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Esther Perel

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Esther Perel: What Makes Relationships Thrive

A Life of Greatness

Does romantic love carry a one-fits-all approach, or is it something we can cultivate individually with our partner? Joining Sarah Grynberg is psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel, who is recognized as one of today's most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. In this eye-opening conversation, Sarah and Esther delve into how to make relationships last; infidelity & why even happy people cheat; and the importance of having meaning and purpose beyond caring for our kids. If you wish to restore and bring light back into your seemingly fractured relationships, or wish to understand how to reframe your perspective on the wonder that is love; then let this very special chat and Esther’s heart-felt words not only give you the confidence to cultivate healthy bonds with others, but help you see the presence of love: as the only thing we will ever truly need in this world. Follow Sarah for more wisdom and inspiration: Instagram: instagram.com/sarahgrynberg Website: https://sarahgrynberg.com/ Facebook: facebook.com/sarahgrynberg Twitter: twitter.com/sarahgrynberg YouTube: youtube.com/sarahgrynberg See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


5 Dec 2022

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Esther Perel - Let's Be Better Lovers

The Imperfects

If there’s such thing as a b-b-b-bonus B-B-B-BONUS ep, this is it.Psychotherapist Esther Perel is THE woman to turn to for relationship advice - IYKYK! Her two TED talks have been viewed over sixty million times, she’s written two books that have both been featured on the New York Times Bestseller list, and her intimate podcasts with real people in real counselling sessions have positively changed the relationships of millions of couples - including ours.In this Academy of Imperfection, among other things, Esther tells Ryan and Josh (Hugh was sadly sick) why no relationship or partner is perfect, and to expect anything different is at our own peril.Whether you’re already in a relationship or currently looking for a partner, YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LEARN SOMETHING FROM THIS EP! Pinky promise.To learn more about Esther Perel and her work, follow this link: www.estherperel.comTo listen to Esther's podcasts, Where Should We Begin and How's Work with Esther Perel, follow this link: https://www.estherperel.com/podcastTo purchase Esther's card game, Where Should We Begin, A Game of Stories, follow this link:  game.estherperel.comFor tickets and tour information for Esther's remaining Australian shows, visit: www.tegdainty.comFor book recommendation The Denial of Death by Ernest Becker, follow this link: https://bit.ly/3gHVNCH


30 Nov 2022

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517: Love In War | Esther Perel

Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris

We’re sharing a very special episode from a frequent guest of the show, Esther Perel. In this episode, “Love in War with Esther Perel: Ukraine,” you’ll hear a couples session led by Esther, between a husband and wife whose family has been torn apart by the war in Ukraine. Through the lens of relationship, you experience both the horrors of war and the relatability of intimate relationships.Esther Perel is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author of many books, including Mating In Captivity. She’s also the host of the podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work?. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


4 Nov 2022

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Esther Perel: Love in War

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle

In this deeply intimate collaboration with beloved therapist Esther Perel, she dives deep in a couples therapy session with a Ukrainian couple torn apart by the war.The wife is compelled to leave the country for the sake of her youngest son; the husband and older son are compelled to stay in the warzone for the sake of their country.Miraculously, even amid unthinkable loss – and maybe especially amid unthinkable loss – love and connection are unrelenting.Love does impossible things.(Ukrainian and English language transcripts available at http://wecandohardthingspodcast.com) To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices


2 Nov 2022

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Esther Perel, on being the world's most famous couples therapist

The Drop

Esther Perel is one of the most popular psychotherapists, relationship counsellors and podcasters in the world. On this special episode of The Drop she talks about infidelity, polyamory and what she's learnt. The Drop is a weekly show tackling the latest in the world of pop culture and entertainment. Join host Osman Faruqi and the Sydney Morning Herald and The Age's team of culture writers and critics along with interviews with musicians, actors, film makers and everyone involved in the world of culture.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


14 Oct 2022

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HBO’s 'Industry', and Esther Perel

