"We have our most profound healing relationally and we are most profoundly triggered relationally — trauma both needs to be spoken and feels impossible to speak." Dr. MaryCatherine McDonald is a trauma researcher and author of Unbroken: The Trauma Response Is Never Wrong, which you can preorder now. After spending over a decade researching and lecturing on grief and resilience, MC now helps her coaching clients alchemize their trauma responses into new tools of strength.  We examine questions like: - What is the actual definition of trauma?  - Where do trauma responses show up in our daily interactions?  - How does trauma get stored and backed up in the body? What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions and @mc.phd to share your thoughts!  To receive all the behind-the-scenes thoughts and questions from this episode, sign up for my newsletter at TheBetterQuestions.com. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call here and never worry about money again.

"We have our most profound healing relationally and we are most profoundly triggered relationally — trauma both needs to be spoken and feels impossible to speak." Dr. MaryCatherine McDonald is a trauma researcher and author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Unbroken-Trauma-Response-Never-Things/dp/1683648846/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Unbroken: The Trauma Response Is Never Wrong</a>, which you can preorder now. After spending over a decade researching and lecturing on grief and resilience, MC now helps her coaching clients alchemize their trauma responses into new tools of strength.  We examine questions like: - What is the actual definition of trauma?  - Where do trauma responses show up in our daily interactions?  - How does trauma get stored and backed up in the body? What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mc.phd/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@mc.phd</a> to share your thoughts! To receive all the behind-the-scenes thoughts and questions from this episode, sign up for my newsletter at <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> and never worry about money again.

How Stored Trauma Shows Up In Daily Interactions - Dr. MaryCatherine McDonald

Marguerite Imbert

"Every book you see on the shelf is the product of a writer saying, 'That's good enough.'" Without any formal training, Marguerite Imbert became a chef, a writer for The Michelin Guide and author of the Amazon bestseller, Not A Cookbook. She teaches recurring writing workshops that focus on therapeutic writing and how to become your own project manager. Together we answer listener questions about overcoming psychological roadblocks involved in creating and sharing your work, including: - What does a creative life look like as a sober individual? - How can you overcome insecurities about not being qualified enough? - When should you keep your work private versus making it public?  - How should you interact with the criticism others have about your work and life choices?  Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here for an answer you can apply immediately. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions or @margueritevimbert and share your thoughts! This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call here and never worry about money again.

"Every book you see on the shelf is the product of a writer saying, 'That's good enough.'" Without any formal training, Marguerite Imbert became a chef, a writer for The Michelin Guide and author of the Amazon bestseller, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Not-Cookbook-Guided-8-Week-Journey/dp/1636848109/ref=sr_1_1?crid=29XLY43WM4OIW&amp;keywords=not+a+cookbook&amp;qid=1675478727&amp;sprefix=%2Caps%2C130&amp;sr=8-1" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Not A Cookbook</a>. She teaches recurring <a href="https://www.margueritevimbert.com/workshop" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">writing workshops</a> that focus on therapeutic writing and how to become your own project manager. Together we answer listener questions about overcoming psychological roadblocks involved in creating and sharing your work, including: - What does a creative life look like as a sober individual? - How can you overcome insecurities about not being qualified enough? - When should you keep your work private versus making it public?  - How should you interact with the criticism others have about your work and life choices? Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for an answer you can apply immediately. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/margueritevimbert/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@margueritevimbert</a> and share your thoughts! This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Navigate Criticism - Marguerite Imbert

Marilee Adams

"What we typically think of as thoughts are actually answers to the questions we ask ourselves.”  Dr. Marilee Adams is the author of "Change Your Questions, Change Your Life" and founder of the Inquiry Institute, which teaches participants how to create the futures they want using resources like the Choice Map. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions and share your thoughts! This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call here and never worry about money again.

"What we typically think of as thoughts are actually answers to the questions we ask ourselves.”  Dr. Marilee Adams is the author of "<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Questions-Life-4th-dp-1523091037/dp/1523091037/ref=dp_ob_title_bk" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Change Your Questions, Change Your Life</a>" and founder of the <a href="https://inquiryinstitute.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Inquiry Institute</a>, which teaches participants how to create the futures they want using resources like the <a href="https://inquiryinstitute.com/questionthinkingsurvey" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Choice Map</a>. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> and share your thoughts! This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> and never worry about money again.

How Your Questions Shape Your Behavior - Dr. Marilee Adams

Benjamin Russack

"Making a decision can be way more important than the result of the decision." Benjamin Russack is a marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and host of the podcast "Look, Just Tell Me What To Do." We begin with an honest examination of what it's actually like to be a therapist, then shift into discussing listener questions, including: - How can I make decisions without regretting them later? - What does it mean to be secure person? - Is manifestation actually possible? Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here for an answer you can apply immediately. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions or @benjaminrussack and share your thoughts! This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call here and never worry about money again.

"Making a decision can be way more important than the result of the decision." Benjamin Russack is a marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and host of the podcast "<a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/40mWyKMcA087AbwPGtfiLy" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Look, Just Tell Me What To Do.</a>" We begin with an honest examination of what it's actually like to be a therapist, then shift into discussing listener questions, including: - How can I make decisions without regretting them later? - What does it mean to be secure person? - Is manifestation actually possible? Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for an answer you can apply immediately. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/benjaminrussack/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@benjaminrussack</a> and share your thoughts! This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Make Decisions Without Regret - Benjamin Russack

Jess Janz

"Where is your life on auto-pilot? A lot of times auto-pilot is protecting us from looking at the things we need to change." Jess Janz is a writer and artist who calls herself a gatherer of words and questions. In Part Two of our conversation, we look at why naming what you want can feel uncomfortable, how to stop intellectualizing feelings, and how to overcome a resistance to change. Make sure you don't miss Part One of my conversation with Jess (How To Become A Full-Time Creative) by skipping back one episode. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions or @jessjanz and share your thoughts! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here for an answer you can apply immediately. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

