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Date Coach Bobbi Palmer – How I Got My First Paying Client

Coach Pony

It can be hard to imagine that someone would pay you money to help them. It's not just the lack of confidence in making a living. It can also be about the lack of confidence in really being able to help people. In the beginning, getting over your questions of self-worth and imposter complex can be the hardest part. And being able to push through and learn the value of how you can help other people can be a painful journey. But it is also a rewarding journey. In this first season of our podcast, we have been talking with experienced 6 and 7-figure coaches from different niches about how they got their very first paying client. In this episode, we are peering into the world of date coaching with Bobbi Palmer, founder of Date Like a Grownup. As an internationally recognized dating coach for women over 40, Bobbi delivers compassionate, real-life advice with a side of sass. After becoming a first-time bride at age 47, Bobbi said “see ya’ to the corporate world and founded her company, Date Like a Grownup, beginning her mission to help women do what she did: find a magnificent, grownup man to share the rest of their life. Over the last 12 years coaching, Bobbi has certainly experienced feelings of doubt, but she has been able to push through to a thriving coaching business. And it all started with her first client. Listen to the full episode to hear: How a blog that she thought no one would ever read led to her first client How much she charged that first client and what she charges now How she still, 12 years later, reaches tens of thousands of women every month through her blog posts And what Bobbi has done to get past the hardest part – believing in herself Book Recommendations: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--And Keep-- Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Buddhism Without Beliefs: A Contemporary Guide to Awakening by Stephen Batchelor To learn more about Bobbi Palmer: Date Like a Grownup Facebook @DateLikeaGrownup To learn more about Christie Mims: FREE 26-Page Guide On How to Land Your First Clients Coach Pony The Revolutionary Club Instagram @christiecoachpony And if you have some chocolate worth reviewing on the show, we are easily bribed! You can send it to us at: Christie Mims 3630 High Street #19286 Oakland, CA 94619

24mins

1 Apr 2021

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Bobbi Palmer on Leadership in Your Love Life

Women Taking the Lead with Jodi Flynn

Bobbi Palmer, founder of Date Like a Grownup, is an internationally recognized expert who teaches over-40 women how to finally find peaceful, passionate, grownup love. Bobbi has lived your story. She worked her butt off to figure out ‘the love thing’ and became a first-time bride at age 47. Joyfully married since 2006, she walks her talk every day and, with compassion and a side of sass, she helps women do what she did. If you’re frustrated and confused about dating, Bobbi wants you to know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. No one ever taught you how to date like a grownup, right?? There are just some things you don't yet know. Bobbi has been featured on The Today Show, Huffington Post, NPR, Women’s World magazine, Match.com, eHarmony.com, AARP and numerous other TV, radio and print outlets. Want dating help that actually makes sense? Find her recipe for grownup dating at www.datelikeagrownup.com/blog.  Bobbi and I discuss... Why men do this or don't do that can be confounding to women. Whether he's a colleague, client, boss, lover, brother or father...men can be your pain in the butt and rival...or they can be your joy and strongest supporter. In this episode you’ll learn surprising things about men that are sure to get you what you want and need while strengthening the relationship and leaving him smiling!  (Yes. These can all co-exist.) Some things you’ll learn: The 3 principles to date like a grown-up The biggest mistake women make with men that can destroy any relationships. 3 ways men are scientifically different than women and the communication hacks that will bridge the gap. The One Simple Thing you can do to earn trust and create a bond with any man. (This is going to be a huge surprise!) Links Website: https://datelikeagrownup.comFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/DateLikeaGrownup/ Thank You to Our Sponsors TextExpander lets you instantly insert snippets of text from a repository of emails, boilerplate and other content, as you type – using a quick search or abbreviation. Go to https://textexpander.com/podcast and select Women Taking the Lead from the drop-down list for 20% off your first year! Zebralove Web Solutions: Close your online marketing skills gap, learn how to remain relevant in a quickly changing marketplace, and get ongoing support in promoting your businesses online. Stay ahead of the game by signing up for these Digital Marketing Forum. Go to womentakingthelead.com/zebraworkshops to register. Resources Create Goals that are Worthy of you: If you are done with either pursuing vanilla goals, suffering through the struggle of goals that are not aligned with your strengths, or dealing with heartbreak of an unattainable goal this course is for you! Private Facebook Community: Chat, share and collaborate with other women listening to the podcast! Accomplished: How to Go from Dreaming to Doing: A simple, step by step system that gives you the foundation and structure to take your goals and make them happen.

