Rank #1: Three things we don’t rotate in our parenting but maybe we should

There are so many things that we are juggling with parenting. If this is you then this episode might be just what you’re looking for because if we’re so busy trying to keep all the plates spinning we may not realize that we don’t actually need all the plates spinning.
There might be another way.
As usual in this episodes I want to challenge you to think deeply about your family and see if small changes will make big impacts in the family atmosphere and the way our families run.
We rotate our mattresses, our clothes from one season to another, the tyres ( not a typo it’s how we write it in the UK honest!) on our car because we know that it’s better when we do.
What things do we not rotate in our homes in our walk with family?
I’m excited to share three areas that perhaps you’ve not considered rotating before but I hope you do after having a listen. That first night of sleep after flipping that mattress is bliss imagine how things might be with a parenting rotation.
During this episode we talk about three things we don’t rotate in our parenting but maybe we should along with some ideas about how to do it.
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01.02 First thing we don’t rotate in our parenting but maybe we should and what you can do right now?
16.53 Second thing we don’t rotate in our parenting but maybe we should and what you can do right now?
22.13 Third thing we don’t rotate in our parenting but maybe we should and what you can do right now?
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Small steps to an easier morning exit
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Apr 15 2016
43mins
Rank #2: Developing habits, Goal setting, Unity and cooperation Character Conversation Audio

Character Conversation Cards are available in two formats: task cards (pdf) and an audio file.
The audio file is a downloadable .mp3 file of the 25 conversation task cards read with a special effect to signal when to stop the audio to answer questions.
This set is all about developing habits,goal setting, unity and cooperation and is the Audio version.
Note: Audio bundles have the music note and Audio and do not contain the the pdf version.
Developing habits, goal setting, unity and cooperation Character Conversation Audio
Choose the audio version if
- you want to have character conversations on the go with your 6- 13 year old children.
- you want to be one step removed and someone else is reading the situation.
- you want to use this at a listening station, on a family journey or to make a change.
Get these Character Conversation Cards for $5
Each pack is different.
Within this audio:
- 10 situations on developing habits
- 10 situations on goal setting
- 5 situations on unity and cooperation
Each card had a short real life situation and different questions afterwards to encourage longer answers and especially, “What would you do?”
Listen to the situation and activate voice commands to play, pause and stop to give time for discussion for a hands free session. There’s an audible pause and time to pause the recording to respond if you prefer to use the buttons.
Listen on your phone and download to your tablet for easy on the go use.
Download the audio of the 25 character conversation situations on Developing habits, goal setting, unity and cooperation as one bundled audio.
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To help foster communication there’s no answer key as answers will depend upon your values.
*Older children may enjoy debating ideas and there’s opportunity to rest on many sides of an issue and work through the thinking to the end. E.g. If I do it this way, this will happen, then this etc.
Want to know what the audio sounds like?
Can I have the pdf version of this Character Conversations Set?
Developing habits, goal setting, unity and cooperation character conversation task cards pdf $3
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May 02 2016
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Rank #3: Start your family meal ritual

Families should gather together over a meal. Yeah yeah yeah! We’ve heard that before. Tried it before and it didn’t really work out.
This week we we focus less on the why and more on the how we create a meal ritual so that family times run smoothly. ( For the family and us!)
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Show notes
00:01 Introduction
4 steps to a smoother family meal times now everyone is together.
2:45 Not just family dinner but other mealtimes
3:14 When you start a ritual early
4:04 Brand new to a a family ritual
4:29 Quick 5 reasons why you need a family meal ritual ( if you need to convince others or remind yourself on those days!)
7:46 How family meal time changes and what we might do for our family at this time
10:15 FIRST step to a smoother family meal times
11:42 SECOND step to a smoother family meal times
14:57 THIRD step to a smoother family meal times
17:12 FOURTH step to a smoother family meal times
RESOURCE: Prayer sticks
Discussion about family meal rituals
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Jun 10 2016
24mins
Rank #4: Awesome Emotionally Healthy Kids

