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Justin Lehmiller - The Science Of Sexual Fantasies

ManTalks Podcast

What we fantasize about sexually can say a lot about...well, a lot. Our insecurities, our identity, our culture, the list goes on. And what you might think is some strange niche only you hang out in might be more common than you think! This is the conversation the incredible Justin Lehmiller brought to the table, and I'm excited to share it with you. If you're with a part of any variety, listen in together for some great insights.  Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 50 academic works to date, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller’s research focuses on topics including casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. His studies have appeared in all of the leading journals on human sexuality, including the Journal of Sex Research, Archives of Sexual Behavior, and The Journal of Sexual Medicine. Connect with Justin: -Website: https://www.sexandpsychology.com/ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/ -LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justinlehmiller -Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=r3pNkRoAAAAJ -Twitter: https://twitter.com/justinlehmiller -Book: Tell Me What You Want: https://amzn.to/3x1vmvU -Podcast: The Sex and Psychology Podcast: https://www.sexandpsychology.com/podcasts/ Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they’re looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | TwitterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

47mins

30 May 2022

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Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Sex & Psychology. Science of Sexual Desire. Sex, Sexual Fantasy, Sexual Health, etc.

The Cellfie Show

Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and the author of the book "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life". He received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 50 academic works to date, including a textbook titled "The Psychology of Human Sexuality" (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller’s research focuses on topics including casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. His studies have appeared in all of the leading journals on human sexuality, including the Journal of Sex Research, Archives of Sexual Behavior, and The Journal of Sexual Medicine. He has been featured on Vice, Netflix (sex explained), Playboy, Dr. Phil, CNN, Psychology Today, The New York Times, etc.  To connect with Dr. Justin Lemiller click https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/ (HERE) To connect with Tori click https://www.instagram.com/nurse.tori_/ (HERE)  To connect with Sam click https://www.instagram.com/heysamanthaa/ (HERE) To connect with Cellfie Show click https://www.instagram.com/cellfie_podcast/ (HERE) Check out our Cellfie Show collab sock!!!  https://www.upatdawn.co/collection/cellfie-show-x-up-at-dawn-collab (SHOP UP AT DAWN X CELLFIE SHOW CLICK HERE) https://www.cellfiepodcast.com/ (Cellfie Show ) https://www.cellfiepodcast.com/shopcellfiemerch (Cellfie Podcast Merch)  Produced by: Tori + Sam  THIS EPISODE IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY WOO MORE PLAY (Code Cellfie) 15% OFF COCONUT LOVE OIL!  Our favorite flagship product to spice up your bedroom! “Lube makes sex better”, said by legit every sex expert ever. 100% organic ingredients, so natural you could eat. Perfect texture: non-sticky, long-lasting, smooth, and moisturizing. Free from shitty ingredients, like parabens, petroleum, silicone, or glycerin. Made specifically for the brilliant-but-complicated vagina. Doubles as massage oil! https://wooessentials.myshopify.com/?rfsn=5837610.194b9d (CLICK HERE) THIS EPISODE IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY HYDROJUG (Code CELLFIE) 10% OFF Join the HYDRO movement! The HydroJug is designed to help you drink more and stay hydrated! It holds ½ gallon of water, so you won't be wasting your time re-filling your water bottle. The wide-mouth opening makes it easy for you to clean, add supplements, or ice. The HydroJug comes in stainless steel, glass, or high-grade BPA-free dishwasher-safe plastic and a variety of colors from Mint, Pink, Lavender, and more. With the wide mouth, you can fill it with ice with no problem and wash it out easily too! https://www.thehydrojug.com/discount/Cellfie (CLICK HERE) Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

1hr 47mins

29 Mar 2022

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Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller

Sex With Emily

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.)We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!).For more information about Dr. Justin Lehmiller, click below: Website Facebook Instagram TwitterFor even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

55mins

11 Sep 2021

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S3E5 - How to Deal With Erectile Dysfunction and Other Sexual Issues (With Justin Lehmiller)

The Sexual Happiness Podcast

Whether it is premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction or poor body image, sexual health can be complicated for those of us with a penis. While vulva owners are known to report sexual health problems to their doctors, men and penis owners tend to keep things bottled up, often to their own detriment.In this episode, Nick is joined by social psychologist, Justin Lehmiller, as they discuss the most common sexual health problems penis owners face and how it's best to deal with them.To say thank you for listening, we're also offering you 15% off any purchase at Lovehoney. Use the code PODCAST15 at checkout.

