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Restorative Justice in the Context of #MeToo with Reid Mihalko | S1:E5

Dear Sex

S1:E5 | July 2, 2020 | 41 min. Reid Mihalko, a Sex and Relationship Educator and known as "America's favorite sex geek", joins Wendy to discuss a letter from a "Me Too" man. They talk about Reid's own Accountability Process, discuss what restorative justice might look like in this context, and whose voices should be centered in this kind of work. 

40mins

2 Jul 2020

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#6 Virtual Sexy Time with Reid Mihalko

Consent is Sexy

How to get sexy virtually? Where to start? What to consider? What conversations to have? How to feel safe? What technology to use? How to foreplay and aftercare? What tips and tricks are useful?This is a recording of a conversation I had with Reid Mihalko while I was in my closet because of protests going on outside. During these wild times need to nourish ourselves and our relationships – that might include virtual sexy time with lovers, partners, friends while staying safe at home. Enjoy listening, laugh, and learn from Reid and me in this wonderful interview :). Share what works and works not for you with us, ask any questions or leave comments here or email me: consent@connection-university.com  – I am so curious  You can get find a lot more of Reid’s work, tools, tricks and tips on his website: http://reidaboutsex.com How you can meet him and learn with him: www.reidaboutsex.com/calendarRestorative Justice, his Accountability process: tinyurl.com/reidaccountabilty Get to know him on his social accounts:Connect with him on Instagram: ReidAboutSexConnect with him on Facebook: Reid MihalkoOur sponsor, The Connection University, offers a variety of experiences to strengthen the muscle of creating a deep sense of belonging with other people in the community, at work, and with Self. It is like a mental and emotional gym for all people who want to see culture shifting from loneliness, “I can do it myself” to togetherness, appreciation, and compassion.”Check it out at www.connection-university.com Next to their wonderful community events and retreats, they have powerful programs for teams that are now all working from home. Loneliness is an epidemic that often gets overlooked in the work environment, although its the main culprit for many of the pain points businesses deal with (lack of productivity, decreased engagement, poor performance. Creating a workplace culture that celebrates what we all crave – compassion, togetherness, connection, trust – these are the businesses that see increased productivity – allowing creativity to flow and growth to soar. The Connection University offers Virtual Vitality Program to support companies to thrive even during the time of “Working From Home”. Check it out and tell your colleagues: https://www.connection-university.com/virtualvitalityprograms/Their 6-week online class “Arriving Home – Falling in Love with Self” is a life-changing experience of Self-acceptance, compassion, and Self-Love. To find out more and get on their waitlist go to https://www.connection-university.com/arrivinghomeThank you for listening and making consent part of your sexy life. Be sexy people. Be safe. Be brave. Be kind! Be great! If you like what we are doing here with “Consent is Sexy” please leave a review, thumbs up, send an email with questions, triggers, or interest to be on this podcast to consent@connection-university.com. Sending courage and love to you. Until next time. Steffi

1hr 5mins

13 Jun 2020

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#4 Why Love is Not Enough for a Healthy Relationship with Reid Mihalko

