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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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Get coached by the World’s #1 Dating Expert for Women! Matthew Hussey is a NY Times best-selling author, Cosmo columnist, and The Today Show’s Resident Love Expert. In each bite-size episode of LOVE Life, you'll get practical tips you can use right away to improve all of your relationships – romantic, family, friends, career and, most importantly, the relationship you have with yourself.

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Get coached by the World’s #1 Dating Expert for Women! Matthew Hussey is a NY Times best-selling author, Cosmo columnist, and The Today Show’s Resident Love Expert. In each bite-size episode of LOVE Life, you'll get practical tips you can use right away to improve all of your relationships – romantic, family, friends, career and, most importantly, the relationship you have with yourself.

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Matthew has such good perspectives on relationships.

So glad You’re back in Action!

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Stephen and Matthew. Nice to Hear from you again! Do you ever speak about the best way to break up with a guy (a nice guy but one you’re not attracted to) ? I want to be respectful and kind.

iTunes Ratings

1063 Ratings
Average Ratings
965
43
30
9
16

So good

By Alejanndra10563 - May 13 2020
Read more
Matthew has such good perspectives on relationships.

So glad You’re back in Action!

By FMGrrrrr - Apr 20 2020
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Stephen and Matthew. Nice to Hear from you again! Do you ever speak about the best way to break up with a guy (a nice guy but one you’re not attracted to) ? I want to be respectful and kind.
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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Latest release on Jul 08, 2020

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Get coached by the World’s #1 Dating Expert for Women! Matthew Hussey is a NY Times best-selling author, Cosmo columnist, and The Today Show’s Resident Love Expert. In each bite-size episode of LOVE Life, you'll get practical tips you can use right away to improve all of your relationships – romantic, family, friends, career and, most importantly, the relationship you have with yourself.

Rank #1: Men Live for the “Maybe”

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Ok… let’s answer this age-old question once and for all: Do men prefer women who are “hard to get,” or do they just want a woman who will take control and be the aggressor? The answer is – drumroll please – NEITHER! In this episode, I explain what “Men live for the ‘Maybe’” means, and tell you how you can attract the guy you’re interested in and challenge him to pursue you. In other words, you get to do the choosing, while he does the chasing. Hey, looks like the answer to that age-old question isn’t “neither,” but “BOTH,” after all. ;)

Mar 24 2017

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Rank #2: The Cutest Way EVER to Get His Attention

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It’s kind of ridiculous, when you think about it, just how much time and energy we waste stressing over how to make the perfect first move. What would happen if we just dropped the pretense and showed a little interest, for God’s sake? In today’s episode, I’m taking you back to basics with the simplest – and CUTEST – flirtation that will immediately get a guy’s attention. It’s brilliant because it puts the power in your hands to make the first move, but it’s so irresistible that, suddenly, he’ll be the one chasing you. 

Dec 12 2016

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Rank #3: What Makes You Irreplaceable to a Guy

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One big myth I've heard from thousands of women is, "I'm only attracted to the guys who are BAD for me". 

People tell ourselves the lie that there are either:

(a) Boring, safe, dependable nice guys

(b) Exciting, sexy assholes who will treat you badly

In this episode, we blow apart this myth and show why UNIQUE PAIRINGS are the ultimate secret to attraction, and what you MUST look for in the guy you choose for a long-term relationship.

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Apr 27 2020

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Rank #4: “He Won’t Commit – But He Won’t Let Me Go”

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You love him. You want to be with only him. But he wants to keep his options open. He knows how much it hurts you that he can’t give you the commitment you want, so why does he stay in touch and keep stringing you along? The reason is simple. What you need to do about it, well, that’s the hard part. In today’s LOVE Life, I take a call from a young woman named Julia who’s in this painful situation. I explain what’s going on in his head and tell her how to respond. If you, too, have ever found yourself holding onto hope that a man will give you more because he’s not kind enough to let you go, don’t miss this episode.

Mar 22 2017

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Rank #5: 5 Causes Of Unrequited Love and How To Prevent Them

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There’s a ridiculously simple principle Matt talks about in his seminars. So simple it seems kind of silly. Naïve even. But it’s actually great.

