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Is it hard to date the women you like? Does modern dating f*cking suck? You’re a good guy, but you can’t figure out how to attract her? Stop feeling lost. And UpDate your dating life today! Know how to navigate the entire dating process through what you’ll learn on the Dating UpDate podcast. Make dating suck a little less today. You get men’s dating advice from regular guys who recovered from years of coaching in the pickup artist industry. Years of late nights out. Lots of casual fun. Experience coaching for the biggest names in the industry. While it was exciting, but it took a toll. We weren’t any happier or fulfilled. Eventually, it led to a mental breakdown on the streets of Hollywood, California. And we changed to becoming dating coaches with different perspectives and more fulfilling ways to change your dating life. And Dating UpDate was created to find healthier ways of improving your dating life. Get dating strategies and answers to your biggest dating questions.

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Is it hard to date the women you like? Does modern dating f*cking suck? You’re a good guy, but you can’t figure out how to attract her? Stop feeling lost. And UpDate your dating life today! Know how to navigate the entire dating process through what you’ll learn on the Dating UpDate podcast. Make dating suck a little less today. You get men’s dating advice from regular guys who recovered from years of coaching in the pickup artist industry. Years of late nights out. Lots of casual fun. Experience coaching for the biggest names in the industry. While it was exciting, but it took a toll. We weren’t any happier or fulfilled. Eventually, it led to a mental breakdown on the streets of Hollywood, California. And we changed to becoming dating coaches with different perspectives and more fulfilling ways to change your dating life. And Dating UpDate was created to find healthier ways of improving your dating life. Get dating strategies and answers to your biggest dating questions.

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By Tanner1 - Aug 29 2016
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I love the down-to-earth, no-nonsense feel of this show. Will definitely keep listening!

Very Helpful

By Brent2 W - Aug 07 2015
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I see the signs now, but I need more balls haha

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22 Ratings
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17
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Pompous Has A New Meaning

By Tanner1 - Aug 29 2016
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I love the down-to-earth, no-nonsense feel of this show. Will definitely keep listening!

Very Helpful

By Brent2 W - Aug 07 2015
Read more
I see the signs now, but I need more balls haha
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Dating UpDate

Latest release on Mar 27, 2020

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Is it hard to date the women you like? Does modern dating f*cking suck? You’re a good guy, but you can’t figure out how to attract her? Stop feeling lost. And UpDate your dating life today! Know how to navigate the entire dating process through what you’ll learn on the Dating UpDate podcast. Make dating suck a little less today. You get men’s dating advice from regular guys who recovered from years of coaching in the pickup artist industry. Years of late nights out. Lots of casual fun. Experience coaching for the biggest names in the industry. While it was exciting, but it took a toll. We weren’t any happier or fulfilled. Eventually, it led to a mental breakdown on the streets of Hollywood, California. And we changed to becoming dating coaches with different perspectives and more fulfilling ways to change your dating life. And Dating UpDate was created to find healthier ways of improving your dating life. Get dating strategies and answers to your biggest dating questions.

Rank #1: Get Your Dating Questions Answered On The Podcast!

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Need Help With Your Dating Life?

Have you been racking your brain on what to do next? Or even what to do at all? Have you met a girl? Know a girl you want to ask out? Or are you not meeting any girls?

Do you need help with motivation, confidence, or fear?

Get the answers you’ve been looking for.

Submit your dating questions to be answered on the Podcast by Dating UpDate’s own Co-Founder and Lead Dating Optimization Specialist, Jeff Losaria.

He’s seen it all from his experience working with clients at Dating UpDate to when he used to be a live training coach for a large pickup company.

He can answer your question. And he’ll do the research if he’s unfamiliar with your situation.

Trust us, you’ll be in great hands.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

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Dec 06 2019

25mins

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Rank #2: How to Flirt with Girls

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Don’t Worry If You Can’t Flirt… It’s a Learnable Skill

This is our episode 3 where we go over a dating basic and necessity: how to flirt with girls.

We define flirting and bantering, and why you should care.

