During this time of quarantine, we’re all having LOTS of family meals. As great as sitting around the dinner table sounds, sometimes it’s challenging to make it meaningful. We get it! We’re living the same life. This week we thought we’d pull this episode from our vault to remind us of the difference sitting around the table makes in connecting as a family. Next Steps: Pull out the ol’ calendar and schedule your family meals together for the rest of your month Related-ish Link: We have RESEARCH! National Health Institute Review HERE Family Meals &amp; Social Engagement Study HERE Family Meals &amp; Overall Health insight HERE The Family Dinner Project Website HERE Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

During this time of quarantine, we’re all having LOTS of family meals. As great as sitting around the dinner table sounds, sometimes it’s challenging to make it meaningful. We get it! We’re living the same life. This week we thought we’d pull this episode from our vault to remind us of the difference sitting around the table makes in connecting as a family. Next Steps: Pull out the ol’ calendar and schedule your family meals together for the rest of your month Related-ish Link: We have RESEARCH! National Health Institute Review <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4325878/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> Family Meals &amp; Social Engagement Study <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/263742552_Frequency_of_Family_Meals_and_6-11-year-old_Children%27s_Social_Behaviors" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> Family Meals &amp; Overall Health insight <a href="https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/12/171214092322.htm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> The Family Dinner Project Website <a href="https://thefamilydinnerproject.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#174 - Making Family Meals Worthwhile (replay)

As we all adjust to the impact of a world with homeschooling, social distancing, and quarantines, the struggle for a new normal is real. On today’s podcast we discuss 8-9 strategies that help make the transition smoother. Related Links: Matthew Walker  Why We Sleep Process This: What are your observations on how each person is wired and how that impacts their response to being quarantined. Talk about what you do well and what you'd like to do differently Also remember: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

As we all adjust to the impact of a world with homeschooling, social distancing, and quarantines, the struggle for a new normal is real. On today’s podcast we discuss 8-9 strategies that help make the transition smoother. Related Links: Matthew Walker <a href="https://smile.amazon.com/Why-We-Sleep-Unlocking-Dreams/dp/1501144316/ref=smi_www_rco2_go_smi_g8217842112?_encoding=UTF8&amp;%2AVersion%2A=1&amp;%2Aentries%2A=0&amp;ie=UTF8" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Why We Sleep</a> Process This: What are your observations on how each person is wired and how that impacts their response to being quarantined. Talk about what you do well and what you'd like to do differently Also remember: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#173 - 8 1/2 Parenting Strategies During A Pandemic

The world is a crazy place! Like every generation before, today’s parents have to process difficult news with their kids. But where do we start? What do we say? How can we explain events we don’t fully understand? In today’s podcast, Billy and Joy talk about principles parents should consider as they process current events with their kids. How do we lead our family well - and wisely - when we are emotionally charged ourselves? Talk about this: Are there any "general rules" we violate? How well do we process current events as a family? How can we improve? WHAT seems like it needs processing these days? Also remember: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

The world is a crazy place! Like every generation before, today’s parents have to process difficult news with their kids. But where do we start? What do we say? How can we explain events we don’t fully understand? In today’s podcast, Billy and Joy talk about principles parents should consider as they process current events with their kids. How do we lead our family well - and wisely - when we are emotionally charged ourselves? Talk about this: Are there any "general rules" we violate? How well do we process current events as a family? How can we improve? WHAT seems like it needs processing these days? Also remember: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#172 - Discussing Current Events With Kids (Replay)

Whether we like it or not, every kid faces challenges. Sometimes these difficulties are intense, painful, or life-altering. Does that make the challenges necessary or even bad? What do we do when adversity takes over? How should we respond? Join us for today’s conversation.  Related Links: Lisa D’amour in the  NY Times Also check out her books:  Untangled  Under Pressure Process This: - Share the stories of your "worst childhood/teenager days" with your spouse- what did you learn through the hard times? - What tension do you feel when you think about your kids having bad days? - What is a good way for you to prepare for the evitable, but NOT drift into worry? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

Whether we like it or not, every kid faces challenges. Sometimes these difficulties are intense, painful, or life-altering. Does that make the challenges necessary or even bad? What do we do when adversity takes over? How should we respond? Join us for today’s conversation.  Related Links: Lisa D’amour in the <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/18/well/family/why-teenagers-reject-parents-solutions-to-their-problems.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> NY Times</a> Also check out her books: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Untangled-Guiding-Teenage-Transitions-Adulthood/dp/0553393073/ref=sr_1_3?crid=2PLRYJ5I9MPW6&amp;keywords=lisa+damour&amp;qid=1583200088&amp;sprefix=lisa+d%2Caps%2C151&amp;sr=8-3" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Untangled</a> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Under-Pressure-Confronting-Epidemic-Anxiety/dp/0399180079/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2PLRYJ5I9MPW6&amp;keywords=lisa+damour&amp;qid=1583200088&amp;sprefix=lisa+d%2Caps%2C151&amp;sr=8-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Under Pressure</a> Process This: - Share the stories of your "worst childhood/teenager days" with your spouse- what did you learn through the hard times? - What tension do you feel when you think about your kids having bad days? - What is a good way for you to prepare for the evitable, but NOT drift into worry? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#171 – Preparing For Your Kid’s Challenges

