

“It's the choices that we're making in those thinnest moments of life that are actually building our reality around us.”   -Mary Shores Creating what you want isn’t a fairytale where everything falls into place with the wave of a magic wand. Shirley and Mary chat about how to create your reality by making choices that propel you towards your goal, not away from it. Mary’s book, Conscious Communications contains pragmatic, step by step, actions to empower yourself to achieve the next level and in this episode, she gives us a glimpse of some of its chapters. Mary discusses the OODA loop in decision-making, the 4 alienations by Karl Marx and how to bridge these gaps, the 80-20 rule, and more, each with an insightful connection to making conscious choices. Shirley and Mary discuss the real meaning of self-care as something beyond a spa day and also how to be truly empowered even when life flips you upside down. A powerful blueprint for getting what you want is laid out in today’s episode. This conversation is something you don’t want to miss! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:51 Get What You Want Little by Little 09:26 The Psychology of Debt 12:02 4 Alienations 17:00 The Negative Side of the Positive Culture  18:38 Follow the OODA Loop in Decision-Making 24:39 Close the Gap of Alienation 32:59 Know Your Truth 38:06 See The In-Betweens 

46mins

18 Feb 2020

Rank #6

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031: Reflection- Get What You Want By Making Conscious Choices - re convo with Mary Shores

“Each choice that we make either build us up or pull us down.”-Shirley Owens Each choice we make, leads us to a series of more choices. When we intentionally move along in life making choices that propel us towards the result we want, we are sure to get it. But there are so many distractions in our daily life that hold us back. How do we get rid of those distractions and continue to move towards what we want? It’s just a choice! Listen to this episode to see how being aware can help you create whatever it is you want!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights:  00:50 Awareness of Your Choices is Your Key to Freedom. 02:08 Are You Dragged by Distractions 03:08 Make Conscious Choices 

4mins

20 Feb 2020

Rank #7

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024: Get What You Want By Being 100% Committed with Jamie Damsker

“All it takes to be in action around a commitment is just the decision to do so.”-Jamie Damsker Commitment. What is it? What does it mean to be fully committed? This is just one piece of this mind blowing episode. Jamie Damsker is an exquisite guest. He and Shirley will have your mind creating all kinds of possibilities, not only for this new year, but for each and every day moving forward. Don’t miss this one! Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  02:35  Thoughts For The New Year 10:22 A Powerful Creator and Leader 13:13 What It Really Means To Be 100% Committed 23:46 What Makes Commitment Hard and How To Make It Easy 29:05 Thought-Creating Machines 32:04 Why Don’t Most People Get What They Want?  35:11 Forward Thinking 40:25 No Regrets

47mins

28 Jan 2020

Rank #8

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016: What is #MyPart? with Alison Donaghey

“Just the simple act of accepting responsibility boosts your worthiness.” -Alison Donaghey Everything that happens to us, good or bad, we had a part in creating. This may be a harsh reality for some, and for others, it may give them power. Shirley invites Alison Donaghey to dig deeper into victim mentality and how to be free from it. How can you let go and take responsibility? How long do you need to hold an emotion for it to become part of your story? Where does your story even come from? How can you become the co-creator in your life? Tune in to find out!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website   Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights: 01:43 Being Powerful in what you do 04:07 Victimization 09:06 How Adults Become Co-Creators 17:18 Think Opposite 23:11 Your Part in Getting What You Want 30:21 Where Do Your Beliefs Come From? 34:04 4-7 Seconds: A Duration to Remember

38mins

31 Dec 2019

Rank #9

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015: Reflection- Slow down and allow yourself to be “bored” - re convo with Michael Neeley

“the being part of us is what… is lost when we're doing all of the ‘doing’  part.” -Shirley Owens  Oftentimes, we think that by sitting idly by and doing nothing we are not being productive. We feel that we’re losing precious opportunities, ventures, resources, and time. However, even more precious than these is losing our beingness. Hectic schedules and busy days turn us on autopilot. Shirley’s reflection on her convo with Michael Neeley highlights the importance and the need for humans to slow down, ‘be bored’,  and really connect with themselves, even just for a moment. Join in and  discover the amazing power of boredom.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights:  00:29 Boredom is a Buddy 01:30 The Nonstop Going-Doing Routine of Humans  02:20 Just Sit in Silence 03:20 Get a Mindset Shift on Boredom 04:28 Set a Time to be ‘Bored’

