Hope, it's not passive...you're responsible for creating it
Hope doesn’t appear out of thin air. It’s something you create for yourself by finding a viable pathway, and taking at least one tiny step to get to what you want. [01:00] What is hope? [02:33] What about false hope? [05:10] Why does hope matter? [07:15] Hope will help you think positively [08:48] Hope in the face of failure [12:07] Hope and illness [14:24] How can I have more hope?
27 Mar 2019
Ikigai, Your Reason for Being: Finding meaning and purpose
kigai 生き甲斐 (pronounced ick-ee-guy) — a Japanese word meaning a reason for being, or a reason to jump out of bed each morning. Why purpose is necessary to thrive in life. A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on ahappieryear.com [01:30] How health and happiness are related [03:20] Study showing association between happiness and health [05:30] What is ikigai? [06:10] The 4 criteria to finding your ikigai [13:40] How do you find your passions? [16:50] The science behind ikigai and good health
10 Oct 2018
Growth mindsets and your best possible self
We’ve all heard how a positive mindset can make a difference. How much of a difference does it actually make? Perhaps a study on spill-proof coffee cups can help us understand. Let’s dig into the science behind this! A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on ahappieryear.com [01:10] Two ways to design a spill-proof coffee cup and why this is related to mindset [03:15] How a growth mindset can help you through challenges [08:15] 4 reasons a growth mindset will help you succeed [12:20] Your best possible self (activity!)
24 Oct 2018
Self-efficacy, the first step is believing you can
Self-efficacy is believing in your ability to be successful at something. Listen to learn what influences your self-efficacy and easy tips on how to be more self-efficacious. This belief can impact your patterns of procrastination and impact your ability to problem solve. A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on ahappieryear.com [01:10] "The little engine that could” explains what self efficacy is. [03:47] 5 things that influence self-efficacy. [10:00] Study: Self-efficacy and procrastination. [12:50] Study: Self-efficacy and problem solving. [14:35] The take-home message on self-efficacy.
12 Dec 2018
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Money, how does it affect your happiness?
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19 Jun 2019
Self-care, it's not #treatyourself
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22 May 2019
Dear Love, a conversation about self-love
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Habits, how to use them to your advantage
You might not even realize thats some of your everyday behaviours are habits. Habits affect your happiness, success, and productivity. I’ll share how to tap the science of habits so that you can use your habits to your benefit. A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on ahappieryear.com [01:33] Intro to habits [04:00] Cues - the science of breaking habits [07:06] Study: Stopping a habit once its been cued [08:07] How strong can cues actually be? A study on cues and voice [10:30] Activity: Use cues to your advantage [12:20] Study: Habits will win when intentions fail [15:24] Study: Habits will win when you’re stressed [17:55] How to make happiness a habit.
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The secret to making friends
What is the secret to making and having friends? Listen in, it might surprise you! A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on http://ahappieryear.com [00:00] Intro [01:40] Spatial ecology [04:52] How many hours does it take to make a friend? Study 1 (adults that moved cities) [08:50] How many hours does it take to make a friend? Study 2 (college students) [10:50] Striving Behaviours, quality conversation [13:13] What is the secret to being liked? [15:20] Outtro References: Ebbesen, E.B., Kjos, G.L., & Konečni, J. (1976). Spatial ecology: Its effects on the choice of friends and enemies. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 12(6), 505-518. https://doi.org/10.1016/0022-1031(76)90030-5 Hall, J. A. (2019). How many hours does it take to make a friend ? Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 36(4), 1278–1296. https://doi.org/10.1177/0265407518761225 Aronson, E., & Worchel, P. (1966). Similarity versus liking as determinants of interpersonal attractiveness. Psychonomic Science, 5(4), 157-158. http://dx.doi.org/10.3758/BF03328329
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Self-talk, tell yourself something nice today!