Like a vine growing without the steady hand of a gardener, every marriage has the potential of getting out of control. On today’s podcast we’ll discuss four stages that help both the newly and “oldy” weds make sure they are growing closer. Related Links: Check out the book -  Boundaries for Marriage Process This: Of the four steps where are you most likely to fall short? –  Creating a structure (boundaries) - Paying Attention - Doing the work/ climbing the ladder - Committing to growth What is ONE new habit you could create to do better on that missing step? Also remember: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

Like a vine growing without the steady hand of a gardener, every marriage has the potential of getting out of control. On today’s podcast we’ll discuss four stages that help both the newly and “oldy” weds make sure they are growing closer. Related Links: Check out the book - <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Marriage-Henry-Cloud/dp/0310243149/ref=redir_mobile_desktop?ie=UTF8&amp;aaxitk=0vgmcPX4DQtzp2I0.DOI0w&amp;hsa_cr_id=3573033300901&amp;ref_=sb_s_sparkle" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Boundaries for Marriage</a> Process This: Of the four steps where are you most likely to fall short? –  Creating a structure (boundaries) - Paying Attention - Doing the work/ climbing the ladder - Committing to growth What is ONE new habit you could create to do better on that missing step? Also remember: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#170 – Four Stages To Keep Your Marriage On Track

Have you ever felt like your kids aren’t grateful for what they have or what they experience? Do you ever feel like they live with a distasteful attitude of demandingness? Perhaps you see this tendency in yourself? In this replay episode Billy and Joy discuss the benefits of having an attitude of gratitude and some practical ways to build the habit of thankfulness in your family. TALK ABOUT THIS: How well do I (personally) communicate gratitude? and how well is our family overall at cultivating attitudes of gratitude? Where are your family "pinch points?" What parts of our family environment need to look different and what habits do we need to cultivate? RELATED-ISH LINKS  Episode #17 – Creating a Plan For Money &amp; Allowance With Your Kids Do guys or girls make better sound effects? Check out the video HERE ALSO REMEMBER: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

Have you ever felt like your kids aren’t grateful for what they have or what they experience? Do you ever feel like they live with a distasteful attitude of demandingness? Perhaps you see this tendency in yourself? In this replay episode Billy and Joy discuss the benefits of having an attitude of gratitude and some practical ways to build the habit of thankfulness in your family. TALK ABOUT THIS: How well do I (personally) communicate gratitude? and how well is our family overall at cultivating attitudes of gratitude? Where are your family "pinch points?" What parts of our family environment need to look different and what habits do we need to cultivate? RELATED-ISH LINKS <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/money-allowance-plan-with-kids?rq=%2317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #17</a> – Creating a Plan For Money &amp; Allowance With Your Kids Do guys or girls make better sound effects? Check out the video <a href="https://vimeo.com/48955170" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> ALSO REMEMBER: Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#169 - Creating A Grateful Family

As long as there have been families, children have misunderstood their parents and parents have misunderstood their kids. No one enjoys this reality, but it is a fact of life. How do you process the frustration that comes along with this truth? How do you build connections? That’s this week’s discussion. Related Links:  Episode # 84 – Getting To The Bottom Of Disagreements Process This: How much do you struggle with being misunderstood? What's the best way to address and care for those feelings? Where do you need to focus your mental energies? What "mutual understanding" ideas can you apply this week? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

As long as there have been families, children have misunderstood their parents and parents have misunderstood their kids. No one enjoys this reality, but it is a fact of life. How do you process the frustration that comes along with this truth? How do you build connections? That’s this week’s discussion. Related Links: <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/getting-to-the-bottom-of-disagreements?rq=%2384" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 84</a> – Getting To The Bottom Of Disagreements Process This: How much do you struggle with being misunderstood? What's the best way to address and care for those feelings? Where do you need to focus your mental energies? What "mutual understanding" ideas can you apply this week? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#168 – On Being Misunderstood

Life is difficult. This is a universal truth. However, some people seem particularly well-equipped when facing struggles. How does that happen? Are there secrets to enduring (or even thriving?) during challenges? On today’s podcast we’ll discuss a handful of approaches for doing some prework. Related Links:  Episode # 163 – The First, Best Response To Any Conflict  Episode # 158 – Creating Intentional Habits  Episode # 7 – Don’t Do Life Alone Process This: In which of these areas do you feel most deficient? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

Life is difficult. This is a universal truth. However, some people seem particularly well-equipped when facing struggles. How does that happen? Are there secrets to enduring (or even thriving?) during challenges? On today’s podcast we’ll discuss a handful of approaches for doing some prework. Related Links: <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/first-best-response-to-conflict?rq=163" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 163</a> – The First, Best Response To Any Conflict <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/creating-intentional-habits?rq=158" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 158</a> – Creating Intentional Habits <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/dont-do-life-alone?rq=7" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 7</a> – Don’t Do Life Alone Process This: In which of these areas do you feel most deficient? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#167 – Five Ways To Prepare For Hardships

Time to clear out the question bag except THIS time we have a theme! Join us as we process some wildly specific newlywed queries with universal answers. Related Links:  Episode # 9 – Five Tips On Making In-Law Relationships Work   Episode # 60 - What to do when spouses annoy  Episode # 119 – Improving Your Relationships With Better Systems Process This: Which of these are you most likely to struggle with? Where do you need to establish new habits? Who would benefit by hearing these reminders? (share!) Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