And our own advice on how to flirt and banter.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Flirting is about being playful. Trying to get the girl to smile and laugh. It’s about making her feel good.
  •  “…the little jabs… before you actually… penetrate”
  • Our own individual definitions for flirting.
  • The girls (Macy and Shirley’s) perspective on flirting.
  • Why you need to learn to evoke emotions while flirting.
  • Good rule of thumb is to bring it back to elementary school. Bring it back to the good, playful vibes from the playground.
  • How to playful push a girl towards a trash can, but not literally into a trash can.
  • Another rule of thumb is if you’re doing the same actions with your male friends then it would feel gay.
  • The mindset of treating girls like your little sister.
  • What Rodrigo’s overall vibe is…
  • A general overview of how to be playful when physically flirting.
  • Rodrigo’s “I got your chin…”
  • Tommy’s different ways to physically flirt.
  • How not friend zoned, but get man zoned.
  • Different ways girls indicate they are flirting.
  • Shirley’s fetish…
  • Using eye contact to flirt.
  • When Rodrigo messed up with a sailor girl.
  • How to know when to touch the girl.

LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

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Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Aug 07 2015

51mins

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Rank #3: How to Approach, Open, & Start Conversation with Girls

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If I Go Over There, What Do I Say To Start Conversation?

This is our episode 4 where we go over how to approach, open and start conversation with girls.

We cover the 3 general types of openers we were taught when we 1st started: direct, indirect, situational. Plus, we talk about non-verbal openers, and miscellaneous openers.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • What is the difference between direct, indirect and situational openers/conversation starters.
  • Our personal recommendation of which opener taught us the most.
  • The drawbacks to using indirect and situation.
  • Example of indirect openers we’ve used.
  • How to pull off a specific type of indirect openers – the dreaded opinion opener that was made popular by the Neil’s Strauss’ book, The Game.
  • Why you need to stop using google to help your ability to open.
  • Mixing different openers together to get a better reaction.
  • Funny, flirty, dumb, banter openers.
  • Better openers for the daytime.
  • Openers that work from Simple Pickup.
  • How to use compliments as openers.
  • How to use forgetting what you were going to say to as an opener.
  • Panda’s corny, lame, and cheesy lines for opening.
  • How to make girl’s day through opening.
  • Good mindsets for going into the approach.
  • What our female friends say about us approaching.
  • The Elite Daily post article on “Why Women Need to Start Asking Men Out…Because Men Have No Balls”
  • A very, very brief overview of masculine and feminine polarity from the book, “Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida.
  • Dumb, funny opener that worked for us.
  • How to screen for girls that have your humor.
  • The obvious or lazy opener.
  • Using role-playing as an opener and using that as a basis for your initial conversation.
  • Using our openers as a stepping stone for finding your own humor.
  • Approaching tall girls as a short guy.
  • Basic structure of conversation to follow, but understand that it’s more of a cycle then a linear timeline.
  • Long-distance flirting and high-compliance non -verbal openers.
  • Mindsets when walking into a venue.
  • How we use dance to have fun at night.
  • Using dumb dances like those on hitch to have a good time.
  • Having a high-school-musical mentality.
  • Our default openers and why you should have one.
  • The content of what you say don’t matter so say whatever you want because it’s your sub communication that dictates more than what you actually say.

LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

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How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Aug 21 2015

1hr 16mins

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Rank #4: How to Get a Girl to Like You

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Have you ever liked a girl so much… And wanted her to just like you back?

That you’d give nearly anything to just figure out how to get her to like you.

She’s exactly your type. You can’t stop thinking about her.

So how do you get her to like you? We’ll cover the details of how in the podcast…

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • 6-15 biggest mistakes guys make…(well you’ll learn the 7 remaining biggest mistakes left)
  • You’ll hear our own personal stories of messing up with women
  • And learn our thoughts on how to address them

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

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Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Dec 12 2018

1hr 18mins

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Rank #5: 15 Biggest Mistakes Men Make With Women – Part 1

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Are You Making These Mistakes?

A few of our friends are messing up with girls and are missing out on potentially good relationships because they are making these fundamental mistakes.

Don’t be that guys that messed up a relationship (casual or serious) because of your own insecurities and lack of understanding of the biggest mistakes men make with women.

Like everything, this is just a guideline. Learn the rule and break them later.

The most important part is to understand the “why”.

Why are guidelines being setting for typical guys? Usually the guidelines are created for men to not display anything that kill attraction for women.

Insecurity. Neediness. Desperation.

When you come from a place of confidence and the girl is having fun, you usually can break all the rules and have little to zero consequence.