As school age kids mature they bump up against a few truths.
They are not perfect or the best. There are others who are better.
They have to work harder at some things than others and it doesn’t seem fair that others find it easier.
Feelings are hurt. They question themselves. They wonder, ‘I used to be good- great- amazing. What happened?’
“I can’t do this? I’m embarrassed to ask?’
‘What do you mean I missed the deadline? It’s not that late. No one told me it was important! It’s not my fault! ‘
‘ That was humiliating! They were way better than me. I thought I was good? I’m not going again.’
‘ I’m not doing it. I don’t want to. I don’t care.’
But if families want to raise emotionally healthy kids there needs to be a careful navigation of the messages, support, guidelines kids receive so they feel confident and ready to move through the teen years and into young adulthood.
This episode we talk about the messages kids get in the first 10 years of their life that give them freedom, warmth, nurture, unconditional love and if this is all they receive they might just become entitled teens and adults with unrealistic expectations with negative self-talk or lack motivation.
However, there are an awesome set of second messages that kids really need to know that give them wings to fly, confidence to get up again, the courage to thrive and seek out solutions. I’m excited about sharing this episode as it’s a mindset shift and super easy to do.
This growing up thing is tricky to navigate for parents and kids. Let’s do this together!
Growing Nimble Families podcast encourages the celebration of school age kids traveling through middle childhood
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction to raising emotionally healthy kids
03:55 Beginning to see things differently
05:29 See things from their perspective
06:34 Transition from this seems easy to some. Some of this is really hard and I can’t do it! What do I do?
07:11 Dr Tim Elmore childhood and adolescent messages
12:42 Making those decisions isn’t as easy they think
15:37 Talking about thinking ahead and putting off instant gratification
16:53 The special lessons that they learn through these second messages including how to help.
23:10 Practical ways to put the second messages into action
Resources for Awesome Emotionally Healthy Kids:
Contributions
Where do I start teaching our laundry system to the kids?
4 words that will change your contributions and chores forever
Contributions are better than Chores
Redistribution of contributions
Three things we don’t rotate in our parenting but maybe we should
Why the chores in your family are not working and some solutions
Grit
7 Family Habits worth building and How to
Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
Better connection during the school age years
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Jan 12 2018
34mins
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Rank #5: Why losing sleep is a big deal for kids

Who doesn’t love sleep?
When I cut my sleep time I know what will happen and often we assume the same thing will happen to our children. We’ll just be a little blurry and we just have to get through it! Brain science is telling us differently now. Children with sleep loss have very different effects than adults. It’s surprising how differently sleep loss is to a child and teen than it is to an adult. We’re not talking about babies and sleep but elementary and older children. So much happens when we sleep, if only they knew maybe they’d sleep more.
During this episode we talk about how children and adults lack of sleep is very different to each other and how we can support our family to have better sleep and why this is crucial for the well being of ourselves and the family.
What’s the struggle you’re having around sleep with elementary and older children?
What simple things have worked in your family to get the right amounts of sleep time?
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00.40 The case for adult and children sleep times being different and the impact it has on the children.
Now we know what do we do?
07.55 First way we can support our children with sleep
11.56 Second way we can support our children and a good phrase to use
13.50 Third way we can support our children as a family with sleep
17.08 Fourth way we can support our children and sleep by getting the facts and applying them with our family in mind
19.26 Fifth way we can positively support our children with good sleep habits starts with family atmosphere
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Show notes
Excellent book that challenges commonly held assumptions with science.
NurtureShock:: Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman
Hear Ashley Merryman’s episode on Praise
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Mar 25 2016
27mins
Rank #6: Simple Summer Traditions for Families

Summer is coming!
What memories do you have of childhood? Often they are around summer. If you want to create lasting memories why not try some simple family traditions. Every season is a good opportunity to have special traditions just for that season. Summer is no different.
There are lots of traditions to choose from and you can’t do them all. But when you find you few then it’s awesome. Everyone looks forward to them.
Listen into this episode to hear some ideas for simple summer traditions for the family.
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Show notes
Reading challenge- instagram photo
Overhauling reading when they read just one type of book
Extremely Good Parenting Podcast
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Apr 30 2016
34mins
Rank #7: When they make mistakes and fail-practical ways to help parents and children learn how to navigate this undertalked about topic during childhood