9mins

26 Dec 2019

Rank #10

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008: Claim Yourself and your life with Julie Moret

 “That's where the juice is in this life- ...when we claim ourselves.” -Julie Moret How do you even know what you want, when the world around you is constantly trying to convince you of what it is? It’s not until you tap into your true self and your passion and purpose, that you find what it is you really want. Shirley and Julies conversation gives insight and enlightenment on how to claim your life and reach the highest stage of spiritual growth. The foundation of life should be as solid as your soul, not as fragile as others’ opinions. Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights: 02:02 Discovering the Nature of Inspiration 04:47 How to Get to What You Want 11:11 4 Stages of Spiritual Growth 23:04  Claim Your Life 27:57 Are You Alice in Wonderland? 32:36 Keep Doing The Inner Work  39:41  Schedule In and Build  41:28 Set Your Environment Up

44mins

3 Dec 2019

Rank #11

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017: Reflection- What is #MyPart? - re convo with Alison Donaghey

“We have so much of a part in everything that happens to us.” -Shirley Owens What will you create for yourself in 2020? Do you even realize the possibilities? What is your part in creating them? Listen up and start moving towards those New Year resolutions!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights:  00:33 #MY Part 02:00 Your Part In the Coming Year 03:15 2020- A Year of Perfect Vision 05:08 How Much of a Part Will You Consciously Play?

7mins

2 Jan 2020

Rank #12

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028: Get What You Want by Knowing Yourself Deeply with Mary O’ Toole

“People love to fight for their limitations because that’s how we know ourselves to be... And then you get to know yourself at a deep level.” - Mary O’ Toole No one knows us more than we know ourselves, right? Then how is it that oftentimes, it’s ourselves that we know the least? Shirley and Mary O’Toole go deep about the real benefits of understanding who you are. These ladies will open your mind to the possibilities of what you can create when you’re aligned with yourself. Get what you want with the invaluable guidance found in this episode. And as a bonus you will learn a little about magical Ireland!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve HIGHLIGHTS: 04:00 Intuition To Go Back 08:00 Tuning-In To Energy 14:58 Balancing Yin and Yang 20:01 Harnessing The Masculinity In A Feminine Way 24:25 There’s something magical about Ireland 29:40 Get To Know Yourself Deeply 33:54 Breathing Is The Best Tool

37mins

11 Feb 2020

Rank #13

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009: Reflection- Claim Yourself and Your Life - re convo with Julie Moret

“Sometimes we can get in our heads and think of things that are happening to us but there's so much more out there when we work by us, through us and as us.”-Shirley Owens Shirley reflects on her conversation with Julie and speaks about the importance of creating an environment around yourself that can help you to get into a space where your thoughts can flow through you and you can dream and create the life you love.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights: 00:31 Beyond Expectations 01:40 To Me, By Me, As Me, Through Me 03:00 Create an Environment For What You Want 05:35 The Best Way to Start a New Year

7mins

5 Dec 2019

Rank #14

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022: Get What You Want By Daring To Dream Big with Debbi Dachinger

“Let's get (limiting beliefs) out of your way, so you can fly.” - Debbi Dachinger Do you have a dream, but don’t quite know how to get started? Debbie and Shirley talk about some tools to get you moving in the right direction. How do you use your network? How do you not become one of the majority that just allows your dream to pass you by? They discuss book writing, speaking, and accountability. Debbie shares about her Ultimate Visibility Formula and how it can help you be recognized in the media. Tune in for tips on speeding up in getting what you want!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights: 02:17 Reasons For Loving Podcast 04:15 2 Books That Can Help You Reach Your Dreams 07:14 Being A Book Coach 11:25 Being An Award Winning Actress And Singer 14:02 Gifts In The Psychic Realm 19:22 How To Get What You Want 26:10 Being An Accountability Coach 31:08 The Ultimate Visibility Formula