Build the foundation, and then experiment when you understand the basics.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • 15 biggest mistakes guys make…(well you’ll learn the 6 biggest mistakes for part 1).
  • And best ways we think of to address them
  • You’ll hear our own personal stories of messing up with women

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Apr 16 2016

51mins

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Rank #6: How to Get Your Ex Back

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How to Get Back With Your Ex?…

Today’s podcast we ask a question we received on our Yelp page.

There’s a guy who just ran into his ex. They were in a relationship for +5 years.

And he wants to know how does he get back together?

Here’s our answer to: “How to get your ex back”

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 16 2019

25mins

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Rank #7: The Big Killer of Relationships (and Potential Relationships)… And What You Can Do To Avoid It

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A Big Killer of Relationships (and Potential Relationships)… And What You Can Do To Avoid It

As you listen to this story, I want you to internalize the mistake that I made.

It’s one of the biggest serial killers of attraction and ALL relationships.

Again, I’m extremely excited for the release of my upcoming program called The She Wants You System. It’s officially starting on 4/7/2019.

This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want.

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Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 03 2019

36mins

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Rank #8: Answering Different Men’s Dating Frustrations… Can You Relate? – Part 1

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Dating Frustrations Plague Men Since The Dawn of Time…

Men struggle with many dating frustrations… few go on an anonymous app to vent about it. We read the rants and decided to answer the cries… literally.

There are 18 different types of men and the dating frustrations they bear. A’las the burden has become too heavy for them to carry.

And they go on an App named Whisper to find refuge…

Their stories can be found on this article from AskMen.com.

And from the bones (or lack thereof). We come together to answer their cries based on all that remains.

The written messages left. And all the assumptions we can make up.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  1. The different dating frustrations guys experience with dating today and our own recommendations to solve it
  2. How to better stay on a girl’s mind and be memorable
  3. How to avoid being “forever alone”

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Oct 05 2017

56mins

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Rank #9: Are You a Needy Person? How to Stop Being Needy

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Kill Your Neediness Before You Kills Your Chances…

You just met an awesome woman. She actually gives you attention and things seem to be going well.

You like her. But now you’re afraid to lose her.

The needy behavior is creeping up, but you hope she doesn’t notice. How do you stop being so needy…

How can you figure out if neediness is seeping into your actions, words, or body language. Ask yourself are my actions being a reaction and being triggered as response to an emotion I’m feeling.

If you look at the purpose behind what you are doing or saying, if the underlying purpose is to get her attention and ultimately her validation in some way…

That behavior is being needy. You’re being attention seeking or validation seeking. That will come off as being needy.

Desperation isn’t a good cologne to wear.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  1. What is neediness and a recent example of how it killed a potential relationship
  2. What is a healthy type of needy, and why it can be good in moderate doses
  3. Different techniques to moderate your inner self talk and neediness

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Sep 28 2017

56mins

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Rank #10: You Miss Her… Should You Get Back With My Ex?

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Been Thinking About Your Ex Have You?

Amidst the pain of the break up you keep thinking if you should get back with your ex. Do you really miss her or are you just missing being in a relationship?

How are you supposed to know the difference and it’s only the feeling of being alone that’s getting to you?

Like most of us, we’ve been in this situation. Macy is currently going through the after effects of a break up and is thinking these exact thoughts.

As we help her figure it out, you can listen and apply the same advice to yourself.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Signs that you’re not over your ex and the break up
  • How to tell the difference between missing your ex or just being lonely
  • Reasons why you shouldn’t get back with your ex

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Aug 18 2016

1hr 11mins

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Rank #11: Attracting Women Through Giving Value

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Value of the time You Spend With Her… Not Monetary Value.

Value is a concept that been around for awhile especially within the dating advice community.

It’s about being a man of value when your attracting women and giving value to those around you.

No, I’m not talking about the old pickup community term DHV (demonstrating higher value). But this is embodying the genuine belief and following through with actions that truly give value. You ACTUALLY care about the well being and how people are feeling because you want to see people be happy, have fun, and succeed overall.

When you give value to those around you (not only women), you’re helping people grow and people like being in your presence.

This is the gentlemen side of the Pompous and the Gentlemen: improving your dating life and impacting the world through giving value.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • What does it mean to give value
  • Why is being a value-taking person so unattractive
  • How can you give value
  • How to become a high-value man
  • If you feel like you don’t have value, how to see that you’re a man of value

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Sep 04 2016

1hr 19mins

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Rank #12: Does She Like Me? Signs of Attraction – Part 2

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No Really… Does She Like Me?