It goes like this: “Make it a rule only to like people who like you back. If you can do that, you’ll never go wrong.”

Sounds tough, I know. 

After all, attraction isn’t a simple choice right?

Many of us feel we have no control over who we become attracted to, which can often lead to that great generator of humanity’s worst misery and best poetry: Unrequited love.

Unrequited love is when we fall hard in love with someone who don’t love us back. It’s the painful kind of obsession that keeps you awake at night, and sees you spending hours at your laptop obsessively scouring your crush’s Facebook profile praying that they don’t change their status to “in a relationship”, or that makes your stomach convulse at the thought of catching them kissing another person.

If you've ever fallen hard for someone who doesn't return your feelings, here 5 reasons this happens and what you can do to get your life back...

May 08 2020

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Rank #6: Stop Investing 100% if He’s Only Giving You 50%

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Getting a new relationship off the ground can be tough. Pacing is everything, and if one person emotionally gets ahead of the other too quickly, it can cause major problems. In today’s episode, I take a call from a woman named Tiffany who’s not sure how to regain her footing in a relationship after her self-professed “clingy” behavior caused her guy to suggest they see other people. I show her how to make her happiness a priority, which could end up restoring the balance in her current relationship… or lead to a new relationship with a man who’s even better for her.

Nov 11 2016

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Rank #7: 3 Compliments Every Man is Dying to Hear

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I’m going to let you in on a secret: Men desperately want to feel like real men. Even though we proudly use “product” in our hair and aren’t ashamed to cry at Pixar films, there’s still a part of us that loves it when our masculinity is validated by the women in our lives. So today I’m handing you 3 shockingly simple compliments you can give to your guy that will make him feel amazing around you. Say them cheekily, say them sweetly, it doesn’t matter – as long as you say them – and watch as he swells with pride and affection for you. (Yes, we really are that simple sometimes.)

Mar 01 2017

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Rank #8: Want More Than a Friendship With Him? Then You Need THIS…

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In today’s LOVE Life, I take a question from a caller named Crystal who wants to know why she’s 28 and can’t seem to find long-term love. I catch her off guard with a few unexpected questions, but before long I get to the root of what’s really going on.  I reveal the one essential element that makes men see a woman as more than a friend, and share how to create it even in the trickiest circumstances. If you’re interested in a serious relationship, don’t miss this episode.

Dec 26 2016

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Rank #9: How To Stop Playing The "Waiting Game"

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Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from him ;)

You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message he sends is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.”

And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait...and wait… “Why isn’t he replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you.

But she’s too busy with her phone to notice.

You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds.

Sound familiar?

We’ve all had this agony of “anxious waiting” with someone we like. It’s distracting, it’s unattractive, and it drains you of your peace of mind every minute you sit in limbo. If you’re sick of waiting for his text and want to finally take back your power, listen to this...

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May 03 2020

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Rank #10: It Should Take Exactly THIS Long to Get Over Your Ex

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Ok, here’s the formula to calculate the time it should take to get over your breakup: Grab a pen. I’ll wait…OK, now add the number of months you were together, and divide it by the number of fights you had about getting married and then… Come on, you know as well as I do that there’s no magic number when it comes to grieving the loss of your ex. But there IS a secret to lessening the pain and moving on to an exciting new beginning. In today’s episode, I tell you how.

Jan 18 2017

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Rank #11: Be So Good They Can’t Ignore You

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Do you feel entitled to the things you’ve “earned” in your career – title, status, salary, perks – because of how much time you’ve put in to your job? What about the attention, affection and devotion you get in romantic relationships – do you deserve this treatment for “sticking it out” with your partner?  If you think this way, I’ve got a major wake up call for you today. This may be a bit different from my usual LOVELife advice, but I strongly recommend you tune in, because I’m going to teach you the one secret to make sure no one else ever “steals your spot” and how to become indispensable in every relationship.