Do you get stuck in the loop of nag, complain, wait, nag, complain and wait? We know that learning from our mistakes and failures makes us a better person but it is so so hard to see our children heading for a fall or when failure is just visible. Parents usual are quick to jump in and rescue. Shouldn’t we rescue? Isn’t that part of our role?
As children get older some seem more resilient when they make mistakes and brush them off. Others have parents who manage their children’s lives to avoid the chance to make mistakes and failure to happen. ( Don’t we all at one time or another! But there is another way
Whatever type of parent you are you know that seeing your children hurt is a trigger yet you know that some mistakes and failure have had an enormous impact in your life.
You just need the right types of failures and mistakes in the right atmosphere for the parents and the children to learn, grow and navigate this under-talked about topic of mistakes and failure in a world where there’s a lot of shame around not being the same as everyone else.
Listen into this episode to hear some ideas about how you can support your children for now as they make mistakes and fail so that they can continue to take risks and succeed both now and as they grow older.
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Raising Playful Tots – the podcast for parents who want to make the most of their playtime and enjoy simple parenting
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Show notes
00:01 Introduction to risk taking and making mistakes
Big parent battle: shame around making mistakes +shame of parents
8:09 What do you do after you fail that’s good for children?
11:45 What do you tell the children about failure (when sharing your personal story)? Three questions
14:15 How do you slowly show children what to do after they have a result?
15:58 What happens when children say, ‘I dunno!’ and say they don’t have any ideas to give?
16:26 Dealing with our shame and their shame over results and the things we can do to support the situation now and be proactive for next time?
17:02 Reviewing after a result
Ng, Florrie Fei-Yin; Pomerantz, Eva M.; Lam, Shui-fongDevelopmental Psychology, Vol 43(5), Sep 2007, 1239-1255
17:45 Preview as an effective way to start conversations, curiosity and thinking
19:34 Children feel like failures in a classroom at the beginning of new topics and how we can change it.
21: 57 Near miss – a story of how to learn and do better for next time
26: 23 Who else can they turn to if we don’t have the right words?
27:07 The perfect place to work from failure ( There are lots of opportunities to fail and do better)
29:44 Encouraging progress, effort and motivation vs focus on end result only
30:38 Steps to handing off the homework to our children
Resource: Seven steps to feedback heaven
38:30 When you see the mistake in your child’s work what can you do instead of just correcting it yourself?
43:17 How you build resilience, perseverance and reset from failure in your child
47:51 Preparing now for the next stage without limiting their future
Resource: Labels limit learning
Resource: Encourage mistakes
Books mentioned in this episode
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May 16 2016
52mins
Rank #8: Getting on with the changing school age kid without losing your mind

Anyone else experiencing a new normal with the kids? Things are different. There’s more of things happening that didn’t use to happen like arguments or talking back. You know it’s part of growing up but this doesn’t seem like the kids you know.
Where has my child gone?
This episode is all about how to be comfortable in this transition. Honor who they were, are and going to be and without losing your mind. Encouragement to establish new baselines and figure a way for more autonomy to happen.
Growing Nimble Families podcast encourages the celebration of school age kids traveling through middle childhood
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction +Transitioning rites of passage for parents
Where has my child gone?
6:25 Prompts to remind us of the passing of time
9:36 Affirming our children
12:10 Unconditional love and how they see love vs what we show them
12:55 Keep talking activities suitable for school age kids
14:50 We need rites of passage reminders because there are things we want to pass on to them
18:56 When we’re present we can share how to recover and be resilient
Resources: After the encouragement comes action. Rituals to help us as parents move from little kid to bigger kid to teen. Here’s what you can do colour edition || Black and White edition
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Feb 19 2018
25mins
Rank #9: Rituals for Parents