1hr 12mins

3 Jun 2019

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Date Like A Grownup with Bobbi Palmer

To 50 and Beyond

EPISODE 52:  Date Like A Grownup with Bobbi Palmer In this episode, I talk with Bobbi Palmer, dating coach extraordinaire.  Bobbi is a 50-ish year-old, joyfully married, proudly imperfect, open-minded, kinda short, often sassy, ebullient, critical thinking, optimistic, gentle but direct ex-corporate adult learning expert now CEO, coach and trusted guide.  Bobbi helps smart, accomplished grownup women find and live their own grownup love story. Bobbi shares her story of finding her husband and marrying at age 47 and how she teaches other women to do the same.  Topics discussed:  Where to meet grown-up men  How to flirt naturally  What to look for in a good mate The difference between a good date and a good mate  What women over 40 need to let go of from their past to move forward and find love Chick dates and how they help you ease into dating  Bobbi's 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him System  The 3 Principles of Dating Like a Grownup To find Bobbi:  Bobbi's free webinar Website  To find Lori:  My home  Instagram Facebook community Facebook  Uplift in Five Guide 

48mins

12 Feb 2019

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Bobbi Palmer: Date Like a Grownup!

Feisty Side of Fifty

If you are a woman of a certain age and are looking for love, you have likely encountered your share of difficulties. But, after listening to our guest today, your troubles may well be in the past. Bobbi Palmer is a woman who knows whereof she speaks. In fact, she has lived your story. Fed up with being single and determined to succeed in her romantic life (like she had in the rest of her life), she worked her butt off to figure out ‘the love thing’ and became a first time bride at age 47. Joyfully married since 2006, she walks her talk every day as she helps women do what she did: learn how to love and be loved by a good man. If you’re frustrated and confused about dating she wants you to know: “There is nothing wrong with you. There are just some things you don't yet know.”Bobbi has been featured on The Today Show, Huffington Post, NPR, Women’s World magazine, Match.com, eHarmony.com, AARP and numerous other TV, radio and print outlets. Visit her at www.datelikeagrownup.com. If you are a single boomer who is looking for companionship, you certainly won’t want to miss this one!

22mins

20 Aug 2018

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Bobbi Palmer -- How to Date Like a Grown Up

Zestful Aging

Bobbi Palmer is the founder of "Date Like a Grown Up" where she teaches independent, smart and accomplished women over 40 how to find lasting, grown up love. Her system focuses on balancing one’s head and one’s heart in order to find out if he’s a “keeper”. She helps people distinguish between a good date, and a good mate. She has been on the Today Show, NPR, the Huffington Post, and many other media outlets. You can find out more at DateLikeAGrownUp.com. Disclaimer: Bobbi focuses on heterosexual relationships, because that is her expertise and experience. Some of this advice is transferable to other sexual orientations, some is not.Find out more about the Zestful Aging Podcast at NicoleChristina.com. You can become a patron of the Show at Patreon.com.

52mins

8 Apr 2018

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SC 168 - How to Avoid Dating Narcissistic Men After 40 - Bobbi Palmer

The Relationship School Podcast

If you are serious about not dating another narcissistic man, and you are an awesome woman over 40, 50, or 60, this episode is for you. My guest Bobbi Palmer, of "Date like a grown up" has some great advice for how to stay true to you and get what you want. SHOWNOTES About Bobbi [10:00] How Bobbi met and married the man of her dreams within 6 months [13:00] Getting clear on what matters and what doesn’t [15:00] Talking politics, religion, family and finances on the first date [17:00] How people hide from love behind their careers [20:00] About the ‘Narcissistic Guy’ [28:00] 3 Principles of Dating Like A Grown-Up [36:00] The challenge for older women who are dating [45:00]

54mins

19 Oct 2017

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EP 267: How Your Dating Rules Are Keeping You Single With Bobbi Palmer

Last First Date Radio

Bobbi Palmer, founder and CEO of Date Like a Grownup, is an internationally recognized expert who guides over40 women to the peaceful, passionate partnership that comes with a loving, grownup relationship. Bobbi became a first time bride in 2006 at age 47. Now joyfully married, she walks her talk every day as she helps women do what she did: learn how to love and be loved by a good man. Bobbi has been featured on The Today Show, Huffington Post, NPR, Women’s World magazine, Match.com, eHarmony.com, AARP and numerous TV, radio and print outlets. Visit her at www.datelikeagrownup.com. Join us to learn how dating rules are keeping you single!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sandy-weiner9/message

39mins

15 Aug 2017

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Date Like a Grownup – an Interview with Bobbi Palmer

The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach for Smart, Strong, Successful Women

I’m a pretty opinionated guy, which is why I’m surprised to share with you a dating coach who is in perfect sync with my message. Single until 47, Bobbi Palmer looked in the mirror, adjusted her attitude and has been happily married for nearly a decade. Now, at Date Like a Grownup, she shares the same straight-talking practical advice as I do, which is why I’m so excited to have her on the Love U Podcast. Pay attention. This woman knows what she’s doing.To learn more about  Bobbi’s 7 Day e-course, click here*When using promo code please make sure all letters are lowercase*Want to be a guest on the Love U Podcast?  Click here to ask a question.The post Date Like a Grownup – an Interview with Bobbi Palmer appeared first on Dating Coach - Evan Marc Katz | Understand Men. Find Love..Related posts:The 5 Qualities He MUST Have To Be A Great Partner To Be (Alone) or Not to Be (Alone)? That Is the Question. What It Looks Like When You’re About to Find Your Husband

51mins

1 Feb 2017

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024 What's really stopping you from receiving love and being Motivated to Marry? Bobbi Palmer

Motivated to Marry Podcast with Amy Schoen

Bobbi Palmer is an internationally recognized dating and relationship authority for women over 40 and founder of Date Like a Grownup. With her expert guidance, smart, independent woman from all over the world are now sharing the intimacy, passion and partnership of a grownup relationship with their special man. Fed up with being single and determined to succeed in her romantic life (like she had in the rest of her life), Bobbi finally figured out ‘the love thing’ and became a first time bride at age 47. Now joyfully married, she walks her talk every day as she helps women do what she did: add the joy of loving and being loved to their already good life. With Bobbi as your guide, you receive the compassion of a woman who has firsthand experience of how you feel being single at this time of life, along with the skill of a highly successful adult educator. As she says: “There is nothing wrong with you. There are just some things you don't yet know.” Bobbi has been featured on The Today Show, Huffington Post, NPR, Women’s World magazine, Match.com, AARP, eHarmony.com, and numerous other TV, radio and print outlets.

35mins

22 Oct 2016

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Bobbi Palmer – Date Like a Grown Up

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership

Bobbi Palmer is The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40 and founder of Date Like a Grownup. With her expert guidance; smart, independent woman from all over the world are now sharing the intimacy, passion and partnership of a grownup relationship with their special man. Fed up with being single, and determined to succeed in her romantic life (like she had in the rest of her life), Bobbi finally figured out ‘the man thing’ and became a first-time bride at age 47. Now joyfully married, she walks her talk every day as she helps women around the world do what she did: find fantastic, forever love after 40.Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength. While loving someone deeply gives you courage.” - Lao TzuBobbi lacked courage for so long. The courage to love and be loved. And this is what she lives by in her marriage. When You Tripped Up When Bobbi was 35 she was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and at the time it knocked her on her butt and gave her a wonderful gift.She was working night and day to have control over her life, putting it into her job and her career. This gave her a sense of control, but this diagnosis reminder her she really didn’t have the control she thought she did.Bobbi decided to get serious and look for love. She met a guy named Steve and they were together about 3 1/2 years.On their second date he told her he was never getting married again and he would never marry her. The tripping up part was it took her 3 1/2 years to believe him.There were so many signs that he meant what he said.They had a great relationship, but they wanted different things. But she didn’t want to see the signs and was convinced he would fall in love with her and change his mind. What Bobbi learned from this very painful experience is: take care of yourself, believe what men say and set boundaries for yourself. Really know what you want and if you aren’t getting it, ask for it.Proudest moment in partnership Bobbi’s proudest moment is jumping in with her husband, and being in her partnership with him for 10 years. It is the best thing she has ever done.It’s hard. It’s a long road and she is proud to have navigated it.When she was 45 she was so sick of being single and not knowing why. So she got help figuring out what it was that she didn’t know that other people seemed to know.For her to open herself up and acknowledge that she did not know how to do this was a really big deal.Putting her walls down was a huge deal. And her husband Larry and her met and married in six months.What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?Men are not hairy women. Bobbi learned this from Alison Armstrong.Respect your partner and work hard to understand them with compassion and empathy.Best Partnership Book or ResourceConfessions of the World's Worst Dater: Her 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love After 40Making Sense of Men: A Woman's Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All MenInterview Links - FREE GIFT - Four Devastating Mistakes Women Over 40 Make In Their Search for LoveBobbi's WebsiteTake Bobbi’s FREE Man-O-Meter Test and find out if you are Dating (and Mating) like a GROWNUPBobbi's Facebook LinkBobbi’s Twitter Link

36mins

7 Sep 2016

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