Nov 14 2016

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Rank #12: Men And Sex: What You Should Know

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Pull up a seat. It’s time we had an honest talk about men. When looking for love, I believe there’s no better way to start than by deeply understanding what drives the opposite sex.

It teaches you not only the psychology of attraction, but also, how to avoid the wrong people who are driven by their worst instincts and toxic behavior.

So in this episode, I sat down for a juicy conversation with my good friend Lewis Howes @lewishowes, host of the School Of Greatness podcast, to discuss the truth about masculinity, why certain men become “eternal bachelors”, and what this means for you as a woman in the dating scene. If you want to know how to spot which guys to date when it comes to finding commitment, you need to hear this…

- Download my free guide: “5 Compliments Men Love To Hear” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

- Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey

- Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

Email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com

Mar 16 2020

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Rank #13: Awkward! How to Deal When You See Your Ex

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After you break up with your ex (unless you flee to another state or get an entirely new group of friends) chances are good you’ll run into him again. So let’s get you prepared for this inevitability. I’ll be honest – there’s no way it won’t be awkward, but if you get yourself in the right state of mind, it will be a lot less awkward. I’ll even give you a line to say to your ex that will immediately break the tension and make you both laugh. Think of this episode like a mini-survival guide; Use my advice and you may even leave the interaction feeling better about your breakup, and yourself, than before.

Mar 27 2017

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Rank #14: This Quick Tip Will Transform Your Relationships Forever

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Grab a pen and paper, because I’ve got a (fun) little assignment for you today! I’m going to give you a tip that you can use today that will transform the most important relationships in your life, year-round. You’ll be surprised to learn how simple this tiny, yet powerful, action is to implement, and how much it will mean to the people you care about.

Jan 02 2017

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Rank #15: Help – I’ve Messed up Playing “Hard to Get!”

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How do you keep a guy’s interest when you really like him? Do you make him wait for a kiss until after the first date? Hold off on intimacy for as long as possible to show him you’re “not that kind of girl?” Some women think so… until they have a moment of weakness (aka attraction), and break their game of “hard to get.” Then they panic – will he still want me now? In today’s LOVELife, I’ll tell you exactly what I think of playing “Hard to Get,” explain the danger of creating a rule that’s not reality, and give you a script you can use to pump the breaks and reclaim your standard for intimacy while still building attraction.

Nov 28 2016

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Rank #16: How to Overcome the Most Painful Rejection

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There are few things in life that hurt worse than loving someone who doesn’t love you back. It can make you question your own value: If someone I hold in such high esteem doesn’t think I’m worthy of a relationship with him, then something must really be wrong with me. In today’s LOVE Life, I’ll help you understand why this isn’t true, and we’ll take a look at some of the real reasons why it didn’t work out. I’ll also give you my best advice on what to do while your heart is healing and how to know for sure when the right person for you comes along.

Feb 08 2017

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Rank #17: Quieting the Voice in Your Head [Part 1 of 2]

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Do you hear that? It’s the voice in your head… reminding you of your to-do list, nagging at you about your insecurities, analyzing that confusing text you got from your guy last night. This voice is normal, but it can cause problems if it becomes too loud and drowns out your ability to relax. In this episode of LOVE Life – Part 1 of 2 – I’ll hand you one strategy to separate yourself from your inner voice, and give you a challenge that will set you up to learn the ultimate solution in Part 2.

Oct 28 2016

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Rank #18: He Disappears in Between Dates?

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Imagine this: You’re casually dating a guy you really like. He makes plans with you on a Monday for the following weekend, and says he’s looking forward to seeing you, and then… SILENCE. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday…no phone calls, no texts, nothing. What does this mean? Is he still into you or has he completely forgotten about you in the meantime? What should you do? Should you call or text HIM? Or would that seem desperate? This is what our caller, Anna, wants to know. I talk her through this tricky situation, lend her some insight about what’s going on in her guy’s mind and give her some surprising advice. If you know a man who disappears in between dates, don’t miss this episode of LOVELife. 

