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The Wooist Podcast

While much of the advice out there is to cover up yourself with dating techniques and strategies, this show is designed to help you build real social confidence in yourself so that you don’t have to fake your confidence when you’re in front of an attractive woman you have a romantic interest in. You will get some mens dating advice from this show, but overall you’re going to see your own brilliance and unlimited potential in a whole new way. By seeing this yourself you will meet, attract, and woo awesome women into your life with your newly discovered social confidence. If you have any questions you can email me at patrick@wooist.com or you can go to wooist.com.

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Suzanna Matthews | Cougar And Cub Dating | #248

In this weeks Wooist Podcast Episode, Patrick Wu (The Wooist) has Suzanna Matthews join in in on the conversation about cougar and cub dating. Suzanna Matthews is a dating coach and dating strategist helping people find love and connection. She is al also the author of the book Revising Mrs. Robinson.What You Will Learn:  The interesting relationship between cougar and cub relationships. What it was like going to a cuddle party and cuddling with a much older woman. How a woman can be a self-assured woman who is confident even if her beauty is ebbing away Are men afraid of dating older women because they assume she wants something more serious right off the bat. Where men can start if they want to date older women. Why some men enjoy dating older women. Why broadening your specifications of dating will help attract a larger and wider crowd of women. If she is older, then where can I go to find her? How much inner work do you need until you start getting into a cougar and cub relationship. How evolutionary advantage can give us a bias about having a cougar and cub relationship. What the key is to healthy and happy relationship. Why the biggest barrier from a man and a woman getting in a cub and cougar relationship is the fear of being judged by the peers and family. A good conversation to have before getting into the cub and cougar relationship so that both parties have each others backs. The answer of is a relationship successful if its not a marriage for life relationship. What my definition of a successful relationship is. What the soul has to do with being in a good relationship. What self-loathing can do to a person and a relationship from the inside out. What Suzanna appreciates about younger men.To get her book Revising Mrs. Robinson you can go to https://www.amazon.com/Revising-Mrs-Robinson-Navigating-Relationships-ebook/dp/B01HQLXHPU/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1517861339&sr=8-2&keywords=Suzanna+Mathews to get a copy.If you would like to reach out to either of us you can reach out to our facebook pages here.https://www.facebook.com/patrickwooist/ https://www.facebook.com/RevisingMrsRobinson/To subscribe to this podcast in the future you can go to https://www.wooist.com/podcast2/Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist).


9 Mar 2018

Rank #1

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Addictions, Relationships And Misunderstandings Of The Mind | Jason Shiers | #277

You can check out Jason Shier's Podcast at https://www.misunderstandingsofthemind.com or get in touch with Jason at https://www.wideworldcoaching.comYou can get your own copy of The Relationship Handbook by George Pransky here https://amzn.to/2LAfpaH Also you can check out the audio version of my book called the art of wooing by clicking here https://www.audible.com/pd/B07P8WGQ7T/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-144078&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144078_rh_usWhat You Will Learn: How to get out of the addictive nature of addictive relationships and being obsessed with searching for a better relationship. Why you may be looking for perfection in another person to give you a particular feeling. When you are happy you can share happiness with someone else. The illusion of if I have this person then everything will be ok. How to know if you're addicted to someone or something. The Question to ask yourself, "how happy are you when you are not with that you're addicted too". How the misunderstanding of your feelings around circumstances can cause you suffering. Why digging into problems of bad feelings only keeps bringing you bad feelings (hopelessness). How all the problems that you have created for yourself are from your thoughts. How to get out of this repeated chatter and habitual thinking. Why All the feelings that all people are searching for is when you mind is empty. How Jason creates better relationships these days after knowing this 3 Principles understanding. How Jason got to experience all the great feelings he was looking for when looking for the next relationship. Why people naturally gravitate towards people who are present with presence.if you have any questions you can email me at patrick@wooist.comHave a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


22 Jul 2019

Rank #2

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Is She Flirting Or Just Being Nice? | #245