Part duex! II! 2! This is the last part of our 2-part series of Does She Like Me? Signs of Attraction.

If you haven’t heard the 1st part, listen to it here.

We provide you with A LOT more information so you can answer that burning question.

“Does she like me?”

We discuss the numerous ways we’ve learned to recognize female attraction.

These signs are displayed through her actions, words and body language.

This is a massive collection of our knowledge on the topic combined with our own personal insights.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Tommy’s advice on women’s body language and other physical signs of attraction.
  • Compliments and sweet talking
  • Aggressive physical cues.
  • “Easing into you…”
  • Fast-food dating.
  • Rei’s hey-how’s-it-going story and being recorded for the 1st first time and being in his head.
  • Tommy shares A LOT of different tips for night game and dancing.
  • How to read the attraction signs of body language in context and frequency.
  • Tommy shares one of his favorite ways to recognize when to kiss a girl.
  • How Rei was a “dumbass” in an elevator.
  • Former CIA employee and massage therapist’s tip for reading language.
  • Massive list of reading her body language based on the books and advice we’ve read.
  • When “she was the hots for you”…
  • Jeff and Panda’s story on body language mirroring.
  • Panda’s tip for gauging interest on a 1st date.
  • Our extremely useful mindset to have when talking to girls.
  • The one tip that we all agree on that you’ll know when it’s completely on.

End of Part 2

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Jul 12 2015

42mins

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Rank #13: Building an Attractive Lifestyle That Attracts the Women You Want

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Why You Need to Build An Attractive Lifestyle…

Living a life that you love is one of the main pillars of changing your dating life. Building an attractive lifestyle is a good predictor for the quality of women you can attract.

When a woman is deciding if she wants to date you or if you are relationship material, an important factor is if she can see herself in your life.

Not only does she need to see herself in your life, but is it a lifestyle she wants to be apart of.

Ask yourself this, if she was able to watch you during the week without you knowing, would she still be interested in getting to know you.

Improving your lifestyle will make you a more well-rounded man. When you are more well-rounded, you’ll be able to connect and build commonalities faster and easier.

There’s a simple way to start improving your lifestyle.

Start doing more things that you love. Stop doing that you hate.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  1. The basics to building commonalities with anyone
  2. How building an attractive lifestyle will make it easier to attract the women you want
  3. Why it’s harder to connect to people nowadays, and what is holding people back

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Sep 24 2017

1hr 8mins

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Rank #14: Dealing with Awkward Silence and How to Build Sexual Tension

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Wait… Is This Awkwardness Good or Bad?

In the podcast, we talk about dealing with awkward silence and tension.

What exactly is tension? How do you deal with the impending doom of an awkward silence?

Can tension be a good thing? If so, how can you build different type of good tension.

And in the end, we discuss how to turn that tension sexual.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Different types of tension
  • Recognizing negative, body language inside yourself
  • How to create sexual tension

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Apr 07 2016

1hr 5mins

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Rank #15: 15 Biggest Mistakes Men Make With Women – Part 2

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Are You Still Making These Mistakes With Women?

This is part 2 of 1. If you haven’t yet (and so you’re not confused), listen to part 1 here.

A few of our friends are messing up with girls and are missing out on potentially good relationships because they are making these fundamental mistakes.

I think it important so I’m pasting what we wrote for part 1 below:

Don’t be that guys that messed up a relationship (casual or serious) because of your own insecurities and lack of understanding of the biggest mistakes men make with women.

Like everything, this is just a guideline. Learn the rule and break them later.

The most important part is to understand the “why”.

Why are guidelines being setting for typical guys? Usually the guidelines are created for men to not display anything that kill attraction for women.

Insecurity. Neediness. Desperation.

When you come from a place of confidence and the girl is having fun, you usually can break all the rules and have little to zero consequence.

Build the foundation, and then experiment when you understand the basics.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • 6-15 biggest mistakes guys make…(well you’ll learn the 7 remaining biggest mistakes left)
  • You’ll hear our own personal stories of messing up with women
  • And learn our thoughts on how to address them

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Apr 28 2016

50mins

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Rank #16: How to Start Conversation with a Girl: Great Conversation Starters and 250+ Cheesy Pickup Lines That Can Work

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Have you struggled with how to start a conversation with a girl?