Time to clear out the question bag except THIS time we have a theme! Join us as we process some wildly specific newlywed queries with universal answers. Related Links: <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/getting-inlaw-relationships-to-work?rq=9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 9</a> – Five Tips On Making In-Law Relationships Work  <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/2017/11/14/60-what-to-do-when-spouses-annoy?rq=annoy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 60</a> - What to do when spouses annoy <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/improving-marriage-improving-systems?rq=119" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 119</a> – Improving Your Relationships With Better Systems Process This: Which of these are you most likely to struggle with? Where do you need to establish new habits? Who would benefit by hearing these reminders? (share!) Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#166 – Question Grab Bag : Newlywed Edition

Have you noticed (or felt) a low-level of parent fatigue? Are you familiar with the dazed expression of someone who is feeling overwhelmed? Well, now is as good a time as any to remember things we can do to encourage our community. Today’s podcast offers nine practical ways to lighten up the load of others and find a little encouragement yourself. Related Links:  Episode # 89 – Why Married Couples Need Single Friends (and Vise Versa)  Episode # 42 – The Most Powerful Question in Marriage Practice This: Identify 2-3 parents that you can invest in for the next few weeks - then make a plan to use your words of encouragement If you have someone in mind who could use some presence - either in the form of listening - or actually helping with life's logistics, make a plan to SHOW UP! Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

Have you noticed (or felt) a low-level of parent fatigue? Are you familiar with the dazed expression of someone who is feeling overwhelmed? Well, now is as good a time as any to remember things we can do to encourage our community. Today’s podcast offers nine practical ways to lighten up the load of others and find a little encouragement yourself. Related Links: <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/practicing-vulnerability-marriage-ega88?rq=single%20friends" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 89</a> – Why Married Couples Need Single Friends (and Vise Versa) <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/most-powerful-marriage-question?rq=marriage%20question" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 42</a> – The Most Powerful Question in Marriage Practice This: Identify 2-3 parents that you can invest in for the next few weeks - then make a plan to use your words of encouragement If you have someone in mind who could use some presence - either in the form of listening - or actually helping with life's logistics, make a plan to SHOW UP! Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#165 – 9 Ways To Encourage Other Parents

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In our last episode Joy detailed her list of what wives really want their husbands to know, so now it’s Billy’s turn. Of COURSE this list isn’t all-inclusive and, to be sure, some of it may not be relevant to you (especially #9), but hey – it’s a great start! Talk about this: Wives, ask your husbands if any of these reflect his feelings! Also remember… Tag someone who you think would like this podcast on one of the socials! Leave a review! It’s an easy way to invest in others and we really appreciate the support!

In our last episode Joy detailed her list of what wives really want their husbands to know, so now it’s Billy’s turn. Of COURSE this list isn’t all-inclusive and, to be sure, some of it may not be relevant to you (especially #9), but hey – it’s a great start! Talk about this: Wives, ask your husbands if any of these reflect his feelings! Also remember… Tag someone who you think would like this podcast on one of the socials! Leave a review! It’s an easy way to invest in others and we really appreciate the support!

#76 - 15 Things Husbands Really Want Their Wives To Know

If you’re newly pregnant or know someone who is today’s discussion is practical and encouraging! We kick around the question about whether you can “over share” and what it means to curate rather than collect advice. Take a listen (and congratulations!) Talk About This: Which of these 10 tips feels most challenging? Why? How should we prioritize this advice? Related Links: #90 -  What New Parents Wish Grandparents Knew #25 -  Ten Guiding Principles for Parents with Newborns #54 -  Toddler 101: Parenting Through the Early Years Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!   Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

If you’re newly pregnant or know someone who is today’s discussion is practical and encouraging! We kick around the question about whether you can “over share” and what it means to curate rather than collect advice. Take a listen (and congratulations!) Talk About This: Which of these 10 tips feels most challenging? Why? How should we prioritize this advice? Related Links: #90 - <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/grandparents?rq=%2390" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> What New Parents Wish Grandparents Knew</a> #25 - <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/10-newborn-principles-parents?rq=%2325" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Ten Guiding Principles for Parents with Newborns</a> #54 - <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/toddler101-parenting-through-early-years?rq=%2354" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Toddler 101: Parenting Through the Early Years</a> Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!   Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#123– 10 Tips for the Newly Pregnant

While there’s no instruction manual for marriage, it’s not uncommon for spouses to have a mental “wish list” of things they wish their spouse understood. In this week’s episode Joy has taken a stab at fifteen such “things.” Maybe you’ll agree - -maybe you won’t. Either way, it should prompt some good discussion! Guys – don’t worry. Next week Billy will have a chance to share his list! Talk about this: Husbands, ask your wives if any of these things reflect her feelings! Also remember… Sharing is caring! If you enjoy Between Parents, please share with your friends. Tag someone on the “socials” or repost. We are on Facebook @betweenparentspodcast and you can chat back with us on Instagram @betweenparents or on Twitter @between_parents

While there’s no instruction manual for marriage, it’s not uncommon for spouses to have a mental “wish list” of things they wish their spouse understood. In this week’s episode Joy has taken a stab at fifteen such “things.” Maybe you’ll agree - -maybe you won’t. Either way, it should prompt some good discussion! Guys – don’t worry. Next week Billy will have a chance to share his list! Talk about this: Husbands, ask your wives if any of these things reflect her feelings! Also remember… Sharing is caring! If you enjoy Between Parents, please share with your friends. Tag someone on the “socials” or repost. We are on Facebook @betweenparentspodcast and you can chat back with us on Instagram @betweenparents or on Twitter @between_parents