Nov 09 2016

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Rank #19: These 6 Words End Any Argument

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Contrary to popular belief, arguments themselves aren’t what damage relationships; it’s the amount of time that we take to recover after an argument. But no matter how compatible you are with your partner, disagreements are inevitable. So today, I’m going to teach you my secret weapon to end an argument as quickly as possible using six powerful words. When you say these, you’ll immediately switch from being adversaries to teammates and get right into solving the problem…so you can shift your focus from fighting to the fun part: making up.

Feb 06 2017

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5 Signs You're Dating a Toxic Person

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There are many dangerous qualities of a toxic person, but the worst one of all may be their deceptiveness.

They can be so subtle in their manipulation, you may not even realize what they’re doing to you, until you’re in too deep and they’ve completely eroded your confidence.

I want you to have the awareness to SEE this behaviour for what it is and give you the strength to walk away so you never have to worry about those people again.

In today’s podcast, I take you through the 5 signs you’re dating a toxic person so you know exactly what to watch out for…

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Jul 08 2020

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One Simple Behaviour That Helps Relationships Last

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What keeps relationships together? And what tears them apart?

I've always been obsessed with looking at patterns of those in happy couples.

Today, we share some research into a single behaviour that can make all the difference...

Let us know your thoughts. Send us an email at podcast@matthewhussey.com!

>>> Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey

>>> Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey

Transform your core confidence...download the free training at GetCoreConfidence.com

Jul 04 2020

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How to Be Brave in Love After You’ve Been Hurt

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Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love? Those wounds can stay with us a long time.

They can stop us from taking chances again in love.

They can make us afraid of getting close to someone again…

Afraid of being vulnerable again…

Afraid of letting someone in…

Because if the result of letting our guard down and choosing to love someone is that we give up all of our power, then why bother, right?

Sure, we may be giving up the special experience of being in love, but at least we don’t have to experience those dreadful lows. If you can relate to this, today’s episode is for you.

You’ll hear me doing a live demonstration with someone who is going through exactly this issue. And what I tell her may be exactly the words you need to hear right now.

This isn’t isn’t a pep talk.

It’s a rational, practical strategy for how to navigate your love life after someone has hurt you, or broken your heart or your trust (or all 3).

►► Be Brave and Invest in Love Again. To Learn How, Download Your FREE Guide… → http://www.3SecretsToLove.com 

Jul 01 2020

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Not Enough People Say This on A First Date...

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Has this ever happened to you?

You’re on a first date... and...

He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry…

But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).

If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that makes him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.”

In this podcast, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)...

You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating...

It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this podcast is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it. 

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Jun 26 2020

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6 Unexpected Lessons I Learned in Lockdown

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I’ve been thinking about one of the biggest dangers of personal growth these last couple of weeks.

The danger is this: we learn a crucially important, life-changing lesson, and then forget all about it and move on with our lives.

Any one of us could fall into that trap this year. Like me, you’ve probably had some realizations about your life during this difficult time.

Epiphanies about changes you want to make, or simple truths that you want to take forward even once things return to “normal.”

But the integration of these lessons and truths into our lives going forward is no guarantee.

In fact, for most people, it’s much more likely that nothing will change. Think of that, we were just forced into a giant reset, the likes of which we may never have again in our lifetimes. And yet, most people will go back to living the same lives they were before once the daily stresses, invites, and activities return. We simply cannot let this happen.

So what can we do?

Well, the first step is consciously taking stock of what those lessons are, and codifying them so we don’t forget them. In this week’s episode I reveal 6 of the unexpected lessons I’ve learned in the last 3 months...

Come see if any of mine are the same as yours. And, in the process, write down what yours are. I can’t say this enough: do not move on from this moment in time without bottling the lessons and taking them with you, or all of this pain and struggle will have been for nothing.

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Jun 23 2020

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How to Overcome Negative Self-Talk (Especially After a Breakup)

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“How do you avoid negative self-talk after a breakup? My ex was extremely critical and I want him out of my head.”

I say “we,” because I’m not alone in this one.