"Where is your life on auto-pilot? A lot of times auto-pilot is protecting us from looking at the things we need to change." Jess Janz is a writer and artist who calls herself a gatherer of words and questions. In Part Two of our conversation, we look at why naming what you want can feel uncomfortable, how to stop intellectualizing feelings, and how to overcome a resistance to change. Make sure you don't miss Part One of my conversation with Jess (How To Become A Full-Time Creative) by skipping back one episode. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jessjanz/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@jessjanz</a> and share your thoughts! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for an answer you can apply immediately. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Stop Resisting Change - Jess Janz (Part Two)

"The times that I feel not creative are usually because I am away from myself, or because I'm avoiding speaking or admitting the truth to myself." Jess Janz is a writer and artist who calls herself a gatherer of words and questions. In Part One of our conversation, we examine the intersection between creativity and finances, and how monetizing your art can help or hurt your creativity. We also discuss when to share what you've created publicly (versus keep it to yourself), the difference between sharing with strangers versus people you know, and how to cultivate an environment that promotes a daily creative practice.  Make sure you don't miss Part Two of my conversation with Jess (How To Stop Resisting Change) by skipping ahead one episode. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions or @jessjanz and share your thoughts! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here for an answer you can apply immediately. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call here and never worry about money again.

"The times that I feel not creative are usually because I am away from myself, or because I'm avoiding speaking or admitting the truth to myself." Jess Janz is a writer and artist who calls herself a gatherer of words and questions. In Part One of our conversation, we examine the intersection between creativity and finances, and how monetizing your art can help or hurt your creativity. We also discuss when to share what you've created publicly (versus keep it to yourself), the difference between sharing with strangers versus people you know, and how to cultivate an environment that promotes a daily creative practice.  Make sure you don't miss Part Two of my conversation with Jess (How To Stop Resisting Change) by skipping ahead one episode. What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jessjanz/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@jessjanz</a> and share your thoughts! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for an answer you can apply immediately. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Become A Full-Time Creative - Jess Janz (Part One)

Vanessa Van Edwards

"Ambivalence is more dangerous and worse for your health and relationships than toxicity. The research is very clear on this — it takes so much more energy to be in ambivalent relationships." Vanessa Van Edwards is the author of the bestselling book Captivate, which has been translated into 17 languages and examines how people tick by decoding their body language and behavior patterns. Her new book Cues studies what makes a person charismatic. Vanessa is also the founder of Science of People, a human behavior research lab that studies the way people operate. The findings from her research are published on the lab’s YouTube channel, which has received over 50 million views. We discuss:  The number one question you should ask to gauge the health of your relationships Vanessa's personal cure for people-pleasing How to improve your voice and delivery skills What question never to ask when sending emails  What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions or @vvanedwards and share your thoughts! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here for an answer you can apply immediately. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

"Ambivalence is more dangerous and worse for your health and relationships than toxicity. The research is very clear on this — it takes so much more energy to be in ambivalent relationships." Vanessa Van Edwards is the author of the bestselling book <a href="https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Captivate</a>, which has been translated into 17 languages and examines how people tick by decoding their body language and behavior patterns. Her new book <a href="https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues-guide/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Cues</a> studies what makes a person charismatic. Vanessa is also the founder of <a href="https://www.scienceofpeople.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Science of People</a>, a human behavior research lab that studies the way people operate. The findings from her research are published on the lab’s <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">YouTube channel</a>, which has received over 50 million views. We discuss: <ul> <li>The number one question you should ask to gauge the health of your relationships</li> <li>Vanessa's personal cure for people-pleasing</li> <li>How to improve your voice and delivery skills</li> <li>What question never to ask when sending emails</li> </ul> What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@vvanedwards</a> and share your thoughts! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for an answer you can apply immediately. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Navigate Ambivalent Relationships - Vanessa Van Edwards

Laura Maya

"Ideas themselves are an act of artistic expression — you don't have to follow through on all of them."  Laura Maya is the author of Tell Them My Name, a travel memoir that questions the stressors of "normal" life by viewing different cultures through new eyes. A self-described "multipotentialite," Laura has rejected the idea that you need one passion or purpose to define you, and has instead built a life by combining multiple careers, countries, cultures and creative pursuits.  In today's episode, we discuss:   Why Laura has gotten married 42 times What traveling reveals about your relationship The stark realities of a nomadic lifestyle Practical tips for applying daily minimalism How to write your first book (the right way and the wrong way) Why money is connected to your past, present and future self  What stood out to you in this episode? Tag @thebetterquestions and share your thoughts, or email ask@thebetterquestions.com — I'd love to hear from you! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here for an answer you can apply immediately.  This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

"Ideas themselves are an act of artistic expression — you don't have to follow through on all of them."  Laura Maya is the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Them-Name-Laura-Maya/dp/0645139289" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Tell Them My Name</a>, a travel memoir that questions the stressors of "normal" life by viewing different cultures through new eyes. A self-described "multipotentialite," Laura has rejected the idea that you need one passion or purpose to define you, and has instead built a life by combining multiple careers, countries, cultures and creative pursuits.  In today's episode, we discuss:  <ul> <li>Why Laura has gotten married 42 times</li> <li>What traveling reveals about your relationship</li> <li>The stark realities of a nomadic lifestyle</li> <li>Practical tips for applying daily minimalism</li> <li>How to write your first book (the right way and the wrong way)</li> <li>Why money is connected to your past, present and future self</li> </ul> What stood out to you in this episode? Tag <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> and share your thoughts, or email <a href="mailto:ask@thebetterquestions.com" rel="noopener">ask@thebetterquestions.com</a> — I'd love to hear from you! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> for an answer you can apply immediately.  This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Build A Life That Combines Multiple Interests - Laura Maya