37mins

21 Jan 2020

Rank #15

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012: Dream As Big As Possible with Jay Rooke

“Entrepreneurship is a game; be playful in it. No one's getting out of this journey alive; don’t be so serious.” -Jay Rooke  Knowing what you want, and figuring out how to get it are two different things. So how do you get what you want? Shirley’s conversation with business coach, Jay Rooke is not only entertaining, but a real look into making your entrepreneurial journey successful. Jay and Shirley talk about how to be an implementer when you’re a visionary and how to go from the corporate world to living your entrepreneurial dream.  They discuss the importance of and the positive role that failure brings to success, along with living your dreams and passions. If you’re wanting to break free from the corporate merry-go-round, or just want to develop yourself personally, you won’t want to miss this episode!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights: 01:31 Finding Happiness on a Soul Level 05:11 Your Two Neighbors That Don’t Get Along 14:04 Get Super Laser-Focused 20:33 Learn How to Fail  29:39 Fair Judgment in Your Entrepreneurial Journey 32:40 Don’t Lose Connection With Your Greater Vision 37:21 Learn to Celebrate Little Things  41:05 Dream as Big as Possible

46mins

17 Dec 2019

Rank #16

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026: Get What You Want By Taking Care of Yourself with Kim Sutton

“High performance doesn't mean get as much done as you can possibly do. It also means to take care of yourself.” -Kim Sutton Many people think of self-care as a selfish act. On the contrary, it’s the opposite! You can not take care of others if you do not take care of yourself. Shirley and Kim share how self care can strengthen and deepen your connection with yourself  and meet your needs from a mental, emotional, spiritual and physical standpoint. Kim also shares her struggles with self-care and how she overcame all of it. You don’t have to be alone in your battle. Tune in and learn how you can get what you want by learning how to take care of yourself first.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley: Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve Highlights:  01:39 You Don’t Have To Do Everything 09:25 Ask For Help 13:01 Disadvantage Of Saying Yes To Everybody 25:39 How Important Self-care Is 31:15 Reward Yourself

37mins

4 Feb 2020

Rank #17

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025: Reflection- Get What You Want By Being 100% Committed - re convo with Jamie Damsker

“When you look at all your thoughts during the day… so much awareness is made… and all the positive thoughts start coming in or the intentional thoughts that you’re creating from a place of truth and fact.” -Shirley Owens  We are thought-generating machines and meaning-creators as well. Over 95% of our thoughts aren’t even real. Our story is created through our thoughts. So what part of our story is real? Tune in as Shirley discusses 4 steps of a thought process. How we can better control what we allow in and how we work through simple things that complicate our every day.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights:  01:28 Thought Circles 06:30 True and False Thoughts 

9mins

30 Jan 2020

Rank #18

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019: Reflection- Follow the Energy - re convo with Carolyn Cooper

“Without being aware, we can’t open our minds and learn about anything.”  Awareness is an important word. Today, Shirley reflects on how awareness can help you first know what it is you want, and then how you can go about getting it. She also discusses how you can tap into your energy to create your days around doing just that. Listen in as Shirley teaches you a simple tool to help you create a more fulfilling life, one day at a time.  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights:  00:57 Energy- A Door of Possibilities 01:55 Awareness- The Key to Getting What You Want 03:30 Create an Awareness of What You Want  05:33 What Fills You, What Empties You

7mins

9 Jan 2020

Rank #19

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021: Reflection- Get What You Want by Growing Your Network - re convo with Scott Carson

 “When you can offer value to others, they offer value back to you - that’s networking.” -Shirley Owens Part of who we are comes from who we hang out with. Create a network of people that will level you up. Today, Shirley reflects on the importance of growing your network, both personally and professionally. She also gives tips on how to do it! Don’t miss out on today’s episode!  Let’s Go Create! with Shirley:  Website  Email  Facebook Twitter  Instagram  LinkedIn  Telephone:  480-570-5720 Book:  Get What You Want From Your Man: A Guide to Creating the Relationship You Deserve  Highlights:  01:09 Grow with Your Network  02:21 How To Expand Your Network  04:00 Reach Out

6mins

16 Jan 2020

Rank #20