I’m joined by a very special friend of mine, Jeannie Mai (@thejeanniemai)– Emmy Award-winning co-host of “The Real,” and host of the podcast “Listen Hunnay.” Jeannie is wonderfully entertaining to listen to, and has a first rate mind on these things, as you’ll her from the podcast.

And, what makes this “extra” special is that it's taken from a 90-minute interview I did just for my Love.Life members, so you’ll get a taste of what goes on behind the curtain of my private membership.

If you are struggling with negative self-talk, this podcast is literally a precise prescription for what to do next. It’s 7 minutes of listening that will make your life better today, I promise. P.S. If you find this video as valuable as I know you will, and would like to watch the full 90-minute interview, you can access it right now with a free 14-day trial to our Love.Life Membership.

Claim your trial at http://www.AskMH.com.

Jun 17 2020

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The Psychological Bias That Makes You Stay In The Wrong Relationship...

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Why is it SO hard to leave, even when we know we are with the wrong person? 

How can we get the courage to follow what our brain and heart are screaming at us and leave? 

It's not easy, and there's a psychological bias that makes it even harder. 

In this episode, I share 3 techniques to re-wire your brain so that you finally have the strength to follow your heart and make the right choice.

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Jun 13 2020

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To My Community...

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A mere 2 weeks ago it would have been hard to conceive of a world that was about to heat up considerably beyond the tension and emotion already experienced in 2020.

Then came the murder of George Floyd.

Since then, I, living in Los Angeles, have watched the United States – and beyond – reach a boiling point on race issues.

It’s a dark time, and yet it also feels like a time where real change could be possible. I find myself asking of what service I can possibly be.

Another weekend rolls around, my weekly video spot awaits my thoughts, and I have no clever words chambered. It doesn’t feel like the week for a love life video.

And yet it does feel like a week where I want to be with you, my community, more than ever. I ask politely that you not confuse that with my having any answers. All I have is me, letting the Black members of my community know what I have always felt – that I consider you my sisters and brothers, and that I, Matthew Hussey, stand with you, always.

The fact that Black lives “mattering” is even an idea that needs support in the year 2020 is an astonishing prospect. But to all the Black members of this community, let the bloody obvious be stated here and now: My team and I love you, and you matter to us.

To brighter days. For anyone interested I have included a list below of organizations I have chosen to support with donations this week.

**In addition, when we first posted the new YouTube video this morning, I had it demonetized out of respect so as not to profit from this video. However many of you pointed out in the comments that it would be better to have ads turned on and have the revenue go to the cause. I love the idea, so I have, and 100% of the proceeds from this week's YouTube video will also be donated to the causes below.

1 - My Brother’s Keeper Alliance https://www.obama.org/mbka/

2 - Center for Policing Equity https://policingequity.org

3 - Equal Justice Initiative https://eji.org

4 - NAACP https://www.naacp.org

5 - The Girls Opportunity Alliance Fund https://www.obama.org/girlsopportunityalliance/

Jun 07 2020

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Is Love Still Possible in 2020?

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►► Want Support to Navigate This Strange Time? Ask Me Your Burning Love Life Question Now… → http://www.AskMH.com

This episode is an honest look at what the near future of dating could look like for you if you’re single right now.

Even as parts of the world open up again, a vaccine appears to be at least 8-12 months away. That means that for about another year, there will be some significant implications for our dating lives.

Is it safe to go out on dates in the coming months? When should you meet up with someone you’ve been talking to? How do you deal with awkward moments like the first hello where you would normally hug each other? Is there an elegant way to communicate what level of contact you are comfortable with?

These are all questions I answer in this episode. At the beginning of COVID-19, I made a video outlining the immediate impact of this virus on our love lives. Consider this a round 2, but this time with a focus on the future of dating. A kind of “State of Our Unions” address for 2020, if you will.

I’d love to know your thoughts in the comments, and please share with anyone who is anxious or concerned with the future of their dating life.

There is reason for hope, my friend.

As ever, I’m thinking of you as we go through this together.

►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com

►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

Jun 04 2020

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How To Make Anyone Like You Instantly

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90% of people are making a mistake in the way they connect with other people without even realizing it.

