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Ep. 106 Gabrielle Hartley: Don't Let Your Divorce Story Be Your Life Story

The Thriving In Chaos Project with Paulette Rigo

Join Paulette and Gabrielle as they engage in a candid and fact filled, heartfelt conversation about all things divorce. Are you in need of direction and clarity on how to know if mediation is the right choice for you? Look no further.  Gabrielle Hartley is a nationally recognized divorce attorney, online mediator, divorce strategy coach and author of Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate.   She is committed to keeping the online divorce mediation process as simple and streamlined as possible. She trains divorce professionals to bring the highest level of conflict resolution into their practice.  She is a highly respected negotiator, author and an engaging, dynamic speaker Gabrielle is known for her unique, non-toxic approach to divorce that she has developed over twenty five years. She keeps 99% of her cases out of the courtroom and at the negotiating table, as she effectively supports her clients to create a healthy, uplifted post-divorce life for them. Her parents split when she and her brother were children in the 1980s. Even when the road was bumpy, they resolved their differences out of court and modeled positive co-parenting. When she clerked for Judge Sunshine in the divorce court in New York City both in private practice and clerking for a judge, she realized that her parents were onto something. Gabrielle created The Better Apart® Blitz Mediation to help people move through and beyond the divorce process with minimal stress and maximum ease. When Gabrielle was a baby lawyer mediation was not widely accepted or respected.  After working for years to create a streamlined effective practice model that is delivered across the country online. Today Gabrielle offers The Better Apart® Total Practice Makeover to help divorce professionals  to create their optimal divorce mediation practice. www.gabriellehartley.com Paulette Rigo CDC, CDS Consultant/Coach Author Speaker Podcast Host 1:1 Retreats Find out more about Paulette at www.betterdivorceacademy.com www.bettercareerproject.com www.betterdivorceblueprint.com www.betterdivorcesummit.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thriving-in-chaos/message


5 Sep 2021

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Gabrielle Hartley: Better Apart

No One Dies from Divorce

While many of us may be better together, some of us can actually become better apart. This week, Jill interviews Gabrielle Hartley - attorney, mediator, and author of Better Apart, which radically reframes the way couples experience, execute, and recover from when “for better or worse” is no longer an option, and helps you find the road to a new mindset and better life. 


12 Jul 2021

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Ep. #35 - The Positive Divorce Movement and Better Apart Method with Gabrielle Hartley

Divorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family Law

A divorce process can often be physically and emotionally draining for both parties and children involved, especially if the case goes trial.Ryan Kalamaya and Gabrielle Hartley sit down to discuss the positive divorce movement and her Better Apart Method and how those are changing how people think about divorce. In This Episode- The adverse effects of litigation and conflict in a divorce-  How to avoid conflict in your divorce process -  When does a mediator realize that a case might need to go to trial-  What steps a mediator can take to make sure an agreement sticks-  The Blitz Mediation Method- The positive divorce movement About Gabrielle HartleyGabrielle Hartley, Esq., is a leading online mediator and family law attorney known for keeping 99% of her cases at the settlement table.  She  is the author of Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate  which received a glowing recommendation from Gwyneth Paltrow and People Magazine. Before opening the Better Apart® Blitz Online Divorce Mediation Gabrielle clerked in matrimonial court in NYC where she resolved HUNDREDS of high conflict divorces. She is a sought after expert in the positive divorce space in media outlets such as The New York Times, The New York Post, Real Simple, Vice and many others as well as a frequent podcast guest.She's a regular guest on NBC Mass Appeal.  Gabrielle is the incoming co-chair of the American Bar Association Mediation Committee. Gabrielle trains divorce professionals in the Better Apart Method Online to help other lawyers and mediators to keep more cases out of court.  Gabrielle is also of counsel to a top litigation firm in New York City.  Learn how to work with Gabrielle at gabriellehartley.com. What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.  To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law. ************************************************************************ DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.


