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How to Design a Healthy Relationship with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Wellness, Inc. with Dr. Mike Moreno

Sex Expert and author of the most comprehensive survey of sexual desire ever undertaken, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, joins Dr. Mike in this exciting episode of "Wellness Inc." to discuss his game-changing results. You'll find out what people really want and why, how to get your sexual desires fulfilled, and how to be sure you fulfill your partner's needs as well. They talk about why people are afraid to ask for what they want, several myths that are not supported by facts, how to improve sexual communication, and fascinating information about what the most common sexual fantasies are! Listen in and learn how to make your relationship more intimate and successful, and how to make your life happier, healthier and more fulfilled- and a whole lot more fun! LISTEN TO THE PODCAST:http://bit.ly/WellnessSPOTIFYhttp://bit.ly/WellnessAPPLEhttp://bit.ly/WellnessIHEART https://www.instagram.com/stage29podcasts https://twitter.com/stage29podcasts https://www.facebook.com/Stage29Podcasts https://www.facebook.com/17daydiet/ https://www.instagram.com/17daydiet/ https://www.youtube.com/drmikediet https://www.pinterest.com/17daydiet/ Dr. Justin Lehmiller's links:https://www.lehmiller.com/podcasthttps://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/https://twitter.com/JustinLehmillerhttps://www.facebook.com/psychologyofsex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


21 Apr 2021

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Episode 11: Part 2! Becoming a Sex Researcher with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Practice Outside the Lines

In part 2 of this episode, Dr. Justin Lehmiller shares the business side of being a Sex Researcher where we discuss how he started his own podcast, how he decided to write his book “Tell me What You Want” and how he turned his blog into a business. Along the way, we discuss the importance of having multiple streams of income and Justin offers advice for anyone wanting to write about sex or start their own blog.


30 Mar 2021

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181 - Tell Me What You Want with Justin Lehmiller

Turn Me On

Age-appropriate sex education is the name of the game in the Netherlands. Bryde and Jeremie chat about the kid's TV show 'Ultra Strips Down", where an audience of kids aged 11-13 are able to ask questions of adults standing naked before them, as a means to promote healthy conversations about bodies! This week's guest Dr. Justin Lehmiller is an expert in sexual fantasies, and his book "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life" normalizes our desires and suggests ways we can embrace and work with them in partnerships to have more fulfilling, less shameful sex lives. JOIN US FOR OUR LIVE EVENT: Human Connection Through Touch $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's whole episode! This episode and more have been transcribed thanks to Thisten: https://thisten.co/event/wmu9lSee acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

1hr 39mins

10 Mar 2021

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SEXUAL ENERGY SERIES-4: Surprising Science About Human Desire – Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D. : 790

Bulletproof Radio

Welcome to part 4 (of 6) of our Bulletproof Radio Sexual Energy Series! We’re bringing you lots of new information about sexual health, wellness, research, devices, and performance. We’re combining that with special offers, discounts and all kinds of resources on the Dave Asprey blog. Be sure to scan the show notes below for details!In this episode of Bulletproof Radio, my guest is Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., one of the leading experts on human sexuality and author of the popular blog “Sex and Psychology.” He’s been named one of 5 "Sexperts" You Need to Follow on Twitter by Men's Health and one of the "modern-day masters of sex" by Nerve. He’s also a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute who’s published more than 50 academic works on topics like casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. “Sexuality is so much more complex than we think that it is,” Justin says. “There's more fluidity than people might realize or like to believe.”His popular book, “Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life,” is based on the largest and most comprehensive scientific survey of Americans' sexual fantasies ever undertaken.“People tend to think that their fantasies are weird, abnormal, strange, or unusual,” Justin says. “No matter what their fantasy was, my participants underestimated how common that fantasy was. The rarer they thought it was, the more shame, guilt, embarrassment, anxiety they felt, and that's really what holds people back. They're worried about what other people will say or think, and they don't accept themselves for the interest that they have.”Justin studied the sexual fantasies of 4,175 Americans who came from all 50 states. They ranged in age from 18 to 87, come from very diverse backgrounds and completed his 369-question survey. His work helps us better understand the incredible diversity of human sexual desire. “I think so much of it is, we have this lack of education about what's normal when it comes to sex,” he continues. “That leads to the shame and that leads people to bottle everything up. Before you can get to that point of actually sharing your fantasy with a partner, there's some work that we need to do on ourselves to get that level of self-acceptance that's going to open the door to having productive and healthy conversations.”And there are a couple of apps for sexual fantasies that could help, too.  Enjoy! And get more resources at Dave.Asprey/podcasts. Got a comment, idea or question for the podcast? Submit via this form. WE APPRECIATE OUR PARTNERS. CHECK THEM OUT!Light Therapy: https://joovv.com/pages/dave-asprey; use code DAVEMood Control: www.hapbee.com/dave and get $50 off the Hapbee deviceHigh-Performance Leadership: https://www.humanpotentialinstitute.com/coach-training/ DAVE ASPREY’S NEW BOOK!“Fast This Way: Burn Fat, Heal Inflammation, and Become the High-Performing Human You Were Meant to Be” 

1hr 3mins

9 Feb 2021

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Age Play with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Girls on Porn