This episode we are looking for the good in the stage we are in.
We love to look back and remember fondly especially when times are tough in our current stage. If you’ve ever been stuck looking back and worrying about the future this is the episode for you to see how to move positively forward with your school age kid.
Rituals help us move along and enjoy the stage we are at. Being positive with the things we are doing and going to be doing helps us see our kids struggles and keeps us on track. We get them ready and we get ourselves ready for it. Rituals help us with the transitions as parents move from little kid to bigger kid to teen.
Growing Nimble Families podcast encourages the celebration of school age kids traveling through middle childhood
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction
03:58 Positive ways of separating from our child and attaching in more mature ways
19:50 New framework for seeing their kid, child, tween, teen and young adult
Resources: 7 habits of Highly Effective Teens positive way to talk about the future, planning, goal setting.
Straight talk for kids Peer to peer conversations for the kids on motivation, involvement, frustrations, how to get better results with your parents, homework and relationships like positive ways to deal with brother/sisters. It’s another voice that says the same types of things you’ve likely been saying.
Pass It On: Building a Legacy of Faith for Your Children through Practical and Memorable Experiences Each grade level is covered with a special experience and passing of time activity. It’s a chance to celebrate positively the passing of time that honours the journey of childhood for the kids and us.
Painless study techniques short chapters and good for elementary and lower middle/secondary children especially if you can read it together.
The organized student Reading this book before your child transitions to that new school is a good reminder of different ways to organize sheets, work, homework, binders, backpacks and lockers for school.
Not all the ideas work for your child but when they have struggles you’ve got some new ideas to try. This is great especially when your child has different organizational strategies than you!
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Oct 28 2017
31mins
Rank #10: How to completely change how school kids study for quizzes and tests

Did you know there are six scientifically better ways to study and prepare for tests and quizzes that will help kids learn?
As kids are starting back to school many are experiencing those words, ” Study for the test on Friday!” and coming home and reading through their work the night before ( morning of!) believing that this is a good way of studying. It’s generally the only study method they know at the beginning.
Parent’s edition of study skills at home
This is a Parent’s edition of how to study to support the studying and revising that happens at home.
We all get used to ways of studying and working that suit us. Our children may learn differently to us. Whether they are entering 3rd grade and beginning to have spelling tests and short quizzes and are looking to start out the study habit right or you are looking for some different solutions to a frustrated situation this episode has something for you.
We go through how to have good learning habits that avoid cramming ( as the only strategy- listen to find out why that’s not such a good idea!)
In this episode, Cindy Wooldridge from the Learning Scientists.org talks about the 6 learning strategies that work for school age kids to use to study better. This is a special parents edition. You may be thinking, Schools teach study skills so I don’t need to worry. Maybe you don’t but children need the time to get comfortable with new skills.
They need time to practice.
They need time to master.
Mastery takes time and the school age years give ample time to gradually learn these skills before they plunge into multiple tests and prep.
Growing Nimble Families podcast encourages the celebration of school age kids traveling through middle childhood
Show Notes
- Encouragement for parents who are worried about how to help students learn/ study and start good habits
- What’s the best way to help our kids when they come home with those notes in the planner that says, “Study for the test on Tuesday”?
Resources: Spaced practice
- What would you teach first for learning strategies
Retrieval practice- “Having the problems and coming up with the answer for them or seeing the terms and coming up with the definitions themselves and then going back and checking their work.”
Resources: Retrieval practices that work
Spaced practice- “spacing out the study over time”
- Why did you choose these 6 strategies?
- What are the other 4 other study techniques and examples I could try?
- Elaborate- “constantly asking why and how do you find out about this.”
- Interleaving- “switching things up instead of always studying in the same order change/ or different subjects.”
- Concrete examples- “coming up with real world examples for the material”
- Dual Coding- “idea we tend to learn things better when we have a picture associated with it.”
- In one ear and out the other why cramming isn’t’ the answer over time if you want to retain and reuse the information
Do any of these work better with elementary students?
The case for letting kids find their best way to study and how we can guide them without taking over
Supporting school age kids to navigate the school systems to know grades, contact teachers, find information on the teacher’s webpage and learn how to make study timetables etc.
The hidden shame of studying and study skills
The struggle as a parent to let them try and when to intervene especially when you see things aren’t going well.
Ideas about how to start doing these study ideas age appropriately
The LearningScientists.org has lots of fantastic resources with videos and downloads.
Here are the posters I mentioned in the episode, and the bookmarks.
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Sep 02 2017
42mins