Ever see an attractive girl and just wondered what do say to her?

I’ll break down how to start a conversation with a girl. I’ll talk about the different categories of conversation starters/icebreakers/openers. And cover the foundations to make any could make any cheesy pick up line work.

I’m not going to cover all 250+ cheesy pick up lines. I created a downloadable cheat sheet with our “Consistent Conversation Starters” and a list of hand-picked 250+ cheesy pick up lines that can work.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Dec 08 2018

1hr 10mins

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Rank #17: DU 39: How to Stop Overthinking and Being Stuck In Your Head

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Stop Overthinking…

Visions of horrible rejections, awkward silences, and a crowd of people pointing and laughing. Overthinking is what stops you from talking to her…

As men, we often are too analytical. We get locked by our overthinking and suffer from analysis paralysis.

Sure, that ability may serve you well in your career where you need to strategize and plan using excel sheets and data.

But that’s not going to help you connect with your date. Especially when you aren’t present in the moment and you’re real personality is trapped behind the screaming negativity in your head.

You’ll learn how to deal with being trapped in your head because of overthinking…

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  1. How Newton’s laws of physics apply to stopping your own negative emotions
  2. The different obstacles you run into at the various stages of dating you’ll experience
  3. Our own stories of how we were in our head and were able to turn into relationship

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Sep 21 2017

58mins

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Rank #18: How to Stop Caring What Others Think

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How to Stop Caring What Others Think…

Have you ever held yourself back because of what other people would think?

Or did you do something else because you didn’t want to get judged…

Here’s advice on how to stop caring what other people will think so you can stop holding yourself back…

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 06 2019

26mins

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Rank #19: Overcoming Approach Anxiety and Fear of Rejection

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How Do You Get Over Your Approach Anxiety & Fear of Rejection?

This is our episode 10. We’ll give you our personal tools for overcoming approach anxiety and your fear of rejection.

You’ll hear stories of our first approaches and how we still deal with approach anxiety today. Most of us at least (Panda doesn’t have approach anxiety).

There’s A LOT of laughing.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • What is approach anxiety? (from Psychology Today)
  • Our 1st stories of dealing with approach anxiety.
  • Does approach anxiety ever go away?
  • Our different perspectives on approach anxiety.
  • All the techniques we use to overcome approach anxiety.
  • Plus, A LOT of random, uncut humor and value…

LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Nov 13 2015

1hr 16mins

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Rank #20: How to Approach a Girl in Groups: Group Dynamics 101

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How Do You Go Over And Talk To Her… When There’s Other People With Her?

We go over the basics of approaching a girl in groups, and how to win her friends over.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • How to open and approach groups
  • The easiest ways to approach groups
  • Our favorite ways of opening a groups up

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Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 25 2016

1hr 11mins

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How to Manage Coronavirus Stress & Fear (While Being Prepared for the Worst)

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Are you overwhelmed and stressed out about the coronavirus
pandemic? The future is uncertain and that is affecting A LOT of people.

People can’t work. Businesses are forced to close. And a lot
of us are faced staying inside our homes.

Now, we’re forced to find other ways of keeping in touch with
friends and family. A Harvard University epidemiologist, Marc Lipsitch,
had early projections of 40 to 70 percent of the world’s population could get
the coronavirus (COVID-19).

Countries are needing to take stricter controls to fight the
exponential curve by asking people to stay at home and practice social
distancing. As the uncertainty rises, how we thrive and stay sane while
managing all the fear, stress, and anxiety is a big question many of us face.

In this podcast, I cover how to deal with handling powerful
emotions, and at the same time preparing for the worst.

Having a plan and being prepared isn’t just for boy scouts or
survivalists. It will help diminish the stress because you’ll know what
your plan of action is instead of being at the mercy of feeling out of control.

Two important skills for building badass confidence are
managing overwhelming emotions and having a risk mitigation strategy.

Both of them, I cover in today’s podcast: “Managing
Coronavirus Outbreak Fear, Stress, & Anxiety (While Preparing for the
Worst).” Please stay safe and remember self-care is going to be a
prioritize in making the best out of our current situation.

If you enjoyed this podcast, please subscribe! If you’re
subscribed and been enjoying the content, please leave us a great rating in the
platform you’re listening on!

Jeff here! And a couple of things before you leave. First is
F*cking Badass Fridays. There’s a ton of badass content online.

