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HIM.

A Weekly Podcast hosted by four black gay men discussing their lives, love life, what affects them & the Black LGBTQIA Community, against the backdrop of New York City.

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Episode 003: Real SEX

Lets Talk About Sex BABY !!!! We’re Back for Episode 3 Trey, Malik, Stevie, and Erin get REAL about Substances & Sex, Hookup Culture, The Ways We Get Ready for Sex, Our Favorite Positions and Our Little Kinks. Plus We answered a listener’s question. Don’t forget to follow us on twitter and instagram @HIMpodcast and our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions and you may hear them on the show. And Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Google Play, and Stitcher.

52mins

10 Oct 2017

Rank #1

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Bonus Episode: Thank You, Next

30mins

3 Jan 2019

Rank #2

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Episode 085: Problematic Butch Queen

1hr 8mins

13 Nov 2019

Rank #3

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Episode 086: Give + Take

This week on HIM, the boys dig deep & get specific with their Love Languages, then have a discussion on giving & loaning things within friendships & relationships.  Feel free to share, rate, and comment as you like on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel! Tweet us @TheHIMPodcast & use #HIMPodcast to share your thoughts on Episode 086!!

41mins

27 Nov 2019

Rank #4

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Episode 083: Back In The Day

This week on HIM, the boys take a warm and funny look back into their childhoods; discussing standout memories, best friends, and growing pains.  Feel free to share, rate, and comment as you like on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel! Tweet us @TheHIMPodcast & use #HIMPodcast to share your thoughts on Episode 083!

1hr 11mins

30 Oct 2019

Rank #5

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Episode 052: The P Word W/ SixSixPapi

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC chat about their first experiences with porn and how it has influenced their sex lives featuring special guest Anthony, also known as SixSixPapi. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Make sure you shop for HIM Merch at himpodcast.bigcartel.com! Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 052 SPECIAL GUEST Anthony: @sixsixpapi Session With Six Six Vlog : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp2FMA322xESLOCoCxM_mSQ Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

58mins

5 Dec 2018

Rank #6

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Episode 080: Mental Top

The boys are back, and after a lengthy check-in, they discuss ghosting, unsolicited nudes, and ruminate on relationships in a way they haven’t before!  Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheHimPodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel! Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 080! Finally, be sure to follow our Hosts on Twitter & Instagram! Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

1hr 42mins

18 Sep 2019

Rank #7

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Episode 023: No Means No

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s show by dishing on how they handle responding to romantic advances on various social media platforms and dating apps. In observance of Sexual Harassment Awareness Month the group discusses the sensitive topic of sexual harassment. The men of HIM answer a question from a listener and leave you with their jams of the week. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. #EndSexualViolence Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 023 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

1hr

25 Apr 2018

Rank #8

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Episode 037: Dem Jazzy Bitches W/ Kyle Price

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey are LIVE from the BANJEE Basement and they have a special guest, actor, and model, Kyle Price (IG:@kpholla2) from SlayTV’s hit web series Love At First Night! Kyle Price chats about his acting and modeling career as well as the highly anticipated season 3 of Love At First Night. The guys of HIM and Kyle speak their manifestations to their future husbands, and the handsome gang discusses how the stigmas of HIV are perpetuated via social media. The men of HIM and Kyle Price leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Kevin’s Heart” by J. Cole, “Heard About Us” by The Carters, “Save My Soul” by JoJo, “Tell Me You Love Me” by Demi Lovato and “Millionaire Dick” by City Girls. Remember, you can catch Kyle Price on Love At First Night via SlayTv and YouTube. Be sure to check out our weekly question thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 037 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses Kyle Price: @KPSWORLD  SlayTV’s Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/BluntedMuse

1hr 25mins

1 Aug 2018

Rank #9

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Episode 084: Crusin’ for a Bruisin

This week on HIM, the boys veer slightly off-course for a laugh-out-loud conversation on hosting, sex enhancers, intimacy, children & more!  Feel free to share, rate, and comment as you like on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel! Tweet us @TheHIMPodcast & use #HIMPodcast to share your thoughts on Episode 084! 

40mins

6 Nov 2019

Rank #10

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Episode 015: BEST SEX EVER.

You’re gonna think HIM invented sex! Stevie, Malik, Erin, & Trey are back and giving everyone a peak inside of their best sexual experiences EVER, as well as the ways we all can get better in bed. The men of HIM are also deep diving into their own fetishizes and kinks which gets things heated between Trey and Erin! Plus we answer a question from @ifuckupthefun on our thoughts about sleeping with your friends.  Don’t forget to follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, TuneIn, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 015 Please Answer Our Survey So We Can Learn More About What Y’all Like To Hear On the Show : https://goo.gl/forms/jwCPTw4JOrMr2FmT2 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

49mins

28 Feb 2018

Rank #11

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Episode 051: #SHORTTOPSONLY W/ Savoy Jefferson (of Eat Pray Thot)

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC dish on ex-boyfriends, #ShortTops, and intimacy vs. sex. with special guest and Head Thot, Savoy Jefferson from the hit podcast Eat Pray Thot. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show.Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 051 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses SPECIAL GUEST Savoy Jefferson: @voyvoy07 Eat Pray Thot Podcast: @eatprayth0t

