Words are important to the Well Established Lesbian. It’s words that have her moving out and moving on. But they’re not just important to the WEL. Back in the Roller Derby universe she’s forced to check her ugly attitude towards pronouns and where on earth that nonsense is coming from. It's another Championship weekend, full of awesomeness on track. There’s an amazing opportunity on offer but one that means she’ll have to watch what she says. Ironically this chapter contains plenty of colourful language. Don’t forget to rate/review the show and if you want to help keep it ad-free, head over to ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian to leave a tip, donate or become a subscriber.

Words are important to the Well Established Lesbian. It’s words that have her moving out and moving on. But they’re not just important to the WEL. Back in the Roller Derby universe she’s forced to check her ugly attitude towards pronouns and where on earth that nonsense is coming from. It's another Championship weekend, full of awesomeness on track. There’s an amazing opportunity on offer but one that means she’ll have to watch what she says. Ironically this chapter contains plenty of colourful language. Don’t forget to rate/review the show and if you want to help keep it ad-free, head over to <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> to leave a tip, donate or become a subscriber.

62 - Cunning Linguist

The Well Established Lesbian is striking out on her own, in all directions. And she is just a little bit fed up with some of the fellas she’s meeting. And their unsolicited theories. Ugh boys. But with a dose of family support, the Well Established Lesbian puts a deposit down on her new life.This chapter contains some colourful language but it doesn’t contain adverts! (Seems like a win to me). Help keep it ad-free by donating or subscribing via ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian

The Well Established Lesbian is striking out on her own, in all directions. And she is just a little bit fed up with some of the fellas she’s meeting. And their unsolicited theories. Ugh boys. But with a dose of family support, the Well Established Lesbian puts a deposit down on her new life. This chapter contains some colourful language but it doesn’t contain adverts! (Seems like a win to me).  Help keep it ad-free by donating or subscribing via <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>

61 - Not Harry Potter

Another year older, another year wiser? Maybe, maybe. The Well Established Lesbian is finally learning some lessons, both at work and in life. New challenges present themselves but old troubles come back for another go, this time, does the WEL have enough respect for herself to say enough is enough?  And if she does draw a line, who else will end up on the wrong side? Will anyone be left standing in the last chance saloon? Will she even keep giving folks a second chance? Listen now to find out. This chapter contains some colourful language. Love the show? Want to help keep it ad-free? Donate or subscribe at ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian.

Another year older, another year wiser? Maybe, maybe. The Well Established Lesbian is finally learning some lessons, both at work and in life. New challenges present themselves but old troubles come back for another go, this time, does the WEL have enough respect for herself to say enough is enough?  And if she does draw a line, who else will end up on the wrong side? Will anyone be left standing in the last chance saloon? Will she even keep giving folks a second chance? Listen now to find out. This chapter contains some colourful language. Love the show? Want to help keep it ad-free? Donate or subscribe at <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>.

60 - R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

The Well Established Lesbian is getting involved in everything. All the sports. Not participating obviously. She’s taken her announcing to another level and her ex-girlfriend/friend with benefits, but with a boatload of history, on another weekend away. It’s business but can they make it pleasure too? Different sports bring out different sides of us and the WEL’s #ladmode gets activated. Her team can’t score but can she? This episode contains some colourful language. Support the show and keep it ad-free! Donate or subscribe at ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian.com

The Well Established Lesbian is getting involved in everything. All the sports. Not participating obviously. She’s taken her announcing to another level and her ex-girlfriend/friend with benefits, but with a boatload of history, on another weekend away. It’s business but can they make it pleasure too? Different sports bring out different sides of us and the WEL’s #ladmode gets activated. Her team can’t score but can she? This episode contains some colourful language. Support the show and keep it ad-free! Donate or subscribe at <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian.com</a>

59 - An Incorrigible Lesbian

The Well Established Lesbian is full of advice this week, advice for her flatmate, advice for the younger Butches, advice for those who want to cuddle an Alpaca and if she had any decent dating advice, she’d be taking it herself. Getting back with an ex isn’t ALWAYS a bad idea right? It’s got to be better than the insane stories the catfish are coming with. Or does the Well Established Lesbian just need to remember who she is trying to make happy… This chapter contains some colourful language. Keep the show ad-free, sponsor or donate from as little as £1 to help cover the show costs. ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian Follow on instagram @wellestablishedlesbian

