Ep 18: "The No-Yell Challenge: More Peace at Home" with Ralphie Jacobs
Family Rules! The Podcast
It’s the mom movement taking over Instagram! Have you heard of the “no-yell challenge?” Parenting coach Ralphie Jacobs explains how to use this challenge to be a more positive parent. Listen and learn how her favorite quote “water the flowers, not the weeds” can be the parenting game changer your family needs...
37. Effects of Screen time on children with Ralphie Jacobs
From the Mouths of Babes
This week we welcome Ralphie Jacobs from @simplyonpurpose to talk with us about the effects of screen time on a child's developing brain. Studies show that 77% of parents are saying that raising their kids is harder nowadays because of technology; and kids wish their parents would get off their phones. Psychology Today says that, parents using their phones in front of their children causes more distress and reduces resilience in children. We model behavior for our children. We send messages and social cues to our children. So whether that's establishing boundaries for yourself or your children, this is a great conversation. Ralphie lives in Austin Texas with her husband and their 4 daughters. As an Early Childhood Education expert Ralphie quickly learned that the best way to impact a child’s life for good is to teach parents. She founded @simplyonpurpose where she writes about parenting, family culture, and living with purpose. Her audio course changed thousands of homes. She also travels across the country speaking at workshops on positive parenting.Check out some of her free resources on her website. https://simplyonpurpose.org/--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/fromthemouthsofbabes/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/fromthemouthsofbabes/support
I can’t tell you how excited I am… Ralphie Jacobs is my guest on the Heart Centered Entrepreneur this week! I was able to attend one of Ralphie’s workshops in 2019 and it has completely changed my perspective on parenting. I knew I needed to get her on the podcast so I could pick her brain. We talk about business, motherhood, parenting, and I may have shed some happy tears along the way. Let's dive in! Visit today's blog post >> heartcenteredentrepreneur.com/podcast/how-to-be-a-positive-parent-with-ralphie-jacobs
180: Three Secrets to Helping your Kids Behave Well // Ralphie Jacobs
3 in 30 Takeaways for Moms
Ralphie Jacobs is the founder of Simply on Purpose, a positive parenting educational company where the heart of the work is focusing on the good, so the good gets better. Ralphie teaches hundreds of thousands of parents around the world through her Instagram, workshops and audio courses -- about looking for the good in their kids, so the good can get better. You’re going to get a taste of the principles taught in Ralphie Jacobs’ audio course today, and if you decide it’s something like you’d like to learn more about, I truly can’t recommend her audio courses highly enough. For parents who are ready to invest in creating a more positive home environment for their children, her courses are on sale this week only!***-Ralphie Jacobs’ 3 Takeaways for Helping your Kids Behave Well- Use positive reinforcement to strengthen desirable behaviors. In other words, water the flowers, not the weeds! Instead of focusing your energy on the negative behaviors, focus on creating positive associations with behaving well. Try redirection to teach children what they can do to get their needs met (instead of focusing on what you don’t want them to do). As you do this, you give them tools and skills for the future as well.Create positive behavioral momentum within your home through playfulness and connection. If we can get the momentum going in a positive direction with our kids, they will most likely continue going that way. >>>Will you try any of these tips from Ralphie Jacobs? What would you add to her takeaways? Tell us in the comments below!*** -Sponsors-BetterHelpBetterHelp, the world’s largest provider of therapy, done 100% online.If you feel you might need counseling but are hesitant, nervous, or embarassed to invest in yourself this way, let me assure you that going to counseling will be a gift to your entire family. As you get stronger, so will your family. BetterHelp is so convenient for busy moms, and you can get 10% off your first month, by going to http://betterhelp.com/3in30 (betterhelp.com/3in30). Jane.comI am so excited to introduce you to Jane.Com, our https://3in30podcast.com/jane/ (newest sponsor) of the podcast. Have you ever heard of Jane? It’s a highly-curated, online boutique marketplace featuring the latest in women's fashion trends, accessories, home decor, children's clothing, and more called Jane.Com. If you are interested in checking out what Jane.com has to offer, they actually helped me create a curated shop page especially for 3 in 30 listeners with some of my favorite items displayed. Go to http://jane.com/3in30 (jane.com/3in30).*** -Get in touch with Ralphie Jacobs!-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simplyonpurpose/ (@simplyonpurpose)Website: https://simplyonpurpose.org/ (simplyonpurpose.org)***-Links Mentioned in Today’s Show-Simply on Purpose https://simplyonpurpose.org/all-courses/ (Audio Courses) Get Ralphie Jacobs’ wooden sign https://www.jaxnblvd.com/products/when-you-focus-on-the-good-the-good-gets-better-wood-sign (here): “When you focus on the good, the good gets better.” -Related Episodes you might be interested in if you like this episode from Ralphie Jacobs- https://3in30podcast.com/captivate-podcast/yelling/ (004: HOW TO STOP YELLING AT YOUR KIDS // RALPHIE JACOBS OF SIMPLY ON PURPOSE)https://3in30podcast.com/captivate-podcast/praise/ (026: HOW TO PRAISE YOUR CHILD WHEN IT FEELS LIKE THERE IS NOTHING TO PRAISE // TONY OVERBAY, LICENSED MARRIAGE & FAMILY THERAPIST)https://3in30podcast.com/captivate-podcast/work/ (037: TEACHING CHILDREN TO WORK WITHOUT BEING A DRILL SERGEANT // DANIELLE PORTER)*** -Additional Resources from 3 in 30 Podcast-Order your copy of the https://3-in-30-podcast.myshopify.com/ (Flecks of Gold Journal), a three-year journal to help you gather the golden moments within your motherhood! Join our community of... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com
Episode 19: Ralphie Jacobs – Look for the Good. You have the Power to Change your Behavior as the Parent.