#75 - 15 Things wives really want their husbands to know

Are you engaged or recently married? Do you know someone who is? Or have you been married for a while and forget all of the helpful newlywed tips? Take a listen as Joy &amp; Billy review 21 quick bits of advice for how to get marriage off to a great start! Spoiler… here’s the list!  Go to bed at the same time No device in the bedroom Do unpleasant tasks together Hang out a lot together. (Aim for inefficiency) Create shorthand triggers Nest together Practice your faith together Prioritize community Serve together Observe the 10-to-10 rule Think about “being kind” rather than “being nice” Avoid major cash outlays in the first year Also avoid major new time commitments Have a plan with the in-laws Give yourselves time to grow – pace yourself Commit to NO conversations in your head! But don’t say EVERYthing! Don’t lose yourself Date your spouse Sneakaway with your spouse Assume good intentions  Talk about this: If you're a newlywed or engaged, review the ENTIRE list with your spouse/fiance and talk about which areas might be challenges for you. If you've been married for a while talk to your spouse about which of these YOU find most challenging. Also remember… We are on Facebook! If you like the page you’ll receive more consistent updates and be able to share episodes with others. Connect with us @BetweenParentsPodcast Have you left a review on Apple Podcasts (formerly know as iTunes)? This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Along with Apple Podcasts, Overcast, and Stitcher, Between Parents is now on TuneIn (the fun way to listen if you are using Amazon’s Alexa). You can chat back with us on Twitter @between_parents or on Instagram @betweenparents   Thanks for listening and sharing this podcast with your friends!

Are you engaged or recently married? Do you know someone who is? Or have you been married for a while and forget all of the helpful newlywed tips? Take a listen as Joy &amp; Billy review 21 quick bits of advice for how to get marriage off to a great start! Spoiler… here’s the list! <ol> <li>Go to bed at the same time</li> <li>No device in the bedroom</li> <li>Do unpleasant tasks together</li> <li>Hang out a lot together. (Aim for inefficiency)</li> <li>Create shorthand triggers</li> <li>Nest together</li> <li>Practice your faith together</li> <li>Prioritize community</li> <li>Serve together</li> <li>Observe the 10-to-10 rule</li> <li>Think about “being kind” rather than “being nice”</li> <li>Avoid major cash outlays in the first year</li> <li>Also avoid major new time commitments</li> <li>Have a plan with the in-laws</li> <li>Give yourselves time to grow – pace yourself</li> <li>Commit to NO conversations in your head!</li> <li>But don’t say EVERYthing!</li> <li>Don’t lose yourself</li> <li>Date your spouse</li> <li>Sneakaway with your spouse</li> <li>Assume good intentions</li> </ol> Talk about this: If you're a newlywed or engaged, review the ENTIRE list with your spouse/fiance and talk about which areas might be challenges for you. If you've been married for a while talk to your spouse about which of these YOU find most challenging. Also remember… We are on Facebook! If you like the page you’ll receive more consistent updates and be able to share episodes with others. Connect with us @BetweenParentsPodcast Have you left a review on Apple Podcasts (formerly know as iTunes)? This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Along with Apple Podcasts, Overcast, and Stitcher, Between Parents is now on TuneIn (the fun way to listen if you are using Amazon’s Alexa). You can chat back with us on Twitter @between_parents or on Instagram @betweenparents Thanks for listening and sharing this podcast with your friends!

#51 - 21 Bits of Advice For Newlyweds

Do you ever lose your cool? Have you ever felt like you have one nerve left and everyone is standing on it? If you’re like us, it’s easy to react to people and circumstances reflexively – to give full range to impatience, frustration, or anger. In this episode Billy and Joy kick around the idea of responding rather than reacting to the things that bug us. Take a listen and form some of your own opinions about their opinions! Talk about this: How often do I react to my kids versus respond to them? What "Pause Phrases" can I use? (Practice them!) What circumstances do I need to imagine in advance? Where do I struggle to "assume good intentions?" Related-ish Links Malaphor examples Getting to the bottom of disagreements – Episode #84  HERE Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome…

Do you ever lose your cool? Have you ever felt like you have one nerve left and everyone is standing on it? If you’re like us, it’s easy to react to people and circumstances reflexively – to give full range to impatience, frustration, or anger. In this episode Billy and Joy kick around the idea of responding rather than reacting to the things that bug us. Take a listen and form some of your own opinions about their opinions! Talk about this: How often do I react to my kids versus respond to them? What "Pause Phrases" can I use? (Practice them!) What circumstances do I need to imagine in advance? Where do I struggle to "assume good intentions?" Related-ish Links Malaphor <a href="https://blog.oxforddictionaries.com/2017/05/24/malaphors/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">examples</a> Getting to the bottom of disagreements – Episode #84 <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/getting-to-the-bottom-of-disagreements" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome…

#85 - Respond vs React: How to Keep Your Cool

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to trash a place? Without constant maintenance it feels like garbage would take over our lives. The same is true in our marriage – little habits and behaviors creep into our relationship that can eventually trash the connection with our spouse. In this episode Billy and Joy review the “Dirty Dozen” of marriage garbage and offer some ways to see if any of them are cluttering your relationship. Talk about this: Where is there garbage in our marriage? What steps do I need to take to get rid of it? How can I take ownership of the garbage I leave around? Related Links:  Episode #104 - Coming to grips with your spouse’s imperfection  Episode #95 – Marriage is a team sport  Episode #11 – The Awkward Date Night  Episode #97 – Forgiveness in Marriage Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to trash a place? Without constant maintenance it feels like garbage would take over our lives. The same is true in our marriage – little habits and behaviors creep into our relationship that can eventually trash the connection with our spouse. In this episode Billy and Joy review the “Dirty Dozen” of marriage garbage and offer some ways to see if any of them are cluttering your relationship. Talk about this: Where is there garbage in our marriage? What steps do I need to take to get rid of it? How can I take ownership of the garbage I leave around? Related Links: <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/coming-to-grips-with-your-spouses-imperfection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #104</a> - Coming to grips with your spouse’s imperfection <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/marriage-as-a-team-sport?rq=marriage%20team%20sport" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #95</a> – Marriage is a team sport <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/awkward-date-night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #11</a> – The Awkward Date Night <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/forgiveness-in-marriage?rq=forgiveness" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #97</a> – Forgiveness in Marriage Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#106 – 12 Garbage Habits in Marriage

