Religious people can be so judgy can’t they?! They see you’ve left the church and all of a sudden you’re on the way to the wide path of destruction *rolls eyes emoji* When all it really is, like in most people-y experiences, you were let down by people who should’ve done better. Listen to this informative episode as I give tips on how to really support someone who’s experienced church abuse and/or trauma.

Are you really judging me for how I'm responding to my pain?

This episode unpacks religion vs relationship! I speak about my experience of religion and how it crippled me, and the liberating journey of a Fearlessly Free relationship with God. Expect to hear candid transparency as always!

Life after Religion 

Welcome back to the Fearlessly Free Podcast series 2! We all want to be healthy functioning adults, right? Well in order for us to do that we need to face the things that hold us back, and for many of us that’s trauma. In this series, I’ll be candidly discussing traumatic experiences and how we can rise from them so we can live lives that are whole, healed, and free!

S2 Life After Trauma Intro

In this final instalment of the four-part special. The guys (Riccy Mitchell, Kial Jon-Lewis, Nicholas Osei, and Emmanuel Lawal) really debunked some myths, and the thinking that we as women have. We talked about sex, what men want, what women should look out for when dating a man. We spoke about the importance of listening to our gut when dating someone. The guys even told us never to lower our standards for a guy just because we like them! This episode was rich with banter, wisdom, and encouragement. I know you're going to enjoy this one!

Letter to the Church Player Part 4 - A Man's Perspective 

Me and the lads (Kial Jon-Lewis, Emmanuel Lawal, Riccy Mitchell, Nicholas Osei) discuss every and anything about men and women's expectations. We talk about the dating scene, and whether it's OK for a woman to approach a man. We unpack the impact of social media on relationships, and I even ask one of the guys to explain why Christian men are [seemingly] timid when it comes to dating women! We know you're going to enjoy this one. Don't forget to comment, rate the podcast, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss new episode releases!

Letter to the Church Player Part 3 - A Man's Perspective 

Ladies &amp; Gentlemen, I present to you 'Letter to the the Church Player - From a Man's Perspective'!Y'all know that this is a very sensitive topic for most of us, and judging by the responses I received from my last instalment about this, I knew I had to do another. So I have something special for you, especially the ladies! I have four amazing male guests (Kial Jon-Lewis, Emmanuel Lawal, Riccy Mitchell, Nicholas Osei) who have given nothing but transparency, honesty, and truth. We discuss women's vulnerabilities, a woman's worth, accountability and culture and how it impacts a man’s behaviour. The guys even share their perspective on how they feel about women's views of men, and they even talk about women proposing to their partners!I present to you a Lockdown Special! Due to social distancing, we chopped it up virtually (please forgive any background noise that you might hear), in the hope to bring some healing, enlightenment and help change some mindsets and behavioural patterns.

Ladies &amp; Gentlemen, I present to you 'Letter to the the Church Player - From a Man's Perspective'! Y'all know that this is a very sensitive topic for most of us, and judging by the responses I received from my last instalment about this, I knew I had to do another.  So I have something special for you, especially the ladies! I have four amazing male guests (Kial Jon-Lewis, Emmanuel Lawal, Riccy Mitchell, Nicholas Osei) who have given nothing but transparency, honesty, and truth. We discuss women's vulnerabilities, a woman's worth, accountability and culture and how it impacts a man’s behaviour. The guys even share their perspective on how they feel about women's views of men, and they even talk about women proposing to their partners! I present to you a Lockdown Special! Due to social distancing, we chopped it up virtually (please forgive any background noise that you might hear), in the hope to bring some healing, enlightenment and help change some mindsets and behavioural patterns.

Letter to the Church Player Part 2 - A Man’s Perspective

I thought I’d interrupt this series with a little pick me up in light of what’s happening right now. When it seems like hopelessness and uncertainty is everywhere, where can we go to find peace, and how do we sustain it? In this episode I speak about my experience and how I’m coping during this time. I’ve even added something extra for you! I hope you're blessed by it x

‘Stillness in the Standstill’

This episode is entitled 'Letter To The Church Player'. It's for the guys in the church who seek to play women with no intention of doing right by them. You know the one that tells you he's sincerely looking for a wife, but you find out he's really looking for a play date? I explore the effects of boys not being taught accountability as children, which then leads to them being irresponsible and dysfunctional men. How does this impact the way men see women? How does this impact the way they see God? How can they learn to be accountable to God, when their parents didn't teach them accountability when they were young?

This episode is entitled 'Letter To The Church Player'. It's for the guys in the church who seek to play women with no intention of doing right by them. You know the one that tells you he's sincerely looking for a wife, but you find out he's really looking for a play date? I explore the effects of boys not being taught accountability as children, which then leads to them being irresponsible and dysfunctional men. How does this impact the way men see women? How does this impact the way they see God? How can they learn to be accountable to God, when their parents didn't teach them accountability when they were young?

Letter to the Church Player Part 1

This “letter” is to the ‘First Lady’ in the church. Who is she? Why does she have that title, &amp; why is she first? I speak about the non-biblical truth behind her name, as well as explore the impact being a Pastor’s wife might have on her self esteem. I also tie in the importance of understanding your purpose so you don’t end up walking in someone else’s shoes!

Letter to the First Lady

In this episode I speak about the issue of Pastors who claim their church is the one true church, Pastors who interfere in the personal lives of their church members. I share ways on how to tackle this, whilst empowering you to live a Fearlessly Free life!

Letter to the Pastor

Spiritual abuse and church trauma - no one talks about it, yet it’s affected so many of us! This podcast is a “ no bars held” platform to speak candidly and unapologetically about the things that have held us back. Trauma, not just religious, impacts all of us in so many different ways, often leaving us like birds locked in cages. My aim is to unpack these issues on a safe non-judgemental platform that gives permission for every caged bird to fly again. You don't have to be imprisoned by what happened to you. You were designed to not only fly, but to soar! You CAN be fearless and free!

In this week’s episode I discuss the traditions within the black culture that potentially impact our awareness of spiritual abuse. Do our customs cause us to trust church leaders too soon? Have we confused respecting our elders with collusion and/or accepting abuse? I explore the connection between spiritual abuse in the black church, and trans-generational trauma caused by slavery.

Letter to the Wounded - Part 2

This first official episode forms one of the ‘Letters to the Wounded’. We address public embarrassment in the church, and over-emphasis on submission to leadership. As well as discussing red flags, I also share my own experiences of spiritual abuse.

Letter to the Wounded - Part 1

This intro is a taster of what I’ll be discussing over the next few episodes. Spiritual abuse is something many of us don’t talk about, yet some of us are very much wounded by the things we’ve witnessed and had to endure in church. Well it stops today! ITS TIME TO BE FREE &amp; FEARLESS! Let’s begin our Fearlessly Free journey together!

Fearlessly Free - The Intro

You have got to listen. This podcast is very informative and reveals hidden issues and solutions regarding church heart.

Amazing

Spiritual abuse and church trauma - no one talks about it, yet it’s affected so many of us! This podcast is a “ no bars held” platform to speak candidly and unapologetically about the things that have held us back. Trauma, not just religious, impacts all of us in so many different ways, often leaving us like birds locked in cages. My aim is to unpack these issues on a safe non-judgemental platform that gives permission for every caged bird to fly again. You don't have to be imprisoned by what happened to you. You were designed to not only fly, but to soar! You CAN be fearless and free!

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