Why is Everyone Yelling?
Ralphie Jacobs is a positive parenting expert and shares “life changing parenting truths” through her courses over at Simply on Purpose and through her wildly popular instagram. She is the mother of four and has a big passion for arming parents with powerful parenting skills that will change your home. In this episode we talk about being a safe parent and what that means, families having different boundaries – there is no one right way, and the most important take away from this episode in my opinion is that we can’t “fix” our kids but we can take charge of our own behavior and that’s where it all starts. I hope you learn something and enjoy this conversation! Please consider leaving us a rating and review on itunes or wherever you are listening if you do enjoy it and share it with a friend! What we talked about: 4:30- Introduction to Ralphie and what she does with Simply on Purpose 8:20- What it means to be a “safe parent” 14:40- The reason why children might still misbehavior even with positive parenting implemented in the home 20:05- Doing the work now and implementing positive parenting now can make it easier for the future 23:50- Parenting teenagers 25:45- The changing role of a parent 27:45- Navigating a child’s disrespectful behavior 32:25- Parenting being all about the parent’s behavior 34:55- Why there’s been a shift in parenting in recent years 36:55- The importance of boundaries in parenting 41:30- When and how to introduce technology to children and setting boundaries around that 55:00- End of podcast questions Connect with Ralphie: Ralphie on Instagram The Secrets of Happy Families Where Happiness Lives Connect Us: Why is Everyone Yelling? on Instagram Join our Facebook Group Lindsey on Instagram Lindsey on Twitter
Parenting Principles that Work Like Magic with Ralphie Jacobs
Big Little Life with The Dashleys
Ralphie is our parenting mentor, we're so grateful for her knowledge and how much she's helped our family FOR REALS. Follower her on instagram: instagram.com/simplyonpurpose simplyonpurpose.org Thank you to our show sponsors! Get 10% off your first month of BetterHelp at betterhelp.com/dashleys Trust and Will: Visit Trustandwill.com/BIGLITTLE to automatically receive 10% off your purchase of a guardianship, will or trust . Follow the Dashleys for more! https://thedashleysvlog.com https://facebook.com/thedashleysvlog https://instagram.com/thedashleys https://youtube.com/thedashleys email@example.com Check out our relationship Q&A Podcast! http://anchor.fm/takingsides--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biglittlelife/support
Positive Discipline with Ralphie Jacobs of Simply On Purpose
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
For years, Ralphie Jacobs of @simplyonpurpose has been teaching parents to find the good in their children! And today, she is answering a few of the most common questions we see in our MomForce Facebook group. Question 1: How do you discipline a child when they do NOT listen? Ralphi tells us to first think about what we are expecting our child to do and then to remmebr that there are 2 steps to compliance: starting to comply and then full compliance. So if you want your child to turn off the TV and come to dinner, tell them they have 20 seconds to get ready to come to dinner. Then follow up with “Now it’s time to come to dinner” Children want to please their parents but they need to know what their expectations are - and remember - they model what they see. Question 2: How do you stop children from teasing/fighting? Did you know that 90% of sibling conflict is inconsequential - meaning it does not require your attention. As soon as you insert yourself into the conflict, it prolongs the problem and it turns into sibling rivalry - who gets mom on their side!? Ralphie reminds us that when she overhears her children argue, instead of getting upset, she reminds herself that they are safe. They feel secure enough to talk about their problems in a home that is full of love, knowing they will be supported when they make mistakes. Children learn valuable lessons on how to properly resolve conflicts when they are given the chance to do so. Remeber. You are the parent and you get to decide how far you will let the conflict go and when to step in. SImple, direct statements, said in love and compassion will help diffuse a situation that may have gotten out of hand. They are kids, after all. Question 3: How do you discipline a two and a half year old? I need something that I can do consistently and everywhere. Our favorite quote from the episode came when Ralphie was answering this question. She said that to discipline is to teach! She also says that most of our children’s misbehavior is actually stress behavior. Ask yourself - Is my child tired? Hungry? Anxious? The same goes for teenagers. Instead of a tantrum, they act tough and “intimidate” But are they tired? Overworked? Stressed? A good night’s sleep does wonder for toddlers and teenagers alike! Ralphie leaves our listeners with her last words of encouragement which are “It’s never too late to make positive changes” Kids are inherently good. And we are the exact best parents our kids need. And like Ralphie likes to say - “When a child feels well, they behave well!”