The Well Established Lesbian is full of advice this week, advice for her flatmate, advice for the younger Butches, advice for those who want to cuddle an Alpaca and if she had any decent dating advice, she’d be taking it herself. Getting back with an ex isn’t ALWAYS a bad idea right? It’s got to be better than the insane stories the catfish are coming with. Or does the Well Established Lesbian just need to remember who she is trying to make happy… This chapter contains some colourful language. Keep the show ad-free, sponsor or donate from as little as £1 to help cover the show costs. <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Follow on instagram @wellestablishedlesbian

58 - Relentlessly Butch

In her quest to stay busy and ignore the disaster that is her love life, the Well Established Lesbian pursues a new hobby, keeps levelling up at the roller derby and takes on any other challenge she can find. Working hard and playing hard, can she resist the call, or the texts, of her ex? Will the return of the sexually ambiguous flatmate help? This chapter contains some colourful language and strong opinions on Christmas films. Subscribe or donate to keep the show ad-free at ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian

In her quest to stay busy and ignore the disaster that is her love life, the Well Established Lesbian pursues a new hobby, keeps levelling up at the roller derby and takes on any other challenge she can find. Working hard and playing hard, can she resist the call, or the texts, of her ex? Will the return of the sexually ambiguous flatmate help? This chapter contains some colourful language and strong opinions on Christmas films. Subscribe or donate to keep the show ad-free at <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian

57 - Everyone sucks

The Well Established Lesbian is making all kinds of moves and some are paying off. Others…not so much. She’s learnt a great deal about her best mate, maybe too much? Meanwhile, we’re about to find out if this town is big enough for these 2 ex-girlfriends…How will the WEL handle Ashleigh’s latest news? And what will she do when she runs out of distractions? This chapter contains plenty of colourful language and discussions about sex, but that straight sex business so no worries right? ;) Keep the show ad-free, subscribe or donate ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian Follow on instagram @wellestablishedlesbian

The Well Established Lesbian is making all kinds of moves and some are paying off. Others…not so much. She’s learnt a great deal about her best mate, maybe too much? Meanwhile, we’re about to find out if this town is big enough for these 2 ex-girlfriends…How will the WEL handle Ashleigh’s latest news? And what will she do when she runs out of distractions? This chapter contains plenty of colourful language and discussions about sex, but that straight sex business so no worries right? ;) Keep the show ad-free, subscribe or donate <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Follow on instagram @wellestablishedlesbian

56 - Flap Snaps

On a sorching summer's day the Well Established Lesbian considers the legality of her nipples. She wants them freed, ASAP! Anything to take her mind off the impending stand up comedy debut. Sweaty palms, a hammering heart and an audience full of mates. Will she bomb or will this be the start of something new? This chapter contains colourful language. Support the show, donate and subscribe now ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian

On a sorching summer's day the Well Established Lesbian considers the legality of her nipples. She wants them freed, ASAP! Anything to take her mind off the impending stand up comedy debut. Sweaty palms, a hammering heart and an audience full of mates. Will she bomb or will this be the start of something new? This chapter contains colourful language. Support the show, donate and subscribe now <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>

55 - Sticky Nipples

Still coming to terms with the consequences of her actions, or non action, the Well Established Lesbian needs to have a word with herself. It’s time to adapt, do things differently. Find a new path, footpath, of course. And now she’s got some crazy notion she can give stand up comedy a go. How hard can it be? Just being funny? Can’t be any harder than trying to work out how to ask a woman for her number right? Right? This chapter contains some colourful language. Keep the show ad-free and help cover the production costs. Donate now at ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian if you’ve enjoyed the content. Or just tell a friend. It all helps.

Still coming to terms with the consequences of her actions, or non action, the Well Established Lesbian needs to have a word with herself. It’s time to adapt, do things differently. Find a new path, footpath, of course. And now she’s got some crazy notion she can give stand up comedy a go. How hard can it be? Just being funny? Can’t be any harder than trying to work out how to ask a woman for her number right? Right? This chapter contains some colourful language. Keep the show ad-free and help cover the production costs. Donate now at <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> if you’ve enjoyed the content. Or just tell a friend. It all helps.