36mins

30 Jul 2021

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Episode 11: Part 2! Becoming a Sex Researcher with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Practice Outside the Lines

In part 2 of this episode, Dr. Justin Lehmiller shares the business side of being a Sex Researcher where we discuss how he started his own podcast, how he decided to write his book “Tell me What You Want” and how he turned his blog into a business. Along the way, we discuss the importance of having multiple streams of income and Justin offers advice for anyone wanting to write about sex or start their own blog.

34mins

30 Mar 2021

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181 - Tell Me What You Want with Justin Lehmiller

Turn Me On

Age-appropriate sex education is the name of the game in the Netherlands. Bryde and Jeremie chat about the kid's TV show 'Ultra Strips Down", where an audience of kids aged 11-13 are able to ask questions of adults standing naked before them, as a means to promote healthy conversations about bodies! This week's guest Dr. Justin Lehmiller is an expert in sexual fantasies, and his book "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life" normalizes our desires and suggests ways we can embrace and work with them in partnerships to have more fulfilling, less shameful sex lives. JOIN US FOR OUR LIVE EVENT: Human Connection Through Touch $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's whole episode! This episode and more have been transcribed thanks to Thisten: https://thisten.co/event/wmu9l Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

1hr 39mins

10 Mar 2021

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SEXUAL ENERGY SERIES-4: Surprising Science About Human Desire – Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D. : 790

The Human Upgrade with Dave Asprey—formerly Bulletproof Radio

Welcome to part 4 (of 6) of our Bulletproof Radio Sexual Energy Series! We’re bringing you lots of new information about sexual health, wellness, research, devices, and performance. We’re combining that with special offers, discounts and all kinds of resources on the Dave Asprey blog. Be sure to scan the show notes below for details!In this episode of Bulletproof Radio, my guest is Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., one of the leading experts on human sexuality and author of the popular blog “Sex and Psychology.” He’s been named one of 5 "Sexperts" You Need to Follow on Twitter by Men's Health and one of the "modern-day masters of sex" by Nerve. He’s also a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute who’s published more than 50 academic works on topics like casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. “Sexuality is so much more complex than we think that it is,” Justin says. “There's more fluidity than people might realize or like to believe.”His popular book, “Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life,” is based on the largest and most comprehensive scientific survey of Americans' sexual fantasies ever undertaken.“People tend to think that their fantasies are weird, abnormal, strange, or unusual,” Justin says. “No matter what their fantasy was, my participants underestimated how common that fantasy was. The rarer they thought it was, the more shame, guilt, embarrassment, anxiety they felt, and that's really what holds people back. They're worried about what other people will say or think, and they don't accept themselves for the interest that they have.”Justin studied the sexual fantasies of 4,175 Americans who came from all 50 states. They ranged in age from 18 to 87, come from very diverse backgrounds and completed his 369-question survey. His work helps us better understand the incredible diversity of human sexual desire. “I think so much of it is, we have this lack of education about what's normal when it comes to sex,” he continues. “That leads to the shame and that leads people to bottle everything up. Before you can get to that point of actually sharing your fantasy with a partner, there's some work that we need to do on ourselves to get that level of self-acceptance that's going to open the door to having productive and healthy conversations.”And there are a couple of apps for sexual fantasies that could help, too.  Enjoy! And get more resources at Dave.Asprey/podcasts. Got a comment, idea or question for the podcast? Submit via this form. WE APPRECIATE OUR PARTNERS. CHECK THEM OUT!Light Therapy: https://joovv.com/pages/dave-asprey; use code DAVEMood Control: www.hapbee.com/dave and get $50 off the Hapbee deviceHigh-Performance Leadership: https://www.humanpotentialinstitute.com/coach-training/ DAVE ASPREY’S NEW BOOK!“Fast This Way: Burn Fat, Heal Inflammation, and Become the High-Performing Human You Were Meant to Be” See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1hr 3mins