See, ever since I was 13 and first picked up my Dad’s copy of the Dale Carnegie’s How To Win Friends And Influence People, I was fascinated with figuring what it is that allows certain people able to influence, attract, and be charismatic in the presence of others.

Over years of being on TV and radio, running a company with over 30 full-time staff, and speaking to audiences of thousands of people, I’ve learned some really important distinctions that make people certain people immediately compelling. I’ve also learned some major things people get wrong that must be avoided at all costs if you ever want to win people over… (more on that in the video) So here it is, my #1 secret to getting people hooked in the first 60 seconds…

►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com

►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

May 30 2020

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How to Keep the Flame Alive in Quarantine

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I’ve lost count of what week of social distancing we’re in.

But I do know that if you’ve been living with someone since quarantine started then you’ve had your ups and downs.

We need space in our relationship for desire to thrive. But how do you create space with someone who is always there? If absence makes the heart grow fonder, how do you stay exciting to your partner if you're never absent?

In today's episode, we talk about some simple, practical ways to approach this situation and avoid making the mistakes that are hurting good relationships...

This isn’t just about getting space, it’s about bringing back the moments of magic, and romance, and love. Even if you’re not living with someone right now, you can use these ideas to make sure your long-distance situation stays vibrant and alive. Your situation may be different, but the psychology is the same.

Thinking of you, friend.

Matt

►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com

►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

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May 27 2020

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4 Fears That Stop People Opening Up To You

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From Stephen (@stephenhhussey)

People spend a lot of time asking the question:

“How to do I get my partner to open up?”

But they rarely think about the ways in which they regularly punish their partner whenever they want to reveal their beating vulnerable heart.

The problem with just saying to someone, “you should open up more”, is that it’s a frustratingly vague request.

 I’ve noticed that a huge amount of my emotional openness depends on feeling like I have the right environment to be free to express what’s really going on inside.

So if you want your partner, family, or friends to open up emotionally, here are 4 worries that are probably going through their minds that need to be dealt with first...

May 21 2020

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Is It Risky to Flirt with Him? How to Read His Signs

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“WTF? Do not use this.”

This is a comment I received last week. It was in response to a flirty little text that I suggested you use with the guy who is on your mind right now.

In fact, this text really seemed to divide people. Someone even said it could result in “catastrophe.” And this comment had likes. A lot of them. W. T. F.

So, despite the fact that I was going to move on to a different topic this week, my director Jameson Jordan politely (feistily) asked (demanded) that I respond to these comments.

And I never say no to Jameson when he gets feisty.

So, here is that response...

You might be a little surprised by my response, because if you felt like the texts I suggested were a little dangerous, it might reveal a bigger, deeper, more important red flag at play. I hope you enjoy it.

And if you don’t, please don’t leave any more comments that make Jameson make me do more work. I’m tired, and I’m in my pajamas.

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May 18 2020

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7 Irresistible Texts to Flirt From a Distance

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Hey :)

In today’s podcast, I’m bringing you some practical advice on how to flirt at a distance. Some “Quarantexts,” if you will. Ahem.

Think of them as little bits of irresistible charm that you can send to the guy who is on your mind right now.

These texts are designed to bring a smile to his face (and yours), as well as kick off a playful dynamic so you can develop (or strengthen) your bond – even when you’re not physically together.

Just because we’re stuck inside it doesn’t mean we can’t flirt, whether it’s with someone we’ve been seeing for months or someone we just met.

In fact, we must flirt – none of our romantic situations will survive without it.

Thinking of you, friend.

P.S. Stay to the end of the clip to get a whole list of cheeky texts you can use to keep the attraction going. #8 is my personal favorite – adorable and sexy at the same time.

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May 12 2020

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5 Causes Of Unrequited Love and How To Prevent Them

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There’s a ridiculously simple principle Matt talks about in his seminars. So simple it seems kind of silly. Naïve even. But it’s actually great.

It goes like this: “Make it a rule only to like people who like you back. If you can do that, you’ll never go wrong.”

Sounds tough, I know. 

After all, attraction isn’t a simple choice right?