But it feels like there’s not enough time to sift through
everything. And do you wish you could have someone give you the content… plus
the main takeaways and key points?

This is what F*cking Badass Fridays is about!

Do you want to get a short email from me every Friday where I
share badass content with short bullets of what’s important?

It can include any videos, articles, or podcasts of anything
that is just breathtakingly amazing to consume.

Or is just highly helpful. Or it’s just a fun distraction
like videos of extreme athletes, talented dancers or even esports
professionals.

I dive A LOT into psychology, ultra-performers, online
business, digital marketing, investing, and… much, much more all to figure
out more ways to live a badass life.

If you’d like to join, go to BadassConfidence.com and enter your email to receive the next one!

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– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

— » Music Provided by MAYO (with written permission, of course) Check him out here:

Mar 27 2020

28mins

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Are You Worried About Being Sexually Inexperienced?

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Are you in a situation where you’re sexual inexperience might be problematic? You’re dating someone new, and it seems like she’s not enjoying herself sexually?

One of our friends is in this exact situation… but on the female’s perspective. She’s a high-quality, attractive woman with a great career making over six-figures.

She believes sexual compatibility is important… except the guy she is currently dating is too inexperienced in bed.

But the pressure, his lack of experience, and insecurity are affecting his confidence. Our friend told us she is thinking of breaking it off with him soon.

Because she is not enjoying herself at all. And sex feels like work because she is worrying about coaching him.

I gave her advice on how to help him. And I thought this would be a great topic to podcast about. What would we tell him if he was in front of us today?

Rei and I discuss the immediate advice we’d give since time is running out before she gives up and leaves.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

— » Music Provided by MAYO (with written permission, of course) Check him out here:

Mar 07 2020

1hr 21mins

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Goal Setting (And How to Keep Motivation)

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Do you struggle with setting goals… and ultimately achieving them? Do you want to know how to set up your goals so you have a better chance of actually reaching them?

We got you covered and how the best ways to set goals and stay accountable until you reach those goals.

Strategy and planning ahead of time will increase your chances of reaching the goals you want instead of another casualty of a new year’s resolution that gets missed again.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

— » Music Provided by MAYO (with written permission, of course) Check him out here:

Feb 06 2020

1hr 6mins

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Reaching Your Goals Using a Mamba Mentality (In Memory of Kobe Bryant and My Beloved Uncles)

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How reach your goals through a mamba mentality and championship work ethic.

I’m never thought I’d be this affected by a celebrity death as I’m with hearing the news of Kobe Bryant’s passing.

I wasn’t even the biggest Laker or Kobe fan, but I respected him and his work ethic. I loved seeing what he was achieving after his great basketball career.

Being in California during the epic championship runs of the Kobe and Shaq era, Kobe was part of growing up. I have fond memories working at a bar where everyone was captivated by their every move.

His death reminded me of my beloved uncles who passed too early as well. I wanted to dedicate a podcast to applying the life lesson Kobe and my uncles provided me.

It’s a reminder that we don’t know how long we have. And we need to make the most of it.

We tragically lost Kobe Bryant, his daughter and 7 other beautiful souls. May you all rest in peace.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

— » Music Provided by MAYO (with written permission, of course) Check him out here:

Jan 30 2020

24mins

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Think You’re Not Good Enough For Her?

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Do you feel like you don’t have anything to offer? You might think that you’re not good enough to attract an amazing woman.

Not enough money. Not enough good looks. Not enough time.

What do you do? This type of thinking is a killer since guys will display their insecurities from the constant feeling of not being good enough.

The lack of confidence and constantly feeling you’re below her isn’t attractive to most girls.

Women want to be with a man that is confident to stand with them as an equal. Not an insecure boy who feels like he is below her.

You don’t need to have your life together to attract an amazing woman. Don’t worry if you don’t. But you need to be making progress and on the journey.

She’ll stay with you as you get your life handle… as long as she believes you can. And the future that you are building is a future is sees herself in.

In this podcast, we talk about how to start changing your mindset when you feel like you’re not good enough yet.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

— » Music Provided by MAYO (with written permission, of course) Check him out here:

Dec 31 2019

33mins

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Missing Depth & Tired of Meaningless Sex

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Part 2 of my talk with a friend who’s a Men’s Life Coach, Tony Azuara on the way to Brendon Burchard’s Influencer 2019 event.

In the beginning, we talk about how big experts and coaches started out in the pickup industry then transitioned to focus on deeper topics and issues.

We share our own experiences on initially wanting to just get laid, but eventually getting tired of shallow, meaningless sex. And wanting something more meaningful and fulfilling.

Lastly, we close out Tony’s original question on how to stop starting and not finishing projects. You’ll get a glimpse at how not to reject yourself.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Dec 28 2019

48mins

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Dealing With Sexual Shame & Why I Was Unhappy Even Though I Was Dating A Lot

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Growing Up With Sexual Shame & Guilt

Growing up in a conservative Catholic and Asian household, sex to say the least was not discussed or talked about. As a kid, I heard that when you touch yourself, it’s a sin against God.

It’s natural to have those urges and to start being curious above sex growing up, but I felt ashamed of my desires as a man. I didn’t have anyone to tell me this is normal for a young boy growing up.

As I tried (and failed) to repress these emotions, it made the sexual shame and guilt grow bigger.

We talked about this, and the events that led to my mental breakdown in Hollywood boulevard. How I was unhappy even though I was dating a lot of girls.

We discuss this and more on our way to Brendon Burchard’s Influencer 2019 event. My friend, Tony Azuara, joins the podcast. He’s an upcoming Men’s Life Coach, which adds a great perspective to the conversation!

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Dec 24 2019

43mins

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Get Your Dating Questions Answered On The Podcast!

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Need Help With Your Dating Life?

Have you been racking your brain on what to do next? Or even what to do at all? Have you met a girl? Know a girl you want to ask out? Or are you not meeting any girls?

Do you need help with motivation, confidence, or fear?

Get the answers you’ve been looking for.

Submit your dating questions to be answered on the Podcast by Dating UpDate’s own Co-Founder and Lead Dating Optimization Specialist, Jeff Losaria.

He’s seen it all from his experience working with clients at Dating UpDate to when he used to be a live training coach for a large pickup company.

He can answer your question. And he’ll do the research if he’s unfamiliar with your situation.

Trust us, you’ll be in great hands.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly UpDate Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Dec 06 2019

25mins

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Accidentally Becoming A Dating Coach?

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How I Accidentally Became a Dating Coach…

This is the story of how I accidentally got the chance to become a dating coach for a huge dating live training program…

At this point, I’m still celebrating the high-euphoria of my first approach (the story from the previous podcast).

Nervously walking around for 3-hours and after months of not being able to get myself to take action… I finally did it.

Then… I slowly find out other friends are getting out of relationships too. This is the story of how Dating UpDate was created and before the podcast was even an idea.

But during this crazy time, there’s a nagging feeling that doesn’t go away. I say I don’t want a relationship, but do I?

Here’s what happens next…

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HAVE A DATING QUESTION? HERE’S HOW TO GET IT ANSWERED BY ME…
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The best questions will be chosen and answered on the podcast.

If you want your dating questions answered, please email Support@DatingUpDate.net.

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You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

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May 02 2019

1hr 13mins

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What I Did When Online Dating Wasn’t Working

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Giving A Single Compliment Started It All…

After a whirlwind month end dating a girl that I finally thought could be my girlfriend, it ended.

Hurt, I refused to date anyone girls inside my social circle…

Months later, online dating was pathetic. I wasn’t anyone. Here’s what I did next…

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

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Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

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The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Apr 28 2019

57mins

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How to Get Your Ex Back

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How to Get Back With Your Ex?…

Today’s podcast we ask a question we received on our Yelp page.

There’s a guy who just ran into his ex. They were in a relationship for +5 years.

And he wants to know how does he get back together?

Here’s our answer to: “How to get your ex back”

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 16 2019

25mins

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Announcement: She Wants You System Special Discount & Program Details

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Learn how to consistently get a girl to like you on a deeper level

Where she can’t help, but think of you.

Get your 73% discount off on the 80% pre-order price today.

The Fast-Action Discount of 73% off the 80% off the final release price is expiring 3/7/2019 @ 12:00am. It’s only $27 for the next few days and will go up to $97 on 3/7/2019.

Take advantage of this discount before it goes away.

This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want.

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Mar 06 2019

27mins

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How to Stop Caring What Others Think

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How to Stop Caring What Others Think…

Have you ever held yourself back because of what other people would think?

Or did you do something else because you didn’t want to get judged…

Here’s advice on how to stop caring what other people will think so you can stop holding yourself back…

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 06 2019

26mins

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The Big Killer of Relationships (and Potential Relationships)… And What You Can Do To Avoid It

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A Big Killer of Relationships (and Potential Relationships)… And What You Can Do To Avoid It

As you listen to this story, I want you to internalize the mistake that I made.

It’s one of the biggest serial killers of attraction and ALL relationships.

Again, I’m extremely excited for the release of my upcoming program called The She Wants You System. It’s officially starting on 4/7/2019.

This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want.

==> P.S. Here’s a special fast-action offer. Get an additional 73% off of the She Wants You System pre-order price today.

Learn more at the link below:
==>
https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 03 2019

36mins

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Going Through a Breakup? What I Wished Someone Told Me During Mine…

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Going through a breakup? Listen to this story…

I hope it helps. Because I wish someone sat me down and told me this exact thing.

Again, I’m extremely excited for the release of my upcoming program called The She Wants You System. It’s officially starting on 4/7/2019.

This is a proven step-by-step system for building the courage needed to attract the women you want.

==> P.S. Here’s a special fast-action offer. Get an additional 73% off of the She Wants You System pre-order price today.

Learn more at the link below:
==>
https://www.datingupdate.net/fastaction

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 01 2019

34mins

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Going Through a Breakup? What I Wished Someone Told Me During Mine

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Going Through a Breakup? Listen to this…

What I wished someone told me when I was going through mine…

The bright side when things don’t look too bright.

P.S. Go to https://www.DatingUpDate.net/fastaction to save 73% off when you pre-order the She Wants You System today.

This is our episode 1 where we go in-depth of how to tell if she likes you: signs of attraction.

These signs are displayed through her actions, words and body language.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  • Listen to how I picked myself back up from a breakup
  • How the breakup became one of the best things to happen to me
  • I know it’s hard so I hope this podcast will help you feel less alone knowing that I went through a similar breakup

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Mar 01 2019

34mins

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Why You Don’t Need Confidence… And What You Need Instead…

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Why You Don’t Need Confidence, But This Instead…

Confidence is overrated…

You need to have confidence before you can do that anything that is confident.

It’s a trap.

How can I be confident if I don’t feel confident?

That’s why you don’t need confidence, but this instead…

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Feb 28 2019

44mins

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Why My 1st Relationship Was Doomed… And Why You Should Ask Girls on UpDates?

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Sometimes we get into relationships for bad reasons…

Learn why my 1st relationship was doomed from the start.

And if you’re not asking girls on UpDates… Why you should ask girls on UpDates.

And answering the question of WTF is an UpDate?

P.S. I will be releasing information about my upcoming program called She Want You. Look out for it in the upcoming podcasts because the first people will get a fast-action taker discount of 73% off of the early bird pre-order price.

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Feb 27 2019

1hr 13mins

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What Dating Limiting Beliefs Hold You Back? Here Were Mine…

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Are Your Beliefs About Dating Holding You Back?

Our beliefs drive everything that we think and everything that we do.

If you have limiting beliefs, it’ll make dating harder than it needs to be…

I’ll share my dating limiting belief when I first started.

And at the end, I’ll share the 1st step for changing your limiting dating beliefs.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  1. The background story of my upbringing and background and how that created limiting dating beliefs that was at the core of why I never attracted the girls I wanted.

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Feb 26 2019

29mins

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How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl

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Do You Struggle with Carrying Conversation…

Have you ran into the impending doom of the awkward silence…

Have you ever wondered how do I keep a conversation going with a girl…

Without running out of things to say or being too stuck inside your own head?

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  1. The background story of what motivated me after the breakup of my 6-and-a-half-year relationship and with the 1st girl I thought I was ready to date a year later

Don’t Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today… 

How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?

Secrets that to help you date the women you want?

You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.

You’ll receive:
– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women
– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction
– Access to live online training
– And our curated weekly Dating Update Newsletter

Best part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!

Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.

The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don’t take.

Life’s too short to live with regret.

Go out and take action today!

Dec 22 2018

15mins

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Pompous Has A New Meaning

By Tanner1 - Aug 29 2016
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I love the down-to-earth, no-nonsense feel of this show. Will definitely keep listening!

Very Helpful

By Brent2 W - Aug 07 2015
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I see the signs now, but I need more balls haha