How do know if she is flirting with you or if she's just being nice. Patrick Wu aka The Wooist and Veronique Pivetta the 3 Principles Coach join together as they tackle the misconceptions of dating to find easier, lazier, and more effective ways to become more attractive and have a more enjoyable dating experience.What You Will Learn:- Why you don't need to know whether someone is being flirty or nice.- Why no one knows what things will lead to in the beginning.- Why wondering about the outcome before it arises will make you less attractive to her.- Why you shouldn't treat women like women at first.- Why you should treat everyone as a human being first above everything else.- What to say to steer a conversation towards a romantic relationship.- How you just have to put yourself out there and see what happens.Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


16 Feb 2018

Rank #3

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Bouncing Back When A Woman Rejects You | #258

https://zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_eNm1z-HARp-jOlh5PWVmlAWhat You Will Learn: How come you're not great at talking to women. Why you need to talk to more girls, more women, and get more experience. How you are a resilient human being and why you are meant to heal. How to bounce back from social rejection. How to bounce back when a woman rejects you. What momentum can do to skyrocket your romantic and dating success.You can also email me at patrick@wooist.com.Have a woonderful dayPatrick Wu (The Wooist)


21 May 2018

Rank #4

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Where Does Attraction Come From | #251

Can you identify the moment you created attraction with her?Patrick Wu (The Wooist) and Veronique Pivetta the 3 Principles Coach join together as they tackle the misconceptions of dating to find easier, lazier, and more effective ways to become more attractive and have a more enjoyable dating experience.What You Will Learn: Where attraction happens. What The Cloud Of Nothingness is and where it comes from. The difference between attraction and connection. How having more connection with someone can raise your attraction for her. How Attraction can seem like a mental construct and how connection is from the heart. How do you know when the moment of attraction happens. When you match her list of what is attractive to her, she will then be attracted. Does having money create attraction? Why the crucial point of hitting the point of attraction is not as important.If you enjoyed this podcast episode please subscribe to it and share it with anyone you think would benefit from hearing it.if you have any questions you can email me at patrick@wooist.comHave a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


8 Apr 2018

Rank #5

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Are You Killing The Attraction ? | #252

Schedule a free 1 on 1 call with me here www.calendly.com/patrickwuDo you kill the attraction that you already created with her?What You Will Learn: What kills attractions with women. Why it is most likely that you are trying to hard. The main cause of why you are struggling with keeping attraction. Why it feels like attraction is so hard to create. What trying too hard is making attraction difficult. The difference between rapport and connection. How do you get into the space of connection and attraction? Find out where you are messing up in your own life when it comes to creating attraction with women.Good luck and happy wooing.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


19 Apr 2018

Rank #6

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Do Attractive Women Intimidate You? | #266

www.calendly.com/patrickwuWhat You Will Learn: How you can tell who is the most confident in the room by this one factor. Why most men freak out when they are in front of beautiful women. Why my good friend Jim is  not phased by the beauty of women. Why Jim has more trouble with sexy gay guys instead of sexy women. How to stop being intimidated by attractive women. What makes men fearful of beautiful and attractive women. How to stop overcompensating who you are to her.www.calendly.com/patrickwuIF you have any questions you can email them at patrick@wooist.com.Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


11 Oct 2018

Rank #7

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Do You Have A Conversation Checklist? | #264

www.calendly.com/patrickwuWhat You Will Learn: The difference between the robotiic guy and the suave guy. How insecure thinking made me more neurotic when it came to talking to women. Why I had a checklist of things to say and do when in conversation with her. Things that I did to not be friendzoned? How I am now more suave with women. How your connection with the present moment is in direct proportion to connection with women. Why I thought the conversation checklist was going to help me get out of the friend zone. Why being more sensitive and feeling more helped me connect with women better. How I ended up at a reiki yoga studio. How women have a better intuition than men and why they can feel what you're experiencing.www.calendly.com/patrickwuIf you want to join me on a cruise to get that rhythm feeling and timing when connecting with women where you will experience a direct feeling of this, then join click on the link below and lets see if it would be something for you.Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


28 Sep 2018

Rank #8

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How I Met My 2019 Girl | #272

To learn more about the art of wooing academy click here https://wooist.lpages.co/art-of-wooing-academy-copy-revised/What You Will Learn: how you can be at the right place at the right time romantically.how I had no plans for new years eve but how it all worked our perfectly. how i met a girl for new years eve and soon had a guy swoop her away from me.Why things can happen for you romantically by worrying less about how to control romantic situations. If you want to join us for the art of wooing academy starting on January 7th 2019 Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


