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Unpacking the Complexities of Intimacy with Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker

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Good People, 

Today I had an absolutely delightful conversation with the intimacy experts, Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker, who are partners in business, love and life. They specialize in working with entrepreneur couples who have an urgent desire to transform both their relationship and their business, helping them experience passion, freedom and connection in their relationship. 

Marla and Julian both shared their personal and professional truths, which centered around realizing that you are completely responsible for life and what happens within it, and how to handle the negative inner voices. Their truths have helped them become better partners in work and life. 

We also unpack the complex topic of intimacy. What is intimacy and why is it so scary? Diving deeper, Marla and Julian break down the five main realms of intimacy, different techniques used to help couples get unstuck from past arguments and rework the past to create positive outcomes. 

This is an action-packed episode. So sit back, relax, and take a listen. I’ll see you in the next one. 

Some Questions I Ask: 

  • What truth, once you acknowledged it, led to a breakthrough in your life? (6:49)
  • What is intimacy? (14:56)
  • Why do you think intimacy is so scary for people? (18:55)
  • How would you approach coaching a couple where one person is committed and the other is stuck in anger? (28:37)
  • How would you differentiate between activating and triggering your partner? (42:36)


In This Episode You Will Learn: 

  • How becoming aware of your own negativity can lead to heightened empathy and transformation. (7:25)
  • The 5 main realms of intimacy. (15:27)
  • How to rewire negative intimate interactions with your partner and create positive outcomes. (24:24)
  • How venting techniques can help couples move through anger. (29:21)
  • How quarantining has brought people closer together. (38:38)


Connect with Marla & Julian: 

Website

Instagram

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Sep 14 2020 · 48mins
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Episode 252: Movers & Shakers – Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker

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I’m very excited to share another episode in my Movers & Shakers series, where I feature amazing people who are making a huge impact in not only their lives but the lives of others.

This week I had the pleasure of sitting down in studio with my good friends Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker, The Intimacy Experts. Drawing from a unique background in neuroscience, mathematics and emotional intelligence, Marla and Julian guide visionaries to face their shadow to live in harmony behind the scenes in both relationship and business to amplify their impact, income, and intimacy. They have been featured in The New York Times, Forbes, Oprah, NBC, ABC and CBS to name a few. Together, this powerhouse couple is co-creating a world where full expression, heartfelt appreciation, and wild play are the backbone of success in business and life.

Links & Resources

The Successful Mind Podcast on YouTube – Episode 246:  Movers & Shakers w/ Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker

TheIntimacyExperts.com

Instagram

The post Episode 252: Movers & Shakers – Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker appeared first on Successful Mind Podcast.

Jun 03 2020 · 1hr 2mins

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17: Intimacy For Couples with Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker

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Squeezing the juice out of life is easy for "The Intimacy Experts", Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker. As partners in business and life, this couple's study of emotional intelligence is redefining the conversation on intimacy. They know that with intimacy also comes vulnerability, blame, and unfortunately also commonly resentment. So during this episode, they reveal the 6 key steps to clearing resentment, and how to put the fun back into your relationship. So get ready for an eye-opening and intimate conversation with the experts themselves.

May 10 2020 · 33mins
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An Intimate Look Into Our Struggles As Couplepreneurs with Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker

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Oh boy...things are getting real uncomfortable over here today!

We're diving deep into our personal relationship and giving you a behind-the-scenes look at our lives!

We have Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker from The Intimacy Experts joining us on the podcast today, so get ready for some awesome takeaways! Read full show notes: https://www.screwtheninetofive.com/intimacy

Oct 30 2019 · 1hr 27mins

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46: Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker - Technology and its role in relationships

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On Episode 46, Marla Mattenson returns with her partner Julian Colker who work together to coach couples in their relationships including how to use technology mindfully.

Some of the questions I ask:


  • How to deal with devices and how they can potentially create rough spots when it comes to our intimate relationships [2.28]
  • Why a pre-planned advance agreements between a couple is important to set each other up for success [5:07]
  • How technology can be used to amplify the positive in your relationship [7:55]
  • Ways that technology can make things simple for you and your partner[13:29]
  • How much is too much communication via text message? [18:48]
  • What are some suggestions for those who feel they can’t commit to a simple or disciplined technology use plan? [24:13]
  • Upcoming in person workshop Marla and Julian have about touch [28:38]


What you’ll learn:

  • Technology is a tool which can add value to your relationship and also take away from it [2:48]
  • Pre planned advance agreements about technology between yourself and your partner [3:49]
  • Close the gap of misinterpretation that can potentially happen when communicating through devices [5:39]
  • Humans are now getting Dopamine and Serotonin hits which cause us to bond with our technology instead of bonding with our partner or other humans [7:30]
  • How to use technology in a way to connect deeper with your partner’s love language [8:40]
  • Ways to set intention about wanting to grow with your partner [10:32]
  • How sharing your calendar with your partner so they are aware of the times you are busy and free so they can plan things around your schedule [11:31]
  • Use technology to keep track of things your partner likes on the phone [12:53]
  • Starting your morning routine to engage a passionate relationship that doesn’t prioritise a technology first [14:48]
  • Setting boundaries around technology use in your family [15:26]
  • How to creatively communicate using technology [17:16]
  • Ways to have an intentional digital detox [21:45]
  • Have the belief that it’s possible to be disconnected from your phone [24:48]
  • Ways to apply technology in a way to uplift and advance your life and relationship [25:30]
  • What’s a thought each of you would leave about technology in relationships? [31:21]


