Ranked #1
Getting to Congruence
Getting to Congruence
How to add "peripheral vision" to your elicitations to get the full picture of your date.
21 Jun 2022
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4mins
Ranked #2
Chunking Down
Chunking Down
Here's a tool by which to clarify what your date - and you - really mean, so that you avoid assumptions that can create ... Read more
18 May 2022
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5mins
Ranked #3
Questioning: The ”how’s” and ”why’s”
Questioning: The ”how’s” and ”why’s”
Safely cut to the core of character with "why" and "how" questions - even from the first date.
3 May 2022
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6mins
Ranked #4
Listening
Listening
Hear how good listening encourages your date to share, and sets the tone for the questions that follow.
3 May 2022
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3mins
Ranked #5
The Goal of the First Date
The Goal of the First Date
Is the first date just about seeing how well you get along?
24 Feb 2022
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2mins
Ranked #6
Checking out Dates
Checking out Dates
Here are some character-centered strategies for checking out dates.
24 Feb 2022
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Ranked #7
Welcoming Questions
Welcoming Questions
Hear why the level of willingness to answer questions may very well correlate with the level of readiness to date
24 Feb 2022
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3mins
Ranked #8
Your Elevator Pitch
Your Elevator Pitch
Here's a way to give a grounded response to the shadchan's question, "So, what are you looking for?"
7 Dec 2021
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4mins
Ranked #9
Personality vs. character traits... what‘s the difference?
Personality vs. character traits... what‘s the difference?
Hear why it's challenging to distinguish between personality and character traits, and why it makes such a difference.
29 Oct 2021
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3mins
Ranked #10
Intro to the Series (with a focus on mindset)
Intro to the Series (with a focus on mindset)
This introduction lays out the goal of this series, while emphasizing the importance of maintaining an empowered mindset... Read more
27 Apr 2021
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2mins