5 Jan 2019

Rank #9

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The 2 Styles In The Art Of Wooing | #271

https://wooist.lpages.co/free-confidence-guide/Click Here And Download Your Free Guide On Super Ice Breakers To Get Your Art Of Wooing Academy Special Deal The two the types of guys in the wooing worldThe Controller - He is the anxious, paranoid, control freak, that is always playing the cool character or holding onto some form of mask. Often times he will manipulate to get what he wants.Social Freedom - He is the guy at ease with life and romance, he allows for things to happen organically while things just kind of happen for him. The main difference between these two styles is that controller is the pursuer while the guy who is in social freedom attracts romantic partners by simply living and letting things come to him. Have a woonderful new year.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


31 Dec 2018

Rank #10

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Is She A 7 Or A 10? | #270

What You Will Learn: Learn the difference between the feeling you get when you think that she is a 7 or whether you think that she is a 10.If you have any question you can email me at patrick@wooist.comHave a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


9 Nov 2018

Rank #11

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The 5 Minute Love Letter | #273

To check out the youtube full version click on this link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jn-L7Er2Xws&t=1sIf you're ready to start your dating comeback and meet someone lovely start by downloading super ice breakers (3 playful ways to start a conversation with her) If you enjoyed the love letter and you want to let me know what your thoughts are on this you can email me at patrick@wooist.com.


12 Jan 2019

Rank #12

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Inside The Mind Of A Master Tinderer Part 1 | Gareth Jones

Gareth Jones is owner of The Art Of The Playboy. Today he dropped by to talk about online dating and building a powerful dating profile.https://www.udemy.com/perfect-tinder-profile-aotp4/promo code WOOIST10 for the discountCheck Out Gareth Jones at http://www.artoftheplayboy.comYou can also check out the Wooist Podcast here athttps://www.Wooist.com/podcastTo follow me on other social media platforms you can go toinstagram: Patrick_wooistfacebook: Patrickwooistemail: patrick@wooist.comlinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrickwu2/To get my book The Art Of Wooing, you can check outhttps://www.amazon.com/Art-Wooing-Ways-Super-Charmer/dp/1537765450/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1521782126&sr=8-1&keywords=the+art+of+wooing


23 Mar 2018

Rank #13

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Do You Really Get It? | #240

Patrick Wu aka The Wooist and Veronique Pivetta the 3 Principles Coach join together as they tackle the misconceptions of dating to find easier, lazier, and more effective ways to become more attractive and have a more enjoyable dating experience.What You Will Learn: Can you learn quicker by listening to a bunch of the Wooist Podcast episodes. Why you don't have to agree or disagree with me but you have to understand. Why the conversation with me and Veronique on dating is different than many of the other dating conversations. How you can tell if you get it or not yet. Why you don't need good ideas when it comes to dating. How listening with fresh ears will give you a fresh new perspective on life and dating. How I transformed my life and my dating experience. How Veronique started her transformation of her life.You can send me an email at Patrick@wooist.com if you have any questions.Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


11 Jan 2018

Rank #14

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Are You Still Chasing Uninterested Women | #265

www.calendly.com/patrickwuWhat You Will Learn: The one question that guys will ask me in different variations. Why most people are concerned about how to flip around an interaction from someone who doesn't like you to someone who likes you romantically. How this character from the show 90 day fiancé called Patrick chased after Myriam in order to get her to like him. Why trying to chase someones values to fit your's is a really hard task to work on. How I chased after this woman for 2 years and eventually got her to  be my girlfriend and why it still backfired on me. Why you want to look for romantic partners that are looking for you. Why most people are chasing after the wrong romantic partners.To get a free 1 on 1 coaching call with me you can sign up by clicking here www.calendly.com/patrickwuHave a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


5 Oct 2018

Rank #15

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Are You Scared Of Offending Women (#MeToo)? | #241