Here’s a fact that made us say “wow”:  according to Pew Research, sharing household chores ranks as a top three issue associated with having a successful marriage (third only to faithfulness and good sex). This seems like something we can all master, right? That’s today’s podcast conversation! Talk about this: Go out of your way to express gratitude to your spouse this week. Compare notes to clarify and synchronize your household priorities Discuss which tasks you hate the most and then plan on doing the chores together. Related Link In case you REALLY want to know, the mascot for the University of Waterloo is the King Warrior. Check it out HERE Article about couples thinking they do all the work  HERE Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

Here’s a fact that made us say “wow”:  according to Pew Research, sharing household chores ranks as a top three issue associated with having a successful marriage (third only to faithfulness and good sex). This seems like something we can all master, right? That’s today’s podcast conversation! Talk about this: Go out of your way to express gratitude to your spouse this week. Compare notes to clarify and synchronize your household priorities Discuss which tasks you hate the most and then plan on doing the chores together. Related Link In case you REALLY want to know, the mascot for the University of Waterloo is the King Warrior. Check it out <a href="https://athletics.uwaterloo.ca/news/2012/8/3/CR_0803123103.aspx" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> Article about couples thinking they do all the work <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2015/05/why-everyone-thinks-theyre-doing-all-the-work.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#161 – 5 Thoughts On Dividing Household Chores

You’re going to be a grandparent. Congratulations! This should be easy, like Parenting 2.0, right? Not so fast. In this episode Billy and Joy discuss the tension filled moments between expectant parents and grandparents. They have compiled a list of best practices and ways to avoid the most common relationship pitfalls. Talk about this: Grandparents – process the topics discussed on the podcast that you haven’t reviewed already. Remember to get clarity about delivery and home visits and ask about their strategies. Parents – make sure your have clarity on your hopes for the delivery and homecoming process and be ready to answer the question “how can I help?” Related Links: Defining your family story – podcast  HERE Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome!

You’re going to be a grandparent. Congratulations! This should be easy, like Parenting 2.0, right? Not so fast. In this episode Billy and Joy discuss the tension filled moments between expectant parents and grandparents. They have compiled a list of best practices and ways to avoid the most common relationship pitfalls. Talk about this: Grandparents – process the topics discussed on the podcast that you haven’t reviewed already. Remember to get clarity about delivery and home visits and ask about their strategies. Parents – make sure your have clarity on your hopes for the delivery and homecoming process and be ready to answer the question “how can I help?” Related Links: Defining your family story – podcast <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/defining-your-family-story?rq=story" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome!

#90 - What New Parents Wish Grandparents Knew

Have you ever been at a store or at a government agency and been completely frustrated with how poorly the place was run? If so, then you’ve come across this principle: A lack of organization leads to relational tension. This is true not only with service organizations - it’s true in our marriages. In this episode we’ll  discuss how you can make your marriage better simply by improving some of your systems. Talk About This: What tensions do we regularly face that might be related to bad (or no) systems? What can we do, organizationally, to improve? What solutions do we need to research or use? (What do we need to learn to make this better?) Related Links: Episode # 40 -  The One Piece of Data That Blew Our Minds   Date Night blog posts  here,  here, and  here. PLUS an @home date night idea  HERE  Book review –  The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up A Blog post about Creating Homes in the kitchen  HERE   Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

Have you ever been at a store or at a government agency and been completely frustrated with how poorly the place was run? If so, then you’ve come across this principle: A lack of organization leads to relational tension. This is true not only with service organizations - it’s true in our marriages. In this episode we’ll  discuss how you can make your marriage better simply by improving some of your systems. Talk About This: What tensions do we regularly face that might be related to bad (or no) systems? What can we do, organizationally, to improve? What solutions do we need to research or use? (What do we need to learn to make this better?) Related Links: Episode # 40 - <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/one-piece-of-data-93?rq=%20%2340" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> The One Piece of Data That Blew Our Minds </a> Date Night blog posts <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/the-eleven-date-nights-are-serious-business?rq=date%20night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a>, <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/fighting-for-date-nights?rq=date%20night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a>, and <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/top-5-dining-out-tips?rq=date%20night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a>. PLUS an @home date night idea <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/home-date-night?rq=date%20night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> Book review – <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/book-review-the-life-changing-magic-of-tidying-up?rq=tidying%20up" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up</a> A Blog post about Creating Homes in the kitchen <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/10-principles-that-keep-my-kitchen-sane?rq=creating%20homes%20" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#119– Improving Your Marriage Through Better Systems