Resources:

Apps: Love Nudge - talks about the 5 love languages you can sign up with your partner

Marla Matteson & Julian Colker’s workshop:

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Mar 11 2019 · 35mins
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082 | Powerhouse Pairs: When Entrepreneurs Partner In Love And With Marla Mattenson And Julian Colker

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In this episode, I sit down with entrepreneurial relationship and intimacy experts Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker who work with entrepreneurial couples to transform their negative habitual patterns.

We discuss the ins and outs of partnering in love and business and how to work together to breed phenomenal results in both.

What You’ll Discover In This Episode:

✔️ The Winning Combination You Need To Be A Powerhouse Pair

✔️ How To Measure If Your Partner’s Passion For Entrepreneurship Measures Up

✔️ The Biggest Dangers Entrepreneur Couples Need To Watch Out For

✔️ Rules For Sharing Experiences That Will Uplift The Relationship

✔️ What Can Happen If Either The Business Or Love Stops Flourishing

✔️ The Biggest Obstacle In Every Human’s Life And How To Conquer It

✔️So Much More!

This was an awesome discussion with Marla and Julian I hope you enjoy. Now let’s jump right in and get to the straight talk!

Important Resources & Links From This Episode:

The Relationship Redo

Marla On Facebook

The Intimacy Experts On Facebook

Dec 03 2018 · 49mins
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#041: Love Advice For Entrepreneurs with Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker

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Hey, Boss! There are some subjects that I just KNOW weigh on the minds of entrepreneurs more than others...and being in a relationship is one of them.

When I opened up the polls and asked all of my followers across all platforms what questions they had for relationship and intimacy experts Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker, I was blown away by the response. The vulnerability, the rawness, and the open curiosity that came back to me was absolutely astounding.

I had so much amazing feedback and engagement, in fact, that the questions more than filled our entire time in this interview, so I had to choose carefully. And let me tell you, the selection of questions we dig into will not disappoint!

  • How many time per week is ‘normal’ and ‘healthy’ to have sex when you’re in a long-term relationship?

  • Do relationships between entrepreneurs and non-entrepreneurs actually work out in the long run?

  • If you’re in a position where you’re so damn successful you can offer your partner the option to not work, what is the best way to navigate this scenario…especially if you’re a woman?

From flipping traditional gender roles to a 3-minute sex ritual you can set up on the daily to keep things exciting and fresh, we cover so many different questions and angles to this conversation that I’m thinking of bringing these two back on a quarterly basis.

You’re gonna love this interview, Boss! If you enjoy the episode, please be sure to take a screenshot and share it out on Instagram and tag me - @SunnyLenarduzzi and I’ll be sure to share your comments and big takeaways on my Instagram Stories as well. Also, please make sure to give us a review on iTunes (or Google Play, Stitcher, Android, TuneIn, Spotify).

Dig in, Boss. It’s all about the love today, and I hope you get as much from this interview as I did!

You can find the Show Notes for this episode HERE

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RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Marla & Julian on Instagram

Marla & Julian on Facebook

Julian Colkers website

Marla Mattensons website

Marla Mattenson on Instagram

David Naegle

Calling in The One by Katherine Woodward Thomas

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Sunny Lenarduzzis YouTube Channel

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Oct 25 2018 · 1hr 5mins
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#041: Love Advice For Entrepreneurs with Marla Mattenson & Julian Colker

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Hey, Boss! There are some subjects that I just KNOW weigh on the minds of entrepreneurs more than others...and being in a relationship is one of them.

When I opened up the polls and asked all of my followers across all platforms what questions they had for relationship and intimacy experts Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker, I was blown away by the response. The vulnerability, the rawness, and the open curiosity that came back to me was absolutely astounding.

I had so much amazing feedback and engagement, in fact, that the questions more than filled our entire time in this interview, so I had to choose carefully. And let me tell you, the selection of questions we dig into will not disappoint!

  • How many time per week is ‘normal’ and ‘healthy’ to have sex when you’re in a long-term relationship?

  • Do relationships between entrepreneurs and non-entrepreneurs actually work out in the long run?

  • If you’re in a position where you’re so damn successful you can offer your partner the option to not work, what is the best way to navigate this scenario…especially if you’re a woman?

From flipping traditional gender roles to a 3-minute sex ritual you can set up on the daily to keep things exciting and fresh, we cover so many different questions and angles to this conversation that I’m thinking of bringing these two back on a quarterly basis.

You’re gonna love this interview, Boss! If you enjoy the episode, please be sure to take a screenshot and share it out on Instagram and tag me - @SunnyLenarduzzi and I’ll be sure to share your comments and big takeaways on my Instagram Stories as well. Also, please make sure to give us a review on iTunes (or Google Play, Stitcher, Android, TuneIn, Spotify).

Dig in, Boss. It’s all about the love today, and I hope you get as much from this interview as I did!

You can find the Show Notes for this episode HERE

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RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Marla & Julian on Instagram

Marla & Julian on Facebook

Julian Colkers website

Marla Mattensons website

Marla Mattenson on Instagram

David Naegle

Calling in The One by Katherine Woodward Thomas

Sign up to my FREE TRAINING on How to 100x Your Subscriber Base and Double Your Revenue Using YouTube.

Sunny Lenarduzzis YouTube Channel

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Say hi to Sunny Lenarduzzi on social:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SunnyLenarduzzi/

Snapchat: https://www.snapchat.com/add/sunnylenarduzzi

Twitter: https://twitter.com/SunnyLenarduzzi

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/SunnyLenarduzzi

Instagram: http://instagram.com/sunnylenarduzzi/

Sign up to my FREE TRAINING on How to 100x Your Subscriber Base and Double Your Revenue Using YouTube.

Join our community in “Be Your Own Boss Mastermind” Facebook Group here: http://www.byoboss.today

Listen to The Sunny Show Podcast here:

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Google Play

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TuneIn

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Oct 25 2018 · 1hr 5mins
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33. Julian Colker - Do Less, Be More

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“Self care is mandatory… If you think you’re going to be at your highest performance without self care, you’re fooling yourself.”

I first met today’s guest in New York at an entrepreneurial event we both attended.

There was something about Julian! He had a vibe that made me feel good and made me want to be around him. And I wasn’t alone. I noticed how others had the same experience. When I asked Julian what was going on, he said it was because we had connected to his ‘inner god’ and that he was actively looking for the god in each person he encountered.

We didn’t have time to go into the detail of what this meant, but I was hooked and super curious. I had to know more! So I invited Julian onto the Stay Grounded podcast so we could dig deeper into this concept.

And the depth of insight this discussion unleashed blew me away - and I’m pretty sure it will be the same for you too.

“By me witnessing the god in others I’m calling them up to the vibrational level of their god-selves.”

In this episode we talk about all sorts of cool stuff - all around how you can be your best self.

What this means in practice. What inspires you to show up as your best. The simple daily practices you can engage in to really life life to the full. Julian really does hold nothing back. As you’ll hear, he gives my questions careful consideration and as a result we went to some super interesting places.

Such as a definition of meditation that everyone can connect with (even if you can’t sit still for a minute on the cushion!)

And Julian’s 3-minute, daily sex practice that’s not only created more love and connection with his wife Marla, but bleeds into everything else that he does.

And perhaps my favorite comment of all. Listen out for when Julian tells me to, “Just be Raj. You don’t have to be anything. Just be Raj.” [And of course insert your name as he says it.]

This episode left me super inspired in so many ways and it’s my hope that it will do the same for you too.

So brew yourself a coffee, pull up a chair, and get ready to indulge yourself in a beautiful dose of life wisdom - courtesy of my friend, the extraordinary Julian Colker.

“The things you don’t want are opportunities for growth, opportunities to learn, and opportunities to get curious.”

Some questions I ask:

  • What does feeling your inner god mean to you? [1:20]
  • What does vibrational level mean? [6:29]
  • When you’re in a low vibrational state how do you train yourself to start appreciating and seeing the joy all around you. [9:04]
  • What is meditation to you? [16:20]
  • How do you make self care a priority each day? [20:49]
  • How does your daily sex practice bleed into everything else that you do? [22:52]
  • What’s the difference between your divine self and your ego driven self? [23:40]
  • How do you become comfortable spreading your joy when you’re in your divine state? [27:00]
  • If you’ve never consciously tried to be your best self, how do you bridge the gap between your conscious and unconscious so that you know what your best self is - and can therefore show up as it?
  • When all else fails, what is the one non-negotiable that brings you back to center and your divine self? [33:35]
  • What role does gratitude play in your life? [36:12]
  • How do you stay grounded? [43:46]

In this episode, you will hear about:

  • Beware of your small self and how to know when it shows up! [2:06]
  • The book that literally jumped into Julian’s hand when he was in a bookshop. [3:00]
  • The prayer you can say to connect with your god-self - and the flip that enables you to see god in others too. [10:20]
  • Why doing is amazing - and what’s beyond that. [12:27]
  • Why breathing is the bridge between the seen and the unseen world. [15:30]
  • Why self care is mandatory. [20:27]
  • “Everybody’s got 3-minutes” - Julian’s daily sex practice and how this helps him feel more connected throughout the day. [21:36]
  • The role your ego needs to play in your life. [24:36]
  • Why we’ve got to have moments that are ‘sh*t’ and why the things you don’t want are actually the gifts in life. [35:40]
  • Julian’s gratitude for food and how it makes every meal taste better. [37:00]
  • The importance of ‘advanced gratitude’. [37:37]
  • The fear/imagination game that Julian likes to play. [39:57]

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Jul 14 2018 · 49mins