The great resignation that started in 2021 set off a wave of workers across industries finally asking themselves the question, “is this REALLY what I want to do with my life?” If you are one of the many, who have considered a career change or are still trying to figure out what that “passion” is, today’s guest is here to help you untangle the modern job hunting advice and help you discover your unique skillset, and how to use them to find your dream job. Tori is joined by Ashley Stahl, author of You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, Design Your Dream Career, to talk about the ten skillsets she believes are the most valuable in the current market, how to know which one is yours, and how she utilized her skills working for the Department of Defense to trust her instincts and build a career she loves.Learn more about Financial Feminist, our guests, get transcripts and resources on our show notes page: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes See if Tori is coming to a city near you for her book tour! https://herfirst100k.com/hfk-events Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
318 SelfWork: Ashley Stahl Is Guest Host! Eleven "Mind Shifts" For 2023
The SelfWork Podcast
Ashley Stahl and I met when her book You Turn came out – and to prepare for her interview on SelfWork, not only did I read her book, I watched a couple of her TedTalks – yes she has two! And I thought her advice was solidly based on the importance of values in choosing a career. I saw that she’d established herself extremely well in the entrepreneurial world, giving career advice to many world wide – while at the same time, being very transparent and giving of herself. So I wanted to feature her and her work – so that SelfWork listeners could approach their professional lives more clearly. Here's her actual bio: Ashley Stahl is a counterterrorism professional turned career coach, an international bestselling author, a Fortune 500 spokesperson, and expert on intuition, personal branding, and fulfillment. Daymond John (Shark Tank, Fubu, NYT bestselling author) says Ashley’s bestseller, You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, Design Your Dream Career, is “the ultimate guide to discover your path in the workforce.” Between her online courses, subscribers, and show “The You Turn Podcast,” (with 2M downloads), she’s been able to support clients in 78 countries in self-discovery, upgrading their confidence, and finding career fulfillment. When I asked her to be a guest host, she energetically jumped right in – which was more than meaningful for me. And I loved listening to her episode! She’s going to share eleven what she calls “mindshifts” that have been vital for her to learn in 2022 and take now into 2023. Here’s a sneak peak into her list… she’s learned the difference between a “connection” and a true relationship – the first being highly seductive perhaps but the second holding within it security and consistency , which is so needed by us all. I’m honored she’s here – as I have been with all my guest hosts! Click Here for the fabulous offer from Athletic Greens - now AG1 - with bonus product with your subscription! Start fresh in 2023! BetterHelp, the #1 online therapy provider, has a special offer for you now! You can hear more about this and many other topics by listening to my podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Subscribe to my website and receive my weekly newsletter including a blog post and podcast! If you’d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click here and answer the membership questions! Welcome! My book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression, which is coming out in the spring in German, is available and you can order here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life. And it's available in paperback, eBook or as an audiobook! And send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You’ll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you’re giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I’ll look forward to hearing from you!
How to Get What You Want in Any Negotiation (with Ashley Stahl and Chris Voss)
The Mark Divine Show
In this episode, Mark hands the mic to Ashley Stahl, a former counterterrorism professional turned career coach. In this feed drop from Ashley’s You Turn podcast, Ashley interviews Chris Voss, the lead international kidnapping investigator for the FBI, author of Never Split the Difference, and CEO of the Black Swan Group. Today, Mark hands the mic to Ashley Stahl, a former counterterrorism professional turned career coach. In this feed drop from Ashley’s You Turn podcast, Ashley interviews Chris Voss, the lead international kidnapping investigator for the FBI, author of Never Split the Difference, and CEO of the Black Swan Group. In this masterclass on negotiation, Chris and Ashley cover salary negotiation tactics, how to use empathy to get what you want, negotiation psychology, and so much more. Key Takeaways: Never go first. Chris says the secret to gaining the upper hand in negotiations is giving the other side the illusion of control. That’s why the smartest and best negotiators let the other side go first. He who speaks first loses, since you're giving the other side a lot of information right off the bat, and you’re not learning anything you can use in your favor. If you’re asked a question first, respond, but don’t answer the question right away. Pivot as much as possible back to the other person and make them divulge first. There are no bad teams, only bad leaders. Chris says that if his people are responding to him poorly, then he’s failing as a leader, and he needs to make some changes. The more work-focused a leader gets, the more the work product suffers. If a leader isn’t happy with the job somebody's doing, they’re likely treating that person as a commodity and not as a human being. Make sure you’re spending enough time nurturing and encouraging your people and finding out who they are. Empathy means understanding, not caring. Empathy has become a synonym for caring about the other side. But Chris says empathy is really about completely understanding where the other side is coming from. If you need to like, agree with, or sympathize with someone to exercise empathy, then what happens if you don’t like them? What happens if you don't agree with them? You can't exercise empathy if those are necessary requirements. But if you don't need any of those things, you can exercise empathy with any human being on the planet. Seek first to understand, then be understood. In any negotiation, this is the fastest sequence to get your way. You don’t have to agree that the other person’s perspective is true, fair, or even reasonable. All you have to do is reflect their perspective back to them, so that they feel like you understand them. Focus on fixing losses vs. accomplishing gains. The reasons why we won't do something are more important in our decision-making than the reasons we will...