Consent is Sexy

In this phenomenal episode, Reid Mihalko shares inspiring stories of his life and wisdom from his experiences as a sex educator and sex geek with us. He is not only an incredibly entertaining storyteller, but he also shares a lot of tips and tools on how to live a more self-expressed and fulfilled life inside and outside the bedroom. The reason why I wanted to talk with him on the podcast is that EVERY single conversation I have had with him I thought “I wish we recorded this and can share it with the world”. Here we go. Number one is done and here for you. Reid shares the epic and oh so helpful framework on “How to start complicated conversations” with us that is related to his work. He talks about why slowing down is the black belt of consent, why love is not enough for a healthy relationship and why trust the sexiest thing about consent is. You can get find a lot more of Reid’s work, tools, tricks and tips on his website: http://reidaboutsex.com Here are the links he mentioned during the conversation: Articles and handouts on how to initiate a difficult conversation: www.reidaboutsex.com/convo How you can meet him and learn with him: www.reidaboutsex.com/calendarRestorative Justice, his Accountability process: tinyurl.com/reidaccountabilty And get to know him during his live videos, and other fun actions on his social accounts:Connect with him on Instagram: ReidAboutSexConnect with him on Facebook: Reid MihalkoOur sponsor, The Connection University, offers a variety of experiences to strengthen the muscle of creating a deep sense of belonging with other people in the community, at work and with Self. It is like a mental and emotional gym for all people who want to see culture shifting from loneliness, “I can do it myself” to togetherness, appreciation, and compassion.”Check it out at www.connection-university.com Next to their wonderful community events and retreats, they have powerful programs for teams that are now all working from home. Loneliness is an epidemic that often gets overlooked in the work environment, although its the main culprit for many of the pain points businesses deal with (lack of productivity, decreased engagement, poor performance. Creating a workplace culture that celebrates what we all crave – compassion, togetherness, connection, trust – these are the businesses that see increased productivity – allowing creativity to flow and growth to soar. The Connection University offers Virtual Vitality Program to support companies to thrive even during the time of “Working From Home”. Check it out and tell your colleagues: https://www.connection-university.com/virtualvitalityprograms/Also their 6-week online class “Arriving Home – Falling in Love with Self” is a life-changing experience of Self-acceptance, compassion, and Self-Love. To find out more and get on their waitlist go to https://www.connection-university.com/arrivinghomeThank you for listening and making consent part of your sexy life. Be sexy people. Be safe. Be brave. Be kind! Be great! If you like what we are doing here with “Consent is Sexy” please leave a review, thumbs up, send an email with questions, triggers, or interest to be on this podcast to consent@connection-university.com. Sending courage and love to you. Until next time. Steffi

1hr 7mins

16 May 2020

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034.Reid Mihalko: Dating Your Species + Discovering Your Sexual Pleasures

The Real Undressed with Deborah Kagan

Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.  In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes. Reid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. Whether online, on stage, or at a college or university, Reid shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom. Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts. In this episode we speak about everything from: ~ what dating your species means and why it creates better connections ~ how the overachiever mindset might be ruining your sex life ~ ways to discover your turn ons and sexual exploration ~ why ‘angry yoga’ can free you up to be powerfully self-expressed (in and out of the bedroom) ~ safe ways to move through trauma stored in the body ~ the value of being seen and witnessed in all aspects of sexuality and life ~ why you must lean into your shame to experience deep pleasure ~ and much more! Connect with Reid Mihalko Website |    ReidAboutSex.com Social | @ReidAboutSex across the following…  Twitter Facebook Instagram YouTube * FREE GUIDED BREATH TECHNIQUE Turn your fear into Faith. Your Stress into Serenity. Your Anxiety into Assurance. Your Misfortune into Mojo. www.therealundressed.com/breathe *** Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/ https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/ Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv Please remember to: Subscribe Rate Review the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.

1hr 15mins

15 May 2020

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Leading Edge Love Radio - Reid Mihalko, Sex Geek in Chief

Leading Edge Love

Tuesdays, 9 pm Eastern, 6 pm Pacific: "Leading Edge Love," host Sumati Sparks:This week, her guest is REID MIHALKO: Sex and relationship geek at ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.Sumati Sparks, The Open Relationship Coach, (www.SumatiSparks.com) offers coaching sessions via video conferencing, telephone or in person in the San Francisco Bay Area.

