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Douglas E. Noll

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Emotional Technology | Douglas E. Noll

The Nicholas Gregoriades Show

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. An award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator, his calling is to serve humanity through conflict resolution and the understanding of human communication. In this episode Doug shares effective strategies for recognizing and labeling emotions and using those insights to make the people you interact with feel heard and appreciated. Talking Points: How Doug overcame an en extremely difficult childhood including being born nearly blind The vocation of peacemaker and what it entails How our emotional regulation affects our wellbeing The difference between emotional intelligence and emotional competence How to read the emotions of others Quotes: “When you learn how to serve others in a meaningful way, that’s when your life really changes and becomes happy.” “You can teach people to become emotionally aware faster, by teaching them how to read other people’s emotions.” “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” Find out more about Doug Noll at: https://dougnoll.co/ng


23 May 2022

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Listening Others Into Existence with Douglas E. Noll

On Compassion with Dr. Nate

Dr. Nathan Regier welcomes Douglas E. Noll to today’s episode. Doug has stumbled upon a communication strategy that is changing lives around the world, from boardrooms to prisons. Doug is a business and commercial trial lawyer who teaches people to bring compassion even to the most difficult places.  For his innovative work, Doug Noll has been voted as one of the Best Lawyers in America since 2005, by US News & World Report and has been recognized since 2006 as a Northern California Super Lawyer. He is listed in the Who’s Who of International Commercial Mediators. He has been honored as Lawyer of the Year in 2014 by Best Lawyers in America. In 2014, Doug was honored as a Purpose Prize Fellow by Encore.org. In 2018, Doug was named the Distinguished Neutral of the Year by The National Academy of Distinguished Neutrals. Along with his colleague Laurel Kaufer, Doug Noll was named California Attorney of the Year in 2012 for their pro bono Prison of Peace project. Doug Noll is the author of the book De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, which was the winner of the Book Excellence Award for 2017. Today, Doug is sharing the methodology outlined in his book called Listening Others into Existence, a counterintuitive method that is backed by science and proven to be effective in deescalating even the most charged situations.  Key Takeaways: [2:21] Doug shares his journey from being a lawyer to becoming a peacemaker.  [6:00] Doug talks about his experience when conflict infects workplaces. [8:03] We learn conflict patterns at a very young age. [9:09] Doug gives an overview on how he discovered his deescalating method. [10:55] Doug talks about how he found the bases of his methodology in neuroscience. [12:21] Doug realized he needed to help people start “listening to the emotions”. [13:55] Doug explains why his method works based on what happens on the brain when you level someone’s emotions. [17:22] Doug dives deep into where emotions come from.  [19:58] How does “Listening others into existence” work? [22:18] We have been lied about our human nature, we believed humans are distinguished because of their rationality, but in fact humans are 98% emotional and only 2% rational. [24:31] There is not such thing about rationality, it is a complete myth. [25:33] Doug describes the three step process of his technique. [26:00] Nate and Doug try the technique while Nate shares a personal experience. [27:58] Listening is no conversation. [28:54] Nate and Doug try the technique with a negative experience he recently had. [33:13] Doug talks about the work he has been doing in prison. [38:49] Nate shares his three top takeaways from a powerful conversation with Doug Noll.    Mentioned in this episode: The Compassion Mindset Visit Doug Noll’s Website and access amazing resources. Click to read Full Transcript


3 Mar 2022

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S26E10 - Emotional Intelligence vs. Emotional Competence and the Attributes of an Emotionally Competent Person, with Douglas E. Noll

Human Capital Innovations (HCI) Podcast, with Jonathan H. Westover, PhD

In this HCI Podcast episode, Dr. Jonathan H. Westover (https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathanhwestover/) talks with Douglas E. Noll about the difference between emotional intelligence and emotional competence and the attributes of an emotionally competent person. See the video here: https://youtu.be/1IMo9n-lD-k.Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA (https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/) left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug’s work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons.Check out Dr. Westover's new book, 'Bluer than Indigo' Leadership, here: https://www.innovativehumancapital.com/bluerthanindigo.Check out Dr. Westover's book, The Alchemy of Truly Remarkable Leadership, here: https://www.innovativehumancapital.com/leadershipalchemy.Check out the latest issue of the Human Capital Leadership magazine, here: https://www.innovativehumancapital.com/hci-magazine.Ranked #6 Performance Management Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/performance_management_podcasts/  Ranked #6 Workplace Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/workplace_podcasts/  Ranked #7 HR Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/hr_podcasts/  Ranked #12 Talent Management Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/talent_management_podcasts/  Ranked in the Top 20 Personal Development and Self-Improvement Podcasts: https://blog.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/  Ranked in the Top 30 Leadership Podcasts: https://blog.feedspot.com/leadership_podcasts/Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


21 Oct 2021

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Douglas E. Noll: How He Left $10 Million on the Table and Now Listens Other People Into Existence