Episode 276- Networking As A Way Of Life, Making A “You Turn” In Your Career With Ashley Stahl
Journey To Launch
Ashley Stahl, Counter-Terrorism professional turned Career Coach, international bestselling author, and Fortune 500 spokesperson, joins the podcast to talk all things life-fulfillment, intentional networking, and making a career “You Turn”. With more than 6 million views, her TEDx Talk on intuition and fulfillment is ranked amongst the top 100 TED Talks.. In this episode we discuss: Making a “You Turn” + being completely honest with yourself despite a sunk cost fallacy The importance of knowing what regulates you + making space for that in your life What strategic networking can bring you + why it’s a way of life Why the concept of loving something 100% gets people stuck Why the vehicle for fulfillment is your intuition The 3 lily pad concept + more Other related blog posts/links mentioned in this episode: Ashley Stahl's Podcast Get Ashley's Book You Turn: Get Unstuck Discover Your Direction and Design Your Dream Career Check out my new personal website here. Join The Weekly Newsletter List Leave me a voicemail– Leave me a question on the Journey To Launch voicemail and have it answered on the podcast! Watch me on News12 Watch my latest segments on News12 YNAB – Start managing your money and budgeting so that you can reach your financial dreams. Sign up for a free 34 days trial of YNAB, my go-to budgeting app by using my referral link. Connect with Ashley: Website Instagram:@AshleyStahl Twitter:@AshleyStahl Facebook: @AshleyStahlCoaching Connect with me: Instagram: @Journeytolaunch Twitter: @JourneyToLaunch Facebook: @Journey To Launch Join the Private Facebook Group Join the Waitlist for My FI Course Get The Free Jumpstart Guide
You Turn Podcast Host Ashley Stahl Shares The 7 Different Types of Lies We Tell
The Unmistakable Creative Podcast
Ashley is a is a speaker, career expert, and author of the bestselling book You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your direction, Design Your Dream Career. The You Turn Podcast (on apple here/on android here), is a self-improvement show that's meant to help listeners elevate their confidence in work, love, and life. Ashley brings on experts and thought leaders for deep conversations and mini masterclasses packed with actionable advice, all here to help the You Turn community reconnect to who they truly are and what they really want. In this episode she talks to Lauren Zander, a celebrity life coach, public speaker and the co-founder and Chairwoman of The Handel Group, shares the 7 different types of lies we are all telling ourselves and how valuable it is to break free from them. Everyone tells a white lie, or decides to omit details from a story, but have you ever taken the time to wonder how often this occurs during the day, and why you do it? Lauren breaks down the root of why we lie and offers actionable steps to move away from living a life of falsehood. Subscribe for ad-free interviews and bonus episodes https://plus.acast.com/s/the-unmistakable-creative-podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bonus Episode 449: You Turn Podcast Host Ashley Stahl Talks With Andrea About How To Maximize Your Confidence
Make Some Noise with Andrea Owen
Today I have a special bonus episode to share! Ashley Stahl has been a guest on the podcast and she was here we talked about how to get unstuck and uncover your career direction. As host of You Turn Podcast (spelled Y O U ), Ashley helps you elevate your confidence, both in work and love. She speaks often on how to get clarity and fulfillment on what path will truly light you up in your career. I am delighted to share my You Turn Podcast interview where we talked about money, power, and how to maximize your confidence. You’ll hear: How to have a healthy relationship with money How your childhood experiences shape your perspective with money and risk-taking Some tools to connect with your intuition http://andreaowen.com/449
279 SelfWork: Special Guest Host! Ashley Stahl and The You Turn Podcast Interviews Tatyana Rae on The Art Of Loving
The SelfWork Podcast
Today we’re doing something new! And it's the brainchild of the woman you're about to meet! Ashley Stahl is a counterterrorism professional turned career coach, spokesperson, and author of the bestselling book, You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, Design Your Dream Career. Through her two viral TEDx speeches, her online courses,and her podcast, the You Turn Podcast, she’s been able to support clients all over the world in discovering their best career path, upgrading their confidence, and landing more job offers. She maintains a monthly career column in Forbes, and her work has been also featured in outlets such as The Wall Street Journal, CBS, SELF, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, and more. Those are the facts about Ashley Stahl. But let me tell you what it’s like to talk with her. She’s quick, bright, compassionate – quick to laugh. And her advice and guidance about choosing a career or moving into a career that uses your core values, skills and very nature – where your particular brand of of energy can have the chance to be naturally expressed every day and bring you fulfillment – is refreshing to hear. Her book isn’t a checklist of to-do’s about getting the perfect job for you – but is chock-full of personal stories that give her message context and power. I changed careers in my late 20’s and it took nine years to do so but was so very worth that time. I wish I’d had her book as I realize I stumbled around looking for the direction she provides. So now we’re introducing each other’s work to our own podcast audiences – and I chose her interview with Tatyana Rae – who's been Ashley's mentor as a personal inspiration consultant. Here is some of Tatyana's heritage: "I come from a family lineage of Shaman on my Father’s side, who was Apache I received my earliest training at the feet my paternal Great Grandmother. The skills associated with Shamanism were passed on to my Father, myself, and now my son, Zachary, who is being groomed in the Remembering." She's a fascinating guest and I so enjoyed their discussion! So here are Ashley Stahl and her interview with the revolutionary expert in the art of loving. Tatyana Rae. You can hear more about this and many other topics by listening to my podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Subscribe to my website and receive my weekly newsletter including a blog post and podcast! If you’d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click here and answer the membership questions! Welcome! My book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression has been published and you can order here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life. And it’s available in paperback, eBook or as an audiobook! And there’s another way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You’ll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you’re giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I’ll look forward to hearing from you!