54 - Bus Wanker

When one door closes, another one is supposed to open. Or are you supposed to open it? The Well Established Lesbian has a theory that it will open when it’s good and ready. Meanwhile she decides to get back out there. In the world of online dating. There might be plenty of fish in the sea but too many are catfish and need to be thrown back. Feeling a little thin-skinned, the Well Established Lesbian is reminded that not everyone loves a Butch. But she isn’t looking for everyone. She never was. This chapter contains colourful language. Support the show and keep it ad-free, donate or subscribe now at ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian

When one door closes, another one is supposed to open. Or are you supposed to open it? The Well Established Lesbian has a theory that it will open when it’s good and ready. Meanwhile she decides to get back out there. In the world of online dating. There might be plenty of fish in the sea but too many are catfish and need to be thrown back. Feeling a little thin-skinned, the Well Established Lesbian is reminded that not everyone loves a Butch. But she isn’t looking for everyone. She never was. This chapter contains colourful language. Support the show and keep it ad-free, donate or subscribe now at <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>

53 - Ninety-nine problems but a Butch ain’t one

Join me, a Butch Lesbian, as I talk about growing up, and being a grown up, gay woman who is also gender nonconforming. Memories meet stories and become tales of experience. I recommend you start this podcast at episode 1, as this is a life story told chronologically, but I'm not the boss of you, jump in wherever you fancy!This lesbian podcast discusses mature themes and contains some colourful language.Ad-free! Help keep it that way. Support the show at www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian

CW: Mentions depression, anti-depressants &amp; suicidal ideation. Oh it’s messy isn’t it? Life. It’s up, it’s down and if we include the roller derby, it’s round and round too. The Well Established Lesbian is trying to keep a brave face for the world but it’s a struggle. And it’s not just her dislike of asking for help that’s getting in the way. You know what they say about assumptions, they’re the mother of all…problems. But she knows she’s not gonna get where she wants to be on her own. No matter how complicated that makes things. Life’s simpler when you just have to worry about what Simon says… This chapter contains some colourful language and honest discussions about depression. Want to support the show? Help keep it ad-free? Head over to ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian to subscribe or donate. Instagram @wellestablishedlesbian

CW: Mentions depression, anti-depressants &amp; suicidal ideation. Oh it’s messy isn’t it? Life. It’s up, it’s down and if we include the roller derby, it’s round and round too. The Well Established Lesbian is trying to keep a brave face for the world but it’s a struggle. And it’s not just her dislike of asking for help that’s getting in the way. You know what they say about assumptions, they’re the mother of all…problems. But she knows she’s not gonna get where she wants to be on her own. No matter how complicated that makes things. Life’s simpler when you just have to worry about what Simon says… This chapter contains some colourful language and honest discussions about depression. Want to support the show? Help keep it ad-free? Head over to <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> to subscribe or donate. Instagram @wellestablishedlesbian

52 - Simon Says

The Well Established Lesbian thinks she’s the new Banksy and faces tough negotiations when trying to sell her art. Break up admin still needs doing, bringing the exes back together, purely for practical reasons, or maybe not? The WEL has plans, aside from celebrating Christmas in September, but life doesn’t care. It’s one step forward, two steps back. Whatever happens, she’d do well to remember, no-one cares if you wear the red trousers and even astronauts have parents. This chapter contains some colourful language. Keep the show ad-free, donate or subscribe now www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian.  Follow on instagram, facebook and find a community of listeners over on reddit.

The Well Established Lesbian thinks she’s the new Banksy and faces tough negotiations when trying to sell her art. Break up admin still needs doing, bringing the exes back together, purely for practical reasons, or maybe not? The WEL has plans, aside from celebrating Christmas in September, but life doesn’t care. It’s one step forward, two steps back. Whatever happens, she’d do well to remember, no-one cares if you wear the red trousers and even astronauts have parents. This chapter contains some colourful language. Keep the show ad-free, donate or subscribe now <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>.  Follow on instagram, facebook and find a community of listeners over on reddit.