Playing pretend is for adults too! The girls welcome acclaimed Kinsey Institute social psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller to talk about age-based styles of role playing. They dive headlong into a discussion about power dynamics, why Justin's career involves a lot of court testimony, and how playing "Little" can feel like a relaxing treat. We hope to stimulate your nether region AND that big ol' brain with this hot topic.Sexual Education: James Darling and Adam Silver: https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/film/sexual-education-james-darling-allen-silver/?list=trueEpisode 146: Poppy Cox and Siouxsie Q: https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/film/episode-146-poppy-cox-and-siouxsie-q/Be sure to rate Girls on Porn 5-stars on Apple Podcast! Leave your favorite search term OR your porn star name in the review for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Us on Social Media:Show: @girlsonprnLaura: @ramadeiRachel: @_rrratchetJustin: @justinjlehmillerShow Credits:Producer: Amanda CTheme by Eli JanneyPodcast Art by Erin DreisMixed and Edited by Faris MonshiAdvertise on Girls On Porn via Gumball.fm


3 Feb 2021

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179: Dr. Justin Lehmiller: The Reality of Sexual Fantasies

Holly Randall Unfiltered

Dr. Justin Lehmiller is an experienced researcher and educator on the psychology of human sexuality, and he put those skills to work for his latest book "Tell Me What You Want" based on the largest ever sampling of American sexual fantasies. From the most common to the most shameful, from group sex to cuckolding to penis size, Dr. Lehmiller reveals the surprising private truths behind the fantasies we all have. Support my show by supporting my sponsors! Manscaped is the revolutionary electric trimmer for man bush. It won't nick or snag your balls, and you can get 20% off plus free shipping by visiting Manscaped.com and using code HOLLY.  I'm thrilled to have my favorite (and longest!) client Twistys sponsoring the show! I've shot some of my best work for this website, so make sure you go and check out all the beautiful girl/girl scenes I've produced for them! Want more from this podcast? Get access to tons of perks by joining my Patreon! We have exclusive bonus content with stars such as Eliza Ibarra, Alex Grey, Scarlett Sage and Molly Stewart, and Holly has her own behind-the-scenes podcast with her hilarious PM Eva, you gotta listen! Also watch the show live and get cool gifts like coffee mugs, stickers, and hoodies. Join our community now at Patreon.com/hollyrandallunfiltered Don't forget you can always email us at hollyrandallunfiltered@gmail.com

1hr 4mins

27 Jan 2021

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Cuckolding with Dr Justin Lehmiller

Wanderlust Swingers - Swinging Lifestyle

What is Cuckolding? What is Cuckqueening? Many people incorrectly assume that this fetish involves only humiliation. We interview Dr Justin Lehmiller a PHD and Social Psychologist about Cuckolding and the psychology behind this fetish and desire of being cucked.  In the second half of this podcast we talk about the taboo behind using sex toys and using sex toys as a male.  Links for Dr Lehmiller Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/ Dr Lehmiller Twitter Account Dr Lehmiller Instagram Account Tell Me What You Want Book We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunderSwinging Lifestyle EventsJoin us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover  Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. 


15 Jan 2021

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Ep. 356: Too Quarantined to Bone with Justin Lehmiller

The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest

Psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller! Follow Justin! Twitter: @JustinLehmiller Instagram: @JustinJLehmiller Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life Website Follow Billy! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @billyisprocida Facebook fan page 0nlyFans: @callmebilly Venmo: @BillyProcida Cash App: $manwhorepod PayPal.Me/bprocida Amazon Wish List Join me on AltPlayground to start your next nonmonogamous adventure! Use promo code MANWHORE to get a 40-minute FREE TRIAL of ethical paid-for porn at HotMovies.com. Join our fanwhore community on Patreon and gain access to a supportive sex-positive community! Click here to become a member! Email your comments, questions, and criticisms to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com

1hr 15mins

4 Nov 2020

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Justin Lehmiller on America’s Most Common Sexual Fantasies, Groups, Nonmonogamy, Public, Taboo, and BDSM

Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino

This show is all about sexual fantasies! Tristan Taormino talks to Dr. Justin Lehmiller about his book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life and his research which includes the largest study of Americans’ sexual fantasies. We review the seven broad categories he divides them into: multi-partner sex; power, control, and rough sex; novelty, adventure, and variety; taboo and forbidden sex; partner sharing and nonmonogamous relationships; passion and romance; and erotic flexibility. Plus, we discuss other findings about gender, sexual orientation, body image, and what percentage of people want to make their top fantasy come to life (hint: it’s surprising!). How do we shape our fantasies and our fantasies shape us and why do fantasies matter? Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He is author of the blog Sex and Psychology and the popular book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller is a much sought-after voice in the media on sexuality research and education. He has been interviewed by The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and CNN, and he has appeared on dozens of international radio, podcast, and television programs. This show is possible because of the generosity of Calm and Trivia Star by Super Lucky.


26 Oct 2020

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Sex Fantasies with Author Justin Lehmiller | S1:E14

Dear Sex

Understanding the reality of your fantasy can help you understand your emotional needs in intimate situations. Author and social psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller joins Wendy to address how dominance and submission dynamics in the real world are being carried over into our sexual worlds. Get to know yourself better by bridging the gap between fantasy and reality. 


3 Sep 2020