9 Feb 2021

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Age Play with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Girls on Porn

Playing pretend is for adults too! The girls welcome acclaimed Kinsey Institute social psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller to talk about age-based styles of role playing. They dive headlong into a discussion about power dynamics, why Justin's career involves a lot of court testimony, and how playing "Little" can feel like a relaxing treat. We hope to stimulate your nether region AND that big ol' brain with this hot topic.Sexual Education: James Darling and Adam Silver: https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/film/sexual-education-james-darling-allen-silver/?list=trueEpisode 146: Poppy Cox and Siouxsie Q: https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/film/episode-146-poppy-cox-and-siouxsie-q/Be sure to rate Girls on Porn 5-stars on Apple Podcast! Leave your favorite search term OR your porn star name in the review for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Us on Social Media:Show: @girlsonprnLaura: @ramadeiRachel: @_rrratchetJustin: @justinjlehmillerShow Credits:Producer: Amanda CTheme by Eli JanneyPodcast Art by Erin DreisMixed and Edited by Faris MonshiAdvertise on Girls On Porn via Gumball.fmSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

47mins

3 Feb 2021

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Age Play with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Girls on Porn

Playing pretend is for adults too! The girls welcome acclaimed Kinsey Institute social psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller to talk about age-based styles of role playing. They dive headlong into a discussion about power dynamics, why Justin's career involves a lot of court testimony, and how playing "Little" can feel like a relaxing treat. We hope to stimulate your nether region AND that big ol' brain with this hot topic.Sexual Education: James Darling and Adam Silver: https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/film/sexual-education-james-darling-allen-silver/?list=trueEpisode 146: Poppy Cox and Siouxsie Q: https://pinklabel.tv/on-demand/film/episode-146-poppy-cox-and-siouxsie-q/Be sure to rate Girls on Porn 5-stars on Apple Podcast! Leave your favorite search term OR your porn star name in the review for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Us on Social Media:Show: @girlsonprnLaura: @ramadeiRachel: @_rrratchetJustin: @justinjlehmillerShow Credits:Producer: Amanda CTheme by Eli JanneyPodcast Art by Erin DreisMixed and Edited by Faris MonshiAdvertise on Girls On Porn via Gumball.fmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

47mins

3 Feb 2021

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179: Dr. Justin Lehmiller: The Reality of Sexual Fantasies

Holly Randall Unfiltered

Dr. Justin Lehmiller is an experienced researcher and educator on the psychology of human sexuality, and he put those skills to work for his latest book "Tell Me What You Want" based on the largest ever sampling of American sexual fantasies. From the most common to the most shameful, from group sex to cuckolding to penis size, Dr. Lehmiller reveals the surprising private truths behind the fantasies we all have. Support my show by supporting my sponsors! Manscaped is the revolutionary electric trimmer for man bush. It won't nick or snag your balls, and you can get 20% off plus free shipping by visiting Manscaped.com and using code HOLLY.  I'm thrilled to have my favorite (and longest!) client Twistys sponsoring the show! I've shot some of my best work for this website, so make sure you go and check out all the beautiful girl/girl scenes I've produced for them! Want more from this podcast? Get access to tons of perks by joining my Patreon! We have exclusive bonus content with stars such as Eliza Ibarra, Alex Grey, Scarlett Sage and Molly Stewart, and Holly has her own behind-the-scenes podcast with her hilarious PM Eva, you gotta listen! Also watch the show live and get cool gifts like coffee mugs, stickers, and hoodies. Join our community now at Patreon.com/hollyrandallunfiltered Don't forget you can always email us at hollyrandallunfiltered@gmail.com

1hr 4mins

27 Jan 2021

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