51 - Red Trousers

Welcome to the fiftieth chapter of Tales of a Well Established Lesbian. To celebrate it’s a bumper chapter. From moving out and moving on, to campsite drama and Pride parades. And the rebound that she'll insist isn't a rebound. It’s all going on for the Well Established Lesbian and she’s about to find out that Pride quite literally comes before a fall.This chapter contains colourful language and mature LGBTQIA+ themes.Keep the show ad-free, support or donate at www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbianFollow me @wellestablishedlesbian on Instagram.Thanks for listening. vONaqudZXJn9DJN4yPYt

Welcome to the fiftieth chapter of Tales of a Well Established Lesbian. To celebrate it’s a bumper chapter. From moving out and moving on, to campsite drama and Pride parades. And the rebound that she'll insist isn't a rebound. It’s all going on for the Well Established Lesbian and she’s about to find out that Pride quite literally comes before a fall. This chapter contains colourful language and mature LGBTQIA+ themes. Keep the show ad-free, support or donate at <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Follow me @wellestablishedlesbian on Instagram. Thanks for listening. vONaqudZXJn9DJN4yPYt

50 – Pride comes before a fall

What’s the most Lesbian thing you’ve ever done? How about a trip with your fiancé, from who you are separated, and your best mate, who’s ex-girlfriend you are currently sleeping with, and 2 other mates to witness the drama? That is exactly what the Well Established Lesbian is up to this week and you just know you have to hear how this one turns out… This chapter contains colourful language. Keep the show ad-free by donating/subscribing at www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian

What’s the most Lesbian thing you’ve ever done? How about a trip with your fiancé, from who you are separated, and your best mate, who’s ex-girlfriend you are currently sleeping with, and 2 other mates to witness the drama? That is exactly what the Well Established Lesbian is up to this week and you just know you have to hear how this one turns out… This chapter contains colourful language. Keep the show ad-free by donating/subscribing at <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>

49 – Loving or Leaving?

The aftermath. The shift of a relationship. The Well Established Lesbian needs to find a way through what they’re calling a “trial separation”. But if they’re not talking, how can they fix it? This chapter sees the WEL face the choice of dealing with reality or distracting herself from it. She might be turning 35 but she’s not feeling very mature at all… This chapter contains colourful language. Support the show – help cover the costs – keep the advertisers at bay! Head over to ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian to donate or subscribe now.

The aftermath. The shift of a relationship. The Well Established Lesbian needs to find a way through what they’re calling a “trial separation”. But if they’re not talking, how can they fix it? This chapter sees the WEL face the choice of dealing with reality or distracting herself from it. She might be turning 35 but she’s not feeling very mature at all… This chapter contains colourful language. Support the show – help cover the costs – keep the advertisers at bay! Head over to <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> to donate or subscribe now.

48 – Rules of Separation

In this chapter, the Well Established Lesbian has yet another wedding to attend. Though this time, being the Butch cousin in a suit is the least of her problems. Drink leads to drunk which leads to some shameful behaviour from our protagonist and an explosion of emotion. Will the Well Established Lesbian push that big red button or will cooler heads prevail? Listen now to find out. This chapter contains some colourful language. Love the show? Keep it ad-free by subscribing or donating at ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian Insta @wellestablishedlesbian Facebook @talesofawellestablished (you can’t say lesbian on Facebook, it gets all embarrassed!)

In this chapter, the Well Established Lesbian has yet another wedding to attend. Though this time, being the Butch cousin in a suit is the least of her problems. Drink leads to drunk which leads to some shameful behaviour from our protagonist and an explosion of emotion. Will the Well Established Lesbian push that big red button or will cooler heads prevail? Listen now to find out. This chapter contains some colourful language. Love the show? Keep it ad-free by subscribing or donating at <a href="http://ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Insta @wellestablishedlesbian Facebook @talesofawellestablished (you can’t say lesbian on Facebook, it gets all embarrassed!)