59mins

25 Mar 2020

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Episode 114: ‘6 More Years!’ (Reid Mihalko)

Bawdy Storytelling

Oh Golly Gee, a Swinger convention! With just a passing knowledge of conversation swinger, Sex educator & queer polyamorous slut Reid Mihalko arrives ready to teach orgies & gangbangs at this lifestyle event, but he’s the one who’s learning this weekend: Hot wife! Full swap! That being the check-in guy for birthday blowjobs has its perks! But none of these compare to the life lesson he receives at 3 AM in a fashionable couple’s 4 poster bed, overlooking the Vegas Strip. #Showgirl #BlackjackDealer #SquadGoals Song: ‘Thank you for being a Friend (with Benefits)’ (Marty Garcia) Want to enjoy this episode ad-free? Join our Patreon at the $10/month or up level at www.Patreon.com/Bawdy Episode Links: Say hello to MyGirlFund.com : Sometimes it’s hard to meet sexual partners in real life, and porn doesn’t offer you that erotic intimacy that you’re looking for. MyGirlFund allows you to form virtual relationships with sexy, amazing women - you can meet, message, share photos and videos, and cam with those women in private. It’s a safe, private and discreet adult community and You can join mygirlfund.com for free. And right now for a limited time you can become a lifetime premium member for less than $5 when you visit mygirlfund.com/dixie  That means that as a fan of the Bawdy Storytelling podcast, you can get discounted credits and bonus interaction features for life when you go to MyGirlFund.com/Dixie Patreon is how I’m gonna get through this Pandemic; Please help. With all live shows canceled due to quarantines due to COVID-19, Patreon is a unique online way that allows Bawdy to share its uniquely empowering and NSFW content with you, wherever you are.  Patreon supporters will hear about our Online Bawdy shows first, and get early access to the brand new content we’re adding every few days. The Bawdy Storytelling podcast is listener supported, and your support on Patreon ensures that we can continue to make the world a better place. Become part of Bawdy’s Patreon family at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Here’s a one-off way to support the podcast: You can make one-time donations to the Bawdy podcast via Paypal or Zelle at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com or on Venmo at venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Merchandise: Bawdy Storytelling now offers a new line of fragrance & lube for your favorite podcast fan: #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, Bawdy Butter, hair & bawdy oil, #BawdyGotMeLube & more. It’s at BawdyStorytelling.com/Merchandise #BestGiftEver (We’ll be adding Bawdy Buttplugs to our website soon - they’re selling out so fast we are having trouble keeping them in stock!) Book: The 5 Love Languages:  https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X Helpful COVID-19 & Coronavirus information: Check out FlattenTheCurve.com Wanna work with me on your story? Whether it’s a story for the stage, a TEDx, public speaking for anything from storytelling for technology, conveying your passion about what you do or your time onstage at a leather title contest, I’d love to help you make it a thing of beauty. Contact me at dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com & let’s get you onstage! Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, and share thoughts with your fellow listeners - and help Dixie make the podcast even better. It’s at https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ oh, and finally: I want people to hear YOU on the Bawdy podcast! Make a recording and send it to me - and attach it to an email or share it via Google Drive with bawdystorytelling@gmail.com (this podcast is about stories, so we’d love to hear YOURS - and Thank you) Upcoming Bawdy Storytelling LIVE Events: San Francisco: POSTPONED: Thursday, March 12th: ‘It Seemed like a Good Idea at the Time’ Featuring music by Jefferson Bergey Verdi Club 2424 Mariposa, San Francisco, CA 94110 Tickets at http://bit.ly/BawdyISLAGIATTSF Seattle POSTPONED: Thursday, March 19th: ‘Best of Bawdy Seattle’ Featuring Creature Hole 1114 Howell Street Seattle, WA Tickets at http://bit.ly/BestOfBawdySEA Get tickets for future upcoming live shows at https://bawdystorytelling.com/#liveshow We’re so very grateful to Good Vibrations for our Bang-O prize bags in San Francisco, & to Babeland for our Bang-O prize bags in Seattle! Wanna see Bawdy LIVE and in person? Subscribe to our email list & find out where we’re going before anyone else: https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe And get more Info on our live events - and Tickets for upcoming shows - at  https://bawdystorytelling.com/#liveshows-section Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts - we’re proud to be part of this sex-positive podcast collective!  And Thank you again to the sponsors of last month’s 13th Anniversary shows: Good Vibes https://www.goodvibes.com/ Hashtag Open https://hashtagopen.com/ Sucreabeille (purveyor of #BawdyGotMeLaid & other fancy scents) https://sucreabeille.com/ Glow Fuck Yourself https://www.etsy.com/shop/GlowFyourself Want more Bawdy? www.BawdyStorytelling.com Follow us on Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming podcast episodes–and if we’re coming to your city! – at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe

37mins

12 Mar 2020

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Nonmonogamy, Independence, Cuddling (Reid Mihalko)

Intimate Interactions

This Valentine’s day, I bring you a special interview that I got with Reid Mihalko. Normally new episodes publish on Patreon first and come out for free 9 months later. This episode is an exception and will air for everyone on Valentine’s day. If you find the quality better than my free episodes, maybe try out Patreon for a month and see if you like it. I have sessions with Sophia Sky at Pan Eros Foundation in Seattle and in a week am recording with the podcast hosts of Escape Pod about intimacy in being a podcaster. Escape Pod has been running about 12 years though the hosts haven’t been with it since inception, and is part of Escape Artists, a thriving podcast community. Finally, at Westcoast Bound, I was able to get Mollena Williams to agree to do some podcast episodes with me. If you don’t know Mollena, the content that human puts out is incredible. Alright. Enough promo - let’s talk about this episode. So, I was invited by Jazz Goldman, a comet partner of mine and sex educator living in New York to Reid Mihalko’s birthday party in his home. After picking Jazz up and driving to Reid and Allison’s place, we enjoyed hot tubbing and an afternoon orgy with some fellow sex educators. I spent the night with Jazz in Reid’s spare room. While I’m failing at making breakfast sounds, Reid comes into the kitchen and offers me some coffee.

41mins

14 Feb 2020

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Accidental Orgies with Reid Mihalko

Artgasm

Allison joins her partner of 12 years, Reid Mihalko, for an intimate conversation about their journeys through sex and kink, their philosophies on the erotica and the taboo, and how Reid discovered the transformative power of touch.  Plus: Throwing orgies in 250 sq. Ft | The sexy secrets of old New York | Celebrity run-ins in the Meatpacking district | The gentrification of queerness | If BDSM dungeons were like Equinox gyms | Taboo and the erotic | Exploring kink | Being a service switch | Sanitization of the illicit | The power of the erotic mind | The sensuous vs the erotic | Sex as nourishment | Performative vulnerability | The modest origins of Cuddle Party | Psychedelics | Discovering your identity in a sea of writhing bodies Worththejourney.com Patreon.com/artgasm Reidaboutsex.com

2hr 2mins

26 Mar 2019

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Sex Education with Reid Mihalko @ReidAboutSex

TELL ME WHAT'S ON!

Sitting next to us today is Reid Mihalko @ ReidAboutSex creator of SexGeekSummerCamp.com and we talk about how to talk about love and sex in a meaningful way, in a world where its sometimes difficult to talk about HOW to talk about it. Were our parents equipped with the tools? OR: has society castrated us to believe that we need to accept the things we don't like for the ones we love? Reid explains why we need to "Say what you're not saying." We get deep with this one, so strap in (with your seatbelt) and prepare for a conversation about the birds and the bees. There's an expert sitting next to us! www.reidaboutsex.com/convo

30mins

19 Sep 2017

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Episode 11: ETHICAL SLUTTERY with sex educator extraordinaire Reid Mihalko

Sexplanations Podcast

This consensual conversation about sex includes correlations between sex and college, how throws play parties, what asking for what you want sexually can look like, and pubic muscle building. Sextra Credit: 1) Learn the Inverted Vulcan by going to reidaboutsex.com/vulcan and sign up for Reid's newsletter to get a free video about how to perform the Inverted Vulcan. 2) Share this episode of the podcast with a friend

47mins

25 Aug 2017

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