57mins

28 Nov 2018

Rank #12

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Episode 014: BI BI BI-Sexual

We’re here and we’re queer! Stevie, Malik, Erin, & Trey are discussing Bisexuality. The boys are highlighting and discussing the stigma that surrounds bi-sexuality, specifically regarding men of color, as well as how that stigma effects the LGBTQ+ community. Also, a HIM listener asks us “What do you do when you don’t like your best friends significant other?”. Shout-out to this week's “HIM” of the Week Darius Edwards who joined us this week at our recording!!!! Don’t forget to follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, TuneIn, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 014 Please Answer Our Survey So We Can Learn More About What Y’all Like To Hear On the Show : https://goo.gl/forms/jwCPTw4JOrMr2FmT2 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

44mins

21 Feb 2018

Rank #13

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Episode 065: C.R.U.S.H

On this week’s episode the men of HIM discuss the most extreme thing they have ever done to get a crush’s attention. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 065 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @bytreyparkerMalik: @cosmiccocaine_Stevie: @steviesofetch_Erin: @lifethruglasses

43mins

27 Mar 2019

Rank #14

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Episode 057: Mama's Boy

This Week: The men of HIM chat about why they love their mothers and unresolved issues with parents. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 057 Follow Our Host On Twitter & InstagramTrey: @treyxparkerMalik: @cosmiccocaine_Stevie: @steviesofetch_Erin: @lifethruglasses

57mins

30 Jan 2019

Rank #15

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Episode 055: Emotional Butch Queen W/ Ehrie

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC sit down with special guests dynamic pop and R&B duo, indie artists, Ehrie to discuss their hit singles “Let Go” and “Half Bad”, the importance of emotional intelligence, and much much more. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 055 Follow Our Host On Twitter & InstagramTrey: @treyxparkerMalik: @cosmiccocaine_Stevie: @steviesofetch_Erin: @lifethruglasses SPECIAL GUEST Ehrie Twitter: @ehriemusic IG: @ehriemusic Fresh Finds: The Wave Playlist via Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/user/spotify/playlist/37i9dQZF1DWUFAJPVM3HTX?si=T_hnePvmT5q8JyHbKgLwiw

36mins

26 Dec 2018

Rank #16

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Episode 063: Seasoned Sissies

On this week’s episode the men of HIM discuss aging within the LGBTQ+ community. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show, and subscribe for exclusive content from the host of HIM on our Patreon using this link: https://www.patreon.com/HIMpodcast Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 063 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @bytreyparkerMalik: @cosmiccocaine_Stevie: @steviesofetch_Erin: @lifethruglasses

55mins

13 Mar 2019

Rank #17

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Episode 050: Hell Date

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by posing the question: Scientist have created a longevity treatment that will extend human mortality 200+ years, eradicating all illness and diseases Would you take the treatment? The handsome bunch offers advice on how to have the perfect first date. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Bad Bitch Anthem” by Trina, “Teenage Dirtbag” by WheatUS, “Money” by Cardi B, and “Orbit” by Nao. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Make sure you check out our HIM MERCH at himpodcast.bigcartel.com Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 050 Follow Our Host On Twitter & InstagramTrey: @treyxparkerMalik: @cosmiccocaine_Stevie: @steviesofetch_Erin: @lifethruglasses

54mins

14 Nov 2018

Rank #18

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Episode 013: RAW + UNCUT

WE’RE BACK !!!!!!!!!!!!! Kicking off season two RAW + UNCUT, Stevie, Malik, Erin, & Trey give their perspectives on Raw Sex, if we prefer a man Cut or Uncut and explain what has been going on in their lives for the last month in a half !!!  Don’t forget to follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show.  Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, Radio Public, TuneIn, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 013 Please Answer Our Survey So We Can Learn More About What Y’all Like To Hear On the Show : https://goo.gl/forms/jwCPTw4JOrMr2FmT2 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram  Trey: @treyxparker  Malik:  @cosmiccocaine_  Stevie:  @steviesofetch_  Erin: @lifethruglasses 

45mins

14 Feb 2018

Rank #19

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Episode 041: No Straight Kids w/ Tim Hell

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey are live at the Banjee Basement with special guest Tim Hell! The men of HIM and Tim Hell start this week’s episode off by posing the question: would you want your children to be gay? The handsome men of HIM and Tim Hell discuss turning your passion into a pay check. The guys of HIM and Tim Hell leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Plum” by Troye Sivan, “Damaged” by Danity Kane, “After Dark” by Drake, “Jealousy” by Dawn Richard, and “Good Form” by Nicki Minaj . Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email wearehimpodcast@gmail.com and you may hear it on the show. Also, be sure to follow our special guest Tim Hell via IG and Twitter @timhell. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqYDZ0Xjqu6pgiuH7ckeSng Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 041 Follow Our Host On Twitter & Instagram Trey: @treyxparker Malik: @cosmiccocaine_ Stevie: @steviesofetch_ Erin: @lifethruglasses

46mins

12 Sep 2018

Rank #20