Paula Pant

"Look around: all of your clutter used to be money; all of your money used to be time." Money is one of those topics (like health) that affects each of us, whether or not we're interested. However, it can be a particularly loaded topic due to all the emotions attached to our financial stories, so uncovering our ingrained beliefs around money can be both enlightening and overwhelming:  “I can either do what I love, or make money.” “I have to work really hard to make money.” “Money is the root of all evil.” “I have no control over whether I become wealthy.” “Money doesn't buy happiness.”  Do any of these beliefs resonate?  On today's episode, we examine the most common psychological patterns around money with guest Paula Pant, creator of the podcast Afford Anything, which has received over 20 million downloads and is one of Apple’s top business podcasts. She is a sought-out expert in the financial independence space, or the FIRE community, an acronym that stands for Financial Independence Retire Early. By the age of 34, Paula reached financial independence by owning eight investment properties. Her story is incredible regardless, but even more so because of her background — Paula was raised in an immigrant family, where she was given traditional financial advice that often focused on extreme frugality. We discuss:  How to determine what matters most to you How to make peace with your decisions What it means to become financially independent Why consumerism and a scarcity mindset are inextricably linked How frugality can be linked to a lack of confidence The benefits of tracking your expenses  I’m particularly excited about today's conversation because for the past several years, my business has helped employees and freelancers organize their finances and reexamine their relationship with money. Book your free call here and never worry about money again. I'd absolutely love to hear what stuck out to you in this episode — share your favorite takeaways or questions by tagging @thebetterquestions and @paulapant! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here, or on Instagram — I'll always send you a message when your question is featured. If you find these episodes valuable, leave a review on Apple or Spotify — this helps more people discover the show! Would you like all the best quotes from each episode, plus a few extra? Sign up at TheBetterQuestions.com to receive the monthly curation. You can also respond directly to these emails any time, I'd love to get to know you better!

"Look around: all of your clutter used to be money; all of your money used to be time." Money is one of those topics (like health) that affects each of us, whether or not we're interested. However, it can be a particularly loaded topic due to all the emotions attached to our financial stories, so uncovering our ingrained beliefs around money can be both enlightening and overwhelming: <ul> <li>“I can either do what I love, or make money.”</li> <li>“I have to work really hard to make money.”</li> <li>“Money is the root of all evil.”</li> <li>“I have no control over whether I become wealthy.”</li> <li>“Money doesn't buy happiness.”</li> </ul> Do any of these beliefs resonate?  On today's episode, we examine the most common psychological patterns around money with guest Paula Pant, creator of the podcast <a href="https://affordanything.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Afford Anything</a>, which has received over 20 million downloads and is one of Apple’s top business podcasts. She is a sought-out expert in the financial independence space, or the FIRE community, an acronym that stands for Financial Independence Retire Early. By the age of 34, Paula reached financial independence by owning eight investment properties. Her story is incredible regardless, but even more so because of her background — Paula was raised in an immigrant family, where she was given traditional financial advice that often focused on extreme frugality. We discuss: <ul> <li>How to determine what matters most to you</li> <li>How to make peace with your decisions</li> <li>What it means to become financially independent</li> <li>Why consumerism and a scarcity mindset are inextricably linked</li> <li>How frugality can be linked to a lack of confidence</li> <li>The benefits of tracking your expenses</li> </ul> I’m particularly excited about today's conversation because for the past several years, <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">my business</a> has helped employees and freelancers organize their finances and reexamine their relationship with money. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> and never worry about money again. I'd absolutely love to hear what stuck out to you in this episode — share your favorite takeaways or questions by tagging <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/paulapant/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@paulapant</a>! Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here,</a> or on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> — I'll always send you a message when your question is featured. If you find these episodes valuable, leave a review on <a href="http://getpodcast.reviews/id/1458071130" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Apple</a> or <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6H2w6tou41HDqArQZeZAfc" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Spotify</a> — this helps more people discover the show! Would you like all the best quotes from each episode, plus a few extra? Sign up at <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a> to receive the monthly curation. You can also respond directly to these emails any time, I'd love to get to know you better!

How To Examine Your Relationship With Money - Paula Pant

Jackie Endres

I like to think of this podcast as a place for critical thinkers and deep feelers — Jackie Endres is the definition of both.  In today's episode, Jackie joins me in the studio to examine an array of questions submitted by listeners, including:   How much does your nature/nurture experience limit your capacity to change? (3:12 min)  How can I stop caring about what other people think? (16:12 min)  Should you stay in a relationship after infidelity has occurred? (26:03 min)  How can I stop second-guessing myself? (35:18 min)  What is more effective: prevention or cure? (42:24 min)   Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours here, or on Instagram — I'll send you a message when your question is featured.  If you’re enjoying these conversations, leave a review and share this episode with someone who you think would enjoy listening! To receive all the best quotes from each episode, sign up for a monthly email at TheBetterQuestions.com. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

I like to think of this podcast as a place for critical thinkers and deep feelers — Jackie Endres is the definition of both. In today's episode, Jackie joins me in the studio to examine an array of questions submitted by listeners, including: How much does your nature/nurture experience limit your capacity to change? (3:12 min) How can I stop caring about what other people think? (16:12 min) Should you stay in a relationship after infidelity has occurred? (26:03 min) How can I stop second-guessing myself? (35:18 min) What is more effective: prevention or cure? (42:24 min) Do you have a question you'd like to hear discussed on the show? Submit yours <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/ask/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here,</a> or on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> — I'll send you a message when your question is featured.  If you’re enjoying these conversations, <a href="http://getpodcast.reviews/id/1458071130" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">leave a review</a> and share this episode with someone who you think would enjoy listening! To receive all the best quotes from each episode, sign up for a monthly email at <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Stop Second-Guessing Yourself - Jackie Endres

What if one answer could change the trajectory of your entire life?Welcome to the podcast that overcomes psychological barriers by asking better questions.Each episode uncovers different sticking points and explores practical ways to become "unstuck."We'll unpack questions about potential, self-worth, fear and the creative process with psychologists, authors and thought leaders.If you’re craving more substance and ready to dive deep, you’ve come to the right place.