Have you ever considered how easy it is to find flaws in other people and how challenging it is to see our own faults? Even though this bias is natural, it’s not very helpful in a marriage. Today’s discussion breaks apart this phenomenon and challenges us to dig a little deeper into our individual issues. Fun, right? Listen in if you dare! Talk about this: The biggest flaw I bring in the marriage is _ What words feel safe for my spouse to use around this flaw?  In what way does my spouse's behavior make sense? How well do I empathize with their struggles? What can I do to extend grace to them? Also remember: Have you left a review on iTunes?  This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

Have you ever considered how easy it is to find flaws in other people and how challenging it is to see our own faults? Even though this bias is natural, it’s not very helpful in a marriage. Today’s discussion breaks apart this phenomenon and challenges us to dig a little deeper into our individual issues. Fun, right? Listen in if you dare! Talk about this: The biggest flaw I bring in the marriage is _ What words feel safe for my spouse to use around this flaw?  In what way does my spouse's behavior make sense? How well do I empathize with their struggles? What can I do to extend grace to them? Also remember: Have you left a review on iTunes?  This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#145 – Facing Flaws In Marriage

There are plenty of word pictures that work for describing a great relationship, but one of the most memorable ones we’ve ever heard is seeing marriage as a team sport. In this episode, Billy and Joy break down five ways treating your spouse like a teammate can be a game changer. Talk about this: How well do we function as a team? What areas need our attention? What do you feel are your unique talents and where would you like to see my support? When do you feel like I celebrate you well? And where can I do better? Related Links:The Awkward Date Night - Episode #11  The Awkward Date Night Blog Post Also remember:We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome!

There are plenty of word pictures that work for describing a great relationship, but one of the most memorable ones we’ve ever heard is seeing marriage as a team sport. In this episode, Billy and Joy break down five ways treating your spouse like a teammate can be a game changer. Talk about this: How well do we function as a team? What areas need our attention? What do you feel are your unique talents and where would you like to see my support? When do you feel like I celebrate you well? And where can I do better? Related Links:<a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/awkward-date-night?rq=awkward%20date%20night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Awkward Date Night - Episode #11</a> <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/the-awkward-date-night?rq=awkward%20date%20night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> The Awkward Date Night Blog Post</a> Also remember:We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome!

#95 – Marriage As A Team Sport

Are you thinking about having kids? Ever wonder what you need to know or maybe what things you shouldn’t worry about? Where do you start? In this episode Billy &amp; Joy talk about six crucial practice you should develop before you have kids. While this list isn’t exhaustive, it’s a great starting point. Here’s a quick recap of the list: #1 – Establish healthy habits #2 – Dial into families whose family (and processes) you admire #3 – Prioritize your marriage #4 – Prepare for your new life with some practical questions #5 – Imagine the failings, disappointments, and flaws with a family #6 – Practice Serving Talk about this: Where do we need to spend time thinking about our pre-kid planning? Related Link In case you want to see the list of misspelt words!  http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/5538890/Definitely-is-most-commonly-misspelt-word.html Also remember… We are on Facebook! If you like the page you’ll receive more consistent updates and be able to share episodes with others. Connect with us @BetweenParentsPodcast Also have you left a review on iTunes? TODAY IS YOUR DAY!!!! Leaving a review is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Along with iTunes, Overcast, and Stitcher, Between Parents is now on TuneIn (the fun way to listen if you are using Amazon’s Alexa). You can chat back with us on Twitter @between_parents or on Instagram @betweenparents Thanks for listening and sharing this podcast with your friends!

Are you thinking about having kids? Ever wonder what you need to know or maybe what things you shouldn’t worry about? Where do you start? In this episode Billy &amp; Joy talk about six crucial practice you should develop before you have kids. While this list isn’t exhaustive, it’s a great starting point. Here’s a quick recap of the list: #1 – Establish healthy habits #2 – Dial into families whose family (and processes) you admire #3 – Prioritize your marriage #4 – Prepare for your new life with some practical questions #5 – Imagine the failings, disappointments, and flaws with a family #6 – Practice Serving Talk about this: Where do we need to spend time thinking about our pre-kid planning? Related Link In case you want to see the list of misspelt words! <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/5538890/Definitely-is-most-commonly-misspelt-word.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/5538890/Definitely-is-most-commonly-misspelt-word.html</a> Also remember… We are on Facebook! If you like the page you’ll receive more consistent updates and be able to share episodes with others. Connect with us @BetweenParentsPodcast Also have you left a review on iTunes? TODAY IS YOUR DAY!!!! Leaving a review is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Along with iTunes, Overcast, and Stitcher, Between Parents is now on TuneIn (the fun way to listen if you are using Amazon’s Alexa). You can chat back with us on Twitter @between_parents or on Instagram @betweenparents Thanks for listening and sharing this podcast with your friends!

#32 – 6 Crucial Practices Before Becoming Parents

Has your spouse ever hurt you? Or have you ever done anything to hurt your spouse? No matter how great your marriage, there will be times where forgiveness is required. But even when you recognize this as true, the actual FORGIVING isn’t easy. In this episode we discuss not only why you should forgive your spouse but some practical ways to build a habit of forgiveness. Talk about this: This week we don't have questions for you so much as we want you to PRACTICE the last point of the podcast* which is to go to your spouse with anything YOU have done and ask for forgiveness - receive it well - then PRACTICE letting go! (*Note – this might not make sense if you’re reading these notes before listening to the podcast, so go listen!)   Related links: Benefits of forgiveness articles  HERE and  HERE (use google for a whole bunch more!) Episode #60 –  What To Do When Spouses Annoy Episode #11 -The Awkward Date Night Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