The Dreambuildrs Podcast with Jochem Doolaard

Peacemaker Douglas E. Noll talks with Jochem about the foundational role of emotional competency and listening. This 21st-century skill that humans never have learned at school is crucial in business and is the key to more success, happiness, and personal satisfaction in all of your relationships. Do you want to know how? Tune in now.ABOUT DOUGDouglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and highly experienced mediator. Doug’s work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons.  On a personal note, Mr. Noll is a jazz violinist, aircraft and helicopter pilot, ski instructor, 2nd-degree black belt, tai chi master, and whitewater rafter. He lives with his wife Aleya Dao in the foothills of the central Sierra Nevada south of Yosemite National Park.IN THIS EPISODE WE TALK ABOUT:How Doug left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker.• How to start with no business plan & no savings.  • The 2 powerful paradoxes that opened his eyes as a Tai Chi Master• How to keep growing & evolving - even at age of 70 - • Becoming visible and use all of your skills as an entrepreneur. Mastering Emotional Competence• What it means to listen others into existence.• Developing the emotional competence of your team (and yourself!)• How to provide emotional safety as a leader.• Learning how to deescalate an angry person in less than 45 seconds.• Learn to manage your own anxiety around other people’s emotions.• The 3 steps process to listen someone into existence.• Science & Google research behind emotional safety & productivity.CONNECT WITH DOUGWebsite: https://dougnoll.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DouglasNollLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/Did Doug’s story resonate with you in some way? Do you want to learn more about listening others into existence? Here are Doug’s inspiring resources: https://dougnoll.co/dreambuildersFOLLOW DREAMBUILDRSWebsite:  dreambuildrs.com Podcast: The Dreambuildrs PodcastInstagram:@dreambuildrsFaceboo


10 Sep 2021

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How to calm an angry person in 90 seconds or less! | Douglas E. Noll | BCP-096

Blue Collar Proud Show

Today on the BCP Show we talk with Doug Noll.  If you're in business, then you know that sometimes conflict is unavoidable. But whether that conflict is with an employee or a customer, it doesn't have to spiral out of control. You have more power to de-escalate than you might realize. Jerry Isenhour|061|CVC Coaching Get the BCP Show app for FREE on your iPhone or Android if you haven't yet - and don't forget to leave a review of the podcast and the app! Blue Collar Proud: Ten Principles for Building a Kickass Business You Love is available on Amazon. If you haven't read it yet, so grab it - and as always, reviews are welcome! From the Front Lines Tim Reed|086|Fireside Home Solutions Reach out to Tim on Instagram @firesidetim Check-In With Reality Starting from scratch Never Eat Alone Ellen Rohr|002|016|036 Douglas E. Noll Dr. Matthew Lieberman on Affect Labeling De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Visit dougnoll.com, scroll down to the "Exclusive Offer" book banner, and click the "Get Your Free Copy Here" button. Simply pay the shipping and you'll get the book for FREE! Reach out to Doug at doug@dougnoll.com Connect with us Facebook|Twitter|Instagram


18 Oct 2017

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Douglas E. Noll De-Escalate how to calm any person in 90 seconds or less

Billionaire lifestyle with Emmitt Muckles - Conversations with conscious entrepreneurs, solopreneurs and life changers

Douglas E. Noll De-Escalate how to calm any person in 30 seconds is the new book ready for the masses. Doug's book is a must for managers and those working in the public arena.


15 Oct 2017

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The Leader’s #1 Skill–Be a Peacemaker – an enlightening conversation with Douglas E. Noll, attorney turned peacemaker who can de-escalate even the tensest situation in 90 seconds or less

Manager Mojo with Steve Caldwell

Douglas E. NollThe Leader’s #1 Skill – Be a Peacemaker Have you ever been so angry that having a level-headed conversation simply wasn’t possible? When you are out-of-control with anger, the last thing you want to do is calm down. You want to be heard! As a manager and leader, likely you’ve encountered members of the team who have been equally emotional and you had no resolution but to allow time to pass so they could calm down. The #1 skill for handling that situation is to be a peacemaker, and it is critical to learn the skills of de-escalation that allow you to manage many types of circumstances, highly charged being one of them. Doug Noll left the law profession to pursue the valuable work of peacemaking, and has since taken this skill into prisons, experiencing great success with some of the most difficult life-time inmates. Your circumstances may not be as tense, yet you can achieve the same success by adopting the de-escalate skills he discusses in this podcast.Learn more about Doug Noll's newest book, De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less and receive it free for only the cost of shipping & handling.  You can also connect with Doug by clicking here.Click here to check out our newest leadership development tool – LEAD – Leadership Education and DevelopmentSteve Caldwell is an executive mentor and coach to managers and leaders who desire to excel in their career and become the leader others want to follow. Steve is a leadership expert, host of the Manager Mojo podcast and author of the book Manager Mojo – Be the Leader Others Want to Follow. (www.ManagerMojo.com)Steve also coaches his followers not only on how to become great leaders, but how to effectively coach and lead their employees to find satisfaction and fulfillment from their jobs and life.Having started his work career at the savvy age of 13, Steve is also currently CEO of Predictive People Analytics based in San Francisco, CA, a firm specializing in helping leaders increase sales, reduce turnover, and attract key talent. (www.PredictivePeopleAnalytics.com)

26 Sep 2017