Many of us feel we have no control over who we become attracted to, which can often lead to that great generator of humanity’s worst misery and best poetry: Unrequited love.

Unrequited love is when we fall hard in love with someone who don’t love us back. It’s the painful kind of obsession that keeps you awake at night, and sees you spending hours at your laptop obsessively scouring your crush’s Facebook profile praying that they don’t change their status to “in a relationship”, or that makes your stomach convulse at the thought of catching them kissing another person.

If you've ever fallen hard for someone who doesn't return your feelings, here 5 reasons this happens and what you can do to get your life back...

May 08 2020

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How To Stop Playing The "Waiting Game"

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Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from him ;)

You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message he sends is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.”

And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait...and wait… “Why isn’t he replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you.

But she’s too busy with her phone to notice.

You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds.

Sound familiar?

We’ve all had this agony of “anxious waiting” with someone we like. It’s distracting, it’s unattractive, and it drains you of your peace of mind every minute you sit in limbo. If you’re sick of waiting for his text and want to finally take back your power, listen to this...

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May 03 2020

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What Makes You Irreplaceable to a Guy

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One big myth I've heard from thousands of women is, "I'm only attracted to the guys who are BAD for me". 

People tell ourselves the lie that there are either:

(a) Boring, safe, dependable nice guys

(b) Exciting, sexy assholes who will treat you badly

In this episode, we blow apart this myth and show why UNIQUE PAIRINGS are the ultimate secret to attraction, and what you MUST look for in the guy you choose for a long-term relationship.

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Apr 27 2020

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Is Coronavirus Revealing You Have a One-Sided Relationship?

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Another week in isolation...

This crisis is really putting a magnifying glass on my (alarmingly natural) gift for hibernation, as well as my capacity for eating chocolate.

How about you?

It’s also exposing a lot of cracks in relationships – both those under the same roof and the long-distance ones – as they strain under the weight of this “new normal.”

Just this morning, I had the pleasure of working with a woman who is in my live coaching group, and she confided that she was having an issue with her boyfriend.

Like many, she found herself in a long-distance relationship all of a sudden, as she and her guy self-isolate about 30 minutes from each other in their separate homes.

I said to her, “That must be tough. Are you speaking every day?”

Her answer revealed more than I anticipated... It quickly became clear to me that her needs were being ignored, and that she was ignoring a conversation she needed to have. Something I’m worried too many people are doing right now.

If you’re in a similar situation, where you’re feeling scared to ask for what you need, then you need to hear this episode.

Thinking of you.

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Apr 22 2020

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What Made You Fall In Love With Him? (Micro-attractions pt. 2)

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A couple of episodes ago we asked you: What are the moments that made you fall in love in the past?

We call these moments micro-attractions.

Yes, you can find someone sexy. You can like the same movies. But it's those little behaviours that totally fly under-the-radar that make us say, "Holy crap! I've never met anyone like this before!"

So, Steve dived into the inbox and looked at YOUR stories of the moments that made you fall head over heels and discuss what this tells us about long-term attraction. 

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Apr 19 2020

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5 Ways to Be More Interesting Immediately

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Well hello there from isolation. Guess what? we made a new podcast for you.

It’s about how to be a more interesting and engaging person in any interaction with someone through 5 quick principles you can instantly apply.

And since most of us are having long-distance conversations with everyone right now, the ability to talk effectively has become utterly essential.

These techniques will show you how to take your talking to another level. And I know they work because I live by them. They are relevant whether you’re in the same room with someone, sending voice notes to a new guy, or connecting with a love interest over the phone as we all social distance. (They also apply to business, so you get two for one in today’s episode.)

Can’t wait to see what you think.

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Apr 14 2020

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By Alejanndra10563 - May 13 2020
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Matthew has such good perspectives on relationships.

So glad You’re back in Action!

By FMGrrrrr - Apr 20 2020
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Stephen and Matthew. Nice to Hear from you again! Do you ever speak about the best way to break up with a guy (a nice guy but one you’re not attracted to) ? I want to be respectful and kind.