I love this podcast for the depth embedded in each question, and the powerful conversations that arise from that depth. Host Claire Giovino more than keeps her promise: through better questions come better answers. I leave every episode with a strong sense of renewed appreciation for how layered and interesting conversations between almost-strangers can be, if we take the time and care to devote that extra effort to asking and responding with nuance, intelligence, trust, and vulnerability. Which is to say, to live and connect with greater nuance. In this very real way, the experience of this podcast goes far beyond the time spent listening; Better Questions becomes a call to action with which you live the rest of your day. —Reema Zaman

Beautifully produced conversations that inspire ongoing contemplation beyond the first listen

Worth the listen

What if one answer could change the trajectory of your entire life? Welcome to the podcast that overcomes psychological barriers by asking better questions. Each episode uncovers different sticking points and explores practical ways to become "unstuck." We'll unpack questions about potential, self-worth, fear and the creative process with psychologists, authors and thought leaders. If you’re craving more substance and ready to dive deep, you’ve come to the right place.

The Better Questions

Yaro Starak

“What you focus on in the moment becomes who you are in the future… but until you find direction, every path looks interesting."   Yaro Starak is blogger and podcaster who decided after graduating college that he would never work for someone else or have a real job again. Since the age of 19, Yaro has been running his own online businesses that have gone on to produce seven figures. He has been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, Foundr and interviewed in close to 300 different podcasts. The average lifespan of a blog is reportedly 3-4 months, whereas Yaro’s blog continues to inspire countless readers 13 years later.   Today’s episode is definitely not just for entrepreneurs, but if you’re interested in jumping to the really meaty topics and don’t have time for the full episode, skip ahead to the 13-minute mark.  Highlights In today’s episode, we talk about: 1) How to design your ideal day   2) Why energy management is more important than time management   3) How to create a life where 20% of your time is spent is working and 80% is spent doing the things you love   4) How to create a decision filter and when to say no    5) Why curiosity is more important than any outcome or goal)    6) How to choose the obstacles you want to overcome Behind the Scenes Yaro became one of my clients a few years ago when I started my own business. We then joined forces and cofounded InboxDone.com, which allows busy people to outsource their inbox so that they never have to deal with emails again. After reading Yaro’s blog for years, I feel very lucky to now call him my business partner and my friend. As Annie Dillard says, "How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives." I'm drawn to the idea of designing your ideal day, one where you spend the most time on things that bring you energy and joy (instead of keeping those things in the margins of our lives). I often ask people to walk me through a day in their lives so that I can get a sense of what's important to them. Over the past year, I've been treating each day like an experiment and applying different iterations to see how much energy I have during different activities and times of day. I've learned that I'm most productive when I immediately login to my laptop to begin work right when I wake up. I've also learned my energy is lowest between 2pm and 7pm, then I get a second burst of focus after dinner. My processes are still evolving (clearly not every day is ideal), but it really opened up once I started to treat my day-design like a big experiment. Who should listen? If you're struggling to create something new, but the process is feeling heavy or arduous…  If you want to design your ideal day, but aren't sure how to start... If you want to learn the exact questions to ask yourself in order to become “unstuck”... ...have a listen. For new episodes, questions and quotes, sign up at TheBetterQuestions.com. Each bi-weekly email is packed with insight and applicable takeaways.    And if you’re enjoying these episodes, please share with a fellow podcast listener. That’s how the show will continue grow!   This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“What you focus on in the moment becomes who you are in the future… but until you find direction, every path looks interesting." Yaro Starak is blogger and podcaster who decided after graduating college that he would never work for someone else or have a real job again. Since the age of 19, Yaro has been running his own online businesses that have gone on to produce seven figures. He has been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, Foundr and interviewed in close to 300 different podcasts. The average lifespan of a blog is reportedly 3-4 months, whereas Yaro’s blog continues to inspire countless readers 13 years later. Today’s episode is definitely not just for entrepreneurs, but if you’re interested in jumping to the really meaty topics and don’t have time for the full episode, skip ahead to the 13-minute mark.  Highlights In today’s episode, we talk about: 1) How to design your ideal day 2) Why energy management is more important than time management 3) How to create a life where 20% of your time is spent is working and 80% is spent doing the things you love 4) How to create a decision filter and when to say no  5) Why curiosity is more important than any outcome or goal)  6) How to choose the obstacles you want to overcome Behind the Scenes Yaro became one of my clients a few years ago when I started my own business. We then joined forces and cofounded <a href="http://InboxDone.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">InboxDone.com</a>, which allows busy people to outsource their inbox so that they never have to deal with emails again. After reading Yaro’s blog for years, I feel very lucky to now call him my business partner and my friend. As Annie Dillard says, "How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives." I'm drawn to the idea of designing your ideal day, one where you spend the most time on things that bring you energy and joy (instead of keeping those things in the margins of our lives). I often ask people to walk me through a day in their lives so that I can get a sense of what's important to them. Over the past year, I've been treating each day like an experiment and applying different iterations to see how much energy I have during different activities and times of day. I've learned that I'm most productive when I immediately login to my laptop to begin work right when I wake up. I've also learned my energy is lowest between 2pm and 7pm, then I get a second burst of focus after dinner. My processes are still evolving (clearly not every day is ideal), but it really opened up once I started to treat my day-design like a big experiment. Who should listen? If you're struggling to create something new, but the process is feeling heavy or arduous…  If you want to design your ideal day, but aren't sure how to start... If you want to learn the exact questions to ask yourself in order to become “unstuck”... ...have a listen. For new episodes, questions and quotes, sign up at <a href="http://TheBetterQuestions.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. Each bi-weekly email is packed with insight and applicable takeaways.  And if you’re enjoying these episodes, please share with a fellow podcast listener. That’s how the show will continue grow! This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Change Your Life By Designing Your Day - Yaro Starak