FT Weekend

This weekend, we discuss Industry on HBO with chief features writer Henry Mance. The show is part of a trend: like Succession and Euphoria, it depicts a pretty harsh version of the world we live in. So why do we keep getting sucked in? Then you'll hear a conversation between star psychologist Esther Perel and FT contributing editor Lucy Kellaway from the FT Weekend Festival. They discuss how remote work might change us, whether TikTok is teaching kids to be anxious, and more. Listen wherever you get your podcasts, or at ft.com/ftweekendpodcast.-------Here’s the link to leave us a message for our listener callout: https://sayhi.chat/6gci2What’s a topic people would find boring, but you think we could make interesting on the podcast? Challenge us!-------Want to stay in touch? We love hearing from you. Email us at ftweekendpodcast@ft.com. We’re on Twitter @ftweekendpod, and Lilah is on Instagram and Twitter @lilahrap.-------Links and mentions from the episode:– The entire Esther Perel and Lucy Kellaway conversation is here: https://youtu.be/BjdvwbJyyxo– Henry on Industry Season 1: Has TV finally captured the reality of the City in BBC series Industry? https://on.ft.com/3yn8MPu – Henry writing about being on Industry: https://on.ft.com/3ypgl8n – Lucy Kellaway writes about her conversation with Esther: https://on.ft.com/3ynuGlM– Esther’s podcasts are called Where Should We Begin? And How’s Work?– Henry is on Twitter @henrymance. Lucy is on Twitter @lucykellaway. Esther is on Instagram and Twitter @estherperelofficial and @estherperel-------Special offers for FT Weekend listeners, from 50% off a digital subscription to a $1/£1/€1 trial, can be found here: http://ft.com/weekendpodcast-------Original music by Metaphor Music. Mixing and sound design by Breen Turner and Sam GiovincoRead a transcript of this episode on FT.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.


8 Oct 2022

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From the Archives: Esther Perel || Love, Eros, and Infidelity

The Psychology Podcast

In celebration of our first year anniversary with Stitcher, we’re re-releasing one of our favorite episodes from the past year with Esther Perel.Esther Perel is a psychotherapist and a New York Times bestselling author, recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she hones a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Her best-selling books Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs have been translated into nearly 30 languages. Esther is also an executive producer and host of the popular podcast Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work? Her latest project is Where Should We Begin − A Game of Stories with Esther Perel. In this episode, I talk to renowned psychotherapist and author Esther Perel about love and relationships. We tackle the true essence of the words “eros” and “freedom”. Esther offers her perspective on marriage and affairs, getting to the root cause of why people cheat. We also touch on the topics of soulmates, masculinity, how to keep passion alive during a global pandemic, and Esther’s practice as a cross-cultural therapist. Website: www.estherperel.comInstagram: @estherperelofficial Topics02:02 Adapting to the COVID-19 pandemic04:33 Social connection during the pandemic 10:04 “The erotic is the antidote to death”17:02 True freedom in relationships22:05 Soulmates don’t exist 26:38 Why people in happy marriages cheat29:46 Can an affair be good for a marriage?34:54 Where Should We Begin?39:00 Redefining marriage, fidelity, and sexuality46:25 Esther’s cross-cultural approach to therapy49:31 Esther’s interest in cultural transitions, identity, and relationships54:56 The masculine obsession with power 01:00:08 The Great Adaptation


6 Oct 2022

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Sex & Relationship Therapist Esther Perel on Modern-Day Dating Challenges for Men

