126. SHAN BOODRAM on Mismatched Sex Drives, Dating With Dominance, & What Our Parents Told Us When We First Had Sex
Welcome back! Today we are joined by Shan Boodram, certified sexologist, sex education counselor, and and sex & relationship expert at Bumble. Shan is a 2x bestselling author and has appeared on Good Morning America, The View, Netflix, Dr. Oz, and more. what we talk about: being in a relationship with someone who has a different sex drives how our sex drives ebb and flow making the choice to be single how to build a great dating app profile how parents react to sex (& how it impacts us) how to get comfortable talking about sex (& asking for what you want) Shan's relationship evolving from being f*ck buddies to being married with their second child on the way conversations to have before getting engaged the pressure women feel to get married the pressure being married puts on the male in heterosexual relationships how to date with dominance & take control of your love life and sex life whether you should state your intentions early on in dating dating while traveling & how to use Bumble's travel mode & more! You can find Shan on Instagram @shanboody or on her website shanboodram.com and purchase The Game of Desire here. Head to Bumble's website to check out the Buzz with all their dating, friendship, wellness, and career resources. what we tried this week: Hampton Grocer Granola + we answer questions from our favorite card game, Actually Curious, and discuss how to make friends as an adult. Shop our Favs: Sakara Life - use code XOBALANCED for 20% off meal programs and clean boutique items Nuzest Protein Powder - Code MOSTLYBALANCED Actually Curious - Code BALANCED As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mostlybalanced/support
The Rules of F*ck Buddies and Sexual Slumps with Shan Boodram
Girls Gotta Eat
We are so happy to welcome back one of our faves, sexologist/author/intimacy educator Shan Boodram, and cover some incredible topics. Shan walks us through her fuck buddy turned husband, how to set boundaries and navigate a fuck buddy situation, and speaking up when someone's communication isn't doing it for you. We're also discussing rekindling with "the one that got away" and working through sexual slumps with your partner. Lastly, Shan is giving some exceptional masturbation tips so you can end the episode and get right to it. Before she joins us, we're discussing Ashley's hydration journey, Rayna's embarrassing ex moment, and tips for living the boat life. Enjoy! Follow Shan on Instagram @ShanBoody, check out her podcast Lovers & Friends, and visit her website for more. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Get your vibes at vibesonly.com, download the app on the App Store (Android coming soon), and follow @VibesOnly. Thank you to our partners this week: Babbel: Visit babbel.com/gge for up to 60% off your subscription. Liquid Death: Get free shipping on all water and merch liquiddeath.com/gge. Truff: Get 15% off site-wide with promo code GGE at truff.com. Osea: Get 10% off your first order with promo code GGE at oseamalibu.com.
Today’s guest describes herself as Dr. Ruth meets Rihanna and the Walmart greeter of intimacy, and we’re so happy she’s welcomed us into the intimacy convo to discuss turn on triggers, fantasies, becoming a better dater, and just generally how we can maximize our pleasure potential. Kaitlyn and Shan are talking everything sex, intimacy, and dating, from what sex positivity even means to dating app red flags. The two are also answering questions from the Vinos that get into how to discuss sex and pleasure with your partner, self-pleasure, and using toys in the bedroom. Shan shares a confession relating to her own love life, and the two work on cracking the case of Pete Davidson… What is it about that guy that just does it for people? This is such a fun episode no matter what your love life looks like. If you’re looking to make connections, check out Bumble, and find Shan on Instagram @ShanBoody! CYRANO - Don’t miss CYRANO, only in movie theaters February 25th. Learn more at cyrano.movie. PROGRESSIVE - Get a quote today at Progressive.com. ADORE ME - Shop intimates now on AdoreMe.com. JENNI KAYNE - Find your forever pieces at jennikayne.com and get 15% off your first order when you use code VINE at checkout. OSEA - Get 10% off your first order with promo code VINE at OSEAmalibu.com. HELIX - Helix is offering up to 200 dollars off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for my listeners at HelixSleep.com/vine.
Shan Boodram Returns To Talk Season 3 And Give Amazing Advice!!!
Tap In w/ Harry Jowsey
First ever repeat TAP IN returning guest, Shan Boodram comes on for an amazing conversation. We talk about Season 3 of Too Hot To Handle. We talk about maintaining marriage after a child, SA, love advice, and so much more!Please Support our Sponsors!DIPSEA --- For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/Tapin Link --- shorturl.at/koxDFHELLOFRESH --- Go to HelloFresh.com/tapin16 and use code tapin16 for up to 16 free meals AND 3 free gifts. Link --- shorturl.at/rBFW9Check Out Shan's Podcast!https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1586679298Subscribe to our audio!https://linktr.ee/TapInWHarryJowseyFollow Our Guest! @ShanboodyFollow Us!@HarryJowsey@AbbyRoberge@tapinclips
Shan Boodram: Dating With Dominance & Love Addiction
Berning In Hell
Demi launched a vibrator, the Demi Wand, with Bellesa! They invited intimacy educator Shan Boodram to the show to break down the stigma around pleasure and how the Demi Wand promotes intimacy and inclusivity. Listen for a special promo treat, too.This episode contains sensitive content, some of which is related to sexual trauma and may be triggering. Please listen with care. For resources and information, visit the National Sexual Violence Resource Center at www.nsvrc.org or Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network (RAINN), which organizes the National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline. You can call the Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), or visit www.rainn.org. If you need immediate support, please reach out to your local crisis text line: USA: Text HOME to 741741 UK: Text SHOUT to 85258 Canada: Text CONNECT to 686868 or 741741.This episode is designed to entertain and inform — not provide medical advice. You should always consult your doctor when it comes to your personal health. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Aliza Kelly connects with Shan Boodram (Aries Sun, Capricorn Moon, Libra Rising), certified sex educator, dating coach, relationship expert, best-selling author, and TV personality. In this episode, Aliza dives into Shan’s chart, revealing the alignment between Shan’s celestial blueprint and the life she’s cultivated as an intimacy expert. Aliza and Shan discuss the importance to having open conversations about sex, intimacy, and relationships. They bond over what it takes to build a successful business and how to navigate the world when your life’s work is so often seen as taboo. Shan shares her belief in probability, and Aliza pulls a tarot card to help Shan cultivate abundance.Tune in to Stars Like Us each week for expert interviews on pop culture and mysticism. Find out what guests believe in, how magic shows up in their lives, and what the universe has to offer them. Love Stars Like Us? Please rate, review, and subscribe!Follow Shan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/?hl=enListen to Shan’s podcast, Lovers and Friends: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovers-and-friends-with-shan-boodram/id1586679298#episodeGuid=fc176b0a-ccad-4c07-bb58-d21706bb8af1Visit Shan’s website: https://www.shanboodram.com/Follow Aliza on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alizakelly/Order This Is Your Destiny: http://bit.ly/ThisIsYourDestinyBook Join the Constellation Club: https://www.patreon.com/alizakelly Reach out: http://alizakelly.com/contact Brand Partnerships: firstname.lastname@example.orgAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands