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EP159 - Tantric Orgasm with Barbara Carrellas

Sexology

Welcome to episode 159 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Barbara Carrellas to the podcast. In this episode Barbara speaks to me about Tantra, how you can enjoy it with a partner and we also take a look at Energygasms and Sex Magic.   Barbara is the founder of Urban Tantra®, a hot and healing approach to sexuality that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century—now in its second edition, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving.   She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine for her Urban Tantra workshops, and received a Lifetime Achievement Award at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. She is a proud graduate of the Coney Island Sideshow School with a double major in fire eating and snake handling.  In This Episode You Will Hear:   What is Tantra?  Ways you can approach Tantra?  How can one enjoy tantric sex with a partner? What are some of the rituals involved?  Learning how to slow our minds and bodies down  Looking at breathing exercises   Are men able to maintain erections with Tantra?  Why erections alone are not the focus point  What is an Energygasm? How can one achieve it?  The relationship between energy and thought  What is sex magic and how can that be a form of relaxation?   25 Ways to Increase Desire https://www.oasis2care.com/opt-in 101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/ https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/ Find Barbara here:   https://barbaracarrellas.com/ Find me on social media:  To celebrate Sexology's 3rd anniversary, we are giving away great items this month. Follow me on Instagram to find out more! https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care Work with me:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/ Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

40mins

14 Jan 2020

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54 Allowance vs. Permission: Setting Boundaries

Peaceful Ease

In this episode, we are joined again by Barbara Carrellas. Barbara is an author, artist and a thought leader in the fields of sex, gender and spirit. She works as a life coach, sex educator, university lecturer, and motivational speaker. Barbara wrote, directed and produced films and educational audio series. She’s also the author of: Urban Tantra, and Ecstasy Is Necessary. The focus of this second half of the interview is educating teenagers about sex, and learn the difference between ‘allowance’ and ‘permission’ and how boundaries should be introduced between partners. Barbara also shares with us the biggest complaint that her students have when it comes to their sex lives. Can you guess what this might be?  Links Barbara Carrellas Urban Tantra Betty Martin - The Wheel of Consent (YouTube video) Scarleteen Cheri Huber

29mins

16 Dec 2019

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53 Mixing Spirituality with Sexuality

Peaceful Ease

In this episode, Ela interviews Barbara Carrellas about her fascinating work in sex education.  Barbara is an author, artist and a thought leader in the fields of sex, gender and spirit. She works as a life coach, sex educator, university lecturer, and motivational speaker. Barbara wrote, directed and produced films and educational audio series. She’s also the author of: Urban Tantra, and Ecstasy Is Necessary. Listen as Barbara discusses how she got into this work, how she helps people around gender issues, and why she believes in mixing sexuality with spirituality. Links Barbara Carrellas Urban Tantra Betty Martin - The Wheel of Consent (YouTube video)

27mins

13 Dec 2019

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118 Urban Tantra with Barbara Carrellas 

Sluts and Scholars

Breath: how powerful can it be for your sex life?! Pretty darn intense according to author and educator Barbara Carrellas. Tune in to an episode all about Tantra, breathwork, and ecstatic sex. Also included: relationships with nature, sword swallowing, chakras, and why Nicoletta talks to trees.    Barbara: https://barbaracarrellas.com/   Other stuff we talked about Wilhelm Reich: http://www.orgonomy.org/reich.html The Clitoral Truth: https://www.amazon.com/Clitoral-Truth-Secret-World-Fingertips/dp/1583224734 Coney Island Sideshow School: https://www.coneyisland.com/programs/sideshowschoolFOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of Sluts and Scholars Media.

54mins

19 Sep 2019

Most Popular

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Barbara Carrellas

The Sex Ed

Today, our guest is Barbara Carrellas, the founder of Urban Tantra, an approach to conscious sexuality that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. Barbara and Liz talk about conscious kink; that one time she had an energy orgasm in a tree; how Tantra can prepare you for death; and so much more.  For more, follow us on IG @TheSexEd and visit thesexed.com.

51mins

5 Jun 2019

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Breathe Your Way to Orgasm with Barbara Carrellas

Sex With Emily

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex coach and creator of Urban Tantra Barbara Carrellas to discuss all things tantric sex and how to get into it. Plus, how breathing alone can bring yourself to orgasm, ways to fuel your sex life with erotically constructive fantasies, and understanding sex as an exploratory experience than “getting off.” Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Karezza, Good Vibrations, Fleshlight, SiriusXM. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For more on Barbara Carrellas visit here For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit: sexwithemily.com 

51mins

1 Mar 2019

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Barbara Carrellas: Tantra, Pt2

Why Are People Into That?!

“Back in the 90s, I touched so many pussies and so many penises while doing erotic awakening massage that eventually I noticed there was no fucking difference: People were responding as erotic beings!”Part 2 of YaPi Tantra begins with Barbara Carrellas guiding us through the first steps to full body blissgasms. She also explains how the 10th anniversary edition of Urban Tantra came to include trans and gender nonconforming erotic awakening massage, and tells a bit of the origins of her tantra practice in a downtown Manhattan strip club. Barbara Carrellas is celebrating the brand new second edition of her bestselling book, Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty First Century—the world’s first LGBTQ- and BDSM-inclusive Tantric sex book. She has also written Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide To Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. Barbara is the founder of Urban Tantra®  — a philosophy, an international community, and an inclusive conscious sexuality practice. She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine for her Urban Tantra® workshops, and was awarded a 2016 Sexual Freedom Award for Lifetime Achievement. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

32mins

19 Mar 2018

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Barbara Carrellas: Tantra, Pt 1

Why Are People Into That?!

“The AIDS crisis was taking away our sexual freedom as well as our lives. I wanted to have sex in a way that was safe from HIV, but ecstatic as gay men in the all night disco palaces of your dreams.”Barbara Carrellas is a queer kinky sex educator whose work has been very influential on Tina’s personal and professional life. To celebrate the tenth anniversary edition of Barbara’s seminal book Urban Tantra, the two of them sat down to discuss breath and energy orgasms, their relative tolerate for “woo,” and the complications of cultural appropriation. This is Part One, with Part Two coming later this month!Barbara Carrellas is celebrating the brand new second edition of her bestselling book, Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty First Century—the world’s first LGBTQ- and BDSM-inclusive Tantric sex book. She has also written Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide To Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. Barbara is the founder of Urban Tantra®  — a philosophy, an international community, and an inclusive conscious sexuality practice. She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine for her Urban Tantra® workshops, and was awarded a 2016 Sexual Freedom Award for Lifetime Achievement. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

42mins

9 Mar 2018

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Live! Tantra Edition: Barbara Carrellas & Sloan: Pleasure Chest NYC December

Why Are People Into That?!

“The part of sex that most people love is the letting go, the freedom of connection with themselves or another person, the expansion, literally the OMG of it. Most people feel that want more of that and they want it to go on longer. Tantra offers practical ways to get you there."Recorded in front of a particularly enthusiastic audience at the Pleasure Chest in NYC, December 2017, this is the Tantra Edition of YAPIT Live! Featuring Barbara Carrellas, author of the kinky queer sex guide Urban Tantra, along with Sloan, a Pleasure Chest educator and curator, this episode covers massage, breath, orgies, and much more! $5+ Patrons get the episode early, as well as NOT ONE BUT TWO EXCLUSIVE EXTRAS including sex advice about asking for what you want when what you want is love, and a whole lot of fascinating audience questions. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/yapit. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

57mins

26 Feb 2018

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Barbara Carrellas: Urban Tantra and Breathing the Divine

Hey Human Podcast

E89 – Sex educator human Barbara Carrellas is an author, educator, performance artist and sexologist. She teaches workshops in which participants explore sexuality through their breath and Tantra practices. She believes breathing and vocalization are keys to erotic encounters and enjoying sex and because of social norms, we aren’t encouraged to follow these practices as […]

1hr 4mins

1 Feb 2018

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