They say parenthood doesn't come with a manual, but do you ever feel like if it did you would be better off? In this episode Miranda chats with positive parenting influencer and expert Ralphie Jacobs to learn her top tips for Parenting On Purpose. These simple lessons are empowering and can make all the difference with your children. Find full show notes at livefreecreative.co/podcast Follow Miranda on Instagram @livefreemiranda Buy More Than Enough on Amazon
How Using These Simple Techniques And Strategies Can Skyrocket Your Business With Ralphie Jacobs
Foot Traffic Podcast with Stacy Tuschl
Welcome back to another episode of Foot Traffic! Today I am excited because I have a special guest joining me on the podcast who I actually discovered on Instagram! Now, I would like to introduce you to Ralphie Jacobs. Ralphie lives in Austin, TX with her husband and 4 daughters and as an early childhood education expert she quickly learned that the best way to impact a child’s life for good is to teach parents, which is what led her to found @simplyonpurpose. Upon discovering her Instagram account, I was immediately intrigued! Intrigued by her mission and teachings of course...but also intrigued by her thriving business. Her live events were selling out in under an hour and she had no website. Not only that, in about 2 years she has grown to a following of over 180k! I can’t wait for you to hear how she has gone back to the basics and used simple techniques and strategies to skyrocket her business. "I started teaching on Instagram stories and giving content..." At minute 2:47, hear how Ralphie started, her story and how Simply On Purpose came to be. Did she know this was going to turn into a business or did she think it would stay a passion? "One of the big struggles for me is to remind myself that I'm in charge..." At 10:00, hear the moment Ralphie thought this could really be something and realized it was no longer a hobby. Ralphie gives us insight into how many events she is doing and what her model looks like for setting up her events. "People just want to be a part of something that's good..." At minute 16:45, hear one of the greatest pieces of advice she has received. I ask Ralphie if her buyers and people that attend her events are asking for her to create more products...do they want more? "They'll love you for it if you're generous..." At 22:11, Ralphie shares what her business strengths are that have been a key factor in her success. I ask her what her work schedule looks like and how far out she plans her events. PLUS, hear the on things that I've learned from Ralphie that I apply to my own family. If you are looking to connect more with Ralphie, you can find her on Instagram @simplyonpurpose! P.S. Are you ready to go the next level? Here are some ways I can help: Take the Foot Traffic Business Growth Assessment! Figure Out Where You Are, To Plan Where You Can Go. Click here to learn more. Join the FTF Community! Did you know we have TWO free Facebook groups?! Join the local small business group here or the online business group here.
The Secret To Getting Your Kids To Behave with Ralphie Jacobs
Not Your Mother's Podcast with Sonnet and Veronica
Positive discipline techniques. Learn how to control the behavior in your home. In this episode, Ralphie Jacobs simplifies the tactics on how to get your kids to behave and create a happy home. The Unspoken When it comes to behavior, it’s not about the children having issues, it’s about the parent having behavioral issues. If you want to change your child’s behavior, the parent must change theirs. What We Discuss with Ralphie Jacobs Why the behavior issues start with us. Learning how to model living with technology. Tips on learning how to reinforce positive behavior. Learn to become an even more mindful mama without having to go to a yoga class or spend 30 minutes meditating with this free guide at notyourmotherspodcast.us/mindful. If you have a babe that is 0-5 years old and are wondering if they are on track to hit their milestones, grab our free milestones guide at notyourmotherspodcast.us/milestones. If you wonder what toys your child should be playing with to promote their best language, motor, cognitive, and social-emotional skills, Monti Kids takes the guesswork out and send them right to your door! Boom! And for our podcast listeners, Monti Kids is giving $50 dollars off your purchase PLUS free shipping. Go to Montikids.com and enter the code MOTHERS Mom-life wears you out, coffee doesn’t always help and really, it’s not that deeply nourishing. We are obsessed with Four Sigmatic mushroom coffee! It’s so good for your whole being. Check them out at foursigmatic.com/mothers and make sure to use the code MOTHERS for 10% off! Your relationship to money and your money managing tools, are skills you pass on to your children. Set yourself up for a life of abundance and confidence by attending this FREE masterclass at notyourmotherspodcast.us/money. As mamas, it’s really hard to get out the door and get to therapy and talk about all the incredible things that are going on in your life like career, mom-life, marriage, identity, all the aspects of being a mom and being a woman and being a human being. Better Help is offering our listeners 10% off their first month! So go to BetterHelp.com/NotYourMothers and enter the code: Not Your Mothers to get that 10% off. Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Instagram handle so we can thank you personally! Full show notes and resources can be found here.