In this episode Veronique Pivetta and I talk about the #MeToo movement and how to navigate in the land of women.Patrick Wu aka The Wooist and Veronique Pivetta the 3 Principles Coach join together as they tackle the misconceptions of dating to find easier, lazier, and more effective ways to become more attractive and have a more enjoyable dating experience.What You Will Learn:- Why all the allegations of the #metoo movement might scare men from interacting with women.- Why we have to rethink about the way we interact with women.- Do you need the perspective of women on how to be with them.- The Female Sound Board idea that might help you find a way to socially interact with women.- Is it ok to be offensive sometimes?- How do you know if you are crossing the line.- Should you care about how women feel or think about your actions.- What happens when some women are outraged by your actions while others are not.- Why I am not going to be lifting up women's skirts anytime soon or in the future.- Why you don't want to make the majority of women feel unsafe.- What I did when I found out that some women were outraged by my podcast art.You can send me an email at Patrick@wooist.com if you have any questions.Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


18 Jan 2018

Rank #16

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Arica Angelo | The Intimacy Experience | #247

Arica Angelo is the founder of the Arica Angelo Intimacy Experience. She is an author and a coach. Her youtube channel promises you love and laughs.What you will learn How to walk into your own intimacy, love, and truth. How her intimate experience helped her clients get big breakthroughs. Why being a broken asshole won't work even if you have a really nice car. How to strip the noice and understand what you really want. What stops most men from experiencing intimacy. How to heal your heart when its broken. Why even when I got a girlfriend, I didn't feel secure and whole. Why Arica was running from relationship to relationship. Why your partner is not the problem and what your real problem is. Why we are drawn to people who are full. What happens when you fake it until you make it and whether its good advice or not. How to take the faster route to success in dating and in love. What Arica did after her divorce at 25 years old. How do you know when you are healed in your relationship. Why you should not stop living life and dating even if you are in the process of healing your self. How Arica poured her love on me that day and healed me. What is the only thing that brings healing. What we are craving for.To get this love experience with Arica please email her at Arica@Aricaangelo.comIf you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to this podcast.Have a woonderful day,Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


3 Mar 2018

Rank #17

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Unlocking Your Super Charming Powers | #260

To sign up for a free 1 on 1 coaching conversation with me to talk through your limitations to get to that super charming energy click on this link www.Calendly.com/patrickwuWhat You Will Learn:How getting out of your own way will open a new path for you.What the limitations are that you have put on yourself from connecting, talking, attracting and leading women into great experiences.How to reconnect back up with this more powerful super charged energy that will sync you up to connecting with people and doing amazing things.To talk to me about your own limitations, you can signup for a free 1 on 1 coaching call with me by signing up on this link. www.Calendly.com/patrickwuIf you have any questions you can email me at patrick@wooist.comHave a woonderful day.Patrick Wu (The Wooist)


31 Aug 2018

Rank #18

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Alison Leigh Part 4 | How To Boldly Ask For What You Want | #181

Alison Leigh Part 4 | How To Boldly Ask For What You Want | #181


19 Feb 2017

Rank #19

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Robert Manni | The Guy’s Guy | #262

Robert Manni is an author, podcaster, and CEO of www.robertmanni.com. His blog focuses on love, life, and the pursuit of happiness. He has been named a top dating blogger by Dating Advice. You can check out his book The Guy' Guy Guide To Love here https://amzn.to/2NJ6zI0What You Will Learn: What is the guy's guy. The updated version of the guys guy today. The biggest challenge for men. The noise out there that is stopping men from being who they are. How to see the biggest change. Why looking externally for validation is a trap. Why you have been told that you are not enough, and how this can affect you. How Robert met his wife. Why dating rules are good but meant to be broken. How to reach more women with online dating. How to take hints from her on what to do on a date. Why you should treat this woman with the same respect as your best friend. Why having similar values to your partner is the key to holding a longer relationship. Why women still want the same thing they wanted in a guy all this time. What women do way better than men. Why casual confidence is the best kind of confidence. The difference between casual confidence and cocky arrogance. How you can see through someone's fake confidence. How to use empathy.You can also download my free guide on how to start a playful conversation with her by clicking on this link here. https://wooist.lpages.co/free-confidence-guide/If you have any questions you can email me at patrick@wooist.com.Have a woonderful day.Patrick Wu ( The Wooist )


14 Sep 2018

Rank #20