Chuck Klosterman

“When you realize you’re no longer doing things to achieve something else later, then this question suddenly looks at you very aggressively: “This is your life, why is this your life?"   Chuck Klosterman is a best-selling author and journalist whose work focuses on popular culture in America. For years he wrote “The Ethicist” column for the New York Times Magazine and has also written for GQ, Esquire, The Guardian, The Washington Post and many more.   We talk about how to share your opinions and ideas without diluting your message (especially in our technological climate where it’s so easy to misconstrue meaning or take offense), how to tell whether or not someone is being authentic or wearing a mask when you first meet them, and if it’s better to become successful earlier or later in life.  Chuck is the author of several books, including “But What If We’re Wrong? Thinking About the Present As If It Were the Past.”    Here’s an excerpt: “We must start from the premise that—in all likelihood—we are already wrong. And not “wrong” in the sense that we are examining questions and coming to incorrect conclusions, because most of our conclusions are reasoned and coherent. The problem is with the questions themselves.”   Visit Chuck’s Website, watch him on The Daily Show, or connect with him on Twitter.  As always, you are welcome to submit your own questions at TheBetterQuestions.com, or on Instagram @thebetterquestions.    This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“When you realize you’re no longer doing things to achieve something else later, then this question suddenly looks at you very aggressively: “This is your life, why is this your life?" Chuck Klosterman is a best-selling author and journalist whose work focuses on popular culture in America. For years he wrote “The Ethicist” column for the New York Times Magazine and has also written for GQ, Esquire, The Guardian, The Washington Post and many more. We talk about how to share your opinions and ideas without diluting your message (especially in our technological climate where it’s so easy to misconstrue meaning or take offense), how to tell whether or not someone is being authentic or wearing a mask when you first meet them, and if it’s better to become successful earlier or later in life. Chuck is the author of several books, including “But What If We’re Wrong? Thinking About the Present As If It Were the Past.”  Here’s an excerpt: “We must start from the premise that—in all likelihood—we are already wrong. And not “wrong” in the sense that we are examining questions and coming to incorrect conclusions, because most of our conclusions are reasoned and coherent. The problem is with the questions themselves.” Visit <a href="http://chuckklostermanauthor.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Chuck’s Website</a>, watch him on <a href="http://www.cc.com/video-clips/1u79f3/the-daily-show-with-trevor-noah-chuck-klosterman---questioning-everything-we-know-in--but-what-if-we-re-wrong--" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Daily Show</a>, or connect with him on <a href="https://twitter.com/cklosterman?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a>. As always, you are welcome to submit your own questions at <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>, or on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thebetterquestions/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@thebetterquestions</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Speak Up Without Diluting Your Message - Chuck Klosterman

Sharon Eve

“We operate with a lot of irrational beliefs... Our feelings don’t come from the things that happen, they come from the beliefs about the things that happen." Dr. Sharon Eve is a psychologist who has worked with individuals and couples for the past 40 years. Her work focuses on integrating your past experience into your present life, identifying patterns in our thinking and underlying structures in our emotional responses. Dr. Eve’s acclaimed workshops have helped hundreds of participants master topics like “Developing listening skills”, “Overcoming Depression” and “Deepening Communication.”     This episode is a little different. I start with a few questions of my own, but then for the first time ever, Dr. Eve will answer questions that listeners of this show have submitted over the past couple of months. Some of these questions include:    How can I feel comfortable interacting with anyone, anywhere, anytime?   How do I know if my partner is cheating?   Is everyone second-guessing themselves as much as I am?   By the end of the episode, you will know: 1) Why depression is Dr. Eve’s favorite topic to discuss   2) How to deeply communicate with your significant other (and anyone in your life)   3) How to use “shame-attacking” exercises to overcome your fears   4) How to determine if you're a "guest" or a "host" in your own life   5) How much to reveal about yourself when you first meet someone   This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“We operate with a lot of irrational beliefs... Our feelings don’t come from the things that happen, they come from the beliefs about the things that happen." Dr. Sharon Eve is a psychologist who has worked with individuals and couples for the past 40 years. Her work focuses on integrating your past experience into your present life, identifying patterns in our thinking and underlying structures in our emotional responses. Dr. Eve’s acclaimed workshops have helped hundreds of participants master topics like “Developing listening skills”, “Overcoming Depression” and “Deepening Communication.”   This episode is a little different. I start with a few questions of my own, but then for the first time ever, Dr. Eve will answer questions that listeners of this show have submitted over the past couple of months. Some of these questions include:  How can I feel comfortable interacting with anyone, anywhere, anytime? How do I know if my partner is cheating? Is everyone second-guessing themselves as much as I am?   By the end of the episode, you will know: 1) Why depression is Dr. Eve’s favorite topic to discuss 2) How to deeply communicate with your significant other (and anyone in your life) 3) How to use “shame-attacking” exercises to overcome your fears 4) How to determine if you're a "guest" or a "host" in your own life 5) How much to reveal about yourself when you first meet someone   This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Feel At Home Anywhere - Dr. Sharon Eve

Max Collins

“Are we risking taking our relationships to a messy place, a vulnerable place where you don't know what you're about to say?"   Bio Max Collins is an artist and photographer who specializes in large-scale murals. He first began pasting his street murals illegally, driven by the idea that art should be a democratic process where everyone is free to share and nurture the growth of a city through artistic expression. His work can be found in New York, Chicago, Los Angeles, and Portland— but especially in his hometown of Buffalo, NY.   Max's consistent desire for authenticity and honesty makes this a beautifully vulnerable interview. The universal ideas he expresses will deeply resonate, even for those who would not call themselves an artist.   Highlights In this episode, we talk about: 1) What social anxiety feels like in various settings 2) How to embrace and lean into hard conversations, even when they're messy 3) How difficult self-promotion can be, especially when your finances are dependent on the work you create 4) How isolating it can feel to be a freelancer and work for yourself 5) Why vulnerability feels so risky     Behind the Scenes I discovered Max’s art and his giant murals before I got to know him personally. While the topics we discuss may sound heavy, I was amazed at how light I felt when this conversation ended, simply by listening to someone else’s thought process. Max's honest sharing reminded me of how universal many of our struggles are — and how the difficult yet meaningful conversations are always the most fulfilling.   Who should listen? If you're craving deeper connections but aren't sure how to navigate those harder conversations... have a listen.   If you'd like to submit your own question and hear it answered on the show, visit TheBetterQuestions.com.   This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“Are we risking taking our relationships to a messy place, a vulnerable place where you don't know what you're about to say?" Bio Max Collins is an artist and photographer who specializes in large-scale murals. He first began pasting his street murals illegally, driven by the idea that art should be a democratic process where everyone is free to share and nurture the growth of a city through artistic expression. His work can be found in New York, Chicago, Los Angeles, and Portland— but especially in his hometown of Buffalo, NY. Max's consistent desire for authenticity and honesty makes this a beautifully vulnerable interview. The universal ideas he expresses will deeply resonate, even for those who would not call themselves an artist. Highlights In this episode, we talk about: 1) What social anxiety feels like in various settings 2) How to embrace and lean into hard conversations, even when they're messy 3) How difficult self-promotion can be, especially when your finances are dependent on the work you create 4) How isolating it can feel to be a freelancer and work for yourself 5) Why vulnerability feels so risky Behind the Scenes I discovered Max’s art and his giant murals before I got to know him personally. While the topics we discuss may sound heavy, I was amazed at how light I felt when this conversation ended, simply by listening to someone else’s thought process. Max's honest sharing reminded me of how universal many of our struggles are — and how the difficult yet meaningful conversations are always the most fulfilling. Who should listen? If you're craving deeper connections but aren't sure how to navigate those harder conversations... have a listen. If you'd like to submit your own question and hear it answered on the show, visit <a href="http://TheBetterQuestions.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Deepen Your Connections With Radical Honesty - Max Collins