146: Ashley Stahl Takeover | The Process of Finding Your Calling
Detail Therapy with Amy Landino
In this episode, Amy passes the mic to Ashley Stahl to teach you how to align your unique gifts and purpose to the opportunities around you! Ashley Stahl is a counterterrorism professional turned career expert, host of You Turn Podcast, and best-selling author of “You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, and Design Your Dream Career”. Her goal is to help you get clarity and fulfillment on the path that will light you up in your career. Connect with Ashley on Instagram HERE! or visit her website HERE! Listen to Ashley's podcast You Turn HERE! SHINE SQUAD IS BACK! Want more podcast goodness? Get a daily dose of motivation from Amy by joining Shine Squad! Check out all the details in our show notes HERE Connect with Amy on Instagram HERE Connect with Detail Therapy on Instagram HERE Check out more of our content at GATLUW.com Download the GATLUW Success Guide for FREE HERE Buy the Good Morning Good Life Planner HERE Get a copy of the book Good Morning Good Life HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ashley Stahl from You Turn Podcast On How to Be a Powerful Communicator
The Intentional Advantage
Do you ever notice that certain people communicate in a way that gets them better results—raises at work, relationships, or new friends? You can learn how to do that! Jennifer Russell, executive coach, is here to talk about the importance of your ability to hold charisma and inspire people, and how claim your power. We all lead with different energy when we communicate, but she has discovered four faces of powerful communication that everyone has the ability to possess. On this week’s episode of the You Turn podcast, Jennifer talks to Ashley about these four approaches of power, and how you can step in to them no matter what your values or strengths are. Walk away from the episode knowing exactly which one you are, and how to tap into every single one in order to embrace more inspired communication and boost your ability to fascinate anyone. As always, don’t forget to stick around for Ashley’s post episode thoughts!
EP. 52: THE GREAT RESIGNATION: ASHLEY STAHL ON CAREER DESIGN AND HOW TO GET UNSTUCK
Bounce! Conversations with Larry Weeks
"I would say what would be responsible when asking yourself should I stay or should I go is, am I actively growing a core skillset that I want to harness and carry with me throughout my career?" - Ashley Stahl The great resignation is all over the media of late; it's an economic trend born of the COVID pandemic in which employees (In the U.S. for our purposes) are voluntarily leaving jobs in huge numbers—starting around the end of 2020, ramping in 2021 and increasing now in 2022. Although many service sectors are hardest hit, it does bleed beyond those impacting many different industries. My guest is Ashley Stahl. Ashley is a former counter-terrorism professional turned career coach and bestselling author of "You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, and Design Your Dream Career." Ashley's helped clients in over 30 countries discover their career path and land more job offers. Her writings appear in a monthly career column in Forbes magazine, and her articles have been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Self, The Washington Post, The Chicago Tribune, and more. When you listen, I think you can tell that Ashley is on a mission to help people step into a career they're aligned with and even excited about. I wanted Ashley on because she is an expert in career transitions and disruptive workplace phenomena. I wanted her opinion on what is happening and, more importantly, what opportunities this opens up for people. She did not disappoint. Topics we covered on the show insights into what is happening at the moment across industries. Work and the burden of meaning, purpose and passion. Values first, roles second. Better questions to ask yourself. When to stay, when to leave. The importance of mindset. Assessments and determining work that is right for you. Hard skills and how networking works today. How to find unadvertised roles. For show notes and more, visit www.larryweeks.com