What you say to yourself matters! How can we change what we say to ourselves? How can this help us? [00:35] What is self-talk? [02:00] There’s many kinds of self talk, but not all are good. [02:51] Too much self-critical self-talk is bad [04:15] The windshield and rear view mirror metaphor [05:45] A high level of self-reinforcing self-talk is good [06:48] Study: how positive and negative self talk can impact stressful situations [10:47] Super positive self-talk CAN be harmful if you have low-self esteem [13:50] Steps to better self-talk [17:45] How self talk can get you to where you want [18:30] Outtro
1 May 2019
Procrastination, how to stop the thief of time!
How do we stop procrastinating? I'll share some step by step instructions on how to reduce your procrastination. A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on ahappieryear.com [01:20] What is procrastination? [02:30] The car study: Unconscious thought and decision making [06:43] The job applicant study: further proving unconscious thought [08:10] Active and passive procrastination [12:29] Activity: Engage in productive procrastination [14:10] Activity: start for 10 minutes only [14:48] Activity: How to make any hard and complex task easy. [17:11] Procrastination and perfectionism
6 Feb 2019
Friends, how they affect your brain chemistry
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16 Oct 2019
Psychological safety, a conversation with Dr. Timothy R. Clark
In a nutshell, psychological safety is about feeling safe to learn, contribute, and challenge the status quo without fear of being embarrassed or punished. Listen as Dr. Clark shares his wealth of knowledge on this topic. A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on http://ahappieryear.com [01:50] Dr. Clark’s background [03:30] The background of psychological safety [04:30] The basic definition of psychological safety [06:07] Why is psychological safety important? [06:40] Personal experiment with psychological safety [08:07] What are some common causes of fear? The four stages of psychological safety [11:55] The first sign of psychological safety: Inclusion safety [15:05] How to make people feel included? [17:05] Stage two: Learner safety [17:45] Stage three: Contributor safety [18:35] Stage four: Challenger safety [20:32] What’s something a leader might be doing that is undermining psychological safety [22:12] What can an employee do? How to disagree. [24:50] How to compete in a healthy way [28:00] Intended audience [29:20] How this relates to students [32:00] A better way to view failure [39:54] Parting thoughts Get in touch with Dr. Clark email@example.com https://www.leaderfactor.com Get Dr. Clark’s book https://www.amazon.com/Stages-Psychological-Safety-Inclusion-Innovation/dp/1523087684
27 Nov 2019
Emotional contagion at work, unhappy customers and you
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7 Aug 2019
Temporal discounting, get future you to thank you
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28 Aug 2019
Social curiosity, you can create charisma
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Work is inevitable, happiness isn’t
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18 Sep 2019
Journaling, an easy way to gain insight
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Self-esteem, it’s okay to love yourself!
A high self-esteem and being able to love yourself doesn’t make you a narcissist. In fact, there’s many benefits to having a high self-esteem and many disadvantages to being narcissistic. A Happier Year is now available — an illustrated calendar with 366 science-based actions. Use the code "happycastlistener" for 10% off at checkout on ahappieryear.com [01:54] What is self-esteem? [02:30] Self-esteem is not narcissism [03:15] Story time: Self-esteem and middle school science projects [06:03] Study: Self-esteem and reading magazines [07:40] Self-esteem and happiness [08:47] Study: Self-esteem and presenting your true self, flaws and all. [11:02] Narcissism and criticism [12:15] The criticism sandwich [14:05] Study: Low self esteem can lead to self handicapping [16:46] Activity: self compliments
13 Feb 2019
Social Media, its impact on your happiness
Do likes and comments affect your happiness? What about aimlessly scrolling through your social media accounts? Does social media really improve your life? [00:44] Intro [02:30] Online pro-social behaviour...linked to prosocial behaviour in real life [05:36] Social networks compliment your real life. Not a replacement. [08:17] Passive social network use. [13:27] Likes and comments [15:51] Summary [16:50] Outro
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