Denise Ernst

“We try to fix things that are not ours to fix… when I am here in service of someone else, it is not about me and my solutions." — Dr. Denise Ernst   Bio Dr. Denise Ernst is a psychologist whose research and teaching centers around a counseling method called Motivational Interviewing. This method helps people find the internal motivation they need to change their behavior, and thus their life. It is a practical, empathetic, strengths-based approach that takes into consideration how difficult it can be to make life changes. Highlights In this episode, we discuss: 1) How everyone is the expert on their own life (even when they don’t feel like it) 2) How being vulnerable with others feels threatening to our personal safety (even when it isn't) 3) How to be supportive of someone without being weighed down by what they’re going through 4) Why listening isn’t prioritized as a skill in our culture (even in professional counseling programs) 5) What it means to be a "pathological optimist" Behind The Scenes I’ve been testing the waters of the psychology field, taking courses and becoming certified in different methodologies while I decide whether or not to go back to school full time.  I’m particularly drawn to this counseling approach because of the connection between emotion and motivation. So often I've told myself: "I just need to get motivated, then I'll start." But despite my best intentions, the change I'm trying to create in my life doesn't doesn't stick, or never happens. One of the recurring questions that keeps coming up on this show is "If we say want something or know we need to change, then why don’t we do it?” Motivational Interviewing addresses this specific question. Who Is This Episode For? Have a listen if...  If you know you need a change but you're feeling unmotivated or incapable of seeing it through If you’re unsure of how to support someone else in your life without feeling weighed down by what they're going through  If you're craving richer, more authentic relationships and conversations, but vulnerability feels daunting    Visit TheBetterQuestions.com to subscribe for new episodes, questions and quotes.    This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“We try to fix things that are not ours to fix… when I am here in service of someone else, it is not about me and my solutions." — Dr. Denise Ernst Bio Dr. Denise Ernst is a psychologist whose research and teaching centers around a counseling method called Motivational Interviewing. This method helps people find the internal motivation they need to change their behavior, and thus their life. It is a practical, empathetic, strengths-based approach that takes into consideration how difficult it can be to make life changes. Highlights In this episode, we discuss: 1) How everyone is the expert on their own life (even when they don’t feel like it) 2) How being vulnerable with others feels threatening to our personal safety (even when it isn't) 3) How to be supportive of someone without being weighed down by what they’re going through 4) Why listening isn’t prioritized as a skill in our culture (even in professional counseling programs) 5) What it means to be a "pathological optimist" Behind The Scenes I’ve been testing the waters of the psychology field, taking courses and becoming certified in different methodologies while I decide whether or not to go back to school full time.  I’m particularly drawn to this counseling approach because of the connection between emotion and motivation. So often I've told myself: "I just need to get motivated, then I'll start." But despite my best intentions, the change I'm trying to create in my life doesn't doesn't stick, or never happens. One of the recurring questions that keeps coming up on this show is "If we say want something or know we need to change, then why don’t we do it?” Motivational Interviewing addresses this specific question. Who Is This Episode For? Have a listen if... <ul> <li>If you know you need a change but you're feeling unmotivated or incapable of seeing it through</li> <li>If you’re unsure of how to support someone else in your life without feeling weighed down by what they're going through </li> <li>If you're craving richer, more authentic relationships and conversations, but vulnerability feels daunting</li> </ul> Visit <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a> to subscribe for new episodes, questions and quotes.  This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Become The Expert On Your Own Life - Dr. Denise Ernst

Jonathan Fields

“Because we are terrified of being outcasts and not belonging, we tend to sacrifice doing the things that fill us up in the name of being accepted." — Jonathan Fields (@jonathanfields) Jonathan is a bestselling author and founder of The Good Life Project, which has become one of the highest-ranked podcasts in the world. His podcast and books have been featured in The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Fast Company, Forbes, and many others. Highlights 1) The one thing to do to transform your conversations  2) How to do fewer things better 3) How entrepreneurship is the greatest personal growth experience 4) How to test out multiple ideas versus when to let go of a good idea  Behind the scenes I met Jonathan at one of his live podcast recordings and was amazed at how naturally his questions flowed. He was practicing what he calls exquisite attention, the ability to deeply listen by letting go of all your prepared questions and preconceived ideas. Who needs to listen? If you’re looking for work that makes you feel fully alive, or feeling overwhelmed because you've taken on too much, have a listen.  Tune in every Thursday for a new episode! If you'd like to submit your own question and hear it answered on the show, visit TheBetterQuestions.com. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“Because we are terrified of being outcasts and not belonging, we tend to sacrifice doing the things that fill us up in the name of being accepted." — Jonathan Fields (@jonathanfields) Jonathan is a bestselling author and founder of The Good Life Project, which has become one of the highest-ranked podcasts in the world. His podcast and books have been featured in The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Fast Company, Forbes, and many others. Highlights 1) The one thing to do to transform your conversations  2) How to do fewer things better 3) How entrepreneurship is the greatest personal growth experience 4) How to test out multiple ideas versus when to let go of a good idea  Behind the scenes I met Jonathan at one of his live podcast recordings and was amazed at how naturally his questions flowed. He was practicing what he calls exquisite attention, the ability to deeply listen by letting go of all your prepared questions and preconceived ideas. Who needs to listen? If you’re looking for work that makes you feel fully alive, or feeling overwhelmed because you've taken on too much, have a listen.  Tune in every Thursday for a new episode! If you'd like to submit your own question and hear it answered on the show, visit <a href="http://TheBetterQuestions.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Transform Your Conversations - Jonathan Fields

