Borderline Personality Disorder - The Abandonment Wound
BPD, or Borderline Personality Disorder, is characterized by a pervasive fear of abandonment and extreme emotional dysregulation. Those suffering from this disorder may act clingy and loving in one moment and then rage out in the next moment at any slight of perceived fear of abandoned by friends, partners, and family members. The inability to feel safe and calm the extreme efflux of emotions makes being in a relationship with a BPD can be exhausting and potentially lethal. Those suffering from BPD will need to face their inner abandonment issues and work through the wounds of childhood. They will need to heal their pain and emotional chaos without using others to keep them safe. When this is done it can allow for true connection with self and others in a way that is fulfilling and not abusive and controlling.
28 Jul 2019
Gaslighting is a control tactic done to make victims feel crazy by offering a series of lies masked as truths and forcing victims to doubt themselves and ultimately drives them crazy. Gaslighting is often used by narcissistic abusers to keep control of the relationship and cover up the truth of the relationship ship purpose which is to manipulate victims for personal gain.
5 Aug 2019
Codependency is a relationship dynamics that includes people pleasing, self sacrificing, and clinging to others in an attempt to avoid inner pain and wounds left from childhood and pst relationship hurts. Codependency often team up with narcissists in a perfect dance that include the codependent continuously giving in the hopes of being loved while the emotionally unavailable narcissistic abuser continuously taking serving their entitled sense of self.
11 Aug 2019
Narcissism & Childhood Wounds
Childhood wounds are extremely impactful on adult relationships. When childhood abuse occurs and wounds are inflicted, there will be an impact on the victims lens of perception as well as emotional regulation and ability to communicate. Listen as I discuss the effects of childhood wounds on adult life and relationships.
25 Jun 2019
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Covert Narcissistic Abuse - Abuse by Intention and Attitude
Find out how covert narcissistic abusers use their attitudes and covert intentions to abuse and destroy their victims.
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Grieving After Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic abuse is often difficult to identify but when does there will an initial shock. This shock will be followed by stages of grief that mirror a death. In reality, coming out of a narcissistically abusive relationship is similar to a death. The loss of one’s innocence, love, time, dreams, and opportunities will need to be grieved properly in order to heal and create a healthier future.
12 Sep 2019
Love Bombing is a tool used by narcissistic abusers to hook victims into an abusive relationship. Find out how it works and how to recover from such tactics used.
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The Narcissist's Double Life
In today's podcast I discuss the narcissists' double life and how this is created.
15 Dec 2019
Narcissistic Blame Shifting - Blaming The Victim
Narcissistic abusers are notorious for blaming their victims for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. Narcissistic Blame-shifting is an abuse technique that forces accountability off the true cause and has victims looking within for the source of the relationship issues. In turn, victims are left feeling guilting and shameful with no real idea as to how to resolve it. Have a listen as I discuss how this occurs in an abusive relationship.
10 Feb 2020
Narcissism and Reactivity
Trauma causes the emotional brain, the amygdala, to take control of victims minds and decision making. A narcissistically injures person will be someone who is completely operating out of this overactive amygdala and will be in a perpetual reactive state. Have a listen as I discuss how childhood trauma creates extreme reactivity in adulthood.
26 Jun 2019
Female Covert Narcissists - The Dangers of Passive Aggression
Female covert narcissist consist of some of the most dangerous predators on the planet. Because of their ability to hide the abuse behind the societal stigma of poor helpless female, they will be able to hide the ruthless emotional bullying and destroy others in the process. Have a listen as I discuss the dangers of covert passive aggressive females.
4 Oct 2019
My Story Of Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse
Have a listen as I go into some of the painful experiences and recovery from narcissistic abuse.
23 Sep 2019
Contact Vs No Contact
When deciding to leave a narcissistic abuser one will need to decide if they can contact their abuser or not. In deciding this it is important to determine how dangerous they are, if they will respect boundaries, and ones ability to maintain optimal health when communicating with the narcissistic abuser. If one needs to communicate with the narcissistic abuser it is important to keep emotions out of it as narcissists will look to exploit emotions.
27 Aug 2019
Narcissists and Sex
In today's podcast I discuss how narcissistic abusers exploit their victims sexually and how to overcome the devastating of this form of abuse.
17 Dec 2019
Why Most Therapy Doesn't Work For Narcissistic Abuse Victims/Narcissists
In today's podcast I discuss why conventional therapy doesn't work for narcissistic abuse victims as well as narcissistic abusers.
27 Dec 2019
Communicating with Narcissists
In today's podcast I discuss how to communicate with narcissistic abusers and emotional manipulators.
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Narcissistic Abuse and Spiritual Awakening
Narcissistic Abuse and Spiritual Awakening
26 Mar 2020
Empath Vs Narcissist
Find out how the empaths and narcissists are drawn to each other in relationships and why.
31 Oct 2019
Fake & Toxic Love Vs True & Healthy Love
In todays episode I discuss the difference between true and fake love and what it means within relationships.
4 Mar 2020
Narcissistic Supply is what narcissists’ need to fuel and keep in place their false self and fake world. This can come in many forms and is extracted from unknowing victims in the form of love, money, sex, attention, adoration, and anything that allows for the lie of the false self to be supported and reflected back as real. When the Supply is taken away as in the case of when abusers walk away, the narcissist is left with nothing but their true inner shame and humiliation from an abused past.
28 Aug 2019