Has your spouse ever hurt you? Or have you ever done anything to hurt your spouse? No matter how great your marriage, there will be times where forgiveness is required. But even when you recognize this as true, the actual FORGIVING isn’t easy. In this episode we discuss not only why you should forgive your spouse but some practical ways to build a habit of forgiveness. Talk about this: This week we don't have questions for you so much as we want you to PRACTICE the last point of the podcast* which is to go to your spouse with anything YOU have done and ask for forgiveness - receive it well - then PRACTICE letting go! (*Note – this might not make sense if you’re reading these notes before listening to the podcast, so go listen!) Related links: Benefits of forgiveness articles <a href="https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/healthy_aging/healthy_connections/forgiveness-your-health-depends-on-it" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> and <a href="https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/forgiveness/art-20047692" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> (use google for a whole bunch more!) Episode #60 – <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/2017/11/14/60-what-to-do-when-spouses-annoy?rq=when%20spouses" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> What To Do When Spouses Annoy</a> Episode #11 -<a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/awkward-date-night?rq=awkward" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Awkward Date Night</a> Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

# 97 - Forgiveness In Marriage

When someone says you should “invest in your marriage” do you ever wonder what that means? How can you make the idea practical?  Look no further! We have 20 quick ideas for you! Talk About This: Today’s episode is less about talking and more about DOING! Pick your favorite “investment reminders” from the show and do some of them! Related Links:  Episode #57 – Hurry Home  Episode #9 – Making In –Law Relationships Work  Episode #45- Let’s Talk About Sex: Marriage Edition  Episode # 95 – Marriage As A Team Sport The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman HERE Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

When someone says you should “invest in your marriage” do you ever wonder what that means? How can you make the idea practical?  Look no further! We have 20 quick ideas for you! Talk About This: Today’s episode is less about talking and more about DOING! Pick your favorite “investment reminders” from the show and do some of them! Related Links: <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/hurrying-home?rq=%2357" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #57</a> – Hurry Home <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/getting-inlaw-relationships-to-work?rq=%239" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #9</a> – Making In –Law Relationships Work <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/lets-talk-about-sex-marriage-edition?rq=%2345" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #45</a>- Let’s Talk About Sex: Marriage Edition <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/marriage-as-a-team-sport?rq=date%20night" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 95</a> – Marriage As A Team Sport The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman HERE Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#135- 20 Practical Ways To Invest In Your Marriage

If you have kids middle school age or younger today’s episode gives you some bite-sized thoughts to digest. Consider it a little encouragement for walking through the season of raging hormones, emotional tsunamis, and one-word answers. Talk About This: Which resonate with you most? Which are you already doing?   Which will be hardest for you to implement? Which do you want to try? Related Links: Episode 8 -  Is this Really Just a Stage? Episode 73 -  Enjoying the Middle School Years Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

If you have kids middle school age or younger today’s episode gives you some bite-sized thoughts to digest. Consider it a little encouragement for walking through the season of raging hormones, emotional tsunamis, and one-word answers. Talk About This: Which resonate with you most? Which are you already doing?   Which will be hardest for you to implement? Which do you want to try? Related Links: Episode 8 - <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/is-this-really-just-a-stage?rq=%238" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Is this Really Just a Stage?</a> Episode 73 - <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/enjoying-the-middle-school-years?rq=%2373" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Enjoying the Middle School Years</a> Also remember: Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#125– Nine Quick Tips For Raising Middle Schoolers

Extra-marital affairs can be ruinous to marriage, family, and self-esteem and yet they are familiar parts of our storylines. Is it possible to stop them from happening in the first place?  In today’s episode Billy and Joy discuss factors that erode our relationship and what we should focus on to keep our marriage strong. Talk about this: - How much do we talk about our temptations as a couple? How much do we talk about what concerns us? How can we be better? - In what areas might I/we be "eroding?" - Is there any practice or mindset that might leave us more exposed for affairs? Related links: The Art of Manliness podcast -  HERE Pornography and broken relationships article  HERE Guardrails – Message 3 Forever Yours HERE Also remember: Have you left a review on iTunes?  This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

Extra-marital affairs can be ruinous to marriage, family, and self-esteem and yet they are familiar parts of our storylines. Is it possible to stop them from happening in the first place?  In today’s episode Billy and Joy discuss factors that erode our relationship and what we should focus on to keep our marriage strong. Talk about this: - How much do we talk about our temptations as a couple? How much do we talk about what concerns us? How can we be better? - In what areas might I/we be "eroding?" - Is there any practice or mindset that might leave us more exposed for affairs? Related links: The Art of Manliness podcast - <a href="http://www.artofmanliness.com/2016/02/27/podcast-179-the-science-of-cheating-how-to-prevent-and-deal-with-infidelity/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> Pornography and broken relationships article <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/experimentations/201707/pornography-and-broken-relationships" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> HERE</a> Guardrails – Message 3 Forever Yours <a href="http://northpoint.org/messages/guardrails-2017/forever-yours/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a> Also remember: Have you left a review on iTunes?  This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content!  Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#141 – Can you “affair proof” your marriage? (replay)

Have your kids ever clammed up when you ask them questions? Do you feel like it’s been ages since you’ve heard more than a one-word answer? Perhaps there’s a better way to chat with our kids. In this episode we discuss five principles for starting great conversations. 1st PRINCIPLE: Question for interest - If it’s important to your kids, it should be important to you. 2nd PRINCIPLE: Question for stories – bring out the storyteller in your child 3rd PRINCIPLE: Question for the long view – anchoring your kid to family identity 4th PRINCIPLE: Question for insight - checking your child’s gauges 5th PRINCIPLE: Question for opinion – learning what your kid really thinks   Talk about this: What are the most common questions you ask your kids? Do they reflect your values? Which of the five principles do you need to incorporate into your repertoire? How can you remember to ask better questions? Related links: Mike Birbiglia asks Obama for baby advice here  Episode #37 - Creating A Family Identity  Episode # 41 - 21 Conversation Starters For Families Joy’s blog on asking effective questions  here Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website betweenparentspodcast.com Thanks for being awesome!