The Man Enough Podcast

We talk about dating for men, rethinking balanced relationships, how the rapidly changing norms challenge men to unlearn and keep up faster than they ever have, and how men can show up more in the abortion conversation.  About Esther Perel:  Esther Perel is a world-renowned “male-friendly” therapist, sex & relationship expert, NYT bestselling author, top podcast host (Where Should We Begin? and How's Work?), TEDTalk superstar (25MM views!), and now game creator. She is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships.  New episodes every Monday 🎙️ The video version of every episode and bonus features will always be available on the @wearemanenough YouTube channel ( https://youtube.com/WeAreManEnough ) and at https://ManEnough.com/podcast The Man Enough Podcast is produced by Wayfarer Studios and presented by Procter and Gamble, in partnership with Cadence13, an Audacy company. SHOW NOTES 1:15 - Host intro: dating advice from married men; Andrew Tate, the “king of toxic masculinity” 12:20 - Esther joins and they play her game, “Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories” 26:00 - When was the last time you didn’t feel enough?  30:00 - Dating and relationship challenges, how norms and expectations have changed 36:30 - How Esther’s work benefits humanity and benefits men 42:20 - Empathy for men who are struggling with the current cultural environment, disenfranchisement  50:05 - How men are (or aren’t) showing up in the abortion conversation 58:30 - Host wrap-up JOIN THE MAN ENOUGH COMMUNITY:  https://instagram.com/wearemanenough https://tiktok.com/wearemanenough https://twitter.com/WeAreManEnough https://facebook.com/wearemanenough https://youtube.com/WeAreManEnough Subscribe to the Man Enough newsletter for behind the scenes, updates, sneak peeks of new episodes, and positive masculinity content: https://manenough.com/newsletter Read the Man Enough book: https://manenough.com/books Pre-Order the Boys Will Be Human book: https://boyswillbehuman.com ESTHER PEREL LINKS: https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial/?hl=en https://twitter.com/estherperel?lang=en https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4eN7PS9mi8__4EYxy6VpFw Esther Perel Podcast: https://www.estherperel.com/podcast Esther’s Game: “Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories”: https://game.estherperel.com/ FOLLOW THE HOSTS: Justin Baldoni https://instagram.com/justinbaldoni https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni https://facebook.com/justinbaldoni https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni Text: +1 (310) 845-6909 Liz Plank https://instagram.com/feministabulous https://tiktok.com/@lizplank https://facebook.com/feministabulous https://twitter.com/feministabulous http://www.elizabethplank.com/ Jamey Heath https://instagram.com/jamey_heath_ https://tiktok.com/@jameyheath https://twitter.com/jamey_heath_ https://facebook.com/jameyjaz http://www.jameyheath.com/ SPECIAL ADVERTISER OFFERS FOR YOU Turning Points Podcast Check out season 2 of Turning Points: Navigating Mental Health. The first episode features Boston Red Sox outfielder Alex Verdugo. A podcast from Point32Health in partnership with Boston Globe Media. Available wherever you get your podcasts. #dating #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #relationships #relationshipadvice #abortion To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

1hr 3mins

19 Sep 2022

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Esther Perel on The Tolstoys

Significant Others

World-renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel joins Liza to discuss the dynamic between Leo and Sophia Tolstoy and whether the issues Sophia faced were a product of the times she lived in.This bonus episode is a discussion of Episode 1 of Significant Others, "Countess Sophia Tolstoy." Listen to it here.  


21 Jul 2022

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Esther Perel: Use This Simple Trick to Heal & Deepen Your Relationships EP 1291

The School of Greatness

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Her celebrated TED Talks have garnered more than 40 million views and her bestselling books, Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs, are global phenomena translated into nearly 30 languages. Esther is also an executive producer and host of the popular podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work?Her latest project is Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories.In this episode, you will learn:How sexuality is only a piece of eroticism.Why humor is so important to heal your relationship.The difference of being aware and feeling your dread.Why play is one of the keys to success.For more, go to lewishowes.com/1291For Esther's previous episodes:The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship: https://link.chtbl.com/1236-podRed Flags To Avoid In Relationships & How To Find Real Love: https://link.chtbl.com/1277-podThe Power of Erotic Intelligence: https://link.chtbl.com/732-pod

1hr 5mins

11 Jul 2022