8 Jul 2021

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Release, Recalibrate & Renew with Gabrielle Hartley

How to Split a Toaster: A divorce podcast about saving your relationships

Gabrielle Hartley is a nationally-recognized divorce attorney, online mediator and divorce strategy coach with a strong focus on conflict resolution. She is the author of Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate and she joins us today to share how she brings mindfulness to the divorce process. No, Gabrielle doesn't lead her clients through a yoga practice in the mediation process. But she does lead us through some specific exercises focusing on breathing and returning to our bodies in a way that can help remain positive and attentive under stress. Her approach is to help her clients to remember that patience, respect, clarity, and peace are all part of an everyday practice, integrating new behaviors in our lives to help us accomplish our greatest challenges. Links & Notes About Gabrielle Hartley Buy the Book — Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate by Gabrielle Hartley


1 Jun 2021

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Better Apart author Gabrielle Hartley

THE Amicable Divorce Expert with Judith Weigle

Gabrielle discusses the purpose for the book, explains her 5 steps to changing your state of being in order to have an amicable divorce, and daily exercises to redirect the way you think and how you respond to your spouse in divorce settlement talks and co-parenting.


24 Feb 2021

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Mediate or Litigate with Gabrielle Hartley, Esq.

THE Amicable Divorce Expert with Judith Weigle

As a former family law litigator, former Judge's assistant, and now a mediator and coach, Gabrielle sheds light on the reality of how Judge's make decisions, what's in store for you in court, and how mediation can save the day - if you're ready. Gabrielle shares stories and gives guidance to the right path for you in your divorce strategy.


17 Feb 2021

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The Best Thing to Happen to Divorce in Ages with Very Special Guest, Gabrielle Hartley on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq. #144

The Divorce and Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.

In this episode, Susan Guthrie is joined by Leading Divorce Attorney and Best-Selling Author (and Susan's Work BFF!), Gabrielle Hartley, to talk about the BEST THING to happen to Divorce in ages:  Online Divorce Mediation. With the advent of Covid, many court systems around the country (and the world) are effectively closed or operating only on an emergency basis, and in most cases, they don't consider your divorce an emergency!  This can affect divorcing couples in many ways; if they are thinking of divorce, they often can't file and even when they do, they can't get into court.  For ongoing cases, couples can't get court dates for hearings or trials so are on indefinite hold, and for those who are done but need help due to changes that have occured, as they have for so many during Covid with job loss and health issues, they also struggle to get a court date.  Even as some courts open for limited business, the backlog of cases that has been building for months, will take years, if not decades, to subside.  It's just one long, never-ending DIVORCE LIMBO! So what is a couple to do?  One of the best (and only) options for many is online divorce mediation and it's a great option!  Both Susan and Gabrielle have been conducting mediations online with couples for years, long before Covid made the practice popular.  There are many reasons, beyond social distancing and safety, that make online mediation particularly well-suited for divorce cases.  This conversation between two of the top online divorce mediators in the country will enlighten you and show you how you can mediate online and move through your divorce and BEYOND! Some MORE Highlights from the Episode: Find out what the mediation process looks like online. Hear why not having to sit in the same room with your spouse can be so helpful to the process. Discover why online mediation is often even faster and easier than in-person mediation. Learn about Gabrielle's innovative online mediation blitz, her Positive Divorce approach and how you can learn to be Better Apart with her book and program! There are just so many benefits to mediating your divorce online, listen to this episode and get your life out of LIMBO! For More Information on This Week's Special Guest:  Gabrielle Hartley Esq., is a leading divorce attorney, online mediator and creator of The Better Apart Method.  She's known for keeping 99% of her cases at the negotiation table and out of the courtroom. Her Book, Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate was given a glowing endorsement from Gwyneth Paltrow, and People Magazine.  Gabrielle is a sought after divorce expert in the media and has been quoted in the New York TImes, Psychology Today, Vice, Thrive Global, and Yoga Journal to name a few.  PLUS she's a regular guest on NBC talking about all things related to what Gabrielle terms, The Positive Divorce Movement. Gabrielle can be reached at gabrielle@gabriellehartley.com Find out more about Gabrielle at www.gabriellehartley.com Follow Gabrielle on Instagram at www.instagram.com/gabriellehartleyesq ******************************************************************************************************* SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes.  Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce.  Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market!   What makes FAYR different?  At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those).  They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support.  For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast,  visit their website at www.fayr.com.  Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at  divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook Susan on Instagram Susan on Twitter Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel!  Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would  give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!  ****************************************************************************************************** I love hearing from listeners!  Please feel free to reach out if you have a question for me or for one of my experts or if you have a topic you'd like us to cover on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast!  I do this podcast for you, so let me know what you want! You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.  Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM


12 Oct 2020

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16. The Positive Divorce Movement with Gabrielle Hartley

Happy Even After with Ms. Renee Bauer

Is a Positive Divorce Possible?The big “D” carries so many emotions with it. What if I told you there was something called the positive divorce movement? Don’t believe me? Well, my next guest is leading the way in just that.Gabrielle Hartley is a nationally recognized divorce attorney, online mediator, and divorce strategy coach known for her unique, non-toxic approach to divorce. She keeps 99% of her cases out of the courtroom and at the negotiating table, as she effectively supports her clients to create a healthy, uplifted post-divorce life for them. She teaches divorce lawyers on how to be better lawyers.Gabrielle and her work have been featured in People Magazine, The New York Post, The New York Times, and The Yoga Journal just to name a few.Sometimes Better Apart is BetterShe has also authored the book Better Apart which was endorsed by Gwyneth Paltrow! Basically, she’s a big deal.Check out our conversation for the full scoop.Guest Contact InfoInstagram: /https://www.instagram.com/gabriellehartleyesq/Website: https://gabriellehartley.com/


6 Oct 2020

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How to Move Forward After Divorce, With Divorce Attorney & “Better Apart” Author, Gabrielle Hartley

Divorce, Healthy!

If you’re going through a divorce or have recently been through one, you’ve probably experienced stressful emotions and have felt lonely in the process. Maybe you’ve seen your kids affected or are afraid they will be negatively impacted in the future. Divorce has a bad reputation in the United States, as we’re inundated on a daily basis with the spectacle of divorces gone wrong. Here, on Divorce, Healthy!, Ashley-Nicole Russell wants to turn that reputation on its head.Welcome back to Divorce, Healthy! In this episode, our host is accompanied by Divorce Attorney and “Better Apart” author, Gabrielle Hartley. Gabrielle is a divorce mediator and lawyer who practices in New York and Massachusetts. In her book, Hartley provides readers with the five keys on how to move forward after divorce. 7:28Both Gabrielle and Ashley-Nicole have had experiences with either being divorced or having divorced parents. They know first-hand the tremendous consequences divorce can have on you, your children, and your family. They stress the importance of being true to your own path during your divorce. It’s not necessary to follow in the footsteps of others, even best friends or family members. “If you're getting divorced and your best friend had to hire private investigator, it doesn't mean you need a private investigator (by the way, nobody needs a private investigator, but I mean for divorces!)” 14:08They also address how negatively divorce can impact your children. It’s vital to allow your children, “especially the younger children…to have their childhoods.” 17:04 Gabrielle shares with us how her mother said to her, “Dad and I have grown up problems, and you're a child and you need to worry about being a kid and we need to worry about our problems.” She points to that conversation as helping her navigate the emotional turmoil of her parents divorce. 17:21Another key point they discuss is the internal struggle you may encounter during divorce. You need to overcome divorce; look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself who you are, where you are headed, how much are you planning on fighting unnecessarily? “You may get the windfall, but what is the win? Who are you?... Even if you win, sometimes you really lost… if you got that down and dirty, is that the you you want to look back on?” 29:13For more information on Gabrielle Hartley and her Better Apart™ program, visit gabriellehartley.com. Purchase Gabrielle’s book Better Apart.Like this interview with Gabrielle Hartley? We think you’ll appreciate A Millennial's Perspective On Marriage & Divorce with TV Personality Aaron Deane.To inquire about speaking engagements, purchase your copy of Ashley-Nicole’s book “The Cure for Divorce Culture,” or to schedule your private orientation meeting, head to www.anrlaw.com. You can also find us on social media @ANRLaw. Find a better way forward, right here, on Divorce, Healthy!


8 Sep 2020

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What To Do To be “Better Apart” after Divorce with Gabrielle Hartley

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In this episode, I sat down with Gabrielle Harley, divorce attorney, online mediator and author of Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate and had an amazing conversation about divorce and all of the things that you can do, including the need for clarity, patience, and forgiveness to get to the place where you feel that you are truly better apart.


12 Aug 2020