Have your kids ever clammed up when you ask them questions? Do you feel like it’s been ages since you’ve heard more than a one-word answer? Perhaps there’s a better way to chat with our kids. In this episode we discuss five principles for starting great conversations. 1st PRINCIPLE: Question for interest - If it’s important to your kids, it should be important to you. 2nd PRINCIPLE: Question for stories – bring out the storyteller in your child 3rd PRINCIPLE: Question for the long view – anchoring your kid to family identity 4th PRINCIPLE: Question for insight - checking your child’s gauges 5th PRINCIPLE: Question for opinion – learning what your kid really thinks Talk about this: What are the most common questions you ask your kids? Do they reflect your values? Which of the five principles do you need to incorporate into your repertoire? How can you remember to ask better questions? Related links: Mike Birbiglia asks Obama for baby advice <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vX1I2WS2BE" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/creating-your-family-identity?rq=creating%20family%20identity" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode #37</a> - Creating A Family Identity <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/21-conversation-starters-families?rq=questions" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Episode # 41</a> - 21 Conversation Starters For Families Joy’s blog on asking effective questions <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/blog/four-ways-to-ask-effective-questions?rq=asking%20questions" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a> Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Finally, if you don’t know where to begin listening to back episodes of the podcast, look for the helpful packages on our website <a href="http://betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> Thanks for being awesome!

#99 – Asking Kids Better Questions

“We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection. Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow."  - Brene Brown Wouldn’t it be great to be fully known and fully accepted? Isn’t that what love is all about? Isn’t it the ideal for marriage? Well, this kind of love doesn’t happen without a serious dose of vulnerability! So how do we build this habit into our relationships? That’s the topic of today’s podcast. Take a listen! Talk about this: How well do you think we do on the vulnerability continuum? When do you feel most safe to describe your feelings? What makes you feel like I have listened well to you? Related Links: Episode #84 -  Getting to the bottom of disagreements Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome…

“We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection. Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow."  - Brene Brown Wouldn’t it be great to be fully known and fully accepted? Isn’t that what love is all about? Isn’t it the ideal for marriage? Well, this kind of love doesn’t happen without a serious dose of vulnerability! So how do we build this habit into our relationships? That’s the topic of today’s podcast. Take a listen! Talk about this: How well do you think we do on the vulnerability continuum? When do you feel most safe to describe your feelings? What makes you feel like I have listened well to you? Related Links: Episode #84 - <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com/podcasts/getting-to-the-bottom-of-disagreements" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Getting to the bottom of disagreements</a> Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome…

#88 - Practicing Vulnerability in Marriage

No one likes to be picked at…but criticism is especially deadly in marriage. In this episode Billy &amp; Joy challenge you to try and see your critical habits in the mirror and to consider the impact they have on your marriage. Talk about this: What critique hurts more than others? What critiques feel like personal preferences? What criticisms are good advice, but delivered poorly? What topic/issue is most important to you? How does your wiring impact the way you communicate? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website betweenparentspodcast.com (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

No one likes to be picked at…but criticism is especially deadly in marriage. In this episode Billy &amp; Joy challenge you to try and see your critical habits in the mirror and to consider the impact they have on your marriage. Talk about this: What critique hurts more than others? What critiques feel like personal preferences? What criticisms are good advice, but delivered poorly? What topic/issue is most important to you? How does your wiring impact the way you communicate? Also remember… Sharing is caring!!  If you’ve enjoyed this episode please share! You can leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This is SUPER helpful in helping others find our show. OR cut/paste a link from our website <a href="https://www.betweenparentspodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">betweenparentspodcast.com</a> (this is also where you can find helpful packages of back episodes!) Want to reach us? You can find us on the socials @betweenparents on Instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. Thanks for being awesome!

#155 - Is Criticism Killing Your Marriage? (replay)

How can you be sure if your kids are ready for new responsibilities? Are there risks involved when you over or under nurture them? How do you give more freedom to your kids? Tackling these questions (plus a few more!). Take a listen! Talk about this: What is your tendency – to over or under nurture your kids? In what ways do you need to pivot or correct? How well do you balance between encouraging your kids to be independent versus demanding they need to hit an adult standard or quality? In what ways can you leave more room for your kids to grow in their ability to be more independent?  Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome…

How can you be sure if your kids are ready for new responsibilities? Are there risks involved when you over or under nurture them? How do you give more freedom to your kids? Tackling these questions (plus a few more!). Take a listen! Talk about this: What is your tendency – to over or under nurture your kids? In what ways do you need to pivot or correct? How well do you balance between encouraging your kids to be independent versus demanding they need to hit an adult standard or quality? In what ways can you leave more room for your kids to grow in their ability to be more independent?  Also remember: We love hearing from you. Reach out on the socials @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. While you’re there, tag someone who would also enjoy this content! Thanks for being awesome…

#83 - Leaving Space For Kids To Grow

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