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Destin Gerek: Ever Evolving Masculine - Ep 9

Open Deeply Podcast

Destin Gerek, founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine and author of the best-selling book of the same name, joins us again to process his life story from the previous episode. Destin’s struggle to heal his physical pain in adolescence led to a sexual and spiritual journey that spans activism, world travel, tantra, sexological bodywork along with many and varied lovers. He explains how all his experiences led to unlocking the core secrets of healing the body, being an epic lover, and loving as an Evolved Masculine. Destin describes the Evolved Masculine as a life path, not a destination, that not only redefines masculinity, but also honors the other half of divinity, the feminine. This new way of being can not only lead a man to an epic sex life, but also to a deeper connection to his own body and spirit and that of his lovers. Please join us as Destin unfolds these important truths.Destin's website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.comFree webinar: Evolved Masculine Power: Become The Man The World Needs & The ONE She CravesFB: https://www.facebook.com/DestinGerekIG: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine/Where to find co-host Sunny Megatron:Website: http://sunnymegatron.comFacebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatronTwitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatronInstagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatronTiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatronYouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatronAmerican Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnkTV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1Where to find co-host Kate Loree:Website: http://kateloree.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/KateLoreeLMFT/Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmftInstagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloreeYouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQOpen Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode’s content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

17 May 2021

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Destin Gerek: Erotic Rockstar to Evolved Masculine - Ep 8

Open Deeply Podcast

Destin Gerek, once the Erotic Rockstar and now founder of the Evolved Masculine, is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment, but he didn’t start there. He was profoundly changed after witnessing the pain of his high school girlfriend who is a rape survivor. His deep empathy for her led him to question our concept of masculinity and masculinity within himself for years. Later, he became a victim of police brutality causing him to fall into an existential questioning of humanity. But life has never let Destin retreat for long. Fate led him to Mexico, where he initially hung with a group of Mexican Zapatista revolutionaries, but finally found a spiritual group rooted in a Toltec philosophy. It was these visionary thinkers that shifted his life trajectory and world view. His next phase included traveling the world, experiencing many incarnations, and an epic sexual odyssey. Finally, he morphed into the man he is today, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Please join us for another amazing episode of Open Deeply. Destin's website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.comFree webinar: Evolved Masculine Power: Become The Man The World Needs & The ONE She CravesFB: https://www.facebook.com/DestinGerekIG: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine/Episode Link:Emily Nagoski's Ted Talk: The truth about unwanted arousal.https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_nagoski_the_truth_about_unwanted_arousal?language=enWhere to find co-host Sunny Megatron:Website: http://sunnymegatron.comFacebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatronTwitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatronInstagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatronTiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatronYouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatronAmerican Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnkTV Show, Sex with Sunny Megatron https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron/season/1Where to find co-host Kate Loree:Website: http://kateloree.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/KateLoreeLMFT/Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmftInstagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloreeYouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQOpen Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Please know this episode has themes of sexual and emotional abuse and neglect. If you catch yourself becoming emotionally overwhelmed by this episode’s content, please get support. Call a friend, therapist, or an emotional support hotline, such as, 800-273-talk (8255).

3 May 2021

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Sexual Self-Mastery w/ Destin Gerek (060)

Men, This Way

What do men tend to misunderstand about sex and sexual pleasure?Can a lack of body sensitivity be the underlying cause of sex and intimacy issues?What practices can men do to increase sensitivity, and thus sexual pleasure (both for ourselves and our partners)?In this episode, my guest, renowned and certified sexologist Destin Gerek, and I mine these questions and more – so much more – for useful insights to make a meaningful difference in your life.I first crossed paths with Destin back in 2010, at an epic mansion party in the mountains about 90 minutes north of LA. One thing I noticed immediately about him was that he just exuded sexual charge. But not in a cocky way – pardon the pun – not in that bro-y, arrogant, aggressive way that many of us have experienced in other men. No. I hadn’t yet begun my own deep dive into intentional sexual and emotional awakening practices, so I didn’t really understand what I was experiencing in Destin’s presence. I know now that I was simply in the presence of a man who was deeply, beautifully, learning to connect to his own body. A few years later, Destin and I reconnected at Lightning in a Bottle, one of those really fun Burning-Man-esque west coast festivals, where I was speaking on a panel to about 600 people, talking about my experiences using pornography. Amidst a huge outdoor audience, my eye caught Destin standing at the edge of the crowd, and again his presence just struck out at me.I’m really glad to have Destin here today. I love the work he’s doing, has been doing, for many years, to help men awaken through sexuality. He’s dedicated his life to helping men learn how to cultivate their masculine power, by learning the secrets of sexual self-mastery, all while rooted in a set of ethics that men can feel proud to align themselves with. The fact that he’s not just some pick-up artist or sexual tantra teacher with shady ethics, but rather an honorable Man – and a husband, and father of two little ones – helping men learn to feel enlivened in their own bodies. .. well, that’s why he’s on Men, This Way, today.I have great respect for Destin, and this is one of my favorite episodes of “Men, This Way” because we explore some really important topics together, like the overwhelming prevalence of sexual violation among most women, that men must be aware of and why, as well as the affect of pornography on men’s bodies, which by the way neither Destin nor I are against porn, and both of us even still do watch it, though with some very important caveats. We also talk about what’s going on when a man ejaculates too fast, or not at all, and how to awaken sensitivity to your felt experience, in your body, such that you can become a better lover not because you know some new technique to rock your partner’s world, but rather you know better how to be fully PRESENT to your partner’s actual world, which is the one thing that most women, especially, almost NEVER get from men. Also at the end, for those of you who know David Deida’s work, Destin and I briefly dive into some of the pitfalls people often fall into with his work, and how he and I have both evolved our own understanding of the masculine-feminine experience in our own lives.This is a juicy episode, and we talk about all that, and more. So definitely stay tuned all the way through to Destin Gerek’s 5 Key Takeaway’s at the end of this episode of Men, This Way …Alright …Let’s dive …RESOURCESDestin’s Short Video ~ “2 Tools For Lasting Longer” * this link might take you to Destin’s free upcoming webinar depending on your timing.