Reema Zaman

“The only people who ever say ‘Who do you think you are?' are projecting their own insecurity. Their sense of self has become reliant on you keeping yourself small. Where do we wish to place our loyalty — on other people’s comfort levels, or on our greater potential?"   Reema Zaman is the author of the critically-acclaimed memoir I Am Yours. Her writing has been featured in The Guardian, The New York Times, Forbes and Vogue, and her memoir is currently being adapted into a screenplay. In I Am Yours, Reema writes about how she reclaims her voice from abusive relationships and turns her pain into prose. Her book centers around the necessity for each person to own and use their voice, as it is the most powerful tool we each have.  By the end of the episode, you will learn: 1) How to hone and develop your unique voice   2) How to finish what you set out to do through radical accountability   3) The exact strategy Reema used to sign with her publisher and agent of choice   4) How to write a book in the midst of a chaotic life   5) How to turn your current reality into what you truly want   6) Why spending time alone leads to greater success7) How to start over when uncertainty feels terrifying   To learn more about Reema, follow her on Instagram, learn more on her site, or pick up her book  here.  Earlier this month this show surpassed 1000 downloads. That's after 9 episodes in 4 months. I want to thank each person who has spread the word about the show or shared a link with someone else, as that's how the show will continue to grow!  If you have feedback about this episode or would like to submit your own question for the show, email Ask@TheBetterQuestions.com. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“The only people who ever say ‘Who do you think you are?' are projecting their own insecurity. Their sense of self has become reliant on you keeping yourself small. Where do we wish to place our loyalty — on other people’s comfort levels, or on our greater potential?" Reema Zaman is the author of the critically-acclaimed memoir I Am Yours. Her writing has been featured in The Guardian, The New York Times, Forbes and Vogue, and her memoir is currently being adapted into a screenplay. In I Am Yours, Reema writes about how she reclaims her voice from abusive relationships and turns her pain into prose. Her book centers around the necessity for each person to own and use their voice, as it is the most powerful tool we each have.  By the end of the episode, you will learn: 1) How to hone and develop your unique voice 2) How to finish what you set out to do through radical accountability 3) The exact strategy Reema used to sign with her publisher and agent of choice 4) How to write a book in the midst of a chaotic life 5) How to turn your current reality into what you truly want 6) Why spending time alone leads to greater success7) How to start over when uncertainty feels terrifying To learn more about Reema, follow her on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/reemazaman/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, learn more on <a href="https://www.reemazaman.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">her site</a>, or pick up her book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/I-Am-Yours-Reema-Zaman/dp/1948705117/ref=as_li_ss_il?keywords=i+am+yours&amp;qid=1566334989&amp;s=gateway&amp;sr=8-3&amp;linkCode=li3&amp;tag=thebetterques-20&amp;linkId=dd8703e81a52347ffe03d68230734633&amp;language=en_US" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a>.  Earlier this month this show surpassed 1000 downloads. That's after 9 episodes in 4 months. I want to thank each person who has spread the word about the show or shared a link with someone else, as that's how the show will continue to grow!  If you have feedback about this episode or would like to submit your own question for the show, email <a href="mailto:Ask@TheBetterQuestions.com">Ask@TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Own And Use Your Voice - Reema Zaman

Sarah Curts

“Rejection still has an impact on me, but you always have the choice to open up rather than shrink. When people reject you, get bigger."   Sarah Curts was (and still is) a massage therapist, but in 2009 she had what she calls a dramatic psychic awakening. Today she runs a company called Body Insights, which allows her to incorporate her massage therapy experience into her readings by actively shifting stagnant energy on both physical and emotional levels. She is able to name the hangups individuals aren’t able to see clearly on their own.   Sarah also teaches several acclaimed workshops -- on everything from aging, to money, to life purpose -- but I asked her to come into today because of a specific workshop she teaches on how to ask useful questions.   I’ve always been incredibly skeptical of psychics, but Sarah is different -- her insight is both intuitive and grounded. We start today’s episode by talking about the negative connotations the word "psychic" carries, and why she’s looking for a better word that encompasses the unique work that she does. By the end of today's episode, you will know: 1) How to use rejection to your advantage (and why the fear of rejection can be as debilitating as the fear of dying)   2) What exact questions you should ask to reduce your stress and grow your confidence   3) Why it’s a bad idea to only focus on the positive   4) How to manage the critic in your head that says you should always be busy or productive   If you’re enjoying these episodes, please consider leaving a review (here), or share an episode with someone else. With your help, the show will continue to grow!   And if you are a lover of quotes and questions like I am, sign up to receive an email from me once a month at TheBetterQuestions.com.   This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“Rejection still has an impact on me, but you always have the choice to open up rather than shrink. When people reject you, get bigger." Sarah Curts was (and still is) a massage therapist, but in 2009 she had what she calls a dramatic psychic awakening. Today she runs a company called <a href="http://bodyinsights.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Body Insights</a>, which allows her to incorporate her massage therapy experience into her readings by actively shifting stagnant energy on both physical and emotional levels. She is able to name the hangups individuals aren’t able to see clearly on their own. Sarah also teaches several acclaimed workshops -- on everything from aging, to money, to life purpose -- but I asked her to come into today because of a specific workshop she teaches on how to ask useful questions. I’ve always been incredibly skeptical of psychics, but Sarah is different -- her insight is both intuitive and grounded. We start today’s episode by talking about the negative connotations the word "psychic" carries, and why she’s looking for a better word that encompasses the unique work that she does. By the end of today's episode, you will know: 1) How to use rejection to your advantage (and why the fear of rejection can be as debilitating as the fear of dying) 2) What exact questions you should ask to reduce your stress and grow your confidence 3) Why it’s a bad idea to only focus on the positive 4) How to manage the critic in your head that says you should always be busy or productive If you’re enjoying these episodes, please consider leaving a review (<a href="http://getpodcast.reviews/id/1458071130" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>), or share an episode with someone else. With your help, the show will continue to grow! And if you are a lover of quotes and questions like I am, sign up to receive an email from me once a month at <a href="https://thebetterquestions.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Use Rejection To Your Advantage - Sarah Curts