47 – The Finger

Welcome back to Tales of a Well Established Lesbian. Re-join the story as the Well Established Lesbian deals with the aftermath of loss and the blame game continues. Can the WEL and Ash find a way through their grief? Will they come back together in these dark times? One thing is always certain, friends will always find a way to be there. Oh and there’s a brush with the law, just don’t tell my Mum ok?! This podcast contains some colourful language. Subscribe or donate at www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian Follow on Facebook or insta @wellestablishedlesbian

Welcome back to Tales of a Well Established Lesbian. Re-join the story as the Well Established Lesbian deals with the aftermath of loss and the blame game continues. Can the WEL and Ash find a way through their grief? Will they come back together in these dark times? One thing is always certain, friends will always find a way to be there. Oh and there’s a brush with the law, just don’t tell my Mum ok?! This podcast contains some colourful language. Subscribe or donate at <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Follow on Facebook or insta @wellestablishedlesbian

46 – The Dark Side

The loss of a beloved pet hurts no matter who you are. But when lesbians lose their cat? It's a tragedy that only gets more dramatic. Putting the Well Established Lesbian's recent transgressions firmly at the back of her mind. Who can think of sexting in a time of grief? The Well Established Lesbian will return on January 9th 2022. CW: This chapter discusses the loss of a pet and may be upsetting. There is also some colourful language. Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian or visit www.wellestablishedlesbian.com Keep the show ad-free and subscribe now for as little or as much as you want. www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian

The loss of a beloved pet hurts no matter who you are. But when lesbians lose their cat? It's a tragedy that only gets more dramatic. Putting the Well Established Lesbian's recent transgressions firmly at the back of her mind. Who can think of sexting in a time of grief? The Well Established Lesbian will return on January 9th 2022. CW: This chapter discusses the loss of a pet and may be upsetting. There is also some colourful language. Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian or visit <a href="http://www.wellestablishedlesbian.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.wellestablishedlesbian.com</a> Keep the show ad-free and subscribe now for as little or as much as you want. <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>

45 - House of Gucci

The Well Established Lesbian is back to celebrate her 10th anniversary with her fiancé. Rome is on the cards and a weekend of celebrations. But can a cheeky city break really help these two get back on track? Or will they be derailed? And when it comes down to it, who really is the problem here? The WEL can’t help but get the sinking feeling that she might be the bad guy in this tale.This chapter contains some colourful language.Keep the show ad-free, subscribe or donate at www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbianFollow on insta @wellestablishedlesbianwww.wellestablishedlesbian.com

The Well Established Lesbian is back to celebrate her 10th anniversary with her fiancé. Rome is on the cards and a weekend of celebrations. But can a cheeky city break really help these two get back on track? Or will they be derailed? And when it comes down to it, who really is the problem here? The WEL can’t help but get the sinking feeling that she might be the bad guy in this tale. This chapter contains some colourful language. Keep the show ad-free, subscribe or donate at <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian <a href="http://www.wellestablishedlesbian.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.wellestablishedlesbian.com</a>

44 – Wait, am I the bad guy?

The Well Established Lesbian’s life is getting busy. There are new faces, new places but she can’t help but make some familiar mistakes. Just as the WEL is busy making much ado about nothing, life hands her a reminder that no-one gets out alive. The Well Established Lesbian finds comfort in music, fake beards, and the people in her life. She also finds more than she expects when she cracks a book at long last… This chapter contains some colourful language and discussions about death and grief. Consider subscribing to help cover the costs of the show and keep it ad-free. Head to www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian

The Well Established Lesbian’s life is getting busy. There are new faces, new places but she can’t help but make some familiar mistakes. Just as the WEL is busy making much ado about nothing, life hands her a reminder that no-one gets out alive. The Well Established Lesbian finds comfort in music, fake beards, and the people in her life. She also finds more than she expects when she cracks a book at long last… This chapter contains some colourful language and discussions about death and grief. Consider subscribing to help cover the costs of the show and keep it ad-free. Head to <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a> Follow on insta @wellestablishedlesbian

43 – You know nothing

Join me, a Butch Lesbian, as I talk about growing up, and being a grown up, gay woman who is also gender nonconforming. Memories meet stories and become tales of experience. I recommend you start this podcast at episode 1, as this is a life story told chronologically, but I'm not the boss of you, jump in wherever you fancy! This lesbian podcast discusses mature themes and contains some colourful language. Ad-free! Help keep it that way. Support the show at <a href="http://www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ko-fi.com/wellestablishedlesbian</a>

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