1hr 13mins

31 Jan 2021

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#208 Sexual Self Mastery: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves - With Destin Gerek

Shameless Sex

What are some of the ways men have been conditioned to think about sex and how can they approach it in a different way - not only to be better lovers but to have more profound sexual experiences themselves? How can men experience full body orgasms, multiple orgasms, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and learn to last as long as they want? Destin Gerek answers all this and more.  Be sure to check out his free video offering at evolvedmasculine.com/shameless We also answer a sex question about how to orgasm during partner play.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.  About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success".   His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. He has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Destin is also is the creator of the groundbreaking and life changing 12 week Sexual Self Mastery Training Program. To learn more visit evolvedmasculine.com/shameless Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off Like A Kitten's Couple's Box at likeakitten.com/shameless or use code Shameless  Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

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26 Jan 2021

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Evolved Masculine: Become a Better Lover + Partner with Destin Gerek

That Sex Chick

As the author of The Evolved Masculine and founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek is a leading voice in conscious masculinity. Today, he shares his experience living the archetype of the “erotic rockstar” and how the evolved masculine was birthed from his life experiences. Destin unpacks what it takes to evolve your masculinity, how connecting to your feminine will make you a better lover, and how to lean into the face of pleasure as well as pain.Today on That Sex Chick:How Destin moved from erotic rockstar to evolved masculineConnecting to your feminine to be a better loverA practice for lasting longer in bedHow you can achieve sexual self-masteryBeing in awe of the feminine through pregnancy & birthHow society would operate when in the feminine vs. masculineFollow Destin:Instagram: @evolvedmasculine Website: evolvedmasculine.com Book: The Evolved MasculinePodcast: The Evolved MasculineConnect with Alexa:thatsexchick.com IG: @thatsexchick Referenced Book: Spirit BabiesClick here to Own Your OrgasmThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

52mins

6 Jan 2021

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Journey Back | Destin Gerek

Intimate Conversations

Destin Gerek IS the Erotic Rockstar. We have connected twice - once as a guest on Intimate Conversations Live and again for Brave, Bold, and Raw. His interviews are purely electric! While he is every bit delicious, he also has that heart that can touch you in no time at all. He has this amazing sense of himself and the world, yet he also knows how to rock you to the very core. For Brave, Bold, and Raw - we talk about how to be Bad Ass Yummy! Always incredible information, utterly delicious conversation, and an inspiration to those who listen and are ready to do the work. Enjoy! Video was originally part of the Brave, Bold, and Raw Series p.s. Take our FREE Assessment. Our Intimacy Blindspot Assessment is a quick, simple yet effective assessment so you can discover how to have the sexual freedom, healthy communication and deep connection you deserve - https://allanapratt.com/quiz Gentlemen…End the Fear of Rejection. Enjoy your "How To Be A Noble Badass" Complementary Training at www.GetHerToSayYes.com Ladies…Be irresistible. Feel sacred. Attract him now.Enjoy your "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" Complementary Training at http://allanapratt.com/vulnerability Featuring music by: 4 Chambers - written by Aeone / BMI Published by Angleterre Music /BMI

41mins

4 Nov 2020

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The 2 Most Common Male Sexuality Issues And How To Resolve Them - Destin Gerek - 292

The Relationship School Podcast

As a man, I have wrestled with my sexuality most of my life.  That’s why I love it when other men are willing to “go there.”  Here’s another rich conversation with two men getting honest about us guys in the bedroom.  I first spoke to Destin Gerek a few years ago in episode 98 about evolving masculinity, and the man who used to call himself the Erotic Rockstar joins me again in episode 292 to build off that conversation and talk his new book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves. Click here to listen. We discuss what an evolved man looks like 2020, why some men fear their masculinity, and the vulnerability of embracing the feminine within. We also talk intimately about common male sexuality issues and feeling satisfied not only with our partners, but with ourselves. This is a good one for men AND women -- go check it out!   Shownotes: 2:53 Introduction Destin Gerek 8:05 Masculine and feminine energy 10:00 Why some men are afraid to show their masculine side 11:25 The impact of the #MeToo movement on men 17:00 How men can use their sexuality as a gift for women 24:40 Men must believe they are worthy of sex 27:00 How can men cultivate a healthy sexual relationship? 31:25: What can men do to improve their sexual performance 44:30 How our relationship with our parents affect the relationship with our partners 48:20 How men can be better husbands and a better dads 54:15 Action Step Useful Links: https://relationshipschool.com/rct/ https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Evolved-Masculine-World-Needs-Craves/dp/1734144106 https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipadviceformen/ http://relationshipschool.com/connected

57mins

27 May 2020

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The Evolved Masculine with Destin Gerek

Holistic Sex Ed Radio

How do we raise boys to be good men? Masculinity has been under the microscope with the explosion of the #metoo movement and spotlight on toxic masculinity. How do we move forward from here? How do men and women relate to each other in healthy ways? There is a growing number of men who are evolving, redefining personal power, sexuality, success and boldly defining manhood. In long overdue conversation, Robin and her guest, Destin Gerek explore a new model for masculinity where Destin shares his vision for the “Evolved Masculine” and how parents can help their boys grow up to be good men. Don’t miss this fascinating conversation.

57mins

12 Mar 2020

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Ep. 7 - The Evolved Masculine with Destin Gerek

Elevated Intimacy Podcast

Author Destin Gerek joins Ashley to talk about his recently released, bestselling book, "The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves." Together they take a deep dive into intentional self-transformation, societal expectations around masculinity, and rising like a phoenix from life's most painful moments. About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves.” Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success".   His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’.  Destin has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Bonus: Download a free copy of Destin's book by clicking this link: http://EvolvedMasculine.com/free-chapter To find more about Destin Gerek, visit his website www.evolvedmasculine.com or follow him on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram http://fb.com/destingerekprofile http://twitter.com/destingerek http://instagram.com/evolvedmasculine To find more about Elevated Intimacy Podcast, visit www.ElevatedIntimacyPodcast.com or follow www.instagram.com/elevatedintimacy To keep up with Ashley, visit www.CannaSexual.com or visit www.instagram.com/cannasexual Special thanks to our sponsors Foria and Sybian. Use coupon code CANNASEXUAL at www.ForiaWellness.com to save 10% on purchases. If you have comments or ideas for future episodes, please email podcast@elevatedintimacy.com Please like, subscribe, and review!

37mins

8 Mar 2020

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168: The Risks of Vulnerable Leadership with Destin Gerek

Potent Truth

What happens when you write a book where you share what you were most afraid to share? ⁣ ⁣ A lot. ⁣ ⁣ Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment and today, he joins me for a deep dive conversation that sheds light on the aftermath of vulnerability. ⁣ ⁣ In this episode, you’ll learn why it’s important to share what you’re most afraid to share, why you don’t have to respond to people who debate or question your ideas on social media, how to know when to respond to people online when you’re feeling reactive, why you need to keep impact AND service in mind when sharing your story, and the best ways to share vulnerable stories that involve other people. ⁣ ⁣ Destin is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. ⁣ ⁣ Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, ""The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success"".  His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. ⁣ ⁣ Destin has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. ⁣ Connect with Destin…⁣ Facebook: www.facebook.com/destingerekprofile ⁣ Instagram: www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine ⁣ YouTube: www.youtube.com/destingerek ⁣ Twitter: www.twitter.com/destingerek ⁣ Website: www.evolvedmasculine.com ⁣ ⁣ Download a free chapter of ‘The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves’: www.evolvedmasculine.com/book/free-chapter ⁣ ⁣ And buy the book HERE: www.evolvedmasculinebook.com ⁣ ⁣ If you dig this podcast and want to receive weekly leadership advice and inspiration, join my email community! www.rubyfremon.com/subscribe⁣ ⁣ And find me online everywhere: @iamruby

47mins

2 Mar 2020

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