Karen Thompson Walker

"How can we tell the difference between fears worth listening to, and all the others?" Bio Karen Thompson Walker is a New York Times bestselling author. She wrote her first book The Age of Miracles while she was still working as an editor in NY on the subway to and from work. The Age of Miracles has been translated into 27 languages, and was named one of the best books of the year by People, O: The Oprah Magazine, and Financial Times, among others. Her new book The Dreamers illuminates the mundane moments of life through the lens of a small-town catastrophe (a sleeping epidemic). Her TEDTalk (called "What Fear Can Teach Us") has over two million views. Highlights In this episode, we talk about when to use anxiety and fear to your advantage, what Karen's daily writing process looks like, and how she balances her input (reading) and her output (writing). Behind The Scenes   I met Karen at a local bookclub and got to know her for a few months before I knew about any of her accomplishments or accolades. I found it fascinating that she didn't lead with these things, so we began the conversation by discussing how she views her success and how it defines her personally.   Who Should Listen? If you're struggling to stay consistent with your creative habits, or paralyzed by the fear of sharing your work with a larger audience, have a listen. If you'd like to submit your own questions and hear them answered on the show, visit TheBetterQuestions.com. This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

"How can we tell the difference between fears worth listening to, and all the others?" Bio Karen Thompson Walker is a New York Times bestselling author. She wrote her first book The Age of Miracles while she was still working as an editor in NY on the subway to and from work. The Age of Miracles has been translated into 27 languages, and was named one of the best books of the year by People, O: The Oprah Magazine, and Financial Times, among others. Her new book The Dreamers illuminates the mundane moments of life through the lens of a small-town catastrophe (a sleeping epidemic). Her TEDTalk (called "What Fear Can Teach Us") has over two million views. Highlights In this episode, we talk about when to use anxiety and fear to your advantage, what Karen's daily writing process looks like, and how she balances her input (reading) and her output (writing). Behind The Scenes I met Karen at a local bookclub and got to know her for a few months before I knew about any of her accomplishments or accolades. I found it fascinating that she didn't lead with these things, so we began the conversation by discussing how she views her success and how it defines her personally. Who Should Listen? If you're struggling to stay consistent with your creative habits, or paralyzed by the fear of sharing your work with a larger audience, have a listen. If you'd like to submit your own questions and hear them answered on the show, visit <a href="http://TheBetterQuestions.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TheBetterQuestions.com</a>. This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Question Your Fears - Karen Thompson Walker

Dale Backus

“The decision to create or build something rarely backfires."   After deciding college was not for him, Dale Backus decided to enter the Doritos Super Bowl contest. The winner of the contest would have a Doritos commercial aired right after the kick off and also win a large cash prize.    Dale (and his friend) went on to not only win the first year, but a second year as well. The money they won funded their now multi-million-dollar company, SmallHD.   We hear success stories like Dale’s all the time and tend to see only the end result — not all the micro-steps that led up to that success.   In this episode, Dale breaks down the journey of how he got to where he is today, how he overcame psychological barriers along the way, and his steps on how to turn any idea into something real and tangible. By the end of this episode, you will know: 1) If it's better to have a general knowledge of many things, or to just master one thing   2) How to determine the difference between a distraction and step forward   3) Why not having enough time actually works in your favor   4) How to use social anxiety to your advantage   5)  The number one personality trait required to be an entrepreneur   6) Why you shouldn’t think about your end goals   If you could hear any question answered, what would you ask? Email Ask@TheBetterQuestions.com to submit your own question for the show.   And if you’re enjoying these episodes, please share a link with someone else — that’s how the show will continue grow!   Resources First Super Bowl Commercial Second Super Bowl Commercial The Story of SmallHD @SmallHD (Instagram)   This podcast is sponsored by CreativeMoneyCoaching.com. Book your free call  here and never worry about money again.

“The decision to create or build something rarely backfires." After deciding college was not for him, Dale Backus decided to enter the Doritos Super Bowl contest. The winner of the contest would have a Doritos commercial aired right after the kick off and also win a large cash prize.  Dale (and his friend) went on to not only win the first year, but a second year as well. The money they won funded their now multi-million-dollar company, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/smallhd/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">SmallHD</a>. We hear success stories like Dale’s all the time and tend to see only the end result — not all the micro-steps that led up to that success. In this episode, Dale breaks down the journey of how he got to where he is today, how he overcame psychological barriers along the way, and his steps on how to turn any idea into something real and tangible. By the end of this episode, you will know: 1) If it's better to have a general knowledge of many things, or to just master one thing 2) How to determine the difference between a distraction and step forward 3) Why not having enough time actually works in your favor 4) How to use social anxiety to your advantage 5)  The number one personality trait required to be an entrepreneur 6) Why you shouldn’t think about your end goals If you could hear any question answered, what would you ask? Email <a href="mailto:Ask@TheBetterQuestions.com">Ask@TheBetterQuestions.com</a> to submit your own question for the show. And if you’re enjoying these episodes, please share a link with someone else — that’s how the show will continue grow! Resources <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNxgxF-7SfA" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">First Super Bowl Commercial</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WsRhKRAGkWk" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Second Super Bowl Commercial</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vP3ZEZMbj2I" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Story of SmallHD</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/smallhd/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@SmallHD (Instagram)</a> This podcast is sponsored by <a href="https://creativemoneycoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CreativeMoneyCoaching.com</a>. Book your free call <a href="https://calendly.com/creativemoneycoaching/15min?month=2022-10" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> and never worry about money again.

How To Turn Any Idea Into A Reality - Dale Backus

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